Thank you so much for sharing your story and I appreciate it and I'm sorry that you went through so much and I hope that you're okay now this is certainly an encouragement for girls out there who are going through this right😢😭 you are such an inspiration❤❤
I used to have really bad anxiety. Definitely, the biggest thing that completely changed it was when I started volunteering to help others and started being of service to others. Doing this enabled me to let go it all. I really believe it can work for any emotional problem! I really want people to know this so they can make the changes in their lives that they want.
I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm a father of 2, 59 years old, I can assure you that most men are not like this. He was sick, you were a kid, you deserved to be protected by adults, not abused. The addiction is a result of the trauma you experienced as a child. Not to be ashamed of. Sincerely best wishes. You're very brave. ❤
This is my first time coming across your channel, but I am very impressed with your confidence with yourself that it wasn't worth it for you to report him.
😔 I'm so sorry you went through this.. And I'm so sorry for some of these awful comments.. I hope you are happy and safe in your life now.. life can be so shitty sometimes. I was abused as a child and I am a sad adult now, trying to get my life together... Still.. take care of yourself 🙏😌🌄
So sorry for you! I was also (S… abused) from 6 different people, I still have secrets??? I am 64 years old. I would love to have the power to expose some of my secrets. I have told some things, some of the people are now passed away. Bless you ! It made me a VERY PROTECTIVE person, of my children and grandchildren!!!! I know it’s not “our” faults as I was told! Bless you!
so very brave talking about SEXUAL ABUSE ..i was abused sexually different adults took turns on me.my story of abuse is in a Authors book.published.MARK
You don't have to keep telling us I had no idea blah blah blah because you are a child none of this was ever your fault ever. You say you should have told no way! Don't blame yourself ever. None of this was your fault you should have been protected by him not abused by him. You are super super strong I can't believe how strong you are❤
You did nothing wrong. None of that is your fault. You will meet a good man someday that will love you the right way and you two will be happy for life. God bless you young lady.
I understand why you didn't press charges. I felt the same way, and never pressed charges either. I'm sorry that happened to you. I can relate to the way you feel and some of the stuff that you went through.
Children are not for men’s pleasure. Please do not touch children. It ruins their lives. I know. I’m 53 and still struggling. Anywho… if you don’t say anything to the police then the rapist will attack other children. It’s very selfish not to file a police report. I understand how difficult it is to go through a trial but my goodness, these child rapists MUST be stopped.
Everybody makes it sound like this is so easy to take these guys out. They are master man villagers they know how to work the system they've been doing it a long time period they know how to pray on people and get what they want. Just ignore those other people it's easy for them to say that because they're not in your situation. You did what you had to do to survive for that you are brave you are strong you are beautiful ignore the other people they have not gone through what you have gone through .
As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. Every time I see and/or hear anything like this, I see my wife or my daughters. If I could have protected you from being harmed by "it", I would have, but I can not be everywhere all at once. (1 John 4)
I am going to be remaking this video becuase i was so young at the time and i did i really feel like i knew how to explain all this and talk about this. Here is the new video th-cam.com/video/juJLZB8y4NU/w-d-xo.html
I think she just so desensitized by it now that for her, it’s not a big deal. That’s why most “victims” protect their abusers because they care about them in the end.
That's considered hearsay. Not admissible as evidence. I hope Noone ever accuses you of anything. By your judgement every accusation should be believed just because.
You are brave for tell your story I was rape by a family friend he was a uncle to my he was touching my in area he shouldn't I felt it was on me I am see someone help deal with this I so sorry this happen to you
Non of this is your fault. You were a child, you were manipulated, used and abused by a pervert. I am sure his sins will catch him. You are brave and strong.
Again you are a strong beautiful woman and I hope you see that and you understand that periodAgain you are a strong beautiful woman and I hope you see that and you understand that period
It was not you per say...a man can get an erection just riding on a bus, riding a car, or anything that moves his pants. Now that said...he was WRONG for what he did...period. You have done the right thing.
And this is what happens when you desperate women out there choose your own happiness over your own child's. So desperate to be with a new man she put her child in the worst possible position in life. This happens way too often.
Mmrrm, I think that children feel the need to not blame or get there caretaker in trouble. Adults are supposed to be safe, but sometimes they have there own screwed up wiring. Maybe in some way, we need the brain to develop a certain amount, before we can stand up for ourselves.
