@@aubreysong Yes, the media with black people gladly followed and participated in it. Then, masses of black people are brainwashed by it and create this delusional narrative around it that they don't think there are non-monolithich thinkers and "culture" participators.
i think its the stereotype against BW i live in asia nd my asian friends think all black woman are like simply because of how americans have done to the community
@@skillfuldabest within YOUR standards but then that also means that you don't like my race or community... so no I'm not going to see that as a compliment...
@@skillfuldabest if I'm part of a community and you're insulting my community... how is it a compliment to me? who's trying to be different while being within a community? any self loved person would be proud to be who they are as a person
@@RougeLino Like i said in my reply, it's basically a back-handed compliment, or a double edged sword or whatever the name is. On the one hand you're getting praised for being above average, on the other hand your tribe is getting disrespected. So yea i'm actually agreeing with you now lol.
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@@marvinsulzer8258 did she say she was desperate for ANY Korean guy? Just because she’s attracted to Asian men doesn’t mean she has to lower her standards to get one!
Despite the allure of Kdrama, black ladies need to remember that SK is just a tiny part of Asia. Instead of flocking to Korea, they should start checking out Taiwan, Vietnam, Japan, Phillipines, Indonesia, etc
@@patturnweaver Women care too much about labels and brand names. Men have been spreading themselves equally all across As'a, but women only want rich As'an countries with good brand name, which is pretty much only Korea and Japan. They won't even consider richer names like Hong Kong , Singapore, because they ain't got name.
This is all accurate. I lived in Korea for two and a half years. I dated a lot there. More than I thought I’d be able to. The options are pretty vast. “Large” enough foreigner community of mostly English teachers and entrepreneurs. Tons of American GIs scattered across the multiple basis. And a large African community of young Textile exporters. Everything she said is accurate for not just Korean men when talking to Black Americans/Canadians, but also for the GIs and the Africans. They all assume that you’re DTF. So you have to weed through the bad ones to get to the good ones and there certainly are good ones there too.
i think its the stereotype against BW i live in asia nd my asian friends think all black woman are like simply because of how americans have done to the community
The way these women said "Of course!" when he asked if they've dated there, I got the impression there's a stronger dating culture there than in the U.S. You're also saying you dated a lot. In the U.S., women will often say they haven't dated in months if not years. I haven't been on a date in many months.
@@MyAccountForCommenting It's not cuz it's stronger, it's more so the fact that as foreigners who have no roots there, they are more desperate to find someone who can help them integrate into the language and culture. So, their standards are lower than if they were locals of that country.
It's funny about the burn bright thing regarding dating because that is also at least from african (specifically my home country) dating. You like each other, you spend time, there's no time wasting or gaming, you are together and if it lasts great lol. I actually prefer that, i was confused initially trying to date in the US, where it seems more gamey, the guys definitely also wanted to move fast (guess fast moving is a universal male thing?) but definitely not fast regarding relationships, just physical.
I'm American and I do burn-bright dating. Most of my relationships started within no more than three weeks of meeting. I've never had a slow-burn relationship. The closest thing would be if we weren't really keeping in touch after a date or two but came back together later vs. consistently dating for months before locking in. I'm not a huge fan of constant texting, but I could deal with it if I knew it was a cultural thing.
In Asia, she's not considered attractive in terms of cultural beauty standards. Getting guys is a much lower bar, it doesn't mean cuz you can get guys, the society highly regards you.
@@nalbinalbii888 Skin color is the biggest knock, nose is acceptable. But skin color in Asia, unlike other cultures, is so important that it's make or break.
@user-dk9xr4ry3w Doesn't matter, Korea is a collectivist culture, not individualist culture. Individual beliefs do not change the collective thinking of society. As I said earlier, she can get guys, like you, but getting guys doesn't mean she is society's ideal.
The Ethiopian lady is very eloquent. I hope she meets a great guy. I would probably say bye a lot too because I'm very conservative. It's sad that so many men think Black women are quick to jump in bed.
I honestly believe a lot of the stereotypes about black women that SK men prescribed to came from the importing of Hip Hop culture to SK. My Dad was stationed there in the late 1990s well into the early 2000s and a lot of the guys where into Hip Hop, its unfortunate that the way black women were portrayed or the way black female rappers portrayed themselves in those music videos and the lyrics heavily influenced SK men's perception of all black women. I saw the shift happen at first the boys would barely talk to foreign girls, and when they did they were curious but respectful, the colorism wasn't even that bad yet because even the Korean stars back then had natural golden skin tones, but the Hallyu Wave changed everything and not for the better IMHO.
@@freesia2252 Not solely but it has a lot to do with the issue. I lived through that transition there as a teen and young adult. Not just the men's perception of black women changed but the women's perception did as well. It's unfortunate but it is what it is.
@@freesia2252 For reference I'm an 80s baby, army brat who grew up in the 80s 90s early 2k, when we came to SK the music scene was from folk, Mando Pop to contemporary pop. True American pop music and hip hop came in the 90s and the SK government got so bent out of shape about the unregulated hypersexual western entertainment content being imported they created strict rules about content in the late 90s early 2k. Entertainment artist in K RNB and K Hip hop where copying and pasting black music and culture and the government weren't having it. There was a Group called SweeT that was a rip off of TLC, but they were mad talented just chaotic and poorly managed. It's wayyyyy more watered down now, but to see SK boys go from this GAP aesthetic to Hood down to the corn rows, baggy pants and fake gold chains was an FN spectacle to behold. To have classmates who were normal in middle school, then in highschool start approaching you sideways with yo yo ma I had to constantly check them. Also before the entertainment wave, there were two types of black people to Koreans, Dark meant you were From Africa, light skinned meant you were from the US or Europe, unless you were an entertainment superstar, then definitely were from the US. What's weird was like Micheal Jordan was hugely popular and obviously Dark skinned, but their brains seemed unable to make the connection that American black people came in all colors. For instance Because I am very fair black woman but often wore my hair cornrows cause the humidity was nuts there, they still didn't consider me as black. Colorism has existed in Asia free of African influence for millennia. Their colorism is based in classism. Poor people where tan laborers who worked in the sun, pale people where rich nobles who never left the shade.
