3 UPDATES: StepSis Doesn't Want me at Her Wedding Bcuz I Resemble My Dad Too Much But Texts My BF..

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  • 3 UPDATES: Step Sister Doesn't Want me at Her Wedding Bcuz I Resemble My Dad Too Much But Texts My BF That 'She Would Accept Dad With Open Arms' Just A Week Before Her Wedding .. Now She's Mad I Ruined Her Wedding??
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    I've always known that my step-sister, Madison, wasn't too fond of me. My dad and my step-mom got together after my dad had an affair with my step-mom and she fell pregnant with his child (my stepsister). My mom passed away shortly after that. Well, years after Madison was born, my dad cheated on my step-mom with another woman, kicked her out of her own house and started another family.

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  • @melvinmelvin9606
    @melvinmelvin9606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    1st story....this girl is strong as hell. She is able to cut out all these crappy people in her life. Pretty amazing

  • @MrBeevee5
    @MrBeevee5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It sounds to me this is half-sister, not a step-sister since the half-sister is the daughter of OP's father. Her step-mother got her karma for cheating with OP's dad in the first place.

  • @MrBeevee5
    @MrBeevee5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Last story - I laughed at the idea that a judge can force fourteen year old to go to their dad's even unwillingly. At that age, I would have instantly left his house and either walked back or go to a friend house. I realize, however, not all fourteen year olds have my stubborness.

  • @oneuup2490
    @oneuup2490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    1st story: One of those cases of you lose them how you got em.. I love it!! 😂 😂

  • @Standinthegap4ever
    @Standinthegap4ever ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Max needs to tell the friends & family that he can’t marry a liar, a user or a manipulator.

  • @standinthegsp6858
    @standinthegsp6858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I’d contact/call CPS on her & explain what’s been going on. Ask that they keep your identity secret because you’re afraid of retribution/abuse from both mommydearest & stepdaddydearest

  • @meowsaysthepuppydog549
    @meowsaysthepuppydog549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    A step-sibling means your parent married their parent. No blood relation.
    A half-sibling means you share a parent. Blood relation.
    It's an important difference.

    • @deef.l.6847
      @deef.l.6847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right! They get this incorrect all the time.

    • @LindaMeade
      @LindaMeade 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I get so stewed up over this!
      I also have a situation in my family a couple of generations back in which the wife's youngest child was the child of her deceased husband's brother. The youngest was the half-sibling through one parent and first cousin through the other. This is known as a 3/4 sibling.

  • @mayurakshimukherjee7948
    @mayurakshimukherjee7948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Karma might come in slowly, but both op's step mom & dad..reaped what they sowed.

  • @kennethbarkley1491
    @kennethbarkley1491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Not step sister, Madison is OPs Half Sister. Same after different mothers..

    • @jackchop1576
      @jackchop1576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she doesn't deserve either title tbh. She's garbage.

    • @CattyTomfoolery
      @CattyTomfoolery 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Op probably thinks of their sister as a step due to the poor relationship they have.

    • @susanaptak4220
      @susanaptak4220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was getting ready to say the same thing when I read your post. You are 100% correct.

    • @diaryofilth
      @diaryofilth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CattyTomfoolery exactly.

    • @Lily_of_the_Forest
      @Lily_of_the_Forest ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blood related or not, they don’t have a relationship so it is no closer than being steps.

  • @flawfuljinx
    @flawfuljinx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Story 1. The stepsis is lucky that OP didn't instead air out their family history together since it would've further broken her "pure and sweet" image much more. Good for OP for finally washing her hands from them and for Max to get out while he could.

  • @standinthegsp6858
    @standinthegsp6858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Start recording the step siblings behavior when you can as proof for the judge. Document document document everything! For things in the past, give approximate dates/times.

  • @adamantium112768
    @adamantium112768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    54 and pregnant I would've Thought she had metapause by now

  • @rmhartman
    @rmhartman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    she promised to be more open with him... and hid the relationship with her father from him

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Step sis is mad that her father left the cheated with and was cheated on. Not fair that OP was the scapegoat and abused

  • @standinthegsp6858
    @standinthegsp6858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You could have asked your dad to donate the money he offered you to a charity like St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital, Heifer International etc

  • @rmhartman
    @rmhartman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    it's always the fault of the betrayed, not the betrayer

  • @lilfairykiki122
    @lilfairykiki122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Madison gets her personality from both of her awful parents

  • @madmartagan100
    @madmartagan100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    1'st story, Karma at it's best. 2nd story, no words, Story 3, get full custody, now. Those kids are not your problem, and your ex and his now wife are enabling them.

