10 Reasons Why Women Chase More
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ต.ค. 2024
- Ten (10) typical reasons why women tend to chase more in dating and relationships than men do, and how understanding this natural dynamic between masculine and feminine energy, can make your dating and relationship life free from worry of rejection or getting dumped unexpectedly.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer who has been following my work for over a year and has bought my book. She says that she agrees with almost everything I teach, except with what I teach about women chasing men more in dating and relationships. She says that she does not like it when men over-pursue and act too beta-male-like. She says that she has noticed that in some countries in Europe, men tend to be more passive at home and let the women lead, which she finds is a turn-off. She brings up some interesting points and thinks men should be more the way she says she wants, but in the same email she talks about how guys that actually behave that way are a turn-off and act like babies. I discuss ten reasons why women naturally will chase more than men over time as they become more attracted and interested. You can definitely see the unhealthy influence of over-dominant feminism and how it’s confused and made gender roles blurred and unbalanced between men and women.
“Feminism was originally a great idea and movement to make sure women got voting rights and were treated as equals and teammates. However, over the last fifty-plus-years, feminism has become unbalanced, too aggressive and focused on tearing men down, neutering and emasculating them. Way too many TV shows and movies portray men as bumbling, weak, stupid, dishonest, feminine and girly, while the women are increasingly portrayed as being confident, aloof, smart, masculine and manly. This has blurred the natural and innate masculine and feminine gender roles and caused unbalanced sexual polarity as men and women struggle to be who they really are, have healthy relationships and adapt to women being in positions of power and leadership in their careers and home lives. The solution is for men and women to understand the difference between masculine and feminine energy, how this creates sexual polarity and attraction, and act according to their own dominant natural essence.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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I've tried the "letting men pursue me" role. It invariably makes me lose attraction for them. When I'm dating masculine men, I enjoy pursuing them and it increases my attraction to them. As long as I know they like me and they are reciprocating, it's very exciting and makes me feel feminine and girly - I like it.
THANK you for admitting this. Every man can tell you an Instance where a girl was interested at first but ghosted him later on. We never knew why until we learned the hard way that we were being clingy.
It makes no sense 😂
I found Corey 20 years too late 😂 - stupid media teaching us wrong. It’s great to see a women admit it - and it all makes sense now whenever i stopped caring i would always get my girl back
As a woman, I'm right there with you. Corey really helped me put words to what I do and don't like, which cleared up a lot of confusion. I'm looking forward to how I will handle things when dating moving forward. The last guy I dated, I told him immediately that things needed to go slow and I needed to set the pace. This did not happen and he was extremely overbearing in his pursuit and all up in his emotions, his needs, his fantasy, etc. I ended it. They said, things went on longer than I think it needed to because I was confused. On paper, he seemed like a great catch, but as time went on, the less I was feeling it. All I could tell him (I did several times) is the things he was doing was too much, too fast, and it was overwhelming me. He just didn't hear me and said that's just who he is. I believe he was possibly thinking I was flippant. Then 5 weeks into it, I ended it. There is zero chance of us having contact moving forward.
Are you dating anyone? Are you serious with anyone?
I’ve adopted the “let women come to you approach” and boys... I’m ballin 😎
How's that going for you nowadays? 😂
@@bahaatamer1245 probably like this.. "dear diary I have been locked down in her basement for about month eating everything what I find.. if somebody read this know this it wasn't an accident/suicide..."
Explore17 if does not work then it’s just meant that you will be alone. Which is better then accepting a woman that does not knock your socks off.
Doubt...lol you gotta put all the effort in for the first couple of days sometimes a week or more but I only give myself three days per woman if you do everything right and if her initial interest is high enough you are gold but after you have a girl that you just do it for her at first sight is the best...but be weary of women who approach you 10/10 they are not good lol
people, study human design. Darryl might be a projector or pure generator.
For me, if the woman is not chasing after a few weeks, I'll assume lack of interest and just leave it there.
Thats not what Corey teaches, read the book you should go back to calling once per week to setup dates. After 2 no's, then you move on. You're being a cold fish
@@conradkelly8101 I think he means in terms of after a couple of dates
Reciprocation is the tell tale sign of interest...the more it increases, the interest they have in you. Hence them initiating is a dead giveaway
Nah he's right if they don't want you after the second date if you've done everything right move on let her reach out a couple times then do a third date and if that didn't build her attraction to at least 65% you will always have to do everything and it's not worth it.
