Whoever suggested moving the cat tree in frame, thank you. Watching Jin and Chia bat at each other while Vincey reads out unspeakable horrors is nothing short of delightful.
Story 1: Yeah, when you go from transparent as glass to hiding things, we know your agenda when you call the other person controlling: you're trying to deflect from the FACT that you're boinking this other person silly.
It’s so insane how people think they’re actually sneaky when they’re so obvious. We could literally make a list of cheating signs and most of them are a checklist these people complete
@they really do! They begin to guard the phone while spending insane amounts of time on it they usually didn’t, intimacy either goes up or down but there’s a marked change, the sudden excuses to go out (gym, friends, work late) and then eventually they sometimes solidify it with accusing their partner of cheating.
Post 3: It's not even about prioritizing. He made a commitment to pick her up and I'd only accept a real emergency as an excuse for not being able to keep it.
S1: This kind of mindset is wild. It reminds me of that one reddit comment where a woman told her suspected cheating boyfriend to either show him the messages or they break up and till that day, he outright refuses to show anything or admit to anything. Op's wife remind me of him. Is avoiding being wrong this important at the cost of a whole relationship???
I recently heard one story where a woman checked her husband’s phone and discovered he had a secret Instagram account. He was taking fun pictures of her crocheting and giving them great captions.
12:42 "There should be a standard of how you talk to your partner!" Vincey is so casually wholesome and the whole community has followed. I love being here with y'all. We stan a decent-human-being KING lol
The cat tree in the background is lovely! Jin looks so majestic up on top of the tree ❤ ETA: Chia and Nez casually fighting over the top of the tree was so adorable. Moving the tree so the cats are constantly in the background was a fantastic idea!
Story 2: Okay, so OP does not get to be on the mortgage but he's paying as much as if he was renting the entire house? Yea.... nah. How about no? That's gonna be a "no" from me.
Story 2: Asking your partner to pay rent when they move in is not about sharing your life. It should be a request to share the existing bills like splitting the mortgage or other bills for the house. OP is a partner, not a tenant. Major red flag that needs to be sorted before ever getting married.
Story 1: My father once told me that it costs $50 to get married and $5,000 to divorce so I always remember that when I hear cheating stories. Can't believe so many people want to destroy their life over something stupid.
Story 5: That's the thing: some people can have a bag of money poof with the blue dye from robbing a bank and will still swear they did nothing wrong. No matter how much proof you have, some people will NEVER admit it. It's frustrating as hell, but it's true. Also, haven't commented this before but I've thought it: you have such a beautiful yard area. It looks so cozy.
I usually listen while I'm working. But now that cats are full-time background entertainment, I gotta watch! Soo cute! Great distraction from work-bla 😊
Biggest lesson I've ever learned, is if you've been with someone for a few month or more and you start to think they've changed and might be cheating. They probably are xx
Behavioral changes never come out of nowhere, there’s always a source. Especially sudden behavioral changes, not gradual. It’s especially important to remember when you have kids, something happened to cause that shift.
Story 3: This was my brain: Boyfriend: I could get her from the airport.... but.... I could help my friends wife, and get to see a woman in workout clothes, possibly still sweaty.... This is an easy choice. Sorry babe, gotta "help" my friend.
My guess is that she's planning to switch OP with James to make her perfect little family (sending James pictures of her children) and that she's not only been having an affair but laying down plans for divorce.
There’s an update, I don’t fully recall but Op called the friend who said he hadn’t asked her guy to do any of that. He’s cheating on her but I can’t recall if it’s with the friends wife or someone else
Story 3: There are circumstances where OP could have been the AH, but this wasn't one of them. A ride from the gym?! If it was something like the friend and his wife were in some accident and the wife needed a ride home from the hospital or emergency surgery or something, sure. But I wouldn't even prioritize picking my husband up from the gym if I'd already promised someone else a ride from the airport!
Sometimes I think all these are rage bait. Other times I think people just need to step back and realize what is happening, and posting the story helps gain perspective.
Yeah, no. If a partner gets sketchy like that first story and even shares a room with the person, claiming to not share the bed or not, that's reason enough to be suspicious, but all of that was a nice little red flag gift basket smashed through his front window basically.
