I find politics really brings me down a lot. Especially as every single announcement from the Tories is like a declaration of how much worse life will get for all of us. I'm in a long distance relationship and their latest announcement about upping the threshold for earnings for immigrants has just made the possibility of us being together so much more difficult. I just can't wait for them to go away, I know Labour aren't much better, but honestly anything has got to be better than this.
hi jordan I just wanted to say I’m super burnt out right now with exams and I’ve been over consuming productivity content in an effort to make myself feel productive , and this video really took my mind off the stress in my life right now your personality has a natural mood booster
45:00 the band Weezer was accused of being an industry plant when they first came into the mainstream. People thought they were too talented, so OBVIOUSLY, they must be an industry plant. However, it’s been awhile since then and I can’t name any other men who were believed to be industry plants
I get a little down and demotivated after traveling, like having trouble getting back into the swing of regular life after vacation mode. Maybe your trip to the U.S. is affecting you more than you might think. Hope you feel more like yourself soon!
I have diagnosed adhd and I've been saying in therapy for years, as soon as the sun goes down my anxiety shows up. In February its Carnival here in brasil, and I was feeling so guilty for being at home at the same time I had no energy to go out, I started having panic attacks at night, it lasted for like..2 weeks, it was awful, I completely understand what you are saying, the guilt makes the anxiety so much worst. I'm doing so much better now, the meds really helps too, hope u can get this check out soon and finaly get some relief like I did ♥
when you go for the adhd assessment, please know that non-stimulant medication exists! (I've taken atomoxetine aka straterra for 2 years.) Stimulant meds are more profitable (for psychiatrists) because you have to visit more often since they are a controlled substance. They also have more shortages; something I never have to deal with non-stimulants. Wishing you the best!
Please talk about The Artist's Way! Also, I know it's just internet culture but don't feel like you owe us an explanation or disclaimer to every one of your decisions or feelings. Your feelings are valid
the whole thing with people accusing tate of being an industry plant has bothered me sooo much. like me and my best friend have not been listening to her since 2017 when she was still writing songs in her bedroom only for people to say thatttt!!! Especially since she's had so many songs going viral on tiktok in the past couple years like... people know her... I feel like everyone just likes to think the world revolves around them and if they personally don't know someone they HAVE to be an industry plant!1!1! In reality she's been doing music on her channel for a decade and as someone who's had an eye on her for a long bit of time i can say she's been growing quite organically (and well deserved imo!!) (also dear parents was MY SONGG when i was 13/14, like i gotta remember my dramatic renditions of it i did in the kitchen ahhh)
everything you said!!!! also i feel like the whole “industry plant” label is literally just an artist’s label doing the work they’re supposed to be doing? we’ve all heard absolute horror stories of artists not being allowed to release their music and not being given promotion or anything of the sort that is supposed to be the job of a record label and why artists sign the contracts- they have the money for the things that are able to push an artist’s career. when these mistreated artists become independent they’re championed, which gives me faith in humanity- but why do people call artists “industry plants” when the record label route is working for them? the music industry is still predatory and has faults, as well as having a lack of transparency when new artists do have industry backing but it still doesn’t make any sense to label anyone and everyone with that term!?!?
i didn't follow her on youtube but i remember when her, saygrace and audrey mika did a collab song and the 3 of them were the og 'singing in my bedroom' girls!! she even had some viral songs before that too so idk what everyone is on about like she's clearly been releasing music for a long time
And on top of that a lot of us American and Canadian dancers knew her from the dance competition circuit. She was VERY big in the dance world before making music. That was how I was already subscribed to her channel when I was in middle school and clicked on her first song "One Day" in 2017.
For the agony aunt, I totally agree. Don’t tell sister you don’t like her boyfriend. I would also question like…..what about him the family doesn’t like? If it’s just bc he cheated I don’t think that’s a reason to not want him around, but if there are bad vibes for some other reason id keep the side eye 😅 lowkey she might be inviting him everywhere bc she wants her big sis to get to know him and like him, especially if she hasn’t done that with previous partners
I agree so much, Misfits is an amazing show, especially the first two seasons. Witty, sometimes actually keeps you on the edge of your seat, generally great actors... Oh, and yeah depression sucks. It sounds incredibly trite, but focus on the things that make you happy(er) and keep social connections alive - neither is a magical cure but it certainly doesn't hurt.
your segment talking about destroying your hair bc you have low self esteem and being blonde is the only thing that makes you feel prettier and you can’t let it go was like sooooo targeted at me.. jordan it’s like you know me or something.