Lol! You’re hardcore bro 😂
Whatever comes out of this dudes mouth is gold
ikr
Wisdom is more precious than gold...
Mario Tesla lol
Yep 👍
Good comment. Absolutely true. He's very perceptive.
this guy got PhD in women psychology. I can testify he doesn't lie and his advice is best it can get. Corey you the man
Once you can put what Corey says into practice, everything will seem to be in 'autopilot' and you'll be stress free
I let myself go physically and mentally i wasnt in my masculine. well I changed due to a recent breakup i started hitting the gym hard and watching your videos i can proudly say i am on my way to becoming a 3pct man thanks coach!
Good job dude
that's awesome, bro! :)
how many times have you read the book?
how many times have you read the book?
Good to hear bruv!
Maybe this will motivate you: my gf broke up with me 1 year ago...well i was following corey halfway already, i changed and everything changed for me. needless to say she started chasing me as well as maaaany other girls. we are now together but the relationship changed massively, i am not the chaser anymore. thanks to you corey!
Great video. My stepfather, now deceased, was a well known psychiatrist in the area I live. I can remember our family going to dinner back in the early 1970's and having the same exact conversation about emerging feminism that you described in your video. He was spot on.
Tesla Described this in his writings and why he NEVER married. NO "REAL" Women@ That TIME and that was before the welfare state and No fault divorce;)
Corey is like a relationship monk ! Very pure information
Visiting this video again and it makes so much more sense. PhD candidate, single, a little older in age and saying EXACTLY what you'd expect her to. I hope she has found the one she was looking for at this time.
Hey Corey, I just want to say that I've become a quick fan of your work. A friend of mine recommended your work to me a few months ago but I thought a man shouldn't need help in handling his life.
After a recent breakup where I ended up dumping the girl, I've decided to read your book. It helped me a lot in overcoming the uncertainty of being single and acting like the man I truly am.
Keep up the good work and thanks for everything.
When getting married, the man is in essence giving the woman the wining lottery ticket. If she stays she wins if she leaves she still wins. With today's laws, marriage is a bad deal for men and places way to much power in the hands of women.
Historically, too many men abandoned their wives and children and left them destitute. Historically, women couldn't work and provide for themselves. That's why the support laws exist. If you don't want a support order, don't get married and above all, don't have children. It's not for everyone.
Well, I’ve raised three kids alone. NO CHILD SUPPORT! It took me years to raised three beautiful human beings and two are males with very much respect for women because I taught them to respect others. One of my sons is divorced and very responsible with his son and doesn’t complain about it.
I am super guilty of letting people stick around for longer than they should. My ex and i hit it off right away, however, I knew i about a year or so into the relationship, that she wasn't the girl i wanted to be with. And yet, i allowed her to guilt me into staying with her for 3½ years. As you can probably guess, that relationship was miserable and ended in a trainwreck. I got comfortable in my misery, and even contemplate getting back with her, but i refuse to reach out any more. I will move on, and i will find the girl i deserve to be with.
If Corey ever starts a cult, I'm totally joining and I'll even drink the kool aid. On my third read through the book. This man is a sage.
It is a cult lol The 3% cult
Hello Corey. I've been following your work for over two years now and I just wanna say thank you for the way you've turned my life around. I'm still being myself, but the mindset I bring onto every aspect of life have changed my life tremendously. I'm currently dating a completely gorgeous girl I didn't think I ever had a chance with when I was 15 and every day I'm pursuing my goals. Just felt i I had to say something, have a really nice evening!
Corey, mate this is by far the best, most logical, insightful piece of mastery I've ever heard from all of your coaching newsletters. You sir are the man!
hardest part Is applying your tips. coz it will be like changing the way to think.
I think your content is very accurate and already told the guy I’m dating to read the book it just so we’re on the same page on what I’m expecting from a man. I told him I really want this to work and he can get back to me when he read the book.
Thats a remarkable woman! Making progress.
I was kicked out of a FB group that was run buy another (women's) dating coach for quoting Corey Wayne. Thank you for making perfect sense to me. I knew I was not completely off base. ( p.s. you sir are 🔥😍)
Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
I thought i knew it all. I know nothing. So glad i found this channel. Changing my life for the better. Thank you !.
