Ways That Guys Delude Themselves
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ต.ค. 2024
- How to determine if you are bullshitting yourself and if you are acting in subtle ways that come off as being needy, approval seeking or subtly doing and saying things that turn women off due to subconscious limiting beliefs.
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People who really want something will find a way, people who don't really want something will find an excuse
sounds like a lot of dudes including myself at times have a problem with getting too emotionally attached to women too soon and that is, and I know by experience a recipe for disaster.
the problem isn't the attachment.
It's the expectation that you create with it.
You can love a woman but dont expect anything from her.
Its better to dont give a shit
*****
well uh ya
reason why i lost a girl that was really into me, i fell in love with her after like 2-3 weeks.... and told her.... aand we had only 1 date and only communicate in uni or internet
pdxeddie1111 absolutely dude agreed
@jPhone x there it is
The PHONE is just for setting DATES.
Thanks my man!
@dirt & snow great advice 👍
I was dying at 29 minute and a couple mins after. Corey is so used to this shit he roasts you in a helpful way.
The first time I read Corey's book I thought to myself "omg is this it? Is this all I have to do? It's so much easier than what I was doing before" 🤣🤣
100%
I now live my life by rhe books teachings. Only listened to it once and already I've dropped the nerves and make full eye contact with women until they submit. Next listen I'll pick up something else. I will be listening to this book at least 12 times.
At least 10 to 15 times is the prescription
Still single though. Though I dated this one chic a few years ago and 3 of her friends broke up with their bf because they were fed up with their crap and demanded better. One of these guys is actually a good friend. One day he told me about the break up and she had screamed at him "you're not a man and you'll never be a man like Tony!". Of course I felt bad but what can you do 😅 we both did laugh it off. I'm sure I've pointed my friends at the book and none of them have read it
@@tonyppe😂😂😂😂. You are doing the right thing… haha
I've read you book 5 times. On my 6th. Just ordered another one of your books. This is some deep meaningful shit. You are the man, and my life coach. You changed my life. THANKS!!!
After watching this guy for a while you really get his sense of humor.
Corey you are spot on...keep at it...it's like you want to be a black belt in martial arts so you join a dojo that teaches the style /system you want to learn and after a while you start to get a little depressed that you haven't reached black belt level....STOP and change your mindset...KEEP at it...after all it's not like you were going to be granted a black belt level after your first class.
This stuff works with family and friends as well. If you're the only one reaching out to make plans, get together, stop! Find new friends, choose new family.
I FUCKING DIEEEEEEED AT THE COME OVER SEDUCE ME PART!!!!!!! Whaaaat the fuck hahahahaha
I read Corey book about ten times and I know that I have so much to practice. My f****** head explode man !!! F***, practice, practice, practice !!!!!!!!!!!
It either comes with watching videos like this or going through many scenarios where you actually learn not to make the same mistakes twice. Anytime you meet a potential partner where you have to be the constant chaser, get rid of them. They aren’t that interested.
OMG that last email was just flat out HILARIOUS!! 😂😂🤣🤣
Lmao this particular video is a gem!
Spot on as always coach!
Coach, the motivational speech in the beginning is exactly what I needed to hear. I have two big dreams I want to chase. I always think about how hard it would be to make a successful business model for my dreams. I just need to do it no matter how long it takes to become successful.
FedgeGondola How's it going?
Jeremy Langford yh it's been four years i hope he achieved his dreams
^
6 years now. Hope you've accomplished them bud.
Gonna buy Corey's book today. This video in particular hit me hard. All the best.
This is a good video. Very informative especially the guy who didn't approach and the woman explicitly told him he was too weak.
Happy Birthday Coach Corey!! And many more to come!!
Happy Birthday Weekend Corey. Hope you have a great weekend. Thanks for everything Corey. you're an amazing person.
This video is one of the most valuable videos, hits on multiple points needed to be a direct, decisive, and confident man.
The quote reminds me of what I used to say about myself everyday. I used to looked in the mirror and say " I am a valuable attractive man and beautiful women likes me. And it came to pass.
Yay!
That's how it works
What an amazing video Coach !!
7:05, this guy didn't have time for her woman to treat her peoperly, and finally one the divorce papers come in the guy gets time to hangout with his divorce attorney lol
out of all the videos on this channel i needed to see this one personally. we become what we think
This is exactly what happened to me. I know she liked me at first but then i found out that she thought i was an alpha because of the vibe and look that i have. Later after a week or so i just heard that she went out with my other co worker who is 4 years younger than me and had sex with him. Since then i was mocked at work calling me a pussy. Because if that I have changed and started following his videos. I acted like what happened wasnt such a big deal and acted indifferent and cool especially with the guy she fucked and went out with. Now im starting to notice her coming near to me more often and staring at me with wonder or so. But im still a work in progress so....gotta follow coach coreys teachings still
Don't date your Co workers
@@elijahscribbles5196especially if you are already cucked
People who say the book is too much to read, the audiobook is only 7 hours, in less than a week of working out every morning and when ya can throughout the day you will be done with it in 2 days
What's the name of the audiobook
Thanks bro
“anxi”
(Ank-Shee)
That’s going to be my new word coach! 😂🤣
That's the egyptian god of rejection
I’ve done a 180 on who I used to be, I realised that I used to blame women all the time. Now I realise it was them reflecting my fears and insecurities.
