The Art of letting go.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ค. 2024
- this applies to people, scenarios, things you want, etc. see things for what they are instead of what you hope for them to be/the pedestal you put them on.
feel free to drop your input/experience/advice on the topic, i love to adopt new perspectives and read what you guys have to say on the matter :-)
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Master the art of letting things free and you will be freed in return in your own life.
I have been trying to do this for a long time and I just can’t let go of certain things I have let go of a lot but still sometimes still just impact me still from day to day
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Lately TH-cam algorithm is hooked on talking head content and recommending it to me.
Lately the themes of detachment and letting go have been a constant in my life after a breakup. I noticed we sometimes hang on to things for the sake of what could have been or be in the future. I noticed the person i was attached to and the image of them in my head were completely different. Then you understand that letting go is a chance to be truly free of those what ifs and fears. Holding on just puts you in a situation in which you just cannot be yourself, because behaving in a certain way or being vulnerable may end in that person leaving. But then they leave anyways, and on top of the pain you suffer because of the loss of the idea, the concept you had of that person and the confort it brought. But it's just confort. In order to really conect you need vulnerability and closeness. Those two come esaily when you let go, when you just see what there is. For me letting go is very close to being mindful and present, as it helps identify that which you want or need, and express it without fear of losing.
Letting go is tough, but when done from love and appreciation for what there really is, you open the door to joy and wellbeing (even when you dont ever see that person again). For me letting go doesn't mean forgetting. It comes from a place of love and means accepting and embracing how most things in life are temporary, and we get to enjoy every single moment. Then, it's up to us to decide wether to clinge and suffer or let go, learn and grow in order to find connection, joy and happiness in the future.
These videos are valueable, I think. Cheers to self improvement!
I needed this right now, thank you.
i feel like ive seen you in my dreams
interesting
Buddy, we seem to have the same dream. In your dream, is she also naked, alone in the forest, raised by wolves and growling at you whenever you try to come closer?
Hey!
I stumbled across your channel yesterday, and just wanted to say you’re awesome. For quite a while I’ve been really bored with TH-cam with everything feeling repetitive, but it’s really nice to hear you talk about things, even if they don’t necessarily apply to me or my life right now.
The fact that you’re able and willing to openly talk about your mistakes and poor choices is amazing. It’s refreshing, and really helps break up the whole social-media fabrication of everyone being perfect. Honestly, the three videos of yours I’ve watched so far have really made me feel like it’s okay to make mistakes, which is something I’ve struggled with as an obsessive perfectionist. I really needed this reminder the past few days, so thank you.
Anyways, I hope you have a really wonderful day. I’ll be looking forward to the next video! :)
aw, i'm glad you could take something from my videos :-) i appreciate you!!
Wise words. Be free comrade! You deserve better! The world is huge.
I really relate to what you're describing with putting that person on a pedestal. I've had exactly the same experience and it still haunts my thoughts even though that person isn't in my life at all anymore
letting go is such a freeing feeling. both people in any situation dont deserve for one to not let the other go/their actions go. thankyou for your view on this, interesting as a always :)
i swear this is my new favorite channel. its like a breath of fresh air from all the screaming mrbeast type self-improvement videos. thank you leilani
The growth is crazy, congratulations 🎉🎉
thank you!!
i love your videos there really helping me get through a tough time right now, keep making them:3
aw i'm glad 🥹
I love this.
i love your content
I've been struggling a lot with letting go of hatred over a person. Hating someone is something that so badly hurts the soul, but I just can't stop hating them. They wronged me so many times, and I trusted them more than anyone else. And I know that they don't even feel sorry for what they did. It's so hard to let go of this hatred even though I can feel how unhealthy it is to keep.
What happened?
@Pre4xes_ it's a long story that I can't fully explain in a TH-cam comment, but the gist of it is that my ex and I separated on good terms and wanted to stay friends. She made a bunch of promises to me in the month after we broke up, and in the 4 months since that, she has broken every single one of them. We are obviously no longer friends and don't talk.
sometimes you just have to hate someone for a little while. we can't always immediately get over what people would label "toxic" emotions, and they're good for things sometimes. our hate/anger/sadness/misery is an important teacher to show us what we won't tolerate from others in the future. it ingrains the reason why we left a person/place in the first place so we may never repeat or go back to something. over time it is important to practice letting go and to "forgive" them and stop hating. although my terms of "forgiving" others is different than i'd think is the general standpoint, i think forgiveness is not letting a person control you anymore. not letting them have a grip on you even after they've left your life. not feeling towards them anymore and accepting what happened from a state of neutrality and appreciating what your encounter with them taught you, whether it's perspective, who you can trust, who not to be, how you can be better to others, etc.
