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  • Often, when someone awakens, their partner is unawakened, so how do you deal with this? In this week’s Ask Christina, I talk about how you should never judge your partner and why, the common misconceptions by those in this situation, and what questions you should ask yourself in this situation. I also touch upon the inner work you can do in order to make the right decisions for both of you.
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  • @TheForestCrone
    @TheForestCrone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    If we're judging those who are unawakened, we're not awake. It's an indication that it's time to go inward, do some more work.

    • @larsstougaard7097
      @larsstougaard7097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Very true 🙏, but it doesn't mean that you have to stay in a relationship ( partner or family) or play small , you are a free soul. Love is being 100 % honest and true to yourself. So yes do some inner work on either to accept others, adjust the relationship for better harmony or simply leave it behind, don't stay in judgment.

    • @heather4089
      @heather4089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      DOESNT mean that we have to stay in a relationship that is making one miserable. Exactly what happened to me, 9 years of abuse and I was not going to stick to that any longer.

    • @hollygilmore9636
      @hollygilmore9636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Usually Christina is right on the mark, but these here comments helped give me perspective more than this video did. Thank you all. 🙏

  • @tessbereczky8964
    @tessbereczky8964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    My partner recognizes that I've gone through an awakening and it has been pulling him toward his own. To watch his personal development over the last few years has been beautiful. He asks the tough questions, he accepts his mistakes and he actually does the work. He has created strong boundaries and has watched longtime relationships that no longer serve him dissolve completely, he stands firm in his power and uses his voice now. I really am amazed and inspired by him.

    • @katwilsey1250
      @katwilsey1250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      His was so beautiful to read

    • @debbieturrise746
      @debbieturrise746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yesss! That's beautiful! Same with mine as well, he's understood my awakening and getting closer to his. Of all my relationships the one with him has become stronger.

    • @Missnenanay
      @Missnenanay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤❤

  • @lightbuilder2673
    @lightbuilder2673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I’ve been married 19 years to a very young soul. For a few years after my own awakening began to progress, my ego definitely felt a bit exasperated held back by him. Eventually, as part of my own awakening experience, I came to realize that he is simply not “wired” for an intense, deep self-awareness. So, I made the choice to consciously recognizing that he is one of the kindest, most genuine people on this planet. We have 4 children who are benefiting greatly from his soul’s “youthful” energy and perspective.
    In my experience, sometimes a young soul can come across as an unawakened one. As Christine said, your ego’s perspective is a great litmus test for accessing that deeper perspective.

  • @hjasper436
    @hjasper436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Had my awakening last December. Since then I've left my wife and started a new life. It helped me realize that I was living the wrong life. I worry about not meeting anyone again but at least I'm happier now then I was in my old life. I would rather be single and happy then married and depressed.

    • @lizbethrodriguez-salinas9602
      @lizbethrodriguez-salinas9602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay strong, your positive vibe will bring the right person if you give yourself the chance

  • @breannacarels6479
    @breannacarels6479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I was really struggling with this issue this year. I had a reading and my guides told me my husband has chosen at a soul level to wake up at a later time than me.. and to practice patience and compassion. That we are very compatible at a soul level but that we are on different timelines for our spiritual awakening and that the information I am learning about would be psychologically damaging to him at this point in time. This helped me so much to understand that as souls we can choose when to have our awakening not to judge my husband (or other people) for not waking up at the same time as me.

    • @MsTakatam
      @MsTakatam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It helps a lot what you’re waiting. I think we split because of my lack of patience and understanding for that process. I am thinking sometimes if I didn’t make him more harm because of that. Or maybe that separation was necessary in our case

    • @carmenraymundo5737
      @carmenraymundo5737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I need to find out this for myself. I don’t know what to do, stay or go?

    • @breannacarels6479
      @breannacarels6479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carmenraymundo5737 I did an akashic records reading with Kat Fowler. Worth every penny in my opinion. Gained so much clarity in one hour.

    • @carmenraymundo5737
      @carmenraymundo5737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@breannacarels6479
      I have done a reading as well but that was a long time ago, I should go back and ask specific questions since I am in a different stage of my spiritual path.

  • @barbarawedan6068
    @barbarawedan6068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I believe my unawakened husband has been holding space for me to have this moment in time to awaken. He has provided a safe space for me. I had a spontaneous awakening. My husband has seen the profound change in me, my inner peace, and he’s been by my side during my dark night of the soul. Guides have been put in my presence throughout this journey. So thankful

    • @marcey7466
      @marcey7466 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I never thought of it this way. This really resonates with me. My husband is definitely holding space for me as I discover my wounds and shadows. My inner child keeps trying to push him away and he just continues to hold the space. Thank you for this perspective.

