What are some ways that help you feel more attractive? Did I miss any tips? Let me know below ❤️ Follow me on Instagram: instagram.com/valerialipovetsky
I think what we wear is important. For instance, well fitted clothes (the right size : not too tight or loose) look more flattering on a person. I also think finding the colors that compliment your under tone makes a difference. Honestly, its all about having some good stable clothes that you notice look good on you
i have had an ongoing problem with self harm since i was 2 (i had a horrific childhood - not going to get into that story but trying to set the stage for context). some things i do to make myself feel more attractive: 1) self pampering - i do a facial mask, lately i've been soaking my feet in warm salt water and rubbing off excess skin, shaving/hair removal, makeup (usually i only wear bronzer. this week i started doing bronzer, brows, lips, eyeshadow). 2) i find things to make myself laugh. if i can laugh, i'm less likely to hold on to anger/stress and i'm in a better position to handle situations or people that i come in contact with. 3) temporary tattoos - there are so many fun designs and shiny metallics. the possibilities are endless. i ALWAYS get compliments when i put some on. 4) i clean something - kitchen, car, closet, bedroom, bird cage, patio, bird cage. etc. i feel if my environment looks kept, it makes me feel kept/confident/ at peace on the inside.
This may sound weird...Before I got cancer fashion was very important to me. I was bedridden for 6 years. Wearing nice pajama’s and my panties “HAD” to coordinate! It was a must! It just made me feel so much better having nice pajamas and cute panties that coordinated. I also always had some small earrings on and put my hair in a low bun. I was in and out of the hospital a lot. On stay was 96 days. The nurse’s all knew me by the pretty girl who had her nice pajama’s on vs the hospital gown. Wearing that gown just made me feel😒 depressed and sick. Still to this day I always wear nice pajamas and coordinating panties and small earrings when going to bed. When I get up I brush my hair in a low bun and I still feel pretty even if I stay like that all day. When I look in the mirror I don’t see a sick person😊
For people who dont like to watch the whole video: 1. Put on lipstick 2. Tame your hair 3. Wear a scent 4. Maintain your nails 5. Have positive energy 6. Put down your phone 7. Have quiet confidence 8. Have good posture 9. Practice altruism
Me too! I like it so much, it makes me feel confident and sexy 😊 (and i like to imagine people's jaw touch the floor at the sight of it, which helps a lot haha)
Omg FINALLY someone talks about quiet confidence!! I'm like a quiet person bc i think it's so exhausting having ppl around u who are constantly talking and chatting..it seems like no one is able to shut the f up and just enjoy silence or nature or whatever...
@@kageoashj2912 did you ever go on a hike and just wanted to enjoy nature peacfully? And then you see some other hikers who are just talking loudly to eachother or even playing music -> THAT'S what i mean with shut the f up! There are some situations in life where it's better to be quiet..but dome just don't get it /:
Lisi Re same. I have selective mutism which is where I choose who I want to talk too like I’ve never spoken to my grandad but I see him a lot but it’s because of this problem I have. I’m not necessarily shy because I’m not but when I’m in a big group of people I just want to leave.
The bun is a lifesaver, but Just a tip for the girls like me with thin Hair: make two braids instead of one, first wrap the first one, then wrap the other one around. Makes the bun look bigger
i do not know many TH-camrs which have a opinion like Valeria and i think she is so great and already boosted my confidence from nothing to something. These are REAL tips to look attractive and FEEL attractive. Thank you Valeria please make more videos like this
I truly appreciate the concept of "quiet confidence". I never thought about it but it's true. When we think about confidence we always picture someone who is almost aggressive, but it should not be like that. Good job in taking out this idea, Valeria! :)
OMG please Valeria keep posting this kind of videos, they are so good! It feels like my best friend is giving me the advices I need, thank you so much 💖
the first time i saw Valeria i thought she was 16, now for some reason i cant understand when people say she looks like a teen, i see her more like an adult! 😁😂😘
Psychologically she is mature. And very wise. But if it is the first time you see her, she really looks sooo young. I thought she was 18 or so when I saw the video about her meeting with her dad. Now it is harder to perceive her as some teenager, because we already know she has kids and we know her personality:)
When people talk about confidence or being confident, I feel like i'm not that type. But when you described quiet confidence, I think that is what I have. I'm quite a reserved person and i only speak up when I know I have to. Sometimes its being mistaken as shyness when its not.
