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Hello there. Hopefully you saw the Australian guy Z above, assuming it was a good encounter. As a father of a couple of adult children, it did sadden me to hear some of your history. I'm sure you'll hear this a lot in these comments, but I hope you find the acceptance and community you desire. Good luck.
No way!!! Is that Aju? One of the kindest Japanese woman I have met during my travels in Japan. I met her last year at Weerasakrack Muay Thai gym in Tokyo, September 2023 during our Muay Thai training session and she acted as a translator for me to a tradesperson working at the gym which then led onto having a really great unforgettable conversation with her before I had to dash to DisneySea. I was thinking about her before TH-cam algorithm recommended me this videos and instantly recognised her on the thumbnail. If you're are reading this Aju, many greetings from your Australian friend, Z
As anothe half Japanese raised in Japan, I never ever want to move back. It was hard watching this, but thank you for filming and being so vulnerable! Loved the video.
I feel like you didn't watch the video. This poster is also half. They are not treated well or accepted in Japan. And I can say from observation that it's particularly bad for people who are half African descent. Racism is real, but in Japan it's culturally accepted@@jadenquest9544
Same in Australia, I'm mixed, Indigenous Father, European Australian Mother. Not really accepted by either side. I was raised by my father's mother, speak Erubam Le Mir, TSI Kreole and Aussie English. Struggled with acceptance during my childhood, teenage years and 20's, early 30's I was like far kit...I'm me and require acceptance from no one. 😊
@freezeoff6980 I'm like the mixed race of the world, Father - Erubam Le, Meriam, Jamaican, Moorish, Badu, Kabi Kabi, Butjula, Rotuma, Paruma, Kiwai, Malaysian, New Caledonia, Vanuatu, Anglo-Saxon Mother - Viking, Norseman (Central & Northern Europe). I can go back 400yrs on my father's side and one generations on my mother's side...
@@vortexnutwhaleThey may be, but even if they are you're only making your self look like a jack ass. She's definitely pretty, regardless of anything else.
@@vortexnutwhalewith your name and all your other negative comments leads one to speculate on whether you are simply just jealous that this girl is absolutely gorgeous and carries herself with grace , is nice and seems like a fun person to be around. And before you start in with your "simp" stuff again I am an old heterosexual female that is comfortable enough in my own femininity to acknowledge another womans' beauty instead of trying to tear someone else down to try to make myself feel better because they have things that I lack. With your input here along with your other remarks in the comments section of just this video you painted such a clear and vivid portrait of envy that all the green is used up. Try to add some colors of kindness, compassion, empathy etc. into your life, if not for those interact with you at least do it for yourself. I don't know if this is how you are normally, if you're going through a rough time or just having a bad day, but I sincerely hope you feel happier soon. I will pray for you and if you just need to talk to someone and vent about something in your life but don't feel comfortable talking to someone you know, I'm a stranger that would be willing to listen. I understand you will be upset for being called out for your bad behavior. The young lady in this video will probably read all the comments and this is your chance to offer an apology and maybe an explanation. And like I said, if you need someone to vent to, I am willing to listen.
I’m a man and the first thing that came to mind when I heard her say she’s never dated, was she needs to relocate. As beautiful as she is, she’s not benefiting by staying where she’s at. I hope that this girl has the ability to travel the world, so she can move past this stigma she’s stuck in. She’s so forgiving and understanding towards the constant harassment she’s endured, and clearly she’s adapted some good life skills that are influenced of decorum and huge respect towards others.
Was thinking the same. Most Japanese men prefer to date Asian women and most foreigners are there to hunt for Japanese women and live out their Hentai fantasies
I completely agree with your sentiment. She appears to be well-educated and cultured. There are open minds everywhere, but Japanese culture might not foster inclusivity when it comes to ethnic diversity. I hope she is able to prosper and to transcend her culture’s tradition of somewhat closed-mindedness.
The suggestion for her to be able to travel had nothing to do with her being hit on by men. It was for her to be able to go and experience how much bigger the world is than the one she’s stuck in currently. I mean no disrespect towards anyone, but no girl should ever feel ignored like she’s feeling or have to hear these negative condescending ignorant comments she has no control over. It’s unfair that she has to feel like this when clearly she’s so kind towards people and able to smile while out in public. People having to go through such harsh criticism often seem to have a negative effect with interaction skills especially in public.
She broke my heart when she said she has never been in a relationship 😢 She is such a pretty girl with a great heart. Thank you for doing this interview and giving her a platform to express her feelings ❤
Why break a heart over something that millions of people experience? That's life in an Evolutionary society that tells you your ancestors were pond scum.
Hi Aju! I am from The Bahamas and I just want to say that I am sorry you experience the things that you do in Japan, a country where you were born and raised! You are a very beautiful person and I hope that one day you find true true love...even if you have to come to The Bahamas to find it! :)
Japan, and other Asian countries believe that their race is superior compared to every other race, and thus should not create, and spread mixed races! I hear this all the time.
Ye, I agree People in Moscow thought I'm Chinese or Japanese and started talking to me in kind of those languages (Just Nihao, Konnichiwa and etc basic words) or looking at me as if I'm "exotic". Felt kind of weird, since I can speak Russian and spent whole life in this country, just native of one of the republics
I was really surprised to hear that your dad is from the Bahamas. I live in Morocco and I am also from the Bahamas. Because the population of the Bahamas is so small, it is unusual to find Bahamians in other countries. You really made my day, Best wishes to you and your family.
I have lived and worked in Japan off and on most of my adult life. I dont see a lot of problems, but i am not mixed as well. One story does stick in my mind though. I was on a train from Yokosuka to Shinagawa several years back. Two older Japanese ladies sat across from a friend and I most of the trip. I speak Japanese but they didnt know that (I am white, typical looking American). Most of the way they were saying things like we were dirty foreigners and we shouldnt be here and things of that nature. Just rude things from people that think they are the only ones that know what they are talking about around foreign people. As we were getting off I spoke in very polite Japanese to them and Said " In the future you may want to keep your voices down because you never know who may be listening. I hope you have a pleasant day". Both of them turned ghost white, got up and went to the back of the train. My friend asked what I said, and I told him as we got off. It was pretty amazing.
Good for you for still being respectful. It’s hard to be respectful in those moments. I remember I was in England and my dad over heard an English woman talking to her child. The child was complaining about being on a train and the English said “will in America they have boogies and carts” she wasn’t making a joke and looked quite serious. My dad who isn’t even American lol, went up and told that person to not spread lies about other countries like that. It’s strange, it happens everywhere.
@elizabethrose6943 No offence whatsoever. Your experience was typical of Western European attitudes to America (not just Britian). It exists for many reasons. Some of it is jealousy, but also because of perception of American ignorance, and that you lack culture and refinement. It may also help to understand that Western Europe is often shocked and appalled, by issues you have gun control and abortion which we have long moved on from. Trump has made this worse, and Andy Europe has to America is probably less than it has ever been. I have family in New England (half sister is American/british), and know you should not be defined like this. My experience is that you are some the kindest and particularly the most hospitable people I have met in the world. I have experienced this from both sides of your political spectrum. I have been told by many friends, and it is my experience to that Britian is one of those culturally and ethnically accepting nations on earth. It wasn’t even a thing for example, that a recent PM was of Asian origin. What you experienced was a unique attitude towards Americans, which is driven by some jealousy, and superiority complex based on simplified stereotype.
3:33 Tell this lady to move to Houston. If she spends 1 week in Houston she’ll be engaged! She is a Texas 10. She is the beauty standard in my community-light skin, foreign, long hair, loose curls, biracial, and bilingual.
She looks so badass like she wouldn’t take shit from anyone but then when you see her talk and her actions she’s really shy, like on 6:04 when she’s blushing because they are clapping for her. She’s so precious! ❤️
"she looks so badass like she wouldn't take shit from anyone" typical black woman behavior, she is indeed strong we command that, Gorila levels of strong if left unchecked
she got arm tatts...and looks like an aggressive lady.......Japanese are the most conservative people on earth.....they make bible belt usa look like belligerent rock and rollers.....lol.....
Let me say this there are days like this in the video where you smile it away and deal with it because it's pretty normal but there are also days where you won't have to tell everybody your life story and just wanna be treated like everybody else
They are not "rejecting" her, in this video, they just assume that she comes from outside Japan. I'm not saying that racism or doesn't exist in Japan like anywhere else; But, unless it's motivated by hatred, asking where you come from or what your origins are isn't racism, it's curiosity. People do that with me all the time because of my first and last name. Is it annoying? Not for me, as people getting interested in me is better than people ignoring me. I also ask others what their origins are, it's a good conversation starter. The girl may be very nice, but she is full of tatoos and shey's got the look to squat in front of a combini. She isn't doing her best to get Japanese people spontaneously coming to talk to her.
Let me be honest, it’s so normal for me that I don’t see it as problem 😂 I don’t even care cuz I have my amazing people around me and I find peace in me so I have no problems at all😊💚 That’s why I’m smiling in the video obviously😂😬
The young woman, who looks more Japanese than the other, is asked where she's from while the other is complimented on her ability to speak the Japanese language. Wow!
@@絶望ガール-v3s I never assume anything about someone’s nationality based on appearance. Not something you can base on looks. Exactly why I would never have a child in a mono-ethnic society.
She is an absolute gem! Perfect mix of culture and understanding. You can tell there is a softness and a savage in her grit. May she blossom well and find her place in this world, on instinct.
Don2846 She didn’t handle any situation the poor girl was sad and disappointed with all Japanese idiotic racism Hope she can meet a guy who loves her for what she is because she seems to be a kind and good hearted person ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My wife is half Japanese on her mother's side. Her parents were married in Japan and nobody would rent them an apartment so they lived her mother's parents. They were often refused service at restaurants. They eventually moved to the US. This was the early 60's and it must be much better now.
How can ppl think she’s NOT Japanese??? She has the distinct mannerisms that only come from being born & raised in Japan & she’s adorable when she covers her smile with her hand. Classic Japanese habit. ❤😊
Because SHE´S NOT. Not African and not Japanese. It´s a MIX. Nothing wrong with that. A Chinese person can´t be Japanese too. Not even after 80 years living in Japan.. 95% of all countries on the planet are like that. Totally NORMAL. You cant change your ethnicity. it´s not possible. USA, Canada and Australia dont count as a Country because ALL of them are foreigner. They suppressed all the natives there. And west Europe are suffering the same right now. MORE people of color (like ME) and less Natives. I suffering the same issue. I´m Portuguese but born and raise in Germany. But i will NEVER be a German. That´s not possible. And i never went to Portugal. And i have 0 Portuguese friends. Imagine being on another planet and force Aliens to be accepted as one of them. That´s not possible. We all have the same Value but we are not the same. And it´s not a bad thing...
