Holiday Love Rats EXPOSED: When Holiday Romance Goes Wrong - The FULL Series | A True Story
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 พ.ค. 2024
- This engaging three-part documentary series tells the stories of the women who have been promised eternal love, but have ended up handing over thousands of pounds and being left brokenhearted by holiday love rats. Each episode includes the stories of four different women and is self-contained.
0:00 Episode 1
44:50 Episode 2
1:29:26 Episode 3
#HolidayLoveRats #atruestory - บันเทิง
Meeting someone who doesn't speak your language on holiday, is decades younger than you, proposes marriage in 2 days and immediately starts treating you like a cash cow. Yeah, no bells and whistles going off there.🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Not to mention, their culture, and how they treat women. I can't believe that they don't think about these things
@@newmanbailey Because western Men are so much better🙄
What makes you think they didn't speak the language?
@@shgarli45 Yes they are.
@@magnus1001 Yeah... of course they are dude🙄
if a guy ever asked me for money, I'd block them SO fast that his head would spin!
Im 60 and after being married before I am thrilled to be alone. There is a vast difference between lonely and being alone. I love the alone part.
Me too I've been single a very long time and I love the freedom of it
I'm very busy and happy.there is not any time I've felt lonely
Being single doesn't mean being lonely
Being in a marriage or relationship often ppl feel lonely if not good relationship
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it seems good philosophical. what I watched from the documentary surprised me.
you are so true. why be married and feel so lonely.@@vj381 appreciate you. I am single and happy.
I can happen to anyone.
I'm a male who never married and never willl.... I love my alone life
It takes courage for these women to come forward and tell their story. Thank you, Their healing has begun
I’m 54, I’m single, I wear glasses and not one of those jokers look halfway ‘handsome’ to me. These women are downright crazy
🤣 I'm in my 60s, and we must have the same glasses prescription, because none of those fuggos floats my boat either. I was married nearly 25 years, though, and have NO interest in doing it again. Can't help wondering how vulnerable I might be in these ladies' situation, painfully lonely and holding out hope for Prince Charming.
@@nancymcmonarch😂 I know right!
My words exactly. Eww
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Same here girls, none of these men are my type either and my eyesight's perfect 😂
Nobody likes a ponce .
I'm an African man, I feel so sorry for the victims. Some of us are very honest.
I have one who is very honest. He knows I am quite poor. Lol He does not ask me for a dime.
As a woman myself, the lack of critical thinking of a lot of women is such a mystery to me.
I think every rich man that is with a woman far younger, far more attractive (and poor), is well aware of her motives. A lot of rich men are willing to accept being used because they too use the woman in return (as arm candy and fun entertainment).
These women are flabbergasted when their "partner", that is 20 years their junior, looks like a model and asked them for money and a Visa within a few months, turns out to be a scam. 🙄
Come on ladies! Open your eyes!
They're blinded by their hollow promises and lovebombing
My mom always told me that when a woman has to pay for a man, it's not love. She was so right.
Same thing goes for men if he has to pay it's not love. How about a man pays first and then the woman pays for the second date. That fair. Have you ever paid on a date be honest.
@@danpost18Women usually pay for the date when it's the man's birthday.
Once a year. Right. Thanks for your honesty.
@@danpost18 agreed it goes both ways. These days women expect the man to provide EVERYTHING.
@@danpost18I prefer to pay most of the time. Or definitely pay my way every time. More honest and means I’m beholden to no one
Ladies, there is nothing wrong with ‘being alone the rest of your life.’ The problem with this society is that it’s placed a supreme value on relationships, which in turn I believe are simply media generated fantasies. Better to be alone, then in bad company. Worse yet, jeopardizing your children, and opening the doors for abuse, and who knows what else.
I have the problem that I thoroughly enjoy not only being alone, but I traveled the globe alone, meeting these types of men everywhere. Take the bottles of champagne, the tons of flowers, the gifts that were silly, keep them. I danced the nights away in so many places, but not once did I let any one of them drive me anywhere or never did I show up alone to "show me around the city". Ladies, be smart and safe! A vacation is just meant to be a little time away from reality, that's it. Get souvenirs to remind you. I always wanted to save a kitty from afar off place. That is about the only thing my heart and money would go for there. And there are lots of men everywhere. Learn to love your own company.
Life alone is miserable. Yes it is much better than being in a horrible relationship, but these women are hoping to find a GOOD relationship not a bad one.
@@missolesoul Having just turned 67 y. o. and just lost the only love of my life after 35 yrs. together, I wholeheartedly concur!!!🥰🥰💖💖
@@missolesoul Thats SO TRUE. Well Said 👌
I came down in the comments to make the same statement as you have. You're right. There's nothing wrong with being alone. We don't need anyone in our lives to validate ourselves, least of all a stranger. That's what these guys are, strangers. You mean no more to them, than a free ride. If you're lonely, take some local college courses, join a card club, sign up for something you're interested in. You are worth so much more, than what you give yourself credit for!
I am 64 and if my husband dies,i have no interest to find another man.
