1:38 please everyone! 2:52 hold onto grudges! 5:50 be a perfectionist and be afraid of mistakes! 6:14 GIVE UP RIGHT AWAY! 7:10 be like everyone else!! 9:18 stay small, don't speak up! 13:30 real lesson: be obvious and be found 21:08 don’t make excuses for other people's behavior
I'm surrounded by sensors in my family, and I've constantly been told to "Give up" and to "Stop being so unrealistic." However, I'm determined not to give up, even if I feel misunderstood by everyone around me, who see things at face value. I'm going to try to live for myself, and not to appease anyone else.
Thank you, I will give up on my dreams right away to spare myself the pain of failing at achieving them. Genius, saves a lot of time. On a serious note, the actual advice was great and inspiring to hear.
An INFJs reaction to the title pre-premiere: > INFJs, just give up. Yeah, I've tried the ultimate "giving up" multiple times. In retrospect I see, even in my deepest depression, Ni/Fe wouldn't let me fully "give up" because I know my family and friends would miss me and I don't want to hurt them even if it means I'm still hurting. Still, looking forward to the video. Bad advice is always fun. ❤️
I already got similar bad advices : _"Give up" Theses words give me frustration, can make me angry, make me feel bad mentally, and give me more determination and courage. When I am sure of something, and know I can do it. I will never give up, even if I know it will take time, patience and energy. _Certains people think they are better, more intelligent, just because they are older than me and think they have lived more experiences than me in life. But when you are born with a strong Ni, you know more things, many things better than most of people. With the feeling of having already seen and experienced everything. _"Fit to society, be and do like everyone else" I know deeply I am not like all, fit to society = not be myself, put me in stress, and destroy myself. They wish my death XD Be selfish, think to yourself, take care of yourself.
In the first place, we have to think about how to respond, not for 2 minutes, but overnight to give you what you are asking us to give you (that is ourselves). All questions are to us extraverted stimulation overload, whenever you ask them. We are slow and some of us suffer from brain fog. So writing is a better way to give you what you want. Truth is, I give you what you ask for with posts online but since it takes a page to give it to you, you don't read it, or you don't say you like it. We cannot give you what you ask for in a 3 sentence twitter reply. Since I think in the abstract when I say what I am thinking in the abstract, others are too lazy to think about what I mean, so they accuse me of not knowing what I am talking about or claim I am contradicting myself. There are points of truth that can be understood in the abstract but how does one go about translating them into literal expressions for the people too lazy to think for themselves? So that puts others on a different wavelength than us, then we simply give up on talking to them, and they accuse us of being selfish and not sharing ourselves with them! As men and women are different, some effort has to be put into understanding each other. But that's about a 50/50 ratio. No one wants to take the time to understand the 1% - 3% INFJs. It's much easier to put them down and complain about them! You spoke well about us being judged for what we suck at and it too often does result in a blow to our self-esteem, and our confidence. If the sigma INFJ is good for anything, as "On Track" said, "it's pointing out and modifying faulty perspectives and improving immature attitudes." Though most of the time people think we are trolls when we attempt to do so! People want to be praised and complimented, but we point out their faulty perspectives. That never goes over too well! Is there a way or method to sell people their faulty perspectives without upsetting them?
Off the cuff, this sounds like an INTJ’ s message for the INFJ to give up on the Ti info to help the people which I mean what would happen then but haha I’ll watch this so cool watching this much Ni coming from these beautiful people go INxJs gooooooo where are we going and what are we doing ahha. I’m in.
Ahem, can’t get this medieval picture of Joyce on a horse, full knight armor with a morning star exploding heads as she goes down the field. But, man that’s hard to shake. I feel like if these had been on the posters in my hs classroom walls that I might have become ridiculously cookie cutter successful. Luckily, the regular upbeat Be all That You Are was up in droves especially in Physics… that itself felt like a psychological test on us, but man the depth of sarcasm is real. Bring it on Ni bring it on my Ne ideas will blow them up into sparkle monsters, or something: you know new poster…. Change, change as much as you freakingly ( new word ;))can because it’s not working, none of it, all of this that is right here no….unless you are Joyce or another INFJ then you are a goddess which we should all be giving some sort of like fruit to, or something l. Get on that INTJ, promote the INFJ. Man, if we could all find you it would be even harder for your soulmate to find you since finding you is the point of your soulmate’s path. Stay you Joyce; Joe, no comment :).
1:38 please everyone!
2:52 hold onto grudges!
5:50 be a perfectionist and be afraid of mistakes!
6:14 GIVE UP RIGHT AWAY!
7:10 be like everyone else!!
9:18 stay small, don't speak up!
13:30 real lesson: be obvious and be found
21:08 don’t make excuses for other people's behavior
I'm surrounded by sensors in my family, and I've constantly been told to "Give up" and to "Stop being so unrealistic." However, I'm determined not to give up, even if I feel misunderstood by everyone around me, who see things at face value. I'm going to try to live for myself, and not to appease anyone else.
Just give up INFJs ;) Thank you for the humorous and equally insightful chat, Joe.
This is one of the funniest MBTI videos ever. AntiJoyce is amazing.
Thank you! Hahah she killed it and I didn't even know she was gonna do that
Thank you, I will give up on my dreams right away to spare myself the pain of failing at achieving them. Genius, saves a lot of time.