She is such a kind hearted woman and appears to be so caring and it's sad to hear what she's gone through and still goes through I'm sure there are plenty of good men interested in her (Myself included) That would love to be in a relationship with her. Keep both of your heads up and know that nothing is impossible when you have brains, beauty, and the heart that both of you have. 💯
the little girl at 13:33 looking up to aju, that's actually the cutest moment for me. it just seems that she sees somebody who looks alike. i think we all need representations of ourselves in slightly older versions to know we have a right to exist and to be bright and good looking and cool as this lovely blasian woman. one day all of humanity will be mixed anyway, it's just a glance into the future, maybe for some that's scary idk. if people won't come to their senses on their own, i'm very hopeful that love will transcend racism and xenophobia, bringing us closer to the world we're capable of creating
I can relate a lot to her. I am mixed, korean & African American. Growing up Caucasians kept me at arms length, they were always friendly but none really ever approached on their own. African Americans would keep their distance as well & look at me funny. As I’ve grown up in a mostly Korean-American household, I have had several people come up to me & said that “you don’t act like us” or “you don’t act black”. Which I have never liked that because why would you have to act a certain way just cause of your skin tone, I just act as myself. Finally, when it comes to Koreans, I can’t speak Korean but I have learned how to translate. Koreans did not want to interact with me at all & just saw me as this “black person” and that made me incredibly sad growing up. I could understand them & hear them talking about me, how they were cautious of me & say keep an eye on me whenever I was in a store. It was only if I went with my Korean American mother or Korean grandmother who can speak Korean, they would speak in Korean with the clerks & employees. After introducing me then they would be like “Oh, so she’s your daughter/grand daughter? She’s Korean too?”. A few would remember me afterwards, & be friendly with me whenever I stopped by, others either didn’t remember or didn’t care and treated me the same as before. I still experience all these types of interactions from all races to this day. I only have a few friends but they treat me like me & see me for me, I also have a loving husband now that embraces my culture. I have come to just ignore the negative situations now, & continue to surround myself with people that love & cherish me deeply.
@@MegaHzz sorry if using the word “Caucasian” offended you in any way. I use that word cause i refuse to call Caucasian’s “white people”, just as I also refuse to call people of darker skin “black people”. I have been hurt by others being called so, so I do my best not to hurt others in the same ways as they have hurt me and to be as respectful as I can. Again, sorry if my use of the word has offended you or any others. I was moved by this wonderful lady’s story and wanted to share my own. Best of wishes to all.
You know I am Japanese living in the US for more than 50yrs and at first I tried to become like them to fit in but it was just not going to happen so I learned to accept who I am and be myself. if you are confident in who you are and love yourself most of all ppl around you will accept you as well...praying for you and best wish!!!!! :))
Same here Sir! I'm not japanese and I'm living here in Japan for more than 15 years, and become like them was not going to happen too. I always think stay who you are, and don't mind those people. The important thing is that you can communicate with them properly thats it.❤
Not always. You can love yourself, be confident and still feel a sadness/deep void because the people /place you live in just isn't warm and welcoming. As humans we need to feel connection with thise around us.. ..our systems are made to connect.
@@reenasat I wonder though, is it not that you must also be open to loving others, too? One can love themselves while not feeling so much draw or love for other humans - feeling wary and guarded (which does occur for understandable reasons in some cases) towards them. We are social beings but we are also socialized in many ways which stymie our own inclinations towards one another. And we don't always even pay attention to this fact of life, just keep our noses to the grindstones and our heads down and keep going on about our 'normatives' and usuals.
I’m Bangali American and I love going to the Midwest and talking to old whites. Sometimes they are a little uncomfortable, but rarely are they bad people who actually hate you. They may have even wrong assumptions and ideas ingrained in them, but you just like them are a product of your environment. Talking and having the confidence to over look their ideas will make a positive impact, instead of feeling less than and offended
As a half japanese i TOTALLY understand, agree and feel you 😂 I wasn't born here but I've lived in the island 60% of my life! let's be tomodachis Aju ✌️
She's gorgeous - to be honest: she looks like a Hawaiian princess to me! She might get along with the Hawaiians much better, plus there are a lot of Japanese people also, so she has both cultures in one place.....😉💜✌️
I just visited Japan for the first time a few weeks ago, the taxi thing is so real! A lot of taxis and Uber drivers won’t drive foreigners, we had a friend who looked Japanese a little (he was Philippino) even ask and as soon as they heard him speak English they’d cross their hands and say “NO!” 🙅🏼♀️ saw that temple also 😁 Asakusa ❤ was awesome 👏🏻
Been to japan for the first time last month. I was traveling solo and got a kind of gaijin blues. People would avoid sitting next to me on trains or in a public bath. I've been studying japanese for a while now and can hold my own in basic conversation or interacting with store clerks, but I've experienced people not realizing I was talking in japanese and replying back in broken english. I can only imagine what that has to be like when you are native and lived there your whole life. Also, Aju seems like a wonderful person. Don't let it get to you, Aju.
Tokyo is also a lot less friendly than other places in Japan. Usually the biggest landing city in a country is where the meanest people are ton foreigners (London, Paris, New York City), or to people in general. It’s usually the most fast paced place with grumpy overworked people who feel they pay way too much for things compared to the rest of their country, and they resent the tourists because they believe the tourists are the reason why everything is “tourist prices,” and for crowding their public events and public resources. There are nice people in Tokyo, but you’re also more likely to run into people who just have a bad attitude, even for a polite society like Japan’s. Generally, people get a friendlier welcome in places like Kyoto, Osaka, Sapporo, and other major Japanese cities outside of Tokyo. You can visit some of the shrines and check out the fox forest and cat island, go on a sleep capsule overnight train. They’re generally friendlier in settings further away from the main hub of Tokyo. So many travelers have talked about this on youtube, definitely worth taking a look at some of what they have to say on this topic.
Also, as for replying in English, try not to take it too personally. I can definitely understand how that would be frustrating for a Japanese person who was born and raised there, and I really hope that Japan starts to recognize their interracial minorities a little more. However, for most tourists, when they reply in English, they’re not doing this to insult you, they actually believe they are doing you a kindness and a favor. Try to keep in mind that probably a majority of the tourists they see every year don’t speak Japanese at all or only speak very little, but by contrast, Japanese people have been speaking their “broken English” for decades as part of their job serving tourists. They believe they’re giving you good customer service and trying to be respectful. Try not too get too sad or take offense at someone doing something with good intentions, they’re just trying to do their job. When Japanese people first moved to western countries as immigrants, hotels and restaurants and even some trains absolutely refused to serve them at all and would leave signs out saying “no [expletive slur for Asian people]” for business. Just a little perspective. It could be a lot worse, and the Japanese people speaking English to you are just trying to meet you halfway and they mean well.
I think that broken English Japanese speaks is better than your broken Japanese for communicating each other. If you want to talk them in Japanese, I recommend "Nihongo de oneguy simath" that means "Speak J please.".
@@kathleencove Yeah, that's true. I actually went partly to practice my japanese after learning for 3 years, so it was a little disheartening at first. I think If people asked me in my country in my native language I might do the same unintuitively. I eventually had some nice conversations in japanese after all in some bars in Osaka.
Aju seems adorable, I hope when she’s ready she meets someone who loves her for her as she’s awesome, she’s so pretty, well mannered and seems like she has a positive outlook on life, I bet she’d be a great person to hang out with x
Amazing video. And Aju is equally amazing. I'm American of Mexican descent, and recently discovered I'm 4th generation Okinawan on my paternal side. Apparently my great-grandfather and his brother emigrated to Mexico in the early 1900s as contract workers in Northern Mexico. I love watching your videos, especially clips such as these about bi-racial folks in Japan. Keep them coming!!!
So the white woman is not questioned when speaking Japanese but Aju, who looks Japanese with a beautiful twist is? And they lose their minds when Aju speaks but to me she looks extremely Japanese. The little bit of Black she has turns them off but blond and pale white is no problem. Please help me make sense of this. She lived her entire life being rejected it’s normal. Glad she will travel soon. She is a beautiful young lady.
I think some of these people have already met Pearl though. More whites go to Japan, and from what I can tell there's not as many blacks that learn Japanese. Where I'm from at least, blacks kind of have had to hide it if they're into Japanese culture or anime. It's seen as nerdy/white by other black people. It's nowhere near as bad as it used to be though. But I'd say confederate flag waving rednecks came around to Japanese stuff sooner than blacks.
Because Japanese people view black people more the same way racist white people would. Even though in Japan xenofobia counts for every foreigner, white people are more favored and therefore often treated less badly than poc foreigners. It also has to do with the beauty standard that favors white skin over darker skin.
I am so glad I am not the only one who caught that Even at the beginning when they were at the shop . The Japanese woman was looking at Aju when she was looking at the bag . I pay attention to people's body language And I think it is so sad and sick that people put someone up on a pedestal . Who's the complete opposite of you . Rather than someone who is closer genetically to you just because they are part black
If I was a younger, single man in Japan and I encountered this woman I would like to think I would have the courage to ask this woman out. She is simply gorgeous and has a life story to tell. May she find love some time soon. Both she and the other will benefit from the experience.
to be fair, if i met her, I thought she liked girls because of her tom-boy appearance. I wouldn't even approach even though she's cute because I would think there's no point.
I've messed around with Kendamas a bit and can say those were some nice moves she did in front of the store after buying it... She definitely level 5!😊👏🏾
I would imagine it is probably somewhat easier for those who are Japanese-White mixed and especially Japanese mixed with some other Asian ethnicity. Being Japanese-Black probably makes you stand out the most due to the darker skin. Add the tattoos to that equation, which tend to be less accepted in Japan than it most other countries due to their association with Yakuza and criminal activities, and it seems like a recipe for the loneliness she feels. As much as she loves Japan, she might be happier somewhere like Hawaii, where there is both a fairly large Japanese community (16% of the population), and where she would fit in better with native Hawaiians due to the mix of Japanese and Black looking somewhat Polynesian.
as long as you're Japanese passing you're okay, not necessarily white mixed, some latin american - japanese can pass off their strict standards cuz they think they're tanned and from Okinawa, but indeed black is always seen as below every mix. I'm from Mexico and black mexicans struggle in some areas, especially in areas dominated by light skinned or white mexicans, add to that the recent migration from Haitians, some racists white apologists have started to demonize anyone looking black, this ppl are fans of Trump supporters ideologies and pissed off we now elected a jewish woman as the next President, so they will take any chance to put the propaganda wagon into action
@@sarahbrown3938 she is dark, Japanese people are white some even whiten their skin further. A tanned Japanese person wouldn't quite reach her tone either, nothing is wrong with her skin it's just obviously darker than theirs.