Story 3: The BF already made the commitment to help OP and he bailed last minute for another woman. I would contact the friend and plant that seed. Maybe it's nothing but its probably something.
My silly brain went: did the friend change to regular clothes or was she wearing gym wear? Also, the promise you made first is the one you do. Why didn't the friend get his own wife? Or ask anyone else? Or paid for an uber? There are so many other options before going "hey can you drive my wife from the gym? Oh, you were supposed to pick up your gf from the airport? I get it, no worries.... you'll do it? Thanks man."
#3, my ex did that. The first year I was a priority, then his bachelor friends started giving him a hard time. Then his parents moved to the area and they needed help, then his sisters husband died unexpectedly and left her with 3 kids, so they moved in with his parents. So I was patient and helpful but when things finally changed so we’d have the same schedule and after 6 years together I felt like, ahh we’ll have the same schedule and he’ll have time for me. Nope, he went and got a second job he didn’t need to fill in our mutual days off. I had already felt like I was t important and for the last 2 years I was vocal about it and he was like,e, well this and that and I was patient but at that point I was done. I was tired of being last and an after thought. He was mad and confused as to why I broke up with him. A few weeks before I broke up with him his family told him I wasn’t happy and that he needs to spend time with me. I didn’t even say anything to them, they saw it. I wish I had broken up with him before because I wasted 4 years of my life, I don’t think the first 2 were a waste. Sometimes a partner can’t be first priority because of a sick parent or something but when it’s constant and the partner becomes an afterthought the relationship is done because the partner isn’t a priority like they should be. 8 years later I found my hubby who treats me the way I want to be treated.
I love seeing the cats in the background, it adds another level of cuteness to these videos. I especially love that the video edits make them look like they're teleporting around
Regarding the absurd rent, I'd tell her that when she's charging me the market rate for the whole house, I'd like to know when she's planning on moving OUT. Maybe I'll consider sub-leasing to her. At market rate of course.
YES! Cat tree! Whoop whoop! 🥳🥳🥳 edit to add on story 5: Maybe I'm being strict about it, but I refuse to drive if I've drank any alcohol at all that evening or get into the car if the driver has. It's a boundary I'm not willing to risk. So her having "a couple of beers" and then driving was the first ick for me personally.
8:15 I've just had a really hard laugh xD When Gin started to jump there's a cut in the video and it looked like both cats simply flew away. I always watch these while I do other stuff and it kinda made me look and even the second time it looked like it and now I had a really good laugh about that xD
Oh my gosh, the amount of excitement I felt when I saw the cat tree with beautiful Jin on it. It's so awesome to see your lovely cats in the background Vincey.
Unrelated to today's stories- I heard on NPR the other day that they're ending the Simpsons, and my first thought was "Oh no, is Vincey okay???" So sorry friend ❤
"Wasn't drunk" doesn't really matter. What matters is if she was over the legal amount of BAC. Which you can be without looking drunk (depending on the person).
Story 4: who does that?! Seriously, he had to have had a real reason for her to get into trouble at work. Either he's an idiot or he wants to destroy her career.
I had to pause this video between 4 and 5 to help my mom “rescue” a cat we found. He wasn’t really lost but his owner wanted him inside by dark, so I guess it still counts lol. He was dark grey and extremely soft, just the sweetest most chill cat ever. He didn’t mind being carried three blocks by a stranger. His name was Squid
Gee, you don't mess about do you? I swear it was only 24 hours ago I saw you say you'll look in to it. Nek minit, cat tree! Love your work. You make my day, or night as I'm also an Aussie in Oz.
Yippie!!! Having the cat tree in frame is so nice! Story 1: immediately shes cheating, if not psychically(i mean come on ) definitely emotionally. Divorce man.
He might not be prioritizing the woman, but the friend. I've seen it before where an acquaintance of mine would bend over backwards for her best friend to the point where she would prioritize the friend's boyfriend over her own, purely because she didn't want to say no to the friend. Either way it's not a healthy thing.
You got the cat tree so fast! Whoever suggested that is my hero! I love to watch your videos with my cat on our back porch 💜 Have a great day Vincey and Kitties!
