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  • @ghostie5923
    @ghostie5923 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1280

    Honestly it’s so refreshing to see a youtuber acknowledge the problem with family vlog content and put the safety of their kids first, keep doing what you’re doing Matt, you’re a great father.

    • @Hook_88
      @Hook_88 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yeah, it was expected. Mere was going to find out how much those guns cost one day.

    • @lukro.
      @lukro. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      you talk about it like no one does this, there's lots of youtubers that avoid putting their kids faces on the internet

    • @BradyDoesntMiss
      @BradyDoesntMiss 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The best way to acknowledge it is by not making it all. The world doesnt want to see your kids.

    • @ZiddersRooFurry
      @ZiddersRooFurry 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lukro. Oh come on. Just let someone make a complimentary comment.

    • @northernpianotuner3319
      @northernpianotuner3319 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually ​@Dillon6479 there are creeps all over who take photos they find online and do things with them.... then sell them on the dark web.

  • @hazeleyedsoul3282
    @hazeleyedsoul3282 ปีที่แล้ว +7090

    This is a smart man. As the father of 2 girls, I’m constantly situationally aware of people around and have taught them to be the same.

    • @ThePinkerton1776
      @ThePinkerton1776 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      Let’s be real here, anyone dumb enough to mess with the King and Commander in Chief of the Demolitia really must have a death wish. And not just because Matt probably carries actual artillery but he legit has an army of like minded people behind him.

    • @michaelhyland9216
      @michaelhyland9216 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      As a Grandpa of 12 granddaughters I FULLY understand this - touch my granddaughters, and I will do bad things!!!!!

    • @chilloutdude3617
      @chilloutdude3617 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      I second this. I have only one child.. a daughter. I have another youtube channel with 7k subs. Not a lot i know.. but same sentiment. I don't put my daughter in my videos. Too many creeps out there.

    • @mohadogamer
      @mohadogamer ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Same here. I have two little girls. I would do the same.

    • @jughead8988
      @jughead8988 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I'm a father of two beautiful daughters and two teenage granddaughters that are just as beautiful as their momma. They are the main reason I carry a gun everywhere I go!

  • @tjtobin86
    @tjtobin86 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1892

    "My oldest is a girl and she's 13 and she's beautiful! and I don't want you guys seeing her!" I love this soooo much. Dude, you are making a smart choice to give your children a normal life and let them choose what level of fame they want to have when they are adults. Kudos man for keeping things smart.

    • @eyecanon1ywin5
      @eyecanon1ywin5 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      if only sons had the same protection. she gonna get railed by cool guys like me and theres nothing daddy can do about it

    • @wigger88
      @wigger88 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      I knew in that moment he's a FANTASTIC father. What an absolute king.

    • @MikeR196
      @MikeR196 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      This👏

    • @VEC7ORlt
      @VEC7ORlt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      And before that it was fine?
      Doing it right is the way Kenji Lopez Alt does - not showing kids at ALL.

    • @Heavens-Humanaterian-Army
      @Heavens-Humanaterian-Army 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I totaly agree and I'm keeping my beautiful baby's off the internet too.

  • @thirdmonkey
    @thirdmonkey 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    I also have a beautiful 13 year old daughter and I would feel the exact same. My job is to support and protect my family. Full stop.

  • @Naz-xc9to
    @Naz-xc9to ปีที่แล้ว +645

    Your answer as to why your children are not in the videos as much or at all is the best dad answer. A majority of the people who approach you are harmless fans wanting a pic or to say hey...but there is always that one weirdo who could want to do you or the family harm. So glad to hear all is good on the home front and that your kids' safety as well as your wifes is your #1 priority.

  • @jeffreyvian
    @jeffreyvian ปีที่แล้ว +675

    As a father of two daughters I loved the “I don’t want you talking to my daughter” line. Good for you Matt

    • @cameronchappell882
      @cameronchappell882 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same.

    • @wadereynoldsgm
      @wadereynoldsgm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ditto!

    • @alpham777
      @alpham777 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God damn right also RIP to the dude who has to show up to the first come meet my dad with her lol. It's gonna be "step into my safe, lets talk" lol.

    • @bradhaines3142
      @bradhaines3142 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      that makes too much sense

    • @Letstryscience
      @Letstryscience 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The young man will ask the girl, "Is he cleaning his guns to intimidate me?" and she will reply, "No he started a month ago and is only half way through his collection."

  • @GorrellFamilyRacing
    @GorrellFamilyRacing 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1034

    1000% support this. My heart sank when I read the title of this video. Glad it’s positive news

    • @Iamyolomonkey-ed2gh
      @Iamyolomonkey-ed2gh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Yeah it worried me for a sec too

    • @sayso6119
      @sayso6119 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      he clickbaits intentionally a lot

    • @BobrLovr
      @BobrLovr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      your heart sank for some random dudes marriage? Jesus christ the internet has made soft men

    • @GorrellFamilyRacing
      @GorrellFamilyRacing 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sayso6119 yea you’re right. Definitely not something I am a fan of lol. He’s not quite as bad as DDE tho lol

    • @sayso6119
      @sayso6119 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@GorrellFamilyRacing yeah i don't like it either, but i understand why he does it. the more clicks he gets, the bigger the boost, the more the algorithm boosts the video

  • @brittewater
    @brittewater 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +224

    The way I RAN to the comments. I can't tell you how amazing it is that you took that direction with your kids. Far too many parents shove a camera in their kids face during some of the most difficult times as they go through their preteen and teenage years. So refreshing to hear you acknowledge how scary it can be once a girl reaches a certain age. You and Mere are good parents for making that change for the safety of your children.