I didn't wanna comment, but first of all, thank you Coach Wayne for your books, I read them both and added value to my life, but as to the PhD, Robert Kyosaky would say that PhD stands for Poor desperate and Hopeless. We all know that men do not care about a woman's accomplishments, a man like me only cares if she is confidebt, in other words, in her femenine, as described in your book. That's what an alpha female stands for in my book.
This is probably the denominator video for all relationships! Fight it, argue, disagree, but it remains true!
Coach your book is very subtle and densely packed with knowledge. When I reflect at my experience with relevent sections of your book , I am amazed by the simplistic ,yet deliberate and subtle way you put it. The words, their order, the analogies,the mindset behind ...everything is refined to its core and feels very natural and spiritual in nature once gotten hang of it. Your's is only book I've found in the non-religious category after Richest man in Babylon with these same traits and thats the reason why it needs 10 to 15 rereads because on surface it appears just common sense but every word has a cause.
Thanks a lot Coach. You changed my Life for better .
Ive recently been working on my nutrition and bruh. BIGGEST GAME changer.
Would you mind elaborating? What did you change up/bring in different and what effects have you noticed on energy, mood, clarity, etc.? Is that what you mean….?
Thanks Corey. Your work is changing my life for the better and I’m greatfull and appreciative. All the best.
Your advise to me as a married man is very helpful and insightful .
Thank you .
Not really chasing more like giving her space to develop feelings
@Coach Corey Wayne, After following your work for more then a Year ish now! holly fukkk! i gave up my shitty job working nights and finally started doing something where i can progress in a career and not be so fkin miserable all the time! Coach your work is emotionally so refreshing!...
My gf of 3 months is coming with me to the NY Comic Con...I'm the happiest man alive!... I'll delete this comment later so she won't know my feelings =)
5 years from now come back and comment and let us know if you're still happy!
She's a keeper
Hahahahahahahahahahayhyah
So how did it go?
Sweeeeet!
20:30 spot on. Men are conditioned to be punks tap dancing around women's emotions. I'm sick of it.
Well,...you’re obviously gay.
"or moustache.." 16:45 Haha! Brilliant video, enjoying your work mate
I agree with a woman being the chaser in that I want to choose what I want in life including a man.
I do not want to sit back and wait to be chosen, it's not natural. In all other aspects of my life I find my own opportunities and if they work out then awesome. If it doesn’t than I have the satisfaction of that experience and of knowing just one more thing I don’t or do like in a man. But this way regardless of what happens I have control of how I feel throughout the whole process and know that I put myself there.
The man chases first and once her interest is established, the woman starts pursuing.
People in the west has forgotten so many things..and one of them is that every thing in nature is balance...if you want a good healthy relationschip with yourself and others ..you need to be a balanced person and that means balancing your feminine and masculine energie because if your to masculine your not going to understand the feminine and if your to feminine your not going to understand the masculine.Unbalanced people can not meet each others needs on a deeper level.The relationship will stay on an emotional level and never on a spiritual level.You people also need to understand that balance in nature is not 50/50.balance in nature can be 30/70..or 10/90..just follow nature and you'll see every where there is another kind of balance.For women need to balance there feminine and masculine energy and feel ..you will know when is right and the same goes for men..because when your balanced as a women you'll feel the masculine and understand end for the men you'll feel te feminine and understand and so create that spiritual connection.Because that is what we all looking for subconciuosly........sorry for my englisch
Thanks for commenting about single parent (mothers mostly) households. I use to feel inferior because of that and ask myself "I grew up around only women, why don't I understand them?" They also taught that male aggression (in the form of assertiveness and taking initiative with sex and money) was bad. Women don't like receiving attention like that at all! The messages were crossed and confusing since all the girls would dress persuasively. My mother chased wimpy emasculate men and taught that men let women approach. I was mislead and raised on TV too. I've disowned that. I meet women in parks and church that like meeting men, being politely approached, during the day. They consider it courage and no man wants a woman that starts and approaches. I fell for that and would rather be a 40 year old virgin. I also found that other kids (boys), with fathers, will beta-size or bully kids with single parent households, and try to keep the girls for themselves. Girls are just as judgmental and go for it as part of crowd mentality. But, those guys they choose leave them as single mothers and keep that vicious cycle going on and on and on....
