8 INSTANT WAYS TO LOOK MORE ATTRACTIVE!

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  • Here are 8 INSTANT WAYS TO LOOK MORE ATTRACTIVE! These tips and tricks will instantly make you look and feel more attractive, pretty, beautiful, and confident. Beauty is NOT the most important thing! BUT - we all love to look and feel our best - so I hope these tips and tricks to looking more “attractive” are helpful! :)
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  • @lilcutie5082
    @lilcutie5082 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2256

    My tip is to have fresh breath. It's so annoying when you're talking to someone and all you can smell is their breath.

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Great tip! Thanks for sharing :)

    • @adrhianna
      @adrhianna 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      technically true... (and it's also a very important tip) BUT she was talking about how to LOOK attractive, not how to BE attractive, that's probably why her mindset was focused on visual, not the other senses. Would be cool though for Shea to make a tip list of how to trigger attraction with all senses :P right?

    • @yusranaz5172
      @yusranaz5172 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yeah but can u hive some advice to people having bad breath without any reason especially when they are brushing their teeth regularly

    • @edalynclawthorne
      @edalynclawthorne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ikr

    • @ada9338
      @ada9338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@yusranaz5172 brush your tongue too, after your teeth but wash you toothbrush thoroughly inbetween. also mouthwash and floss. if you wanna check you breath by yourself just drag a spoon across your tongue, wait for it to dry and yeah... y'know,,, s m e l l it

  • @ummannat2818
    @ummannat2818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    The points she mentioned-
    •wear nude heels
    •fill in your eyebrows
    •show off your neckline(decoltage)
    •when u put your hair down it's looks more attractive but if you're gonna put if up them make sure to make the area behind your neck tight.
    •have a signature lipstick

    • @isabellejaquet621
      @isabellejaquet621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The French is décolleté. Decoltage is an industrial process ...

    • @jennyjacques573
      @jennyjacques573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@isabellejaquet621 What are you the word police ??
      Are you a professor of English ?
      Everyone reading knew EXACTLY WHAT WAS MEANT.
      Get a life.

    • @kristinaj638
      @kristinaj638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jennyjacques573 lol I love your comment

    • @sab889
      @sab889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@AG-vp1ok my exact same reaction.... She reacted as if you attacked someone when you just corrected a mistake... People these days ...

    • @Azure_Fox
      @Azure_Fox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

  • @blessingsmwale7859
    @blessingsmwale7859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1999

    DONT LIE *we came here because we be needing a glow up after lockdown/quarintine*

    • @vine_rip.relevant6889
      @vine_rip.relevant6889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Cant lie with that 😅

    • @user-vw1ir7fw8e
      @user-vw1ir7fw8e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I just wanna look unugly

    • @blessingsmwale7859
      @blessingsmwale7859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@user-vw1ir7fw8e same sis same

    • @khizarabid8414
      @khizarabid8414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is glorious, I have been researching "what attract a woman to a man" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my brother in law got cool results with it.

    • @jennyilleditz1264
      @jennyilleditz1264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ngl

  • @dawnlovescouture2644
    @dawnlovescouture2644 7 ปีที่แล้ว +842

    How to be more attractive:
    1. Have a positive attitude.
    2. Don't be afraid to show your smarts. Too many women are afraid to be strong and cinfudent.
    3. Accept that you won't look the same at 50 as you did at 20. Sure, you can look good, but as you age there are some things that change, so accept it.
    4. Pay attention to your hair color, no six inches of dark roots, no orange toned hair, and stop thinking that extremely long, shapeless hairstyles are the epitome of femininity. Get a style appropriate for your age and face.
    5. Everything in moderation, never overdo bling, makeup or fashion trends.
    6. Speak clearly and show respect to people. Too many young people act entitled and think they can say anything they want when in public.
    These are some if the things I've learned at 50 that I thought I would share.

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      All good tips!

    • @lukas.caldwell
      @lukas.caldwell 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Learn how to spell.

    • @Clads112
      @Clads112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      thank you for sharing your thoughts!

    • @Mnyu
      @Mnyu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But I naturally have orange hair? So I should dye it?

    • @Clads112
      @Clads112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Adriabri you can dye your hair whatever color you want. But natural hair is always nice because that is your natural hair color.

  • @yourfunsister
    @yourfunsister 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1192

    Why do vloggers always apologize for the content of their videos? It’s YOUR vlog. You don’t need to put disclaimers in and just stand by your material. If people are that damn sensitive, they can click on a different kind of channel.

    • @ComplicatedInvisibility
      @ComplicatedInvisibility 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Your Fun Sister Look at all the negative comments even with her disclosures. That is why they feel pressured to disclaim because some people always get critical no matter what the topic.

    • @almxndhorizonn6166
      @almxndhorizonn6166 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      A disclaimer is put so the creator can push the responsibility on the viewer not allowing any dangerous situations to happen.

    • @softnsorry8461
      @softnsorry8461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think TH-camrs feel more comfortable and confident once they put on a disclaimer.

    • @edithcarter3554
      @edithcarter3554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your Fun Sister Well said ❤️

    • @croissant._.003
      @croissant._.003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly!! ! They should have expected it from the title

  • @tinagrzeczkowski695
    @tinagrzeczkowski695 6 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    "I need to take my advice more often"-- I love your honesty!

    • @idk4979
      @idk4979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👁👄👁

  • @mem5512
    @mem5512 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2431

    1) wear nude high heels(designer)
    2) fill in eyebrows
    3) be skinny and show collarbones
    4) have long hair down and not straight but bouncy
    5) don’t wear makeup without lipstick
    6) have long eyelashes
    7) don’t look down at your phone
    8) be confident

    • @taynelson22
      @taynelson22 6 ปีที่แล้ว +375

      Not everyone can be naturally skinny and show there collarbone. I guess I’m kinda skinny but my collarbone doesn’t stick out🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @aribarahman5714
      @aribarahman5714 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      taylor stone Same

    • @meme9272
      @meme9272 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      taylor stone,
      No one said anything about being "naturally" skinny. There is really no such thing.

    • @keiraholdsworth4613
      @keiraholdsworth4613 6 ปีที่แล้ว +196

      Me Me There is though? I'm naturally thin and I have always have been thin. It's called high metabolism boo

    • @meme9272
      @meme9272 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Keira Holdsworth,
      Are you asking me? Well, there is a thing called eating less calories, which causes a person to be so-called skinny.