I see your cats have destroyed the top part of the scratch post as well, little blighters ❤ Also I think you should check out tifu, that way you can just laugh at humanity instead of lose all faith , it's a good laugh 😊
Story 3: I just recently got into a relationship and the idea of not picking up your partner from the airport to pick up a friend of a friend from *checks notes* THE GYM??? I would probably leave that boyfriend. That would be unacceptable ans heartbreaking.
Watching your videos is a part of my daily routine, helps make boring chores more entertaining! I still think you should keep cat treats with your setup so that they can get treaties when on camera. It might make the experience more enjoyable for them! 😸
Whoever suggested moving the cat tree in frame, thank you. Watching Jin and Chia bat at each other while Vincey reads out unspeakable horrors is nothing short of delightful.
I suggested yesterday that he move it close to the window so the cats could look outside.
@terriwetz6077 😂 I've said something about few videos ago.
I’ve said something similar too!
Next Cat-Focused Iteration Possibility:
- cat tree in the foreground
- Vincey in the background
keytonz beez kyoot
Yippee!! He's got a cat tree so we can always see his cats in the background.
Yay! The kitties have a cat condo now, that means we can watch the true stars of the channel while Vincey reads Reddit stories!
Story 1: Yeah, when you go from transparent as glass to hiding things, we know your agenda when you call the other person controlling: you're trying to deflect from the FACT that you're boinking this other person silly.
It’s so insane how people think they’re actually sneaky when they’re so obvious. We could literally make a list of cheating signs and most of them are a checklist these people complete
@@Catherine.Dorian. I swear, these liars have all the guile of a 5-year-old trying to pretend they didn't break something.
@they really do! They begin to guard the phone while spending insane amounts of time on it they usually didn’t, intimacy either goes up or down but there’s a marked change, the sudden excuses to go out (gym, friends, work late) and then eventually they sometimes solidify it with accusing their partner of cheating.
I'm called paranoid, but if someone gets mad, especially significant other, about me asking certain details of this person. ..that's a red flag.
Post 3: It's not even about prioritizing. He made a commitment to pick her up and I'd only accept a real emergency as an excuse for not being able to keep it.
S1: This kind of mindset is wild. It reminds me of that one reddit comment where a woman told her suspected cheating boyfriend to either show him the messages or they break up and till that day, he outright refuses to show anything or admit to anything. Op's wife remind me of him. Is avoiding being wrong this important at the cost of a whole relationship???
I recently heard one story where a woman checked her husband’s phone and discovered he had a secret Instagram account. He was taking fun pictures of her crocheting and giving them great captions.
@mjjoe76 that's so precious lol
12:42 "There should be a standard of how you talk to your partner!" Vincey is so casually wholesome and the whole community has followed. I love being here with y'all. We stan a decent-human-being KING lol
The cat tree in the background is lovely! Jin looks so majestic up on top of the tree ❤
ETA: Chia and Nez casually fighting over the top of the tree was so adorable. Moving the tree so the cats are constantly in the background was a fantastic idea!
Vincey: I'm so glad you guys can see the cats now.
Cats: *Stares into our souls*
What timestamp please?
Being cats, there most likely to just start avoiding the tree when the camera is rolling 😆
"Icky-icky, gross-gross, yuck", for some reason, I can't express how glad I am to hear this phrase again 😂
Story 2: Okay, so OP does not get to be on the mortgage but he's paying as much as if he was renting the entire house? Yea.... nah. How about no? That's gonna be a "no" from me.
THE CAT TREEEE! I'm so glad Vincey got a tree for the beautiful kitters!!
Story 2: Asking your partner to pay rent when they move in is not about sharing your life. It should be a request to share the existing bills like splitting the mortgage or other bills for the house. OP is a partner, not a tenant. Major red flag that needs to be sorted before ever getting married.
Story 3: Yeah, he’s either banging friend’s wife, or someone else and using friend’s wife as an excuse.
Story 1: My father once told me that it costs $50 to get married and $5,000 to divorce so I always remember that when I hear cheating stories. Can't believe so many people want to destroy their life over something stupid.
