The Tragic Early Days of My Chemical Romance

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  • @pikkelssi4537
    @pikkelssi4537 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1172

    They actually adressed the "save kids lifes" thing in one of the grammy museum interviews that are on the official mcr channel. I don't remember the excact quote but it was Frank who said something like "you should give yourself more credit, we might have worked as a soundtrack for it but it was you who saved your life" or something like that

    • @indigo_0
      @indigo_0 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      yeah, cause you can be inspired and all, but you’re the only person that can give yourself the will to live again ❤️‍🩹

    • @liahansen8291
      @liahansen8291 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

      Yeah exactly. I sorta disagree with what's said in this video, since especially in their live shows and interviews they talked and still talk about mental health and such a decent amount. So while not all their lyrics are addressing these topics, I still think its fair to say that it is a message they took seriously.
      But yes I love that quote from Frank

    • @jeraldjoyce2995
      @jeraldjoyce2995 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@liahansen8291 going to shows & existing within a community do wonders to ward off alienation. even if 99% of people don't get you, spend the rest of your life with 1% that do. At least, that's how I choose to interpret "Save kids lives".

  • @Damned_afterall
    @Damned_afterall 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +699

    The whole ‘save kids lives’ thing is less about lyrical content and more about creating a space and a community

    • @Damned_afterall
      @Damned_afterall 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Having been to 2 MCR shows I have never felt more comfortable, welcome and embraced in a space or within a community than I did at those shows

    • @santerisalmivuori3872
      @santerisalmivuori3872 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      FINALLY saw them live 2022 in Sweden. It was like coming home. I've been a fan since Black Parade and I missed their 2011 Helsinki show, I had just turned 18. And then, well, they broke up.

    • @selfryed
      @selfryed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      right! its the fact they literally DID save kids lives in a sense where, even now, our world is a literal piece of shit and we have nothing else to go to (because of covid for example, parents, kids including myself feeling more depressed, suicide rates going up, etc) and we become little tiny nerds for music just as they were when they were young! they saved mine, and im glad when i talk to other fans who've became my friends, were also saved by them too :-)

    • @diekatzefliegt
      @diekatzefliegt 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah calling it a gift is pretty insane tbh

  • @bigridge717
    @bigridge717 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +457

    Was and am a huge fan of theirs. Saw them at a bar before 3 cheers came out with like 20 people.. and the next year at warped tour playing to 2000.. the absolute wildest overnight success story ever.

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      lucky you, I would have loved to see a small show with them playing.

    • @poopstain5216
      @poopstain5216 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Never heard of Greta van fleet

    • @nonu_2o9
      @nonu_2o9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      lucky! i wasent even born yet

  • @sabinam.8653
    @sabinam.8653 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +412

    I think the “saving lives grift” isn’t really a grift, I think it was something the band actually believed (and ended up being kinda true). Considering the members and their relationships to music, I think it’s fair to say that (especially in the early days) they felt like certain artists/albums had saved their lives, and since they were basing their own sound and careers on those artists, “saving lives” really was their goal since it was what they thought those other artists did. Especially since thousands of people were constantly explicitly saying that they saved their lives. I think you can tell that later in their careers they all realized it wasn’t quite as literal as they used to think, like how Frank said that their music was just the soundtrack to people saving themselves around the Danger Days era. Going from being the depressed kid stuck at home idolizing an artist, to being the artists that other depressed kids idolized probably gave them a sense of perspective, and also a ton of pressure because all these kids were essentially saying their lives were in their hands.

    • @sweetistweeter
      @sweetistweeter 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      I agree, but I also think one of the things missing here - ironic since it was one of the first things talked about - is the context. These were outcasts or isolated people. It was the band, not the album, that was saving lives. They wanted people like them to have a community, a place they felt they fit in and belonged. It's why they have way more years touring than they did writing music. (Or one of, since they didn't make much money off albums but did from shows, as a band that came out just before 360 deals became the norm.)

    • @trashcatt9442
      @trashcatt9442 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@sweetistweeter yea and the cathartic aspect that art in general and theatricality have also plays a very important aspect in saving people in a sense idk, it rlly gives you an outlet for your feelings and community to be in as u said

    • @sweetistweeter
      @sweetistweeter 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      @@trashcatt9442 I agree. I do think they hit difficulty when it got so big though, because the parasocial part of that community meant each fan felt extremely connected to the band. It might also be part of why MCRmy are seen as so annoying, which, personally, I think is superficial and crude take. The fans are like any group: the loudest, weirdest, most irritating people are the ones that get heard.