  • @cynthiadaniel4969
    @cynthiadaniel4969 7 ปีที่แล้ว +910

    Your tips are well-preserved and "do able", but you asked if there might be other suggestions. .Here are a few from a 65 yr. old sucessful, grandmother..#1. perfume, men have actually stopped me and commented on my cologne. #2. French flats, same color tights and same color slacks, they too make a female appear to look taller, thinner and extends your leg length #3. Nice bright teeth, the older you get, the duller your teeth begun..(red wine, smoking, aging, artificial food coloring) #4. Spray in shine for that bouncing hair you mentioned #5. Clean natural nails, NOT dragon nails (scary) #6. Pedicure, for open toed-shoes evening shoes #7. Correct bra size, NO BACK FAT! (when your bra is the incorrect style your breast droop, cause back fat and force midriff roll) #8. Walking, pick up your feet, quit! scuffing and dragging your feet, walk with pride, purposeful, like your walking on the cat-walk, or a model.. hold your head-up! Your Right get OFF THE IPOD! #9. The correct size handbag.. the wrong purse size causes poor posture, gets in the way, and becomes an inconvenient focus of your outfit #.10 Speak like a lady, watch your vocabulary (THE WEALTHY DO NOT SPEAK COMMON, TRASH, STREET LANGUAGE ) ..and..VOICE TONE and CONTROL..it is not ATTRACTIVE to SCREAM for ATTENTION # 11. And treat the service help, with respect, your manners show, those with a old money or an extensive income, are polite, even in the worse conditions, we RISE ABOVE, the situation and pretend everything is "fine" then..Move-On"...Jacqueline B. Kennedy once said.."its, just as easy to Smile Graciously, as it is to Frown and Smiling causes less wrinkles"...All of the suggestion are free or inexpensive, teeth stripes can be purchased at your local thrift store and cologne is available EVERYWHERE!, even dollar store. Please, accept these few small suggestions from a "seasoned, experienced lady", who still believes in catching the man with our female gifts, all of these are easy, inexpensive and life-long skills...

    • @anayscalderon8596
      @anayscalderon8596 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Cynthia Daniel 👏👏👏👏🙌🙌 amazing tips! I need to screenshot this. Thanks beautiful lady 💞

    • @sindianajones568
      @sindianajones568 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wow! Respect💕

    • @krisbarnes9083
      @krisbarnes9083 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Cynthia Daniel the only objection I would have to perfume is that you can REALLY overdo it!! And besides that, you may work around people who are allergic to perfume.

    • @duetchu1416
      @duetchu1416 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cynthia Daniel thank you for sharing. 🤗Respect!

    • @kit10
      @kit10 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      thank you so much beautiful Internet nana 😇💅

  • @anupmatripathiupskanakpurh3858
    @anupmatripathiupskanakpurh3858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +859

    Also
    Wear a perfume
    Have at good smell
    Breath should be good
    Neat hair
    Neat nails...

    • @nosleep7357
      @nosleep7357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Easy on the perfume. Really.

    • @typicalidiot1692
      @typicalidiot1692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Okay, so..
      -Take a shower everyday (OBVY)
      -Deodorant (especially on P.E days)
      -Neater hair
      - wash face every morning
      -Make sure breath smells good
      -where your cologne
      Thanks :)

    • @Bluntsssss
      @Bluntsssss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      「 Odd Otaku 」 I go to pe everyday and sweat a lot so u ESPECIALLY do need deodorant

    • @dyinginsidelol
      @dyinginsidelol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      So I took your advice and painted my nails and ended up spilling the nail polish in the bathroom sink and it literally made a whole painting and so I called my mom cause I wasn’t able to use my fingers to clean it up so she did it but forgot to use a sponge and got it all over her hands and couldn’t wash it off properly but now my nails are really pretty so thank u. U really influenced my life with that comment

    • @lilaallen92692
      @lilaallen92692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Perfume is sickening

  • @PsychicKathleen
    @PsychicKathleen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +796

    I'm 62 and only this year discovered the wonder of darkening my eyebrows (mind you I am one of those who had great eyebrows - I remember my mother's friend saying that when I was about 12 :) - but as you age you do lose some of the fullness. I love a bit of dark shadow brushed on them and YES confidence is SO attractive in both women and men. It can override all sorts of flaws! I never knew that part of the eye was called the waterline. Learn so much from you Shea - your videos are wonderful. Joyful, informative and inspiring :)

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Awe thank you so much Kathleen! I really enjoyed reading this comment!! And yes, eyebrows and confidence will do wonders :) Thank you so much for watching my videos. Much love to you as always!!!

    • @jamlisa4696
      @jamlisa4696 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kathleen Meadows Yes. Her videos are joyful! Good comment. Hope you're having a good day😊💕

    • @PsychicKathleen
      @PsychicKathleen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you Jamlisa! :)

    • @annab6732
      @annab6732 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Brows make the face! Remember as you age to lighten the color, not darker. Otherwise it is really harsh.
      Very cute video and all very true. ❤

    • @PsychicKathleen
      @PsychicKathleen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hi Anna - thank you! I did notice that - I use the lightest brown of my eyeshadows to darken them just a bit and I'm pretty careful about that because you're absolutely right - too dark and the rest of my face looks stark white :)

  • @jenniferharris7633
    @jenniferharris7633 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1814

    I've never been able to pull my hair back into a pretty ponytail. Please do a tutorial showing how you do yours.

    • @homelessme1
      @homelessme1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Jennifer Harris I second that!

    • @blossombuddies2875
      @blossombuddies2875 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yeah! When I had long hair especially I had tons of problems with it and even now with a lob i still have problems.

    • @elx2560
      @elx2560 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Jennifer Harris flipping your head over works best and if that makes it look weird its OK, your hair gets trained into it after a few days, it happend to me

    • @SweetPea6183
      @SweetPea6183 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jennifer Harris double ponytail "hacks" actually do work for fullness. (Lots of videos about the tricks using different methods so I won't waste space poorly explaining lol) Also using a paddle brush and turning upside down helps the bottom. Trying to be too sleek and tidy is usually the difficult part with a pony that looks nice but keeps it's fullness. At least in my experience.

    • @jordynbell9825
      @jordynbell9825 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Brush your hair back. Put your head down making the hair go down, brush the hair on the back of your head holding the hair, and smooth the hair from the top of your head and put it in a ponytail and you can use hairspray to help flyaways☺

  • @novyanam514
    @novyanam514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    You know you’ve got issues if you searched up “how to be beautiful”

    • @elizabeththompso8756
      @elizabeththompso8756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep

    • @katie6526
      @katie6526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      HA!!! jokes on you I searched “how to be more attractive”

    • @elicz
      @elicz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Novyana M i searched how to be more actractive cause i want to impress my crush

    • @luxuriousartz2551
      @luxuriousartz2551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@katie6526 same here!

