Couples trip photo goes viral, but why?
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If his legs are smaller than your arms, don’t do it!! That lady has life preserving instincts.
The way I laughed in agreement!!😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 !!!!!
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I'm dead! 😂😂😂😂 ❤ My kids after finding out I broke my neck climbing on a man's neck:😮😮 Yeah! I'm on the ground and bump being your friend! 😂
"Quiet as it's kept, I have the proof" Say less Sis!!! Yasssssss 😂😂😂
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Lol caught that too
Right!!
@@mrsveelee1426 LMAO!!
Lol yes! 😂
Im just mad homie wore a white shirt to the all black event.
Righhhttt!😂 Me too.
He obviously does NOTHING for the team...
Same! Like “who dis?“
The important things!
That was my thoughts…i thought that was the main issue. Took me a minute to figure it out.
I choose to return home without a trip to the emergency room. Y'all do what you want 🤣🤣🤣
Yessss! ❤
Yes! We not in the third grade.
This! Nobody got time for that
I'm just mad that they're not in the middle. Only thing wrong with this photo is the lack of symmetry
Good point!!
My thoughts exactly!
Another good point…
C’mon details!
The lack of symmetry is really pissing me off too. 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾
5'8” and 175lbs. I'm not going 6” up on any unstable platform. Not my man, not a 3 leg table, not a giraffe. Stay Blessed ❤
The giraffe said he safe 😂😂😂
My 5' 10" 195lb ass will be next to you on the ground 😂😂😂😂😂
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Same.
I just hollered! I absolutely agree. I don't trust anybody or anything at this stage in my life to hold me up but my legs.
Honestly his white shirt stands out to me a lot more than the different pose lol
IM SAYING
I'm not gon be in the picture, don't want to be the topic of conversation! She doesn't look happy about it either
That's what I was thinking she looks very upset
not a joyful side pic, I agree
"I believe his shoulders and neck can handle me...quiet as it's kept. I have the proof"...Ok now EJ!! 😂
TMI, tmi. Lol.
Im a big girl and i was triggered, not gonna lie. Ive worked through my trauma and i have a hell of a lot more self esteem now than i used to, but this photo, and its implications took me back to some dark times. Now that says more about me, than it does about anything in that photo. That being said, all parties involved knew what they were doing. I hope she was in on the joke. I hope she is not hurt by this.
I am big too and my bf is slim but muscular and he can pick me up and put me on his shoulders too (our ratio isn’t has large as theirs) but I am not comfortable with being picked up. I’m a grown woman unless I’m unconscious don’t lift me. It’s sad they are teasing her over safety and security.
I completely agree
"All parties involved knew what they was doing"...exactly! Why would you do your girlfriend this way???
I'm full figured also You, she and I are prettier than all of them... Don't sit at a table when respect isn't being served. She should have politely excused herself from this photo.
Yeah, and for people saying she could’ve said or done this or that, it’s pretty common for the one big girl to laugh along like she’s cool with everything.
Ain’t no way they didn’t know what people would be talking about 😂
That partttttttt!!
It’s known as NEF Negative engagement farming researcher have realized that people stay online longer when they’re upset about something
@@gabrielmaroto18 Exactly that’s why I laugh at this shit and move on, I could be doing nothing with my time 😂
@@shedaone9620 Is that why people are saying they're not her friends? Did the friends post the pic just for people to laugh and make negative comments about her? If so, I agree. They are not her friends.
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As friends, why would you want to leave someone out?
Exactly....they knew exactly what they were doing
They should have exit the photo, simple 😢
THEY KNEW! 😡
Right there.
not friends...one person was someone's +1
Let’s just say that’s one ‘group’ photo I wouldn’t be in. We’d be the ones behind the camera taking the picture or waiting for a photo with a pose everyone could do.
Sorry but they’d have to find another way to go viral without embarrassing me.
It’s all fun and games until the day comes when they’re the ones turned to the side.
