Passion8 4God thank you for the kind words. I appreciate you. I’m glad you found value in our discussion and honored to have earned your subscription 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Melissa, I'm not sure if you'll see this, but I really appreciate your "Just say it" campaign. A few days ago, I went to Dunkin Donuts and tried I new latté flavor. I started drinking it, and it was disgusting. I drove around for about 10 minutes wondering if I should take it back before I went back to the store. When I told the cashier she agreed that she hates that flavor too and gave me something different. You telling your story about you getting your nails done, made me realize that I've done that a lot in my life. Thank you for your transparency
This was an amazing convo for both singles and couples. While dating, in relationships, marriages, etc being emotionally naked is hard for a lot of us because we don’t want ppl to see our flaws, emotional nakedness (lol), scars, etc but that is the only way we grow, live in authenticity and truly connect to those we are meant to journey with! This convo was so needed and Dr D was great! 😊
This episode is touching me and I don't appreciate it. 😭😭😭😭😫😫😫😫 I just realized I've literally been trying to shadow my husband for years because I thought that's what I was supposed to do. And so when he would push me away to try and help me grow MYSELF, I saw it as rejection. But that's not what it was. He's been trying to help me find my own voice and push out the potential he sees in me that I couldn't see in myself. 😭😭😭😭
MELISSA!!! This has to be the most relatable episode for me. This whole episode is a direct reflection of what my fiance and I are going through.The emotional reactivity, feeling like one person is always to blame, feeling as though one's character is being attacked instead of being challenged to be better. ALL.THE.THINGS. Cannot wait to share and discuss with my partner!!! Oh and I definitely have to read more about this "underfunctioning/overfunctioning dynamic"
So Awesome to see Dr. Maria Dominguez. She is very professional and pleasant; we appreciate her in Missouri (Fort Leonard Wood, St. Robert, Waynesville etc).
Getting my kids out the house and the day started while listening to this podcast...thank you for the early release Very informative and i just want to say this podcast is perfect fir married and SINGLE people. I am a single mother and did not want to jump back in but i wanted to break the cycle of personal life and this show gives great insight into what i can do or change or things i thought i might have down. Thank you again
Me and my wife are recently married!!! But unfortunately I'm overseas and she's stateside (I'm in the Air Force). Your platform has been soooooo informative and interesting!!!! I'm truly thankful for the foresight that God has given you to give the people what they NEED rather than other senseless nonsense that holds no value. Looking forward to seeing your future success not only on this platform but in life in general. #GodBless
I feel like I need to start coming to these podcasts with a notebook and pen. Information filled session. Will have to listen again and take notes. Thanks much guys!
19:30 reminds me of the scripture where we don't war against people but against spirits.. I'm PARAPHRASING but Liss, thank you for putting us on to wonderful people with all the insight. ❤️
Kirstie M as a believer I have integrated a lot of scientific literature with the Bible. I haven’t considered this specific piece through that lens before. Thank you for sparking that thought. ✨
Melissa I have an almost identical sweater and my husband tried to come for me too! Called me Big Bird and everything lol. They just don't understand fashion.
This was EVERYTHING. As a single who has literal anxiety about the permanence of romantic relationship for fear of losing one's self, this continued the internal conversation of perspective. It literally gave me more language to explain, not just to romantic partners, but to family, because we can definitely lose me in we with them, as well. My problem now. There was so much more that could have been said because it becomes so layered, but you guys did an amazing job of condensing such a lush topic.
When Kevin was talking about white privilege, I think he was really talking about how some black men benefit from patriarchy, whether they are aware of it or not.
Internalizing scripts is really DEEP!!! We really have to define roles within the confines of our lives and relationships!!! Ahhhh.... I love what she said about learning to embrace who you are and what you bring to the table... annnnnndd, EVERYONE is better when we are all functioning as God designed us to function!!! AUTHENTICITY is the key!!!
Hi Kev and Lis! I really enjoyed this episode! And it's a such small world my dad was stationed in Honolulu as well, and my family was there from 92-95 on AMR!