Quiet Confidence- omg such great advice. Thank you for that! It’s so true, usually confidence is held up as this extroverted quality where you’re loud etc. But as I grow up I’m noticing this quiet confidence and how I appreciate people who don’t need to be the loudest or the most popular. Do read “Quiet” by Susan Cain.😍 Thank you so much Valeria for always putting up such quality content. You’re amazing💖keep going!!
You're such a gorgeous person, in so many levels. Thank You for being so natural, watching your videos makes me feel like I'm listening to a good friend
I love you valeria because we think the same way and hearing it from someone else it makes me feel better that I'm not the only one that has the same mentality..
Omg thank you so much for the "quiet confidence" talk! As a shy person I'm so tired of hearing "just be confident!" I'll definitely try out your tips 😊❤
Love your content Valeria. You give practical tips to make the external more beautiful but also you pay attention to mental health/wellness. I think it’s a great balance and I always enjoy watching your videos
how you feel within is going to show on the outside. Feeling happy and confident makes me feel attractive and if you’re confident, wearing makeup doesn’t really matter! I love how you talked about both physical appearance and being confident, they are both important but mean so much more combined!
OMG! I never realised that my double chin might be getting bigger because of the amount of time I spend on my phone... TIME TO THROW MY PHONE IN THE TRASH
Valeria you are so beautiful inside and outside ! I got diagnosed with a brain tumor in April this year and I surely noticed how much it changed me not only inside... I gave up all my makeup routine and hair routine. I was always the one to put a full face makeup on even if I just went to the grocery store. This diagnose changed me in so many ways, I can't tell you. Your positivity in your videos helps me a lot and I just want to thank you for this. I am sending you hugs and love from Germany ! ♥♥♥
Sending you love and positivity, babe ❤️ I can't imagine what you're going through, but even if you can try to do some things that make you happy once a day it may uplift your mood during the hard times.
Right after you said "put on a lipstick" I paused the video saying "I'm so sorry Valeria, you're right" and put on my lip tint. I was negligent today and you kicked me in the butt! :P
So blessed to be reminded of such an important tips. Thank you a million times! You are so positive Valeria, Im full of energy after watching! P.S. Emma or Jessica if you’re reading- you are queens. Thank you for the work you put in this beautiful channel. Sending hugs from Minsk, Belarus ✨
I love the fact that you put in those good vibes and good hearted tips in videos that superficial people could click! Spread the love ❤️ that's a good way to use your visibility
U r always right! My mom is usually worried about what other people will think her I think its really important to put down on social media Sometimes❤❤❤ Love you❤
The way you make a person so comfortable and interested in what you are saying from the way you talk I dont think anybody can. You genuinely inspire and help out so many people including me. It all feels so real listening from you. Thankyou for everything. Love you ❤️
These tips were really great i am definitely going to try to incorporate them into my everyday life. Those lipstick colors are so beautiful and i love the low bun i find myself wearing it more often because of your videos. Thanks Valeria!
Props to valeria for writing a summary of this video in the description!! ❤️ You definitely deserve all the success you have and more!! You don't half-ass anything, so thanks!! ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥
You deserve more subscribers! Always been waiting for you to post videos. You bring so much joy and inspiration. Thank you,Valeria. All the love from Philippines! ❤️
I just want to say that Valeria I really see the effort you put in this video . From the description in the description box to the delivery of the content . Love it . I subscribed .
One thing that always make me feel better is working out/doing yoga/just moving in general. When my body feels stretched and strong, I feel more capable of tackling tasks and have more confidence. I also find that this helps so much with good posture. It’s easier to hold yourself up high when your muscles are strong! 💪
Those were all great tips! I would add this: hanging out with people who have a good consideration of us. I don't mean it in a needy way, as we needed someone's approval to be confident. I mean that if you are constantly around people who don't appreciate you it's very challenging to be confident, and spending a couple of hours from time to time with someone who recognises our value can be very much beneficial in my opinion.
Im a quiet follower but just midway through the video, I subscribed because you're the only person on TH-cam that can really understand about confidence. It's not easy. Thanks for this video.