I will just love animals
And that means you certainly can have a nice life and home and friends all while not being romantic with anyone. You caught you limit, I like to say, and your life is as important as before. Best of luck to you!
Cats are furry friends
bestiality is a thing in some spaces
😂😂😂😂
A first I didn't laugh, but one of the last things my hubby said to me was the boys will protect you. He was a dog person but took my sister's cats in when she passed. Now I get it and smile when I think of how he is still looking out for me.
Tracy who thinks she's now "very cautious" is also on her way to repeat the same mistake. 🤔
Excatly she is blind
Oh dear god Tracy ! what the hell is she doing ? another one half her age 😂😂😂
When she said I've met someone, I thought it was back in the UK , I thought "Good for you " ... someone needs to sit down and talk some sense into her. At least he's not asked for money ... yet ! I hope once he gets his visa he won't dump her for a younger model , I'm not holding my breath though.
What makes Michelle think she’s the only woman Walid reached out to after his wife died? This is a numbers game, like cold calling in sales.
Actually she doesn't know if Walid's wife is actually dead. It's just what he told her. Like he told her his daughter was in the hospital near dead. Can't believe anything he says.
@@petrasworld913 Right. Idk why she thought talking to him was going to enable her to figure out whether it was true. She didn’t see through any of his deception.
Nobody falls in love faster than a man who needs your money. I don't know how they thought these men were genuine. Crazy.
They sound like women.
And broblem they continued to Give money again and Again
It's very Sad 😔
Insecurities...no self respect 😢 unfortunately this is a magnet 🧲 and attracts the wrong people whether platonic friendships or romantic ones. Practice self reflection no matter how hard..that's between you and yourself and this you will find helps when it comes to critical or life changing decisions
Yes. These types are known in the black community as “hobosexuals.”
hahahahah because these men are professionals in stealing hearts
A man that is truly interested in a woman will never ask her for money!
Thank you captain obvious
I'm a man. I work for myself.but my girlfriend ask for money
@@rowenramnath2016 Judging by your grammar you can't provide much.
@@nikstar1313 I’m a Captain 🤪
@@nikstar1313 Apparently things weren’t very obvious to these victims in this video, so maybe this message could be helpful to someone in the future:) Captain I wanna be a smart A** 🤣
I rarely talk to strangers online anymore but as soon as a man asks me for money I lose interest and respect. That’s a right reserved for a husband who I know, have been living with and put time and effort into.
I wonder how a man immediately asks for money, let's say on a first date with a woman, and what signs did he saw from the woman to do so?
Even my husband wouldn’t dare haha
@@adatbh most men won’t but I can understand if I’m married and my husband fell on tough times and needed me. I’d totally be his help mate in such a moment. A random man on the internet! No sir! Lol!
I’m 65 and I’ve been celibate 13 years after the death of a man I’d planned to marry. I’m resolved to being single for the remainder of my life.
I would be very, very suspicious if someone so much younger was declaring love and devotion.
And calls you Queen 😅
I would be suspicious as well if someone in their 20s/30s/40s started taking an interest in me. I would be giving them funny looks. 🧐
Exactly!!!!
Not if you were a sex tourist
Sex tourist ---> 🤮🤮🤮
I'm 55 years old single and celibate for nearly 8 years now. My heart goes out to all these women. I truly understand what it feels like to be aging and single. This is truly heartbreaking. I've had to learn to find peace in the fact that I've decided to stay single for whatever years I have left.
Hello
I would love to get at that point where I'm at peace to be alone for the rest of my life. God Bless 🙏🏾
U know life doesn't end if your partner dies .There's so many things one can do to occupy themselves.
Think of what passion u have.I am an animal lover.Some people love to help in the frailcare.Do what u love and enjoy your money why feed it to rogues.If I had that money I will visit the world but not to find a guy.
@@lisawilli1834 I am 50 years old and I have been divorced and single for 14 years. In the beginning I thought I would be married again in a short period of time. That never happened. Now I’m happily single, love living alone, and don’t have the time for games that men play. Believe it or not, men are very intrigued by women who don’t need or want them. I could have a different date every night of the week but I gave up on dating and turn them down.
@@JillLindsey0723 I hear you. 👍🏾
I must have watched this love rat marathon like 5 times.. there’s something absolutely hilarious about these women 😂
Speaking as an older woman, if a man of a younger years shows interest” think scam! When I was young an older woman told me that after 50 they want a nurse or a purse!
I met a man in Kenya back in 2004, we had a holiday relationship for 2 years, I visited many times, I loved being with him and missed him whenever I had to leave for home, but I always knew from the outset that no matter what happened I would never marry him or bring him home to the UK. For me, it was just too much of a risk to believe in him, and knew when he started asking for money, that it would definitely backfire on me, so I had to cut him out of my life.
When they start asking for money not only is that a Red flag it's a Huge turn off.
They call them beach boys in kenya.. they target rich white women.
It was the🍆 that had you
@@kidchocolate9253 Very true
@@engineengine9 Actually it was the sense of humour..