@@AjuchanTV I hope you are well Aju! I think you’ll love it in Honolulu, it has a strong Japanese prescence but because it is also a melting pot they are a lot more open.
Fascinating, touching, and charming. More power to you, Aju! This reminds me of an anecdote I heard from an American friend of mine. Husband Austrian, business took them to Japan for ten years. Their two sons were born and raised there, and naturally spoke fluent Japanese. The family returned to Austria, and one evening were watching a puppet show here in Vienna, with an audience of mostly Japanese tourists, including children. My friend's sons were bored and started telling dirty jokes in Japanese. The tourist's children in the audience were amazed and called their parents' attention to the white boys speaking Japanese. And the parents _couldn't hear that they were speaking Japanese._ Only their children noticed. Well done. Cheers from rainy Vienna, Scott
OMG she is so beautiful! I hate to hear that this has been her experience. I hope and pray that she will have the experience of having someone truly love her and see her! She is such a value to us in this world and has so much to offer it. I can only imagine how she’s felt, but I hope she knows that she is seen and heard here by many.
She has such beautiful hair and a beautiful personality. You're so kind to her! Some of this is sad yet some of this is promising and happy. This one was hard to watch at times. And I'm glad you're so sweet to her.
"This one was hard to watch at times." Are you from USA by any chance? An exception to the rule of how a nation is build? A homogenous ethnic group is foundation of any healthy society. Can you have racism when everyone is the same? No. Can you have cultural clashes inside homogenous society? No.
@@sitarnut Are we talking about future of Japan still being Japan, or are we going to throw it into trash bin for the sake of few not 100% Japanese people? Westerners have big dificulties with thinking. The world is not USA. Japan's history dates back to 12 000 BC. It's not an artificial western hemisphere state founded in late 18 century.
Wow, so beautiful! Also when you smile you look soo japanese! Love how you turn everything around by seeing who people really are instead of selfdiscrimination! Full power and much love! Peace
I would lean more towards Prejudice more then Racism. Like they said... Japan is "98% ethnically the same" so they don't come across us as often(mostly Tourist), so their only view of how we are comes from really bad examples/propaganda from Hip Hop and popular culture in the US. White people have more of positive depicted in popular culture and TV which probably contributes to how the Japanese will approach a Caucasian foreigner vs a African American or a Mixed Race Japanese Native.
@@lilrizqwell yes prejudice but you may have seen a few Japanese comments on here asking her what's here other part breed if it was a dog? Is that also still prejudice? Point is, they are a modern country, they have a heavy American influence, they have that exposure and all they need to know, so we can't say it's because they are predominantly this or that so a racial attitude is excused as mere prejudice.
@@lilrizq I don't know how you could possibly say that. White people are constantly depicted as evil and corrupt on TV shows and especially in pop culture. Black people are depicted as the greatest beings ever to walk the Earth. Japanese people don't live in the Amazon jungle with no contact of any kinds of civilization. They're intelligent people with access to the real world and know for a fact that Black people, more than any other race, are constantly committing violence and/or accusing anyone that doesn't treat them as special beings, as racist.
@@senadirect Japanese people don't have to justify the way they think in Japan. Japan is for Japanese people and they have every right to keep it that way. Imagine going to some primitive tribe in the middle of the Amazon jungle and complaining to them about their culture and that they should accept your way of doing things. Maybe cut down all those trees and build a McDonald's and a Walmart in the jungle....
The network you are building is amazing! You are doing such a wonderful thing bringing awareness to an "attitude" or "behavior" that someone may not even think about. For each of the people who treat her different, they only might have seen her once.... but, its everyday and everybody she meets for her... Your videos are full of beautiful and interesting people.. Please keep them coming... smiles abound! From Tennessee, USA
It's no different for us over here in Europe. I regularly get 'compliments' about how well I speak the native language, even though, like Aju, I was born and raised here. It's not a compliment, it's just another reminder of how you see me as different.
I know France is bad for this in particular but I'm not sure what other countries in Europe do this, what country do you live in if you don't mind me asking?
@@kellen7425 Not a lot of diversity in ethnic background in Japan so not a lot of people know how to handle that due to societal norms and expectations for fitting in with the group and not standing out too much. Its not necessarily that every single person tries to be actively mean, its more ignorance and lack of diversity education in a place lacking diversity--just like how many Japanese people in the country may not have an understanding of disability. Notice how the people in the video were surprised she even spoke the language or had a culturally-relatable background. I'm sure there are plenty of mean people though, as there are in the U.S. The whole stigma around tattoos in certain parts of Japan doesn't help much either.
I’ve been following your channel for a while now, and I love it ❤❤❤❤❤ How you present different situations in Japan that you take me into your heart of Japanese life, truly beautiful. Thank you so much ❤
Thank you so much, Oriental Pearl, for giving these folks the space to tell their authentic stories. I think it's helpful for us foreigners to understand their struggles and triumphs & I bet it's a great level of catharsis for them! Please keep it up!
Being half Japanese/half Samoan,born & raised in Australia...i get it But im blessed to have 2 cultures,3 language upbringing & im totally proud of it! We get all this uncertainty from all sides,from every background. I got it badly in the U.S,making fun in my face,but that ignorance is on them,not me. I have friends who use to be one of the uncertain,until they got to know me. Like it is said "The weak fear the things they dont know" Stay strong sister You are beautiful inside & out. Dont blame a country as a whole for a few arroant people. Everywhere in the world is like that.
I think Australia has far more mixed race people than Japan so it is slightly different in countries where more exist. There’s still ignorance everywhere though. If she came to London she would be batting the men away so much it would be annoying for her 😂😂😂😂
Just stop it that girl is clearly acts like a boy. She wouldn't put on a dress look how she walks. Tom boy all those tattoos on her arms. She doesn't care but she said she hasn't had a date. Girl up.
The world has a problem of thinking their perception of the world is the only way the world works. We as humans would be so much better off being more humble and work on expecting the unexpected. We know so little yet think we know the world so when something or someone “different” comes around, it surprises us. When in reality, this is normal existence, we have just been small minded. This young woman is so charming, smart, and beautiful! Watching this video I felt my muscles tighten as if I didn’t want to take up space in the world. Like I wanted to get out of the way. I’m not sure if that’s because she was feeling that way or I’m projecting how I may feel if I were in her situation. But I hope she gets an opportunity soon to fully be her incredible, intelligent, and beautiful self. I hope she has or finds a group of people who accept and embrace her and finds a place where she feels she belongs. Wherever that is, they will be lucky to have her!
A real good friend of mine, a long time ago, when she returned from her travels asked me, " Hey Bliss, do you know what's worse then being unable to communicate in another country? ....being unable to to connect & form meaningful dialogue right here, in my own country". I never truly understood the meaning of her message until now, after watching this video. Aju - please forgive people such as myself that oftentimes are unable to think/feel beyond their own situation. I think you are a beautiful person and I wish wish you great success.🙌
Japan, and other Asian countries believe that their race is superior compared to every other race, and thus should not create, and spread mixed races! I hear this all the time.
I am mixed 1/2 Japanese as well. From what I remember from spending 1 year in Japan in 1981-82 was that the Japanese associate anyone tattooed with the Yakuza. I met and had friends who were Yakuza in Obihiro so learned a little about the culture surrounding that way of life. I wish you the best in your search for happiness 🙏
Even in 2017, when I stayed at a hotel that had a hotspring in it, it specifically had a rule about no one with tattoos being allowed in. My guess it was for the same reason and I wondered if a foreigner walked in with tattoos if they would say anything.
@@roséiswine8294actually black ppl don’t glamorize it either . That’s another stereotype and someone on the outside looking in. Listening to hip hop will make you think that but black ppl don’t even like that shit but some are forced to live that life! Now that’s facts!! Hell some black people won’t even associate with you if you living like that. Your comment was very racist and prejudice.
It's mostly the tats they hold a cultural stigma in Japan due to the Yakuza then there is the double wammi of looking like A Foreigner and not Native Japanese
Shaming people who want to keep their culture and not become like the western world is not a good thing. Why do progressives want every country to be the same melting pot?
@@ZeroChillAritaShe’s also taller than the average Japanese man. And it doesn’t help that she’s a martial artist and has a muscular frame. She’d be beautiful in the US. But in Japan, the beauty standards are different
In Korea, even when people are fluent in Korean but look non-native, people use broken English to talk to them. It seems like Koreans who do this are excited about an opportunity to practice the speaking English or they see it as a way to connect with a foreigner or they see it as being considerate.
Same thing happens in Latin America. My mother is german and japanese but born and raised in Costa Rica. She is completely fluent in Spanish, but Spanish speakers will speak broken English to her even though she speaks perfect Spanish to them.
(0:36) That word is pronounced "baha-me-an" (or "baha-may-knee-an" in English). The name "Bahamas" is Spanish. Columbus referred to them as the "low tide" (baja mar) islands because their geography is tricky for ships. If you drop anchor at the wrong place, you'll run out of chain and the anchor will be lost--a massive and expensive problem for ships. You need enough water not to get stuck but not too much. For Columbus and his men, the Bahamanian islands had only three spots they could safely drop anchor. Thus the name of the archipelago.
Your wrong its Ba-hay-me-an. Are you Bahamian? Please remember her father is Bahamian and how we pronounce certain words are wildly different from other English speakers. If you are wondering if I am also Bahamian. Yes I am.😊
How you gonna tell her how to say where she's from? 😂 That's how we say "Bahamian". The etymology is interesting though, I didn't know that's where it came from
I Know this girl. When I worked as a photographer in Esmod Tokyo , she was a student there. By far, she was the most kind and friendly student in these school.
I'm from the England and my wife is Japanese. Our daughter was born and raised in Nagoya but fate would have it she looks completely English, hardly asian looking at all. When I pick her up from school, kids and parents often refer to her as 'Gaikokujin' (foreigner) and I tell them them she was born in the hospital down the road and has lived here all her life. My daughter knows she looks different but doesn't really understand why they say that about her. She gets embarrassed a lot because in reality, after living in Japan for all 6 years of her life, she's way more Japanese than English. But for some reason, if you don't look Japanese, you will always be seen as a foreigner in Japan.
@@larryc1616 Disagree. Never surprised when black, asian, middle eastern people speak English with an English accent. In the big cities, a large percentage of the population are non-white, it's completely normal here.
AAAAA SHES GENUINELY SO STUNNING!!! Her smile is so genuine and her laugh makes you wanna witness it more. I hope someone can see her heart truly and entirely with nothing but pure love!!!