"I'm one of the most humble people you will ever know"... lol
LOL, I heard that and thought ..hmm
I too, am extraordinarily humble
I'm the most humble person on Earth. My humbleness knows no bounds. If there was a humble contest, I would win it hands down.🤣🤣
*continues to bring up Phd*
Looking clean, Coach! This is what the kids call, "#NotificationSquad" 😄😎
I doubted you at first but since I applied your priciples on my ex she humbling herself and being submissive .Trust me if she can become like that means you are totally right
What did you do to get there?
You are absolutely right on point on everything here.
I used to chase all the time, till I realized that I was wasting my time and I began concentrating just on myself. If they call me ok if not ok too.
It's a difficult situation though because phone calls are so easy to ignore nowadays calling has taken as so many different forms. Needy, insecure, unsure, bossy, thirsty. No man wants to be the butt of a girls friend group while she let's your calls go while they laugh about how desperate you are. These things happen. Men ruin their chances so easily and ppl rarely pick up anyways
You can't legislate how men and women interact on a personal level; it's evolutionary stuff. If you take your dating and relationship queues from TV/movies, you're gonna lose this game :-(
I pursued my fiance, and it is working very well, he thinks that I'm the most feminine woman that he had, the other women that he pursued in the past are in masculine polarity and "I don't need a man" type.
Yep. I remember my youthful, pretty girl days. I liked chasing, not being chased.
Yes, and actually... I looked down on the guys who were too nice. I had a lot of pride and unconscious thinking. In the end, I found a guy who could provide and wasn't too soft.
and you're still looking for a lover
ProfitableLifestyles How is it under that bridge? Do you like the frogs? Married 27 years, thank you.
and you're still looking for a lover
Oh yeah! No, seriously, have you watched any of Wayne's other videos? I have. I don't know anyone who's single to meet up with ya, sorry.
God bless you Corey; you’re a good dude and you’ve helped me a lot; God bless you
I was blown off after a female friend committed to going to an awards banquet with me. She blew me off ONE hour before the event. This was a patent friend zone move. I saw her the next day and asked if her excuse cost her a bunch of money, she said no. Saw her again (We go to church together) at the night service, she came in late, didn't sit next to me (Which had been going on for months) and she wouldn't make eye contact, she then bolted after services. This tells me she was totally lying. So, I am breaking contact (We agreed to be friends, but I wanted more), if she contacts me again, i will set a date where she will come to me and I will tell her "I want romance, not friendship, so I will always be a friend to you, but we should just say hi to each other from now on (Her grand kids love me and I was complying with her wishes all the time). I just bought Corey's "3%" book, I am going to get out there and start dating using the principles and watch what happens with her. Maybe the good lord allowed me to run into this information so that I can find a good wife down the road. Someone who can respect, be loyal and communicate on an adult level. Good luck fella's.......RISK FAVORS THE BOLD.
Dont agree on being friends
Imagine not having a profoundly strong relationship with a male figure and trying to become a 3% man? I thought that Ross Geller, from FRIENDS, was a good man to fashion myself after...I spent a lot of nights with my cocoa butter, my left hand and fantasies of living happily ever after, with women I had no chances with
Roberto Masensi lol
hahahaha ah man!
Ross is such a chump lmao I love that show tho.
it's hard man. but hey corey had a dominant mother and look him now... we can do it mayne. since we are going to work EXTRA hard the reward will be all the more GREAT!
1st...2nd....3rd...I don't care, just glad to be here 👍😂
Some women chase more than others. Its not a one size fits all approach.
True, it depends on how comfortable they are in their own skin and whether they are needy, structured or balanced.
@@CoachCoreyWayne Amazing answer. I have started noticing this big time as i am back in the dating game!
Damn.