    • @marymasavage6056
      @marymasavage6056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thats a harsh statement, Having issues means change is present, not that youre in a bad place.
      Compassion is beautiful.

  • @AshleyMarie1
    @AshleyMarie1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1155

    I agree I feel like the neckline is the most attractive thing on a woman

    • @daphnefeida6601
      @daphnefeida6601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sassy. never.Trashy Yes but you are very beautifull and probably have great clavicles but mine are ugly so for me it does not do the trick...

    • @AshleyMarie1
      @AshleyMarie1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Daphne Feida you're beautiful 💖

    • @julesbjeweled7891
      @julesbjeweled7891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Daphne Feida. If you're not comfortable showing that area then you can try showing your back. That's another attractive and sexy area without being blatantly so. A woman never needs to show cleavage or t&a to be sexy, keeping it modest and just showing a bit of skin is more mysterious (and men LOVE that) while remaining classy. Also there's your neck!

    • @daphnefeida6601
      @daphnefeida6601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jules BJeweled i know what you are talking about but just to explain what i am saying : my neck has a scar that is visible if you come close by a thyroidectomy..also i am overweight and my claviclea are not visible...so you are right that i can show my back!i mean for me this is a more resonable choice!but let's not idealise only one part on a womans body!not everyone can be sexy showing back or clevage or legs...every body ia different

    • @zy3402
      @zy3402 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      True😂

  • @AFFTFOMSICHTS
    @AFFTFOMSICHTS 6 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    I love how all her responses to ppl in the comments are kind even if they don’t agree with her, Unlike so many other you tubers who are so sensitive to any form of feedback or criticism differing from their opinion. Thick skin and classy.

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thank you, Amber!!! I try to be kind :)

    • @uzithegoat1793
      @uzithegoat1793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yessssssssssssss

    • @adesuwabeckyporter3640
      @adesuwabeckyporter3640 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      wow Shea!.... you're a rare breed!,... a gift to your/ our generation for sure!. Inspiring! Well done!

  • @PassionJo777
    @PassionJo777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Always wear a smile! It's attractive and it relaxes others AND the features of the face!

    • @Katie-tc1fz
      @Katie-tc1fz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When I smile men and women run
      Away
      From me

    • @edg.2676
      @edg.2676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      a smile must be natural. so better advice is: dont' be afraid to smile IF YOU FEEL LIKE IT

    • @chelseadoiron749
      @chelseadoiron749 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

  • @user-rj9ei4rk8l
    @user-rj9ei4rk8l 7 ปีที่แล้ว +703

    1) Be attractive
    2) Be attractive

    • @Alex-qy1xb
      @Alex-qy1xb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sonya Xo.... Mmmmmmmmm I'll try that out

    • @nickysixx2028
      @nickysixx2028 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      3.dont be ugly

    • @alliep892
      @alliep892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this is so true

    • @MK-jd3lr
      @MK-jd3lr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      3. *Go back to eating potato chips and watching vids about how to be prettier cause you failed 1. and 2.*

    • @farsi1767
      @farsi1767 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well if that's the case I have absolutely no hope

  • @avocadoabby9282
    @avocadoabby9282 7 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Ikr collar bones are so pretty and feminine😍😍 I've thought that for a long time but finally someone put it into words!!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yessss!!! I'm so glad you agree!! :)

    • @SapphireRain777
      @SapphireRain777 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @melanielopezmusic
      @melanielopezmusic 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well, a year ago i was sitting at school with an off the shoulder blouse and a man told me something like “look at your bones, you are too skinny”. That was so annoying.

    • @TheOriginalCK
      @TheOriginalCK 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Melanie López wow that is so rude? Don't listen to him, you're beautiful no matter what!

    • @jenniferblohmichael97
      @jenniferblohmichael97 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Melanie López- and you said "that's your opinion"

  • @carolinenichterrr6153
    @carolinenichterrr6153 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Her eyes are literally GOALS😍❤️

  • @jbfanandlover
    @jbfanandlover 6 ปีที่แล้ว +702

    i can't wear heels ill fall and die lol

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Heels are not for everyone!! There are some lovely flats available, too!!!

    • @uzithegoat1793
      @uzithegoat1793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was like that at first with my first heels experience lol but then I got used to them and omg I just love heels now. But I know some people who still hate them which I get it xD

    • @darlenegray4602
      @darlenegray4602 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hurricane Immortal &2

    • @frankoceanluvr89
      @frankoceanluvr89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hurricane Immortal lmao

    • @sunlight740
      @sunlight740 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sameee

  • @KBecks33
    @KBecks33 7 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    Posture, posture, posture!! It should have been more emphasized!!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Totally agree that it's SO important!! Makes a really big difference!

    • @alhassan5623
      @alhassan5623 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Kathryn I always try to sit up straight during class lectures and I can feel myself looking better

    • @Emiliapocalypse
      @Emiliapocalypse 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Augh, you’re SO right. I can go from schleppy to kinda cute if I pay attention to my posture.

    • @jezab8071
      @jezab8071 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’ve got that right! Stand up straight! Sit up straight! Whether you’re tall or short or somewhere in between, posture will instantly make you look better and more confident.

  • @cathymartinmcgoey3855
    @cathymartinmcgoey3855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As a 57 year old woman I lost my fashion mojo over the years .. however..🤗... since subscribing to your channel I have really learned so much .. Thankyou.. you are an absolute Darling.. and a real testament to your generation .. and mine ... thanks again and their is NOTHING shallow about you .. sincerely.. Cathy 🥂🧚‍♀️💕

  • @nicolestanford4955
    @nicolestanford4955 6 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    Having good dental hygiene should be on there. Everyone looks more attractive with white/healthy teeth 😉😍

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So true. I totally agree, Nicole Stanford!!

    • @Serenadesong
      @Serenadesong 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      White isn't natural, no-one has perfectly white teeth and your teeth can be off white, or even yellowish (gasp!) and still be healthy. Just pointing this out. As long as they're clean, flossed, and cavity free you have good teeth.

    • @liloffkey8353
      @liloffkey8353 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeet. I got the whitest teeth in my grade. I guess one thing that is good. My eyes hair body bust size good.
      But I have freckles oof

    • @hannahpaine9379
      @hannahpaine9379 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you need straight teetn to be beauiful?

    • @shanleyphillips1111
      @shanleyphillips1111 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      My teeth are naturally yellow but perfectly healthy, it’s just the way they’ve always been and btw a lot of the time people with with teeth aren’t healthy they’ve just put chemicals on them

  • @aimeea5528
    @aimeea5528 7 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    Heels do not create better posture, very much the opposite!! They cause your pelvis to tilt, your spine to leave it's neutral curve, cause excessive flexion of your ankles, etc.