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i appreciate what i call 'pioneers' like this SO much. as a woman of color myself, i LOVE our diverse brothers and sisters from around the world, and would love to see and explore their cultures more but some of the experiences that these women went thru.... 😣😅. i def don't have the stomach for experiences like that. i don't even in my OWN country, lol. so, my gratitude goes out to people who are branching out, willing to try to create connections like this in a country that doesn't have high diversity, etc when it comes to race. i am so excited for us all.💖
I applaud these women for living in Korea and carrying on about their lives. I know I could never live in a country that homogeneous; I'd feel like I'd have no life not being able to connect to more people like myself.
Media representation and close-mindedness of Korean people due to lack of diversity in the country lead to these unshakeable beliefs in stereotypes. Black female rappers are probably one of the most well known forms of media of us and it doesn’t necessarily suck, what sucks is that it’s the only real form that gets traction. What also sucks is that simple-minded individuals exist that take everything at surface level. Most Asian dominated countries (China, Korea, and more) just can’t find it within themselves to understand that what they see online may not represent a whole demographic of people (shocking, right?). It seems like a very easy to understand concept but they just can’t grasp it.
In addition, South Korea had the highest number of removal requests to Google by the Korean government in the world. I don't know the details of why, but I can tell you that it is a very controlling country.
@@freesia2252 well we are talking about black females, so the only representatives of black females can be black females. Black female rappers are at the forefront of representation in our community, no need to be in denial about it. Black doctors, models, actors, pop singers, teachers, and more are rarely placed on platforms that can reach that wide of a range of people. It’s unfortunate.
Koreans are not definitively more close-minded than western countries , on the topic of dating & marriage. There is actually a lot more diversity than you're giving it credit for, plus in the countries that you think are better, let's not act like bIac women have the same opportunites as wite women, not even close. Let's not act like a Vietnamese dude will be treated equally to a wite dude, not even close.
All three women are beautiful and brainy. It's great to see them share their realities with so much authenticity and charm. Thank you, K Explorer! I wish you a super amazing 2024! 🤗🤗
I think in Korea, men who like to sleep around will look for women to sleep with, not just black women. I’m originally from Russia/Ukraine, and the men there often think that almost every Russian/Ukrainian woman is someone they can easily sleep with. I don’t know who started this notion, but I don’t like it. I’m sure this attitude isn’t limited to ‘black girls’ or ‘Russian/Ukrainian girls,’ but extends to women from many other countries that Korean men find particularly beautiful.
Unfortunately many of these stereotypes come from these hip hop videos that show our women scantily dressed while twerking. It’s ok to be sexy without so much vulgarity. We need to check ourselves. Instead of criticizing rest of the world we should be more critical of the producers of these videos. Our young girls definitely shouldn’t be exposed to it
Well, a lot of the experiences are around Blck people so unless you’re going to claim that they are being dishonest, it’s just the truth. It might make you uncomfortable because you know deep down inside they’re not lying.
That "Open minded" question pisses me off so much. I was just friends with this guy but too many had a crush on him. To the point this girl kept asking me why i called오빠 (HE TOLD ME TO. HE WAS OLDER) and i went 경찰입니까? (Are you police?) and he had the audacity to feel cool. pft. i cant even with those types
The first girl was fine. The whole thing of black people being rappers and good dancers is getting old. I lived in Czech Republic and I dealt with that as well. I was a MD of a company and wore suits, and still the same stupid stereotypical questions. I would always flip it by saying ," what about me makes you think I am a rapper"?
Problem with these new generation is that they think the whole world is moving around USA and USA culture. They need to understand everywhere they go they will have different cultures, in terms of everything. They need to learn, adopt, if don't like move on.. by complaining that they are not behaving like US will only create problems for you. Simple is that. If you going to a new country, learn their culture, try to understand how things go around there.. and maybe then you will get little less culture shock.
Sweet girl at the beginning got through with a guy in another video in GIGGLE (YT Chanel). Just came here cuz I recognised her face. She was single in that video so I guess it didn't workout with him unfortunately. Posted 10 days ago. God bless, cove you an keep you, in Jesus' name, Amen. 😋 Hope that satisfies our curiosity. Very sweet video, big man. 🇧🇧(Hi from Bim aka Barbados).
I think a person's attractiveness depends not on their race, but on their individual abilities and attitudes and is relative matter. Hey, you, love with confidence in your relationships!!
Makes me happy to see such beautiful and young intelligent black women in korea. im sorry you guys had to deal with so many childish F boys here but i'm positive you guys will eventually find the right person for you.
Have any of you seen the Korean reality show "The Return of Superman"? Most of the couples featured are Korean, but you'll often spot cute kids from international couples in many episodes. Some of these kids have become pretty popular, even popping up on the show for multiple seasons and doing TV commercials. A parent of these kids is always either white or Japanese. Actually, it's not rare to see Korean men from middle-class or higher backgrounds married to white women, especially from developed countries, or to Japanese women (and sometimes Chinese). For your information, the wife of the first president in South Korea is a white woman from Austria. While dating a Korean guy as a black woman might not be unusual, you can hardly see marriages between Korean men and black women in Korea. I won't delve into the reasons or any biases behind this. It's just an observation I've made.
I realize men in general always wear sweaters or light jackets during the fall/winter. I think its cause they get overheated quicker then women do. That's why they don't wear thicker coats. They will just tolrant the cold cause the moment they put on thicker coat, they get hot after 10-15mins.