These women are a different kind of breed. They love a man online, wanting money, saying I love you from day 2, wanting to marry immediately? I'm sorry but how naive could you possibly be?
You dont need to be naive, just lonely.
Preach the women want this sad life including these men are unattractive
Buy a pet or get one from the shelter
Absolutely pathetic. What's wrong with being single????
@@mrsmendy3845and stupid
I am 63 and divorced in 2015. It really is important to find yourself, learn to love yourself, and regain self-respect. You won't find that jumping into a relationship with someone just because you don't want to be lonely regardless of whether it's on holiday or anywhere else especially online on dating sites. I understand that not all women are the same and have different personalities, characteristics, and life experiences. Please be discerning and cautious. I find it rather worrying that you would believe that someone' loves' you in a matter of days/weeks and then want to marry you.!!!! I do hope that these women have learned from these very painful emotional and financial experiences. Really very tragic and sad.
The sad thing is that these women would never give their struggling relatives a penny ...but they would give it to young men that they dont know !
I feel sorry for the women, but let's be real here: Very few 22 y/o men are going to actually fall in love with and be sexually attraced to a woman twice his age. I feel like some men and women are so desperate for a relationship that they literally will believe anything and anyone. It is sad, but it is hard to understand their desperation and naivete.
They know fine rightly sad pathetic old women they have to have a man on their arms if a younger man made a play for me I would laugh 😂
Maybe it is the Sex they also wanted !
So know they want there money back.
Totally agreed with you. It must have been low self- esteem or desperation to make these women put themselves through this kind of shame!
I think sorcery helps them to blind their victims. Sorcery works on people who are not with Jesus it means that as we are all sinners we have to repent to God who is alive and not to a man or to a statue/stone (what he hates most of all) and who read the bible : his word to learn to know him who is our judge and the education that he gives us there only ...and we find out that churches are often leading us to do the exact contrary that he likes. We shall also be aware of this "fashion" of "playing" ouija to call the deads, "play" magician with Harry Potter and so on, practicing astrology, etc. Curious don't you think these Hell festival, Possession festival and where still nobody sees anything coming...
Linda wanted to know what are her chances of getting her money back. There are 2 chances, SLIM and NONE.😮
none and noner
Well said she will maybe get fleeced again with another young man sad 😢😢
Linda is unbelievably …I’m sorry but self destructive
It’s not funny but this comment is 😂😂😂😂
Sad, but true. She seemed to truly believe that she would get her money back. Even IF they find the guy, the money is long gone.
50 minutes in.. "he had the most beautiful smile" mouth looks like a jack o lantern
I spit my wine out!!! 😂 You owe me a drink 😅
Suddenly glad I’m poor - nobody sees me as a mark lol. I’ve never dated much and the more stuff like this I watch, the more I realize I’m content staying single unless I’m sure I’ve found the *right* person…even fraud aside, I’m not looking to be abused or used - had enough of that earlier in my life.
When I was very young, though not under age, an older man began courting me. He had no job and no money but he was handsome and seductive. My father got wind of what was happening. He sat me down and asked, "Did he say this? Did he say that?" I was surprised as he quoted exactly what my suitor had said to me. I said, "Yes, how do you know?" His answer, "Because that's what we men always say."
daddy knows best my mum used to say be careful who u marry because if u have kids their the seeds of their dads sure as eggs shes right how do i know because my kids turned on me after raising them to a man that walked out on us when they were small now their adults oh his ex wife divorced him found out what a dick he was didnt love her now hes down the road living with my daughter whom he never had a bar of when he was married to the ex my daughter took him in hes sick with cancer karmas come back to him but he thinks im gonna go back to him dont think so ugh men 🙄😡🤬
Clever dad
@@codzy3532 Ever heard of punctuation?
@@gillsharpe7603 😆😆😆
I'm fed up with dead beat dads who abandon their own children. We need good dads, all of us. It makes me feel so good to know your daddy was there for you. You can't know the pain he saved you, but I'll bet it was quite a bit!
Diane: "he has the most beautiful smile"
Me: WTF is she talking about? His teeth are all over the place
Exactly 💯 I was like wtf! So sad! 😢
Hahaha 🤣
Ha ha I thought the same 🤷🏼♀️
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂my husband and I thought the same and were laughing
After watching the last few minutes of this, I'm going to conclude that some people just don't learn from their mistakes. 🙃 Dude is following the same patterns as the last dude, and she didn't even see it coming.
When you are dating someone who is poorer than you, you can never know if the relationship is "real" until you are both on equal footing. So not until they get their money and visa will you see the true colors.
I married someone who was bankrupted, I had more $ than him, but we married for love, and within the same age. We were married with a few decades until his death... I could never marry for money and I had a lot of opportunities to do just that. Imagine going to bed with someone you don't love.
The realness of that love shows some symptoms from the beginning. As a man, and as far as I understand, a woman can see false feelings from his acts, moves. etc.
I disagree. Just don’t give them money. The moment money becomes a topic you know what’s going on.
I will never understand how women trust so easily. The only thing I'd bring back to live in my home would be a rescue dog
😂😂👍
You would be better off.!! Lol
Lol🤣Meee too!!!