    • @beebuzz959
      @beebuzz959 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Aimee A heals are very unhealthy, and someone like me shouldn't wear them.

    • @cindyhollingsworth6741
      @cindyhollingsworth6741 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      so true

    • @MadAboutBrows
      @MadAboutBrows 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Michelle Tsuchiya exactly how does not wearing heels relate to being butch?

    • @FootieChick82
      @FootieChick82 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Heels messed up my hips and my feet. No more heels for me unless for very VERY special occasions!

  • @LeviAckerman-ec8wr
    @LeviAckerman-ec8wr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Step one: be attractive
    step to be: more attractive
    step three: be super attractive
    step four: be extremely attractive
    Thank me later

    • @gangurogeisha
      @gangurogeisha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Easy for you to say Levi. Nobody looks more stylish while slaying titans.

    • @godddog666
      @godddog666 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      gangurogeisha. Lmao

    • @foothecookie2160
      @foothecookie2160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Levi teach me your ways
      ??💍??

    • @chewymews
      @chewymews 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      LEVI

    • @LeviAckerman-ec8wr
      @LeviAckerman-ec8wr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@foothecookie2160 sorry just genetics🤪

  • @367Play
    @367Play 7 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    Such a fun ”list”- all tips are simple, sincere, and delivered light-hearted. Thank you. Refreshing to hear tips that all suggest we are enough. You didn’t suggest some surgery or ultra-expensive purchases - just tweaks and behavior consciousness that we probably can all agree are honest and true. You’re terrific 😉

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wow - I really loved this comment!!! Thank you so much!! I'm really glad you liked this video! And yes, we are ALL ENOUGH!

  • @carrie2518
    @carrie2518 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    WHAT a difference filling in the eyebrows is!! It definitely feels odd at first, but it's unbelievable how much of a difference it makes!

  • @kkuryoo
    @kkuryoo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    "let your hair down-"
    me, a girl who has really short hair: *_excuse me?_*

    • @CM-qy2fm
      @CM-qy2fm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      defaulttpng when my hair is down I look like a boy

    • @ratherande
      @ratherande 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      _l e t Y o u r H a i r D o w n M o r t a l_

    • @Yussirah_
      @Yussirah_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same HAHA

    • @kittymcgill7331
      @kittymcgill7331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same i cut my hair and i was like ok ik i cut it and regretted it 🤣

    • @elemina4438
      @elemina4438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The hair tricks do NOT work for people with THINN AF hair. I will suffer forever.

  • @linzianna
    @linzianna 6 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I.will follow all your tips about looking more attractive however nobody will notice me because they are all too busy looking at their phones!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      That's so funny, Linzianna!! Let's hope people stop looking at their phones so much! :)

  • @ansilgeorge1704
    @ansilgeorge1704 7 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Its early morning here in India. I have to send my kids to school by 7. Here i am watching your video....Just shows how much I am waiting for your videos. Keep up the good work.

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Awe thank you Ansil!!! That's seriously so nice to hear! :)

    • @absolute07
      @absolute07 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ansil George q

  • @goreph1c16
    @goreph1c16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    I can't make eye contact
    *cries*

    • @dorkabalogh4708
      @dorkabalogh4708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      xxShadyPotato same I’m so awkward lol

    • @superstitions7327
      @superstitions7327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too, I have social anxiety... *silently goes to the dark corner and cries*

    • @noor9230
      @noor9230 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      High five lol

    • @_atchaya_
      @_atchaya_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iwilldisappearforyou Same here!

  • @LovedHappy
    @LovedHappy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +870

    girl you look FLAWLESS. I will take ALL your tipssss!👏👏👏

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awe thank you!!! :)

  • @blondesided3498
    @blondesided3498 7 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Great tips 👌🏼Nude heels are timeless- I also suggest finding the right shade of nude heel for skin tone- it will do a better job of elongating the leg. A signature lip is a good idea- I love a nude lip and I keep my faves in my Mini Pochette that goes in all of my bags so they are always on hand. Another way that I feel more attractive is to wear my signature fragrance- just makes me feel more put together 💕

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you so much Jenni!!! I"m so glad you agree with me! And I TOTALLY agree about the signature fragrance!! I almost included that on my list!! Much love to you!

    • @mirahhaus
      @mirahhaus 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jenni Lepp great point about skin tones!! Because most “regular” nude heals just look whack on me haha

    • @blondesided3498
      @blondesided3498 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Silla Fromm- I have different shades in my closet- some for when I'm tan, some for when I'm super pale in winter. I find that pinkish nude heels look best with my skin tone in winter 👌🏼 The right pair is our there for you doll 😘

    • @julesbjeweled7891
      @julesbjeweled7891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jenni Lepp. That's actually the point of wearing the nude heels. It's supposed to match your legs and look like an extension of them, giving you the appearance that they go on for miles. Stating just a nude heel doesn't work for everyone, it needs to match your skin tone. I haven't worn a black heel with a little black dress in 30 years, it's always been nude. I'm glad you pointed this out so others will know that 1 shade doesn't work for everyone. 🖒

    • @hgam12
      @hgam12 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a medium almost tan skin tone, and my favorite nude is kvd Lolita II

  • @kerlinodeth3225
    @kerlinodeth3225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    Well my bone is not like that ._.

    • @azulflores2502
      @azulflores2502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @little7redify
      @little7redify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Doesn't mean it's not beautiful

    • @brisadelrio981
      @brisadelrio981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Just lose weight

    • @sallyversace
      @sallyversace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Tbh I think it looks kind of creepy like that 😬

    • @ydkm.247
      @ydkm.247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Brisa Delrio just put glue on ur lips 👏

  • @wendyraye
    @wendyraye 7 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Long wavy hair? I’m screwed. Actually I didn’t get “noticed” until I cut my hair shorter (between chin and shoulder length). Long hair dragged my face down. Some people look better with shorter hair IMO and I’ve never needed it to get noticed (good thing because it won’t grow long EVER from coloring). The few guys who told me I should grow it were clueless.

    • @emmaleedangelo4222
      @emmaleedangelo4222 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wendy French I love long hair. I've had everywhere from a pixie cut to waist length. Long hair is so much fun but a little longer than chin length is the most flattering on me by far. And as far as men being most attracted to long hair, my husbands favorite style on me is pixie cut lol

    • @iraresuli7483
      @iraresuli7483 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I actually prefer shorter hair and I want to cut my hair as short as yours (it's currently a long bob) but I'm afraid I'll look bad.