    • @collinoldigs8644
      @collinoldigs8644 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      cringe. try living ur own life. smh

    • @LAURA093058
      @LAURA093058 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@collinoldigs8644 you need mental help.

  • @CM-76
    @CM-76 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    I'm glad someone still has great family and father values these days. Matt thank you for being a stand up man. Your true fans totally understand and respect the safety for ur family.

  • @chandlermackey8964
    @chandlermackey8964 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    Matt has a great point. Kids should have a normal childhood even tho their dad is kinda famous. If there’s any doubt that Matt is a saint of a human this right here is proof he’s a top tier father as well.

  • @t.j.winstead7660
    @t.j.winstead7660 ปีที่แล้ว +637

    I love the fact that he is not trying to make his kids famous he’s letting them choose their own path which I love!

    • @SoreTv
      @SoreTv ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I don’t think it’s about letting them choose their own path per se, he didn’t say he didn’t want them to be famous, just that while they’re still kids, they get to be kids and not worry about being recognized.
      I’m sure he would support them if they decided to do youtube or something years later when they’re adults.

    • @dannyvela4521
      @dannyvela4521 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SoreTv he's still gonna get approached, so is he never gonna go out in public with his kids. He should've kept the videos about himself and guns. Left his family out of it. But it's all about those views. Lmfao, wanted to be famous, deal with it

    • @t.j.winstead7660
      @t.j.winstead7660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SoreTv I agree if when they get older if they want to do TH-cam or something like that I believe he will whole heartedly support them and back them up!

    • @heatherreich2687
      @heatherreich2687 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And protecting those girls!!

    • @egological4271
      @egological4271 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dannyvela4521people like you are why we support Matt’s thought process, what a atrocious comment you just made just because a man put the safety of his kid before his career. I not even a father yet I know a person like you is not the type I want to have any form of contact with my kids

  • @bdgackle
    @bdgackle 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I'm not a parent, but this still makes tons of sense to me. Good on you for looking out for your family, and thanks for the update. Its really none of my business of course, but you seem like a positive dude and I'm glad to hear you aren't going through bad times.

  • @cmartins187
    @cmartins187 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +570

    This is the energy I’m here for. I felt that “I don’t want you guys seeing my teenage daughter” in my soul!

  • @DOITWITHDAN
    @DOITWITHDAN ปีที่แล้ว +3729

    What an awesome way to do all of this. Incredibly respectful and honest. Love it.

    • @opie_candoit78
      @opie_candoit78 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      the ole stanky d i used to watch your vlogs all de time

    • @therealchrisreyna497
      @therealchrisreyna497 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Waiting for this collab 👀👀👀🔥

    • @goddessangel7537
      @goddessangel7537 ปีที่แล้ว

      A collab would be awesome AF.​@@therealchrisreyna497

    • @jonothanweathers7306
      @jonothanweathers7306 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m definitely shitting in your mailbox for making me watch this whole thing lol.

    • @micahmoore1511
      @micahmoore1511 ปีที่แล้ว

      OK that was suspensful😅

  • @briandamien9175
    @briandamien9175 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    A dad being a dad ... my hats off to you brother..

    • @blakelewis1817
      @blakelewis1817 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was gonna say the same thing. He’s a good dad hats off to him

  • @valerieh.1624
    @valerieh.1624 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Aa a Mother, I'm Loving all of the Fathers protecting their daughters. I applaud You, Men. For everything you do as Men, Husband's and Dad's. Even those of you without kids (at this moment). Keep being Awesome ❤🙏🏾💐

  • @sferg3291
    @sferg3291 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    "I want my kids to be kids", EVERY parent watching this should listen to this man. Well done sir, good on you.

    • @DTreatz
      @DTreatz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ez, keep them off social media and only give them flip phones.

    • @justincharles6585
      @justincharles6585 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@wtfdtreats not even flip phones, teach em how to build wooden tops, scooters, kites etc.

  • @GlizardWizard3Oh8
    @GlizardWizard3Oh8 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +394

    Huge respect. Internet people are creepy and I would rather not have people know what my kids look like. So mad respect!

  • @benjaminletourneau5024
    @benjaminletourneau5024 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1153

    "She's 13 and she's beautiful and i dont want you to see her anymore."
    smart father

    • @Urziel99
      @Urziel99 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      The old joke was the dad having a talk with the boy about getting his daughter back to the house by 10 pm while simultaneously cleaning his shotgun. All Matt would have to do is link his main youtube channel and say "I trust we have an understanding."

    • @paytoncortez4877
      @paytoncortez4877 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@Urziel99 what?

    • @bdgackle
      @bdgackle 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@Urziel99This is true, but to balance it out there is probably some kid out there that's gonna feel like he won the father-in-law lottery some day.

    • @boddaboom77
      @boddaboom77 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@bdgackleif he's a normal guy and not a weirdo he will have won the FIL lottery

    • @thecursed01
      @thecursed01 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i mean, he did an intro that ended with "will a boyfriend stop a .50 cal" XD @@Urziel99

  • @stevegideon5419
    @stevegideon5419 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Smart husband and Dad. Realistic and objective.

  • @cheegerw9781
    @cheegerw9781 ปีที่แล้ว +738

    Been watching Matt since I was going into highschool about 10 years ago. I remember seeing your Kids and Wife a lot. It never occurred to me that there are some weirdos online but I did notice they stopped making an appearance. Much respect for you taking this route. Very happy to know everyone is doing well including yourself.

