10 Signs A Girl Is Testing You - How & Why She Does It
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ค. 2024
- In today's video we're taking a look at some common examples of ways women test men.
You'll learn about the different ways and reasons for these tests and how best to handle them. What's the best way to handle these women's tests and what should you be on the look out for?
Do you know of any other ways how women test men or reasons why women test men? Comment below and let us know. We try our best to respond to as many comments as possible.
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when I get "tested", I move on to the next contestant.
Well depends on the test. If it some stupid games then move on. Eg If she tries to make you jealous or plays hard to get move on. I have found most will do stupid shit tests. Alot of women won't past their own shit tests.
And that's FAILING the test. STAY single
Why? Every girl is going to do it, regardless.
@@Giovanni-01 so you skip over the GIRLS and move onto the WOMEN above those petty games.
@@mofo7689 If you can´t handle when girls are testing you don´t bother with women. They will just laugh at you and tell you to go back to elementary school where you belong.
The more i learn about women the less i want anything to do with them. Can't be doing with the stress and drama.
Wise guy
What she just described is psychosis! Run fellas if any woman shows these symptoms, she will forever be testing you.
@@shan5445No necessarily. It's good psychology. Have you ever taken courses in human behavior? Psychology? Human sexuality? Read any books about differences between genders? Haven't you set some expectations? Your comment proves you do. Are your expectations reasonable?
@@shan5445 The more the test.. the more u turn psycho..!
Me too
Imagine if men tested women to this level. The testing works in society only one way and women would never put in as such effort if the situation was reversed and women were expected to bring anything else besides her beauty to the beginning stages of a dating relationship. Society doesn't care about men but I will just overcome it all and pursue my passions and purposes.
And looks fade and then what will she have? Truth when men age we became distinguished in woman's eye's and the ageing single woman will test less a chase more! That fact!
P&P, facts
Especially the part about dropping hints on places to go like wtf,what kind of relationship is that,no communication??smh,those are the types of women thst are inspired by social media
You mentioned beauty so is it lust or love?
Yeah we are attracted to her beauty at first and the man has to spend all the money and do all the work while she is willing to give us almost nothing in return and blame us for being toxic haha
As said in the end: will test you throughout the relationship. Thus, if you fail her tests time and time again, she will ditch you like a piece of garbage she never wanted...
amen to that.......🤣😂
My way is :
I don’t care, whatever happens is inevitable, and I follow my own purpose and calling and keep my focus on that always!
If she’s really into you?? She’ll stick around!
If she’s isn’t? She will just disappear!
So don’t go bowing down to her!! For she is no ‘God!’
You are in control of your own domain!!
The door lock test. If you open the car door for her then walk round to your side and she doesnt lean over and unlock your door she fails the test.
For real. Kindness works both ways
What do you do if your car alarm automatically opens both door locks? This is not 1975..lol
This is a really dated concept what with keyless entry that unlocks doors with fob proximity.
@@whitebathroomguy she will reach over and crack your door open for you. I’ve had a couple do it
Nope. Guys, don't ever deal with a woman who thinks it's ok to give you random test. Just from the fact she feels comfortable enough to do that to you means she actually thinks she's better than you. Either that or she's really insecure and looking for a sucker who takes all kinds of crap and doesn't do anything about it. Women who really like you not only avoid testing but will put on their best behavior when meeting you because it's similar to how you show up for a job interview for a position you really want. You don't test your boss at your job or the person interviewing you for a position. You be on your best behavior. This is what women who truly like you do when dealing with you. They just cater to you and do whatever they can to please you more than anything. That's what you need to look for.
🤣 😂 🤣 I remember one of my first ex,
Told me she was going to the club with friends to test my jealousy, but I'm not.. And she was brutally pissed off for that.
So true
There is intelligent life on Earth!
But how do you want to know if you’re a good guy or a bad guy.
I hope you take everything in side answer
If she tests reject her. If she was interested she won't put any tests.
Looking for a knight in shining armor is one thing. Earning your right to think that you're entitled to one is quite another.
How to pass the test: Don't take it.
Yessit
Amen
Wargames: "....strange game, only winning move is not to play....."
Yep
The only reasons are insecurity and validation
Preach
Exact what wad in my mind
Tell em 👏
Yes. A lot of modern simps are so insecure because they fail to pass these simple validation tests.
So this girl says to me "I think at this point I'm looking for friendship" A week later she tells me: "Yeah I met this guy and we clicked immediately " I'm like: "Awesome, hope it works out for you" Exit stage left.
"Women are warriors"
I think you meant
"Women are worriers"
And just because they can do many things these days, the majority either aren't good at them, or don't want to.
Did she really say warriors ? 🤔
I felt lyk she said worriers 😄
If you can’t talk negatively about your ex as a man, but it’s ok for her to talk about her ex as a test. It’s a huge red flag, cut her off.