IM BLACK AND NATIVE AMERICAN MIX. JAPAN HAS EVERY RIGHT TO DO SO. AND IM GLADE THEY ARE. THE U.N., U.A. AND THE U.S.A. IS FORCING A CHINESE AGENDA ON OTHER COUNTRIES AND IM GLAD THE JAPANESE ARE NOT STUPID LIKE WE ARE. a black and native american mix
I am from New Zealand and spent a good portion of my 20s in Japan. I can understand and speak Japanese. I recall many a time being spoken about behind my back or even directly in front of me when people thought I wouldn't understand. I took great pleasure in turning and saying something back in Japanese. The look on their faces. I remember a father explaining to his child that I was like the "one we saw in the zoo"...
My son-in-law and his two brothers could not inherit anything in Japan from their father because their births in Australia were not registered in Japan. Less of an issue was their mixed race. Each of the three brothers look more or less Japanese. My son-in-law looks Japanese whilst one brother looks Eurasian and another looks like he comes from a Mediterranean country. Luckily, there are over 300 ethnicities in Australia and mixed race children are common so, there are very few issues.
I like when you feel enough confidence to speak Japanese. Sometimes people saying that "True spirit never die"! I think You are a true spirit! Good luck in the future! Mike from Sweden.
My kids who are mixed. Half Japanese half white Italian and they don’t have that much trouble with racism. They told me that there’s a big difference between the way they’re treated and the way their friends who are half black or half other Asian country. For older Japanese skin color seems to be a major factor for them to look down upon or think of them as not being Japanese. I guess also it’s the fact that they’re boys so they’ll talk back very quickly to anyone who steps out a line with them. I’m not saying there are mixed females that don’t do that but it could also play a major factor in the situation. That and my boys are actually pretty tall.
Racial bias has everything to do with racism no height or level of assertiveness is an excuse for racist bad behavior. Your dismissive response is laced in racial bias and the type of response that excuse any experiences with racism so as another assertive person who has experienced racism on a regular basis take a seat bud. @ThomJohnson-cl9it
Great channel. I was so close to visiting Japan at one point. I had experience with modeling and in late 2015 I was in contact with Capcom about the facial likeness role of Leon for the Resident Evil 2 Remake. I failed to mention I also have a voice acting background, in the end I lost the part and I can't forgive myself for wasting such an opportunity to visit Asia. Best of luck on your travels
When you're mixed race, you have a foot in each world. But feel like you're a part of neither , black / irish despite that ive herd literally all of those comments before. It was so frustrating . Like i can remember going to bed as a kid wishing id wake up white. It took me to the age of 24 to embrace the black side of me. I didn't even know how to do my hair.
Wake up white😂😂mixed myself but that made me laugh I understand what your saying like but you should be proud that your white and black (both) can relate to both races n can also identify as one or the other or even both plus mixed race will be the biggest race down the line and it’s good to stick out be boring being the same as everyone
@@h_uns1m yeah I’m not trying to drag others down I’m just saying people should be comfortable in there own skin no matter what race/skin colour they are it’s not nice for them to feel that way like but they need to realise that they get the best of both worlds and stick out rather then being the same as a lot of people
I used to feel exactly the same as you. And it’s crazy to me that some mixed people never had to feel like this and grew up not being the only outcast in their town. They don’t know how lucky they are! Childhood and teenage years shapes you. I love myself now, but it absolutely shaped my personality and how I see the world in a lot of ways.
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98% Yamato in Japan? How much are Ryukin?
Where is this girls number??! 😊
Well Yes and i'm Argentine
I saw videos on channel of Serpentza about the dark side China. Is this true? Are you able to make a topic of this?
@@toydigger well yes
Hi,everybody it’s me Aju.
Thank you for taking your time to check my story 😊🤝🏽💚
Appreciate for all the good and bad comments!
Currently I don’t do TH-cam but maybe in the future?😣 idk haha
This account would be my TH-cam channel.
I do more instagram to share my life style vlogs and DJs and even boxing sometimes…?🔊🥳🥊
Hope you guys have a wonderful time!
Much love 🩷🙏🏽🤝🏽
Thank you so much for letting me interview you. So many people here loved your personality and story. You have a bright future.
@@OrientalPearl it’s because of you🙇🏽♀️🥺🤝🏽🩷 without you this didn’t happen. BIG UP to YOU😍🩷💪🏽🙏🏽😌
I’ll be looking forward to your channel then 😏
Hello there. Hopefully you saw the Australian guy Z above, assuming it was a good encounter. As a father of a couple of adult children, it did sadden me to hear some of your history. I'm sure you'll hear this a lot in these comments, but I hope you find the acceptance and community you desire. Good luck.
Loved the interview. You have mad skills with that Kendama! I wish you all the best and hope you find happiness!
No way!!! Is that Aju? One of the kindest Japanese woman I have met during my travels in Japan. I met her last year at Weerasakrack Muay Thai gym in Tokyo, September 2023 during our Muay Thai training session and she acted as a translator for me to a tradesperson working at the gym which then led onto having a really great unforgettable conversation with her before I had to dash to DisneySea. I was thinking about her before TH-cam algorithm recommended me this videos and instantly recognised her on the thumbnail. If you're are reading this Aju, many greetings from your Australian friend, Z
You’re right she is a boxer too! She’s such a nice woman.
@@OrientalPearl Agreed and a very down to Earth woman! I am looking forward to seeing her more in your future videos👍
She seems like a lovely person. If I return to Japan I'd like to train with her.
Awww thank you for your kind words 🥺
I remember you!!
Hope you are doing well:)
@@OrientalPearl Will you now go to Africa and ask the Asians and Europeans how they're treated there? It's only fair.
As anothe half Japanese raised in Japan, I never ever want to move back. It was hard watching this, but thank you for filming and being so vulnerable! Loved the video.
you're not really Japanese for the same reason that no one considers Barack Obama to be a white man
Why would you never move back?
I feel like you didn't watch the video. This poster is also half. They are not treated well or accepted in Japan. And I can say from observation that it's particularly bad for people who are half African descent. Racism is real, but in Japan it's culturally accepted@@jadenquest9544
@@jadenquest9544i am going to make a guess and say discrimination and misogyny.
@@martafiord It's what makes Japan extremely based and comfy :)
Same in Australia, I'm mixed, Indigenous Father, European Australian Mother. Not really accepted by either side.
I was raised by my father's mother, speak Erubam Le Mir, TSI Kreole and Aussie English.
Struggled with acceptance during my childhood, teenage years and 20's, early 30's I was like far kit...I'm me and require acceptance from no one. 😊
I’ll accept you.
🤍🤍🤍
Fk everyone else✨ lmao
You’re gonna be okay 🥰
I feel like you'd fit in with the new Zealanders ! They have a strong Native culture from what I heard
Actually very unique and interesting mix
@freezeoff6980 I'm like the mixed race of the world, Father - Erubam Le, Meriam, Jamaican, Moorish, Badu, Kabi Kabi, Butjula, Rotuma, Paruma, Kiwai, Malaysian, New Caledonia, Vanuatu, Anglo-Saxon
Mother - Viking, Norseman (Central & Northern Europe). I can go back 400yrs on my father's side and one generations on my mother's side...
I loved this video very much then.
This girl looks like a strong tuff baddie from a cool anime. So yeah. They're blind!!! You're stunning
@@vortexnutwhaleThey may be, but even if they are you're only making your self look like a jack ass. She's definitely pretty, regardless of anything else.
@@vortexnutwhale wow what is your problem
@@vortexnutwhalegirl..Just stop-
Yea, reminds me of Ed and Al’s sensei from Fullmetal Alchemist.
@@vortexnutwhalewith your name and all your other negative comments leads one to speculate on whether you are simply just jealous that this girl is absolutely gorgeous and carries herself with grace , is nice and seems like a fun person to be around. And before you start in with your "simp" stuff again I am an old heterosexual female that is comfortable enough in my own femininity to acknowledge another womans' beauty instead of trying to tear someone else down to try to make myself feel better because they have things that I lack. With your input here along with your other remarks in the comments section of just this video you painted such a clear and vivid portrait of envy that all the green is used up. Try to add some colors of kindness, compassion, empathy etc. into your life, if not for those interact with you at least do it for yourself. I don't know if this is how you are normally, if you're going through a rough time or just having a bad day, but I sincerely hope you feel happier soon. I will pray for you and if you just need to talk to someone and vent about something in your life but don't feel comfortable talking to someone you know, I'm a stranger that would be willing to listen. I understand you will be upset for being called out for your bad behavior. The young lady in this video will probably read all the comments and this is your chance to offer an apology and maybe an explanation. And like I said, if you need someone to vent to, I am willing to listen.
I’m a man and the first thing that came to mind when I heard her say she’s never dated, was she needs to relocate. As beautiful as she is, she’s not benefiting by staying where she’s at. I hope that this girl has the ability to travel the world, so she can move past this stigma she’s stuck in. She’s so forgiving and understanding towards the constant harassment she’s endured, and clearly she’s adapted some good life skills that are influenced of decorum and huge respect towards others.
Was thinking the same. Most Japanese men prefer to date Asian women and most foreigners are there to hunt for Japanese women and live out their Hentai fantasies
why did you add the part dating ?
I completely agree with your sentiment. She appears to be well-educated and cultured. There are open minds everywhere, but Japanese culture might not foster inclusivity when it comes to ethnic diversity.
I hope she is able to prosper and to transcend her culture’s tradition of somewhat closed-mindedness.
It would probably be so overwhelming for her in a place like New York where she’d get hit on constantly.
The suggestion for her to be able to travel had nothing to do with her being hit on by men. It was for her to be able to go and experience how much bigger the world is than the one she’s stuck in currently. I mean no disrespect towards anyone, but no girl should ever feel ignored like she’s feeling or have to hear these negative condescending ignorant comments she has no control over. It’s unfair that she has to feel like this when clearly she’s so kind towards people and able to smile while out in public. People having to go through such harsh criticism often seem to have a negative effect with interaction skills especially in public.
She broke my heart when she said she has never been in a relationship 😢 She is such a pretty girl with a great heart. Thank you for doing this interview and giving her a platform to express her feelings ❤
If anything, that makes her more Japanese, not less.
Why break a heart over something that millions of people experience? That's life in an Evolutionary society that tells you your ancestors were pond scum.
That only makes her even more Japanese to be honest
She is gay though
It happens that you have never had a romantic relationship, many young girls and boys experience this, it is not something abnormal
Hi Aju! I am from The Bahamas and I just want to say that I am sorry you experience the things that you do in Japan, a country where you were born and raised! You are a very beautiful person and I hope that one day you find true true love...even if you have to come to The Bahamas to find it! :)
Japan, and other Asian countries believe that their race is superior compared to every other race, and thus should not create, and spread mixed races! I hear this all the time.