    • @PinkAgaricus
      @PinkAgaricus 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      We also got to see Gerard's struggle with depression and addiction after the band got a big label, if we own the CD/DVD set for LotMS, then later during the recording process for The Black Parade we learned that Mikey has Bipolar Disorder (which is where the inspiration behind Famous Last Words came from, since Mikey had to leave the process for treatment). It's nice to see both of them in a better place now.
      I feel like the Way brothers helped fans be aware of mental illness/disorders and pushed them to get treatment.

    • @ghijbvhiigvh3940
      @ghijbvhiigvh3940 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nah you can’t say it isn’t corny, forced, and contrived. it’s actually part of the reason everyone thinks their fan base is so lame.

  • @layne05
    @layne05 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +263

    My favorite album of all time is Bullets,, so this video was fun as hell to watch. Really great job talking about their early days in depth

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Wanted to do it justice!

    • @layne05
      @layne05 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You definitely did!@@graymads

    • @LA-sz6yo
      @LA-sz6yo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's such an underrated album

    • @layne05
      @layne05 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LA-sz6yo ikr

  • @wombaterror
    @wombaterror 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +361

    I had really hoped at the “elephant in the room” part you were gonna address Gerards addiction and alcoholism in the early days

    • @SanktaLo
      @SanktaLo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

      Def agree. Gerard’s personal demons were a huge part of Bullets/Revenge. I can see holding off on talking about them until a full Revenge breakdown, though.

    • @PinkAgaricus
      @PinkAgaricus 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      There's also Mikey's breakdown during the The Black Parade recording process at Paramour Mansion. (That [accursed] place)

    • @destinymena5163
      @destinymena5163 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PinkAgaricusdo we know what exactly happened

  • @spookymarirev
    @spookymarirev 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +659

    Based Early Sunsets Over Monroeville enjoyer

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

      Its an unsung classic

    • @strawbwrrygashes
      @strawbwrrygashes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      BEST SONG ON THE ALBUM TBH

    • @CassieMakesArt
      @CassieMakesArt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      A GOD TIER TRACK

    • @tea_funz
      @tea_funz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      LATE DAWNS AND EAARLYYY SUNSEEETTSSSSSS JUST LIKE MY FAVORITE SCENESS

    • @spookymarirev
      @spookymarirev 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@tea_funz THEN HOLDING HAANNDDDSSSS ANNNNNNDDDD LIFE WAS PERFEEEECCCCT

  • @BlazingCyclone1337
    @BlazingCyclone1337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +179

    Early sunsets and demolition lovers are literally so powerful tho. Like 🤌🤌🤌

    • @LoveLeigh313
      @LoveLeigh313 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The best 🫶🏼

  • @Catboylawliet
    @Catboylawliet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I feel like a lot of the bullets songs are so very underrated. The entire album is so raw and feels so emotional. It’s my favorite album from mcr, it’s helped me a lot mentally. I can’t wait to see your 3 cheers video!! :3

  • @zora4527
    @zora4527 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    I completely agree with your take on Monroeville and Cubicles. Those tracks are so good and are way too underrated. The ending of Monroeville is such a beautiful a cut to just pure vocals with the line “but does anyone notice, there’s a corpse in this bed.” It hits so incredibly hard.

  • @fullofpoison
    @fullofpoison 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +598

    mads summoning all the mcr stans with this, rile 'em up 🫶

    • @chrisppraefecti373
      @chrisppraefecti373 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      NOOOOOOOOOOOOO

    • @kamiikiraa
      @kamiikiraa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      KILLJOYS MAKE SOME NOISE 🫡

    • @TheWholeEntireCake
      @TheWholeEntireCake 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Awake and unafraid, asleep or dead ❤️

    • @GeeBaby123
      @GeeBaby123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I LOVE GERARD WAYYYYY 😭🖤💀💅✨✨✨✨✨ HE IS SO BABYGIIIIRRRRRLLLLLL!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @GeeBaby123
      @GeeBaby123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@kamiikiraa WHERE'S DR. DEATH!?

  • @ergifem
    @ergifem 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    Not that I think MCR saved me. I went through a lot after graduating high school. I joined the military and married my high school sweetheart. We fought a lot, my professional life was in the toilet, and most of the people i served with secretly hated me or made fun of me. I listened to MCR in high school and really enjoyed it. I started to understand it in my early 20s. MCR made that part of my life bearable. It might not be as grandiose as they put it, but it helped.