  • @madeleinelawson6250
    @madeleinelawson6250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    My husband was one of those unawakened… 8 yrs later he’s starting the wakened process.. so amazing to see ❤️

  • @stephanieweddle4266
    @stephanieweddle4266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    About 5 years ago I had a depression and started going to sound baths, it really helped and set me on my journey. My husband wasn't interested. He supported me and agree to go but then get anxious. I left him to have a kind of healing break, we knew we are meant to be together but something needed to change. We needed seperate time to heal. The day I left, he went to a sound bath and it had a profound impact, he became unstuck. We continue this awakening together, I'm now a reiki healer, he's not as spiritual as me but we are happy and supporting each other. One day he even talked about Michael, his guide, ha I couldn't believe my ears. We've been together 18 years, since we were 18, so it can happen.

  • @PandaD2
    @PandaD2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I had this question during the very first month or two of my awakening. My unawakened partner was the one who put it in perspective... Who cares that we don't have the same beliefs? We can each believe our own thing and still be good for each other. We learn from each other everyday and we both grow individually and together because of each other's presence. It's beautiful. It is about letting go of ego, finding your own path, and sharing your energy in a positive way to bring up the energy of those around you... They may just do the same back, subconsciously. :)

  • @debbiebutchart7222
    @debbiebutchart7222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My partner is a scientific, material “show me some tangible proof” kind of guy. But he gives me the space and support I need for my own spiritual journey. He is skeptical of a lot of the stuff I listen to or read. Occasionally he asks questions, which is good practice for me to articulate what I believe. It also occurred to me recently that he helps keep me grounded in the “real” (material, physical) world. He also helps me appreciate more “being” and not getting caught up so much in constantly “doing”.

  • @andrewwilson8776
    @andrewwilson8776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Who’s all made it through the tough part of their awakening process? My wife is supportive but has no clue what this is like and just thinks I should always suck things up with always going places and traveling. She doesn’t understand how hard that is when you feel so disconnected. I’m definitely through the hardest part (dark night of the soul) but still every day has its challenges.

    • @plutooliver686
      @plutooliver686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're doing a great job friend 💚 this work is not for the faint of heart.

  • @thandid6791
    @thandid6791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    From a feminine perspective I would like to add that, “standing on your own 2 feet” does not mean getting your financials in order, or filing for divorce, or ramping up your productivity. For a feminine “standing on your own 2 feet” is understanding and reconciling with your choices. Feminines must navigate challenges like: accepting others, inertia, living peaceably, and allowing a natural unfolding. Our journey to self sufficiency looks different. There is a divine reason that you are awakened and your partner is not. Regardless of the quality of the relationship the bond will naturally disintegrate (or strengthen) when your inner work is done.

  • @lindsaygodfree3908
    @lindsaygodfree3908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I’m so glad you reminded us that we realize others can wake up in a minute.

    • @heather4089
      @heather4089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly what happened to me, one minute I was driving Uber and the next minute I had to pull over, parked and cry, without knowing why?

  • @Lily59265
    @Lily59265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    TY,
    All of my awakenings, required me to leave a romantic relationship. All of my major romantic relationships are very different and were at different stages of my life. Each relationship led to a deeper level of awakening.
    My last romantic relationship that I had to dissolve, there were deep incompatibilities. However, I recognize how I was attracted to it. I believe that connection just like the friendships that I had surrounded myself with at that time was meant to highlight inner wounds that required healing. This is the time frame that my eyes were opened to the concept of awakening and awakening symptoms. As well as past life concepts; finally, I'm learning why I had to visit various places this lifetime repetitively and other places I only visited once, and learn about various cultures and religions and languages and various concepts on love relationships.
    Soon after that awakening, I encountered my DNOTS. I definitely still ask myself some deep questions regularly. For me it is about learning what my values are and creating boundaries/preferences based on them.
    Post DNOTS, I learned to adapt the detachment theory. Now, I can see how everyone is on their own individual journey. They are right where they are supposed to be. However, when the resonance is no longer there or it appears that one or both of us are hindering the other person's growth, I remove myself. I no longer believe in being a martyr nor pushing people to go faster than they are ready for. However, I will continue healing and ascending.
    My most difficult parts of my process was learning how to protect myself spiritually.
    Giving myself permission to be authentically myself without seeking external validation/approaval_ this took much gentle talking to myself about what I am not because I was used to people projecting who they thought I was and who they wanted me to be and do
    (I constantly list who I am not and remind myself who I AM). Self trust when I recognize gaslighting. Recognizing the subtle signs of abuse.
    Giving myself permission to revisit the past to find the root of an issue as emotional flashbacks surfaces.
    Giving myself permission to feel all of my feeling and release them. & Remind myself that I don't have to be happy all the time.
    Give myself permission that not doing anything at times is ok. Give myself permission to have fun and relax. Ultimately, learned to self soothe.
    Creating my own HAPPINESS has been an inside job for me.
    Best wishes to everyone wherever you are on your journey. The journey is a marathon, so pace yourself.
    Namaste
    🕊️Peace🤸 Shalom 🐵