Feeling like a foreigner in your own home is a bad feeling
Imagine being black in America lmao!
Happening in canada, USA, UK, France etc now.
Guess why.
@@FocusedFighter777 because despite of all medical advances white ppl live shorter lives EVOLUTION ITS WHAT THEY CALL IT
Ye, I agree
People in Moscow thought I'm Chinese or Japanese and started talking to me in kind of those languages (Just Nihao, Konnichiwa and etc basic words) or looking at me as if I'm "exotic". Felt kind of weird, since I can speak Russian and spent whole life in this country, just native of one of the republics
Imagine how black folks feel in America
I was really surprised to hear that your dad is from the Bahamas. I live in Morocco and I am also from the Bahamas. Because the population of the Bahamas is so small, it is unusual to find Bahamians in other countries.
You really made my day, Best wishes to you and your family.
That's where Fabolous and Dj Khaled have Diddy combs combing for parties, makes sense why she's not Japanese by soul
@@beastmodejelly8654 And where's your proof of this?
@@mozambiquehere5903 the wake. They don't even hide it since they got exposed way before this, like a zombie outbreak
242 to the world
Crazy how us Bahamians be branching out
I have lived and worked in Japan off and on most of my adult life. I dont see a lot of problems, but i am not mixed as well. One story does stick in my mind though. I was on a train from Yokosuka to Shinagawa several years back. Two older Japanese ladies sat across from a friend and I most of the trip. I speak Japanese but they didnt know that (I am white, typical looking American). Most of the way they were saying things like we were dirty foreigners and we shouldnt be here and things of that nature. Just rude things from people that think they are the only ones that know what they are talking about around foreign people. As we were getting off I spoke in very polite Japanese to them and Said " In the future you may want to keep your voices down because you never know who may be listening. I hope you have a pleasant day". Both of them turned ghost white, got up and went to the back of the train. My friend asked what I said, and I told him as we got off. It was pretty amazing.
Good for you for still being respectful. It’s hard to be respectful in those moments. I remember I was in England and my dad over heard an English woman talking to her child. The child was complaining about being on a train and the English said “will in America they have boogies and carts” she wasn’t making a joke and looked quite serious. My dad who isn’t even American lol, went up and told that person to not spread lies about other countries like that. It’s strange, it happens everywhere.
No offense if you’re British.
Well done being the bigger person.
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@elizabethrose6943
No offence whatsoever. Your experience was typical of Western European attitudes to America (not just Britian).
It exists for many reasons. Some of it is jealousy, but also because of perception of American ignorance, and that you lack culture and refinement.
It may also help to understand that Western Europe is often shocked and appalled, by issues you have gun control and abortion which we have long moved on from.
Trump has made this worse, and Andy Europe has to America is probably less than it has ever been.
I have family in New England (half sister is American/british), and know you should not be defined like this. My experience is that you are some the kindest and particularly the most hospitable people I have met in the world. I have experienced this from both sides of your political spectrum.
I have been told by many friends, and it is my experience to that Britian is one of those culturally and ethnically accepting nations on earth. It wasn’t even a thing for example, that a recent PM was of Asian origin. What you experienced was a unique attitude towards Americans, which is driven by some jealousy, and superiority complex based on simplified stereotype.
3:33 Tell this lady to move to Houston. If she spends 1 week in Houston she’ll be engaged! She is a Texas 10. She is the beauty standard in my community-light skin, foreign, long hair, loose curls, biracial, and bilingual.
Yeah I live in Lake Jackson. It would be a nice place for her for sure
This..... Isn't the flex you think it is.
Like "move to Houston! We love a splash of Black, but not too much! Just enough to fetishize..."
America is trash. Leave her alone. USA is just a dump and she will surely live racism there as well.
She looks so badass like she wouldn’t take shit from anyone but then when you see her talk and her actions she’s really shy, like on 6:04 when she’s blushing because they are clapping for her. She’s so precious! ❤️
"she looks so badass like she wouldn't take shit from anyone" typical black woman behavior, she is indeed strong we command that, Gorila levels of strong if left unchecked
I know!! You see a tall tattooed girl who practices boxing and you're like "omg I better not mess with her" but she's so sweet
Probably a lot different when she's angry. Night and day
True😊
@@idfkidc you watch too many movies and KKK politics. Rock on
It must be so hard to have to deal with that from everyone she meets, but she handles it so gracefully.
If she wasn’t African all would be well for her in Japan
she got arm tatts...and looks like an aggressive lady.......Japanese are the most conservative people on earth.....they make bible belt usa look like belligerent rock and rollers.....lol.....
Let me say this there are days like this in the video where you smile it away and deal with it because it's pretty normal but there are also days where you won't have to tell everybody your life story and just wanna be treated like everybody else
They are not "rejecting" her, in this video, they just assume that she comes from outside Japan.
I'm not saying that racism or doesn't exist in Japan like anywhere else; But, unless it's motivated by hatred, asking where you come from or what your origins are isn't racism, it's curiosity. People do that with me all the time because of my first and last name.
Is it annoying? Not for me, as people getting interested in me is better than people ignoring me. I also ask others what their origins are, it's a good conversation starter.
The girl may be very nice, but she is full of tatoos and shey's got the look to squat in front of a combini. She isn't doing her best to get Japanese people spontaneously coming to talk to her.
Let me be honest, it’s so normal for me that I don’t see it as problem 😂
I don’t even care cuz I have my amazing people around me and I find peace in me so I have no problems at all😊💚
That’s why I’m smiling in the video obviously😂😬
The young woman, who looks more Japanese than the other, is asked where she's from while the other is complimented on her ability to speak the Japanese language. Wow!
They love complimenting white people and look down on others.
Because it's difficult to guess where she's from. I bet you'd also ask her if you didn't know her.
@@絶望ガール-v3s I never assume anything about someone’s nationality based on appearance. Not something you can base on looks. Exactly why I would never have a child in a mono-ethnic society.
@@LMLification But you do assume it based on other things? What's the difference?
@@絶望ガール-v3s No, I don’t. I always ask…
She is an absolute gem! Perfect mix of culture and understanding. You can tell there is a softness and a savage in her grit. May she blossom well and find her place in this world, on instinct.
I really like how she handles the situation. Especially when she mention at the end of the day its about "loving yourself"....well said !
Don2846 She didn’t handle any situation the poor girl was sad and disappointed with all Japanese idiotic racism
Hope she can meet a guy who loves her for what she is because she seems to be a kind and good hearted person ❤️❤️❤️❤️
There seems to be a deep sadness in this beautiful girl. 🥺
Yes, because of social isolation. 😢 I would love her from all of my heart. ❤
she should move to los angeles....she be an average girl here ....of course she get bothered by every dude here...lol
@@spawnrcandbikes...Hawaii would be a better location rn
It's in every mixed person. They will always be rootless struggling with identity problems.
good
My wife is half Japanese on her mother's side. Her parents were married in Japan and nobody would rent them an apartment so they lived her mother's parents. They were often refused service at restaurants. They eventually moved to the US. This was the early 60's and it must be much better now.
So ignorant.
I hope it so much better.
Japanese are more accepting towards Caucasian white than dark skin people. It's the African they reject their people from intermixing. smh
@@dudewonderful7165 It's so much better now. The bank gave ME a loan to buy a house 12 years ago.
I'm not surprised. See how they denied a doctor for the sri Lankan girl in jail who died as a result. And watch Japanese embrace Ukrainian people.
I literally subscribed because this a topic no one covers or talks about enough. It's absolutely insane.
How can ppl think she’s NOT Japanese??? She has the distinct mannerisms that only come from being born & raised in Japan & she’s adorable when she covers her smile with her hand. Classic Japanese habit. ❤😊
Well i guess when you live as an island nation shut out to foreigners for 800 years you get set in your ways.
Racism
I do the same thing 😭 I'm not Japanese.
I do that too and I'm not Japanese.
Because SHE´S NOT. Not African and not Japanese. It´s a MIX. Nothing wrong with that. A Chinese person can´t be Japanese too. Not even after 80 years living in Japan.. 95% of all countries on the planet are like that. Totally NORMAL. You cant change your ethnicity. it´s not possible. USA, Canada and Australia dont count as a Country because ALL of them are foreigner. They suppressed all the natives there. And west Europe are suffering the same right now. MORE people of color (like ME) and less Natives.
I suffering the same issue. I´m Portuguese but born and raise in Germany. But i will NEVER be a German. That´s not possible. And i never went to Portugal. And i have 0 Portuguese friends. Imagine being on another planet and force Aliens to be accepted as one of them. That´s not possible. We all have the same Value but we are not the same. And it´s not a bad thing...
She is such a kind hearted woman and appears to be so caring and it's sad to hear what she's gone through and still goes through I'm sure there are plenty of good men interested in her (Myself included) That would love to be in a relationship with her. Keep both of your heads up and know that nothing is impossible when you have brains, beauty, and the heart that both of you have. 💯
Ok but she is stunning. The confidence, the attitude, the laugh and having the hate roll off her shoulders.
Literally a heart stopper for me
the little girl at 13:33 looking up to aju, that's actually the cutest moment for me. it just seems that she sees somebody who looks alike. i think we all need representations of ourselves in slightly older versions to know we have a right to exist and to be bright and good looking and cool as this lovely blasian woman. one day all of humanity will be mixed anyway, it's just a glance into the future, maybe for some that's scary idk. if people won't come to their senses on their own, i'm very hopeful that love will transcend racism and xenophobia, bringing us closer to the world we're capable of creating
To the Miss, I wish you much love and happiness. Thank you for taking this time to let us know about your life.
I can relate a lot to her. I am mixed, korean & African American. Growing up Caucasians kept me at arms length, they were always friendly but none really ever approached on their own. African Americans would keep their distance as well & look at me funny. As I’ve grown up in a mostly Korean-American household, I have had several people come up to me & said that “you don’t act like us” or “you don’t act black”. Which I have never liked that because why would you have to act a certain way just cause of your skin tone, I just act as myself. Finally, when it comes to Koreans, I can’t speak Korean but I have learned how to translate. Koreans did not want to interact with me at all & just saw me as this “black person” and that made me incredibly sad growing up. I could understand them & hear them talking about me, how they were cautious of me & say keep an eye on me whenever I was in a store. It was only if I went with my Korean American mother or Korean grandmother who can speak Korean, they would speak in Korean with the clerks & employees. After introducing me then they would be like “Oh, so she’s your daughter/grand daughter? She’s Korean too?”. A few would remember me afterwards, & be friendly with me whenever I stopped by, others either didn’t remember or didn’t care and treated me the same as before. I still experience all these types of interactions from all races to this day. I only have a few friends but they treat me like me & see me for me, I also have a loving husband now that embraces my culture. I have come to just ignore the negative situations now, & continue to surround myself with people that love & cherish me deeply.
