I was with a man like that once, but later I realised he was like this with every woman. He was a serial cheater, because every woman would fall for his staying present, remembering details, paying attention game.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s a harsh reality that not everyone’s intentions are as pure as they appear. This serves as an important reminder for all of us to look beyond the surface and trust patterns over words. You deserve someone who is truly committed, not just playing a role. Stay strong. 🌹
If he really loves you and wants you he will text you call you and check in with you to make sure you are ok. When a man is interested he will go out of his way to impress you. I learned the hard way and I know right when I meet men what their intentions are. I stopped wasting my time with men that aren't sure and immature
Are there really men out there like this? All of my experiences with men from my father my son and my exes have been horrific. My prayer is that God blesses me with a true man of God, truly after God's own heart.
It's definitely a wonderful experience, every woman should have it, once you have a loving man, you'll never accept trash, men are smart and intentional, they automatically do this to women that they love and CARE about
Imagine getting madly loved and cherished by a man and being able to love and desire him equally deeply ❤❤❤Magical ❤❤❤. Only God can bless us with this heavenly happiness.
The sad part is that the guy I had a casual fling with did all of this for me throughout the one year we were involved with each other. Whereas the men who chase me obsessively for relationship/marriage don't do any of these.
The main idea of Romanticism is the celebration of the individual and the glorification of nature. More specifically, Romantics embrace the uniqueness of the human spirit, which they feel is reflected in and deeply connected to the untamed wildness of nature.
@@anthonydbrice If we DON’T have THE ALMIGHTY in it, we have nothing, HE IS our starting point for anything to work, coupled with mindset heart posture and faith. Oh yeah, you have to have truth, the kind of truth that don’t mind you telling on yourself and wholeheartedly admit you have faults in you that need attention.
The crack in my last relationship was that he tried to change me because he didn’t like my “career” (casino dealer). If it’s what I like, am good at, and pays the bills, why would I want to change paths? It’s low stress, high pay (even if it is tip-based), and I don’t have to worry about projects and deadlines or stay over due to someone not making it into work. And, if you’re at the right house, you get all the regular benefits you’d get from a “normal” job - medical, dental, vision, life, 401k (some houses match), etc. The irony? He likes to play poker.
Can somebody explain this? He did listen, he took care of me and supported me, helped me and was there for me, accepted me the way I was and even cared about my family. Ain't nobody loved me the way he did. But he still cheated on me. What the hell?!
I’m so sorry to hear about your experience. This confusion and pain you’re feeling is valid. Remember, it’s not about what you lacked, but about his choices. You are deserving of undivided love and loyalty, and I believe you’ll find it with someone who truly understands what it means to love and commit.
My husband told me once or twice that I was beautiful when we first met. He never has again, not even on our wedding day. I've spoken to him about it because it hurts my feelings a bit when I dress up for him on our dates or sometimes just for fun and I get compliments from everyone except him. I've come to accept the fact that maybe he has issues with complementing people, but today he has hurt my feelings so much. He made a joke when he took the wilted lettuce out of the fridge and said "look, it's like your boobs" I haven't stopped crying and I don't know if it's because of the pregnancy hormones or because my breasts have always been my biggest insecurity. I can admit they are not the greatest after breastfeeding our son, and my husband has now done the opposite of what I crave from him and said something really offensive about my body that I can't control or get out of my head. He has tried to appologize and even tried to have sex but I feel I don't want to give myself to him after his comment. He can easily joke around and say rude things about me, but has never been able to say something nice. When he tried to apologize he also said sarcastically "ahh baby you are pretty, you smell so nice, look at your jeans" (he bought them for me) but it felt insincere. Am I overreating?
Absolutely not overreacting. The feelings you're experiencing are a natural response to feeling undervalued by someone whose opinion matters so much to you. It's important for him to recognize the impact of his words and actions. It sounds like a real conversation about how you need to be supported and loved, especially during such a vulnerable time, is needed. You deserve to feel loved and cherished, just as you are.
@@anthonydbrice Thank you for your reply. I really appreciate hearing that my feelings are valid and it's nice to let it out, even if it is over the internet. I feel I don't want to involve my friends and family because it may change the way they see my husband and even though I'm shocked and hurt by what he's said, I don't believe he is purposely trying to hurt me. I'll try have another conversation to explain why I feel the way I do. But honestly, I think he just doesn't get it. :(
@@castroscorner8466 I understand. It’s a takes a lot of awareness and maturity to understand how telling your family and friends can’t impact the way they see him.