I really don’t get why all these black women are in Korea, like c’mon, you’re in one of the most conservative stereotyped country in Asia where beauty standards are absurd and are still in the 19th century. At least settle in a western country where people have become more progressive and are used to mixed cultures. These Asian countries have some work to do in terms of these developments and this will take some time.
They are just literally living their life. You shouldn’t let prejudiced in disgusting things limit your right to explore the world. The globe belongs to humanity.
@@thezu9250 I agree, as long as you don’t give yourself huge disadvantages by living in a place not best suitable. It’s just stupid lol, in some countries people have a hard time even surviving, and then some expats come there with the motivation ‘to explore’. But ofcourse, everyone for themself
yeah foreal, but hopefully those black women are the steppingstone to inspire other. It gotta start somewhere, eventually in 10-20 years it will be normalize and everyone get along better.
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These girls are absolutely beautiful Dating is hard for anybody anywhere do we have to keep mentioning race on this channel just talk about is it hard dating for girls in Korea because Korean dudes the black girls and white girls it don’t make a difference but we live in a woke Society where you have to obsess about race at this channel seems to do that but I’m gonna tell you one thing about korean guys it don’t matter what race they date but they sure as hell do not date overweight girls I have a Korean friend they are not into overweight women talk about that that’s the real problem in the country today not what color a person is they can’t change that but you can change your weight ridiculous
Most Koreans and South Eastern Asians are closed family oriented culturally, dating them as a black person will be difficult especially for black women and most relationships and marriages don't last.
Not necessarily true. This is a big generalization and remember Black does not just equal African Americans. There is a much bigger diaspora with various looks, cultures and experiences.
Blacks live in the United States, Europe, Cuba, Dominican Republic, Canada, Australia (Aborigines) really all over the globe. Black is just a term for skin color and African ancestry, has nothing to do with nationality or culture.
as a half black person my self i find these women to be actually good-minded for the most part. its not false to say that the negative aspect of black culture has made its way to other countries and given us a bad name (literally look at hip hop vids and hood clips). but these ladies are taking class abroad. but don't take the negative aspects of your old country and apply them abroad. you have to blend in with their culture and make a hybrid and not change it
Why should only Korea be blamed for this? No wonder people in countries composed of homogeneous ethnic groups do not prefer other races. For East Asians, the same East Asians are beautiful.
Exactly, maybe the men don’t see them as a cultural match for a long term relationship, and it’s not a evil to want to have sex with a woman you’re on a date with- if it was the other way around there would be NO PROBLEM.
Everytime i watch these videos one thing they have in common is the korean guys they've date excessively texting ngl i would like me someone like that 😂 cause the way i see it is their way of making an effort in the relationship alot of guys these days dont do that they'll have you on unread for days and the first thing they'll say is "i love you" or "i missed you" rightttt.. 🫠
Wow, they’re going to try to Westernize dating in the East! They really want to go there and force Koreans to change their culture, under the threat of calling them racist if they don’t oblige.
@@NicoleAllpressthe giggle video is rather new, and this is 6 months old. If it's real, she just broke up with her boyfriend relatively recently before the video
I've went on dates with at least 3 Korean/Asian males here in the United states, and I can definitely 100% say that what these women are saying in the interview is very true. Even here, I went on one date with them and they just expected me to bust It wide Open, I was like heck na... Cringe 😖
Not all asians are the same. If you had bad experience with Koreans, the other Asians might be more your type - Japanese, Vietnamese, Filipino, Taiwanese, etc
@@patturnweaver East Asians are quite different than South-East Asians, BUT, that only applies if they are in their original countries. In America, I would say it's mostly the same. A Japanese in Japan guy has more in common to Korea Koreans than born & bred Korean Americans, just in terms of mannerisms, cultural views, behavior.
@@adrianwillis66 I agree, but that doesn't mean you should look down on a whole race of people and try to abuse women any chance you get. Regrettable behavior
You know I've dated alot of black women and I have no idea where this stereotype of black women are easy to get in bed with came from. Maybe it's different for men of other races but I always found I had to put in more work to prove to them I was some what serious about getting to know them compared to other races of women. While it would take me minimum 3-4 dates before that option was even on the table it would take me 1 date or a couple hours of meeting with white woman 😆. Black women don't have the same luxury of being sexually "free spirits" it seems like other races
Media and those in control of said media. Makes them think everything in songs, films and staged live documentaries are applicable to real life, the kicker is that they don't apply the same mentality to wytes. And guess who pushes out certain narratives, while stifling wholesome ones in the US? A few rappers like Nikki, Cardi, the fifty-leven rappers with lil and baby to their names say when they do songs without s€x and violence, they are turned away so fast their heads spin, and they only get call backs when their lyrics ia degenerate and derelict lyrics. It's why Afrobeats is gaining ground. Hope it doesn't go down the same deviant drain.
Sorry to say but I have watched some vlogs of Black ladies twerking in the streets, too tight clothes and as an older Black American woman I thought to myself "they see that and think we're all like that." I've also watched a group of young Black ladies try to get in a club and they were rejected even though other non-Blacks were let in.
Women of color with education, sophistication, etiquette, distinction, higher purpose, accomplishment and morals sometimes get a "back seat" in the media as compared to the raunchy portrayal done by the media. It is disappointing that people base their opinions and perceptions based on stereotypes.
But that's due to their own culture. Another example for guys in America is going to college, getting a good job, is seen as lame by themselves. What's cool to them is being a rapper, athlete, gangsta. Even in Africa, there are entire villages of people trying to make it big in soccer, there are no entire villages of people trying be engineers. So in terms of women, the same concepts are brought over.