  • @mihaelaclaudiap..2
    @mihaelaclaudiap..2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yes, I was asking myself the same question a while back with my best friend, then we realized that we were discriminating those who are unawakened and that's wrong. I will choose my partner based on his souls and his behaviour towards me and not based on his spiritual situation!

    • @optimusprimal2
      @optimusprimal2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey, just saw your comment from Ekhart Tolle's new video. We got great teachers! ✨🌻

    • @mihaelaclaudiap..2
      @mihaelaclaudiap..2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@optimusprimal2 yes, I am very much into spirituality! And it helped me a lot!!

    • @lizbethrodriguez-salinas9602
      @lizbethrodriguez-salinas9602 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      As it should be, at least I thought

  • @rosamundperry
    @rosamundperry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My husband and i are enjoying moving into 5d together even though he isn't interested in my "witchery". He's all good. We are great compliments. He's also presently supporting me in physical/ financial life while i expand into more creativity and re-training.

  • @victoriamitchell752
    @victoriamitchell752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely! After long term toxic relationship, I realized all the answers are within me, I stopped fighting and let my relationship go. Everyone has freedom of choice to live the way they choose to. This realization brought calmness and peace, I accept everyone which does not mean they can be a part of my life.

  • @alixanseel5005
    @alixanseel5005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This somehow is what I needed to hear at this moment. I am with an unawakened person who has no interest at all in learning more about it all. He thinks I'm crazy and that it is all a scam. So I indeed started to ask the questions just a few days ago: Why are we together because really we have nothing in common. We make each other so unhappy. Yet we have a beautiful son together so I am very gratefull for that. But it is really hard to get away or end a relationship and to hopefully keep a friendship of some sort. Thank you for your video!

  • @unatismajeke
    @unatismajeke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love what you say about the judgement towards unawakened people. We were all unawakened at some point. Also love the flip, there's work for the so called awakened individual if they are still in a relationship with the "unawakened" person.

  • @RR_Lopez_Onang
    @RR_Lopez_Onang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I Smiling while listening/watching! My other half is un awakened, we have different beliefs, but he never bother me, during my rituals, prayers, meditation under the full moon, despite he respect me for what I'm doing.🙂

    • @ovenkiwi6535
      @ovenkiwi6535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These words could be from me

    • @jjm8224
      @jjm8224 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is so sweet.

  • @jaeann5452
    @jaeann5452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your good and I always am drawn to your messages, I've been dealing with a very toxic relationship for 13 years and I've been fighting to try to get away and stay away but I always felt I put all this work in and now someone else will benefit from my trauma. I realize now it's my ego and I have to let my partner go permanently. I care very much that they are destroying themselves with drugs and alcohol abuse so I've been trying to find ways to help but in the process I got caught up. It's time to let it go for good. It's gonna take alot of work, time, and practice of getting use to doing things by myself with all the surgeries I've had on my back to do things around the house. I know I can do it no more pity party and no more letting my ego get in the way. Thanks christina

    • @helenebottger5699
      @helenebottger5699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good luck, be strong! I am rooting for you!