realizing that someone is basically still "controlling" you after they've long left your life by still making you upset and angry personally helped me let go. along with the realization i could be free from them, and improve in my own lane and be a different person that they didn't deserve. over time you just have to let go thinking about them and tell yourself "that's none of my business." i had abusive parents and when i finally left their home i would ruminate on my disgust and anger towards them and eventually realized i didn't WANT them to be on my mind anymore, i was free and still inviting them in my life in a sense. so whenever they would appear in my mind i would shake my head and tell myself "that's none of my business anymore, they are gone." and eventually the thoughts of them faded and i stopped caring. (pair this with the knowing that everyone is doing their best with the knowledge they have, and sometimes they are toxic or "bad" because they were raised around that and didn't know better. people's toxic behavior is their own punishment at the end of the day because they have to go home and live inside of that mind of their's with all those beliefs and systems. not defending their actions, but it personally helps me cope to know this). there is great power to be learned from 'awful' experiences and emotions, hope this helps :)
@@junnipres I like that. Forgiving isn't saying that what happened was okay. It is letting go of the pain it caused knowing that it is in the past. I really like your videos. You seem like a super cool and emotionally aware person.
“Better things are around the corner” I’m here 💪🏾
5:58 - 6:00 Ain’t Nothing but a heartbreak.
thank you for your videos
I had someone I grew up with. Closer to them than anyone else ever. A best friend from diapers. They horribly wronged me in a terrible way, at the worst time for me. It is rough to not speak to someone who is no longer that amount of meaning and inspiration anymore, especially when they try to get in contact with you by force or do something. This was someone I had absolute trust that nothing could change no matter what, but that was because what I thought which was possibly bad would not occur. and then it did.
Been years and it's been tough, but life continues. You gotta be the control and inspiration in your life and take that to inspire others that actually want to healthily be around you.
In short, if you’re too far gone, it isn’t possible.
Thank you
1.22k subs when I’m watching this video 2,672 views can’t wait till this video gets 100k views and 10k subs
i am hurting so much. i feel like I amount to nothing; i have nothing of substance going for me
Playing victim is a role of power if we allow it to take over we are that character with all its limitations take charge and demand your worth
I've always told myself growing up that I will only ever commit myself to one person. I decided on that person my sophomore year of high school. We grew pretty close over the years and eventually senior year we were in sort of a pseudo-relationship, i don't know how to describe it. She was my first kiss and everything and we would text each other every single day and hangout on the weekends. Fast forward to now in my junior year of college (which she goes to) and i'm still committed to someone who wants nothing to do with me. For reasons i am not entirely sure of, she stopped talking to me abruptly in the second semester of my freshman year. I told her that she doesn't ever have to talk to me again, and i don't expect her to. i have accepted for a long time that i will most probably never be in another "relationship". and i am ok with that. but if she ever does talk to me again i'd welcome her. i make it a point to think about her everyday so i don't forget things.
Good morning😂 another cool Video
I loved the point about how better things are always waiting for you. For such a long time, I was afraid to let go because I truly believed that there would never be anyone else who could come close to the boy on the pedestal. But personal development really helped the illusion fade away. The bittersweet truth of the matter is that the person who is meant to be with you will not require chasing, or for you to impress them. You deserve to love and be loved back. It's just not worth studying and holding onto any shreds of interaction in hopes of possible romantic reciprocation. You're worth more than that.
I love this :). I know it’s assumptious of me to say better things will come, but as long as you leave the people who don’t treat you right and take their lessons with you (not letting future people like that stay in your life), it is almost inevitable. I can back this up with my own experience time again. You’re worth so much. I love that you’ve come to all these conclusions and your comment in particular made me really happy. Peace and love, and I wish you luck on your pursuit in running into the people who deserve you :) 🩵
@@junnipres thank you! 💚💚
Congratulations on being pretty girl
Thanks lol 😭
Im letting go of my past...
Strongly suggest increasing the volume in editing or turning up the gain on ur mic if you have one.
I get this, myself I know I only fall in love after the third or fourth day of meeting the person via call or date. Each person is different. Then when I get only a tiny bit insecure about something small, I still out it and the person gets tired of annoyed of me talking about the smallest things, I find it hard to stfu and stop sending messages expressing something. While I have the frustration I that I have to just start a convo normal and easy and stay focused. While typing this im most times in constant physiqual discomfort. Even lying down hurt but the least, sitting in a chair is the worst, only time I feel comfort is walking. Im 6'9.5" feet tall and I can tell people like me, and that all got different cooping mechnism, date apps used to work well when I was 18 till 20 now im older 26 its not working anymore and walking around talking to people helps. Nothing else seem to work for me, other than exercise and then rest. I got diagnosed with adhd when I was 22 orso which helped me a bit understanding myself.