FOR THOSE GUYS WHO ARE BUSY AND WANT TO READ HIS BOOK.. DOWNLOAD A "TEXT TO SPEECH PROGRAM" IN THE NET..
Corey please explain. You said not to be focus on labels like relatonship, back together etc. But when your ex want to be just friends and you say: 'hey babe, I adore you, you are beautyful, but being friends doesn't work for me. Give me a call when you change you mind.' Doesn't it sounds like you want to be in relationship with that girl?
Don't mess with "THE FONZ!" Ehhhhh! Step into my office!
Seriously you and Tony Robbins are the two best life coaches on the planet!!!
Guys delude themselves by getting bent out of shape or excited based on the presence of an emoji in a text. You hear it in these videos all the time. Weird. lol
20:55 the roasting begins 😂
Geez, the last guy was a total idiot. Although I’ll admit, when I was in my early 20’s, I made similar mistakes of not approaching a girl when she clearly was interested in me and looking at me.
i dont pay attention
I burst out laughing!!!! 😂😂😂
"Here's some flowers!🌺 Want some dick!??" Blahahahaha!!!! So true though!
And some guys, no matter their age, think buying 1 drink means a woman will Magically now go have sex with them! Wrong! One drink doesn't invest desire to have sex. Nor is that a requirement to hangout and listen to someone tell a "Debbie Downer" story. Having FUN is the focus!
hey vanessa ive been single for 2 decades
Probably just better to avoid disappointment. Be single and alone and don't bother . Be happy. Relationships are fake and love doesn't exist
DC Xcoorex damn... sounds like you recently went through a gnarley breakup. Idk if love exists but it seems like it doesn’t. Everyone pretty much sucks
True, but only if u put yourself last in relationships. Like most people. Instead make relationships mutually beneficial at all times and once the value dips start auditing whether u should stay or go.
Corey, you are awesome! Thanks so much for the enlightenment.
I'm smart enough to know what I don't know.
15:25 Women get bitchy around a guy when you’re acting weak. Whenever you’re letting them walk all over you, or you’re not opening her up emotionally.
32:44 College girls - everywhere, beautiful, experimenting, away from their parents for the first time, looking for a guy who knows what he’s doing so they can have really great sex.
On the book for the 3rd time. Broke up with my ex after reading the book once I followed the space and no contact. The book helps to sort out and eliminate the actual problem!! 🔥🔥 I walked away and I meant it! Before I went back and she treated me like a doormat 😂
Phrase of the day "played it off cool"
This is a funny guy. Great content. What a show man.
This shit cracks me up!
Omg this episode is absolutely hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
You surprised me, I love positive thinking to a point.
Didn't know its your Birthday! Happy Birthday!
That weight loss example “I want to lose 50 LBs BUT I don’t want to go to the gym” hits home because i just lost 50 LBs and I’m a lazy dude..I just have an emotionally compelling reason to get off my ass and work out. I want to find love..can’t find love when you don’t love yourself
I finally sent Corey $10... (He deserves more).
Send me
Good man
I just bought the audiobook I'm about to have it on repeat until I listen to it 10 to 15 times. I screwed up a date the night before with a gorgeous woman so now I'm going to make sure I don't do it again. The best way to remember what he is saying is to take notes on a pen and pad while you are listening to the book
A lot if men,don't act even close to half of the men who writes you and ask questioned.I'm in my middle 30s in the guys I know are hella immature.They don't have a clue on what to do with a woman.You are a very mature man.In I applaud the men calling in.Because,you would have a heart attack on the way men act in the ghetto aka the hood.50% Men in the ghetto don't date,to get to know you.They,don't do none of that shit.Looking at your video's open my eyes to help me understand.I be attracting, little boys in grown men bodies.Lucky,I been tryna switch my environment up.But,now I need to work on my taste.In stop,tripping on the goofy dudes,that like me.Because,goofy gone handle his business.While mr hood gone keep acting hard.Wow! Niggaz be in they 30s in still have a young state of mind.Its unbelievable when you look at the two.Atleast your talking to men,that's fucking up in their relationships.Not just a fuck up:) Omg.Dudes,be acting hella broke.That's a turn off.It's like,you to broke to get to know me.Your seriously wasting time.Or,they'll act like your to broke to be bothered with.Lol But,willing to waste time with you in catch feelings in the process.In all you want,is for them to act like a man.See if we're compatible in go from there.Like,you said Have fun,Have fun Have sex.Until,the next level.That's All!!!!!