Well, they'll never file for divorce and want half of all your assets!
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The first time a man asks for money after saying they'll treat you like a queen they're a liar. If a foreigner says they want to marry you, RUN! They may use the words you want to hear, but those words mean different things to them. They come from a culture with different values.
First time they ask for money press the delete button and cut them out of your life
@@deannaivetic7935 Even before that when it's clear they're a scammer, especially online. Poor spelling, poor sentence structure, fb profile only hours old, always in the military stationed outside the US, posts lots of Biblical verses/sayings, etc. Jerks!
It's poverty dear nothing personal. Has absolutely nothing to do with culture. Africans have strong values.
Idk if it comes from their different culture or poverty in their country. I think the lack of money and resources makes some of them do anything for money.
technically the men are not foreigners when they chat you up in their country
There are warnings everywhere - documentaries, magazines, police etc but people choose to ignore warnings!
I don’t understand why they turn so hateful. It’s bad enough that they’re using these women. But why also are they bitter and vile when they are the ones taking advantage!?
That poor lady in her 60s with all sorts of health problems getting involved with a 21 years old, what was she thinking? I feel sad for all them, but also angry.
Poor lady?
@osamedennadi6309 young enough to be her grandson, what was she thinking,
She was in her 40s when she started messing with him
No sympathy at all, at that age you really should know better
Like the woman in the last scene saying her new toy boy doesn’t ask her for money. I’m like ‘Duh, he’s not asking you yet because you’re currently suing the last toy boy that you gave money. All he’s waiting for is marriage and visa, then you’ll pay through your nose.‘
I both admire the optimism but I'm also astounded at the naivety of these ladies
It's more ego than naivete. They look in a mirror, but refuse to see their true reflection.
@@AFAskygoddessI so agree with you !
It's amazing how you'll support the criminal and blame the one that got conned!
@@QwertyQwerty-eq7thJack and the beanstalk was a fairytale. You seem like a person who would exchange a cow for a couple of beans in hope that it will lead to a goose laying golden eggs, but hunny don’t play the absolute victim. You chose to believe in a goose with golden eggs, not even considering why someone would choose to exchange that for a cow in the first place!
So yea if you are 60 years old and you believe a 21 year old just fall madly in love with you and has no other motivation, well… that’s your golden goose.
And just think if you would assume the same if the situation was reverse, a 21 year old woman dating a 60 year old man. You would call her gold-digger immediately…
@AFAskygoddess, thank you. That's exactly what I was thinking. They aren't realistic about the reflection. These people come into these women's lives at the right time and there is a perfect storm. Chronic Low self-esteem, desperation and loneliness is a recipe for disaster. These people are pros at psychological manipulation. It's a shameful situation.
Thank you very much for this long reportage . You are warning many people before they involve themselves in a such difficult relationship. I wish you all to forgive yourself and try to forget just to free yourself from the past. Send you a warm hug
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me! Kudos Michelle! You made the right decision.
I’m not sure how you can take these relationships seriously especially when they’re half your age..
No Fool like an old fool
When u are à woman and ur told continuously by society u need to be tall slim good looking ect ect its not about the age its the fact these assholes take the last remaining thing left .... their dignity and belief or any strength remaining and much more, course u wouldnt understand, men are completely different. And i can tell u its not only older women it happens too or by older men!!! These days u cant trust anyone. It can send u mad just through the anger of the liberty!!!
@@0MLisa These women are not sweet little innocents. They know exactly what they are bargaining for…
Even more so….especially when you’ve purchased them.
Sheer stupidity!
How can these old women believe that these young men are genuinely in love with them?
They live in illusion.
Loneliness and delusion
Desperation and delusional
2 sides of a coin.
Because it happens. But much more rarely than scams.
Oh them last 2 minutes are golden
I hope you all get the closure/justice you all deserve.I am 61years old and single,I met a man nearly 2years and found out he wasn't as genuine as he first pretended to be.Thank goodness! I didn't gave him any cash only small gifts.I wish you ladies all the best.We all deserve genuine love,companionship , honesty and trust.Please ladies!be strong and be of great courage.❤
I cannot believe that these men can keep their visas after clearly conning these victims. All countries should ban men like this
I'm very certain if reported to the Home Office, they'd be thrown out of the UK pronto
Remember...she signed a legal document stating their relationship is real. She's as guilty as he is.
@@eunicestone6532 she did believe that the relationship was real though. She’s guilty of being gullible though
@@MariaLopez-hc2nm I would wish so, but I have seen men who came from the Caribbean and married middle aged British women. As soon as they got their uk passports, they were gone.. then they brought over their real girlfriends and all their kids
especially in the UK
It's painful to watch these shows. It's one thing to marry someone half your age, but to add the mix of another culture, you're asking for trouble. Forget attraction, charm and sex appeal, most men in these countries think women like this are delusional and they are.