  • @SandraSine40
    @SandraSine40 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    I was a young teen around 2008 when I started listening to them. Those were hard times for kids; technology was booming, the internet was a wild west, teens were self-harming, the world was in a recession, and all I wanted to do was pursue art. You can imagine how my boomer parents felt about that. I was the picture-book fan of them. I just had little to no emo or punk clothes; back then, at least where I lived, it was looked down upon for people who 'looked emo' or listened to 'emo bands.' I was legitimately afraid to tell even my close friends what music I was into. Those were strange times; teens now have more freedom to express themselves however they like.

    • @leeaycock8602
      @leeaycock8602 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Right. I threw all my clothes in the washer and added two boxes of Rit Black dye. Guyliner and a bad haircut added to it making an identity for me and a lot of other kids.

    • @aubreejobizzarro1208
      @aubreejobizzarro1208 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was too poor for band merch, and could dye my hair at all. I made my own merch using crazy neon puffy paint and a black old navy t-shirt. It really sparked my art to be honest haha. Middle school was interesting- people were bullied for absolute nonsense.

  • @BloodSpilledInk
    @BloodSpilledInk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    I’ve been a fan of MCR for quite some time now, and I’m glad that Bullets has been getting some love over the years. I’m also especially happy that the band still plays a handful of songs from their debut, which a lot of bands don’t do.
    Amazing video as always, and here’s to hoping that the band works with Goeff Rickly again.

  • @chrisppraefecti373
    @chrisppraefecti373 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    As a resident, New Jersey got hella weird after the Revolution.

  • @idontknowwhatmyusershouldb3512
    @idontknowwhatmyusershouldb3512 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    24:47 would love it if you could do a whole video on all franks other projects! they aren’t talked about enough and I absolutely love them, especially death spells, parachutes and barriers. you can also hear his different influences on mcr’s sound.

    • @MindfreakMCR
      @MindfreakMCR 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Although, also on 24:27, I think that's still one of Pencey Prep's songs, "Attention Reader"

  • @BlazingCyclone1337
    @BlazingCyclone1337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    I actually have an original copy of bullets on cd. Glad you've done a deep dive on their early days and struggles

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      its the unsung hero for that band

    • @BlazingCyclone1337
      @BlazingCyclone1337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@graymads it really is glossed over way too often though when i seen them the past two times on the last tour they actually did play best day ever which surprised me

    • @BlazingCyclone1337
      @BlazingCyclone1337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also unrelated, I'd love to see your take on scary kids scaring kids 👀

    • @markshadows3667
      @markshadows3667 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I still have the listening station copy that I stole from Hot Topic when I worked there.

    • @vinnieleonsepic
      @vinnieleonsepic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Does it say the pirating vampire thing?

  • @ry5551
    @ry5551 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    every time i try to escape mcr something always drags me back. this is an insanely good deep dive for new fans! even as someone who has self-proclaimed seen everything there possibly is to see in relation to mcr, i learned some new things.💗

    • @nanana_888
      @nanana_888 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There's no way out, hun 😌

  • @mulin__
    @mulin__ หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    fun fact: when gerard was recording the vocals for Sunsets Over Monroeville, he was told to just forget about everything and sing. His singing was so raw and emotional that the rest of the band left to go smoke cigarettes. In the making of Bullets video, Ray is seen tearing up.

  • @HannahSchzde
    @HannahSchzde 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I love that people are still making videos about MCR after all these years 🖤

  • @esten_varlineau_cobain
    @esten_varlineau_cobain 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I'm obsessed with Sunsets and Demolition Lovers. You can just feel the importance and extra love put into these tracks compared to the others.
    Where has MCR been all of my life? Idk, but I'm glad I'm starting to finally get into the band now. I haven't heard one album I was iffy with yet, and I've listened to three of theirs now, good stuff.

  • @Whimsicalcheesesandwhich
    @Whimsicalcheesesandwhich 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    0:58 As an mcr fan, I can agree with this. I feel like most of the fandom is doomed. Not only are some obnoxious (which isn't necessarily a bad thing) or crazy but, people just overall don't respect the band's privacy, and that pisses me off. I just wish they could learn some boundaries.

    • @selfryed
      @selfryed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      for fucking real 😭😭 like i get some mcr fans be joking around and crushing over the band members in the craziest but most respectful way possible like with how me and my friends are (like joking around saying omggg gerards my wife yada yada LMAO) but some people, who i mostly call stans (bc a fan would never act like this) just take it TOOOOO far
      i remember once i saw a twitter post(?) where someone LITERALLY TAGGED FRANK in a post where it showed a picture of him with the caption "im wet" HELLO?? he even replied and said "well dry urself off" (LMAO)...it just goes to show how they just dont respect any privacy at all its crazy

    • @Whimsicalcheesesandwhich
      @Whimsicalcheesesandwhich 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@selfryed Omg ik that tweet. Frank handled that so well.