  • @esunnypark5490
    @esunnypark5490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I woke up at 3am and asked the universe whether I should tell my unawakened parter, who I never want to part with, about my ongoing transformation and if he might be understanding of my situation. The answer was “yes” and this morning I was led to this video which further confirmed and also gave me little details so that I could fully understand the meaning of the universe’s “yes”. Thank you so much, Christina. 🤲

  • @mariannereno8501
    @mariannereno8501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everyone is on their own path ✨

  • @Cujo.23
    @Cujo.23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been married for over 18 years and I had my awakening like 15 years ago. It was a bit tough around the tenth year other then that he's pretty much indifferent. Although I can see him slowly licking the red pill so I still have hope for him. He thinks I'm banana's but nothing has really changed since we got married. In fact he's always thought I was a little off that's why he fell in love with me from the get-go.
    I've definitely been here before cuz this time around I have no interest in money whatsoever. What car I drove or what house I lived in never mattered to me. As long as the car got me from A to Z, I was all good and I didn't car what it looked like. Unfortunately most of the time I stand alone in my beliefs but at this point I'm all good with them. I always knew I was different from all of my friends and I never understood why until my awakening.

  • @ahspiritualpod
    @ahspiritualpod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of the things I learnt after meeting my soulmate was that your spiritual awakening and their spiritual awakening are separate despite you being in a union.
    Healthy relationships are about individualism and honouring that, a lot of people think the soul contracts mean that the person will be someone they are able to basically control subconsciously or have them bend to their will. They don’t learn that they are there to dissolve codependency issues like you explained to achieve a higher form of consciousness and love.
    When you awaken and do the work you and understand the process of ascension you will find that anyone you are with becomes a projection of where your soul is currently at thus when your person or the one you’re with starts reflecting behaviour to you that is in alignment with the positive side of your souls growth then you are in alignment.

    • @jjm8224
      @jjm8224 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      "When you awaken and do the work you and understand the process of ascension you will find that anyone you are with becomes a projection of where your soul is currently at " - THIS IS THE TRUTH!

  • @wildlyawakened
    @wildlyawakened 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The incompatibility is precisely what has caused my marriage to end this year. I think we've both known for awhile, but to acknowledge we are just overall incompatible is the conclusion we've come to. I feel I'm the one who's done a great deal of work, and he simply doesn't wish to do the same journeying work with me, or create a life together. So we are just different people.

    • @klhellenbach
      @klhellenbach 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here. I keep questioning if splitting up is right, but that question has come up multiple times for me in the past 4 years. It feels like my soul has guided me to let go and move on despite the love that I may feel for him. I felt my energy being drained by him when he’s around. It made me very sad, but I have to follow guidance. Hugs!

    • @plutooliver686
      @plutooliver686 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here💚

  • @victoria2226
    @victoria2226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very good. I have experienced spiritual ego and had to check myself! Awakening is definitely a beginning to a way of life rather then a Certificate you gain!! Life is ongoing…..Thanks for sharing. Great question! 🙏❤️🦋

  • @sparkabundancespirituality1755
    @sparkabundancespirituality1755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video Christina.
    Love, peace and joy to everyone reading my comment❤️

  • @universalenlovencode6811
    @universalenlovencode6811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you to whomever sent this question. It helps. Thank you, Christina Lopes!🦋♾

  • @earthzeroapothecary
    @earthzeroapothecary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so, so much for this!! I've been asking myself so many questions and your video answered them precisely. What you said resonates on so many levels and my heart space burst with excitement because the resonance is exactly what I've been needing to feel. It's like the questions and thoughts were blocking my heart space and when you prosed it in a way that aligned, it shifted my point of view, which instantly activated my heart. Thank you, amazing human, for being present and assisting other humans whom are experiencing this (r)evolutionary shift.
    P.S. I have an amazing unawakened human whom loves me tremendously and doesn't deserve to have me absent in the present because my mind is blocking reciprocity from my heart. This is been the best, most "helpful in growth" entanglement I've ever been in. Thank you for bringing me back to the present. We really are wonderful together and I appreciate his presence and heart space in my life.
    ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @chelseamichak9343
    @chelseamichak9343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such an amazing woman! Thank you for your beautiful words and advice!As I was praying to the Holy Spirit to show me my spirit guides, I came across your page. I am so grateful to have come across this TH-cam page. It has helped me work on my past traumas and as a 37 year old female, who is newly divorced, and lost a baby a year ago, you’re words have helped me find my power in my most powerless days. Thank you Christina! 🌈🌈🌈 May beautiful and amazing blessings fall upon you and rise from you!