    • @harriatking8417
      @harriatking8417 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so me lol

    • @zompired2998
      @zompired2998 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My hair used to be just below my hips and I went straight to a pixie cut. I immediately loved it, no regrets. Since then I've gone a bit shorter to find my ideal style but I honestly believe it can look great on anyone! :)

    • @berkayfina1249
      @berkayfina1249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I looked shorter and fatter, and generally more boring with long hair... Short hair makes me stand out and look curvier (in a good way) :D

  • @brookeflood5683
    @brookeflood5683 7 ปีที่แล้ว +482

    Totally agree with getting off the phone!!

    • @KODAHH101
      @KODAHH101 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brooke Flood I like your last name

    • @angelaprince3482
      @angelaprince3482 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes true but some people are shy and insecure so they need the phone

    • @tessnielsen1480
      @tessnielsen1480 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brooke Flood I like neckline's but mine is like very invisible.....

    • @pileofjunkinc
      @pileofjunkinc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rita king just cuz your shy doesn't mean you need a phone. xD
      Shy people existed before phones.~

    • @rosamendieta4579
      @rosamendieta4579 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tess Nielsen same

  • @d.m.brandon8411
    @d.m.brandon8411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this girl is so gorgeous omg

  • @cedrakim2382
    @cedrakim2382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    "let your hair down"
    me, a hijabi: *excuse me?*

    • @gailarneman4771
      @gailarneman4771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Relax! It's an American expression!! And as long as you're here, just accept them.

    • @ilovegio
      @ilovegio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Gail Arneman she’s just playin she’s not actually mad

    • @ak5235
      @ak5235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@gailarneman4771 "here" where Exactly?

    • @bb3aaa623
      @bb3aaa623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Gail Arneman bruh what

    • @gulbi2712
      @gulbi2712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      girl hahah 💀

  • @eatinricenothinno
    @eatinricenothinno 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Her eyes match her hair and it is so pretty.

  • @bransonlights
    @bransonlights 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I've watched countless video's geared at all the how to's of makeup, hair - you name it. Your video (which I'll be honest I clicked on out of curiosity) is by far one of if not THE best I've watched. Ending it with qualities rather than a sigma brush whatever and the Mac paint pot in.....well you get the point. Don't get me wrong, I love a great product but all the makeup in the world can never take the place of a genuine smile, confidence and happy positive outlook. Well done! BTW - does the average girl really know what all the different numbered makeup brushes are for? Lord knows I don't and don't care. And one little trip to the high end makeup counter or store isn't something most average girls can afford except maybe once in a while. Sure, we should all want to look our best but real beauty begins inside. Your contribution to this topic I find very "real". Thanks! 🐾 please adopt a homeless needy loving animal🐾

  • @bashag5477
    @bashag5477 6 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    Important message: who cares about what guys think is sexy? That should not be anyone's criteria for themselves.

    • @Serenadesong
      @Serenadesong 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      If you like guys, you care. It's nice to be considerate to the opposite sex, just as guys should care what we think too. It's the dynamic between the sexes.

    • @lwp2001
      @lwp2001 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Serenadesong I like guys and I don't want them to see me as sexy because we all know that guys take it too far when they wanna have you, wether you want that much or not

    • @littleboots9800
      @littleboots9800 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      "Who cares what guys think is sexy?" Errr....straight women.

    • @alpacawithouthat987
      @alpacawithouthat987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Lyndz W Good job generalizing men’s behavior towards women

    • @sarahheri7027
      @sarahheri7027 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      LOL I don't really think she just ONCE says this video is about what guys want or like or think is sexy. She mentions that guys might like something, but she says several times that you'll just feel better and more attractive in general (or to yourself). It's a video about how to make oneself feel better?

  • @someguyonyoutube1317
    @someguyonyoutube1317 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    The glass tapping sound effect was so cute.

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahaha...Thanks!!! :) It's fun to edit!

  • @jackiehernandez3771
    @jackiehernandez3771 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have only watched two videos but I love that you have ended both with tips that were more about personality instead of just looks. It’s encouraging and refreshing, keep on girl! :)

  • @LittleMissRockChalk
    @LittleMissRockChalk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Nice tips! I would also add taking care of your bag (designer or not)! A grungy bag can really bring down a whole look. It's my equivalent of a man wearing sneakers with a suit. Yuck!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes I definitely know what you mean!! I agree! Thanks for the tip!!

    • @ingeschipper_
      @ingeschipper_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YellowBrickExpat I always buy cheap 50 dollar bags and ruin it in a few weeks, if I buy a designer one I probably ruin it even sooner.

    • @philipward2955
      @philipward2955 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      YellowBrickExpat gulol

    • @andreamovi6780
      @andreamovi6780 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Idk used bag look fits with some styles like depends how you're dressed

    • @SweetPea6183
      @SweetPea6183 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also your shoes! Taking care of your things regardless of the quality or expensive you're able to have makes a huge difference!

  • @avalondinunzio2532
    @avalondinunzio2532 7 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    oh my gosh your eye color is so insane!!!!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Avalon Dinunzio awe thank you!!!!❤️

  • @supaafroman4589
    @supaafroman4589 6 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    I'm a guy, instantly after seeing the thumbnail I knew this video would be a load of crap.
    Just be yourself ffs. That's all that really matters 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @keishahuet9997
      @keishahuet9997 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I love this comment so much😊

    • @lwp2001
      @lwp2001 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me too😘😘😘

    • @andrianicole
      @andrianicole 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      yea but if a ugly girl tries to be herself and someone tells her that shes ugly then shes gonna try to look pretty duhhh.

    • @alpacawithouthat987
      @alpacawithouthat987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Andria That’s why I don’t tell ugly girls that they’re ugly

    • @danielurban107
      @danielurban107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      the first thing she said was that looks aren’t everything

  • @theupwardspiral1580
    @theupwardspiral1580 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    i clicked on this becuz i was curious but i wasnt planning on staying very long. im totally impressed tho! thanks for the (suprisingly useful and not shallow) tips!

  • @peggysapp5054
    @peggysapp5054 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thanks for all of the tips ! I am not young (59) but I always try to look my best and stay as young as possible. I am going out today and get some nude heels and urban decay waterline pencil, maybe even the lipsticks. You look great and confident ! 👍🌼

  • @Pink_flowers1111
    @Pink_flowers1111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love your comments about getting off your phone and experience the world and people around you. Also, smiling, good posture, showing confidence and being positive is such a great message to young folks. (oh, and I like your beauty tips, too. :)

  • @PattiFinn
    @PattiFinn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amen sister. Everything you said in this video makes perfect sense. Glad that someone took the time to put this list together. Thank you!