  • @miwome
    @miwome 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    in highschool i actually wrote an essay on how my chemical romance saves lives through the culture they create within their fanbase, they never claimed the lyrics alone were life saving. i loved this video though!! i love listening to people talk about my favorite band, even if i knew it all already. so glad this popped up on my recommended, im a long time fan of well over a decade now and i find it rare to find a good, long, mcr video essay. im going to watch the other one now!! great work!! :))

  • @lylamustdie
    @lylamustdie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    im so so happy cubicles was mentioned you have no idea

  • @aspiringgame-dev4509
    @aspiringgame-dev4509 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I didn’t even realize this video came out today. PLEASE MAKE MORE! I can’t wait to see your in-depth review of Three Cheers and potentially The Black Parade. Def earned a sub!

  • @Horseboyhorror
    @Horseboyhorror 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    So happy that Cubicles is getting the love it deserves!

  • @crwsters
    @crwsters 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    okok, just finished the vid
    dude, the editing is AWESOME, also the storytelling, the presentation of the info, even the bits of humor, it's amazing
    as someone whose entire flavor of autism is mcr(/hj) i really appreciate the effort and research that you put into this, and i find it so fucking cool that mcr is getting this talked about even in 2024
    can't wait for the rest of the series covering the other albums!! im especially excited for the next one, as three cheers is my all-time favorite album
    keep up the great work, i'll see if i can support you any further, but for now, you got a new sub!

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      bless you, glad you enjoyed the video!

  • @vivalasammm
    @vivalasammm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    thank you so much for this video, Bullets is so criminally underrated

    • @pastries8393
      @pastries8393 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It definitely used to be underrated, but now it's a favorite among younger fans

  • @namtiddiecult
    @namtiddiecult 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    i’ve been blessed with a long video essay about my favorite band i am jumping around in circles and cheering rn

  • @JackDiamond_FBOW
    @JackDiamond_FBOW 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That mention of Dying is your latest fashion hit me in the gut. Love that record to death and wish they did more together before going down the mabbit hole

  • @Wendisoph
    @Wendisoph 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Early sunsets is their most gut wrenchingly beautiful song. I remember reading from the true lives of mcr book. Geoff rickly recalled how emotional Gerard was when doing vocals for the song. Here’s the quote, “the band was left shaken in the aftermath of the rage-fueled session. "Afterwards, everybody just left and went outside to smoke cigarettes because they couldn't deal with looking at him after he had sung that," he explained. "He had just ripped himself open in front of everybody. He'd taken it so far that it was uncomfortable for anyone who was friends with him. They hadn’t seen him as Gerard the singer, they still saw him as their buddy Gerard. It's a little scary to see someone do what he did."
    Early sunsets will forever be my favorite mcr song because of how raw and emotional it is. You can really hear the passion Gerard puts into his singing. In some aspects, imo, this song ties into the “saving kids lives” narrative. Hearing Gerard get so vulnerable is somehow comforting. Not to be like that but early sunsets actually saved my life 🤪

    • @geniuswithaj
      @geniuswithaj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m so glad you commented this I didn’t know this and I’m glad I do now, I emphasize with gerard so heavily and early sunsets is my favorite song of all time

  • @ruthy_y
    @ruthy_y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I dont think they saved my life, but they do make life more bearable. I've found a reason to live multiple times from music. Yeah the pain would go away, but so would music, and Id like to be here to experience it some more.

  • @isabellamj777
    @isabellamj777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    my parents were quite the emos in high school and loved early mcr. so naturally i grew up on bullets, three cheers and black parade.. its cool to get some insight on a band that’s been so instrumental in me growing up :) thank you for this!

    • @sweetistweeter
      @sweetistweeter 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      I got psychic damage from this comment because I was in high school when it came out 😆. I'm so glad you have such cool parents.

    • @Bainbridge40
      @Bainbridge40 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Y- your PARENTS?

    • @sweetistweeter
      @sweetistweeter 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Bainbridge40 100%

    • @nathanwolfe6698
      @nathanwolfe6698 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmm

    • @isabellamj777
      @isabellamj777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Bainbridge40 haha yes, i am only sixteen if that helps?!