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Exactly, because a lot of comments everywhere are "it's not their fault she's so big". If she wasn't embarrassed then she is now with everyone clowning her. It went viral because _someone_ made sure to share it.
ABSOLUTELY 💝
They are NOT her friends
If the woman on the ground looked remotely happy, the photo would have read differently. As it is, I can see why people are bothered. Hope she's ok
I agree with you there she wasn’t even facing the camera
Yes I agree, I feel like her body language says a lot, but I also don’t know if this picture came with a caption that we’re missing so idk
@@Hush-puppy Yess WHAT IS THE CONTEXT?! A picture says a 1000 words but are they the truth?! lol As a big woman I have put my skinny men on my shoulders before for pics and its cute and funny they should have done that.
I think the photo is a joke and she's in on it. She probably suggested it.
I agree as well with you
One thing for sure I know whoever’s idea it was to do this pose it wasn’t the couple on the ground, I would’ve declined to be in the photo. This was inconsiderate.
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THANK YOU! I completely agree...this was unnecessarily embarrassing.
@@GensSancta they were in on it. If they thought it was embarrassing then I’m sure they would’ve just declined to be in the photo. No one FORCED them into it. This is just classic rage baiting for money/clout.
@@tiarahudson4241 ...
Exactly!
Be there or be square. *puts invisible hair behind ear
Girl. 🤣🤣🤣
I’m wondering why they missed the matching tee shirt memo tho 🥴🫠😜
He obviously does NOTHING for the team...
I was thinking that’s why she’s mad at him, not the lifting up part.
I'm plus size. I hate being lifted. Even when i was smaller.
Girl, you know good and well that’s not the point 😂
Right!! We are grown, and gravity exists!!
Sure ...
It would have been OK back when your booty wasn't so big.
I'm plus size too🥰and l want to stand on my own two feet🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I’m feeling some kind of way about this. Why they agree on a pose, that its obvious, everybody can’t do? Huh? Why?
They could have come up with many other cute ideas that would work for everyone. 🤔🤨🧐 I feel like the others did this on purpose to highlight the size differential in that couple.
Maybe the couple themselves don’t mind the size differential? If they did, he wouldn’t be with someone so big and she wouldn’t be with someone so little. Not everyone is as sensitive about weight as people on the internet seem to be
@@trianna2008 my comment wasn’t about the sizes of the man or his wife, It was about the UNITY of the group.
@@patwilson1257 I agree. It's about the unity. There's no way they didn't know it would look awkward.
@@matxalenc8410 yes, you’re correct.
Those definitely ain't her friends😂😂😂😂
The first thing I thought was why didn’t he have on a black tshirt🤷🏽♀️?
People should mind their business!
Exactly
That part...
And people should stop posting their lives online for all to see and comment on just saying
Okaayyy!
😂 riiiiiight. She could be scared of heights
I never realized how much I look forward to the newest "...and really quickly....."
I wait for it every time!!!!
Same!!!!!!🎉
I literally write "really quickly" in my journal when I start my entries. 😂😂😂
Same 😂😂😂 start my day off right ❤❤❤
😂😂😂
I hate social media 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
She looks upset about it.
She does look upset 😢
So why did she choose to neglect her health and be obese then? Her weight is self inflicted and i’m sure it affects others more than others affect her.
No matter the reason for her and her man not participating, they KNEW what the reaction would be. Honestly she could have walked out of the line of sight. It would have taken them time to get in position so its not like she was caught off guard. No matter if she meant for this to happen or not, we all know what this photo is insinuating. And if someone puts it in my FY, then its my business. 🤷🏽♀️ how somebody gon post something and then ppl b like, mind your business. They MADE it my business. TF.
“I have the proof.” Ha! ❤ it.
Why does he have a white shirt and the rest of them has black shirts on🥸🤓🧐
That’s what I’m sayin…what if she innit and he not innit🤔🫖
Maybe he was the new boyfriend of the group, so he wasn't told.