  • @globunbun
    @globunbun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you. I've been best friends with my soulmate since highschool and we only decided to start dating three years ago but we've always been drawn to each other and have helped each other stay sane and process what our past abusers did to us. We're still best friends. In 2020 I had a psychosis or break with reality where my collective trauma forced me to confront my deepest fears through 52 days of intense hallucinations. I wound up in the ER because I ran out into the street naked. I was misdiagnosed with bipolar (I actually have C-PTSD and already had a diagnosis. They just didn't have my records and wouldn't listen to me 🙃).
    After I processed my visions I realized I needed to do some serious healing. Now I'm becoming more and more in tune with things and my poor partner has felt left in the dust. I've been trying to help him but I'll admit I went about it the wrong way at first.
    Listening to your channel has really helped us both reconnect and practice emotional maturity with each other as we heal. Thank you for everything you do! Please remember to fill your own cup! ☮️💜🌌🧿

  • @klarelfven
    @klarelfven 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OMG so right on time. I’ve been having trouble with mine lately 🙏🏼♥️

  • @lisawehler7052
    @lisawehler7052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My partner is not ‘awake’ but my hs has shown me with him in an amazing future. I just feel that he will wake and be on own path in his own way, it’s not for me to force it but I can drop crumbs. He is so supportive of me in so many other ways.

  • @erinskymaple9883
    @erinskymaple9883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So helpful! Loved how you evened things up right away and put the attention back squarely on the one asking! Sovereignty and decision making seem to be great litmus test questions, I appreciate your ‘pointing’ and clarity Christina! Thankyou for the great content.

  • @ashantadavis4002
    @ashantadavis4002 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God showed me all of this! The incompatibility and how he released me from it twice now I have to do the releasing. Wheeew! I have questioned it for about a year and now I’m ready.

  • @elizabethShaw123
    @elizabethShaw123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My husband is a computer scientist. I have recently realised he is my mission. To be here to help him and guide him. He is agnostic and everything is based on science.

    • @globunbun
      @globunbun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Perhaps but don't force it. Don't make my mistakes. Everyone has a different path, a different world view that colors everything they see in the same way that our own beliefs colors everything we see because we have Egos. If you're in the water it's impossible to not be wet. Usually.
      Plant the seeds of ideas but never force your beliefs on someone else. Freewill is sacred.
      Still, you can lead by example and attempt to be a good influence but recognize that being agnostic is part of him figuring out his path.
      May you walk beside each other for a long joyful time! Blessed be! ☮️💜🌌🧿

  • @soniadesjardins280
    @soniadesjardins280 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My partner and I have been together for 8 years and I just went through an awakening a little over a year ago. He is not awakening any time soon but our relationship is still going strong. Sometimes I wish he could see that there is so much more to this life than the physical world and that every day is filled with magic and synchronicities because it is truly the most beautiful blessing to see. I just want him to get the most out of life but I know that doesn't mean it has to be what I perceive as getting the most out of life.

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lightworker hint no.4 🥰🙏🏾I am a wayshower, because there was a point when one woke me up and we were doing the same things and practice the same way and then there was a split and interference of the awakening. So we had to separate and then it was my turn to become the way shower. Dark Night of the soul for one and i think ascension for the other. The connection was very deep and so fulfilling. And we compliment each other's compatibility beautifully without forcing it. I don't find too many authentic odd balls like myself out there. But they found me🥰

  • @sarahk3123
    @sarahk3123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I prefer to say people are more or less awakened and not simply awakened/unawakened. It implies that I've achieved some status and that's it for me 😂 but I actually believe it's a spectrum, and our place on it may change as we continue to journey through life's challenges and do the work 🙏

  • @mkdandy777
    @mkdandy777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The challenging part for me has been figuring out whether it is the incompatibility or whether our difference in being awakened or not is causing our disconnection. Maybe both. I have been awakened for a few years now but my partner hasn't. I have to do more inner work as well. Thanks for guiding us with your wisdom Christina.

  • @CrystleSky
    @CrystleSky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your such a gift to our world love your energy

  • @JB-kk7vo
    @JB-kk7vo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been awake. And I attracted someone who is not awake. I already knew him before my awakening and when I was awakened spiritually, it's where our relationship started. Sometimes I question it too because awaken people I knew chooses partner who is also awaken.

  • @nicolecompton9636
    @nicolecompton9636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh wow! How did I know I was going to see this Christina Lopes video come up on my TH-cam just now? Lol. This is so synchronistic and timely. Thank you so much < 3

  • @MaddieGM752
    @MaddieGM752 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everytime I see you, I want to give you a big hug 🤗 you are just like our momma. Thank for all that you give to us, love you so much♥️

  • @jamesbeebe3082
    @jamesbeebe3082 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Christina for excepting me

  • @anqitamishra9745
    @anqitamishra9745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow...! On time video... i was so doubtful with this question lately... thank you so much for your wisdom 🙏Love from india🇮🇳

  • @adelerhoda5213
    @adelerhoda5213 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're Awesome Christina, stay wonderful, stay strong & stay inspired!!