  • @bread8439
    @bread8439 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    As someone who's favorite band has been MCR for almost 3 years now, I really enjoy video essays on them like these, keep up the good work

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for tuning in

  • @xxbleedingforeternity1862
    @xxbleedingforeternity1862 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    bullets is the album that turned me into a crazy mcr fan

  • @wavvve48
    @wavvve48 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    this is probably the least amount of blatant misinformation in an mcr video ive ever seen! only minor factual/timeline mistakes and a couple notable omissions. genuine compliment, i know how hard working out the early parts of mcr lore is. i disagree w a lot of your presentation but this is decently well researched my chemical romance content for once 👍 love to see it

  • @LoveLeigh313
    @LoveLeigh313 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    MCR has been my favorite for over 20 years. The kids thing wasn’t a gimmick, as others have said. Demolition Lovers remains my favorite song of all time. Monroe is also one of my favorites. MCR forever 🫶🏼🖤🤘🏼

  • @Kekktye
    @Kekktye 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Love the level of depth, research and narrative writing you put into this!
    I'm kinda averse to other channels covering My Chem with baiting fandom engagement, covering only surface-level info and the lack of a critical eye but knew you'd do it justice, especially for Bullets. Can't wait for the Revenge one

  • @idontknowwhatmyusershouldb3512
    @idontknowwhatmyusershouldb3512 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    this is really good! so many of these types of videos about mcr repeat the same lore whereas I can see this was well researched. nice one.

  • @junipertapes
    @junipertapes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Great video! Looking forward to the others you make on MCR. Hot take, but after reading “Sellout” by Dan Ozzi and listening to their discography a ton over the past year, I’ve come to the conclusion that “Danger Days” is their best album.
    I think the “making music to save kids” thing is totally sincere at least when it comes to MCR. They got Rob Cavallo to produce Danger Days and Black Parade because he produced “Dear You” by Jawbreaker. That inspiration combined with the lyrical references to the song “Save Your Generation” crystallizes what they mean about “saving kids with music” imo.
    “Save Your Generation” by Jawbreaker is all about actively choosing to live instead of committing suicide, and how living a good life can save those around you. I think that is the core message of Danger Days and MCR at large. MCR’s avatars in that album’s story aren’t the heroes: they are just there to save “the girl,” whom I interpret as a stand in for their fans. And the girl is the one who is ultimately going to go on to save the world. So to me, Danger Days is all about telling the fans “the world needs you in it. We’re the backing band that’s gonna throw a party at the end of the world for you, and you’re gonna use that energy to help the people in your life.”
    Danger Days is the culmination of the message they wanted to send all along: that life is worth living and “if you can save yourself you could save us all.”
    Plus they just are tight as hell on that record. The years of tour really show in their performances. Looking forward to the next video!

    • @glocrowhurst
      @glocrowhurst 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Danger Days is so "Save kids lives"-core. It feels like it's literally about running away from your shitty hometown to be gay and do crime.

  • @VideInfra
    @VideInfra 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I became a fan right before three cheers came out. Got called all kinds of things because i loved them and AFI throughout high school.

    • @markshadows3667
      @markshadows3667 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      AFI was my favorite band from 98 until like 2010. Followed by Thursday and then MCR.

  • @LandonVR
    @LandonVR 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    As an Ohioan it was hilarious to see him straight up roast my state for no reason

    • @LandonVR
      @LandonVR 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Also, I dump all of my time into my Guitar hobby to escape the misery of Ohio

  • @happyzombiikitti
    @happyzombiikitti 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Brought back so many memories. I was 13-16 around this time and my sister was 18-20. She had the privilege of going to Warped Tour/Taste of Chaos in its early infancy..but MCR was her and I’s favorite band and we would listen to them in her car often.
    I knew they were a bunch of nerds, and that’s what drew me to them. I was also into comics,horror,video games and the emo aesthetic..something I tried to change in my young adult years but now have come back too.
    MCR wasn’t like other bands, they didn’t have “swag” they didn’t have songs about meeting girls and sex. They had this weird geeky horror montage of this I enjoyed as a teen and still do till this day. It really was the last great rockstars of our generation, they fit in because they didn’t even try to fit in. They knew they were clowning around and being stupid..it reminded me a lot of my friend group back then

    • @ThomasSid
      @ThomasSid 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I also saw them during Taste of chaos and warped tour. This was my favorite band for about 20 years now

  • @daphnea5447
    @daphnea5447 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow hearing Ray’s parts on The Rodneys tracks was so surreal. It’s very clearly Ray, beautiful.