@@Cxs1a3 Sorry to hear that most women of color that I know have Master's and Doctorate Degrees. But in most cases their parents were educated and professionals. So they had role models.
But most men of all cultures don't find that attractive. What you describe is actually a major turn-off for a lot of men, and when it's not a turn-off, it certainly doesn't boost your value as much as it would for a man. Men stand to benefit a lot more, so it's a shame that statisitcally, we know a lot more women than men of color educate themselves. I get you're tryna disprove the stereotype, but the fact that you know women, not men who do it, only strengthens it.
The reports I have heard from blacks in Korea were not encouraging. I am not interested in visiting ANY country that places such a premium on light-coloured skin. I can do without colorism. I am white, by the way.
then sir, you wouldn't want to visit the whole east, southeast, and south asia.. I'm indonesian and white people are looked very highly here (like many think white people are above them and higher than them and sh*t) and I'm always pissed because of that to be honest, I see every race on earth as human of the same level, cuz God created us equally (as human! the same species) and he sees us no differently (at least the religious side in me says that)
The other girl looks like jayla! I wasn’t sure if it’s her but based in the comments, with everyone crushing on her it’s def jayla! I saw her speed dating show here on TH-cam
THE HYPERSEXUALITY OF BLACK WOMEN is rampant and so is a slew of negative stereotypes. It's jarring, annoying, and can be so frustrating.
Side effect of radical feminism. Sexual liberation -at all costs.
Just like the first women said, the medias representation about black women influences a lot.
Agreed, and I personally believe what is promoted in "main stream American/Western" media is intentionally harmful!@@aubreysong
@@aubreysong Yes, the media with black people gladly followed and participated in it. Then, masses of black people are brainwashed by it and create this delusional narrative around it that they don't think there are non-monolithich thinkers and "culture" participators.
i think its the stereotype against BW i live in asia nd my asian friends think all black woman are like simply because of how americans have done to the community
"I like you because you're not like others of your [race/community]"
is so not a compliment
It actually is. It means you’re above average.
@@skillfuldabest within YOUR standards but then that also means that you don't like my race or community... so no I'm not going to see that as a compliment...
@@RougeLino yea, it’s a compliment to you as an individual but also a diss to your tribe.
@@skillfuldabest if I'm part of a community and you're insulting my community... how is it a compliment to me? who's trying to be different while being within a community?
any self loved person would be proud to be who they are as a person
@@RougeLino Like i said in my reply, it's basically a back-handed compliment, or a double edged sword or whatever the name is. On the one hand you're getting praised for being above average, on the other hand your tribe is getting disrespected. So yea i'm actually agreeing with you now lol.
I am so proud these young sisters are upholding the standards of who they are and their self-worth. I hope they all know they are beautiful.
@@user-bn3cn1xb4bshe is referring to the blk women ☺️
That one girl said she preferred Asian guys and is in Korea to find an Asian guy so how is that “upholding standards”?
to be honest this black girls are better off with Korean girls
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@@marvinsulzer8258 did she say she was desperate for ANY Korean guy? Just because she’s attracted to Asian men doesn’t mean she has to lower her standards to get one!
“I’m a sh*t dancer” I felt that girl 😂😂😂. One of our good stereotypes and we can’t even live up to it 😂.
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That first girl is gorgeous holy crap...
They’re all beautiful
She’s an actress she’s in other videos on here. Apparently this is rigged.
@@TheMissbaker the first one is more attractive
@@Susanc06I did see her on a blind date in one video
I Keep seeing her in different channels too@@Susanc06
If these testimonials don't dispell the "K-Drama Oppa Myth" I don't know what will. 😂😂😂
Despite the allure of Kdrama, black ladies need to remember that SK is just a tiny part of Asia.
Instead of flocking to Korea, they should start checking out Taiwan, Vietnam, Japan, Phillipines, Indonesia, etc
that wont happen and u know it lmao. media is one of the hugest influence on how ppl perceive u.@@patturnweaver
@@patturnweaver Women care too much about labels and brand names. Men have been spreading themselves equally all across As'a, but women only want rich As'an countries with good brand name, which is pretty much only Korea and Japan. They won't even consider richer names like Hong Kong , Singapore, because they ain't got name.
Problem is there are rich people in those other countries too and poor people in the more “rich” countries
I love the first girls voice omg it's so chill
This is all accurate. I lived in Korea for two and a half years. I dated a lot there. More than I thought I’d be able to. The options are pretty vast. “Large” enough foreigner community of mostly English teachers and entrepreneurs. Tons of American GIs scattered across the multiple basis. And a large African community of young Textile exporters. Everything she said is accurate for not just Korean men when talking to Black Americans/Canadians, but also for the GIs and the Africans. They all assume that you’re DTF. So you have to weed through the bad ones to get to the good ones and there certainly are good ones there too.
i think its the stereotype against BW i live in asia nd my asian friends think all black woman are like simply because of how americans have done to the community
So far the girls are only talking about Asian men. You are the only one that said it is all the men.
The way these women said "Of course!" when he asked if they've dated there, I got the impression there's a stronger dating culture there than in the U.S. You're also saying you dated a lot. In the U.S., women will often say they haven't dated in months if not years. I haven't been on a date in many months.
@@MyAccountForCommenting It's not cuz it's stronger, it's more so the fact that as foreigners who have no roots there, they are more desperate to find someone who can help them integrate into the language and culture. So, their standards are lower than if they were locals of that country.
@@Cxs1a3Do you live there?
It's funny about the burn bright thing regarding dating because that is also at least from african (specifically my home country) dating. You like each other, you spend time, there's no time wasting or gaming, you are together and if it lasts great lol. I actually prefer that, i was confused initially trying to date in the US, where it seems more gamey, the guys definitely also wanted to move fast (guess fast moving is a universal male thing?) but definitely not fast regarding relationships, just physical.