Everything you say is soooo true ! Especially the phone part, it is so annoying to talk to someone who is always stuck to their phone ! Love from France ❤️❤️❤️
A huuuuge like for the quiet confidence tip. I've always worried about not being loud, I thought there was smth wrong with me but now I see that my biggest insecurity turned into the biggest advantage. Thank you so much for that 💓
you're the purest and the prettiest youtuber x influencer that ive ever followed. been with u since the very beginning when your subscribers were still around 50k. love love loveee you so much and keep being you
God i go through the comment looking for someone thinking like me. I found the video kind a superficial... She was so natural and beautiful in the beginning and in the end i dooont like it :"(
My first video and I already see you as the dependable, sensible, calm and always put together older sister all of us wanted in our lives. Thank you for the tips ❤️
I think what you said silent confidence was so true and amazing and completely relatable as people are ready to give their own opinion but then just not listening to what others have to say. Thank you. I really liked this video and I personally think you are very pretty both in inside and outside.🌸❣❣
These are all great tips, especially the quiet confidence one! Even after I put myself out there and try my best, I'm constantly told, "You just need to be more confident!" without explaining what they mean or how to get there!
Although I love almost all your videos, this one is definitely the best so far. Telling out loud values we are perfectly aware of but not practicing so much, is admirable.
Your advice videos are sooo good and they always work! You are gorgeous and an amazing inspiration for us to look a little more put together! Love you and wish you the best😍😘😘
I love you so much let me first say that! Hearing you speak my mind is so relieving I am always,told “ you are so quiet and reserved and calm.” They just don’t understand that I don’t need to be an extrovert to have confidence.
Valeria I love your videos...love your smart face and your depth in your advice.Keep up enlighting our minds...I could not agree more about "quiet confidence".Lots of love from Greece,Maria😘
As someone with horrible social anxiety I’d love to hear your tips and advice on a whole video dedicated to Quiet Confidence! I trust your opinions you’re very genuine, Valeria I love you and your channel so much! ❤️
i just- great video, i didnt expect both appearance and action things, but it really made me think about myself and whats good for me and for people around me too.
A really good video...And the first tips could be like 'if you dont have time in the morning but wanna go to work or your errands polished and decent enough'
Quiet confidence is my thing lol I’m so happy you talked about it. Also, people that constantly complain about their looks, specially when they’re attractive are the absolute worst because we know they do it for the attention.
So happy I found your videos Valeria. You are amazing and I can’t tell you how much I connect with what you’re saying, especially in this video. You’re a beautiful soul and I have subscribed. 🙏 for putting this great content for the world to see.
Girl, this is the second video that I see from you and you are definitely more than just a pretty face. Love the substance in these qualities you listed, every single one!!! Great job!!!
you're the second youtuber/beauty guru to mention chipped nails. and i know neither person is meaning to be menacing, but there's so much more behind a chipped nail than meets the eye. some polishes are cheap and can chip same day. i've experienced this. sometimes a person is too busy to slow down for a moment to touch up. some people experience bouts of depression, anxiety, or other variations of mental illness (or stress) and they paint their nails to make themselves feel better but when it chips, they dont have the capacity to care enough to take it off. (also me). so instead of looking at a person's external appearance and judging them buy it, i do my best to see people through compassion and empathy, because that is what i want as a flawed person trying to live my best life. Thanks for the video and the code Valeria :)
Texaslife43 that’s it, was looking for this comment. I love coloring my nails by myself because I can’t stuck to one color for a long time, and it makes my mood better (my nail polishes are not the best). Especially when I’m struggling with mental problems that i can’t even motivate myself to live.. Thank you for sharing this comment. It’s all about sharing opinions, so thank you for that. That’s the only time I disagree with Valeria, I care about myself as much as I can, but sometimes it’s just hard to think about your nail polish when you have your problems and work to do. all the love beautiful ladies ❤️
k_not today i'm glad sharing my experience/opinion/perspective helped you. i remember the first time i heard it, i felt taken aback. i was already struggling so much inside that it was just another added blow to hear the general population would judge me by something so minor and superficial. you do you babe! you're only responsible to do the best that you can for that moment. my best is not going to be the same as your best and that's totally ok.