Alright! I usually can laugh pass Kev's inappropriate jokes (because Melissa's reactions are priceless) but he gotta chill!!! lbvssss! What happened to keeping it clean!? lol
The hardest thing during & following recent relationship turmoil after taking steps to deal with my own additive behavior(s) & dynamics was Being Still. I couldn't continue to enable but I also couldn't pretend that I wasn't contributing to an ongoing role. God used that time to challenge me in doubling down on pushing myself in fitness & changing my diet. I went through a 60 day low carb challenge. While I didn't make it a permanent change (that can be unhealthy in the long run) I became much more sensitive to what & how I eat. That same discipline showed up in other areas of my life & the relationship later on. I recognize that I still am healing from things I grew up with, but that situation created the opportunity for me to examine my lifestyle habits rather than ask anything of him or restate my expectations. Right now, this larger world situation upended my stability in a way that triggered me deeply. Same opportunity. I got to take a fantastic money & emotions workshop before the lockdown. Not how I expected to use the info, but growth is growth. I cannot control him or the world, that's on God. I can continue to stride forward.
I'm using that Kev! Your wife has special rules because she's Jordan. Whatever applies to everyone else on the team isn't going to automatically apply to her... Yes! 🎯
I love the Love Hour and Mel is such an inspiration and also when she really in it I feel I'm in church and I'm rocking with everything the pastor says.
Wow! I wish I had listened to this much sooner. I am so much like Kev. This was an outstanding episode. I'm going to watch it again so I can take notes. ❤
There were so many great nuggets! Especially about having the talk with yourself first!! Wow!! I am definitely going to listen to again and take notes lol So glad you had Dr. D on!!
Wow this is exactly what I told Dr D after I listen to the podcast the first time. There was a lot of good information. Too bad they weren’t able to expand more on the topics. I am taking notes on some of the issues I found interesting or kind of felt like alcohol was disinfecting my wound to discuss with my therapist. Thanks Dr. D!
An hour into the video and I realize Melissa is using the desk she was talking about in the last episode. I feel so slow that it took me so long to realize lol
Enjoyed this and all episodes. Thank you all for educating and giving so much information. I am benefiting from every episodes. Side note Mr Kevin talked the whole episode lol
I wish Dr. D would have been able to speak her thoughts through completely. 😩 It was great hearing her, we need another love hour minus kev🤷🏽♀️ love you kev but you talk to much sometimes 🤣
I"m like that with massages - except the opposite way lol. I used to have trouble telling people there wasn't enough pressure... and then, I leave need ANOTHER MASSAGE hahahaha
Something to realize is that she has also received the feedback to talk less and be the host. They're constantly receiving conflicting feedback and just trying to do the best they can.
Lots of good content, but just gave us little samples maybe have her come back and expand on the information. Too much information crunched into the hour. Thanks for your insight DrDtheMFT.
Great, insightful episode....I love that you can almost see Melissa's mental erection peaking, (Kev's off the wall analogy, lol), when she can almost feel what is being said!!
Thank you for inviting me to have this important discussion. I had so much fun 😊
Can you do more videos on dynamics. I found your talk so informative yet healing.
You were awesome! We appreciate you
Awesome Dr. Maria Dominguez, this is such a blessing to me. Congratulations and many blessings.
Candy B thank you for the suggestion...this would be a great series topic...common relationship dynamics & how to get out or in them
Passion8 4God thank you for the kind words. I appreciate you. I’m glad you found value in our discussion and honored to have earned your subscription 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Melissa, I'm not sure if you'll see this, but I really appreciate your "Just say it" campaign. A few days ago, I went to Dunkin Donuts and tried I new latté flavor. I started drinking it, and it was disgusting. I drove around for about 10 minutes wondering if I should take it back before I went back to the store. When I told the cashier she agreed that she hates that flavor too and gave me something different. You telling your story about you getting your nails done, made me realize that I've done that a lot in my life. Thank you for your transparency
Good on u 🤗
Lissa's hair!!! My gawd😳🥰
This was an amazing convo for both singles and couples.