  • @hannahgeiling8431
    @hannahgeiling8431 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    early sunsets over monroeville has been my favorite song since i was 12 and it will be the song i walk down the isle to i stg

  • @ThePortalGeek1337
    @ThePortalGeek1337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Woah, did not need that flashbang of MDE THAT early into the video

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THIS IS THE MEMORIES YOU MADE, NOW LIVE WITH THEM lmao

  • @charley_161
    @charley_161 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    All those comments and just thinking about MCR make me feel as happy like I‘m in love, haha
    I just fucking love them and their music and message really helped me through a lot ❤
    I‘m thankful for them and the fandom they‘ve created, giving people like us a place to be ourselves and connect with others through (not only) their music 🙏

  • @Delaneyisbraindead
    @Delaneyisbraindead 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sunsets Over Monroeville has always been extra cool to me because Monroeville is right by where I live (technically not in Pittsburgh but may as well be with how close it is) :)

  • @brandonburroughs7128
    @brandonburroughs7128 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Their first record is so underrated

  • @prod.7aco194
    @prod.7aco194 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Been a massive MCR fan for almost 2 years now, this is a great and informative video. I can’t wait to see the videos on the next albums!

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      More to come!

  • @eko9554
    @eko9554 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Huge fan of the band. Sadly couldnt go to their concert back in 2022 because I had band comp. However I really want to make concept albums some day.

  • @dash-x
    @dash-x 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    6:37 “because my heart is in oooohhhiioooo!” 🎶

  • @liahansen8291
    @liahansen8291 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    For what you said about the "save kids lives" thing, I think it was unfair. It could definitely be seen as a bit grand or dramatic, but saying it was just a "half-hearted grift" honestly hurt to hear.
    MCR is a big reason I'm here today. Listening to their music gets me through really rough times with how powerful and emotional it is. The things they have said (and continue to say) in concerts about mental health, lgbtq+ rights, etc. has helped me a ton when coping with the stuff I have going on in my life. I understand that if you haven't had a similar experience with their music that it could be hard to see how it helps, but for me, it definitely has. Especially with how many people constantly thank them for saving their lives, I don't see how that was a fair thing to say.
    Overall I loved the video, it was super well researched and produced! I just personally feel that one section was unnecessarily cynical.

  • @gothicc6544
    @gothicc6544 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    loved MCR growing up, know all the lore, but I love your vids so I never skip one

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      bless you

  • @miarussell6953
    @miarussell6953 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is the first video I’ve ever seen of yours, Fantastic! Loved it. Looking forward to more

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome aboard

  • @grubcore
    @grubcore 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    omg graymads mcr video FINALLY.. !!! theyve been my favorite band for SO long and im p sure theyre my special interest too this is RAD teehee

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      bless

  • @Lexipooxo
    @Lexipooxo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had the dvd of this doc lol. I used to watch it over and over daily on my family’s portable dvd player.

  • @Dazreil
    @Dazreil 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    most of my friends didn't like MCR, but they all loved Thursday.

  • @STUFF955
    @STUFF955 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i think the reason why my chem is how they are today would be how they took on very heavy subject matter that a lot of rock artists didn't. the way my chem did it was "Hey you're going through a lot of crap!! lets talk about it and what emotions you are feeling!" but on the other hand whenever you hear a song that has meaning of "i am going through something, so i will write a song that talks about it." it might make the song about the singers problems and not problems that everyone could go through. but with my chem each song has a different vibe that makes you think about how you're life is, with giving you this sort of comfort that is more of you wanting to talk to someone.

  • @flamym
    @flamym 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Honestly, I’m in love the way you layout your videos and honestly they way you tell stories

  • @WinspearUltima
    @WinspearUltima 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    One of my personal favourites bands and the black clothes I wear are the reason I listen to MCR and a reason why I click to black and white clothes with the exceptions to red or green.

  • @aneelop2
    @aneelop2 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I got into MCR in 2023 and they are now my favorite band :) This is a great video, and although I watched lotms many times, I still learned a few things from this video so thank you

  • @tabbyv12
    @tabbyv12 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love the deep dive! Will be here for the rest of the MCR journey!!

  • @candeladm
    @candeladm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Although The Black Parade is their greatest masterpiece and probably one of the greatest rock albums from the 2000s, Bullets is my favorite MCR album. I spent all my teenage years listening to the band, living in a small town, dreaming about getting out and now that I am in the city, I feel like this album sounds exactly like my hometown, with its nostalgia and rawness. When I miss home, this album feels like a big hug, all my memories from my younger days come flooding. Early Sunsets in particular is the one that hits me most.

  • @Shinigamionion
    @Shinigamionion 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this and I’m so excited for more! I do have to say though, my chem definitely did save kids lives and probably still does.

  • @Aluenvey
    @Aluenvey 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Man my youtube just bounces back and forth between Emo and Goth Rock. It's kind of interesting. That and black metal, sometimes.