I would like to see all these fraudsters in jail. They are the scum of the earth
SPOT ON
@intensepassion3382 I definitely agree with your post 💯 why on earth these men in those countries would be interested in a women that is in their 50’s and 60’s. Smh 🤦♀️ These women are living in a fantasy land thinking that these men are going to spend the rest of their lives with them long term. Therefore, these men that live in these countries use women for their money, leaving them heartbroken and broke with nothing left in their bank account. I agree, these women are asking for trouble. In the future, I hope these women learned a valuable lesson not to fall for these romance scammers. And learn how to love yourself
These women are fools. They really think these men are really in love in a few days. These women are tricks.
Even the age difference is a death knell. Going to Africa says it all
I like the lady with the vodka incident ❤.
When a situation moves uncomfortably quickly, you are asked for money or something, and you are being told you’re wonderful, it sounds like music to a womans’ ears. She is lonely + is used to being married; however, when you are asked for $ you drop it. Please don’t let this happen to you. After he puts you off twice and/or requests $, you must exit the ‘situationship’ immediately. Period. If you’re feeling lonely now, it’s nothing compared to what could happen!
😂 Y'all are cracking me up by thinking that this is only happening to women over 35. 🤣😂🤣
My grandmother, Margarita, said: "Mejor sola que mal acompanada".
Amen
Good one. My unc always said "it's better to be bored than in some shit"
Verdadero 😅
AMEN
@@CerseiLannister999😅😂
Some of these women are up in age(60s); and yet still they are making horrible relationships. It's hard to feel sorry for them. Why would you send money to a man that you've not met.
Exactly!!!!
😂💯
These are con-men.... and these women are vulnerble. Their age isn't helpful in this, cause many times older age causes women to feel MORE vulnerable/less attractive. Also they come from a better generation and therefore are not versed in these types of con-men. And last, but most important, is the fact that we want so much to believe in human beings, especially when we have romantic feelings. Please be careful ladies.
They thought they could buy a man. Low key and a sex slave.
I dont at all
I wonder if the married couples have also used contraception and not just debts, a broken heart and have not become sick 😮
I always worry about dementia and getting robbed when I’m older . It’s sad what happened to these ladies.
When you blame the women for being "stupid", you have to remember that it's a generational thing. I'm 57, and I totally understand them. Society does not value women our age. We are considered something to be pitied if we don't have a man. I'm happily divorced, and enjoy my rescue dog and two cats for company. Still, my friends are bugging me about "when are you going to be ready to start dating again?" The pressure is there, even from the most well meaning people. We are also socialized to have kind hearts, and if someone seems to be in need, we should share what we have with them. I don't care how old you are, everyone deep down wants to feel loved and valued. These scammers have faking it down to a science. These scams are everywhere in Greece and Turkey as well. A real man should NEVER need to ask you for money. He should want to support YOU, not sponge off of you. Please be careful ladies. You have value on your own, just for being yourself. Get a pet, hang out with your female friends, get a hobby, do charity work in town. You'll meet someone in a normal way, just be patient and have faith. ❤
You said it best...I am 48 years old had my fair share of relationships scam and am now riding solo going on 3 years now, and I am having g the time of my life...what will be will be whatever the universe have in store for me will find me in God's timing.
Exactly dear
They don't have to date men that are younger than their kids. They also are not going to underdeveloped worlds. They are going to predominantly underdeveloped countries.
You are confused. There is a big difference between "dating" and getting married, especially giving financial support, building or buying houses, etc.
No the problem is learning to valuing yourself and learning to love yourself once you can really do that you cannot be used - you won't let yourself be.
I don't get people's fear of "dying alone". We all die alone, regardless if we are married or not. If I ended up without a partner in my 40ies, I'd just accept the single life and enjoy the days I have left rather than desperately look for someone. My mother became a widow at 52 and never ever looked for someone else, she just enjoyed her life as it was.
So wise🙌🏻
These women need love and support not being judged harshly.I hope that they all can recover from these monsters.I appreciate how some of them are sharing their stories.They are so brave.
Women typically out live men so ladies be prepared to be alone. Love yourself, “date” yourself, don’t send money to ANYONE!!! Keep your money for yourself, your children and your grandchildren.
A relationship is a commitment between two people when one is providing everything and the other only provides sex and his/her presence you have to open your eyes and understand you're dealing with a prostitute (Man or woman) and the goal of every prostitute is profit
well said - a prostitute, no more and no less
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I realy i want to beleve you but i cant 😂😂😂😂
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Facts
Don't understand why anyone would believe a man decades younger than them wants a proper marriage ,all they want is a visa and any money they can get
What is wrong with these women. Why would a disabled woman in her 60s think a 26 year old man would want with her. How can someone be so desperate.
You don't know how very charming and deceiving these men can be
@@tina-mariecrocker5687 oh yes I do. Using your brain and a good look in the mirror from all angles will cure their foolishness.
@@tina-mariecrocker5687 I might concede your thoughts if they meet, and progressed in person. But 99% of all these "relationships" occurred on line. The disabled lady was entirely delusional. Even if her guy was on the up-n-up. Why would she want to pin him down like that? She can't go dancing, go trail hiking, bowling, stand in line, go to general admission concerts, etc.. All the things healthy young people do. How can they have friends that can respond to each other's conversation. So essentially she was, delusional, intensely selfish. Or both. There is absolutely NO WAY that relationship was going to work.