It is not your fault for not telling anybody of course you should tell people you always tell people or kids to tell but it is never your falt.! Even the porn not your fault!!!!!!
it suppose she was 11 in another story i would say she was confused plus it's kind scary when a father figure when it happens... a grandpa figure touched me when i was 16 î could't talk i could't moove i was just shocked i did't even try to remove his hands just tried to protect my body and hug my self so he get the hint and stop ... since that day whenever i see him i just disappear in my room never told anybody to this day .. But i dont really get her story... somthing doesn't make since her story just like made up . i dont believe the whole story the way she is telling it
Hey you're doing good and I just wonder how you felt about it when you were doing it I guess you were just a bit of a tease and he took it the wrong way
It's never wrong to sit on a trusted loved one's lap, whether you're 1 month or 50 years. What's wrong is adults using that love & trust to take advantage of a child (or anyone, for that matter)!
You hope we enjoy this video?? Really? Did I miss something? This comment was out of place. The girl described some details about her sexual abuse and stuff, all of her testimony was very graphic and dramatic, until... she "hoped we enjoy the video". Right, I'll look forward for your next dramatic and graphic personal story to "enjoy it".
Thank you so much for sharing your story and I appreciate it and I'm sorry that you went through so much and I hope that you're okay now this is certainly an encouragement for girls out there who are going through this right😢😭 you are such an inspiration❤❤
I used to have really bad anxiety. Definitely, the biggest thing that completely changed it was when I started volunteering to help others and started being of service to others. Doing this enabled me to let go it all. I really believe it can work for any emotional problem! I really want people to know this so they can make the changes in their lives that they want.
You're right !
You handled it correctly as far as I can see ! You're a strong girl !
I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm a father of 2, 59 years old, I can assure you that most men are not like this. He was sick, you were a kid, you deserved to be protected by adults, not abused. The addiction is a result of the trauma you experienced as a child. Not to be ashamed of.
Sincerely best wishes. You're very brave. ❤
This is my first time coming across your channel, but I am very impressed with your confidence with yourself that it wasn't worth it for you to report him.
Brave Soul It made you stronger And that's without a doubt God Bless
I as a young boy was also abused by my mothers boyfriend, and was inspired by friends to report him.
I'm SO SO sorry this happens to You.
God Bless
Thank you for sharing your story. I admire your strength may God keep you safe.
😔 I'm so sorry you went through this.. And I'm so sorry for some of these awful comments..
I hope you are happy and safe in your life now.. life can be so shitty sometimes.
I was abused as a child and I am a sad adult now, trying to get my life together... Still.. take care of yourself
🙏😌🌄
So sorry this happened to you. Your brave to talk about it
Thanks for sharing your story, I’m sorry you had to go through that… I promise to protect the children around me because of you, ♥️
So sorry for you! I was also (S… abused) from 6 different people, I still have secrets??? I am 64 years old. I would love to have the power to expose some of my secrets. I have told some things, some of the people are now passed away.
Bless you ! It made me a VERY PROTECTIVE person, of my children and grandchildren!!!!
I know it’s not “our” faults as I was told!
Bless you!
so very brave talking about SEXUAL ABUSE ..i was abused sexually different adults took turns on me.my story of abuse is in a Authors book.published.MARK
You don't have to keep telling us I had no idea blah blah blah because you are a child none of this was ever your fault ever. You say you should have told no way! Don't blame yourself ever. None of this was your fault you should have been protected by him not abused by him. You are super super strong I can't believe how strong you are❤
You did nothing wrong. None of that is your fault. You will meet a good man someday that will love you the right way and you two will be happy for life. God bless you young lady.
I understand why you didn't press charges. I felt the same way, and never pressed charges either. I'm sorry that happened to you. I can relate to the way you feel and some of the stuff that you went through.
Children are not for men’s pleasure. Please do not touch children. It ruins their lives. I know. I’m 53 and still struggling. Anywho… if you don’t say anything to the police then the rapist will attack other children. It’s very selfish not to file a police report. I understand how difficult it is to go through a trial but my goodness, these child rapists MUST be stopped.
Do you understand the reasons she didn't file a police report though?
Everybody makes it sound like this is so easy to take these guys out. They are master man villagers they know how to work the system they've been doing it a long time period they know how to pray on people and get what they want. Just ignore those other people it's easy for them to say that because they're not in your situation. You did what you had to do to survive for that you are brave you are strong you are beautiful ignore the other people they have not gone through what you have gone through .
Claudia you are very brave. I think the more we talk about it the less power it has.
She seems intoxicated. I really hope that this woman isn't using alcohol to deal with here trauma.
Lol that's f00ked up. She's not drunk
I was never drunk making this video. I was completely sober when I made this video.
This should never happen to a child ever. I'm not placing blame anywhere but it should never happen.
As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. Every time I see and/or hear anything like this, I see my wife or my daughters. If I could have protected you from being harmed by "it", I would have, but I can not be everywhere all at once. (1 John 4)
God bless yall on what yall do always from Jeff
all of these decisions are yours alone to make.... you are a brave girl
Wishing you the best. Very brave........