    • @S.C.-wo8hq
      @S.C.-wo8hq ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I haven't checked out any recent content but used to watch all his videos. His wife and kids were such a big part of it all. It's sad that this is the state of the world.

    • @bmdoes_stuff6861
      @bmdoes_stuff6861 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just clicked on the vid and saw this comment. Jeez man, this is wayyyy worse than what I thought it was

    • @ghhfhgc2374
      @ghhfhgc2374 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bmdoes_stuff6861what do you mean

    • @bmdoes_stuff6861
      @bmdoes_stuff6861 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ghhfhgc2374 the topic of the video

  • @ninjunc
    @ninjunc ปีที่แล้ว +622

    From one father to another, and one husband to another...respect.

  • @corydailey1486
    @corydailey1486 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    New level of respect for you. Being a responsible parent.

  • @danwhite5550
    @danwhite5550 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Good for you Matt. You know what's best to protect your family. God bless you. Godspeed

  • @ruraljurorredbluff4911
    @ruraljurorredbluff4911 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    Matt, you are a great role model for young men. I enjoy your content and love your family. Thank you!

  • @levibryant2487
    @levibryant2487 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Mad respect for this Matt. Your kids safety is more important than any success.

  • @RedMatthew
    @RedMatthew ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Matt being a good father and husband absolute Chad move

  • @JimAirborne25
    @JimAirborne25 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was prepared to be sad for you all, but pleasantly surprised! Your family comes first! You’re doing well against any haters! Keep doing the right thing for you and your family!

  • @airman87btk
    @airman87btk ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Respect Matt, you are the father I strive to be. Thank you for being an amazing role model. I have been watching all your channels from the beginning, and it's nice to see good family shows on TH-cam. You have a big following in Wisconsin.

    • @audiss111
      @audiss111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fello Wisconsin bro. here here

  • @Norseman95
    @Norseman95 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    As a father of a daughter, I loved watching your kids grow up with the channel, and I 1000% support this decision. We come here for you and a day in your life, it was really awesome to watch your family grow and change but at the end of the day we are here for you. Keep killing it in every video, Matt. You’re awesome.

  • @HatchBackLove27
    @HatchBackLove27 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    The most respectful and wholesome video. You owe NO ONE the explanation of your personal life. Most of us are still here from the OG Homemade shotgun days and are still rooting you on with all your success. Best of luck to you, your family and everything!

    • @danielgaetzke492
      @danielgaetzke492 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Dang, I remember watching those 😂 thanks for bringing that memory back.

    • @onthefasttracktoheaven
      @onthefasttracktoheaven 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      And for those who haven't watched those old videos... Go back in his channel and watch them! You are damn right though, I think it's great how open and honest he is. However, he doesn't owe anyone an explanation. Means a lot he's open and comfortable enough to talk about it in front of millions of strangers, much respect for this man!

    • @HatchBackLove27
      @HatchBackLove27 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@onthefasttracktoheaven Could not agree more!

    • @Martian-t4u
      @Martian-t4u 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yup been here since the shotgun rounds vids lol but TH-cam took them all down

  • @mrsboom24
    @mrsboom24 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve just started chain watching the series all the way in Scotland and as a mum I’m so encouraged to hear your success isn’t as important as keeping your family safe, healthy and happy …shame you felt you had to explain that to people, good luck to you all, great show and great parents!

  • @_kato_4034
    @_kato_4034 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    One of the smartest people on youtube. Protecting his kids from possible creeps. His kids might not like it or might not understand but theyll look back on this in the future and thank him

  • @ghosthead2008
    @ghosthead2008 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    As a parent, myself, I applaud you, Matt, for not using your family as "props", like just about every other YTuber. It's been nice to see them grow up, but maintaining some sort of privacy is very important.
    Been a subscriber from day 1, and it makes me extremely proud to see the "empire" you've built, literally from the ground up.😊
    Dennis - Detroit, MI

    • @damianstemarie
      @damianstemarie ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Took the words out of my mouth.
      All the way from rainy Washington state.

    • @1sogybisc
      @1sogybisc ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah, definitely more respect for that choice

    • @NSaNeFaLLeN
      @NSaNeFaLLeN ปีที่แล้ว +2

      GOBLESS

  • @jtj1971
    @jtj1971 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Respect man! Great decision for you and your family! In todays society it makes me nervous for so many content creators that are not taking the precautions you are to protect your wife and kids. It’s a real thing and more creators need to get on board. Full support, keep on ranching!

  • @rheumeo
    @rheumeo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You and Mere are completely right protecting your kids to the exposure that the videos may cause! Sending much love to all of you!

  • @RobertW1990
    @RobertW1990 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +587

    The TH-cam Algorithm put this in my feed, and I was a little worried about the title. I'm glad to know it's all good, and I don't think anyone in this community will fault you for this approach of blogging your personal life without the family. It is smart, and I applaud you for taking good care of your family. This is true manliness, and you have earned a lot of my respect in this video.

    • @jasonross5358
      @jasonross5358 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Well said. Matt, you’ve already shared so much. It was rewarding to see your healthy strong family doing things together. You have every right to keep your family life private. Besides, you alone are more than enough entertainment for us !!

    • @johns9652
      @johns9652 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Much respect. I asked my wife for her permission before even using a picture of her and I together from a couple decades ago as my YT avatar. I totally get it. I also caught my son making a YT channel at age 14 and made him delete it, precisely because he didn't get it when it comes to safety and boundaries. This was very wholesome.