It's a type of modern slavery and sickening.
I agree with you, at least they should had looked for men of the same age of theirs
There’s a point in a woman’s life that they have to stop being boy crazy. I hoped they learned from this.
They're not boy crazy. They're lonely.
Nope, no there isnt. Nope. Men are fun. Sex is great.
Exactly boy crazy and lonely.
Learn from other people's mistakes! Thanks for sharing your pain and tribulations.
You can pretty much assume it's not love when you go to a foreign land and meet someone poor and young.
My neighbour is caught up in one of these relationships. No matter what anyone tells her, how many warnings, pointing out the obvious, she won't hear it. Years have passed by, and she's sent him tens of thousands of dollars for all these "emergencies" and "business ventures", but he's always cancelled last minute when he said he'd visit the country to see her. His mothers sick, his cousin died, he had an issue at work.... the excuses are never ending. I really have to wonder what goes through the mind of any man or woman that falls for these relationships but refuses to accept that things may not appear when it's so obvious. I guess they're not kidding when they say love is blind. But for me personally, I wouldn't even do so much as date someone without citizenship in my own country, let alone marry them.
You should show her these clip
@@frankie6207 Unfortunately people that are in these types of relationships aren't likely to listen. Multiple people have tried to get her to listen, to no avail.
It’s so hard to watch. An older lady at my church recently fell for a social security scam that emptied out her life savings…on the one hand it’s incredible to believe people can fall for these things, but on the other hand you feel awful for the situations they find themselves in
@@melly2479That is always the case and then they find out the truth the hard way.
It's witchcraft beloved. "LIFE IS SPIRITUAL" It's best to allow THE MOST HIGH lead us in all things. Amen🙏🕊💜💯
So sad if I could get one of these woman I will definitely love and comfort her with all my life sincerity
Thanks for this story.
Here is some of my wisdom for free: (1) When in doubt: don't; (2) One doesn't fall in love. Love is a growth process on a clock (takes time); (3) Get into his head before you get into his bed; (4) Do thorough background checks before getting in too deep; (5) Stop the foolishness of going by looks. Looks can and are often deceiving. I'm sure you have heard the saying: All that glitters isn't gold. So, pay close attention to the signals--those red flags.
Amen
This Michelle kills me, she was actually thinking of looking after his child. She was thinking of going back for more punishment (hitting my head against the wall💥) Good thing the call didn’t go through. And now she wants to campaign to warn other woman of what’s going on? Look, unless you’ve been living under a rock for most of your adult life, then yeah, you’d probably get duped by the first man you meet online.
She is empath, they do that to people with emotions, cant stop a human from having soul, that just say how much she is beautiful gentle soul ready to love even strangers child
The story of: “my wife died and my child needs surgery send me money” has been used many times before😡
There's no end to her gullibility. If there were no men doing it, she'd scam herself.
A lot of these women could easily be scammed again , it’s really sad actually
Oh yes, ask a liar to find out the truth.
Kim must think Snoop Dog is handsome, which no one else thinks
He looks like wanna be rapper … he may look like a snoop but the moment they speak the accent comes out. 😢 these ppl really gross
@@trevorjenningsWhat are you on about?
Thought exactly the same!
After so many years, some are still so distraught... Ladies, get a grip and live for YOURSELF!! Only after that you'll be able to truly be happy ❣
How can they NOT know? The giant age difference alone should set off alarms! I guess when you're lonely and being hugely flattered is how they got flimflammed.
My mom
Married a man half her age and the marriage lasted from 1987 until 2012. He idolized her. I’m not saying it is always that way or even common but it’s not ALWAYS a scam.
@@cruisepaige I'm happy for your mom! It's so sad about the gals in the video tho because they went to a foreign country to get bamboozled! (These are even countries we westerners know to be full of scammers.) I feel sorry for them because they learned the hard way and lost so very much. 🙁. I'm not even sure you can really recover from something like that? Especially at their age?
Flimflammed! Brilliant!
@@cruisepaige
these men wants money for their family.
@@cruisepaige the percentage is very very low to find true love.
As ladies we must protect ourselves from these con men.
HOW ABOUT NOT BEING GULLIBLE TO THINK SOMEONE 2X LESS IN AGE THAN YOU ACTUALLY WANTS YOU. NO ACCOUNTABILITY.
مرحبا كيف حالك
The woman should date guys their age and not guys that are 20 years younger. The same thing happens to men when they date younger women.
A little common sense. It’s absolutely ludicrous
Their some women that need men. Because they want money from men
To all the ladies , who were scammed, stay strong, you went in with your heart, but these scammers had other plans, Karma will always catch up with them . sorry for your losses
I know exactly what these woman went through. I feel so so sorry for them. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Embrace being on your own, if you feel lonely get yourself a cat or dog.
Because that takes care of sexual desires🙄
@@darkhorse7460only fans?