My wife never had put me through any tests like these, that’s why she has been around for 8 years, she is clear and to the point and when she hasn’t been clear I bring it up and she listens. And speaking about exes is a big no, from the start I told her that, if they still linger that means she or he is still comparing both of you.
For a man to the women to like him, "never mention ur ex to her". For a man to a woman to like him, "she will keep mentioning her ex to you. Fair enuffff.
The only way to win is not to play!!!
I'm the fucking prize here love. The fuck are you thinking???
I was tested once when a girl and I made plans to hang out but she flaked at the last minute and never showed up.
She wasn't interested in you in the first place cause she was banging other dudes.
On your job, in your school/education and everywhere else you are getting tested and manipulated. It is a part of any sort of power and management. ;)
it's not a test, it's a pure ignorance
I had that happen twice - there was no 3rd time
Yes, women are warriors,
So are men!
I can be happy without a partner or friends.
Men are human beings with feelings, not toys to play with. I dislike this video, because it shows men like products women can choose in a supermarket shelf. Fortunately, I have read in the comments below many opinions in the same sense. Women: we aren't as simple as you seem to think
I do respect the fact of chosingwords and keeping content cleant, apreciate that, lots of love ❤, your content is lighthearted
We never hear much about whether women can pass the tests when it comes to cooking, sewing, keeping a good house, being a good mother, a supportive partner and a loyal wife.
When looks inevitably fade, these are the tests that women need to pass if they want to keep a man over the long term, and women used to ensure that they excelled at these things.
Of course these days, women are shamed by other women if they do these things at all.
They have devalued themselves in the process, wonder where 'all the good men went' when they try to find a husband after their best years have gone, but still expect men to pass every 'test' for them....or else.
Haven't read a spot on comment like yours in a while.
4:39-5:00 was really good for a laugh. Especially the bit about fixing your own cars.
I think theres one big red flag with all of this and thats the underlying assumption that women are the Judges and men the ones on trial. Its so ingrained in culture that most men and women dont even question it. But you should question it because its a construct, its not a natural law. If you meet a girl and she assumes the position of judge and shes putting you on trial, get out of there asap. The trial will never end. Theres a certain amount of ego at work when someone is testing another person, they are putting themselves above you so to speak. A good way to bring this out into the open is to reverse the paradigm. I remember I was seeing a girl it was early days and i sensed she had the idea that she was the one in "Charge" so to speak and was judging whether i passed or not. So she said something dumb one day, so I said to her, "Thats ok, I'll give you another chance", all with a smile on my face making it obvious I was joking.......she flipped out and said, "I'll be the one giving the chances around here understand!" And that was the end of it right there and then, I pulled the plug. She tried to keep it hidden what she really thought, i.e. that she was the one in charge and calling the shots(as opposed to an equal and fair relationship) and the mask slipped, she showed me what was really in her heart and what she believed. So fellas, do not conform to any tests, its a lose lose scenario, walk away.
Very well said! An all too familiar symptom of weak, insecure women.
Well done 👍
Well said. Thank you for sharing using just the right words.
Enjoy your low quality woman. They test people because they won't reproduce with someone they think is weak. It's not a construct at all, grow balls and stop lying to yourself to justify how scared of beautiful women you are.
@@LeViIain first off you've made an assumption. You've assumed I'm single......I'm not. I'm with a girl who is by anyones standards, beautiful. But it's not just how she looks its herpersonality aswell. There were no tests with this girl, not even one. And that's why I ended up with her because I took absolutely no nonsense when it came to testing. If a woman I met tried to test me I'd cut her loose straight away, I didn't entertain it at all. And its because I wasn't willing to put up with any nonsense that I ended up with this girl. You get what you'll pit up with. You think men who won't put up with testing will end up with low quality women......its the opposite. Men who put up with testing are the ones who are weak. They won't walk away and that's exactly what you have to do if a girl starts to test, leave her to it.
@@eoinMB3949 Well in that case I guarantee you that your girlfriend tested you many times. Maybe not the same way a girl in a bar would test you, but unless you're the only one who ever approached her, she did. Whether it was conciously or not, you cannot underestimate the emotional/long-term intelligence of women.
There are a lot of deceptive men out there, willing to manipulate women for sex. Tests are tricks used to find one's true intentions or character.
It can of course be used in a bad way, to see if someone can be easily manipulated. But a hammer is still a useful tool even tho you can kill someone with it.
Yet many women keep falling for those that they should avoid.
The ultimate irony.
OMFG, if you do any of this to prove yourself to her, you will never get the girl (S.I.M.P). The only test you should worry about is "Do she actually show true High Interest?" if NO! Move On! I guarantee she will not test Chad/Tyrone.
Actually you pass the test when you show her you are not playing games.