  • @Salrjry
    @Salrjry ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Hey Matt just a fellow father of two from South Dakota that wanted to say good for you protecting your family. The world needs more husbands and fathers like you. It is sad that you even had to make a video like this. I wish you Mere and the kids a wonderful holidays and stay safe out there sir!

  • @rebelgate
    @rebelgate ปีที่แล้ว +2323

    As a father of a 14 year old daughter. I wholeheartedly agree with this.

    • @Joeykansas
      @Joeykansas ปีที่แล้ว +52

      As a father with a 5yo daughter, I agree. I think any father of a daughter will agree.

    • @SiAnon
      @SiAnon ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I have a 19 yr old daughter and i have spent 19 years waiting for the day i have to hurt somebody. So far only one has come very close to it.

    • @pixiniarts
      @pixiniarts ปีที่แล้ว +18

      As someone with no kids or wife I wholeheartedly agree with this. It's good sense, always thought it was a bit of a risk showing the kids, not least because some people get fixated and weird really easily.
      I made a comment about liking a video game, someone found my email and spent a year just sending me a daily death threat, links to obvious gore or death videos, pictures of corpses, at the end of each month a question why I wasn't dead yet and some tips on how best to kill myself.
      Yeah... That for a whole year.

    • @Incognito1786
      @Incognito1786 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@SiAnon I dunno how you guys do it. I never wanted kids, but I couldn't imagine what it's like to have a daughter. I'm 20 years older than my younger sister, and I remember talking to my dad when she was like....7 or something, and he was going on about how he was worried about boys being around his little girl when she got older. I still remember how relieved he was when she came out as a lesbian.

    • @danblumel
      @danblumel ปีที่แล้ว +26

      ​@@Incognito1786 That's no relief

  • @kennymccormick8368
    @kennymccormick8368 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    As a dad of two girls. Im happy you made this decision. Keeping your family's privacy and safety should always be you priority

  • @jeffjankiewicz5100
    @jeffjankiewicz5100 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +256

    Dad just protecting his wife and kids. Respect.

  • @awidesigns
    @awidesigns ปีที่แล้ว +60

    2 daughters and 1 boy myself. Much respect for the decisions to keep them out of the videos. True Father, protecting them.

  • @CarolinaAnglingCo
    @CarolinaAnglingCo ปีที่แล้ว +118

    As a father of a little girl, I 1000000% support this. You're such a good dad and husband Matt. My daughter is only two. But I fully understand.

  • @BackBeat52
    @BackBeat52 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Glad to hear everything is still going well with you and the Mrs.!
    Totally respect your decision to keep the kids out of the vids, and it makes complete sense!
    Keep being awesome!

  • @sethhaynes2016
    @sethhaynes2016 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Can't argue with a guy protecting his family. We need more parents that care about their kids

  • @Crimsonlupus
    @Crimsonlupus 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +331

    I’m not a dad, but even as a younger person I totally get it. I wouldn’t want lots of random ppl talking about me or getting interested in my life. This is even more relevant if you’re a young girl moving into adulthood. Your a good dad Matt

    • @danecarpenter8735
      @danecarpenter8735 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I agree with this. I'm glad Matt went this direction. I will admit I did notice the lack of the family being in the videos and was really hoping that it was due to you not wanting monetize your family. I've seen so many families being torn apart due to public scrutiny on TH-cam. I'm glad this decision was made and think it was good one. And it's cool to see the resort opening on my 41st birthday.

    • @jakobfindlay4136
      @jakobfindlay4136 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      3 cheers for Matt!!!

    • @R3TR0J4N
      @R3TR0J4N 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cheers 🍻

  • @bigwangmark
    @bigwangmark ปีที่แล้ว +203

    I'll admit as a middle aged guy not lucky enough in life to have his own children I did enjoy watching your videos with your family because it always felt like it's the type of family and life I would have loved to have. I hope that does not sound strange because I just enjoyed seeing what strong family looked like and how it should be all around the world. It also made me happy to see that great family life still happen in the world when everything feels like its getting torn down BUT I 100% agree and understand why you would not want to have your family on the chan as they start to become young adults. While most of your viewers like myself harbour no ill intent towards you or fam it's sad to say that their are people out there that harbour bad intent and it only takes one of those types to ruining someone life. So you have been a bright light in the storm for many of us that are fans and hopefully that always remains so.

    • @turgsh01
      @turgsh01 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      !00% agreed and same for me too. I know I'll likely die alone partly due to my health and the fact that I don't want to risk being in a toxic relationship which is so common these days, but this and other family vlog channels got me out of depression and kept me going. Thankfully though, I made a new close friend a few years ago who keeps me happy and don't need vlogs to keep me going anymore. But I do still miss them. It isn't just this channel that did it either. In fact I think when the incident with the Atwood's happened, that seemed to trigger Matt's family right away (and likely several others too) as he changed how he ran his channel right away. I fully understand and agree with Matt's decision and am kind of surprised he didn't do it sooner.
      And yes, we will all miss Mere's very contagious laugh and unique personality.

    • @biowerks
      @biowerks ปีที่แล้ว +6

      LoL, your username is Big Wang Mark hahahhahha, you're who he is talking about. (Im just joking, Im sure you're a regular guy)

    • @naingaung2748
      @naingaung2748 ปีที่แล้ว

      Loser

    • @dustyc324
      @dustyc324 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@biowerks exactly who he's talking about. single creepy guy that loves Matt's family. that's who he doesn't want gawking his daughters. what a creep!