This is so true! I have bipolar and I love painting my nails, and most times my nails are always painted well and my hands are well manicured but just recently I have a very deep bought of depression and I left chipped nail polish on for over a month! Every time I looked at my nails I felt even more depressed that I just didn’t have the energy to take care of it. I do have to admit that it LOOKS like a person just doesn’t care or is trashy, but living my life with bipolar disorder, I know there’s so much more than meets the eye.
What are some ways that help you feel more attractive? Did I miss any tips? Let me know below ❤️
Follow me on Instagram: instagram.com/valerialipovetsky
I think what we wear is important. For instance, well fitted clothes (the right size : not too tight or loose) look more flattering on a person.
I also think finding the colors that compliment your under tone makes a difference.
Honestly, its all about having some good stable clothes that you notice look good on you
Valeria Lipovetsky i love you so much but you need to work on your swatches
Well Its perfect 😚😙
"Wear A Scent" is my favorite tip; it feels amazing when people compliment your scent! My personal fave is Sensuous Nude from Estee Lauder.
i have had an ongoing problem with self harm since i was 2 (i had a horrific childhood - not going to get into that story but trying to set the stage for context). some things i do to make myself feel more attractive:
1) self pampering - i do a facial mask, lately i've been soaking my feet in warm salt water and rubbing off excess skin, shaving/hair removal, makeup (usually i only wear bronzer. this week i started doing bronzer, brows, lips, eyeshadow).
2) i find things to make myself laugh. if i can laugh, i'm less likely to hold on to anger/stress and i'm in a better position to handle situations or people that i come in contact with.
3) temporary tattoos - there are so many fun designs and shiny metallics. the possibilities are endless. i ALWAYS get compliments when i put some on.
4) i clean something - kitchen, car, closet, bedroom, bird cage, patio, bird cage. etc. i feel if my environment looks kept, it makes me feel kept/confident/ at peace on the inside.
"body language is important"
*me sitting with my back arched like a camel*
Oh my god i laughed so hard at this ahhahaha...me
Oh Lord! I relate...lolololol.
Random i love camels tho.
Me as well! 😂😂😂💜💜
tf yes
This may sound weird...Before I got cancer fashion was very important to me. I was bedridden for 6 years. Wearing nice pajama’s and my panties “HAD” to coordinate! It was a must! It just made me feel so much better having nice pajamas and cute panties that coordinated.
I also always had some small earrings on and put my hair in a low bun. I was in and out of the hospital a lot. On stay was 96 days. The nurse’s all knew me by the pretty girl who had her nice pajama’s on vs the hospital gown. Wearing that gown just made me feel😒 depressed and sick. Still to this day I always wear nice pajamas and coordinating panties and small earrings when going to bed. When I get up I brush my hair in a low bun and I still feel pretty even if I stay like that all day. When I look in the mirror I don’t see a sick person😊
Healthy wishes to you :)
Wish you health!
Wishing you health ❤
Giirly Giirl // this made me so happy, I hope you get better and keep that beautiful mindset, love you 😘
Hope you get better.. God bless
I doubt that Valeria can go from 0 to 100. She's already 100
You're the sweetest ❤️
For people who dont like to watch the whole video:
1. Put on lipstick
2. Tame your hair
3. Wear a scent
4. Maintain your nails
5. Have positive energy
6. Put down your phone
7. Have quiet confidence
8. Have good posture
9. Practice altruism
Thank you ♡
thank u
I love to watch Valeria's videos but thanks for the summary ❤️
She had already wrote the timestamps with the specific minute beside them at the description box 🗃 😂
Thanks Sabi
Maybe it sounds weird, but i feel more attractive when im wearing nice underwear, even if i know that no one else will see it.. 😳🙄
Me too! I like it so much, it makes me feel confident and sexy 😊 (and i like to imagine people's jaw touch the floor at the sight of it, which helps a lot haha)
Same! Matching bra and panties makes you feel sexy from within 😘😘 at least for me
This is so true! Just wearing matchy undies makes me feel more put together even if I'm only wearing shirt and jeans.
Damn true...
Nothing weird about it in my eyes! Even when I’m all day at home just wearing pajamas I feel more attractive when I’m wearing nice underwear!
Omg FINALLY someone talks about quiet confidence!! I'm like a quiet person bc i think it's so exhausting having ppl around u who are constantly talking and chatting..it seems like no one is able to shut the f up and just enjoy silence or nature or whatever...