I, just could not agree more to so many of your theories in this video. From how far the pendulum has swung in a direction that is detrimental for both sexes. To why women would be interested in your book. When I first heard about that.. honestly I was first relieved and then happy. Happy that finally, SOMEONE IS SAYING IT! I’ve had my own ideas on how to so delicately address this issue being woman abs debating that whole power dynamic. It’s nothing short of infuriating of being just overwhelmed with men who I’m sure have ever great intention, but.. 😐. Ugh, ew.. just gross in general. In the beginning I was just satisfied that finally a man was pointing out these very important facts and that other men were listening and I had zero intentions of even crossing this barrier. Men need this space. Women’s heads need to in the (sexual) game where as men are visually in the game. I wish this information would and could spread as fast as.. other things spreading across the globe. Because none of us are getting any younger. I really think.. well have ideas about-a lot in general how these tips on living and relationships could be bigger. I do hope you continue to be as active as you have been with this message. Men need.. yes need, to find their own self esteem and masculinity for.. it just has such a significant impact to so many facets of life. I’m honestly stuck between knowledge and reality (Rock and hard spot). Of course I want to dive deep into your theories, but have to know.. that the odds of me running into someone who shares the same values of life as I do is.. meh, at best. The deeper I would get into things I know I want and as you point out the painfully obvious, it would in return, leave an even more unfulfilled gap within myself. The more that I learned about what feels so familiar and right within myself, I would inevitably be wanting that and even more petty with attributes that I’m the long run, be issues. I guessing just answered my own dilemma here. But can you understand the give and take issues that are even happening before I’m even actively dating??! I’m not even looking forward to it in the least. So.. if women-I can only speak for myself, seem to be a little hostile, know that battles like this are currently happening right under those hair follicles. So the happiness and relief the right man has the potential to bring, ceases battles you never knew were being fought.
My biggest problem is, I have worked hard and made a lot of money in my life, when I meet girls, I find myself looking at them in 1 way, what value does she bring to a relationship, and sex from women are to easy to get, so sex is worthless in the equation, it's more of a job interview, not a relationship building experience.
No Corey, 2-3 weeks in the beginning is not true anymore, I just give her my number, and up from that moment she chases me. So basically all I do is give my number and then i get passive, works the best, I am the Price. Giving her my Number is the invitation to chase me.
For some reason, I find that this women probably isn't as humble as she pretends to be. I can understand how she mentions her Phd once or even twice, but she keeps mentioning it over and over again as if she needs to validate herself as an alpha female. I know plenty of humble alpha males and females who have doctorates but they don't need to mention it a lot. It just comes through by their intellect and knowledge of their subject or the world. If she truly wants an alpha male, I think she needs to let the guy be masculine.
mav1877 maybe it’s you seeing what you want to see in her? And you use her mentioning her diplomas to validate your initial thoughts.....? I know humble guys who also mention their diplomas a lot , specially when they talk about something related to their domain.
Omg I need this right now in my life! I need this! I feel better!
Coach knows his stuff. Try it out. . . . .experience will always be the best teacher.
"I'm so humble" - " but let me mention I have a PhD 300 more times"
Untongue I am twice as humble as you, plus I meditate.
"Their mustache *wink*" LMAO
Funny how they complain about how they should pursue more, but then they actually get turned off by the guys who pursue them. Women really don't know what they want. For instance, a female coworker noticed I was upset and told me I could talk to her about it. I said "no, I'm a man, I don't need to talk about my feelings." She was like, "Don't be like D!" Ironic because D is her boyfriend who she's in love with, and he's also a guy who every other girl who meets him, likes him. Seriously guys, don't ever take women's advice on how to deal with women, or how to be a man.
If women do most of the chasing, that's in the man's benefit. If men do most of the chasing, that's in the woman's benefit. Why? Because the more invested you are, the more attracted you'll feel, the more you'll fall in love, and the more you'll feel like you don't want to let the other person go. So SHE might feel more chemistry if she's doing the chasing but that doesn't usually benefit her in the long run when the guy loses interest and she's still head over heels in love with someone who doesn't want the same thing with her. That's why relationships are better built together... and it's in the woman's benefit to wait until a committed relationship before she starts putting in equal amounts of effort in.
Give it a rest bud
You don’t get it 😂
You're a simp. It's obvious.
Corey got dat head smooth today, but good video, lol
I chase men all the time I just Dont let them know I do it. Cause he has to meet me half way after I've got him.
That is the best feeling to me
Especially if she is the one we love
She has all the right too
Me and this guy been friends since high school.I told him that I want to take things slow but he said we still can do adult things but said he was playing about it after I asked him. Last week I was trying to get to know him better asking him some questions he asked me am I done with the interviews then laughed at me l felt some type of way about it.Then he said he loves me and will always still have feelings for me since high school even if we don't get into a relationship. He takes me out to get something to eat but we sit in the car to eat our food or just sit in the car to talk. He sometimes want to see me at night around 8pm when it suppose to be at 5 something for us to go out some where he keeps making up excuses for not showing up on time.I make up excuses to not seeing him at night when he ask me.I had told him I wanted for us to go out more during the day.He still does the same stuff over.He even told me he want to go to the club with his guy friend. I told him you only go to the club if you're single so then I ask him why he wants to go to the club all the time for?.He said to hang with his friends.Why he says he want to go to the club after he done said he loves me.He is pressuring me to say l love you when I'm not ready yet.We haven't been on a date yet and doesn't want nobody else to have me or look at me.Then he said he was playing about the club thing.He told me he don't like using condoms because he is allergic to them.He even said his baby mother still have feelings for him when everytime he drops the baby off to her house.What should I do?
damien Agboola Thank you
damien Agboola I delete his number & everything
Tamara Johnson let it go!!! Move on to create time and space for someone to come into your life that will treat you like you want.