  • @alicecain4851
    @alicecain4851 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I miss Vet Ranch being the main thing Matt was involved with.
    April weather should still be cool enough in Texas on April 8th.
    Congratulations on taking care of your family! Obviously, it's the right thing for them and you!

    • @drengillespie
      @drengillespie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Unfortunately, his ego got away from him. While he could never be Dr. Jeff, it was still good content.

    • @craigstanbrough6183
      @craigstanbrough6183 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Demo ranch was the first and main account. Most of his original videos were taken down a while ago with TH-cam rules

  • @Maximum_Regret
    @Maximum_Regret 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +192

    Mad respect to keep your family life more private as time goes on. Real man, real father and realist to the world.

  • @marchadventures4301
    @marchadventures4301 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    As a mom and grandma, I love this! Good for you and Mere for keeping your kids out of the spotlight as they get older!

  • @AK4TF
    @AK4TF ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Had noticed the family absence here recently, didn't think anything of it. Good man with good values, just figured yall were busy. Kids growing up, doing their own thing outside of what you do videos on. Still good to hear everything is well with you and the family. Hope it stays that way for yall and hope we have another 10 years of videos.

    • @JeffDeWitt
      @JeffDeWitt ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Only ten? Hopefully a lot longer than that!

    • @TheGladious
      @TheGladious ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah honestly I thought Mer was spending her time at BB and the kids were going up.

  • @mookyyzed2216
    @mookyyzed2216 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Too many predators out there. Protecting your daughters is job number one. Well done Matt. As fun as it is having them in your vlogs, their safety is a million times more important.

  • @jpotato8918
    @jpotato8918 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +470

    As a father of girls I get this 100%. A legend of a man and a great dad! Keep doing you my bro!

    • @badlydrawncars6460
      @badlydrawncars6460 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Not a father, but I have a younger sister. There's so many weird people out there, especially on the internet.

    • @DG-kr8pt
      @DG-kr8pt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      anyone have pics?

    • @triumphtriple95
      @triumphtriple95 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DG-kr8pt hilarious, underrated comment.

    • @eyecanon1ywin5
      @eyecanon1ywin5 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      are your daughters hot

  • @jeffreythomas799
    @jeffreythomas799 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    I’m going to miss your family being in the videos but I get it. I always wonder how you felt with all the possible creeps out there seeing your kids and such. We have seen that kids who grow up famous have issues later in life so it best just to keep them out of the limelight. Doing what’s best for your family. You’re a good man.

  • @MaryDalton64
    @MaryDalton64 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    As much as I loved seeing the videos of you all together as a family, I think you definitely made the right choice here. There is a line that has to be drawn at some point in time when you have a family and also a career or activity that puts you out there in the spotlight. There needs to be that separation between personal and public life, especially as the kids are getting older. I have friends in various entertainment fields who have had major issues with people who may have had no ill intentions, but who refused to understand that just because someone is out and about in public, it does not mean they want random people invading their space wanting pictures, autographs or just to chat, and it's often hard to convince them that you need your down time with family and friends. With the kids, especially the girls, getting older, there is also a big concern about the wrong kind of person fixating on them, because we all know that, while the majority of us who come and watch your videos have come to respect and care for you and your family, there are also come pretty nasty people out there on the internet and in the real world. So taking the spotlight off of the kids takes away a lot of risks and will allow them to just enjoy being kids and not mini celebrities with no privacy. So, while I will really miss those family moments, I totally respect the choice you and Meredith made to protect your kids.

  • @maykecabrera587
    @maykecabrera587 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    100% behind you on this man. Do you bud.. much respect.

  • @jdarr2169
    @jdarr2169 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Respect for not using your kids like some others might. Its a breath of fresh air seeing more people show good family values online these days. I don't have kids but I completely agree and definitely respect you for it.

  • @JD3industries
    @JD3industries ปีที่แล้ว +353

    As a viewer who knows how weird people can be. 100% respect. People can be Effing wierd. Your kids shouldnt have to deal with that. Very well played Sir.

    • @gangcurtin4731
      @gangcurtin4731 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed 100%. Well put.

  • @jeffpowers2916
    @jeffpowers2916 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Been here since the start of this channel. Got to meet you a couple times at cleetus and cars, think you are a great person. Nothing but respect for you. You shouldn't have to explain the decisions you make regarding your family. Wish you and all your family the best.

    • @robertj377
      @robertj377 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've been watching you for a long time. I've been thinking the same thing for a long time, the safety of your kids. There's a lot of nut jobs out there. I kind of knew that's why you stopped having them on. God bless and keep trucking.

    • @kenwillis8487
      @kenwillis8487 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think seeing Roman and Brittany go thru a stalking like situation and have their safety and personal space violated by digital hackers as well as people parking at the end of the driveway was personally motivating!

    • @greenmonsterisb
      @greenmonsterisb ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts I've seen him at cleetus and cars indy and bristol hes a hell of a great dude from what i witnessed...Matt if you read this I'll vouge for you and I'll see ya at the next one.
      I never bothered him either time but I'm talking about 3 to 5ft away at most and he was welcoming to everyone that came up to him and never pushed anyone way or anything like that

  • @cleonclink6811
    @cleonclink6811 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    True family man, that’s cool! As the provider and protector you should do what you feel is right. We are excited for the future of demo ranch!