Quiet is nice I have some quiet days, but shutting the f up I think is harsh
@@kageoashj2912 did you ever go on a hike and just wanted to enjoy nature peacfully? And then you see some other hikers who are just talking loudly to eachother or even playing music -> THAT'S what i mean with shut the f up! There are some situations in life where it's better to be quiet..but dome just don't get it /:
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Lisi Re same. I have selective mutism which is where I choose who I want to talk too like I’ve never spoken to my grandad but I see him a lot but it’s because of this problem I have. I’m not necessarily shy because I’m not but when I’m in a big group of people I just want to leave.
@@Anjelica04 yes i can totally relate to this! Although honestly i've never heard of selective mutism...but i know what you mean!
I love how much you're posting and your content is always so interesting and original. We stan a queen.
Thank you so much ❤️
I agree! She entertains us and also gives us a lot of lessons. I’m so grateful :)
Your low bun and center part make you look like a Russian ballerina! SO pretty. :)
redlantern she is Russian lol
I love that you mix both beauty and self esteem tips.
I'm so glad ❤️
Oh yes!
"nothing is more unattractive than a person who looks like they've had enough all the time" welp wasnt ready for that personal attack
Lol, don’t take it personally.
literally, like what if I have just had enough all the time and really can't be bothered
I wish I had a nice and angular face like Valeria so when I wear a low bun I don’t look like -> 🌝
For me it helps to just leave a couple of strands out of the bun. They will frame your face, and are so feminine! Maybe this will help you too? 🙈
Joy H. Thanks for the tip! ☺️
she doesn’t have an angular face lol
Laura Vochita she has more cheekbones and a sharper jawline than I ever will 😂
same😂
The bun is a lifesaver, but Just a tip for the girls like me with thin Hair: make two braids instead of one, first wrap the first one, then wrap the other one around. Makes the bun look bigger
Love this!
Omg ... can't believe I've never tried it... thank u very much !
I think you just saved me, oms!
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you are a hero
i do not know many TH-camrs which have a opinion like Valeria and i think she is so great and already boosted my confidence from nothing to something. These are REAL tips to look attractive and FEEL attractive. Thank you Valeria please make more videos like this
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Have quiet confidence: I was touched by it's concept. :)
I like more your room background because it gives me the feel of intimacy something like a friend over
Thank for the feedback, babe ❤️
I truly appreciate the concept of "quiet confidence". I never thought about it but it's true. When we think about confidence we always picture someone who is almost aggressive, but it should not be like that. Good job in taking out this idea, Valeria! :)
OMG please Valeria keep posting this kind of videos, they are so good! It feels like my best friend is giving me the advices I need, thank you so much 💖
the first time i saw Valeria i thought she was 16, now for some reason i cant understand when people say she looks like a teen, i see her more like an adult! 😁😂😘
Luka the psychocat sameeee
Luka the psychocat I was surprised when I came to know she had 2 kids already 😁
Psychologically she is mature. And very wise. But if it is the first time you see her, she really looks sooo young. I thought she was 18 or so when I saw the video about her meeting with her dad. Now it is harder to perceive her as some teenager, because we already know she has kids and we know her personality:)
Saaaamee it's so weird
As a 25 year old I would guess her somewhere around my age. I really don't think she looks that young. Most 20 somethings do look young
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When people talk about confidence or being confident, I feel like i'm not that type. But when you described quiet confidence, I think that is what I have. I'm quite a reserved person and i only speak up when I know I have to. Sometimes its being mistaken as shyness when its not.
Quiet Confidence- omg such great advice. Thank you for that! It’s so true, usually confidence is held up as this extroverted quality where you’re loud etc. But as I grow up I’m noticing this quiet confidence and how I appreciate people who don’t need to be the loudest or the most popular. Do read “Quiet” by Susan Cain.😍
Thank you so much Valeria for always putting up such quality content. You’re amazing💖keep going!!
Yes! I will check it out ❤️
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You're such a gorgeous person, in so many levels. Thank You for being so natural, watching your videos makes me feel like I'm listening to a good friend
Bogumiła Warda ❤️❤️❤️
I love you valeria because we think the same way and hearing it from someone else it makes me feel better that I'm not the only one that has the same mentality..