Korean and black. If you can say Caucasian you can say black. There's more than just "Caucasian".
@@MegaHzz sorry if using the word “Caucasian” offended you in any way. I use that word cause i refuse to call Caucasian’s “white people”, just as I also refuse to call people of darker skin “black people”. I have been hurt by others being called so, so I do my best not to hurt others in the same ways as they have hurt me and to be as respectful as I can. Again, sorry if my use of the word has offended you or any others. I was moved by this wonderful lady’s story and wanted to share my own. Best of wishes to all.
@@NenikoKitty you do not have to apologize for using the word Caucasian its the politically correct term for that race of people.
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Shoot, I am fully an American descendant of slaves. I use proper English and know how to conduct myself in public. And they say I act white too. 🤷
You know I am Japanese living in the US for more than 50yrs and at first I tried to become like them to fit in but it was just not going to happen so I learned to accept who I am and be myself. if you are confident in who you are and love yourself most of all ppl around you will accept you as well...praying for you and best wish!!!!! :))
Glad to here, and know this American accepts you.
Same here Sir! I'm not japanese and I'm living here in Japan for more than 15 years, and become like them was not going to happen too. I always think stay who you are, and don't mind those people. The important thing is that you can communicate with them properly thats it.❤
Not always. You can love yourself, be confident and still feel a sadness/deep void because the people /place you live in just isn't warm and welcoming. As humans we need to feel connection with thise around us.. ..our systems are made to connect.
@@reenasat I wonder though, is it not that you must also be open to loving others, too?
One can love themselves while not feeling so much draw or love for other humans - feeling wary and guarded (which does occur for understandable reasons in some cases) towards them.
We are social beings but we are also socialized in many ways which stymie our own inclinations towards one another. And we don't always even pay attention to this fact of life, just keep our noses to the grindstones and our heads down and keep going on about our 'normatives' and usuals.
I’m Bangali American and I love going to the Midwest and talking to old whites. Sometimes they are a little uncomfortable, but rarely are they bad people who actually hate you. They may have even wrong assumptions and ideas ingrained in them, but you just like them are a product of your environment. Talking and having the confidence to over look their ideas will make a positive impact, instead of feeling less than and offended
She seems like such a kind person, like someone you would want as your friend.
This is so fascinating to me. Thank you for taking the time to film these videos for us
As a half japanese i TOTALLY understand, agree and feel you 😂 I wasn't born here but I've lived in the island 60% of my life! let's be tomodachis Aju ✌️
what is your other half breed, dog。 仲良くしてね
@@Doutor_Maravilhadude?? 😟
@@Doutor_MaravilhaSays a white internet troll who is obsessed with Japanese culture because he doesn’t actually have one of his own? 😂 pathetic.
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You must be a child.
@@Doutor_Maravilhaclearly we know who the dog is, you just barked like one
She's gorgeous - to be honest: she looks like a Hawaiian princess to me! She might get along with the Hawaiians much better, plus there are a lot of Japanese people also, so she has both cultures in one place.....😉💜✌️
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Agreed, she wouldn't be lonely in Honolulu or Kona...
I hope Aju is reading the comments. If you haven't been to Honolulu, go! It is such a melting pot.
Does Hawai still have royalty?
Good point tattoos in Japan got bad association with criminal gangs. And are much more acceptable in Pacific nations.
I just visited Japan for the first time a few weeks ago, the taxi thing is so real! A lot of taxis and Uber drivers won’t drive foreigners, we had a friend who looked Japanese a little (he was Philippino) even ask and as soon as they heard him speak English they’d cross their hands and say “NO!” 🙅🏼♀️ saw that temple also 😁 Asakusa ❤ was awesome 👏🏻
Thanks for sharing your experience. I can add Japan to the list of countries I don’t need to visit. I’ll keep my money to myself. 😊
Been to japan for the first time last month. I was traveling solo and got a kind of gaijin blues. People would avoid sitting next to me on trains or in a public bath. I've been studying japanese for a while now and can hold my own in basic conversation or interacting with store clerks, but I've experienced people not realizing I was talking in japanese and replying back in broken english. I can only imagine what that has to be like when you are native and lived there your whole life.
Also, Aju seems like a wonderful person. Don't let it get to you, Aju.
Tokyo is also a lot less friendly than other places in Japan. Usually the biggest landing city in a country is where the meanest people are ton foreigners (London, Paris, New York City), or to people in general. It’s usually the most fast paced place with grumpy overworked people who feel they pay way too much for things compared to the rest of their country, and they resent the tourists because they believe the tourists are the reason why everything is “tourist prices,” and for crowding their public events and public resources. There are nice people in Tokyo, but you’re also more likely to run into people who just have a bad attitude, even for a polite society like Japan’s.
Generally, people get a friendlier welcome in places like Kyoto, Osaka, Sapporo, and other major Japanese cities outside of Tokyo. You can visit some of the shrines and check out the fox forest and cat island, go on a sleep capsule overnight train. They’re generally friendlier in settings further away from the main hub of Tokyo. So many travelers have talked about this on youtube, definitely worth taking a look at some of what they have to say on this topic.
Also, as for replying in English, try not to take it too personally. I can definitely understand how that would be frustrating for a Japanese person who was born and raised there, and I really hope that Japan starts to recognize their interracial minorities a little more. However, for most tourists, when they reply in English, they’re not doing this to insult you, they actually believe they are doing you a kindness and a favor. Try to keep in mind that probably a majority of the tourists they see every year don’t speak Japanese at all or only speak very little, but by contrast, Japanese people have been speaking their “broken English” for decades as part of their job serving tourists. They believe they’re giving you good customer service and trying to be respectful. Try not too get too sad or take offense at someone doing something with good intentions, they’re just trying to do their job. When Japanese people first moved to western countries as immigrants, hotels and restaurants and even some trains absolutely refused to serve them at all and would leave signs out saying “no [expletive slur for Asian people]” for business.
Just a little perspective. It could be a lot worse, and the Japanese people speaking English to you are just trying to meet you halfway and they mean well.
I think that broken English Japanese speaks is better than your broken Japanese for communicating each other.
If you want to talk them in Japanese,
I recommend "Nihongo de oneguy simath" that means "Speak J please.".
@@matuiyo2000 I did not mean it as an insult when I said "broken english", should have worded it better. I get your point.
@@kathleencove Yeah, that's true. I actually went partly to practice my japanese after learning for 3 years, so it was a little disheartening at first.
I think If people asked me in my country in my native language I might do the same unintuitively.
I eventually had some nice conversations in japanese after all in some bars in Osaka.
Her honesty is very appealing - I hope Aju meets the right person and has a wonderful life, Thanks for the cool video
Aju seems adorable, I hope when she’s ready she meets someone who loves her for her as she’s awesome, she’s so pretty, well mannered and seems like she has a positive outlook on life, I bet she’d be a great person to hang out with x
Amazing video. And Aju is equally amazing. I'm American of Mexican descent, and recently discovered I'm 4th generation Okinawan on my paternal side. Apparently my great-grandfather and his brother emigrated to Mexico in the early 1900s as contract workers in Northern Mexico. I love watching your videos, especially clips such as these about bi-racial folks in Japan. Keep them coming!!!
So the white woman is not questioned when speaking Japanese but Aju, who looks Japanese with a beautiful twist is? And they lose their minds when Aju speaks but to me she looks extremely Japanese. The little bit of Black she has turns them off but blond and pale white is no problem. Please help me make sense of this. She lived her entire life being rejected it’s normal. Glad she will travel soon. She is a beautiful young lady.
I think some of these people have already met Pearl though.
More whites go to Japan, and from what I can tell there's not as many blacks that learn Japanese.
Where I'm from at least, blacks kind of have had to hide it if they're into Japanese culture or anime. It's seen as nerdy/white by other black people. It's nowhere near as bad as it used to be though. But I'd say confederate flag waving rednecks came around to Japanese stuff sooner than blacks.
Because Japanese people view black people more the same way racist white people would. Even though in Japan xenofobia counts for every foreigner, white people are more favored and therefore often treated less badly than poc foreigners. It also has to do with the beauty standard that favors white skin over darker skin.
@@zhongliswallet6241 yes. correct, blacks do not have a place in japan truly speaking, it is okay to cry if you are black but tuth needs to be settled
East asians are brainwashed by white media
I am so glad I am not the only one who caught that Even at the beginning when they were at the shop . The Japanese woman was looking at Aju when she was looking at the bag . I pay attention to people's body language And I think it is so sad and sick that people put someone up on a pedestal . Who's the complete opposite of you . Rather than someone who is closer genetically to you just because they are part black
If I was a younger, single man in Japan and I encountered this woman I would like to think I would have the courage to ask this woman out. She is simply gorgeous and has a life story to tell. May she find love some time soon. Both she and the other will benefit from the experience.
I said the same thing. Whonever captures her will be a lucky man.
to be fair, if i met her, I thought she liked girls because of her tom-boy appearance. I wouldn't even approach even though she's cute because I would think there's no point.
She probably does get asked out just not from who she wants...
@@Andy-i6fu dmb fuck she got no reason to lie
I've messed around with Kendamas a bit and can say those were some nice moves she did in front of the store after buying it... She definitely level 5!😊👏🏾
I was impressed. I could barely play at all.
面白い顔 😂😊 i mean it in the nicest way. i only remembered "kao" means face so i got this off google translate 😅
I would imagine it is probably somewhat easier for those who are Japanese-White mixed and especially Japanese mixed with some other Asian ethnicity. Being Japanese-Black probably makes you stand out the most due to the darker skin. Add the tattoos to that equation, which tend to be less accepted in Japan than it most other countries due to their association with Yakuza and criminal activities, and it seems like a recipe for the loneliness she feels. As much as she loves Japan, she might be happier somewhere like Hawaii, where there is both a fairly large Japanese community (16% of the population), and where she would fit in better with native Hawaiians due to the mix of Japanese and Black looking somewhat Polynesian.
Totally agree!
as long as you're Japanese passing you're okay, not necessarily white mixed, some latin american - japanese can pass off their strict standards cuz they think they're tanned and from Okinawa, but indeed black is always seen as below every mix.
I'm from Mexico and black mexicans struggle in some areas, especially in areas dominated by light skinned or white mexicans, add to that the recent migration from Haitians, some racists white apologists have started to demonize anyone looking black, this ppl are fans of Trump supporters ideologies and pissed off we now elected a jewish woman as the next President, so they will take any chance to put the propaganda wagon into action
And those cultures are accepting of tattoos!!