  • @mej3811
    @mej3811 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Matt, I’ve been watching your videos since the days of microwave Monday, and 50 cal Fridays. It’s been awesome seeing you, your family, and your businesses grow. It’s truly amazing how far you’ve come in these 11 years. Watching your channels, and your dad’s channel, I can safely say that y’all deserve every bit of success that you have earned. Thanks for the laughs and the entertainment for so many years. Keep it up!

    • @TheAnnoyingBoss
      @TheAnnoyingBoss ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I consider now officially that putin and zelensky are both dictators. Now is a good time to remember usa isnt a form of demcoracy

  • @alexanderh.3655
    @alexanderh.3655 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I fully understand. A small request: can we keep having Demo in the videos? Dozer and Demo have been an inspiration to get a dog of my own and still hold a warm place in my heart. I hope to keep seeing Demo being the bested (and goofy) boy!

    • @MrLionslayer
      @MrLionslayer ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I second this, demo is too good of a boy to keep him hidden

    • @Whoozerdaddy
      @Whoozerdaddy ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, for some reason, your request made my eyes leak this clear fluid, weird. I've loved dogs all my life but haven't had one in a long time. I miss them.

  • @wallyboo2
    @wallyboo2 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Watching your kids grow up has been fun. Baby chicks, puppies, goats, kittens from your vet clinic, Christmas celebrations, family vacations, go cart accidents…..what great memories. The look on Lincoln’s face whenever you brought home a new vehicle is priceless. But there are some real creepers on the internet that could make life so difficult for you. Glad you are putting up safeguards to keep your most treasured possessions safe.

    • @RuthArdis-wp5sx
      @RuthArdis-wp5sx ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're being a smart father by protecting your children . There are too many sickos out there that would do harm if they had a chance . At which we know Papa and mama bear would kick in . This world is dangerous and looking out for the best interest of your children is a very wise father .

  • @joeythechin8870
    @joeythechin8870 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a Dad of a 30 year old Son and a stepdad of 4 I totally understand your point Brother! I’m a Combat Vet, and I’m always on Guard when someone I don’t know approached the kids!!

  • @1Kravik
    @1Kravik ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I'll admit, when I saw the title, I was a little concerned. When you actually explained it all, it gave me a big smile. Family should always come first and I have so much respect for that.

    • @Incognito1786
      @Incognito1786 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He did a similar thing a few years ago. That being said, I was curious and was assuming he did it to make the people spreading the divorce rumors go "I knew it!"

    • @CrispyOkra
      @CrispyOkra ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "Knowing" Matt, I just figured it would be what it is.

  • @jasondurand843
    @jasondurand843 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I've always had respect for Matt for the content he creates and seeming like he's a genuinely nice guy, but after this video he has my respect even more.

  • @MrPincheRey
    @MrPincheRey ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Completely understand man. I have a 13 year old myself and I’ll destroy this world if anyone messes with her. I always wondered how you did it and how you separated the 2. The line has been drawn and im super happy for you and the family. From San Antonio, have a wonderful day bro.

  • @stevek2089
    @stevek2089 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    total respect for this man! when i saw the title, i thought, yeah possibly it could mean something, and yeah i knew better! there's no way!
    just over a few months of watching his channels, yeah i knew better, cuz him and Mere are the best parents ever and they will respect and grow with one another TOGETHER with their kids, which are awesome, too! soo much love and respect for this family! i wish you and your family all the best cuz ya'll definitely deserve it! keep on trucking, man!

  • @KillaAkuma
    @KillaAkuma ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Hell yeah man. I’ll promise this, if I ever got to meet you in person and it was in public I’d rather give you the nod and keep it moving. People have lost the ability to respect other people.

    • @jeffhaft7378
      @jeffhaft7378 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      At the most quietly say DEMOLITIA with the nod

    • @alexhilton4657
      @alexhilton4657 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I totally agree!

    • @col.cottonhill6655
      @col.cottonhill6655 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't even do that I ignore celebrities completely. One time Don Cheadle said hi to me and I was just like "uh hi". To be fair I didn't recognize him at first.

    • @themanhimself3
      @themanhimself3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeffhaft7378 Chanting it helps.

  • @gerinchambers4787
    @gerinchambers4787 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    As a long time viewer, I do miss the family style vlogs, the ski trips, lake Tahoe, etc... they are super fun videos to watch. It has been very neat seeing the kiddos grow up too. I 100% understand the transition. I'm sure there are 10s of thousands of others who share the same sentiments. Thanks for continuing to produce intriguing and interesting content. Cheers to many more years!

  • @elicole8047
    @elicole8047 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    I can’t stress how big this video made me smile. I’ve watched Matt since I was a kid and he’s a very low key role model for me. Marriages lasting make me so happy:)

    • @gsss246
      @gsss246 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      its sad that it’s common from some of our favorite youtubers we grew up watching. lunkers TV Donut Operator. etc

    • @MR-backup
      @MR-backup 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      " Marriages lasting make me so happy:) "

    • @Lil.B.The.Based.God.
      @Lil.B.The.Based.God. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a weirdo thing to comment.

  • @joelshea8022
    @joelshea8022 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    as a viewer since custom shotgun shells ep3 I support your decisions 10000% and just hope for the best for you and your family, I was 12 when I started watching you sir, you got me to post videos myself meny years ago! I don't anymore sadly life took me a different direction. My I say your videos and yourself have shaped alot of who I am. Sad to see the family go over the years, so so happy to still have you and your incredibly wonderful videos. Thank you Matt for taking us along for the ride.