  • @mindbodysoul8214
    @mindbodysoul8214 7 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    🤗👏👏👏I so appreciate your tips and advice. I love when women elevate each other to be a better them. I also love a nude heel. My version of a nude heel is one that is closest shade to my skin tone, that would be more of a caramel tone, which is so hard to find. Shea, you did it again love. 💕💕💕💕💕

    • @meriam832
      @meriam832 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Louboutin's new stuff is for all skin tones, right? I'm sure there's knockoffs as well

    • @katiekat4457
      @katiekat4457 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so stupid. When she first said it I thought she meant like a pair of heels where the heel itself was transparent. I’m saying to myself I’ve never seen that before. Then she shows the heels and I’m like duh, I’m an idiot...lol Love those moments when you hit an all time low stupid moment. Why did I even think that at first?

    • @louiscyfer6944
      @louiscyfer6944 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she didn't mention this, but it is extremely important. one of her nude examples was the wrong color for her. louboutin has the nudes collection, and yes, you need to match your skin tone.

    • @glynismaruk8329
      @glynismaruk8329 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mindbodysoul try DSW for the caramel color shoe

    • @anonymousstylist6149
      @anonymousstylist6149 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, nude heels that is closest shade to the skin tone is best way to elongate your skin! But it’s really hard to find one , the only store that provides every shade of nude shoes is louboutin which is unaffordable for me

  • @loriwald9532
    @loriwald9532 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are all fantastic, but was so proud of you for adding the last one! You can be the one influencer to make a difference. I’m envisioning our teens turning to you and needing extra love and reassurance.

  • @makeupbykarlarodriguezcoppola
    @makeupbykarlarodriguezcoppola 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Shea! I’m a mom and a fashion lover too! LOVE LOVE all your videos!! I’m so glad I found your channel because there’s hardly decent people in TH-cam that portray a more down to earth lifestyle and family life. You seem to be very genuine and kind. Hope you keep doing what you’re doing the way you’re doing it, please don’t ever change! Loved the tip about Bone Broth Protein in one of your videos! I have periodontal disease, so this comes really in handy ♥️
    Your entire family is so cute!! Keep being such a great mom , person and TH-camr!!! 🙋🏻

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awe thank you SO MUCH Karla!!! This is such a wonderful comment...it really really is. You are so kind and really made me smile!! I'm so glad you like my videos...and the Bone Broth Protein too! I have a dentist appointment this Thursday and I'm freaking terrified!! :( But again, thank you so much for your sweet words. Much love to you

  • @freya7016
    @freya7016 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Something really simple I do is to make sure I always curl my lashes. When you're going makeup free it helps to refine your features and open up your eyes. When wearing make-up it is a great way to ensure your get the most out of your mascara and draw attention to your eyes which often play a huge part in physical attraction.

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great suggestion, Freya!! Thanks for the comment :)

  • @Scandinavian96
    @Scandinavian96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That shoulder/neck thing is true. I’ve never gotten more attention on a night out before, than when I was wearing a cold shoulder dress. It must be flattering

  • @samouhi
    @samouhi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how you focus on inner beauty and kindness. Just love.it!

  • @nyssamo9302
    @nyssamo9302 7 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    And number 9: a nice perfume!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes, totally agree!!

    • @brandi9380
      @brandi9380 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm a guy and hate prefume! I smell it and walk away lol

    • @ameliaxgarland
      @ameliaxgarland 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally agree

    • @jenniferblohmichael97
      @jenniferblohmichael97 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm sorry whenever I hear someone say they don't like perfume I want to say, Wow you've smelled EVERY perfume and don't like any of them ? Sorry I don't believe you ! It's time to check out the good stuff ! I mean yeah we do smell good with just lotion and body wash and such, but......

    • @amber-ik5ls
      @amber-ik5ls 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      all my guy friends love this signature scent : green tea + fruity perfumes. theyre always like : you smell so good

  • @coppersense999
    @coppersense999 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice to hear beauty tips from a female who seems genuinely grounded and smart and positive with good info.

  • @emiliekauffman5741
    @emiliekauffman5741 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Yes. Yes! YES! To getting off the phone in public. You'll be an instant standout!

  • @b.walker5955
    @b.walker5955 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love and agree with all, but the last two are totally my thang! (I choose to carry a stupid phone, no text, no calls actually, emergency use only). Nothing is as important to me as the human experience. It is amazing what great service you will receive if you stow your phone/make eye contact/pay attention to the forgotten. I am referring to the teller, the checker, the bagger, the attendant all must do their job while waiting on calls to end, and being ignored by most. When someone actually makes eye contact and is in the moment, well they just light up. You get remembered and favored. Choosing to leave others better than I found them=listened to, smiling and uplifted is a deliberate article of my ensemble-not just an accessory to it. Which makes me feel attractive. : ) PS. You look so beautiful! Those eyes! Those eyes! Incredible. Thanks for all the tips!

    • @julesbjeweled7891
      @julesbjeweled7891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      B. Walker. So true! I only take my cell with me for emergencies. Who wants to be bothered when they're away from the house? It really wasn't that long ago when we didn't have cell phones and once you left the house that was it, people had to wait til you got home. I actually miss those days.....sigh

  • @Annalorraine67
    @Annalorraine67 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes, just nice to look nice people are so much nicer to you when you look and feel OK about yourself versus wearing your pajamas to town you rock

  • @daniellafisher816
    @daniellafisher816 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You just became my favorite with this phone tip. You go girl.

  • @ashleymarie8627
    @ashleymarie8627 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Agree to some of these things, but just be yourself. I feel like these are very stereotypical things. It is ok not to be skinny and tall and have long hair. There is a man/ or woman for everyone.

  • @mirabethy
    @mirabethy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The black eyeliner on the upper waterline tip is EVERYTHING! Thanks gurl

  • @_Alexmojica
    @_Alexmojica 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I agree with the hair part, my hair is straight and I always try to curl it when I can and I instantly feel more put together

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, I definitely agree!! Thank you so much!!

  • @emmaphilo4049
    @emmaphilo4049 7 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    Be kind and positive and full hair, be a Disney princess lol

    • @midori6967
      @midori6967 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Emma Philomena 👑

    • @yeety2468
      @yeety2468 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emmanuella Philomena i... i dont have full hair

    • @walwal6449
      @walwal6449 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aye Ana
      I don't either LOL

  • @TheLittleBlackShadeTree
    @TheLittleBlackShadeTree 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVED this video! The waterline eye pencil, confidence, and the get-off-your-phone tips were my favorite but they all were amazing. THANK YOU!!