While dating, in relationships, marriages, etc being emotionally naked is hard for a lot of us because we don’t want ppl to see our flaws, emotional nakedness (lol), scars, etc but that is the only way we grow, live in authenticity and truly connect to those we are meant to journey with!
This convo was so needed and Dr D was great! 😊
Such a great convo I truly enjoyed it. Not alot of people are talking about this
The Thirty Journey beautiful summary ✨thank you ✨
This episode is touching me and I don't appreciate it. 😭😭😭😭😫😫😫😫
I just realized I've literally been trying to shadow my husband for years because I thought that's what I was supposed to do. And so when he would push me away to try and help me grow MYSELF, I saw it as rejection. But that's not what it was. He's been trying to help me find my own voice and push out the potential he sees in me that I couldn't see in myself. 😭😭😭😭
Shavavian Allister such a powerful insight ✨I commend you for exploring the discomfort and inviting it to reveal its message to you.
Shavavian Allister YES. That is a WORD 😭
Hit the nail on the head🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
IM IN THIS THANG EARLY!!! YA FEEL ME!? (Said in my Kevin onstage voice).😂🤣
Dr. D!!!!!! 🗣 YOU CALLED ME OUT!!! When she said, “when you’re trying not to be “naked” that much..” GIIIRRRLL!! #nakedandafraid
HelloMsSongbird 😆 the key is finding someone trustworthy to safely be naked with 💝
I said this on the live lol but I’m glad Liss is using her new table😊
everevolvingmama yes! Looks more comfortable!
“You mean to tell me I’m gaining weight cause I don’t eat right” 😂😂😂
MELISSA!!! This has to be the most relatable episode for me. This whole episode is a direct reflection of what my fiance and I are going
through.The emotional reactivity, feeling like one person is always to blame, feeling as though one's character is being attacked instead of being challenged to be better.
ALL.THE.THINGS. Cannot wait to share and discuss with my partner!!! Oh and I definitely have to read more about this "underfunctioning/overfunctioning dynamic"
“ you guys are older and have tattoos & stuff....the baby is still pure” LOL sir!
I just love when Kev says off the wall stuff.
“Kevin is out of line all the time” lol All the time
So Awesome to see Dr. Maria Dominguez. She is very professional and pleasant; we appreciate her in Missouri (Fort Leonard Wood, St. Robert, Waynesville etc).
Getting my kids out the house and the day started while listening to this podcast...thank you for the early release
Very informative and i just want to say this podcast is perfect fir married and SINGLE people. I am a single mother and did not want to jump back in but i wanted to break the cycle of personal life and this show gives great insight into what i can do or change or things i thought i might have down. Thank you again
43:35 thank you Dr. Dominguez!!👏🏼👏🏼
Me and my wife are recently married!!! But unfortunately I'm overseas and she's stateside (I'm in the Air Force). Your platform has been soooooo informative and interesting!!!! I'm truly thankful for the foresight that God has given you to give the people what they NEED rather than other senseless nonsense that holds no value. Looking forward to seeing your future success not only on this platform but in life in general. #GodBless
Love how Kev looks at Mel! He’s falling in love w Mel 2.0 more and more everyday! Yay! Love y’all. Thank you for the content.
Kev is soo head over hills in love with kev and i love it. He loving her growth
Melissa/Liss is her name. Mel is her sister.
S Russell Mel-lissa, also Mel. Kevin’s wife whom only you needed clarification for.
This, in my opinion, is arguably the best episode yet! Definitely in the top 3! So many nuggets packed in here.
I feel like I need to start coming to these podcasts with a notebook and pen. Information filled session. Will have to listen again and take notes. Thanks much guys!
This turned into a therapy session on camera.