Bt she doesn’t have dark skin her skin is literally the same color as them she is far from a brown color
@@sarahbrown3938 she is dark, Japanese people are white some even whiten their skin further. A tanned Japanese person wouldn't quite reach her tone either, nothing is wrong with her skin it's just obviously darker than theirs.
Does Anju have a youtube channel? I so want to see more of her... she is like a fountain of compassion.
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@@AjuchanTV I hope you are well Aju! I think you’ll love it in Honolulu, it has a strong Japanese prescence but because it is also a melting pot they are a lot more open.
@@AjuchanTVyou'd love it home in The Bahamas 🇧🇸 too. It'll be a culture shock but different.
@@AjuchanTVyou're a gem 🇧🇸
Fascinating, touching, and charming. More power to you, Aju!
This reminds me of an anecdote I heard from an American friend of mine. Husband Austrian, business took them to Japan for ten years. Their two sons were born and raised there, and naturally spoke fluent Japanese. The family returned to Austria, and one evening were watching a puppet show here in Vienna, with an audience of mostly Japanese tourists, including children. My friend's sons were bored and started telling dirty jokes in Japanese. The tourist's children in the audience were amazed and called their parents' attention to the white boys speaking Japanese. And the parents _couldn't hear that they were speaking Japanese._ Only their children noticed.
Well done. Cheers from rainy Vienna, Scott
OMG she is so beautiful! I hate to hear that this has been her experience. I hope and pray that she will have the experience of having someone truly love her and see her! She is such a value to us in this world and has so much to offer it. I can only imagine how she’s felt, but I hope she knows that she is seen and heard here by many.
She has such beautiful hair and a beautiful personality. You're so kind to her! Some of this is sad yet some of this is promising and happy. This one was hard to watch at times. And I'm glad you're so sweet to her.
She's wonderful...... they are missing out on a very cool person.... very centered in a Zen way....knows who she is...great smile.
"This one was hard to watch at times." Are you from USA by any chance? An exception to the rule of how a nation is build? A homogenous ethnic group is foundation of any healthy society. Can you have racism when everyone is the same? No. Can you have cultural clashes inside homogenous society? No.
@@sitarnut Are we talking about future of Japan still being Japan, or are we going to throw it into trash bin for the sake of few not 100% Japanese people? Westerners have big dificulties with thinking. The world is not USA. Japan's history dates back to 12 000 BC. It's not an artificial western hemisphere state founded in late 18 century.
Y'all need Jesus Christ 🇺🇸✝️🙏🏽
@@Dewydewdirt Y'all need Buddha in your life ⛩🙏
She’s just a Japanese who lived in the Hidden Cloud village.
No she is experiencing ridiculous racism from dumb Japanese people
Wow, so beautiful! Also when you smile you look soo japanese! Love how you turn everything around by seeing who people really are instead of selfdiscrimination! Full power and much love! Peace
She seems like a wonderful young lady. I hope and pray things get better for her. Thank you for the video.
Another amazing video. Thank you, Anming!
Racism is everywhere & that sucks! She’s so beautiful and smart & sweet.
I would lean more towards Prejudice more then Racism. Like they said... Japan is "98% ethnically the same" so they don't come across us as often(mostly Tourist), so their only view of how we are comes from really bad examples/propaganda from Hip Hop and popular culture in the US.
White people have more of positive depicted in popular culture and TV which probably contributes to how the Japanese will approach a Caucasian foreigner vs a African American or a Mixed Race Japanese Native.
@@lilrizqwell yes prejudice but you may have seen a few Japanese comments on here asking her what's here other part breed if it was a dog? Is that also still prejudice?
Point is, they are a modern country, they have a heavy American influence, they have that exposure and all they need to know, so we can't say it's because they are predominantly this or that so a racial attitude is excused as mere prejudice.
@@lilrizq I don't know how you could possibly say that. White people are constantly depicted as evil and corrupt on TV shows and especially in pop culture. Black people are depicted as the greatest beings ever to walk the Earth. Japanese people don't live in the Amazon jungle with no contact of any kinds of civilization. They're intelligent people with access to the real world and know for a fact that Black people, more than any other race, are constantly committing violence and/or accusing anyone that doesn't treat them as special beings, as racist.
@@senadirect Japanese people don't have to justify the way they think in Japan. Japan is for Japanese people and they have every right to keep it that way. Imagine going to some primitive tribe in the middle of the Amazon jungle and complaining to them about their culture and that they should accept your way of doing things. Maybe cut down all those trees and build a McDonald's and a Walmart in the jungle....
Stop spreading the lie of racism , no one has the responsibility to accept who you are.
Appreciate the informative & insightful content!🙏🙏🙏
13:34 Aw a little girl who looks half black half japanese walked by and looked up at Aju
nicely spotted you eagle-eye person! whoa!
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I love this channel! Been following Pearl since she had few followers. It’s amazing to see the growth! This episode was so intriguing and insightful.
The network you are building is amazing! You are doing such a wonderful thing bringing awareness to an "attitude" or "behavior" that someone may not even think about. For each of the people who treat her different, they only might have seen her once.... but, its everyday and everybody she meets for her... Your videos are full of beautiful and interesting people.. Please keep them coming... smiles abound! From Tennessee, USA
Thank you! I’m planning more interview like this right now.
Love your outlook on life particularly loving yourself more than being affected by others thoughts of you. Best wishes!
Fantastic interview!! I really appreciate your work. One of the best journalists and field reporting I have ever seen.
Thank you so much!
You are very welcome
The fact that this GODDESS has never been in a relationship is crazy.. 3:12 made my mouth drop. So SO SO beautiful
It's no different for us over here in Europe. I regularly get 'compliments' about how well I speak the native language, even though, like Aju, I was born and raised here. It's not a compliment, it's just another reminder of how you see me as different.
I know France is bad for this in particular but I'm not sure what other countries in Europe do this, what country do you live in if you don't mind me asking?
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@@Katimulator probably the UK...
Japanese people are wayyy more xenophobic than europeans
We had right wing racist riots… I am not proud of the noisy minority that we have here
Racism is horrible!!! It causes damage to the mind heart spirit. She's such a pretty girl I hope she has a blessed life.
このvideoのおかげで知見が広がりました！人を見た目だけで判断しないこと、自分のふるまいに一層気をつけなければいけないなと思いました！
Why are so many japanese mean to this nice person who was raised in Japan?
あーまた1人グローバリスト思想の犠牲になった...
Closed mindedness of islanders.
@@kellen7425 Not a lot of diversity in ethnic background in Japan so not a lot of people know how to handle that due to societal norms and expectations for fitting in with the group and not standing out too much. Its not necessarily that every single person tries to be actively mean, its more ignorance and lack of diversity education in a place lacking diversity--just like how many Japanese people in the country may not have an understanding of disability. Notice how the people in the video were surprised she even spoke the language or had a culturally-relatable background. I'm sure there are plenty of mean people though, as there are in the U.S. The whole stigma around tattoos in certain parts of Japan doesn't help much either.
lmao, you need a "video" to learn some common sense? unbelievable
Always a treat when I find time to watch one of your videos.
Glad to hear it!
I’ve been following your channel for a while now, and I love it ❤❤❤❤❤
How you present different situations in Japan that you take me into your heart of Japanese life, truly beautiful. Thank you so much ❤
Thank you Karl.
You're amazing!!!!! I love that you shared this!!!!!
Thank you so much, Oriental Pearl, for giving these folks the space to tell their authentic stories. I think it's helpful for us foreigners to understand their struggles and triumphs & I bet it's a great level of catharsis for them! Please keep it up!
Being half Japanese/half Samoan,born & raised in Australia...i get it
But im blessed to have 2 cultures,3 language upbringing & im totally proud of it!
We get all this uncertainty from all sides,from every background.
I got it badly in the U.S,making fun in my face,but that ignorance is on them,not me.
I have friends who use to be one of the uncertain,until they got to know me.
Like it is said "The weak fear the things they dont know"
Stay strong sister
You are beautiful inside & out.
Dont blame a country as a whole for a few arroant people.
Everywhere in the world is like that.
I think Australia has far more mixed race people than Japan so it is slightly different in countries where more exist. There’s still ignorance everywhere though. If she came to London she would be batting the men away so much it would be annoying for her 😂😂😂😂
Is you mom Samoan?
It's more than a few okay .. let's not minimize the hatred.
But Japanese try to be a pure race so they have prejudiced against everybody else especially Koreans and Chinese.
Like there are a lot of half black half Vietnamese in Vietnam and half white half Vietamese there as well. They really get a lot of prejudice.
Wow she’s beautiful! Inside and out. I agree with her she made need to leave Japan to find happiness. 0:10
I disagree i don't think she's that pretty.
@@celestial_s I think you're blind
From the visuals alone, she's BEAUTIFUL!!!!! It's sad about the inherent societal bias of people. We must do better.
As a black American man, I would ask her out in a heartbeat. She is beautiful.
Me too
Just stop it that girl is clearly acts like a boy. She wouldn't put on a dress look how she walks. Tom boy all those tattoos on her arms.
She doesn't care but she said she hasn't had a date. Girl up.
BBCs to the rescue! 😊
Not surprising 😅😅😅
Of course u would
The world has a problem of thinking their perception of the world is the only way the world works. We as humans would be so much better off being more humble and work on expecting the unexpected. We know so little yet think we know the world so when something or someone “different” comes around, it surprises us. When in reality, this is normal existence, we have just been small minded.
This young woman is so charming, smart, and beautiful! Watching this video I felt my muscles tighten as if I didn’t want to take up space in the world. Like I wanted to get out of the way. I’m not sure if that’s because she was feeling that way or I’m projecting how I may feel if I were in her situation. But I hope she gets an opportunity soon to fully be her incredible, intelligent, and beautiful self. I hope she has or finds a group of people who accept and embrace her and finds a place where she feels she belongs. Wherever that is, they will be lucky to have her!
It's a country predominantly Japanese it's not like America which has literally everything
Thanks for sharing our vantage point Chelsea! this was sweet, genuine, & well said!
One of my favorite videos. All the laughing and just enjoying the day was infectious. Aju is going to have to start knocking the boys away now.
I’m glad you liked this one so much.
A real good friend of mine, a long time ago, when she returned from her travels asked me, " Hey Bliss, do you know what's worse then being unable to communicate in another country? ....being unable to to connect & form meaningful dialogue right here, in my own country". I never truly understood the meaning of her message until now, after watching this video. Aju - please forgive people such as myself that oftentimes are unable to think/feel beyond their own situation. I think you are a beautiful person and I wish wish you great success.🙌
Japan, and other Asian countries believe that their race is superior compared to every other race, and thus should not create, and spread mixed races! I hear this all the time.