I'm American and I do burn-bright dating. Most of my relationships started within no more than three weeks of meeting. I've never had a slow-burn relationship. The closest thing would be if we weren't really keeping in touch after a date or two but came back together later vs. consistently dating for months before locking in. I'm not a huge fan of constant texting, but I could deal with it if I knew it was a cultural thing.
Exactly I’d prefer it that way because guys in the US will completely waste your time
The girl from Virginia was really articulate and I would love to hear from her more
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Awesome interviews as usual! 🔥 Thank you for sharing this content. ❤
often times, it's kind of a curse to be so ridiculously good-looking, as is the case with the first girl.
She’s gorgeous, #facts.
In Asia, she's not considered attractive in terms of cultural beauty standards. Getting guys is a much lower bar, it doesn't mean cuz you can get guys, the society highly regards you.
@@B3nn1b minus her skin and nose id say she fits standards tho
@@nalbinalbii888 Skin color is the biggest knock, nose is acceptable. But skin color in Asia, unlike other cultures, is so important that it's make or break.
@user-dk9xr4ry3w Doesn't matter, Korea is a collectivist culture, not individualist culture. Individual beliefs do not change the collective thinking of society. As I said earlier, she can get guys, like you, but getting guys doesn't mean she is society's ideal.
The last woman interviewed said it well.
The first lady's story on stereotype is true and it comes form American media.
The way black women are portrayed is so bad.
Holy shit the first girl is out of this world beautiful. Like supermodel beautiful. Wow
The Ethiopian woman is absolutely stunning!!!
The Ethiopian lady is very eloquent. I hope she meets a great guy. I would probably say bye a lot too because I'm very conservative. It's sad that so many men think Black women are quick to jump in bed.
Second Lady so confident and classy ❤❤❤❤
The first story must have gone on for a while because so many cuts.
I honestly believe a lot of the stereotypes about black women that SK men prescribed to came from the importing of Hip Hop culture to SK. My Dad was stationed there in the late 1990s well into the early 2000s and a lot of the guys where into Hip Hop, its unfortunate that the way black women were portrayed or the way black female rappers portrayed themselves in those music videos and the lyrics heavily influenced SK men's perception of all black women. I saw the shift happen at first the boys would barely talk to foreign girls, and when they did they were curious but respectful, the colorism wasn't even that bad yet because even the Korean stars back then had natural golden skin tones, but the Hallyu Wave changed everything and not for the better IMHO.
So you’re just gonna blame it on hip-hop hilarious😂
@@freesia2252 Not solely but it has a lot to do with the issue. I lived through that transition there as a teen and young adult. Not just the men's perception of black women changed but the women's perception did as well. It's unfortunate but it is what it is.
@@freesia2252 For reference I'm an 80s baby, army brat who grew up in the 80s 90s early 2k, when we came to SK the music scene was from folk, Mando Pop to contemporary pop. True American pop music and hip hop came in the 90s and the SK government got so bent out of shape about the unregulated hypersexual western entertainment content being imported they created strict rules about content in the late 90s early 2k. Entertainment artist in K RNB and K Hip hop where copying and pasting black music and culture and the government weren't having it. There was a Group called SweeT that was a rip off of TLC, but they were mad talented just chaotic and poorly managed. It's wayyyyy more watered down now, but to see SK boys go from this GAP aesthetic to Hood down to the corn rows, baggy pants and fake gold chains was an FN spectacle to behold. To have classmates who were normal in middle school, then in highschool start approaching you sideways with yo yo ma I had to constantly check them. Also before the entertainment wave, there were two types of black people to Koreans, Dark meant you were From Africa, light skinned meant you were from the US or Europe, unless you were an entertainment superstar, then definitely were from the US. What's weird was like Micheal Jordan was hugely popular and obviously Dark skinned, but their brains seemed unable to make the connection that American black people came in all colors. For instance Because I am very fair black woman but often wore my hair cornrows cause the humidity was nuts there, they still didn't consider me as black. Colorism has existed in Asia free of African influence for millennia. Their colorism is based in classism. Poor people where tan laborers who worked in the sun, pale people where rich nobles who never left the shade.
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i appreciate what i call 'pioneers' like this SO much. as a woman of color myself, i LOVE our diverse brothers and sisters from around the world, and would love to see and explore their cultures more but some of the experiences that these women went thru.... 😣😅. i def don't have the stomach for experiences like that. i don't even in my OWN country, lol. so, my gratitude goes out to people who are branching out, willing to try to create connections like this in a country that doesn't have high diversity, etc when it comes to race. i am so excited for us all.💖
I saw this same woman from Boston in another Korea dating video! She is so beautiful
The first girl so fricken prettyyy
I applaud these women for living in Korea and carrying on about their lives. I know I could never live in a country that homogeneous; I'd feel like I'd have no life not being able to connect to more people like myself.
Media representation and close-mindedness of Korean people due to lack of diversity in the country lead to these unshakeable beliefs in stereotypes. Black female rappers are probably one of the most well known forms of media of us and it doesn’t necessarily suck, what sucks is that it’s the only real form that gets traction. What also sucks is that simple-minded individuals exist that take everything at surface level. Most Asian dominated countries (China, Korea, and more) just can’t find it within themselves to understand that what they see online may not represent a whole demographic of people (shocking, right?). It seems like a very easy to understand concept but they just can’t grasp it.
In addition, South Korea had the highest number of removal requests to Google by the Korean government in the world. I don't know the details of why, but I can tell you that it is a very controlling country.
Yeah, they can only name white artist from America 😗y’all are hilarious stop blaming black, female, American artist😬
@@freesia2252 well we are talking about black females, so the only representatives of black females can be black females. Black female rappers are at the forefront of representation in our community, no need to be in denial about it. Black doctors, models, actors, pop singers, teachers, and more are rarely placed on platforms that can reach that wide of a range of people. It’s unfortunate.