Still working on your backlog but had to listen to the most recent! Two things: just finished your episode on misogyny and also thank you for the book rec. I picked it up today and am already very interested. Such a good discussion and I felt all the emotions with you. Second, I'm 29 and honestly find Tate's music pretty good - had no idea ppl were hating! The songs I've liked the most are "feel like shit" and "she's all i wanna be." She just struck me as a talented person who got lucky off of YT. Lol just shows how out of the loop I am. 😅 anyway, lovely convo as always Jordan, love this podcast so much! ❤
have you tried properly getting into crocheting? absolutely love it for my adhd brain, just start with a headband cause it’s super easy and so so cute and u can wear it truuuust me you’ll feel the motivation
i feel you about the bored thing, i think its having too much choice of what to watch etc that if you have free time and there isn't something you really like to watch, like one of your videos, then you are just trying to find something and it feels like 2 hours later you havent watched anything.
If you have intense mood swings like that please be careful of taking stimulants, make sure you discuss your mood with your psych, it sounds like you might need a mood stabiliser before you start them I have suspected bipolar and taking adhd stimulants made me manic then rapidly cycle between moods (being really happy in the morning then later crying describes this perfectly) and end with a really bad depressive episode. Stress definitely doesn't help but usually that's what triggers it
i feel like “industry plant” is a hot buzzword that basically means nothing and doesn’t represent a concept that can actually be applied to anyone in real life. idk call me crazy
thinking its not seasonal because getting to wear different outfits is exciting even though you wanna curl up and go to bed as soon as its dark... gurl are you me?? lmfaooo
The Tate McRae being an industry plant thing is soooo annoying bc shes been a dance world it girl for YEARSSS
I find politics really brings me down a lot. Especially as every single announcement from the Tories is like a declaration of how much worse life will get for all of us. I'm in a long distance relationship and their latest announcement about upping the threshold for earnings for immigrants has just made the possibility of us being together so much more difficult. I just can't wait for them to go away, I know Labour aren't much better, but honestly anything has got to be better than this.
hi jordan I just wanted to say I’m super burnt out right now with exams and I’ve been over consuming productivity content in an effort to make myself feel productive , and this video really took my mind off the stress in my life right now
your personality has a natural mood booster
All my pop culture news gets filtered through you and a few others before it ever gets to me which is a huge service and I thank you.
45:00 the band Weezer was accused of being an industry plant when they first came into the mainstream. People thought they were too talented, so OBVIOUSLY, they must be an industry plant. However, it’s been awhile since then and I can’t name any other men who were believed to be industry plants
i understand what u mean about being bored. i recently started knitting again, it just occupies my hands and gives me something relaxing to do
I get a little down and demotivated after traveling, like having trouble getting back into the swing of regular life after vacation mode. Maybe your trip to the U.S. is affecting you more than you might think. Hope you feel more like yourself soon!
I have diagnosed adhd and I've been saying in therapy for years, as soon as the sun goes down my anxiety shows up. In February its Carnival here in brasil, and I was feeling so guilty for being at home at the same time I had no energy to go out, I started having panic attacks at night, it lasted for like..2 weeks, it was awful, I completely understand what you are saying, the guilt makes the anxiety so much worst. I'm doing so much better now, the meds really helps too, hope u can get this check out soon and finaly get some relief like I did ♥
ps: I have cried so many times out of boredom too 😂
The agony aunt update made me tear up I was so happy for them 🥹🥹🥹
when you go for the adhd assessment, please know that non-stimulant medication exists! (I've taken atomoxetine aka straterra for 2 years.) Stimulant meds are more profitable (for psychiatrists) because you have to visit more often since they are a controlled substance. They also have more shortages; something I never have to deal with non-stimulants. Wishing you the best!
This is a huge comment I was not aware. I'm on the waiting list for meds but have always felt anxious about taking stimulants
@@tapathune I'm so glad!
Yes! Super important, I am on non stimulant medication due to my anxiety. Best decision of my life :)
I had no idea this was an option!!
@@jazmine6587 yeah it’s mostly recommended for those with high levels of anxiety, and they’re overall safer!
Please talk about The Artist's Way! Also, I know it's just internet culture but don't feel like you owe us an explanation or disclaimer to every one of your decisions or feelings. Your feelings are valid
the whole thing with people accusing tate of being an industry plant has bothered me sooo much. like me and my best friend have not been listening to her since 2017 when she was still writing songs in her bedroom only for people to say thatttt!!! Especially since she's had so many songs going viral on tiktok in the past couple years like... people know her...
I feel like everyone just likes to think the world revolves around them and if they personally don't know someone they HAVE to be an industry plant!1!1!
In reality she's been doing music on her channel for a decade and as someone who's had an eye on her for a long bit of time i can say she's been growing quite organically (and well deserved imo!!)
(also dear parents was MY SONGG when i was 13/14, like i gotta remember my dramatic renditions of it i did in the kitchen ahhh)
everything you said!!!! also i feel like the whole “industry plant” label is literally just an artist’s label doing the work they’re supposed to be doing? we’ve all heard absolute horror stories of artists not being allowed to release their music and not being given promotion or anything of the sort that is supposed to be the job of a record label and why artists sign the contracts- they have the money for the things that are able to push an artist’s career. when these mistreated artists become independent they’re championed, which gives me faith in humanity- but why do people call artists “industry plants” when the record label route is working for them? the music industry is still predatory and has faults, as well as having a lack of transparency when new artists do have industry backing but it still doesn’t make any sense to label anyone and everyone with that term!?!?