  • @CoreySharpRE
    @CoreySharpRE ปีที่แล้ว +53

    As someone who is so family focused, this is kind of a bitter sweet announcement. It all started watching Demo Ranch. Then I fell in love with Off The Ranch because of your family dynamic. It's definitely something to look up to and aspire to. Now that I have a little girl, I completely get it, though. You're a great man!

  • @markanderson9857
    @markanderson9857 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Thank you for protecting your family! I thought the same thing a long time ago. As much as at times its probably lots of fun for them to be in videos. Children need to have a normal home life. I really thought about it when you got the armored suburban. Even got them body armor. I was glad that you were thinking about protecting them. Not having them in the constant public eye is even better protection. Keep up the great parenting!

  • @StonedAF101
    @StonedAF101 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This make total sense Matt and anyone who has any decency will agree! We're here to see shit get blown up, sure some are here to know about you... and those are the weirdo's u need to watch out for. Straight up, I'd see some random guy talking to my daughter, i'd be up in his face like bird shit on a black shoe. Keeping your children safe is the MOST IMPORTANT JOB ANY FATHER HAS!

  • @ryanlenihan7665
    @ryanlenihan7665 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    9:30 great dad, great point, he is a father who cares about his kids and wants to protect them. its nice to see there are still people like this

  • @vigilantvoice9778
    @vigilantvoice9778 ปีที่แล้ว +588

    Imagine the level of disappointment some folks will have knowing Matt’s life and marriage aren’t falling apart!

    • @stephenthompson9722
      @stephenthompson9722 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I was thinking this has to be a troll. Praying it was!!

    • @its_trenner2900
      @its_trenner2900 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      I was just glad to see it WASN'T falling apart.

    • @K..C
      @K..C ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@its_trenner2900same, the video title worried me a bit

    • @Lethe_
      @Lethe_ ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was scared for a sec but thank goodnesss

    • @KayInMaine
      @KayInMaine ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes, there are creepy jealous women on here at times. They like to spread lies about Matt and Mere.

  • @hunterbohman7555
    @hunterbohman7555 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +178

    As a single dad of a little girl, I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND YOUR REASONS!!! I respect them and agree with them. It's your life, your channels, and your choice as to how much your family, wife & kids are featured in the videos. 👍👍👍👍

    • @dwightcurrie8316
      @dwightcurrie8316 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I'm about to "Assume" the Male Role for my 12 yr old Grand Daughter. Her dad preferred Meth and Meth Ho's to being married and raising their Girls. I have a new born Filly, bor this past Summer, who needs Handling and Gentling, so I've "Conned" my Grand Daughter into spending her Summer "Helping Me" gentle this fine little Filly, in the hope that I can point her in another direction than the one her older Sister is Hell Bent on taking. In doing so, I hope to teach her "Horsemanship" along with Patience, Honor, Discipline, and Always keeping a Promise, even if you Hate it. Kinda "The Cowboy Code" but adapted to an at risk Little Girl.
      This isn't 2 strangers meeting. I've known and Adored her since Birth, and even tho I Love all 5 Grand Kids(None By Blood, but By Marriage #3 that didn't work), but I Raised the two Step Daughters from early Teens, and have a Solid Relationship with Both, and all the Gr Kids Love Papa & know he Brooks No Bullshit, so it ain't gonna be a TV Movie scenario, just my Busted Up Old Cowboy Ass trying to show this Youngun that she has Options in life & one of them is to be a Cowgirl if she wants to. Her Gentling and eventually Breaking this Filly to Ride, is what will make that decision for her. If she does it and loves that Filly like I assume she will, the Filly is already Hers.....She just doesn't know that part of it yet.....I Mean, How Cruel would it be to put her thru all the work that it will take and leave her with nothing but a "Thank You"? Hell, I'm 73 with a total of 7 Horses, besides the Filly, so it ain't like I'll be making a Big Sacrifice, by just giving her the Filly. I just want to make sure she has the Love Of The Sport Of Horse Ownership, Breaking & Training, and if she does, she'll inherit all my Horses, Tack, My 60 year old Saddle(I got it when I was 13) that's been All Over America more than several times, and strapped to God Knows how many Horses in my Misspent Youth as a Bronc Stomper & All Round Horseman. It's gonna be an "Interesting" Summer, and Afterward
      Wish me luck and a few Prayers wouldn't go unappreciated either

  • @annjohnson9659
    @annjohnson9659 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great idea. I agree wholeheartedly.
    I love your posts.
    I found you one day & watched 10 episodes.
    Couldn’t stop.
    Keep posting.
    Loving the channel from Newcastle Australia 🇦🇺

  • @wilbready
    @wilbready ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Matt Carricker, father and husband of the year! You must protect what is yours and we will most certainly stay tuned to whatever you decide to share with us!

  • @glencalhoun9544
    @glencalhoun9544 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +175

    DAYUM RIGHT BROTHER!!! Protect Your Family!!! That's the Most Absolute Beautiful Statement I've Heard You Make!!! You're A GREAT Man Matt!!!

    • @Jeffrey_Tyler
      @Jeffrey_Tyler 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Holy shit, was that a real, not a joke or meme, "damn right brother"? 😂😂 people like you really do exist? I love it lol

    • @glencalhoun9544
      @glencalhoun9544 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Jeffrey_Tyler some of us, that really do exist, consider ALL of God's children our Brothers or Sisters. Glad you "Love it". Have a Blessed Day Today and Everyday Brother. 😁😁😁

  • @el_sancho935
    @el_sancho935 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I completely understand your stance on how you want your kids being treated and you are absolutely right there are a lot of evil people out in this world and I would honestly do the same you are doing great Matt love you bro

  • @richardkellar9259
    @richardkellar9259 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    HEII yeh! That makes sense Matt! We support your decision for your family!