Koreans are not definitively more close-minded than western countries , on the topic of dating & marriage. There is actually a lot more diversity than you're giving it credit for, plus in the countries that you think are better, let's not act like bIac women have the same opportunites as wite women, not even close. Let's not act like a Vietnamese dude will be treated equally to a wite dude, not even close.
All three women are beautiful and brainy. It's great to see them share their realities with so much authenticity and charm. Thank you, K Explorer! I wish you a super amazing 2024! 🤗🤗
I think in Korea, men who like to sleep around will look for women to sleep with, not just black women. I’m originally from Russia/Ukraine, and the men there often think that almost every Russian/Ukrainian woman is someone they can easily sleep with. I don’t know who started this notion, but I don’t like it. I’m sure this attitude isn’t limited to ‘black girls’ or ‘Russian/Ukrainian girls,’ but extends to women from many other countries that Korean men find particularly beautiful.
Yes , I agree. It’s sounds like they want to explore and have fun then leave. I don’t think it’s anything personal or race related to be exact
I like the First Lady, so classy and beautiful ❤❤
Unfortunately many of these stereotypes come from these hip hop videos that show our women scantily dressed while twerking. It’s ok to be sexy without so much vulgarity. We need to check ourselves. Instead of criticizing rest of the world we should be more critical of the producers of these videos. Our young girls definitely shouldn’t be exposed to it
Say it louder! People need to wake up. In Latino music men also sexualize women but we are calling it out. At least in our countries.
Awnn it's the beautiful woman from the giggle video. The first woman showed
I just saw that video and notice her from the thumbnail for this one. Her voice is nice in korean and English. She remind me of Yoona for some reason.
The first girl is gorgeous
I love this ladies, more power to them ❤
Really liked the 3rd girl. If I was younger and single I'd definitely ask her out.
“Its not for the weak” the way it breaks my heart. They are are so intelligent, beautiful and well mannered. What’s wrong with these men???
The girl from Boston, man i love her voice❤
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Well, a lot of the experiences are around Blck people so unless you’re going to claim that they are being dishonest, it’s just the truth. It might make you uncomfortable because you know deep down inside they’re not lying.
@@thezu9250Well said
Great video quality, and guest selection - props!
Inspiring for my channel
That "Open minded" question pisses me off so much. I was just friends with this guy but too many had a crush on him. To the point this girl kept asking me why i called오빠 (HE TOLD ME TO. HE WAS OLDER) and i went 경찰입니까? (Are you police?) and he had the audacity to feel cool. pft. i cant even with those types
The first girl was fine. The whole thing of black people being rappers and good dancers is getting old. I lived in Czech Republic and I dealt with that as well. I was a MD of a company and wore suits, and still the same stupid stereotypical questions. I would always flip it by saying ," what about me makes you think I am a rapper"?
The first girl. How beautiful she is ❤
Shout out to the chick from Boston, MA! I thought I met everyone who's learning Korean in Boston. How did I miss this girl?
OMG the white jacket girl 😍😍
Problem with these new generation is that they think the whole world is moving around USA and USA culture. They need to understand everywhere they go they will have different cultures, in terms of everything. They need to learn, adopt, if don't like move on.. by complaining that they are not behaving like US will only create problems for you. Simple is that. If you going to a new country, learn their culture, try to understand how things go around there.. and maybe then you will get little less culture shock.
The African woman is amazing and stunning
Sweet girl at the beginning got through with a guy in another video in GIGGLE (YT Chanel). Just came here cuz I recognised her face. She was single in that video so I guess it didn't workout with him unfortunately. Posted 10 days ago.
God bless, cove you an keep you, in Jesus' name, Amen. 😋 Hope that satisfies our curiosity. Very sweet video, big man. 🇧🇧(Hi from Bim aka Barbados).
Same! I watched that video! I really hope it works out because that guy seemed so sweet 🥺
These women are beautiful
I love the Ethiopian lady. So funny. So beautiful. Love Africa!
I’m Korean and the best relationships I’ve ever had was being with a black woman.
I think a person's attractiveness depends not on their race, but on their individual abilities and attitudes and is relative matter. Hey, you, love with confidence in your relationships!!
U can think that all u want doesn’t make it true
@@downbad2874its true. looks are a part but personality is the most important. pretty people can have stank attitudes
Love your channel bro! Keep up the great work!
Yes please take us! Never knew what a Highman was but heard the term. Thank you!
Come on Korean men, dont treat foreign women like that.
Makes me happy to see such beautiful and young intelligent black women in korea. im sorry you guys had to deal with so many childish F boys here but i'm positive you guys will eventually find the right person for you.
Has'nt this topic been covered so many times, we already know the answers
I'm going to travel to [insert Asian country] and copy this TH-cam channel, which is itself a copy...
The coat on 2nd gal is 🔥
They go there expecting k drama experience but get hit with reality
Facts
K-dramas don't involve bIac people, so even if it were reality, they wouldn't be in it.
It’s the same story with men
That’s a lie black men have no problem dating in Korea knock it off
What's dating like for very very attractive black women in Korea? This should be the title!!
Korean men watch and learn! Don't take black women for granted.
They don’t want yall you didn’t hear that in their stories ?
Wth was that threat? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
@@sacredserpent9667I date a korean men before lol
You’re so freaking pretty!
Have any of you seen the Korean reality show "The Return of Superman"? Most of the couples featured are Korean, but you'll often spot cute kids from international couples in many episodes. Some of these kids have become pretty popular, even popping up on the show for multiple seasons and doing TV commercials. A parent of these kids is always either white or Japanese.