  • @christinajackson1578
    @christinajackson1578 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    How am I supposed to wear heels when I'm 6ft tall??😂

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That doesn't mean you can't wear heels! However, if you prefer, there are some lovely flats available. I have several pairs of nude flats that I wear often :)

    • @labella-js9xc
      @labella-js9xc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh god I know what you mean I'm tall as well so when I wear heals Iiturly feel like I'm huge around everyone which makes me feel like a bloody wrestler lol

    • @howboutnopeoop8976
      @howboutnopeoop8976 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can't relate because I'm only 5'2 I still hate heel's though they hurt your foot and that's a struggle for almost every girl😂

  • @burntgrilledcheesie
    @burntgrilledcheesie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Confidence is totally #1! Some of the most gorgepus girls I work with are just the most confident. And I LOVE that you look at the camera to "look us in the eye". It's such a turn off to watch a TH-cam personality look at their reflection on their computer screen or whatever. I don't know how they don't realize we can tell if they are interested in their followers or just themselves.

    • @uzithegoat1793
      @uzithegoat1793 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well it sucks you have to be confident because I am sort of insecure about things because yes I have had people tell me Im not worth anything or just ugly crap to me and I can tell my dad was sort of this way, I felt like I didnt really matter to him, he was never happy about what choices I made unfortunately. And now I have became insecure, I cant even keep a friendship like how everyone else can keep it for years. I am also very self critical for some reason and idk why. I just hate this world. Guys also think hoes have the most confidence in the world so, I guess we should all be thots and display "confidence." But anyways yes I do like confidence I just lack it in a way and sometimes I feel that people hate me and think Im not special

  • @ChiaraAliesh
    @ChiaraAliesh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    *immediatly trying all of your tips* Thanks so much they are not the regular tips everyone talks about so they are super helpful!!

  • @itzmebrookeyep7033
    @itzmebrookeyep7033 6 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Shea: some people are blessed with.. perfect eyebrows
    Me: MOM!
    Mom: WHAT IM MAKING DINNER!
    Me: I AM BLESSED WITH PERFECT EYEBROWS!
    Mom: I want a normal child. I don't have one. My son is an emo gamer guy with no girlfriend and my daughter is a weird person.
    Me: I HEAR YOU MA!

    • @idontplayislay9439
      @idontplayislay9439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Underrated comment
      Also:I love you .... and I love your mom .

    • @llemonnttree6812
      @llemonnttree6812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      An emo gamer guy. Wow. What a specimen

    • @peiton2208
      @peiton2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      give me your brother

    • @d.w.7114
      @d.w.7114 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My mother is never happy with me, either. She’s likes to tell people that I am just like her when I’m the opposite of her.

  • @arlysveen7774
    @arlysveen7774 7 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I love your channel..even tho I’m 74, can’t wear heels cause I have 2 knee replacements. But! I love
    the lipstick hint as I can’t keep it on, I just eat it off right away. Plus I like that color. Also, where is your waterline?

    • @debbiem6406
      @debbiem6406 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The waterline is along the base of where your bottom lashes grow.

    • @lucyjones5653
      @lucyjones5653 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Arlys Veen Hi Arlys, the waterline is that line of skin between the roots of your lashes and your actual eyeball! You can apply eyeliner to the waterline whether top or bottom. I hope that helps - It’s a difficult one to describe! xx

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Awe thank you so much lovely!!! And your waterline is the top/bottom edge of your eye...almost like the inside lip of it. Google eye waterline and you'll see a picture!! :)

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hahaha Lucy...it really is difficult to describe! :)

    • @rachaeld.4753
      @rachaeld.4753 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Arlys Veen you can wear nude flats if you want to- those are so classy too.

  • @MsDurga123
    @MsDurga123 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just discovered you on TH-cam yesterday and I love your channel. I liked what you said towards the end of this video, to be confident and positive and the rest. So important to do that on a daily basis.
    I am recovering from breast cancer and I have skin and hair issues and I get people looking at me funny but I don’t care bc I made it into the world again and nobody knows my story

  • @maazahmed7831
    @maazahmed7831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Pro tip to girls:
    Be with the guy when he needs you the most and when he thinks no one else is with him. He will always remember this. ❤

    • @ak5235
      @ak5235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep and then ditch you when he can find someone else or better

    • @emiscommentingaccount96
      @emiscommentingaccount96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not every girl is straight, though (no offense).

    • @tawahmarieclaire3113
      @tawahmarieclaire3113 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ak5235 😂😂😂😂😂yh

  • @gabby_bear
    @gabby_bear 7 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    The neckline advice only works with skinny girls with prominent collarbones lol

    • @katelynmitchell6914
      @katelynmitchell6914 7 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      i disagree! i think women of all shapes and sizes look great when showing off their neckline. just because your collarbone isnt prominent doesnt mean it doesnt look good. I think showing off your neckline, or even just wearing a vneck shirt, really elongates the torso, which gives an overall slimmer effect :)

    • @estherloske2220
      @estherloske2220 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      GabbyBear highlight your cleavage... option #2

    • @saysierrajae
      @saysierrajae 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      GabbyBear exactly. I recently gained weight and miss that part of my body. I’m glad I got bigger boobs and butt, but I miss my skinny neck and collarbone.

    • @tabithak5943
      @tabithak5943 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I think I personally look thinner and better when I wear crew or boat neck tops. Otherwise I'm so concerned about my cleavage coming out as I'm pretty busty, which makes me not look put together or attractive because I'm constantly pulling at my clothes. So the boat neck shows off enough without being too much

    • @rachelinglett1098
      @rachelinglett1098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I hate when people use the word skinny.... There are people that are not skinny but healthy that have that S well... just saying.

  • @nicoleagostini9447
    @nicoleagostini9447 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shea, I know this videos is 2 yrs old, but I wanted to tell you that I think you DO come across as a very confident, positive, fun and approachable woman! I enjoy just listening to your videos while doing things around the house or in the car. 🥰💗👏

  • @vivienlehne1561
    @vivienlehne1561 7 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    If you want a little more confidence
    Potatoes turn to french fries, yeah it's common sense
    All you need's a couple more condiments
    And a hundred thousand dollars for some compliments
    It's such a waste
    When little girls grow into their mother's face
    But little girls are learning how to cut and paste
    And pucker up their lips until they suffocate -Mrs. Potato Head
    All the makeup in the world, won't make you less insecure -Sippy Cup

  • @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei
    @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When you look good, you feel good and viseversa. Great tips ✌

  • @scorpianna420
    @scorpianna420 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your humor. And your genuine demeanor

  • @brittanywolfe2821
    @brittanywolfe2821 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    To be honest some of this advice is pretty good. I do think her channel is nice but I like the idea of just being your self. Being comfortable most of this involves makeup. I believe how to be more attractive is personality and being comfortable in your own clothes and who you are. No heels,makeup and showing off your body to look more attractive. A smile and being your self I believe is the best way, so this video kind of aggravates me.