Yuppp 👍
Or Dildo.
THIS IS WEIRD, I WAS GOING TO SAY EXACTLY WHAT YOU SAID.
I'm feeling the pain and humiliation of these ladies, BUT... have you noticed how every single one of them says they fell in love because of how handsome the man was.
I may need glasses because I didn't see one single good looking man in the whole video.
yes truly delusional - they were all unattractive and very greasy looking
That really stuck out like a sore thumb.
❤😂😂 well done. We are here to support you
Of course "Holiday relationships" don't last. They're only meant for the holidays. Duh😂😂😂
Hello Corey, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
Its high time people realised being alone isnt such a bad thing.....society and culture needs to stop selling the notion you need to grow old with someone. You can even grow old by your kids side, grandchildren, friends etc
I moved to a new city & joined so many 50+ "social" groups, thinking they would be pleasant events with nice conversation over lunch.
It wasn't like that at all. It was a hotbed of people trying to date & beat out others. It was incredibly hostile. The other women were total bitches towards me because they didn't want a better looking woman joining the group.
I agree…
There is NOTHING WRONG with growing old with someone. There is smth very wrong with bringing coloured men 20 years younger into the country
Your kids and grandchildren need their own lives not to be taking care of moms, most of whom are alone due to bad choices and feminist values.
The best relationship is: life hidden with Christ in God. Cf. Colossians 3:3
Respect to these women. I'm 50 and i feel unattractive to my 54 year old hubby. I can never imagine coming close to a younger man let alone marrying him. I wish all these women healing. Im not sure true love exists between people of such diverse ages and cultures.
Ha ha ha your a perfect con in the making
@@gowdsake7103 How so?
@@gowdsake7103 she seems far too self aware to fall for anything like what we’re seeing here!! She’s no con in the making.
She is not a "con in the making" She is the opposite of STUPIDITY! which is NO cure for it.
you're putting a lot of your relationship on physical beauty, people can be beautiful on the inside and that makes them beautiful on the outside.
Loving someone you see their beauty, where ever that is. ❤❤❤
Would love an update on the second Turkish chap.
He better be treating his woman with respect and love!! 🥊
In a relationship, as in life, there are no guarantees.
It's hard enough to make it a success with people of your own culture ... without getting involved with people who think differently due to being from another culture ! . Especially when from poorer countries !.
What is important, if you start a relation with somebody of another culture is that he already has a permission to stay in your country or he has already a job, the nationality of your country… so you know in fact he does not need you to stay in your homecountry, even if he comes from a poor country. On top of the cultural differences, that is true, this is a very important thing. I was married & divorced to such a person but we just did not get along. Now i am very happy with a person of another ‘culture’ again, but in fact he does not need me to be able to stay here. I never would get involved with a man still living in his own country. So, after so many bad stories, i have difficult to believe how naieve this women (or men) can be. Most of that young men are trained and like pro’s in this matter.
If he is a Muslim he will see her as a lesser being and an infidel he will also see their marriage as not a marriage he will only marry a Muslim woman and they do not treat any woman well. Take time to get to know people and know more about them.
@@rachel-rb4bp let's not generalise. Not all Muslim men are that way. There are a some crooked non-Muslim men who do the same thing.
You are reasoning baba
@@rachel-rb4bpQuit the generalization bad people are found everywhere.
When a man start asking money , start running .
Or a woman
This is a way Bigger manipulation than just asking for someone about money. They act 24 hour for a couple years before they start to switch when their goal is reached. .Just dont believe in people who telling you they love you ,when u never met them.if a person tells u every Minute i love you its Played
People would rather to spend $ so as to keep sex toys, instead of helping true vulnerable like the disabled, orphans, confused teens
@@hzjc9680 i agree with u. They are scared to be alone
God bless these women for sharing their stories 🙏🏼🤍
One thing about this romance fraud. You gave your money on your own . It's called a "gift" from you. You will never get it back, period!
Many years ago a friend of mine aged 42 was conned by a love rat and ended her own life. Dreadful.
So sorry about your friend 😞
My condolences
Many condolences ❤🤗
Sorry to hear that. It does happen sometimes. ☹️
Sorry for your loss,
Its unbelievable how those ladies believe every single word they said!!
Very naive I call it.
Yes, I guess that is what loneliness and desperation will do to some people. All of these women had red flags.
This reminds me of a former co worker who complained about her husband of 11 years, suddenly leaving her and her young son (not his son). The utilities were turned off because he didn't pay the bills. The money was going elsewhere. All of us told her he had most likely met a younger woman.
She kept denying it, denying it and denying it until one day, she told us he had met an 18 year old girl in the same church they attended and he told my co worker that he was in love with the teenager!
He was also spending the family's money on his new love. That's why the lights were turned out in the home they shared.
When we asked the coworker why she didn't believe us, she said "I didn't want to believe it".
That said it all, right there! She CHOSE NOT to believe.
@@WindDancer435 Wow that’s crazy. Sometimes people don’t want to hear the truth.
The naivety of white divorced or widowed women is mind blowing.