Facts with that first one.. Last year my ex invited me to go on a work trip with him, he was too distracted arguing with a username on Instagram and ended up telling me the wrong date for the flight so couldn’t fly with him and just booked whatever was going out there the same day from a different airport.. the MORNING OF as I’m about to go through security, he texts and says his flight isn’t till the next day and that he got it all wrong etc 😴 I was already anxious flying on my own for the first time but this heightened it, plus having to find somewhere to stay last minute… when he got out there the next day he didn’t even hug me or say sorry just said it wasn’t his fault LOL. That’s when I knew it was coming to and end.
The problem is that you had to actually make a video about this because so many women are clueless bcz black Father's are no longer present in the home, so females are confused when dating and trying to determine. Thank God for positive male role models in my life
I was with a man like that once, but later I realised he was like this with every woman. He was a serial cheater, because every woman would fall for his staying present, remembering details, paying attention game.
Yup
So true he had it screw down perfectionist with hurting people feeling
So which man to trust
@@neisharoberts7143 trust NOBODY!!!!
Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s a harsh reality that not everyone’s intentions are as pure as they appear. This serves as an important reminder for all of us to look beyond the surface and trust patterns over words. You deserve someone who is truly committed, not just playing a role. Stay strong. 🌹
If he really loves you and wants you he will text you call you and check in with you to make sure you are ok. When a man is interested he will go out of his way to impress you. I learned the hard way and I know right when I meet men what their intentions are. I stopped wasting my time with men that aren't sure and immature
I def understand. We all want someone who is sure about us and not trying to figure out if they even want to be here.
Are there really men out there like this? All of my experiences with men from my father my son and my exes have been horrific. My prayer is that God blesses me with a true man of God, truly after God's own heart.
🙏🏽
Change your mindset. What you expect will always show up.
Same
Yes there are wonderful men out here, yes indeed
He won’t let you hit the ground if he can help it.
True.
Nothing beats a man being truly present with u. And feeling respect?! Thts an added bonus
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I look forward to the day I get to experience this type of love.
It's definitely a wonderful experience, every woman should have it, once you have a loving man, you'll never accept trash, men are smart and intentional, they automatically do this to women that they love and CARE about
The problem is all these things can be faked. Your intuition is your only true guidance if he loves you. You will feel it with your whole being.
Well stated! People lie, energy does not.
this. so true
This is how people treat eachother when they care for one another.
Not sure how I ended up watching this but basically the behaviours of my male relatives. Thanks, I feel so fortunate and grateful now. 😊
True❤❤ am blessed to have a man like this.
Imagine getting madly loved and cherished by a man and being able to love and desire him equally deeply ❤❤❤Magical ❤❤❤. Only God can bless us with this heavenly happiness.
That would be a romantic fantasy.
I’m almost 54……will let you know when I find this unicorn
The sad part is that the guy I had a casual fling with did all of this for me throughout the one year we were involved with each other. Whereas the men who chase me obsessively for relationship/marriage don't do any of these.
That's interesting.
Maybe because you were giving wifely duties without the ring. A man is going to take what you give.
Because you allowed him to be casual with you, he had no responsibility bcz you didn't set expectations, so it was easy for him to be nice
The main idea of Romanticism is the celebration of the individual and the glorification of nature. More specifically, Romantics embrace the uniqueness of the human spirit, which they feel is reflected in and deeply connected to the untamed wildness of nature.
As a woman, I would say this Sir is 💯 facts! 🙏🏾❤
Thank You!
@@anthonydbrice If we DON’T have THE ALMIGHTY in it, we have nothing, HE IS our starting point for anything to work, coupled with mindset heart posture and faith. Oh yeah, you have to have truth, the kind of truth that don’t mind you telling on yourself and wholeheartedly admit you have faults in you that need attention.
The crack in my last relationship was that he tried to change me because he didn’t like my “career” (casino dealer). If it’s what I like, am good at, and pays the bills, why would I want to change paths? It’s low stress, high pay (even if it is tip-based), and I don’t have to worry about projects and deadlines or stay over due to someone not making it into work. And, if you’re at the right house, you get all the regular benefits you’d get from a “normal” job - medical, dental, vision, life, 401k (some houses match), etc.
The irony? He likes to play poker.
I understand. That is ironic.
I've never had a man who truly loved me then 😔
Can somebody explain this? He did listen, he took care of me and supported me, helped me and was there for me, accepted me the way I was and even cared about my family. Ain't nobody loved me the way he did. But he still cheated on me. What the hell?!
I’m so sorry to hear about your experience. This confusion and pain you’re feeling is valid. Remember, it’s not about what you lacked, but about his choices. You are deserving of undivided love and loyalty, and I believe you’ll find it with someone who truly understands what it means to love and commit.