Story 4: I find it pretty shockingly unlikely that the BF is just that dumb. I'd definitely more easily believe he did this intentionally.
And he has the nerve to talk about boundaries. OP set boundaries for him, not her boss.
I love the cat show in the background
18:59 the zooming in of the cat, I can't 😂
Story 5: That's the thing: some people can have a bag of money poof with the blue dye from robbing a bank and will still swear they did nothing wrong. No matter how much proof you have, some people will NEVER admit it. It's frustrating as hell, but it's true.
Also, haven't commented this before but I've thought it: you have such a beautiful yard area. It looks so cozy.
I was super tired one time, and legit thought that plant he has was a camel 😂
@@lina9535 🤣
I usually listen while I'm working. But now that cats are full-time background entertainment, I gotta watch! Soo cute! Great distraction from work-bla 😊
Biggest lesson I've ever learned, is if you've been with someone for a few month or more and you start to think they've changed and might be cheating. They probably are xx
Behavioral changes never come out of nowhere, there’s always a source. Especially sudden behavioral changes, not gradual. It’s especially important to remember when you have kids, something happened to cause that shift.
Plot twist it’s a home gym in her bedroom
8:14 OMG the cats no clipped out into the void!
They have entered The Backrooms.
Story 3: This was my brain:
Boyfriend: I could get her from the airport.... but.... I could help my friends wife, and get to see a woman in workout clothes, possibly still sweaty.... This is an easy choice. Sorry babe, gotta "help" my friend.
I hope we get an update for Story 1, that was a huge cliffhanger
My guess is that she's planning to switch OP with James to make her perfect little family (sending James pictures of her children) and that she's not only been having an affair but laying down plans for divorce.
@@thespider2566 Yep. And you just know she's the kind of person who'll insist on the kids calling James daddy. Gag.
And friend’s wife couldn’t get a taxi/uber home from her gym session because…?
There’s an update, I don’t fully recall but Op called the friend who said he hadn’t asked her guy to do any of that. He’s cheating on her but I can’t recall if it’s with the friends wife or someone else
@Catherine.Dorian. It was such a stupid lie in the first place too
Vincey, you should do merch including a cat with a disgusted look on it's face saying "icky icky gross gross yuck"
Story 3: There are circumstances where OP could have been the AH, but this wasn't one of them. A ride from the gym?! If it was something like the friend and his wife were in some accident and the wife needed a ride home from the hospital or emergency surgery or something, sure. But I wouldn't even prioritize picking my husband up from the gym if I'd already promised someone else a ride from the airport!
The kitties playing on the background at 16:41
Yeah, whoever suggested that wins the Internet 😂❤
Yesterday’s comment of the day became true ❤
Its been so long since we've had an "icky icky gross gross yuck"!!! If you ever do merch, that has to be on a shirt or something
Am I an a-hole for calling the police when someone murdered an entire town?
I like how all these questions could be answered by: "Yeah. Duh".
Sometimes I think all these are rage bait. Other times I think people just need to step back and realize what is happening, and posting the story helps gain perspective.
18:52 OMG the ancient incantation of icky icky gross gross yuck has made a return!!
Yeah, no. If a partner gets sketchy like that first story and even shares a room with the person, claiming to not share the bed or not, that's reason enough to be suspicious, but all of that was a nice little red flag gift basket smashed through his front window basically.
Story 3: The BF already made the commitment to help OP and he bailed last minute for another woman. I would contact the friend and plant that seed. Maybe it's nothing but its probably something.
Story 3: It's also just one ride for the friend's wife. Here's a thought: why couldn't he do both?
My silly brain went: did the friend change to regular clothes or was she wearing gym wear?
Also, the promise you made first is the one you do.
Why didn't the friend get his own wife? Or ask anyone else? Or paid for an uber?
There are so many other options before going "hey can you drive my wife from the gym? Oh, you were supposed to pick up your gf from the airport? I get it, no worries.... you'll do it? Thanks man."
Look at that lovely tree full of cats! They’re protecting us from the horrors
Hey! "Icky icky gross gross yuck" has made a reappearance! BtW, my phone predicts this phrase as soon as I type the first "icky" 😆
Cheaters looooooooove to call their partners “controlling” when they get cause doing shady shit.