Valeria !!! Please do a maternity lookbook all styles dressed up and casual and on the go
FINALLY THERE IS HOPE FOR US
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I love your tip about quiet confidence,I think a lot of people misunderstand the definition of confidence 💛
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Omg thank you so much for the "quiet confidence" talk! As a shy person I'm so tired of hearing "just be confident!" I'll definitely try out your tips 😊❤
Love your content Valeria. You give practical tips to make the external more beautiful but also you pay attention to mental health/wellness. I think it’s a great balance and I always enjoy watching your videos
"No one is going to want to interact with you when you're own your phone"
That's the whole point 😂
how you feel within is going to show on the outside. Feeling happy and confident makes me feel attractive and if you’re confident, wearing makeup doesn’t really matter! I love how you talked about both physical appearance and being confident, they are both important but mean so much more combined!
OMG! I never realised that my double chin might be getting bigger because of the amount of time I spend on my phone... TIME TO THROW MY PHONE IN THE TRASH
nataliaanio hahaha or to start minimizing the amount of time we spend on our phone :)
Valeria you are so beautiful inside and outside ! I got diagnosed with a brain tumor in April this year and I surely noticed how much it changed me not only inside... I gave up all my makeup routine and hair routine. I was always the one to put a full face makeup on even if I just went to the grocery store. This diagnose changed me in so many ways, I can't tell you. Your positivity in your videos helps me a lot and I just want to thank you for this. I am sending you hugs and love from Germany ! ♥♥♥
Sending you love and positivity, babe ❤️ I can't imagine what you're going through, but even if you can try to do some things that make you happy once a day it may uplift your mood during the hard times.
You are the only youtuber that posts original content right now! I am so happy that I’ve found your channel☺️ love you Valeria💕
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Valeria Lipovetsky yayy you saw my comment😍💃🏻
AMEN AMEN AMEN about quiet confidence! listening -- active listening -- is so underrated xo
Right after you said "put on a lipstick" I paused the video saying "I'm so sorry Valeria, you're right" and put on my lip tint. I was negligent today and you kicked me in the butt! :P
aquaroxity what’s your favorite lip tint ?
valeria should like this
Haha me too
😂😂😂
Me too
So blessed to be reminded of such an important tips.
Thank you a million times!
You are so positive Valeria, Im full of energy after watching!
P.S. Emma or Jessica if you’re reading- you are queens. Thank you for the work you put in this beautiful channel.
Sending hugs from Minsk, Belarus ✨
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You have SUCH a refreshingly mature approach to life ... tfs!
I love the fact that you put in those good vibes and good hearted tips in videos that superficial people could click! Spread the love ❤️ that's a good way to use your visibility
I’d like to be your child, not because money or anything but because of your mindset. I’m learning a lot from you, thank you! 🙏🏽😊
your quiet confidence tip really spoke to me cuz im very self conscious n always feel the need to 'fill the space',, ill try my best to change that!
U r always right! My mom is usually worried about what other people will think her
I think its really important to put down on social media Sometimes❤❤❤
Love you❤
Absolutely!
I love you're nuance ideas about confidence, not something I've heard being spelled out. Definitely needed to be reminded of it!
Thank you Valeria. You inspire me so much. Just because of you I am on a journey of changing my self for the better. Thank you
I love that! ❤️
The way you make a person so comfortable and interested in what you are saying from the way you talk I dont think anybody can. You genuinely inspire and help out so many people including me. It all feels so real listening from you. Thankyou for everything. Love you ❤️
Paridhi Sabharwal 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
These tips were really great i am definitely going to try to incorporate them into my everyday life. Those lipstick colors are so beautiful and i love the low bun i find myself wearing it more often because of your videos. Thanks Valeria!
U look more attractive au naturale u r so beautiful u don’t need anything
I agree, she looking better when she doesn't has make - up.
Sorry for my English 😉
If you have a lots of pimples that doesn't apply hahahaha
Thumbs up for mentioning confidence, good posture and positive energy. Now, onto mastering those haha🤞🙌
Props to valeria for writing a summary of this video in the description!! ❤️ You definitely deserve all the success you have and more!! You don't half-ass anything, so thanks!! ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥
You deserve more subscribers! Always been waiting for you to post videos. You bring so much joy and inspiration. Thank you,Valeria. All the love from Philippines! ❤️
I just want to say that Valeria I really see the effort you put in this video . From the description in the description box to the delivery of the content . Love it . I subscribed .