GrownAzzNails you deserve bette
Look for men outside the hood. Those dudes just act hard and think that’s going to get them pu$$y. Confidence and alpha has nothing to do with being strapped with a gun and doing drive by’s. I would say sign up and attend a gym. I’m not saying the dudes in there are necessarily confident and alpha BUT people from all walks of life go to the gym so it’s great neutral territory ground to get and healthy and meet men.
Hi lady youre cute wanna come see me??
Ive been single for a decade
19:58 lmao
uzernam3
Fkin lol'd so hard !!!!!!!!
LMFAO 😂
I really needed that.. Thanks
Lmfao!!!
Faith without works is dead James 2:26 also James 2:17
Yay!
41:52 "three no's & a yes, is a yes" - James Bond Connery version.
Your nailing it Corey thank you.
Amen to this video coach! 🙌
Awesome coaching! Love the book.
Happy Birthday and You are the truth!!!!
Thanks!
Good shit Corey thank you again for helping me understand
8:25 love it!
How are guys complaining about not having time to read the book, get the audio book.
That last one had to be a troll man like wtf
I think being friends is not bad as long as you have the right approach,
A girl reached out to me recently saying she’ll be in town next month and wants to hang out with me. Is it smart to just let her reach out again so I can finalize the day? I’m not planning to chase here.
Corey Awesome stuff took a girl out recently on a second date and unfortunately got road rage by a thug on the road.just as I picked up within 30 seconds.I simply ignored him and said are you OK to the girl and ignored the road rage guy was that the right action or was I suppose to stand up and give back as much i got in verbal abuse..
Avoid a fight
@@elijahscribbles5196 you did the right thing. By you not responding negatively and asking if she was ok shows you have self control and also care about her safety
need just to fulfill our lives 🤝🏼
The face at 21:01 LOL
This is my Springer
was waiting for ur vid. tnx.
10:19 = 1st email
32:37 = 3rd email
38:20 = 4th email
If you have a woman, get rid of Facebook.
So should we tell her when she hurt us somehow or that might be a turn off for her too?
Ezekiel 18:20
The soul that sinneth, it shall die. The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son: the righteousness of the righteous shall be upon him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon him.
People want answers why u go why don’t you stay type. She left yet she cries. I don’t know... I hate that phrase.. when I love you doesn’t work just let go... the hardest thing you will ever have to do... same as a washer rinse repeat redo
Always the enemy even if I'm the one getting fucked over nothing feels real the " love yous " hit different when you yourself have no soul
That 40 minute mark though, oof, lol.
Men delude themselves in many ways, including the grass is greener syndrome. Sociopaths are very good at this
Good shit Corey i needed to hear this very thing today
"'Baby - you know what, I don't care about those guys. They can keep you busy when you're not with me. Because I'm the most awesome that you've ever met. And we always have a great time together. I can't wait to see you again...I can't wait to kiss you and hold you and make love to you... You're awesome. We're gonna have a good time.' Change the subject. Keep it focused on what YOU want it to be focused on. Remember: YOU'RE the king of your kingdom; ACT LIKE IT."
Perfection.
For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. John 3:17
I played it cool = I didn’t play it cool, I just think I did.
Psalms 121:2
My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.
Steve from Def Leopard Killed His Self Bay Back in the 90's or late 80's
Come on Man!
This is very entertaining- haha
The phone is JUST for making dates.
And playing snake.
Sounds like this dude was messing around with a borderline woman
"Screwed the pooch!" Don't insult the poor dog...even the dog would reject that approach strategy!🥴
Damnn this guy is amaster at what he does
Thanks you man
Read Rhonda Byrne's "The Secret". Read Mark Manson's "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck"
Thanks Mr.Wayne, you saved me to gettin´ stupid "psycho", this dude saves not only lives, also hearts..;-)
Ok wtf man I’m sitting here being like writer don’t make money- I used to say that about music all the time - then he’s like Same thing for musicians I’m like wtf call me out more haha. Thankfully past those beliefs!
Why you have so few subs?
awesome video
Corey what if there's a girl who tries to move too fast?
Go for it. You can change your mind
rocking the beard
Do you think your book would be helpful for gay guy to guy relationships?
Cmon man 👨
I no like 2 read books. Why you no read it for us Coach?
Vman Why you no lazy? Why you no get off your lazy ass and read book? You do no work and you get no pussy.
Funny content CCW but true shit!