Never simp.for a female. Especially the used up.damaged ones. The op in the video is talking sh1t.
Let her play games on her own , she comes back behaving properly as soon as she sees she's not having attention.
i see, here we are. the man of class.
@@1styonkou695 facts
Thanks. That one was helpful. I didn't even know girls tested us until very recently. Crazy.
@@Joyanima It will. I just think back on many situations and realize I missed what was actually happening; SMH. LoL Oh well.
I don’t usually talk much Anna, however i started watching your videos to help ease my tortured soul lol. This amazing woman whom i work with has been playing these hot & cold tests and it’s just so different for me now compared to my previous experience with my late wife. This is really the first time in 7 years i have began investing my time and energy into anyone and she is someone truly amazing. I have dated in the past 7 years a few women but always pulled back for a reason or another. With this one lady i don’t give up and she seems to notice. We both have our moments of stress at the work place but when have that natural chemistry and communication around each other. Your advice has helped calm my nerves and because at first i couldn’t understand her, it has been a while but gradually i am seeing that what you speak of is unfolding with time. Thank you Anna and Your team for easing my thoughts and overthinking
My problem with her tests are they're not very good. Some things you girls should be able to figure out for yourselves and sometimes it shows us men a much greater level of respect if you can just trust us to pull through!
If you're testing me repeatedly with easy tests then you're starting to waste my precious time and slow me down!
I feel like this is a super underrated channel 🤔
Big red flag is when she's talking bad things about her ex awhile you're talking to her that isn't irrelevant to the conversation between you two. Meaning she's has feelings for him still or banging him. When a girl tells me that i instantly lose interest.
This is exactly what I needed
Testing your time and thoughts out it's so incredibly helpful in there 😄👈💯
valuable insights 👍
On your first two points, if she's hot and cold how do you know if she's testing you or if she isn't stringing you along and dating other guys and 2 what if you did have a crazy ex that broke up with you and did bad things are you supposed to say nice things anyway ?
I hope I'm being tested. That would mean I still have a fighting chance. Otherwise, I'm studying for the next girl who would test me. Gonna Ace one of these darn things.
Games,games and games
Women nature at his best
Thanks for doing videos.
My pleasure! Thank you for commenting so often, makes all the difference and helps so much!
Chasing excellence with your passions is much more rewarding anyway!
Initial testing I can understand. Beyond that it’s up to her to have SELF TRUST in her decision to choose me. If she is not convinced after seeing consistency repeatedly - no thank you. I will not put myself through that for a life time.
The left handed ones are th very best! NICE!🎉🎉🎉
😳😳 your voice like a doll. Thanks ma'am.
Cudos! This is awesome!
..... Cool. Good video Anna.
Ma'am I love your Content 😍😍😍
Why is there a TEST in the First Place ?!?!? You either Want Me or You DON'T.
girls can talk shit abt thier ex and If a guy does the same thing... Its not ok... Whts the logic? 😂 hypocrisy
Woman: ‘I’m broke’
Man: ‘Get off your dead ass and work’
Woman: ‘I’m bored’
Man: ‘Get off your dead ass and find a hobby!’
Woman: ‘I just want friendship’
Man: ‘There’s the door. See ya’
Those are quite interesting to hear but for me I don't care if I fail some test. I'll just show my natural being whether she likes it or not.
Hello first time comment I like this woman we talk when we can and I'm busy man she work as well so I call her on Wednesday find out she was on her way to Jamaica with her bestfriend so she said I have to call you back when I back in town I told her have fun as tho I don't really care because I got my life and she got hers so I take this as a test but at the same time I'm not going to wait around for her to decide but going to have fun and just as she is thanks for the video
Oh really so u girls just keep testing us well sometimes u got to trust
Thanks btw
This all comes from the perspective of she is holding all the cards. Men, you hold the cards. If she starts with silly nonsense, then you need to have the self confidence to kick her to the curb and find someone else.
Looking good Anna❤
Lol
A woman's test of flirting with someone else... It's why you are alone... Good job !
😂😂😂
There is no tests, nothing but feelings you cant win unless you know direct feelings the signals you send are determine what they think of you and how you go about things
I think I hit the like button before the video even began.
Love her style
ENJOY LISTENING TO YOU..👍Think " I reather just single.😀😀
We had completed no contact and I just noticed she changed her profile picture. Is she testing me?
I'm pretty observant when I feel like I'm being tested like if she's reminding me of my manners to barge in other's conversations to talk when I need to wait my turn first...I'm pretty immature sadly but I'm working on my ways one step at time I'm trying to fix all my behavioral problems... some times I suck I've made too many mistakes an even if she would like me she wouldn't understands me or my mindsets too much I've gone through so it wouldn't be easy.But of course I'd be a gentleman an help her out even have her back as long as she'd have mine.