Bless you beautiful young lady. X
It’s a sad story that makes me feel so sad. She’s a beautiful girl and so sweet. I wish all the best to her❤
Her mother didn't really think it through. Very selfish and cruel or maybe just dumb. She should probably move to some mixed country like Brazil
I am mixed 1/2 Japanese as well. From what I remember from spending 1 year in Japan in 1981-82 was that the Japanese associate anyone tattooed with the Yakuza. I met and had friends who were Yakuza in Obihiro so learned a little about the culture surrounding that way of life. I wish you the best in your search for happiness 🙏
Even in 2017, when I stayed at a hotel that had a hotspring in it, it specifically had a rule about no one with tattoos being allowed in. My guess it was for the same reason and I wondered if a foreigner walked in with tattoos if they would say anything.
other cultures don't glamorizes admixtures, except blkppl. Other cultures understand the importance of loving your own and building with them
@@roséiswine8294 irrelevant to the comment.
@@max_rove I stated facts. If you disagree , just move along. My comment wasn't for you 😑
@@roséiswine8294actually black ppl don’t glamorize it either . That’s another stereotype and someone on the outside looking in. Listening to hip hop will make you think that but black ppl don’t even like that shit but some are forced to live that life! Now that’s facts!! Hell some black people won’t even associate with you if you living like that. Your comment was very racist and prejudice.
SHE IS STUNNING! They don't know what they're missing out on!
They do.☕😎
It's mostly the tats they hold a cultural stigma in Japan due to the Yakuza then there is the double wammi of looking like A Foreigner and not Native Japanese
She damn is. I'd love to ask her out ngl.
Shaming people who want to keep their culture and not become like the western world is not a good thing. Why do progressives want every country to be the same melting pot?
@@ZeroChillAritaShe’s also taller than the average Japanese man. And it doesn’t help that she’s a martial artist and has a muscular frame.
She’d be beautiful in the US. But in Japan, the beauty standards are different
2:14 no cap I’d act like I genuinely only knew Japanese
In Korea, even when people are fluent in Korean but look non-native, people use broken English to talk to them. It seems like Koreans who do this are excited about an opportunity to practice the speaking English or they see it as a way to connect with a foreigner or they see it as being considerate.
I think this happens in all homogeneous societies.
Same thing happens in Latin America. My mother is german and japanese but born and raised in Costa Rica. She is completely fluent in Spanish, but Spanish speakers will speak broken English to her even though she speaks perfect Spanish to them.
@@inquisitvem6723 Yes, I agree entirely.
@@Synth-ud3hl True.
Thats true everywhere. Ppl will take the opportunity to practice their non-native language. We shouldn't assume it's coming from a negative place.
My favorite interaction so far. Wishing good things for both of you😊
(0:36) That word is pronounced "baha-me-an" (or "baha-may-knee-an" in English). The name "Bahamas" is Spanish. Columbus referred to them as the "low tide" (baja mar) islands because their geography is tricky for ships. If you drop anchor at the wrong place, you'll run out of chain and the anchor will be lost--a massive and expensive problem for ships. You need enough water not to get stuck but not too much. For Columbus and his men, the Bahamanian islands had only three spots they could safely drop anchor. Thus the name of the archipelago.
Your wrong its Ba-hay-me-an. Are you Bahamian? Please remember her father is Bahamian and how we pronounce certain words are wildly different from other English speakers.
If you are wondering if I am also Bahamian. Yes I am.😊
@@cookiekun7595 It's "you're wrong". Also, "...is wildly..."
@@WifeWantsAWizard whether or not my grammar is up to standard. My point still stands.
How you gonna tell her how to say where she's from? 😂 That's how we say "Bahamian". The etymology is interesting though, I didn't know that's where it came from
I Know this girl. When I worked as a photographer in Esmod Tokyo
, she was a student there. By far, she was the most kind and friendly student in these school.
I was smiling the whole time! Thank you!
I'm from the England and my wife is Japanese. Our daughter was born and raised in Nagoya but fate would have it she looks completely English, hardly asian looking at all. When I pick her up from school, kids and parents often refer to her as 'Gaikokujin' (foreigner) and I tell them them she was born in the hospital down the road and has lived here all her life. My daughter knows she looks different but doesn't really understand why they say that about her. She gets embarrassed a lot because in reality, after living in Japan for all 6 years of her life, she's way more Japanese than English. But for some reason, if you don't look Japanese, you will always be seen as a foreigner in Japan.
Same in UK if you look mostly Asian
@@larryc1616 Disagree. Never surprised when black, asian, middle eastern people speak English with an English accent. In the big cities, a large percentage of the population are non-white, it's completely normal here.
@gidneybeans I'm talking about race or skin color not how well you speak the language. Poorly educated laypeople are very discriminatory
@@gidneybeans
In Nagoya, the population is largely Japanese. If sound, your reasoning seems to logically contradict your disagreement.
A Japanese American that doesn't speak Japanese will also be seen as a foreigner in Japan.
AAAAA SHES GENUINELY SO STUNNING!!! Her smile is so genuine and her laugh makes you wanna witness it more. I hope someone can see her heart truly and entirely with nothing but pure love!!!
I absolutely love this. Thank you for sharing.
IM BLACK AND NATIVE AMERICAN MIX.
JAPAN HAS EVERY RIGHT TO DO SO.
AND IM GLADE THEY ARE.
THE U.N., U.A. AND THE U.S.A. IS FORCING A CHINESE AGENDA ON OTHER COUNTRIES AND IM GLAD THE JAPANESE ARE NOT STUPID LIKE WE ARE.
a black and native american mix
She's so beautiful and very kind though surprised people miss the opportunity to get to know this amazing lady.
You can say that again ❤
Young Japanese men are clearly insane! That's a very beautiful, intelligent and charming young woman.
They are obviously racist.
simp
The Asians don't want to accept they are black and from Africa..
You clearly have no understanding of Japanese culture.
@@richardkishita2766 I understand humanity mate.
I am from New Zealand and spent a good portion of my 20s in Japan.
I can understand and speak Japanese. I recall many a time being spoken about behind my back or even directly in front of me when people thought I wouldn't understand. I took great pleasure in turning and saying something back in Japanese. The look on their faces. I remember a father explaining to his child that I was like the "one we saw in the zoo"...
I am sorry people were such racists fs. You matter and deserve respect and a great life!
How many ?
Maybe I'm just being too optimistic, but perhaps they meant they saw a New Zealand local at the zoo who looks like you?
Wow.
Are you mixed though?
Lady you are beautiful 💕and the fact that you are half Bahamian 🇧🇸You are gorgeous!! I am Bahamian and we are proud beautiful people!! Much love ❤
Great interview with a lovely young lady :) Many thanks :)
My son-in-law and his two brothers could not inherit anything in Japan from their father because their births in Australia were not registered in Japan. Less of an issue was their mixed race. Each of the three brothers look more or less Japanese. My son-in-law looks Japanese whilst one brother looks Eurasian and another looks like he comes from a Mediterranean country. Luckily, there are over 300 ethnicities in Australia and mixed race children are common so, there are very few issues.
I am sorry for the pain you have endured on their behalf
Great channel, great interview with a beautiful soul.❤
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I really hope she's happy and has peace. They both seem so nice and amazing to talk to
I like when you feel enough confidence to speak Japanese.
Sometimes people saying that "True spirit never die"!
I think You are a true spirit!
Good luck in the future!
Mike from Sweden.
Thank you so much for this, and every. video! ❤❤
My kids who are mixed. Half Japanese half white Italian and they don’t have that much trouble with racism. They told me that there’s a big difference between the way they’re treated and the way their friends who are half black or half other Asian country. For older Japanese skin color seems to be a major factor for them to look down upon or think of them as not being Japanese. I guess also it’s the fact that they’re boys so they’ll talk back very quickly to anyone who steps out a line with them. I’m not saying there are mixed females that don’t do that but it could also play a major factor in the situation. That and my boys are actually pretty tall.
@ThomJohnson-cl9itit's also because their half white which is more socially acceptable in Japan. Blacks are hated worldwide
like most Asian nations there white washed.. anti sun anti god
they have white skin bro... thats the key in japan... many are racist against dark skinned people...
Racial bias has everything to do with racism no height or level of assertiveness is an excuse for racist bad behavior. Your dismissive response is laced in racial bias and the type of response that excuse any experiences with racism so as another assertive person who has experienced racism on a regular basis take a seat bud. @ThomJohnson-cl9it
It’s call white supremacy Carl.
you havr got to do an update on this in the future i cant wait to see her exsperience once ppl know who she is and that she is down to earth
Great channel. I was so close to visiting Japan at one point. I had experience with modeling and in late 2015 I was in contact with Capcom about the facial likeness role of Leon for the Resident Evil 2 Remake. I failed to mention I also have a voice acting background, in the end I lost the part and I can't forgive myself for wasting such an opportunity to visit Asia. Best of luck on your travels
Amigo,you can still go visit Japan,go on a vacation tour I believe you'd LOVE it.
@@kerry-j4m Hi, thanks for the reply!
When you're mixed race, you have a foot in each world. But feel like you're a part of neither , black / irish despite that ive herd literally all of those comments before. It was so frustrating . Like i can remember going to bed as a kid wishing id wake up white. It took me to the age of 24 to embrace the black side of me. I didn't even know how to do my hair.
Wake up white😂😂mixed myself but that made me laugh I understand what your saying like but you should be proud that your white and black (both) can relate to both races n can also identify as one or the other or even both plus mixed race will be the biggest race down the line and it’s good to stick out be boring being the same as everyone
@@ImFloridhey, this isn’t hate and i completely agree with your statement, but you can give someone confidence without dragging others down! :)
@@h_uns1m yeah I’m not trying to drag others down I’m just saying people should be comfortable in there own skin no matter what race/skin colour they are it’s not nice for them to feel that way like but they need to realise that they get the best of both worlds and stick out rather then being the same as a lot of people
I used to feel exactly the same as you. And it’s crazy to me that some mixed people never had to feel like this and grew up not being the only outcast in their town. They don’t know how lucky they are!
Childhood and teenage years shapes you. I love myself now, but it absolutely shaped my personality and how I see the world in a lot of ways.
This is lie because black culture is more accepting than any other culture in the world ! They literally let anyone into their culture
Hey, Bahamian here. Didn't know we got all the way over there back in the day. Cool stuff to be honest
She'd be more accepted at home in The Bahamas 🇧🇸 too.
I’m half Bahamian here too
@ajuchan Loved your video and thanks for being so transparent. I am planning on a trip to Tokyo in a few months and this was helpful.