Thank you!
you are a very strong person
I am going to be remaking this video becuase i was so young at the time and i did i really feel like i knew how to explain all this and talk about this. Here is the new video th-cam.com/video/juJLZB8y4NU/w-d-xo.html
Good, this was so hard to follow, pausing constantly really interrupted the flow of information to comprehend your experience.
Your happiness is all that matters. I'm glad your content with life.
I think she just so desensitized by it now that for her, it’s not a big deal. That’s why most “victims” protect their abusers because they care about them in the end.
I have been through this and I waited 5 years to tell anyone and I didn't I was 2
He doesn't have to confess uour words are enough,the jury will believe you . I believe you🙏
That's considered hearsay. Not admissible as evidence. I hope Noone ever accuses you of anything. By your judgement every accusation should be believed just because.
@@Jeff-sp7bg No,that's what a grand jury is for for.
You are brave for tell your story I was rape by a family friend he was a uncle to my he was touching my in area he shouldn't I felt it was on me I am see someone help deal with this I so sorry this happen to you
Sorry, that happen to you...
I'm sorry that happened to you he knew better it not your fault you were a child
I truly hope that you get some good therapy
Non of this is your fault. You were a child, you were manipulated, used and abused by a pervert. I am sure his sins will catch him.
You are brave and strong.
I'm so sorry the hapeend to you. And I hope you are good now
You are strong and go and be safe end
WTF is wrong with people..
Don't worry Claudia. Nobody is laughing here.😢
I hope you heal
Again you are a strong beautiful woman and I hope you see that and you understand that periodAgain you are a strong beautiful woman and I hope you see that and you understand that period
It was not you per say...a man can get an erection just riding on a bus, riding a car, or anything that moves his pants. Now that said...he was WRONG for what he did...period. You have done the right thing.
porn is not a bigger addiction than heroin. coming from a former heroin addict.
And this is what happens when you desperate women out there choose your own happiness over your own child's. So desperate to be with a new man she put her child in the worst possible position in life. This happens way too often.
Why did your mother did not protect you?
Tell your parents what is going on Tell the police that
Mmrrm, I think that children feel the need to not blame or get there caretaker in trouble. Adults are supposed to be safe, but sometimes they have there own screwed up wiring. Maybe in some way, we need the brain to develop a certain amount, before we can stand up for ourselves.
why you cutting the video
Ur a very strong young woman from Jeff
Sad but sexual abuse is common place.
She took the pickle like a champ lol
Was he black or white ?
who cares?
@@fernandaparente1967 Who cares this guys ego.
you already know the guy was white lol
Why, what’s the point of your question?
Honestly, it really really doesn’t matter at this point
Did you ever get justage
Yes, I did. The man is now spending 12 years in prison.
You sat on here telling this story is wrong .
Something is off here!!!
😭
It is not your fault for not telling anybody of course you should tell people you always tell people or kids to tell but it is never your falt.! Even the porn not your fault!!!!!!
You are beautiful
It hapened to to me
If Mary you
Ur very beautiful young woman from Jeff
❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️
The question is why were you sitting on his lap and feeling the thing under you that was bothering you and keep going back for more
it suppose she was 11 in another story i would say she was confused plus it's kind scary when a father figure when it happens... a grandpa figure touched me when i was 16 î could't talk i could't moove i was just shocked i did't even try to remove his hands just tried to protect my body and hug my self so he get the hint and stop ... since that day whenever i see him i just disappear in my room never told anybody to this day ..
But i dont really get her story... somthing doesn't make since her story just like made up . i dont believe the whole story the way she is telling it
Maybe you can learn more about fear responses and trauma. Very insensitive comment to make when she said she was 11 years old.
Hey you're doing good and I just wonder how you felt about it when you were doing it I guess you were just a bit of a tease and he took it the wrong way
Damn
You have very nice hair
Why were you on his lap you were 11 yrs thats wrong
He most likely coerced her into it
It's never wrong to sit on a trusted loved one's lap, whether you're 1 month or 50 years. What's wrong is adults using that love & trust to take advantage of a child (or anyone, for that matter)!
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You hope we enjoy this video?? Really? Did I miss something? This comment was out of place.
The girl described some details about her sexual abuse and stuff, all of her testimony was very graphic and dramatic, until... she "hoped we enjoy the video". Right, I'll look forward for your next dramatic and graphic personal story to "enjoy it".
hey
Don't believe you're story sitting on his lap at a young age u knew what u were doing
I myself think you were enjoying it
Even if what you say is true, an adult doesn’t do this to a minor!
That's why you're supposed to keep distance and cover up around your step parents.
True that
I'll tell you how it must have felt amazing having a sweet young girl like you sitting on a man's lap
Ur very beautiful young woman from Jeff