No bullshit coach and anyone who might read this. I have read the book 12 times on my 13th read watched I don't even know how many videos etc. above all I APPLIED what he teaches, I had my fuck ups in the beginning and still have fuck ups but that's ok everyone does. To get to my point I now see women do pretty much the same groups or patterns as others. If you go out and apply what he teaches you will see it and after that moment it's just salmon swimming up stream.
Pull the ripcard...omg I laughed so much, great stuff Corey ,you grew on me with time.
glad you mentioned the lesbian aspect of things. So i basically have to act less feminine emotionally in order to keep my women .
yea i understand that now thanks.
Pretty Tomboy or don’t be gay...be feminine so A man can fuck the shit out of you n make you submit.
man. i wish i had found your page long ago. the most important thing to me is gone without recovery, my wife and toddler. she went cold all of the sudden. i cant blame anyone but myself. just over 2 months into this living hell. -broken soul.
turbulus At least you are fucking ALIVE!!!
at least. but so are reptiles..
I'm learning alright. just not in time enough to undo my mistakes.
You must let your mistakes go. That's a key part of growth.
32:06 I too, am extraordinarily humble
"Mantis, look out!"
And tv shows sooner or later always have one of the main male characters end up dressed in drag...always.
Awesome video! QUESTION? Im a Super Empath, I am a Alpha male, i am programmed to be myself, how do i balance myself and not seem like a beta?
i actually do prefer to go get what i want vs i’m totally turned off by most that try to chase me ;)
Your a champ! Thanks for the info. Create a great day!
Finally a man that understands women true feminine nature.
I reverted to being passive with my ex wife because she refused to put me as the top priority in her life. To her, it was always her parents first, followed by her family. She never put my interest or needs as the top priority in her life.
So I refused to invest in her anymore than I wanted to be after 9 months of our marriage.
Love your videos Corey thanks
"I'm one of the most humble people I know" Is the most ironic thing I've ever heard
Holy cow Cory I wish I knew about you 10 to 15 years ago.
So if it’s after the first few weeks, women should be setting dates? I’ve always been told not to do that until a relationship has been established and that asking for dates would make you appear needy and/or desperate. For reference, I am a “high achieving, alpha female.” I’m confident, and I know what I want, so I’m comfortable initiating dates, but it seems whenever I do, it doesn’t work out. And for the record all I’m saying is something along the lines of, “hey that was fun, wanna do something again?” Also, I feel like women are told all the time not to have sex with the guy or to hook up until he seems seriously interested. It seems dating advice is in conflict. So how the heck is anyone supposed to know if someone has lost interest or if they’re waiting for you to pursue?
I want to know that too! I'm so confused 😕
4:45 - 5:13 I thought I had it figured out now, as you've said in other videos and such to let women chase. Yet what's being said in that time-frame, is that men chase at first at least, then we kick-back and let the women pursue back...that's how I'm perceiving the information. Which one is it?
It's not the fact that a dominant lesbian feel as though she's a man on the inside, because if you say it like that, that's just like saying that she think she's a man, or want to be a man, which isn't the case. It's the fact that she just feels more dominant. She's more on the dominant end. Feminine lesbians are attracted to women who are more in their dominant.
My ex got upset with me for not contacting her. But it worked. She got back to me.
Damn Corey your a bad ass dude! Hands down I’ve been listening to you and other for a year and a half .. now I’m barely starting to understand what your saying .. I was in a 8 year relationship being ultra beta I’m finally getting off of that mind set ..