  • @Ben-gm6zi
    @Ben-gm6zi ปีที่แล้ว +129

    We just care about you and your families well being so having an update like this is wonderful, because we completely understand and will 100% respect your families privacy as they deserve it. We love your videos regardless.

    • @SmallAndSoft
      @SmallAndSoft ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Okay your over doing it

    • @jacobkean03
      @jacobkean03 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I appreciate the update as well, that just shows that he cares about us and keeping us in the loop lol.

    • @rodiona8781
      @rodiona8781 ปีที่แล้ว

      We will also send Matt a ham for Christmas. Each one of we

  • @CloroxJelloShot
    @CloroxJelloShot ปีที่แล้ว +114

    A person with a pretty big level of fame that is worried about his children and is trying to keep them safe and raising them right. Why we like to watch Matt on anything he does.

    • @ziadajam5433
      @ziadajam5433 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      12 subs 😂

  • @gamedestroyer3311
    @gamedestroyer3311 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    About to watch but don’t scare me with that title bro💀😂

    • @Gem-of9pv
      @Gem-of9pv ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Literally 🙈💀

    • @Urbexer00703
      @Urbexer00703 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fr

    • @the88thdarcstar
      @the88thdarcstar ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Or give us hope we might have a shot lol

    • @biginfluencer5252
      @biginfluencer5252 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@the88thdarcstarhome wrecker😭🤣

    • @jamesireland9188
      @jamesireland9188 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why would that scare you it doesn't affect you some of you take this way to personal it's creepy

  • @ljguthridge
    @ljguthridge 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude. I respect you and the fam. So glad you and Mere are doing great. Watched you through some hard times and I always leave feeling good. Never change!

  • @simonmayle45-70
    @simonmayle45-70 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I cant believe ive followed matt for so long. I think its been almost 20 years if im not mistaken. The old demo ranch days of custom shotgun shells before his channel was popular at all. Matt is the epitome of what every man should aspire to be! Thanks for all the content! Keep it up

  • @thefunnydude222
    @thefunnydude222 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My wife and I are currently expecting our first, and as a man I totally understand why you want to keep children and family out of the public eye. Safety is key, people are crazy, and it’s our duty to keep them safe and happy. Continue to be the great father and role model to your family, we all need to see more of this in our society.

    • @JonathanH1253
      @JonathanH1253 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As the father of an almost two and a half year old little boy, just a little advice here. Don't be afraid to tell people to back up and not to touch your kid, especially strangers... You will get total strangers coming up to you saying "your baby is SO CUTE!!!" and they'll try to get right in your babies face to talk to them... don't be afraid to tell them to back up. And don't be afraid to tell family and friends not to kiss your kid, only you, your wife, your parents, and her parents should be kissing your kid, especially when they're a newborn. You don't know what kind of germs people have on them, you don't need someone inadvertently giving your kid RSV or anything else that's dangerous to small children.

  • @justsaying6870
    @justsaying6870 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Big respect for protecting your family from the negative impact being in videos could have on them, especially the kids. You're a good man. I wish more people would be as concerned for their family as you are. The world is a scary, messed up place right now, and a person could never be to protective of their loved ones. Love to you and your family! Be safe

  • @cbrevard9741
    @cbrevard9741 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Good for you, Protect the family at ALL COST!!

  • @kipbrandel4545
    @kipbrandel4545 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Absolutely LOVE this!! A mother and father looking out for the safety of their children! Makes me like your channels even more!

  • @tahaaljebouri8947
    @tahaaljebouri8947 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I don’t have kids or am I married, but I completely understand and have so much more respect for you now. Thank you for being an awesome dad.

  • @sdechc_jku2900
    @sdechc_jku2900 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Finally a TH-camr that has sensibility, and puts his family first both safety and thoughtfully I never worried about it because that is your personal life and I don’t watch your videos for your personal life kudos to you Matt hope you have many many many years of happiness. continued support

  • @dirktherev
    @dirktherev 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you Bro. That's why you're like the dad of all the gun tubers. Wisdom takes the lead. As a new content creator, I admire your candor and boldness. Stay you bro. Praying for your continued success and happiness.

  • @aina3387
    @aina3387 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    We will miss them but I'm glad they are ok! I remember watching you on Vet Ranch and with the kiddos and Merr and thinking about how cool it would be to have that kind of life someday. As it happened, I subsequently moved to Texas and am marrying a vet who is also an aggie, so apparently dreams do come true (or God answers prayers).

  • @danielgamboa2027
    @danielgamboa2027 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hey Matt as a long time follower and fan and a father of two beautiful girls I need to say I’m proud of you for this decision your a great guy and role model, hope to see you continue succeeding with this path you’ve taken!

  • @TheReforgedgaming
    @TheReforgedgaming ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I'm not even a parent but I respect that you're protecting your family. The internet is a weird place and with social media being as big as it is let kids be kids. I'm proud to see how much you value your kids growing up.

  • @carsonwashburn1
    @carsonwashburn1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been following along with you and your family for almost 10 years now. I love that you never hid your faith from TH-cam, and I specifically remember one of your girls running back to the chicken coop to grab her Bible because she was “reading her Bible to the chickens.” You guys are awesome and I hope to see your resort in person some day!

  • @nickmaguire333
    @nickmaguire333 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    As a father, I can't appreciate this more!