  • @jilllebrun
    @jilllebrun 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was very helpful for me - especially the reminder about maintaining compassion. Thank you!

  • @lizbethrodriguez-salinas9602
    @lizbethrodriguez-salinas9602 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My partner claims I am not as awakened as him & that our differences are to big, I on the other hand think it has nothing to do with with how much, but the bond you have for each other, anyway it came to the point where I felt I was giving more then receiving so I decided to end it. I feel there should always be a balance & there wasn’t any. I stand in my power & worth!

  • @gwenpogue4644
    @gwenpogue4644 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We have been given free will. Yes they have been established but we can decide if we want to stay or not . I feel at different times in my life in my journey of awakening people along the way contributed to it... once awakened I can not judge but decide what I want and do not want in my life...

  • @lillyprettyinink
    @lillyprettyinink 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeeeeasss! Thank you for deciphering this whole subject! God bless!

  • @KingCotton-8
    @KingCotton-8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great topic thanks for that . I am healing from a toxic relationship

  • @teejay4469
    @teejay4469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Christine ive awakened last year, but it annoys my significant other the work that im doing on myself..he gets mad at me for. Focusimg on myself but i love how you worded yhat2..i think i am going to recognize we have deep incompatibilities. I love him nut he must recognize this is my spiritual practice..i must stand in my power as a sovereign being

  • @lilshortie8991
    @lilshortie8991 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    10 yrs together usually always on same page/goals. Then we was almost opposite. Universe stepped in to give us time focus on self. Within this time is when i found out what spiritual awaken was & diff things related. Finally understood & a lot of the past added up. He knew ive been kinda spiritual but when i try to explain ways to heal, masculine/ego comes in its hard (I know its gonna really hard on his to even start).
    I knew we had a soul contract, it was harder to face he is my karmic. Not sure how explain this or if we can have the relationship we've almost had. Im finally at a place im actually ok either way, love will always be there. I put faith he God trusting its for the better. I hope we both learned what was needed. I want him to heal, open his heart & be able to feel overflowing love like i have experienced...... I was really glad to hear you say how we shouldn't judge at the beginning, compassion is needed (it really is!) A hard lesson ive had to learn that just because I have so much hope in someone changing, don't mean they will. Knowing when I've done all i can its up to them!.... Glad see this question its been a big one on my mind (obviously)! ... I hope all the best to relationships going through this, the other person may need Love & compassion more than before.

  • @ridatehadji3619
    @ridatehadji3619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Christina, I am astonished to realize rhat it's your voici I'm hearing ! It's like all thé Joy and spontaneity has bien remived from you... wish you're OK. Blessings for all you do to help us all to awaken 💚🙏💚

  • @jasonschneider5293
    @jasonschneider5293 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man this video might as well have been for me. Wife told me that she had the divorce papers filled out with a lawyer and was just waiting to file. We have two very young kids. The answer for me to all of the questions asked in the video is that I have to see it through and try to make it work. My wife is not supportive and is truly afraid of me right now as she doesn’t understand what I’m going through. If it were just the two of us then I’d leave and start a new life. But I can’t be away from my kids right now given what’s about to happen in this movie. All I can do is stay positive and spread love. I know that it will all work out but I also understand that staying in this relationship is probably only going to prolong the agony that is this stage of the awakening.

  • @bettymax3826
    @bettymax3826 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Christina, this is a very interesting perspective on the topic of awaken vs non-awaken. For me, both of us started together. It wasn't planned on our part, it just happened simultaneously. I am humbled and grateful that it has happened this way as we can help each other and journey together on our spiritual path. Sending hugs, love, and light to everyone! ❤
    Thank you for explaining how this works, I truly hope that it will help those who may be struggling. ❤

  • @sofiyatinto8676
    @sofiyatinto8676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg I really need this I am going true this

  • @Kat-TraversingTheUnknown
    @Kat-TraversingTheUnknown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is such a good question. Thanks so much for answering this. I'm trying to manage this right now and keep things in perspective while finding that balance. The feeling of being awakened (that bliss stage omg it was awesome) is such a blessing and want that for everyone but know everyone in their own time. I think we say unawakened (although misleading) is just easier less syllables 😆. 🤗🤗🤗💞✨