@Mandla S. yeah, it's mostly white women fooled by black men
When a large unattractive woman in late middle age meets a charming, athletic man half her age who showers her with affection, attention and "physical comforts" what on earth makes them automatically assume that they have found their prince charming?!!🙄🤦
No to sending them money and a hell no to putting them on ur bank card i wouldnt even do that with a guy from the same country as me
I applaud Dee and the women doing outreach, educating the population, and warning against these scammers and creeps.
You don't need outreach work. You just need to use your damn common sense. "Stupid Is As Stupid Does". Period.
@@dessean1Nope, it's not as easy as that. Common sense can be beaten by lust/desire. Desire is the most challenging thing for humans
@@dessean1 no my dear. Many of these women are not stupid. They were left vulnerable at some point in their lives.
By the way you write, you apparently have very little compassion and a big judgemental strike.
A “blame the victim” mentality.
I pray that you never be in a victim position, not just love scammed, but victim because it is not a nice place to be.
Remember, it is not a mark of confidence or intelligence to judge people when they are already down. It is a mark of of ugliness and the mark of someone not very happy with their own lives.
@@unicornsarereal8484 "Stupid Is As Stupid Does" Period. When you meet & enter into a relationship with an individual, whether they be a male or female & soon thereafter the individual is asking you for large sums of money & you comply, well, that's not being vulnerable but just plain good old fashion STUPIDITY. Stop blaming everyone else or trying to find excuses for being in this position & making yourself a victim & instead perhaps take a good look within & change whatever has to be changed. As for me, I am living a very satisfying life & I would never fall victim to such an obvious scam because I incorporate " COMMON SENSE" into my daily activities/events.
@@dessean1*BINGO!!! can you believe these people?
Just because you're a single woman or person, doesn't mean you're alone. I cannot believe these women were so desperate for love that they would endure deception, cruelty and financial loss. What needs to happen is for these women to realize they have so much to give and receive in their lives.
Be careful with emergency love affairs, and can save you lots of embarrassment. Love is a passive abstract scam on his own, an illusion in infatuation will throw you off balanced. Emotional tantrums.
@@samuelemordi6363You sound like a very hurt person. Love is not a scam, all it is is caring about someone else and their wellbeing.
What you see in this video is lust and infatuation over the feelings someone gives. It's selfish and boosts the ego. It's not love.
The truth is, we as Africans at least in my country, we see you people as CASH COWS and you have been manipulated from personal relationships such as these by uneducated men even up to putting on a show of misery and hunger just to make you feel sorry and you send those big bucks to say for the least. The worst part about it all is that some of you are not very skeptical (maybe because you have a lot of cash who knows). But I hope you heal and learn from all this and I pray that you be okay.....God bless
Sandriagutierrez agree with you 100%. In telling it like it is. One can never pretend for too long as the wolf will reveal himself one day hiding in the sheep's clothing. These woman in the anxiousness of been lonely and seeking love fall victims to these guys. Ladies must know their "Worth".
Predators smell victims like perfume.
It breaks my heart when I see what people do to others.
Nobody, who has ever been a victim of emotional abuse, can imagine the pain victims of emotional abuse have to deal with. It is a level of pain that can literally break your heart and soul, and destroy your mental and physical health.
Lying should be punished to the highest degree.
How do the men find the women with funds? I guess if they are vacationing in Africa 🌍
Miss Patricia, did you really think that the 29 year old man would have stayed with you??? The writing was on the wall.
I know so many Italian women in this situation. Some are my close friends. They go on holidays to Senegal, come back in move with some handsome men who wnat to marry them. They manage to get married very quickly, some of the males go to Italy and rapidly become agressive, violent, abusive, etc etc...its then become very complicated to get divorce... I find it sad especially when there are kids involved
So sad how people exploit someone pain and loneliness....heartless
Linda was spared! The fact that she received the social media information about the ‘other woman’ was a blessing. It could have been worse. Count your blessings Linda.
She is lucky that the other woman was not married to that love rat. It could have been a case of bigamy.
L8nda was catfished. The man who introduced himself to her on line was a white, middle-aged man. When she met him face-to-face, he was a young black man. That was not her fault. It is not just Linda whom I feel sorry for, but also the middle-aged man whose picture was used to attract her. Imagine a family member or family friend seeing his picture and profile online and then that person telling that man's wife! Imagine the scenario lying ahead!
It's sad to think that the families abroad get involved by supporting the wedding. Friends cousins parents standing at the wedding ceremony, knowing it's a scam!
Mostly due to poverty and lack of honesty
@@historiqueafricaine1225 -- I'm not sure it is lack of honesty. They know it takes a marriage for this man to qualify for a foreign passport and citizenship. They know his family requires money. They also know if the women did not have feelings for the man and money she would not be marrying him. So in the end, they feel it is a mutual agreement, not dishonesty. His love (no matter how temporary) for her money and citizenship.
That's what lowlife people do! The scammer can sponsor the entire family once they get their citizenship.
At least some of these women are fighting back. Well done ladies.
this is so sad . wish you ladies the best. prenup!