Actually, it's not rare to see Korean men from middle-class or higher backgrounds married to white women, especially from developed countries, or to Japanese women (and sometimes Chinese). For your information, the wife of the first president in South Korea is a white woman from Austria. While dating a Korean guy as a black woman might not be unusual, you can hardly see marriages between Korean men and black women in Korea. I won't delve into the reasons or any biases behind this. It's just an observation I've made.
This is because the population of black women in Korea is very small.
The races of foreigners living in Korea are Asian > White > Black.
does it matter?
Stop the focus on, being obsessed with ASIA
Support and develop Africa instead of trying to be asian
It could possibly be a Korean living in Japan who claims to be Japanese😂 I have not seen that show though.
@@noname-dk7ri Korean living in Japanese isn't Japanese..
I’m very scared to date. I’m horrified
Dude is always cold in Korea ! You're always in sweater or winter Jacket
I realize men in general always wear sweaters or light jackets during the fall/winter. I think its cause they get overheated quicker then women do. That's why they don't wear thicker coats. They will just tolrant the cold cause the moment they put on thicker coat, they get hot after 10-15mins.
I really don’t get why all these black women are in Korea, like c’mon, you’re in one of the most conservative stereotyped country in Asia where beauty standards are absurd and are still in the 19th century. At least settle in a western country where people have become more progressive and are used to mixed cultures. These Asian countries have some work to do in terms of these developments and this will take some time.
They are just literally living their life. You shouldn’t let prejudiced in disgusting things limit your right to explore the world. The globe belongs to humanity.
Leave ppl alone and let them live
@@thezu9250 I agree, as long as you don’t give yourself huge disadvantages by living in a place not best suitable. It’s just stupid lol, in some countries people have a hard time even surviving, and then some expats come there with the motivation ‘to explore’. But ofcourse, everyone for themself
Who are you to tell others what to do? take your own advice , other people are nunya bitnit
yeah foreal, but hopefully those black women are the steppingstone to inspire other. It gotta start somewhere, eventually in 10-20 years it will be normalize and everyone get along better.
White jacket girl🤍lovely🪽lovely✨️
the first girl is very beautiful and cute.
is so sad that black women area viewed negatively. I wish this country could see us as more than the video girls or criminal tv.
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OMG the first girl is Jayla?! 🤩
These girls are absolutely beautiful Dating is hard for anybody anywhere do we have to keep mentioning race on this channel just talk about is it hard dating for girls in Korea because Korean dudes the black girls and white girls it don’t make a difference but we live in a woke Society where you have to obsess about race at this channel seems to do that but I’m gonna tell you one thing about korean guys it don’t matter what race they date but they sure as hell do not date overweight girls I have a Korean friend they are not into overweight women talk about that that’s the real problem in the country today not what color a person is they can’t change that but you can change your weight ridiculous
Bro WTAF
Most Koreans and South Eastern Asians are closed family oriented culturally, dating them as a black person will be difficult especially for black women and most relationships and marriages don't last.
Not necessarily true. This is a big generalization and remember Black does not just equal African Americans. There is a much bigger diaspora with various looks, cultures and experiences.
Blacks live in the United States, Europe, Cuba, Dominican Republic, Canada, Australia (Aborigines) really all over the globe. Black is just a term for skin color and African ancestry, has nothing to do with nationality or culture.
It depends on the persons mindset
as a half black person my self i find these women to be actually good-minded for the most part. its not false to say that the negative aspect of black culture has made its way to other countries and given us a bad name (literally look at hip hop vids and hood clips). but these ladies are taking class abroad. but don't take the negative aspects of your old country and apply them abroad. you have to blend in with their culture and make a hybrid and not change it
Makes me curious to know how the women see the men aside from the obvious 'aggressive' stereotype etc.
The woman from Boston reminds me of Yaya DaCosta. I can't help but giggle at how cold they were lookin in that interview! 😂
😂
Ok, but the first girl is drop dead gorgeous tho
So she has A boyfriend but she goes on dates with men anyway. Well she gets whatever she gets.
She was talking about her past bf
It's the media. When my mom watch foreign movie and a sex scene comes on, she immediately think foreigns are looser and have stronger urges.
I love how the African woman went from speaking English to Korean with the interviewer so fluently.😎
I need their social media 🤓☝🏿
Well... You can't go to another country and change the way how things work there, not even the general viewpoints.
btw you SHOULD complain about how shitty the man was to your friend who introduced him to. Then you'll know how stupid they were to treat you badly.
She s the girl from the dating video
Why should only Korea be blamed for this? No wonder people in countries composed of homogeneous ethnic groups do not prefer other races. For East Asians, the same East Asians are beautiful.
Exactly, maybe the men don’t see them as a cultural match for a long term relationship, and it’s not a evil to want to have sex with a woman you’re on a date with- if it was the other way around there would be NO PROBLEM.
I think the first girl is talking about sisslessthen3 wow if its true thats crazy
Everytime i watch these videos one thing they have in common is the korean guys they've date excessively texting ngl i would like me someone like that 😂 cause the way i see it is their way of making an effort in the relationship alot of guys these days dont do that they'll have you on unread for days and the first thing they'll say is "i love you" or "i missed you" rightttt.. 🫠
I love that all these women have standards and know their true worth, while navigating what seems to be such a harsh environment. So proud of them.
Fake standards before the camera. Behind the scenes they will be literally throwing themselves
@@Accuface2000 you are such a hater
@@Accuface2000yep behind seems they throw themselves at bad boys ,on camera they fake standards
@@Accuface2000exactly don’t believe anything they say on camera
Wow, they’re going to try to Westernize dating in the East! They really want to go there and force Koreans to change their culture, under the threat of calling them racist if they don’t oblige.