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you. Maybe you didn't watch until the end, Brittany... I believe my last tip basically stated what you just said. I said the most important thing is to be confident and smile. I'm sorry you found the video aggravating :(

  • @PatriciaKLM
    @PatriciaKLM 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Shea, your editing on this video is on point! :-*

  • @kongmanythiphakhinkeo3345
    @kongmanythiphakhinkeo3345 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes!! Eyebrows, lips, hair & neckline all bundled in one. Love your eyebrows and perfect lip color! 👍👍

  • @carleesmith8628
    @carleesmith8628 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There's a lot more to life than just looks. You'll be a lot hapier if you understood you dont *need* any of these things. All you need is peace harmony and balance towards yourself and others.

  • @kaidenlol_yt9084
    @kaidenlol_yt9084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The best way to feel pretty is
    Love yourself and don’t care what other people think

    • @karazu121
      @karazu121 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean, it's not bad advice but it ain't that easy.

  • @tamararenee1920
    @tamararenee1920 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your tips! Don't worry about the negative nannies, they don't have to watch your videos. Some people would rather be negative. Bless your heart you are explaining yourself when it isn't necessary. Being kind to others is very beautiful, learn how to be that way, and not negative!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the kind words, Tamara! ❤️

  • @zaineyz6236
    @zaineyz6236 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve never left a comment nor have I subscribed to anyone’s channel before, but you’re absolutely brilliant and I kept wanting more and more. Everything you said made perfect sense. You’re also easy on the eyes and ears! Thank you!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow!! What a wonderful thing to say!! I am honored that you decided to comment on my video :) You made my day 💕💕

  • @nancyrenick9805
    @nancyrenick9805 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I thought maybe you mispronounced the word décolletage because I have heard it pronounced several ways. However, when I searched it online, I did find your pronunciation. You are correct! I also learned that décolletage and décolleté seem to be the same thing. Here’s what I found:
    décolletage- the neckline of a dress cut low in the front or back and often across the shoulders.
    décolleté - (of a woman's dress or top) having a low neckline

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!!! Thank you so much!!! :)

  • @deborahhuffman3231
    @deborahhuffman3231 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a older women I have been doing everything you have said for yrs. It's all true it does make you stand out and it's really great to hear a younger beautiful women saying these tips. Another one I use when your in a hurry is just heels lip gloss and nice sunglasses and little perfume. Great video

  • @mezzomama1
    @mezzomama1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Decolletage....Try pronouncing it like: Deckle-la-taj

    • @JacqueRescues
      @JacqueRescues 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Beena David how does a vlogger make a specific tip about the decolletage and not know how to pronounce it?! 🤔 #9 prior preparation to ensure correct pronunciation 👌

  • @Jade-hl2cf
    @Jade-hl2cf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    OMG! Your collarbones are amazing!!!!! Totally girl crushing!! 😍😍😍

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much, Antonella Beretta!!!

  • @kamaropayne5226
    @kamaropayne5226 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a lipstick addiction, like BAD... I have about 150 lipsticks. I need a 12 step program I think 😱😱😱
    What you said about people being on their phones is soooo true. I do not carry my phone with me, in fact I’ll set it down most days for 6-8 hours at a time. When I’m in public, I make it a point to look people in the eye, and smile. Often I try to give a stranger a genuine, heartfelt compliment. It’s produced some amazing results. I’ve had people ask for hugs, had people cry, saying that nobody has ever said anything nice to them. The truth is, we just don’t know what path others are walking, and being kind is so simple, yet so deeply profound. And the ripple effect it can have, can truly change the world.

  • @maddierose3114
    @maddierose3114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    how to be more attractive
    1) make sure you are already pretty before you begin
    2) be skinny
    3) Have perfect hair
    4)Have nice nails
    ..........

  • @patrishaduck965
    @patrishaduck965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    *idk why but I'm usually attracted to people with long lashes xD*

    • @nancy54379
      @nancy54379 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I literally cut my eyelashes when I was about 3 or 4.
      (Don't ask how I didn't poke my eyes out. I still don't know and I'm mad. My cousins would always tell me I have long lashes. After I cut them, they really never complemented me lol)

  • @heatherjane910
    @heatherjane910 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. Most important ingredient to attractiveness is loving who you are because that leads to true confidence.

    • @hauntedhotel8565
      @hauntedhotel8565 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if my family doesn't love me :/

    • @heatherjane910
      @heatherjane910 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      AHS FANS ditch them and create your own family with friends. You can’t choose your bio family.

  • @erin8205
    @erin8205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    You're gorgeous. You remind me of Elizabeth Olsen (very good thing!) Subscribed. 💓

  • @laurenknauer3981
    @laurenknauer3981 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi, I'm really tall for my age. I'm 16 and 5 feet 11 inches. Should I still wear heels? I have a pair of booties with a heel that love to wear, but I'm still wondering

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes you can definitely still wear heels! But you're lucky...you have great heigh WITHOUT heels! So you're a win-win either way!

    • @tammieparrishmiller3669
      @tammieparrishmiller3669 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dranged2k WRONG! My best friend is 5'10" and her husband is a head shorter than her. They've been married for 30 years.

    • @valleyrain8266
      @valleyrain8266 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dranged2k "most men’s type are girls around 5’6" men shouldn't date girls

    • @katherineklevenow1808
      @katherineklevenow1808 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, you should👠👠

    • @juicebox.319
      @juicebox.319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      valleyrain huh??

  • @eliphiasoloman2222
    @eliphiasoloman2222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are some great tips! I have seen pretty much every ' How to look sexy ' video on YT but yours just stands out! No shading and bashing people ! Love it xoxo

  • @lolaxian
    @lolaxian 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your eye color is sublime

  • @emma.l
    @emma.l 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I feel like wearing heels, even nude ones, would make me look as if I played dress up in my mom's closet😅

    • @uzithegoat1793
      @uzithegoat1793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel like nude heels arent that attractive for some reason :P

  • @itsg4225
    @itsg4225 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Although I can't pull off some of her tips, I still find this video useful.
    She seems to genuinely want to help people like me who needs a bit of confidence boost.
    Thank you for posting this video Shea.

  • @ladygaia2634
    @ladygaia2634 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a tall girl who always wears tights with skirts and dresses, pale/nude heels make my legs look stumpy. I'm constantly on my phone/iPod and people STILL interrupt me (I HATE being interrupted when I'm doing errands).
    There's a particular perfume I wear (one of One Direction's) and I'm ALWAYS complimented on that, it shocks people when I say it's 1D.
    I'm known for wearing some form of red lipstick or weird AF colours ;)