  • @gcarr1089
    @gcarr1089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Last story - I would have called police to collect them and take them home, as parents were not taking care of them if they allowed them to walk to OPs, then keep record to show judge in future custody file.

  • @sandyo1063
    @sandyo1063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    More than likely, those at the announcement party, were secretly agreeing with you about mom. They just weren’t willing to say anything. The truth needed to be told. Just ignore all texts coming in. Block those who are attacking you for at least a month.

    • @djdomain
      @djdomain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And it all started with the old woman who lived in a shoe bitching about how none of her children were celebrating her latest pregnancy with the same enthusiasm they had for the sibling. Someone had stand up to mom's bitching and it just happened to be OP. I'm guessing the texts were either from mom/stepdad, or distant relatives who aren't directly affected by mom's lifestyle, starting to get some quiverfull vibes here.

  • @joshguerrero8760
    @joshguerrero8760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OP got her revenge on all of them.

  • @sanjayaanthem
    @sanjayaanthem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You just can't please some people. They waste our time and air.

  • @rmhartman
    @rmhartman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    keep the good things at your house

  • @rmhartman
    @rmhartman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    step sis? that dad ruined my life too. twice. that should bring us together if anything.

  • @rmhartman
    @rmhartman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    she didn't tell the groom about her father walking her down the aisle?

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That’s funny that they said they wanted to spend time with their siblings. Nope, they just want to make sure that your boys don’t get anything they don’t. It’s very extreme sibling rivalry

  • @scarter8137
    @scarter8137 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok, makes since why she didn’t invite you … she told Dad she had zero contact with you! It amazes me how some people are so self serving. Hope OP has a great life!

  • @rmhartman
    @rmhartman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    great. you wanted to apologize to both of them, but did so in a way that played favorites by gifting Madison with tons of money and never once contacting OP.

  • @lorifiedler13
    @lorifiedler13 ปีที่แล้ว

    So, the mom keeps having babies so all her children will show up at her funeral?
    That's sad and pathetic.

  • @jokah2000
    @jokah2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She kept saying step sister... but that's her dad's kid, so actually sister

  • @PiscesMoon2You
    @PiscesMoon2You ปีที่แล้ว

    In the UK would the person receiving stolen property also be liable like in US? If so the shop keeper would have to pay you for the price of the cards. Shop keeper could also go to jail.

  • @MoistTowelette125
    @MoistTowelette125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Story 1: I would’ve told your dad to stay out of your life. He destroys how many families and than expects sympathy when he gets cancer?! Tell him to enjoy the rest of his life alone. 🤷‍♂️

  • @rmhartman
    @rmhartman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    if they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you

  • @fatimahfrancis1414
    @fatimahfrancis1414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how cheaters blame others for their fuck up and wrong doings.

  • @toniclarke7398
    @toniclarke7398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Actually it was the stepdad that started the argument after the mother announced her pregnancy because everybody didn't have a big hoopla when they hurt you was pregnant he started it

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Madison leaves out OP because she looks like her father but yet she lets him walk her down the aisle?

    • @yarningchick
      @yarningchick ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She wanted him to spend all his money/leave all his money to her alone. I wonder how she was planning to keep all her friends from asking why OP was excluded since so many people talked to her about not being invited.

  • @rmhartman
    @rmhartman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it's your time with your kids. not your ex's kids.

  • @LindaMeade
    @LindaMeade 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the proper term for a person who shares one parent with you is a half-sibling; not a stepsibling.

  • @annem7806
    @annem7806 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hopefully fiance will see the evil lies in the bride. Bride wants her cake & eat it too. Max is a friend. He is being gaslighted. What about helping you? Horrible father. He abandoned you. 2) CALL CPS. This is a mental health problem. I didn't go to my Mother's funeral. Are the younger kids being cared for properly? 3) Not your family, not your kids. Revisit custody, you have proof. What took you so long? Steps need their own parents to supervise them, not you.