It looks like it was intentional. Every odd person/ couple is in black with the corresponding couple/ person wearing a pop of green.
Because it is hot and it absorbs heat.
That's foul, they knew that couple couldn't participate.
Then they shouldn’t include themselves in this group photo 😢
@@gloriajose3088 I don't know that they included themselves. We don't know how the whole thing was set.
That was very thoughtless of their friends. If you take a group photo, you take a group photo, you don't expect some group members to exclude themselves.
We black people can be cold as f.
I agree with Cosmo
@@cosmosadorabilis7677People period can be cold af not just bp
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I think she did not get on his shoulders because she is a bigger girl, but that's their business and a wise decision. People on the internet are mean and rude and will use anything to get likes, regardless of how it makes the real people in the pics or videos feel.
He shlda got on Herrrr Neck😂😂😂😂😂
I said the same thing! But I'm corny and silly like that so I thought it was just me. 😂
Now that..woulda been funny 😂👌🏽
I am not mad at them. Don't like to follow the trend anyway. Bet their relationship is more stable than the ones hanging in the air!!😂😂😂
Facts on Facts
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Not the 'ones hanging in the air!' Haha 😂❤
Word!
That part!!!!😅
My entire body could not take this pose. 😂 I am standing on the ground
Baby, I still believe those are not her real friends. We all know she didn't get on his back because of her weight, her supposed friends should have just chosen another pose that everyone could do, EASY. Especially knowing they were going to post this online, it's foul and insensitive.
I agree.
Plus, he was really skinny and who’s to say they were a couple. Maybe, just maybe they were siblings. Maybe he had recent back 😂surgery.
This. I no longer give people the being of the doubt playing stupid.
@@legslikewhoa... give people the benefit of a doubt... 🤗 ok, I'll go away now 🏃🏾
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It’s 👏🏾not 👏🏾worth 👏🏾it 👏🏾💪🏾❤️
I hear you EJ, but this photo draws attention to her size in particular and that is something that is socially scrutinized, even tho it shouldn't be. It opens up people to make xomments about the size difference between her and her friends/her and her man. Knowing this, this may not be the picture that I chose to post if this was my friend group 🤷🏿♀️ People gon be critical anyway, but I wouldn't run and sign my friend or myself up for it if I had the choice!
If she didn't want to be in the picture why did she get in the picture?
Nah it would be different if each couple did a different pose. But this was clearly not a good idea. The big girl is the only one on the ground. I would have sat that photo out. Respectfully ✌️
Agree
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Agree and you have a new subscriber… I love mom vlogs. ❤
@@Mommabear30 awww thank you so much! 🙏🏾💕
🤐 I’m tooo old for that
I’m on the ground too no shame in it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
As a grown woman that recently lost 90 lbs, there's no weight that I can weigh that will have me sitting confidently without my feet able to touch the floor. I don't like heights, so if he's not a super strong 2'5" man, we're both standing🤷🏾♀️
Not a 2’5” man 😂 Love them short kings!
This made me giggle!! Thank you. 🖤
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'We decided to be original and stand on the ground.' 😂🤣😂 I am wheezing
I wanna ask the question peope want to ignore because it makes them feel better....,What if she wasnt okay with the photo???? Cause correct me if im wrong, did she post it? So yall can miss me with the modern day "Oh dont worry, she's fine" energy!😒
Exactly....of all the photos you took, why would that be the photo from the trip? Could have kept this inside the group as a laugh since they know the context.
@@DrLadyBugM probably because they were all in on it and rage baiting on social media is the fastest way to gain followers/clout? That couple poses for that picture when they did not have to. They were in on it and knew it would get attention which = money.
@@tiarahudson4241 that's still mean though either way u look it
As a photographer and person with a degree in digital media technology I'm mad at the people who took the photo and set up the poses...