My husband told me once or twice that I was beautiful when we first met. He never has again, not even on our wedding day. I've spoken to him about it because it hurts my feelings a bit when I dress up for him on our dates or sometimes just for fun and I get compliments from everyone except him. I've come to accept the fact that maybe he has issues with complementing people, but today he has hurt my feelings so much. He made a joke when he took the wilted lettuce out of the fridge and said "look, it's like your boobs" I haven't stopped crying and I don't know if it's because of the pregnancy hormones or because my breasts have always been my biggest insecurity. I can admit they are not the greatest after breastfeeding our son, and my husband has now done the opposite of what I crave from him and said something really offensive about my body that I can't control or get out of my head. He has tried to appologize and even tried to have sex but I feel I don't want to give myself to him after his comment.
He can easily joke around and say rude things about me, but has never been able to say something nice. When he tried to apologize he also said sarcastically "ahh baby you are pretty, you smell so nice, look at your jeans" (he bought them for me) but it felt insincere. Am I overreating?
Absolutely not overreacting. The feelings you're experiencing are a natural response to feeling undervalued by someone whose opinion matters so much to you. It's important for him to recognize the impact of his words and actions. It sounds like a real conversation about how you need to be supported and loved, especially during such a vulnerable time, is needed. You deserve to feel loved and cherished, just as you are.
@@anthonydbrice Thank you for your reply. I really appreciate hearing that my feelings are valid and it's nice to let it out, even if it is over the internet. I feel I don't want to involve my friends and family because it may change the way they see my husband and even though I'm shocked and hurt by what he's said, I don't believe he is purposely trying to hurt me. I'll try have another conversation to explain why I feel the way I do. But honestly, I think he just doesn't get it. :(
@@castroscorner8466 I understand. It’s a takes a lot of awareness and maturity to understand how telling your family and friends can’t impact the way they see him.
With my new man now. I can say....this video is correct!
So true ❤gracias 😊
Very well explained. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏻
Thank you 🙏🏽
I truly agree and approved👍💯🎯
Thank you Brother🙏🏽♥️
Thank you for watching! I really appreciate it. 🙏🏽
Facts with that first one..
Last year my ex invited me to go on a work trip with him, he was too distracted arguing with a username on Instagram and ended up telling me the wrong date for the flight so couldn’t fly with him and just booked whatever was going out there the same day from a different airport.. the MORNING OF as I’m about to go through security, he texts and says his flight isn’t till the next day and that he got it all wrong etc 😴 I was already anxious flying on my own for the first time but this heightened it, plus having to find somewhere to stay last minute… when he got out there the next day he didn’t even hug me or say sorry just said it wasn’t his fault LOL. That’s when I knew it was coming to and end.
Wow. Was that the first time something like that happened, or was this just the one that changed it for you?
AMEN
Very nice and very beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ All the best 💖
Well that explains a lot!
It goes both ways
AGREED‼️
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Facts 🤴🏽🙏🏾 simple & precise😇 Thank you 👊🏽
Thank you! 🙏🏽
@@anthonydbrice your welcome 😇
Thk u for the CLARITY
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Nice video brother! Please keep up the great work.
Thanks so much! I will! ☺️
Amen!! I really love this!! Thank you for sharing this message with us!! God Bless you!!🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️💙💙💙👍👍👍👍
Thank You 🙏🏽
@@anthonydbrice You're very welcome!!
So ready
I’m experiencing this! You are speaking facts! Subscribed 😊
Thanks Tiff! 🙏🏾
This how know my husband never loved. I will never understand why he even wanted to start a relationship with me in the 1st place.
😊 im truly Loved ❤
Shalom ✝️ 😊
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Thank you this is the perspective I needed to hear.
You’re welcome
Thank you for the reminder
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I'm lucky ☺️☺️
Awesome!
💯🎯GreatFULL🎯💯
💯 Amen! Thank You!
You are so welcome
Just beautiful...
Thank you! 😊
YES
Haha how funny all these qualities are lacking in him( the man I thought loves me)!😂
I don't think I've ever been truly loved 😢
All facts.
New sub!
Thank you! 😊
@@anthonydbrice you are so welcome 😄
Thank you
You’re welcome
yes your are talking about my soul.mate keith keep.sending me messeage about him
OMG, True inspirational message of positive energy 😮😉😇👍 Amen 💙💙💙💗💗💗💗🥹🥹🥹🥰🥰🥰
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Wow 😢😢❤
Romanticism is a philosophy.
Some men have studied romanticism and then they use the philosophy on women because it works.
🎉🎉🎉🎉THANKS
YW!
Where could i find that man? 1:15
I'm more interested if I even like him...
The problem is that you had to actually make a video about this because so many women are clueless bcz black Father's are no longer present in the home, so females are confused when dating and trying to determine. Thank God for positive male role models in my life
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I don't believe in true love anymore
It's understandable to feel that way.
Me too
The sign that works on women is he's not like the other guys.
Misleading... people are mutuable liable to change!
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