  • @carinerobn4977
    @carinerobn4977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am currently in a very challenging relationship with my husband. I was ready to leave, but the universe seems to cut all the oportunities. I feel stuck. But deep inside, i feel that this challenge is what had put me in thé way to start the work. That maybe i had to suffer to wake up. Event though our relation is not confortable, he acts like he will never stop being by my side, as if he was as stuck as me in this situation. I feel that my path may be to learn to be my authentic self even in a very difficult environnement. That i have to be able to free my soul in whatever situation. To do it all again. Or maybe am i just too frightened to leave and i am making all this up ? Sometimes it is difficult to know what to do next. As always, your video is just on point for me ☺

  • @offiongoku1735
    @offiongoku1735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As usual you answer questions I have had for a long time. thank you Christina! 💕

  • @paula.nasmith
    @paula.nasmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing video as always! Looks like I have some work to do around sovereignty

  • @Homegrownstandards
    @Homegrownstandards 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband of almost 11 years isn’t awakened and I have often been scared that if he doesn’t ever awaken that it will hurt our relationship. We are like every couple and have our differences in opinion and we are both stubborn so that doesn’t help🤣😂 but several times since I started my awakening I have mention my fears about it causing a shift in our relationship he has said that if what I feel is making me happy then he thinks it’s great and it can’t be bad for us if I’m a happier more peaceful person❤️ I’m early in my awakening and I think that maybe I’m overthinking things and instead of sharing what I’m learning and feeling I’m keeping it to myself because I’m assuming he won’t understand or will think I’m crazy 😳

    • @globunbun
      @globunbun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don't be afraid to share what brings you joy just be gentle at first. I think you'll be surprised by his level of interest.
      My future husband rejected me at first because what I was saying and experiencing went against everything he ever knew but with time and patience we realized we had more in common than not.
      If you don't share, you'll be suppressing something you love.
      If you share you may scare them a little but it's better to be honest and genuine because then you'll know where you stand. If they aren't compatible or ready they may leave but if they stay you'll know it's for the right reasons. Best of luck. ☮️💜🌌🧿

    • @Homegrownstandards
      @Homegrownstandards 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@globunbun you are absolutely right.. I really believe it’s me and past abandonment pains which I’m working on healing, that keeps me from sharing. He’s such an incredible man and has dealt with a lot of crazy that came along with marrying me. It really should speak volumes to me that he’s in it for the long haul 😍😍😍

  • @nasimaesmaeli
    @nasimaesmaeli 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't wait for what is comming

  • @nasimaesmaeli
    @nasimaesmaeli 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am addicted to yr weekly videos

  • @akayk1928
    @akayk1928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    thnx fr this i need ths . can u make a video on light language?

  • @Sandles888
    @Sandles888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cristinaaaaaa. Much love to you. All your topics are precise. Bless you and I desire the best for you.

  • @MeghanDonnellyIPY
    @MeghanDonnellyIPY 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant as always. Thank you so much for your content, Christina.

  • @Sullysspirit
    @Sullysspirit 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was thinking about same question of my partner of 26 yrs....
    THANKS 👍

  • @GinaCharles
    @GinaCharles 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It seems possible to notice dissonance with a partner and at the same time notice a wordless underlying love - a silent pull, like a magnet, toward that person - something from your core, not your head. This may be a reason a person stays - and can stay if the person uses that dissonance to find what needs releasing in themselves. It may not be easy, but it may be worth it.

  • @quietlightning4063
    @quietlightning4063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Beautiful soul!! ❤️

  • @ohcrystal
    @ohcrystal 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    TQSM for this, Christina. U r amazing as alwiz. Much love and blessings to u 💜

  • @ViolinTeacher1
    @ViolinTeacher1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My partner is unawakened but it doesn’t feel incompatible in any way. I feel so content waiting. I didn’t ask for my awakening and it was so fast and even painful, I’m happy to let him sleep and rest until it is his time.

  • @anacelawatson6938
    @anacelawatson6938 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you christina . Sending us love light and bliss

  • @tisminnit
    @tisminnit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My partner before last was awakened. We were together for 2 years. She broke up with me and it Kickstarted my spiritual awakening/emergency because I became very suic*dal and eventually started looking into my trauma and why I was so depressed. Then the emergency part happened lol the flood gates opened. I journalled night and day, barely slept. One thought would lead to another and another and another. I felt insane. Fastfoward to right now. I just got out of a 9 month kinda accidental relationship with someone who is unawakened. And part of me thinks that some of the things I said throughout the relationship might have planted some seeds in this person's mind. But also maybe not cuz when I talked about spirituality or awakening or things I believe in she would roll her eyes and try to discredit it with like science? Lol idk it was a karmic relationship tho that helped me finally realize the karmic pattern tho. So I'm grateful for the experience. I learned so much about myself and I think I'll finally be able to stear clear from karmic relationships for a while now. Especially because I plan on being single for a while after that heartbreak 😅