19:30 reminds me of the scripture where we don't war against people but against spirits.. I'm PARAPHRASING but Liss, thank you for putting us on to wonderful people with all the insight. ❤️
Kirstie M as a believer I have integrated a lot of scientific literature with the Bible. I haven’t considered this specific piece through that lens before. Thank you for sparking that thought. ✨
@@DrDtheMFT , thank you for coming on the show, hitting us with good Deontay Wilder type gut punches, and making me feel scholarly just now. 🤗❤️👩🏽🏫
Melissa I have an almost identical sweater and my husband tried to come for me too! Called me Big Bird and everything lol. They just don't understand fashion.
This episode is GOLDEN!!!! 22 years into our marriage, and still learning. Thanks Kev, Liss, and Dr. D!!!
Sharnette Raye-Brown 🙏🏽
At work listening...THIS is my morning coffee
This was EVERYTHING. As a single who has literal anxiety about the permanence of romantic relationship for fear of losing one's self, this continued the internal conversation of perspective. It literally gave me more language to explain, not just to romantic partners, but to family, because we can definitely lose me in we with them, as well. My problem now. There was so much more that could have been said because it becomes so layered, but you guys did an amazing job of condensing such a lush topic.
Another awesome guest and discussion. Thanks for sharing on TH-cam!
This is really good. I’m glad the Lord is blessing you all with these awesome guests👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Her name is Melissa yall, Liss for short. 🤦🏿♀️ She has a sister who is named Mel (who has been mentioned in this very podcast lol) Liss. LISS!! 🥴🤣🤣
Jessica Williams 😂😂‼️‼️‼️
I watched this live but I had to come back and watch again. Man this was so good!
Wow!!! Thank you! I am so glad you found it valuable.
Melissa goes by Liss or Lissa. Mel is her sister. I keep getting confused reading comments because I’m like 🤔 Mel wasn’t in this video.
Ricki you are a true cousin!
Kevin please let us get the information....shhhhhh
If a lot of women would take that approach and teaching their men or take ownership of their own stuff and speaking up for themselves. Good episode.
When Kevin was talking about white privilege, I think he was really talking about how some black men benefit from patriarchy, whether they are aware of it or not.
Internalizing scripts is really DEEP!!! We really have to define roles within the confines of our lives and relationships!!! Ahhhh.... I love what she said about learning to embrace who you are and what you bring to the table... annnnnndd, EVERYONE is better when we are all functioning as God designed us to function!!! AUTHENTICITY is the key!!!
Such a beautiful summary! Thank you!
I’m here for this super early upload. It’s gonna be the perfect listen during my morning routine & commute❤️
Hi Kev and Lis! I really enjoyed this episode! And it's a such small world my dad was stationed in Honolulu as well, and my family was there from 92-95 on AMR!
Watching while getting ready for work 💕
I love yall. I promise
Nice table, Melissa.
Thank you for taking the time to create this channel. I love it ❤️ great episode
Alright! I usually can laugh pass Kev's inappropriate jokes (because Melissa's reactions are priceless) but he gotta chill!!! lbvssss! What happened to keeping it clean!? lol
This was one of the best I've seen so far! I was deep belly laughing throughout. And the advice was A1 and relatable. Thanks.
Omg!! This is sooo good and needed!!
The hardest thing during & following recent relationship turmoil after taking steps to deal with my own additive behavior(s) & dynamics was Being Still. I couldn't continue to enable but I also couldn't pretend that I wasn't contributing to an ongoing role. God used that time to challenge me in doubling down on pushing myself in fitness & changing my diet. I went through a 60 day low carb challenge. While I didn't make it a permanent change (that can be unhealthy in the long run) I became much more sensitive to what & how I eat. That same discipline showed up in other areas of my life & the relationship later on. I recognize that I still am healing from things I grew up with, but that situation created the opportunity for me to examine my lifestyle habits rather than ask anything of him or restate my expectations. Right now, this larger world situation upended my stability in a way that triggered me deeply. Same opportunity. I got to take a fantastic money & emotions workshop before the lockdown. Not how I expected to use the info, but growth is growth. I cannot control him or the world, that's on God. I can continue to stride forward.