I’m a flight attendant and work 3 - 4 days at a time and I still get picked up out of the most chaotic airport in the US
#3, my ex did that. The first year I was a priority, then his bachelor friends started giving him a hard time. Then his parents moved to the area and they needed help, then his sisters husband died unexpectedly and left her with 3 kids, so they moved in with his parents. So I was patient and helpful but when things finally changed so we’d have the same schedule and after 6 years together I felt like, ahh we’ll have the same schedule and he’ll have time for me. Nope, he went and got a second job he didn’t need to fill in our mutual days off. I had already felt like I was t important and for the last 2 years I was vocal about it and he was like,e, well this and that and I was patient but at that point I was done. I was tired of being last and an after thought. He was mad and confused as to why I broke up with him. A few weeks before I broke up with him his family told him I wasn’t happy and that he needs to spend time with me. I didn’t even say anything to them, they saw it. I wish I had broken up with him before because I wasted 4 years of my life, I don’t think the first 2 were a waste. Sometimes a partner can’t be first priority because of a sick parent or something but when it’s constant and the partner becomes an afterthought the relationship is done because the partner isn’t a priority like they should be. 8 years later I found my hubby who treats me the way I want to be treated.
Maybe you need to bring back full episodes of Wholesome memes once a month just as a cleanser
S3: If OP believes the gym story, just wait till the BF needs to build an art studio for the "friend" lol.
I love seeing the cats in the background, it adds another level of cuteness to these videos. I especially love that the video edits make them look like they're teleporting around
The cats are so cute exploring the cat tree. Also around story 3 you're infront of chia please move i can't see her 😄
So glad that we now have visual access to the Vincey cats throughout the vid. I cannot get enough of seeing these fine felines!
The cat tree is perfect!
My cat is asleep on the bed too, Vincey
I think this is the first time I’ve heard vincey say “icky icky gross gross yuck” in MONTHHHHSSS
S5: there’s absolutely nothing wrong with prioritizing relaxing when you’re not at work. This needs to be normalized.
Regarding the absurd rent, I'd tell her that when she's charging me the market rate for the whole house, I'd like to know when she's planning on moving OUT. Maybe I'll consider sub-leasing to her. At market rate of course.
YES! Cat tree! Whoop whoop! 🥳🥳🥳
edit to add on story 5:
Maybe I'm being strict about it, but I refuse to drive if I've drank any alcohol at all that evening or get into the car if the driver has. It's a boundary I'm not willing to risk.
So her having "a couple of beers" and then driving was the first ick for me personally.
the spongebob meme caught me off guard😂 I love how vincey tries random things on new vids
It's hilarious when cats lick their hypotenuse whenever and wherever
8:15 I've just had a really hard laugh xD
When Gin started to jump there's a cut in the video and it looked like both cats simply flew away.
I always watch these while I do other stuff and it kinda made me look and even the second time it looked like it and now I had a really good laugh about that xD
Oh my gosh, the amount of excitement I felt when I saw the cat tree with beautiful Jin on it. It's so awesome to see your lovely cats in the background Vincey.
I really like the cut of cats there on the tree to suddenly, NO CATS! 😂😂 They looked like they were having a time. 😂
Unrelated to today's stories- I heard on NPR the other day that they're ending the Simpsons, and my first thought was "Oh no, is Vincey okay???"
So sorry friend ❤
To quote the Simpsons: Why now? Why not 20 years ago?
"Wasn't drunk" doesn't really matter. What matters is if she was over the legal amount of BAC. Which you can be without looking drunk (depending on the person).
I had a comment about a story but got distracted by a cat.
Happens to all of us 😂
Story 4: who does that?! Seriously, he had to have had a real reason for her to get into trouble at work. Either he's an idiot or he wants to destroy her career.
That whole cat meme makes me think of my dog. Lives rent free with good food and water, and she gets endless snuggles
I can’t get over the cat tree ❤️❤️
Literally. It’s too tall.
I love it
Too tall? No such thing to a cat!