1. Why are they in the middle and the other couple on the side ... it just throws off the whole pic.
It wasn't staged right. They could have had them in the back and them doing something different in front or something . The positioning just make it stand out and look awkward.
Whoever took the picture and didn't tell them better is the true villian... when a photo looks bad , speak up and suggest something or try and make it better. Which we actually don't know if they did or not.... but either way , it really ain't my business 🤷🏾♀️
As a photographer 🤓🤓🤓😂! Gurl who cares!!! Every pic doesn’t have to be professional 😂😂
I hear ya! I also have-a-thing about symmetry. TRUE STORY: Once during a job interview I absentmindedly RE-ARRANGED a couple of items on the interviewer’s desk! 😵💫 (Didn’t get the job.)
@@kristinab9680😂😂😂😂
I love it it says “I STAND ON MY OWN TWO FEET‼️”….. 🤷🏽♂️😂
I think folks just read too much into everything. Celebrate the fact that they had a good time.
At first glance I honestly didn’t even see them standing there 🤷🏾♀️🤣
He doesn’t even have a matching shirt, he ain’t committed to the cause 😂
If the reason is because of her weight then they both shouldn't have been in the pic because u have ppl making fun of her, plus from the way she looks in the pic she is unhappy and uncomfortable. She could have avoided all of that by not being in the pic. Also ppl being mad at her friends i can understand because they could have just done a regular pose.
I love it, quite as kept I have the proof. I love grown folk talk.😆😆😆
You stay scrolling on Obama’s internet. And I always look forward to hearing you say that.
Obama??🙄
Right, that line is a staple to the every day function to EJ videos.
Why does she say that. What does she mean. I been wanting to know.
Issa joke @@FLOKADO
As a plus sized woman, unless the guy is Arnold Schwartzenger (back in the day)there’s NO WAY that I’m risking that man’s back, legs or anything else! Especially if I OUTWEIGH him!!
Okay HAIR!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 The growth is manifestingggg
& your Raleigh show was great ❤️
I don’t do couples vacations!!!
My thoughts exactly! If the hubby and I are on a vacation, then it's gonna all be about having fun with just the two of us.
I'd like to do both.......couples and just me and hubby. 🤷🏾♀️
Just the idea of it makes me anxious and annoyed. 🎉
The way you be tapping your temple thinking.... I've always wondered if it don't hurt! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You be tapping like you tryna make a vein pop up ❤❤❤
I’m dead….Quiet as it is kept, I have the proof”!!! I know that’s right, EJ!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😜😜😜
So pleased that you are out there doing your thing..I’ve said for a long time someone needed to discover you..keep being blessed ❤🙏🏾. Nothing is wrong with the photo 🥰
Thank you for the church announcements! Didn't know you were back on the road. I'm coming!
"My knees are the enemy" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
He obviously Loves his wife ❤ but the piggy back, he'll hurt 🤕 himself...do the half piggy back, he squat down, and she stands behind him giving a big bear hug 🤗❤❤❤❤
Know your limit!
Idk I see what you’re saying but at da same time I’m like they could have done a different pose I know that everybody’s size isn’t the same but that pose should have been, in my opinion.
What they could have did was have him sit down and she stand behind him...❤
Yeah. Something a little different; but still inline with the others would have been ideal.
I like your thoughts EJ!!!!
"I have the proof" 🤣🤣I love y'all🥰❤🙏🏾
Quiet as it kept… I have the proof!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
Kudos to the couple on the ground, maturity lasts longer than a trend and muscles
Shalom beautiful woman of substance and many blessings to you and to your beautiful families.
I appreciate the knowledge you shared. And I appreciate your character and your approach to this situation.
I take friendship very seriously. I take it to the level where I make sure I do not place my friends in positions that can create room for uncomfortable experiences or experiences that can cause them to confront their securities and confidence in manners that can promote embarrassment, shame, or humiliation.