Wearing earrings daily makes me feel more confident and polished. Even when I workout, I'll throw on a pair of studs...just to add a bit of flair :)
One thing that always make me feel better is working out/doing yoga/just moving in general. When my body feels stretched and strong, I feel more capable of tackling tasks and have more confidence. I also find that this helps so much with good posture. It’s easier to hold yourself up high when your muscles are strong! 💪
Those were all great tips! I would add this: hanging out with people who have a good consideration of us. I don't mean it in a needy way, as we needed someone's approval to be confident. I mean that if you are constantly around people who don't appreciate you it's very challenging to be confident, and spending a couple of hours from time to time with someone who recognises our value can be very much beneficial in my opinion.
Im a quiet follower but just midway through the video, I subscribed because you're the only person on TH-cam that can really understand about confidence. It's not easy.
Thanks for this video.
Lipstick is a superpower :-D
Amen, well said :D
I love it that you are such a caring and loving person! It's so much nicer to follow and listen to your advices!
I agree with ur point about "be quiet confident"
Everything you say is soooo true ! Especially the phone part, it is so annoying to talk to someone who is always stuck to their phone ! Love from France ❤️❤️❤️
On the chipped nails: My Grandmother always said "It makes you look like you don't have clean underwear on!"
I am now so conscious of this!!!! xXx
Hilarious!
Yours is my new favourite channel on YT 😍 straightforward and down-to-earth tips is just what I need everyday :D
I loveee watching your videos Valeria. From the first time I watch and everytime after that, I always learn something.
A huuuuge like for the quiet confidence tip. I've always worried about not being loud, I thought there was smth wrong with me but now I see that my biggest insecurity turned into the biggest advantage. Thank you so much for that 💓
Me: 0 to 50
Valeria: 1000000000000 to 10000000000000000
you're the purest and the prettiest youtuber x influencer that ive ever followed. been with u since the very beginning when your subscribers were still around 50k. love love loveee you so much and keep being you
I actually like the before way more than the after. Guess it all depends on who you are trying to look attractive for!
Me too..
God i go through the comment looking for someone thinking like me.
I found the video kind a superficial... She was so natural and beautiful in the beginning and in the end i dooont like it :"(
My first video and I already see you as the dependable, sensible, calm and always put together older sister all of us wanted in our lives. Thank you for the tips ❤️
about the confidence, you couldn't have said it any better Valeria.
I think what you said silent confidence was so true and amazing and completely relatable as people are ready to give their own opinion but then just not listening to what others have to say. Thank you. I really liked this video and I personally think you are very pretty both in inside and outside.🌸❣❣
Thank you sm Valeria for the tips! Especially the last ones-I needed to hear that💖💖💖
These are all great tips, especially the quiet confidence one! Even after I put myself out there and try my best, I'm constantly told, "You just need to be more confident!" without explaining what they mean or how to get there!
Looks good before and after thumbnail! 😍 I thought the before was part of the after! ❤️ luv u gurl!
Although I love almost all your videos, this one is definitely the best so far. Telling out loud values we are perfectly aware of but not practicing so much, is admirable.
What a wonderful video! Really motivated me to take better care of myself. These little things do add up! Thank you so much Valeria ❤️
Agree on every point 😁😁 positive energy and quiet confidence will take a person’s attractiveness very far.
Your advice videos are sooo good and they always work! You are gorgeous and an amazing inspiration for us to look a little more put together! Love you and wish you the best😍😘😘
One of the main reasons why you are so inspirational to me, this kinda vlogs/talks .. Totally my kind of thoughts. Thanks Valeria.
when you said quiet confidence I just clicked the like button ! :) :). thank you sooo much for this video .
I love you so much let me first say that! Hearing you speak my mind is so relieving I am always,told “ you are so quiet and reserved and calm.” They just don’t understand that I don’t need to be an extrovert to have confidence.
Valeria I love your videos...love your smart face and your depth in your advice.Keep up enlighting our minds...I could not agree more about "quiet confidence".Lots of love from Greece,Maria😘
Μαρία Ποικιλίδου m
I absolutely agree with the quiet confidence! It's something that not many people talk about but they should ♥️
Thank you for this video it really help me and you are sooo good at giving advices can't wait for another video like this.