Ah also I gotta play the game better. Wait till they respond, eventough the person im talking with asks me why are you talking to other girls. So I got to talk to like a few girls and then not respond to them, its so annoying these games, like I can act and its funny, I just need to learn to stfu. I WANNA STFU boooohooooo im a baby.
stay "annoying". don't change that about yourself, the right people will love and appreciate how expressive and talkative you are. personally i love talkative people, in my eyes i see it as immature to write someone off or make someone feel annoying for such a fun quality. never ever tolerate someone who doesn't like you for that beautiful aspect of yourself. i am also the exact same way, when i am excitable i will text or talk your ear off :'). the issue was never you, it is who you surround yourself with that make your harmless qualities seem like an issue
I have a hard time letting go.
think they said somthing like this in star wars
you should be happy that you feel things
The female Heed and Succeed
recently went through something kinda similar with someone as we went off to different colleges. i don’t think they have any idea how much they meant to me.
experiences like these can be so poetic and bittersweet yet valuable in what they teach
@@junnipres PREACH
you better drink that tea with honey though :3
Did you choose that 90s filter on purpose? Looks cool
haha no, it's just the quality of my MacBook camera. but thanks!
@@junnipres That's funny. I was sure it was on purpose. Keep it that way.
limerence ?
cute diary of yours, does it help?
Did Chad not commit, Becky?
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On skibidi?
bro youre cute
huh
Hey this is probably unrelated but have you ever heard about Aspergers? I see a bunch of tiny details which fit. Anyway, subbed
I feel like you´re the female me -. - ...mildly joking but like... it´s... very weird - .- mildly earie... do you ever feel... slow... like your head is heavy... like you have a fog in your head. like it´s all foggy and hard to move through... almost like chewy -. - ... a person you´ve wanted for years... and you felt defeated... but you can´t give up... and you want to let go... but you sort of just can´t.... a white room that feels like something out of omori. a dark atmosphere, tons of nightmares, as if you´re more heavy, or sometimes feel more sad, like trapped in certain areas.. like said room. a desire to speak to someone to feel less lonely. if you wear glasses do you ever feel trapped in your glasses almost like they put too much pressure....sometimes you dread mundane repetitive tasks that you keep doing anyway, over and over. a desire to fix things that you can never fix? even the length of time... I thought it was just me and gary goodspeed, that went through something so traumatic -. - ... final space it´s the protagonist of final space, he reached for someone for like five to six years, and... it´s more similar to what happened to me, I reached for this person... no replies... just like gary -. - and I kept going despite knowing, nothing was happening anyway -. - ... very frustrating, but anyway - ,- yeah... you might think now, I don´t think we´re that alike... and I´d say, well there is a couple differences, for one you´re a girl and I a guy, and I get the feeling what I went through... well it was more similar to what Gary went through, but the core feeling of reaching out so someone and being unsuccesful is the same. I get the feeling you´re a bit less traumatized than I was... though you have a tendency to play devil´s advocate so you might feel reluctant to agree... You might wonder why are you still reaching out... just like gary I made a mistake, but I´m the type of person that wants to fix everything, and.... basically I felt I needed to right a wrong. I didn´t want to be annoying, nor did I necesarily wanted to force her to talk... more like... I kept coming back hoping she would... something like that.... and if you wonder are you a bad person... no... but lets just say there was a big misunderstanding, and I felt I needed to clear my name... and while I´m not evil, the misunderstanding was my fault, so I felt the need to correct things, but since there were no answers, I don´t even know if my messages even reached.
(or rather if she even read them.) -. - ... Liam by the way... funnily enough it´s mail in reverse... the thing I´ve been doing for like... a really long time -. -
I even thought of making videos recently like a couple days ago, because I... recently...felt I couldn´t email her anymore... but I still needed the ¨diary¨ to keep my sanity...cause I´ve been doing that for so long... in a lot of ways I feel like the guy from castaway talking to the thing they love that gives them company to try and avoid feeling lonely... only I feel like a version that is much more sad, and who has endured an awful lot of sensory deprivation from looking at a computer screen all day and being between 4 white walls without much else other than a lightball in the middle of the room, whilst also going mildly insane from... not talking to anyone, and spending too much time talking to an audience inside their head... I promise I´m just mildly insane, relax -, -
Hate this they/them thing... Is it a guy or girl you're talking about??
a guy. i just wanted to remain a bit anonymous with it bc this is still a real person i'm talking about and it feels wrong to give out a lot of details lol
@@junnipres thanks for clarifying. its hard to imagine your story without it lol just leaving out names would be enough i guess.
What’s ur snap lolll