The disposition of true friendships come with purposeful actions that protect the value friends carry. True sacrifice and selfless dispositions are important when building real friendships.
GOD Bless you beautiful queen and Shalom unto you and to your beautiful families.
Both of his arms are up in a peace sign. And her facial expression says…”They are not my friends.”
If everyone was dress the same, posed the same, looked happy, and the picture was symmetrical no one would get on here and say “we don’t know if they had a good time and are good friends because we weren’t there”. The picture conveys a pretty clear story; now weather or not this is staged is a different conversation
EJ, you need to be a defense attorney. I love iiittttt. 🤣
Not The Military Salute On Top Of Yo Head!! 🤣
I noticed his white shirt before I noticed the pose. That's what stood out to me.
Not, "I have the proof."😂😂😂😂😂
If they were truly her friends this would not even have happened. They picked a pose they knew she couldn’t do. They knew he couldn’t pick her up they knew this was making fun of her. They are not her friends at all. If she was my friend it would have been a different photo where she could shine too. If I shine you shine we shine together period.
But why though 🤯 just pose on the ground as couples 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏽♀️
This is mind blowing to me!! People be tripping. Offended about everything.
My first thought is she's pregnant.
I plant my feet on solid ground with Christ I stand 🎵🎵🎵😂😂 however that song goes 😂😂
Actually it’s says “ plant my feet on higher ground”! Lol
she doesn't look happy
He didn't wear the black shirt that she gave him!
"Quiet as it's kept, I have the proof" Almost too me out 😂😂😂😂😂
“This not the third grade. We not, this not the military!” 😂😂😂
They way me in my man would have been kekeing 😂😂😂
Your take is the best take.
Orrrrr maybe she told him she didn’t want to do it?🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️. People are pressed about things that are actually not about them, nor does it alter their reality.
I would feel embarrassed if I were her, but I’ve always been sensitive about weight.
I immediately started giggling when I saw this.😅 They should've moved out the way if they weren't going to do the same thing.😂
People are worried about the wrong things. It was that couple’s choice to be in the photo in any way they wanted to be.
I’m like you EJ I don’t see anything wrong with the picture. People are peopling and enjoying one another in their very own way. Some folks will find fault in anything! Happy New Week! ❤
First of all, the “We not in third grade” almost took me out! 🤣
Second, it wasn’t until you pointed it out that I saw one couple standing.
Third, maybe she’s sending the message, “We doing life tughehvah! 20 toes down, side by side!” While the others are saying, “ I STAY on his neck!”
Lastly, thank you for the subtle art of entertaining while educating; not everyone can do it!
Guess what? She went on a couples trip. I went on a trip with my sister. You go Sis!!!
What'up, like. that's great shots~ Ejspeaks-
I'm coming to see you when you come to Indy.
She probably saw the little one with gray pants fall already …check her knees… and said F that 😂😂😂
My first thought was where is his black tshirt
And that's why she looks mad! She's was asking THAT question as soon as he showed up 😂😂
@@yrb5512 😂🤣
I refuse to go to an emergency room outside of where i live😂😂😂
I agree with the other commentors, who said she looks unhappy. That was the only thing about the photo that really gets to me. Hopefully it was just a photo timing mishap. But how would you feel if the photo was of all of them in running gear, and the friend was in a wheelchair. To me, it feels like they were excluding her. They all easily could’ve done a different pose. OK maybe she was happy and the photo just wasn’t giving happy. Either way she’s still beautiful.❤
I don’t feel it was a photo timing mishap because I feel somebody would’ve posted another photo where she’s smiling. They had to have taken multiple photos considering that’s a pose the group is not trying to replicate any time soon. The fact this is the one they decided to publish says a lot
"I can't lift you but I can support you" vibes
Ok, I’mma say because I’m a big girl too. He can’t hold her weight. Period. She knows she’s fat and he’s a skinny dude-they love each other regardless. 😂🤣❤
You are so smart and funny too❤😂