One I experienced she sends a friend to hit on you and report what he did to see what you do when she is not there
"Like choosing your breakfast cereal in the morning "
If a guy said something like that, he'd get accused of objectifing women.
I hate playing affairs of the heart.Go out on a date and both characters will reveal the true colours whether you're just matched for each other or just be friends.
That's not an excuse to psychologically torture somebody
This video is spot on to my comment on one of your other videos and I believe she’s a keeper even if she has a boy 😊
Yo i clicked the like button and it turned to 1k
My ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick once asked me to help her and her daughter Alana with her Math homework.
Wow. Some women are just wicked 😢
So when I tell her that my ex wife was a handful, she will hold it against me, but when you complain about your ex and compare me to him, that's OK and your part in the matter of your broken relationship is just to been seen as innocent,
Well, men are the bad guys, women are angels.
Slight satire.
I wonder if she reads the comments. Golden.
My crush has put me through the usual tests like the jealousy test tan she said she was happy to stay single I didn’t react to any of these but one I’ve never heard this one she did suddenly come out with I want a new home I guess this is the needy test all I said to that was how do you and Leave it at that
I def failed the taxi test lmao
Flip the switch and use all these tests on her see how she reacts and if she enjoys it.
Spoiler: NOPE
I do that a lot but in return i get women that are very strange but they are super fun to hang out with
You get accused of playing games.
Hey what about the opposite like for boy who ex girlfriend did him wrong? as in she just want to do one thing all the time and he just wanted to more. Then they just split up and he find another girlfriend later on then after he make rules.
why does a girl suddenly bring up that she has boyfriend directly or indirectly?
About the 'calling test'... i did that often...because SHE WANTED that.
Me noticing that it was controlling behaviour!! I felt like a leashed dog.
I didnt call her, she called me then (was shit testing her). WHen she called I was at the supermarket.
She heard a female voice which was the seller behind the cashier!! SHe was mad at hell.
My conclusion: SHe is controlling, insecure, never going to trust me in life, to claimy
Yep...too possessive and controlling!
Okay luv. I'll keep that in mind but I dont like mind games and manipulation
It's better to fail the test instead of proving your worth.
You are good.
my response to a test: “goodbye!”
Of course, women can talk about their ex all they want, but God forbid a guy does it.
And if she is ignoring me?
These days Gentlemen, just take in all this and flip the script! You're the ones who should be doing the investigation etc..etc...trust me on this one guys. I am 55 years old and the best dating and relationships I ever had were all before cell phones, the internet, dating apps/sites and social media and back when things just happened naturally. These days it has become everything YOU! need to DO! To get and keep a girl. Peace✌ out Brothers
I would love to be tested!!
No u don't
How about women act normal
Women excusing disrespectful testing behaviors by claiming that it is a natural behavior built into their DNA are self excusing bad behavior that destroys relationships from the start. The testing never stops unless the guy makes it clear that testing is unaccetable by first communicating that gamesmanship tests won't be tolerated and then walking away if it continues. Don't play games, truth is answer to finding the special one.
The problem with testing someone is it also looks like you are patronizing your target and difficult to be with. It becomes very offensive real quick and it makes you look bad to the men you do it to. If you aren't smart enough to observe people and make a good judgement call for a partner then you make yourself look foolish by rattling someones cage over and over. You look unstable yourself. Mind games are not welcome to a healthy stable man in his mind.
Ain’t no point in putting it through a test.. just leave it alone and let it manifest
Anna you are gorgeous! 😘😘😘
They are intitled to do whatever research that they must too!
When she says I’m not ready to let anyone in?
She test me, I block her and move on!
That's what you should do 😃
😂😂😂😂
They try to test your strength and sometimes test your temper. You have to be calm and confident.
One woman asked me had I been arrested.i said I haven't.
Like who in hell would admit it if they have been..lol
She test me for so many times I pass all her test 😂😂😂😂
"Give us the best bang..." Did you watch that back and regret using that phrase? Haha
Timestamps are missing, kindly insert.
Ministry and collective public relationships work in there it's ok it's not relevant because I'm so open minded thanks for your help 😃
The problem is not that you don't understand women, the biggest problem is that you don't understand yourself!!!
patience is virtue something i dont really have i can understand why fellas get fed up and just walk away dont blame them at all
She is proving hard to get but she keep asking me for financial assistance even though she is working and she always or insist to refund the money she lend from me. Could she be testing me?
Lol! She's using you as her personal Bank!
She gonna rob you blind cowboy...best to gets steppin'!
Well, she likes me very much but never asks me for a help or never talks about Ex at all is this is a bad signs??
Thats good she likes u
As me she ask me for help but not big help just lit help
I don't think all women test ,Those who do usually never last. Because the testing never stops. I've had experience.