  • @lupereyes3665
    @lupereyes3665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Appreciate this’,… Beautiful message…Christina 💫🌎❤️

  • @_alice_444
    @_alice_444 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is everything that had to be said 🙏💓 thank you

  • @kalidoscope3270
    @kalidoscope3270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thx 4 the quick clarification!🙏♥️🙏

  • @KellsSmith1244
    @KellsSmith1244 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always get so much from your videos even if I don't think they apply to me. I don't have a partner but still felt this nudge to hit play. I've got to watch that judgement.. nothing more annoying than a reformed sinner. :-)

  • @kimberlyulloa6103
    @kimberlyulloa6103 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Christina! Thank you for your life changing advice. Your perspective and clarity has led me to here. My name is Jason and I am 33. Today I found the meaning of 3, 6, 9. I would love to connect!

  • @Coaching-235
    @Coaching-235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What if you have unawakened partner. And you are a light worker and you know by heart you have a twin flame as well even though your partner is your soulmate?

  • @lightshift3431
    @lightshift3431 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    @ Maria. If better and worse dont exist then no one needs to awaken or progress because it's just different.

  • @LeileeBaker805
    @LeileeBaker805 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good points!
    the Ebb &🌊 Flow too.

  • @elyrod808
    @elyrod808 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally on point! Thanks!

  • @monliudesignsny
    @monliudesignsny 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is as small as a line of difference. Like stepping through a door. Sometimes it needs to be jolted into waking. Like hit by thunder. And it takes wisdom to accept the new ascension. Some people are forced into the awakening and does not accept it bc of inability to accept that growth. Like a boy in a man's body. Hes had trauma, not ready to carry the burden. Therefore sidestep the growth opportunity.

  • @1212azar
    @1212azar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi , I really appreciate your talking, it is wonderful. Please talk about unawakened children for older parents. Everywhere there are thousands books and talks about parenting kids, no body talks about parents with adult child like 30+ years old with problems like being in prison, being addicted or being psycho when they still need and attached their parents.. I have a son like that, dealing with him and my emotions and my culture is the biggest challenge you can ever imagine. As a awakened person, what can we do in this situation?

  • @montaybarnes8850
    @montaybarnes8850 หลายเดือนก่อน

    me and my wife are experiencing this now that I'm awaken and she's not, I know that I'm a old soul and she's a new soul. I can definitely feel the difference because we are on two different dimensions. I'm stinking this threw because I see this as a test I have to pass (patience).

  • @melissa48
    @melissa48 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much! 🙏🏻💗

  • @Connectingthedots.
    @Connectingthedots. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video came in perfect timing. Thank you.

  • @goddesscapricorn
    @goddesscapricorn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you elaborate on breaking soul contracts? Thank you for these beautiful videos 🙏

  • @NenaKeruvim
    @NenaKeruvim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One partner resonates with the energy of the awaken person, seeing the "fruits of the Spirit", this might trigger fears if they are religious, thinking about hell, etc. While the awaken person is exercising unconditional love. What do you say?

  • @saratom8222
    @saratom8222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right where I am at with my husband. Thank you

  • @zeinabkassir262
    @zeinabkassir262 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    the timing😮👌🏻

  • @lyleyla9275
    @lyleyla9275 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I SOOOOOOO need this video!!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lulualcantar1809
    @lulualcantar1809 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I awaken almost a year ago my husband always support about my awakening she always want to hear what i learn and he watch movies about awakening and dimensions my 11yrs old was supporting as well and 6 months later my husband awaken i think my 11yrs old did as well but there awakening was not like mine mine was hard there was easy and smother

  • @zaklinajanevska8464
    @zaklinajanevska8464 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Correct I just pass whit this one
    Other person don't have nothing whit that just l sew my self were a lm and thank to to her I sew my self clearly

  • @naseemakhter5586
    @naseemakhter5586 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing with us 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @yadhnaramchurun8338
    @yadhnaramchurun8338 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much Christina❤

  • @inneranswerinneranswer4744
    @inneranswerinneranswer4744 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't try to even have conversations about my awakening with my partner as she think everything of the mind. I have other people who can talk to and wor alongside.