@@ashblu3literallyyyy - label actually markets their artist and suddenly their an “industry plant”
i didn't follow her on youtube but i remember when her, saygrace and audrey mika did a collab song and the 3 of them were the og 'singing in my bedroom' girls!! she even had some viral songs before that too so idk what everyone is on about like she's clearly been releasing music for a long time
And on top of that a lot of us American and Canadian dancers knew her from the dance competition circuit. She was VERY big in the dance world before making music. That was how I was already subscribed to her channel when I was in middle school and clicked on her first song "One Day" in 2017.
For the agony aunt, I totally agree. Don’t tell sister you don’t like her boyfriend. I would also question like…..what about him the family doesn’t like? If it’s just bc he cheated I don’t think that’s a reason to not want him around, but if there are bad vibes for some other reason id keep the side eye 😅 lowkey she might be inviting him everywhere bc she wants her big sis to get to know him and like him, especially if she hasn’t done that with previous partners
I agree so much, Misfits is an amazing show, especially the first two seasons. Witty, sometimes actually keeps you on the edge of your seat, generally great actors...
Oh, and yeah depression sucks. It sounds incredibly trite, but focus on the things that make you happy(er) and keep social connections alive - neither is a magical cure but it certainly doesn't hurt.
i’ve known about her for like 5 years, she didn’t just pop out of nowhere😭
so glad you are back and hope you are feeling better :)
6:30 one of my fav drinks but i use lemonade as a mixer it is so good
your segment talking about destroying your hair bc you have low self esteem and being blonde is the only thing that makes you feel prettier and you can’t let it go was like sooooo targeted at me.. jordan it’s like you know me or something.
Live Love Laugh Jordan ❣️
you probably already know but "extreme" mood swings through the day are super common with adhd - similar to bpd x
Favourite podcast ever, Jordan your necklace is gorgeous in this video where is it from? xx
Thanks for being so open
Always love your podcasts 😊 excited to be listening, hope everyone is having a great day 💜
Still working on your backlog but had to listen to the most recent! Two things: just finished your episode on misogyny and also thank you for the book rec. I picked it up today and am already very interested. Such a good discussion and I felt all the emotions with you. Second, I'm 29 and honestly find Tate's music pretty good - had no idea ppl were hating! The songs I've liked the most are "feel like shit" and "she's all i wanna be." She just struck me as a talented person who got lucky off of YT. Lol just shows how out of the loop I am. 😅
anyway, lovely convo as always Jordan, love this podcast so much! ❤
have you tried properly getting into crocheting? absolutely love it for my adhd brain, just start with a headband cause it’s super easy and so so cute and u can wear it truuuust me you’ll feel the motivation
People said the Last Dinner Party were an industry plant. I think it's just something people say now if they want to try and bring an artist down.
This is saving me from winter lows
Great episode girly! The agony aunt catch-up 😭😭😭
tate mcrae is NOT an industry plant!!!
I don't think she's an industry plant I think she just got extremely lucky
that’s literally everyone in the industry
@@rumademedoit i mean....yes......if you're doing that broad of a generalization.... any person's success is attributed to luck. lolol
i feel you about the bored thing, i think its having too much choice of what to watch etc that if you have free time and there isn't something you really like to watch, like one of your videos, then you are just trying to find something and it feels like 2 hours later you havent watched anything.
If you have intense mood swings like that please be careful of taking stimulants, make sure you discuss your mood with your psych, it sounds like you might need a mood stabiliser before you start them
I have suspected bipolar and taking adhd stimulants made me manic then rapidly cycle between moods (being really happy in the morning then later crying describes this perfectly) and end with a really bad depressive episode. Stress definitely doesn't help but usually that's what triggers it
12:10 painful boredom is quintessential ADHD
tate mcrae is def not an industry plant… i’ve been listening to her since her first song, that was 2017, she definitely wasn’t famous yet
i feel like “industry plant” is a hot buzzword that basically means nothing and doesn’t represent a concept that can actually be applied to anyone in real life. idk call me crazy
thinking its not seasonal because getting to wear different outfits is exciting even though you wanna curl up and go to bed as soon as its dark... gurl are you me?? lmfaooo
Tats mcrae was a supporting act for panic and the discos last tour and I’d never heard of her
But she was amazing
The fact Tate performed in heaven 2 days ago💀 you're a fortune teller😂
Yes just was about to comment thi
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Hey bestie
46:01 pls block the sender!! gee whiz people are awful:(
In defence of Tate Mcrae, go listen to You by Troye Sivan, Tate and Regard and thank me later.
people calling Tate an industry plant but not Justin Beiber... is misogyny 🥱😴
tate mcrae is NOT an industry plant!!!