Sending love from Serbia💗💗💗
❤️ Thank you Valeria. You're definitely a role model , especially because of your quiet confidence and your positive energy
Your videos are the best !
I definitely need to work on some of these points...
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As someone with horrible social anxiety I’d love to hear your tips and advice on a whole video dedicated to Quiet Confidence! I trust your opinions you’re very genuine, Valeria I love you and your channel so much! ❤️
I will think about it ❤️
I don't know why but I didn't extpect the lipsticks to be so pigmented! They are really gorgeous, just like you :)
i just- great video, i didnt expect both appearance and action things, but it really made me think about myself and whats good for me and for people around me too.
A really good video...And the first tips could be like 'if you dont have time in the morning but wanna go to work or your errands polished and decent enough'
Quiet confidence is my thing lol I’m so happy you talked about it. Also, people that constantly complain about their looks, specially when they’re attractive are the absolute worst because we know they do it for the attention.
Ugh, you’re so inspiring, Valeria 👸🏼
Just came across your videos. Insight and wisdom of someone way older. Loving the authenticity!
God bless this woman with a daughter one day. She deserves 🙏🏻
xKETISHx she has two kids already.
You're so wise,Valeria. Always making us feel good, always positive. Listening to you is truly relaxing. ☺️Man I would love to be your friend! 💕
I wish I look as good as her when I use a low bun I’m like 👂🏻🙂👂🏻
Uhh the earsss :/
to avoid having your face look like a moon, just pull out some strands at the side of your face.
So happy I found your videos Valeria. You are amazing and I can’t tell you how much I connect with what you’re saying, especially in this video. You’re a beautiful soul and I have subscribed. 🙏 for putting this great content for the world to see.
"It's not how you look but how you carry yourself"
SO TRUE!!! ;D
Your natural look is so nice Valeria. You don't need any lipstick and other things to look beautiful believe me.Adore you,btw your hair is super💞
I love you so much you help us your my role model cause your always showing us ways to do things and it’s just amazing!!
Girl, this is the second video that I see from you and you are definitely more than just a pretty face. Love the substance in these qualities you listed, every single one!!! Great job!!!
you're the second youtuber/beauty guru to mention chipped nails. and i know neither person is meaning to be menacing, but there's so much more behind a chipped nail than meets the eye. some polishes are cheap and can chip same day. i've experienced this. sometimes a person is too busy to slow down for a moment to touch up.
some people experience bouts of depression, anxiety, or other variations of mental illness (or stress) and they paint their nails to make themselves feel better but when it chips, they dont have the capacity to care enough to take it off. (also me).
so instead of looking at a person's external appearance and judging them buy it, i do my best to see people through compassion and empathy, because that is what i want as a flawed person trying to live my best life.
Thanks for the video and the code Valeria :)
Texaslife43 that’s it, was looking for this comment.
I love coloring my nails by myself because I can’t stuck to one color for a long time, and it makes my mood better (my nail polishes are not the best). Especially when I’m struggling with mental problems that i can’t even motivate myself to live..
Thank you for sharing this comment.
It’s all about sharing opinions, so thank you for that.
That’s the only time I disagree with Valeria, I care about myself as much as I can, but sometimes it’s just hard to think about your nail polish when you have your problems and work to do.
all the love beautiful ladies ❤️
k_not today i'm glad sharing my experience/opinion/perspective helped you. i remember the first time i heard it, i felt taken aback. i was already struggling so much inside that it was just another added blow to hear the general population would judge me by something so minor and superficial. you do you babe! you're only responsible to do the best that you can for that moment. my best is not going to be the same as your best and that's totally ok.
This is so true! I have bipolar and I love painting my nails, and most times my nails are always painted well and my hands are well manicured but just recently I have a very deep bought of depression and I left chipped nail polish on for over a month! Every time I looked at my nails I felt even more depressed that I just didn’t have the energy to take care of it.
I do have to admit that it LOOKS like a person just doesn’t care or is trashy, but living my life with bipolar disorder, I know there’s so much more than meets the eye.
take care of you the best you can Melanie
Thank you so much for saying this,I struggle with anxiety and depression..To me compassion is the most beautiful quality