I literally just watched an episode on GIGGLE and it was that same girl from Boston what a coincidence 😍😅
Making me think that the GIGGLE episode is staged 😢
Haha wow same. I just watched her with the cute fan-boy and she was totally different in that video
@@NicoleAllpressthe giggle video is rather new, and this is 6 months old. If it's real, she just broke up with her boyfriend relatively recently before the video
what is Giggle?
@@martinkb10it’s a Korean TH-cam channel
I've went on dates with at least 3 Korean/Asian males here in the United states, and I can definitely 100% say that what these women are saying in the interview is very true. Even here, I went on one date with them and they just expected me to bust It wide Open, I was like heck na... Cringe 😖
Not all asians are the same. If you had bad experience with Koreans, the other Asians might be more your type -
Japanese, Vietnamese, Filipino, Taiwanese, etc
@@patturnweaver East Asians are quite different than South-East Asians, BUT, that only applies if they are in their original countries. In America, I would say it's mostly the same. A Japanese in Japan guy has more in common to Korea Koreans than born & bred Korean Americans, just in terms of mannerisms, cultural views, behavior.
And I know you did…don’t lie or be ashamed about it
Some of these generation music videos does a disservice to black women around the world.
@@adrianwillis66 I agree, but that doesn't mean you should look down on a whole race of people and try to abuse women any chance you get. Regrettable behavior
I'm getting tired of the ignorant and silly way non-black people view black people... honestly it's kind of childish
@@20reb24What ?
@@20reb24 방금 인간 여자를 물건이라고 불렀나요?? 당신은 범죄자처럼 말해요!!
Don't paint a whole group with the same paint brush because of a few bad apples
@q3huynh I guess I'm being hypocritical, right? Lol
@@20reb24 가서 정신적 도움을 받으세요. 흑인을 원하지 않는다면 계속 피하되 진정하세요.
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I love how the Ethiopian woman spoke Korean with an Amharic accent ❤
Haha yeah. The Amharic accent is pretty strong
I fell in love.
How did I end up here tho , tough I am the only one who noticed it 😂
You know I've dated alot of black women and I have no idea where this stereotype of black women are easy to get in bed with came from. Maybe it's different for men of other races but I always found I had to put in more work to prove to them I was some what serious about getting to know them compared to other races of women. While it would take me minimum 3-4 dates before that option was even on the table it would take me 1 date or a couple hours of meeting with white woman 😆.
Black women don't have the same luxury of being sexually "free spirits" it seems like other races
Media and those in control of said media. Makes them think everything in songs, films and staged live documentaries are applicable to real life, the kicker is that they don't apply the same mentality to wytes. And guess who pushes out certain narratives, while stifling wholesome ones in the US? A few rappers like Nikki, Cardi, the fifty-leven rappers with lil and baby to their names say when they do songs without s€x and violence, they are turned away so fast their heads spin, and they only get call backs when their lyrics ia degenerate and derelict lyrics. It's why Afrobeats is gaining ground. Hope it doesn't go down the same deviant drain.
I've seen that this stereotype is applied to white American women as well. So, at least some part of it is for simply being American.
Sorry to say but I have watched some vlogs of Black ladies twerking in the streets, too tight clothes and as an older Black American woman I thought to myself "they see that and think we're all like that." I've also watched a group of young Black ladies try to get in a club and they were rejected even though other non-Blacks were let in.
Women of color with education, sophistication, etiquette, distinction, higher purpose, accomplishment and morals sometimes get a "back seat" in the media as compared to the raunchy portrayal done by the media. It is disappointing that people base their opinions and perceptions based on stereotypes.
But that's due to their own culture. Another example for guys in America is going to college, getting a good job, is seen as lame by themselves. What's cool to them is being a rapper, athlete, gangsta. Even in Africa, there are entire villages of people trying to make it big in soccer, there are no entire villages of people trying be engineers. So in terms of women, the same concepts are brought over.
@@Cxs1a3 Sorry to hear that most women of color that I know have Master's and Doctorate Degrees. But in most cases their parents were educated and professionals. So they had role models.
But most men of all cultures don't find that attractive. What you describe is actually a major turn-off for a lot of men, and when it's not a turn-off, it certainly doesn't boost your value as much as it would for a man. Men stand to benefit a lot more, so it's a shame that statisitcally, we know a lot more women than men of color educate themselves. I get you're tryna disprove the stereotype, but the fact that you know women, not men who do it, only strengthens it.
@@rhonda5056 Are the married?
@@bromack3 Yes, the majority are married.
Once people are able to realize how ridiculous stereotypes are and see each person as an individual human being, the world will know peace :')
True. Got to wait and see a persons character.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealing So true, if people only judged people by their character, so many unnecessary problems would literally disappear :')
you mean accurate stereotypes 😂
@@david7384 that says alot about you
Once people realize that that wont happen because people Are stupid, the more we can deal with reality.
The reports I have heard from blacks in Korea were not encouraging. I am not interested in visiting ANY country that places such a premium on light-coloured skin. I can do without colorism. I am white, by the way.
then sir, you wouldn't want to visit the whole east, southeast, and south asia.. I'm indonesian and white people are looked very highly here (like many think white people are above them and higher than them and sh*t) and I'm always pissed because of that to be honest, I see every race on earth as human of the same level, cuz God created us equally (as human! the same species) and he sees us no differently (at least the religious side in me says that)
That is true, sadly, in all Asian nations. Colourism is very much still a thing.
Get yourself some human history! Colorism has been thousands of years in most cultures including mist “white” , asian and black cultures!
@@Boymanjusri I'm curious as to what you're calling mist white. Also, if they were mist white how would their be colourism?
Do not worry. cause your country has more racism than any country in Asia :)
That first story was crazy
You ain’t kidding 😮
more common than you think!
The other girl looks like jayla! I wasn’t sure if it’s her but based in the comments, with everyone crushing on her it’s def jayla! I saw her speed dating show here on TH-cam