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sounds like a good feed to me

  • @JohnColucci88
    @JohnColucci88 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I grew up in North Jersey. I remember 3 of my friends saw them by chance in either 2001 or 2002 at Bloomfield Ave Cafe on Bloomfield Avenue in Montclair New Jersey. This was around "you gave me your bullets.." (whatever their first album is called- which is the album of theirs I really liked). And then a year later they were literally everywhere. I also had some older friends who saw Jimmy Eat World at the legendary Skaters World in Wayne, NJ (a total and beloved icon from the 80s, 90s, and died in the 2000s... RIP)

  • @lightsumpromoter1351
    @lightsumpromoter1351 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i love your editing style, very good video!!

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you liked it!

  • @namtiddiecult
    @namtiddiecult 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i will be seated for the upcoming mcr album videos :3 AND i’ll be binging all of the others, i love love love these styles of videos

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Welcome aboard.

  • @curtisbush5728
    @curtisbush5728 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Very well done! I'm from North Jersey, my ex actually used to make buttons for pency prep. I wanted to comment on what you said about snarky metal heads hating them...most of the bands they like are studio bands and never put in any work. My chem comes from the NJHC scene. They put themselves out there playing every chance they got and Gerard drew shirt designs and demo covers for local bands to get his name out there and find the band. I'm not a huge fan, and actually only really like this album and the second one (second one not as much). But they're the real deal and I'd put this up there with any other NJ punk classics like saves the day "can't slow down" and Lifetime "jerseys best dancers)! It's that good!

    • @gototherat
      @gototherat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Jersey scene is just so cool and it’s so jam packed with characters that you’d never expect to have come from this small part of the world

  • @coshuloser
    @coshuloser 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this video was amazing, insane quality man, absolutely subscribing, love the topics and the videos, the production quality and everything, I don't even have words. Incredible job you've done here, please keep going, I'm absolutely looking forward to everything else you'll put out!!

  • @oliviah.9580
    @oliviah.9580 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i saw them recently and i am so glad they had a reunion tour. I WAITED YEARS THINKING THEYD NEVER PLAY AGAIN.. NOT ONLY YHAT WE GOT A NEW SONGGG

  • @fireplace3450
    @fireplace3450 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thank you so much for making this video!!! i cant wait for your videos about mcr's albums!!

  • @NewPortHuffer
    @NewPortHuffer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Cubicles is a fucking beautiful song glad you like it as much as me and my buddies do

  • @lourdessilva1789
    @lourdessilva1789 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bullets is my favorite mcr album and I just can't get enough of it, I'm so glad I got to learn more about it and the band, I've been a big fan in my early teen years but didn't know the majority of things in the video. Thank you so much for the work you put in this, can't wait for the next videos!

  • @Preshii
    @Preshii 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Recently got into their music after being told that they suck, love the music. I learned so much from this video, well made stuff! Thank you

  • @shockingheaven
    @shockingheaven 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Early Sunsets Over Monroeville is one of my favorites and I wish it was appreciated more

  • @Spookyparts
    @Spookyparts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember randomly finding “I brought you my bullets….” at tower record and my life changed forever.

  • @dannycollier1715
    @dannycollier1715 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dude!! This was such a great video. Keep doing what you’re doing!!

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much!

  • @Afish8me2china
    @Afish8me2china 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I find that MCR is blamed for a problem they didn’t start

    • @gregsmith8977
      @gregsmith8977 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what problem?

    • @Afish8me2china
      @Afish8me2china 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@gregsmith8977 The general reputation of emo. A lot of reasons people cite for not liking emo aren’t really traits in their sound and they’re seen as the figureheads of those traits and blamed for them.

  • @pokemaniacdavid
    @pokemaniacdavid 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was there for their first two albums 😏 yes I am old haha. I know fans love black parade but I listened to it once and never listened to it again. I’m sure now I could appreciate it from a music standpoint but I loved their first two omggggg they were heavenly to my 13 year old mind.

  • @destr0llet
    @destr0llet 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    loved the video thanks for talking about one of my favorite bands ever. Would love to see a Thursday vid one day :)

    • @graymads
      @graymads  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you! And yea I am planning on it

  • @arcadebot4735
    @arcadebot4735 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    early sunsets, cubicles, and demo lovers are my all time fav released songs im so glad to see someone actually talk about them

  • @iwillstareintoyoursoul9762
    @iwillstareintoyoursoul9762 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    0:22 no one gonna mention their early performance of fashion statement? gee already had fame written of paper 2 years before he got it XD

  • @aubreejobizzarro1208
    @aubreejobizzarro1208 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MCR just still hits my feelings right raw and proper lol. I loved them as a teen but I was at the tail end of their success and never got to see them live.
    I started listening to them again recently- it’s amazing how well I remember lyrics and sentiments in their songs that I can’t help but wonder how much of that angst formed some of my views as an adult. And I 100% attribute the angst and fight in me being stoked by MCR. I think what MCR did is let teens and kids channel the angst into art and into politics (Danger Days was very anti-government).
    They’re just an excellent band, I love Demolition Days, Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge was amazing, Black Parade was like a rock ballad, and Danger Days was modern Punk. Iconic all the way through.