@ but I’m not a cat so I can’t get over it T-T
@DenimDucky guess you'll just have to practice jumping higher lol
I had to pause this video between 4 and 5 to help my mom “rescue” a cat we found. He wasn’t really lost but his owner wanted him inside by dark, so I guess it still counts lol. He was dark grey and extremely soft, just the sweetest most chill cat ever. He didn’t mind being carried three blocks by a stranger. His name was Squid
Love the cat tower.
Putting the cat tree in the background was the best decision you've ever made, Vincey
Awwww the kittys!!!! Love it!
hi jin!!!!
hell yeah that comment about having the cat tree in the background was genius🔥🔥🔥
I love how the editing makes it look like the cats are jumping around :)
I started listening to this in the background so I didn't realise that the cats were there at first but yay! Love it your cats are adorable Vincey
Woohoo! All three cats!
creature spotted at the bottom left at 6:10
Looooved the cats in the bg 😂😂😂
This video is proof vincey really cares about his viewer’s opinions because he listened about the cat tree
The cat tree is my favorite Vincey character
Yes to the cat tree. Absolutely yes.
Gee, you don't mess about do you? I swear it was only 24 hours ago I saw you say you'll look in to it. Nek minit, cat tree!
Love your work. You make my day, or night as I'm also an Aussie in Oz.
Vincy: *Looks at camera* "Do we have to read about morally questionable people every day???"
Me:"Um!!! I wasn't expecting to be asked this!" 😂
Yay, a cat post (with cats) and the window view. ❤ the best bit about these awful stories is the calming backdrop.
I LOVE THE CAT TOWER OH MY GOSH!!! This is such a bright part of my day thank you ❤
I kept watching to see if all 3 cats would end up on the cat tree together and got distracted 😻😹. I had to go back and rewatch a couple of times 😂.
Loving the cat tree so we can see the kitties without you having to pick them up! Thank you Vincey! The fam is happy :)
oh my GOODNESS 11:32
Love the cat tree in the back!! If you ever do another spooky story video it'll be nice to have them for protection
love the stories, love the kitties 🖤 this is the first time I've seen your face, after watching a ton of videos, and I wish you did more of these 🖤
Yippie!!! Having the cat tree in frame is so nice!
Story 1: immediately shes cheating, if not psychically(i mean come on ) definitely emotionally. Divorce man.
Icky Icky Gross Gross Yuck! It's been a while since we've heard that! 🎉
The bonus background cat drama is glorious! ❤
Story 3: He's cheating. A man does not prioritize a woman, who isn't family, over his partner unless he's sleeping with her.
He might not be prioritizing the woman, but the friend. I've seen it before where an acquaintance of mine would bend over backwards for her best friend to the point where she would prioritize the friend's boyfriend over her own, purely because she didn't want to say no to the friend. Either way it's not a healthy thing.
I just started watching the full videos and NGL the cats are 99% of the reason I watch now XD
You got the cat tree so fast! Whoever suggested that is my hero! I love to watch your videos with my cat on our back porch 💜 Have a great day Vincey and Kitties!
the cat tree is such a brilliant idea, the fluffy beasts deserve to be included
I see your cats have destroyed the top part of the scratch post as well, little blighters ❤
Also I think you should check out tifu, that way you can just laugh at humanity instead of lose all faith , it's a good laugh 😊
the cat tree is a marvelous addition!
Story 3: I just recently got into a relationship and the idea of not picking up your partner from the airport to pick up a friend of a friend from *checks notes* THE GYM??? I would probably leave that boyfriend. That would be unacceptable ans heartbreaking.
Watching your videos is a part of my daily routine, helps make boring chores more entertaining! I still think you should keep cat treats with your setup so that they can get treaties when on camera. It might make the experience more enjoyable for them! 😸
That little wiggle-dance before jumping on (?) the closet
I love seeing the cats in the background. So beautiful
Any relationship she had was already ruined, her behavior is so SUS.
You got the cat tree already?
Also, you keep putting out videos earlier and earlier. Not a bad thing at all.
How am I just seeing your Blathers pillow now?
I love seeing the cats in the background on the cat tree and staring out the window, its too cute! stay cool everyone😎