  • @DaremoKamen
    @DaremoKamen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds like for all her resentment of her father, Madison is the one who turned out most like him.

  • @liandren
    @liandren 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Story 1, if I'm reading correctly. Madison is her half sister, not a step sister. They share a father. To f over your own sister is a low act.

    • @coureenlawrence4915
      @coureenlawrence4915 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Especially when the father left them both and started another family, that should have brought them closer as sisters.

  • @birdybanks5819
    @birdybanks5819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Madison is a half-sister and they shared the same father. Those two were toxic anyway and OP did the right thing distancing herself. Too bad she didn't connect with her European family.

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YOUR FATHER ••••. YOUR CHOICE •••• NO EXPLANATION NEEDED ••

  • @rmhartman
    @rmhartman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh. she lied.

  • @catherinetesfa
    @catherinetesfa ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey the truth is the no matter how or when it is spoken

  • @Mrwillie95
    @Mrwillie95 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why do op care so much about her step sister wedding when her stepsister clearly showed her that she doesn’t care about her op needs to get over herself and just move on from this toxic family

  • @lynamus
    @lynamus ปีที่แล้ว

    Good grip.. 13 kids? Holy craps.

  • @LindaMeade
    @LindaMeade 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Story 2
    While my husband of almost ten years is lovely to my grown kids and would have made a good dad if we had a mutual child, at age 51 I am content just to dote on the grandkids.

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GET A VERY VERY LARGE LIFE INSURANCE POLICY ON FATHER ! WHEN YOU BEFRIEND HIM ••• MAKE A POINT 2 DO SO !!

  • @eboracum2012
    @eboracum2012 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a joke of a judge.... I'd request a different judge.
    Maybe the judge is related to one of them or slept with SM.

  • @DSWatsup
    @DSWatsup 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If they share the father then they are half siblings not step siblings

  • @sylviakanz8088
    @sylviakanz8088 ปีที่แล้ว

    Half sister. Step brother/ sister are not related by blood hun. I know because I have a half sister and step siblings.

  • @politereminder6284
    @politereminder6284 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why is she calling her half sister her step sister?👀

  • @lilybell7104
    @lilybell7104 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    First op shes not your stepsister she is her half sister

  • @deef.l.6847
    @deef.l.6847 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These stories need to get corrected all the time.
    They are HALF siblings NOT step sister. Step siblings are related by marriage not by blood. Half siblings are related by blood as they share one parent. Smh. it's not that difficult.

  • @dld488
    @dld488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Story one madison is wrong she is your HALF sister. They are biologically related.

  • @taylorhoge4378
    @taylorhoge4378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1 Corinthians 15:1-4
    Authorized (King James) Version
    15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 by which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 and that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • @danielsundqvist2078
    @danielsundqvist2078 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Get a spy peen and tape them and or a hidden camera so they can record there step brothers behavior 🤔

  • @jaimistefani8271
    @jaimistefani8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1st story... I agree with everything she did, however I will say I think she's doing herself a disservice by not talking to her dad one last time. I've read more stories about people rejecting their estranged family trying to atone because of a fatal disease and regretting it than I have people being 100% delighted with the choice they made.
    The last time I "talked" to my opa, we fought cause I was defending my cousin (turns out I never should have done that) he was gone a month later...

  • @Straightupno
    @Straightupno ปีที่แล้ว

    You and Your Sister were born from the same seed, just born in Different Wombs o.O you Two are sister s, if Your Sister was Born to Your Mother with a Different Dad then You two will be Step-sisters Only if Your Dad is Married to her Mom, If they’re not Actually married, she just Your Dad (Girlfriend Daughter😮) Move on with your Life..

  • @JasperCatProductions
    @JasperCatProductions 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Story one good grief you half sister doesn’t like / love you. Move on , ruining her wedding is petty and pathetic. Grow up. Madison doesn’t owe you a wedding invitation.

    • @Joe-lb8qn
      @Joe-lb8qn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      But her excuse was "you remind me of your father" and then hypocritically invites the actual father !

    • @lewid019
      @lewid019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I guess you have listening comprehension skills @ jasper

    • @crash92la98
      @crash92la98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Madison ruined her own wedding bro. Her behavior ruined her wedding. 🤣🤣
      All her own bs finally caught up to her.