  • @bigtoe6347
    @bigtoe6347 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for reminding me how much I love this album

  • @eclipses3131
    @eclipses3131 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Always heard about them as a kid. Never got to REALLY listen to them until recently. With pandemic existing I thought MRC would finally be inspired to write another album and rejoin. Sadly they never did. I hope we get more music from them someday

  • @h3ming
    @h3ming 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Adding on to the discussion, though it might not be explicitly stated through their lyrics, I agree with other fans that the "saving kids lives" thing wasn't just something they said. They demonstrated life was worth living through the quality of their art, with their unique sound and concepts and aesthetics. I've been listening to them for over 10 years now, and it could be that it's because I came across their music during my pivotal early teenage years, but falling in love with this band really did make the world feel like a less lonely place and they still inspire me to this day. I didn't need them to say that part so explicitly in their lyrics (of course they were always very vocal about being anti-suicide and general mental health awareness through other avenues), their art was proof enough that things might not be as bleak as they would seem. I connected with everything they made and their often macabre ideas and presentation reflected so well with how I perceived things around me; I really felt like I was the audience. Like @sabinam.8653 said, this idea of saving lives very likely comes from the band members feeling like they were saved by the art they interacted with and emulated their heroes by staying alive and making the best art they could.

  • @kyrrawarren5741
    @kyrrawarren5741 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was hoping that this video came out a while ago so that the others would already be out but just looked and saw that it came out only nine days ago, guess I’ll have to wait for the others 😭 Great vid man!!

  • @sayonaradied
    @sayonaradied 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    очень качественная и интересная работа. долгое время являюсь фанатом этой группы, но было очень интересно узнать о многих фактах из их ранней биографии. спасибо! :))

  • @PercabethLovernot
    @PercabethLovernot 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    good day when an mcr video essay is first on my youtube recommendations. (i am one of the aforementioned mcr stans :7)

  • @The_Real_Prinzessin
    @The_Real_Prinzessin 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    will you ever dive into the Way's and their being raised catholic and the trauma that manifests itself through the music, and just in general? i think that's a very interesting/important thing to take into account when speaking about the band. Anyways, i am looking forward to the rest of your MCR videos. This was great!

  • @ratsss140
    @ratsss140 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cubicles will forever be my fav off Bullets, if not one of my fav MCR songs ever (though nothing will ever top Summertime lol)

  • @123theprodigy5
    @123theprodigy5 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man, even though I didn’t listen to their music, I will put some respect on there name though. they really were one of the last major rock bands that everyone actually cared about.

  • @JasmineSheaTownsend
    @JasmineSheaTownsend 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I was 12 or 13, my mom bought me both "Bullets" and "Revenge" for Christmas, and I listened to those CDs just about every day 😭💕

  • @ThatOneGuy7550
    @ThatOneGuy7550 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mads covering MCR? This'll be interesting

  • @zuquip
    @zuquip 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I solemnly believe that mcr stuff is indeed genius material, and ive been a fan for about 10 years. I could not be grateful enough for this band. Loved the video dude, keep it up!

  • @megano2000
    @megano2000 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am ready to relive the My Chem lore.

  • @emily-tg8wk
    @emily-tg8wk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    YEEEEEEAAAAAHHHHH BABEY dedicated album videos!!! 2024 ROCKS

  • @dnttalktome9756
    @dnttalktome9756 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think a lot of the "saving lives" has to do with creating a community for people to feel safe in. I would credit their fan base as being one of the most welcoming one in the scene, especially with people of color, women, and members of the lgbtq. The emo scene wasn't and isn't always a safe place for those people. My Chem is one of the only bands who don't sexualize women, have a person or color in the band, and have someone who's queer in the band as well.
    I can't speak for others, but for myself as a teenager, being really depressed and suicidal hearing their songs and lyrics made me feel understood. I never heard anyone talk so openly about issues I was having before, and I didn't feel so alone for once.
    I just saw them at When We Were Young 24' and this girl next to me said "Oh he looks so happy." Talking about Gerard Way, I started crying. I don't know something about knowing someone who I feel understood me and who I know went through a lot of the same things I went through doing better and feeling like I'm better too. I got emotional.
    That's what it always meant for me anyways.