On a serious note, the actual advice was great and inspiring to hear.
Hahahaha thank you, joyce really has some great life advice for the INFJ
INFJ subtle fave word: “potential” in things/ppl
Great advice, Joyce Meng!👍 I will follow it to the letter! Hahaha😂😂😂 You two are just too funny!😂 Thank you for this.❤
let us know how it works out!! 🚲🚲
@@GhostofJung No prob, Ghost! I shall begin with my Hatred of all things and let it fester! And then, I will take over the WORLD!!!MWA-HA-HA 🤣
As an INFP with an INFJ friend I say: Continue being awesome! As an INFP I face many of your struggles 🤞😅
An INFJs reaction to the title pre-premiere:
> INFJs, just give up.
Yeah, I've tried the ultimate "giving up" multiple times. In retrospect I see, even in my deepest depression, Ni/Fe wouldn't let me fully "give up" because I know my family and friends would miss me and I don't want to hurt them even if it means I'm still hurting.
Still, looking forward to the video. Bad advice is always fun. ❤️
I already got similar bad advices :
_"Give up" Theses words give me frustration, can make me angry, make me feel bad mentally, and give me more determination and courage. When I am sure of something, and know I can do it. I will never give up, even if I know it will take time, patience and energy.
_Certains people think they are better, more intelligent, just because they are older than me and think they have lived more experiences than me in life.
But when you are born with a strong Ni, you know more things, many things better than most of people. With the feeling of having already seen and experienced everything.
_"Fit to society, be and do like everyone else" I know deeply I am not like all, fit to society = not be myself, put me in stress, and destroy myself. They wish my death XD
Be selfish, think to yourself, take care of yourself.
Selfish to an extent yes
13:08 totally agree ❤
I love this. Thank you for encouraging INFJ! ♡ 😁🔥🥰
Notification turned on
I already gave up, but I'll tune in lol.
When joyce meng acts her dark version, its actually quite scary. Lmao.
In the first place, we have to think about how to respond, not for 2 minutes, but overnight to give you what you are asking us to give you (that is ourselves). All questions are to us extraverted stimulation overload, whenever you ask them. We are slow and some of us suffer from brain fog. So writing is a better way to give you what you want. Truth is, I give you what you ask for with posts online but since it takes a page to give it to you, you don't read it, or you don't say you like it. We cannot give you what you ask for in a 3 sentence twitter reply.
Since I think in the abstract when I say what I am thinking in the abstract, others are too lazy to think about what I mean, so they accuse me of not knowing what I am talking about or claim I am contradicting myself. There are points of truth that can be understood in the abstract but how does one go about translating them into literal expressions for the people too lazy to think for themselves? So that puts others on a different wavelength than us, then we simply give up on talking to them, and they accuse us of being selfish and not sharing ourselves with them! As men and women are different, some effort has to be put into understanding each other. But that's about a 50/50 ratio. No one wants to take the time to understand the 1% - 3% INFJs. It's much easier to put them down and complain about them!
You spoke well about us being judged for what we suck at and it too often does result in a blow to our self-esteem, and our confidence.
If the sigma INFJ is good for anything, as "On Track" said, "it's pointing out and modifying faulty perspectives and improving immature attitudes." Though most of the time people think we are trolls when we attempt to do so! People want to be praised and complimented, but we point out their faulty perspectives. That never goes over too well! Is there a way or method to sell people their faulty perspectives without upsetting them?
These feel like ideas of reference for me : ). Joe, did you write this for me? Totally convicting.
i feel exposed...
but needed to hear it
[ :( ]
Lmao
11:53 If I were to summarize this video into one line, it's this quote.
Eye opening.
Don't be 2% watered down apple juice. Be 100% apple juice 🥤
be the concentrated apple juice 500%
Joyce has given us a window into her dark side. I want to know who is on Joyce's enemies list?
she'd never admit that there is a list!
@@GhostofJung It is INFPs
Off the cuff, this sounds like an INTJ’ s message for the INFJ to give up on the Ti info to help the people which I mean what would happen then but haha I’ll watch this so cool watching this much Ni coming from these beautiful people go INxJs gooooooo where are we going and what are we doing ahha. I’m in.
I'm disturbed at how short this comment was from you
@@GhostofJung be afraid be very afraid and I thought that I was too much ExxP haha. There will be more, there is always more ahah.
Ahem, can’t get this medieval picture of Joyce on a horse, full knight armor with a morning star exploding heads as she goes down the field. But, man that’s hard to shake. I feel like if these had been on the posters in my hs classroom walls that I might have become ridiculously cookie cutter successful. Luckily, the regular upbeat Be all That You Are was up in droves especially in Physics… that itself felt like a psychological test on us, but man the depth of sarcasm is real. Bring it on Ni bring it on my Ne ideas will blow them up into sparkle monsters, or something: you know new poster…. Change, change as much as you freakingly ( new word ;))can because it’s not working, none of it, all of this that is right here no….unless you are Joyce or another INFJ then you are a goddess which we should all be giving some sort of like fruit to, or something l. Get on that INTJ, promote the INFJ. Man, if we could all find you it would be even harder for your soulmate to find you since finding you is the point of your soulmate’s path. Stay you Joyce; Joe, no comment :).
Giving up is not an option 😉😜
That's the right attitude