I think most feminine men came from a family with a dominant mother, and a lack of fatherly figure since the father is always busy earning money. So when they grow, they developed feminine behaviors, that's why most Asian guys(Including me before reading your book) are shy, and lack of self-confidence. Most Asians get married fast just for money and security, and the lack of love turned the parents into demanding parents, while my past teachers always told me not to accept "western influences", but you literally opened my eyes, and many other friends' that I've recommended your book to just how fucked up our society is. Thanks
I mostly agree with Corey but I wrote for paid advice on this with a 'past Lesbian' girl I've now been dating off and on most recently for 2 1/2 years and I just don't think any advice will ever work with this girl. Corey's advice was to stop chasing. So I did and a beta male moved in with her. She kicked him out but he is still in her life. She even told me that she isn't use to being in a relationship where she isn't dominant. In fact she said she is use to telling a guy to jump. But feels like a little girl with me and can't deal with it. But other times she tells me I act too weak. In her 10 year Lesbian relationship she says they weren't 50/50, they were 100/100 and that is what she wants in a relationship. She is a little nuts though. All her previous guys relationships were terrible. I've know this girl since 1992 and while she says she has tried to make 'us' work many times, I don't agree as far as her actions go. We are also long distance which she also says "unless she moves" there is no 'me & her'. Basically, I don't think she fits the normal 'girl' mold and to tell the truth, I'm both Alpha and Beta male so I don't fit any standard stereotype either. I do enjoy Corey's work, bought his book, read it a few times (not 15..sorry Corey) and watched 100s of hours of his video. I'm now dating two other girls and trying to apply Corey's methods. One chick actually told me on the 2nd date, "I want an Alpha male!" and this chick is a drummer in a band and pretty hardcore. I guess there are exceptions to every rule but if I had followed Corey's methods BEFORE I screwed up with this woman, things might have worked out differently.
Men are the gardeners, women are the flowers.
A good gardener knows how much to water the flower, and how much to let it stay in the sun. A flower grows when it's in the sun if it's watered properly.
A woman's affection towards a man grows in his absence, if he's treating her good when he's around her.
Well said
I'm in bit of a head scratcher...
if anyone can help me see what I may not be seeing...
I'll keep it short and to the point... as much as possible...
several months ago I over pursued a girl and got turned down for a date...
I heard from her out of the blue after not speaking to her and I kept it short and sweet this time and went to make definite plans for a Saturday evening for a meet up
she bounced me saying she had plans for that weekend then informs me about a guy she has been dating for several months and is suspicious that he's been messing around on her and wants to be friends when we meet up...
I responded to her
"trust your feelings...
why don't you call me when you know for sure and things between you and him are said and done :)"
she agreed and wanted to be friends and still text...and if that was still ok
I responded to her again
"I'm not interested in being friends and would rather talk to you in person when we meet up...keep in touch when you know for sure..."
"OK" she replied...
I got on a dating website a few days ago and seen her picture back again
I didn't message nor did I check out her profile... I just left it alone...
any advice or light sheded would be appreciated
I have just relaized why I like strong and confident women because my eldest sister is that way everybody liked her. Corey you are fucking genius man...
"I'm one of the most humble people you'll ever known" 😂😂😂
Take dates and girlfriends for granted. Court your wife.
So true, don't be a Ross like in the show "Friends"
Joey all the way ;)
This makes me think about Robert Jordan's Wheel of Time Books and the division of male and female powers.
Coach, I have the knowledge. But taking action is super duper hard. What's your take on taking action?
hwaner1 Let's see you just do it. :P
Keyword “Act” real men don’t have to act like a man
Gina rules! Good call, man, she's excellent on The Mandalorian
Shes cool.
Thanks Corey
I recently lost after A5 year relationship mainly because my priority word responsibilities instead of her you are right on Corey when you said help me and we get them and then we stopped paying attention she has recently left me after letting me know that she was pregnant then I realized that I was in love I am doing the waiting thing best I can right now hoping that she will come back I wrote her a letter and sent a key to the house I always wanted to move in so I am not bothering her now I'm doing pretty good I could do better but I'm trying to convince her that I made a mistake and if I could change the past I would but I would make it a better future so now I am playing the waiting game and it hurts really really bad
Harold Simmons The universe watches. Be patient. I feel your pain.
My ex asked for 50/50 now look at me smh 🤦♂️
I hope you give those killer hairstyle tips in the book too
Is it okay if your girlfriend male bestfriends? Like going out just two of them, being so close etc. Should the boyfriend get jealous or what?
My masculine energy tells me not tolerant BS and Shannigians from anyone.
Their “mustache” ::Corey winks::
Priceless Corey-ism