I'm using that Kev! Your wife has special rules because she's Jordan. Whatever applies to everyone else on the team isn't going to automatically apply to her... Yes! 🎯
I love the Love Hour and Mel is such an inspiration and also when she really in it I feel I'm in church and I'm rocking with everything the pastor says.
Wow! I wish I had listened to this much sooner. I am so much like Kev. This was an outstanding episode. I'm going to watch it again so I can take notes. ❤
Melissa I’m glad you have a tray 😂😂 that is all
There were so many great nuggets! Especially about having the talk with yourself first!! Wow!!
I am definitely going to listen to again and take notes lol
So glad you had Dr. D on!!
Pchantel T thank you for the love & support 🤗 Im glad you found helpful takeaways.
Wow this is exactly what I told Dr D after I listen to the podcast the first time. There was a lot of good information. Too bad they weren’t able to expand more on the topics. I am taking notes on some of the issues I found interesting or kind of felt like alcohol was disinfecting my wound to discuss with my therapist. Thanks Dr. D!
Love all the guests and conversations on the show! You giys are great!
Bring Shan Boody on the show please!
This is such a great show. Fantastic information.
Swear Kevonstage is Nuts!!! This is So Good On So many Levels!!
I just love ya'll... and these faces are beat!!! Liss and the Doctor!! I was distracted 😅😅
I just recieved an ad email from Noom 😅 ...... weird algorithm
Amazing episode! Right on time ❤
God is good! I needed this one!
Thank you for dedicating yourselves to put these lessons out there!
I went to the same school. I lived in AMR too.
Great dialogue!
Know your principles and priorities
The Boohive!!!! You betta!
Melissa seems like an Enneagram 5. Loving that knowledge!!!
Come on Midwest. Shout out the Show me state!!
I’m only 20 mins in and I need to take a break to process all the info I’m learning
You all are truly doing fulfilling your purpose iam so grateful to have found y'all 🙌🏾🙏🏾💜💜
I'd love to hear more of what Dr. D had to say...
Thank you for the input of being a military spouse😊
Daaaanng yal stopped this super early lol Me in the bathroom washing my face 💯✊🏾
Lis your sweater is cute! Kev dont know what he talking about😂
An hour into the video and I realize Melissa is using the desk she was talking about in the last episode. I feel so slow that it took me so long to realize lol
Loved this!
Enjoyed this and all episodes. Thank you all for educating and giving so much information. I am benefiting from every episodes. Side note Mr Kevin talked the whole episode lol
I wish Dr. D would have been able to speak her thoughts through completely. 😩 It was great hearing her, we need another love hour minus kev🤷🏽♀️ love you kev but you talk to much sometimes 🤣
Liz for the win (outfit and makeup on amazing) AS PER USUAL
this is a good one
That "brrrrrrrrrrrrrr" goes to the Clipse song "What happened to that boy", not "How you do that there" from Master P. Lol
Did everyone hear that big growl/small growl that Kev did? Hilarious. Enriching conversation for personal growth.
Having trouble with book club and amazon links. Anyone else?
Morning boohive❤️❤️❤️
I"m like that with massages - except the opposite way lol. I used to have trouble telling people there wasn't enough pressure... and then, I leave need ANOTHER MASSAGE hahahaha
KEV LET YOUR WIFE HAVE THE FLOOR PLZ.,,BUT WE STILL LOVE TO HEAR U SOMETIMES, NO SHADE!
Lisa Tinsley He makes the show fun. I love when he’s on the show.
Something to realize is that she has also received the feedback to talk less and be the host. They're constantly receiving conflicting feedback and just trying to do the best they can.
Dr Dominguez is so fine. 😍
BigBoiBleu very beautiful
Kev you are always surprising me with your responses. Bussing nuts. We really and truly need to pray for Kev's wife. LoL
18th comment yay me good morning kev&liss. Love the lovehour 😍😍😍and I'm on patreon so I got yall.
DYNAMICS
So much pertinent information in this one!!
Dr. D sounds like Tony’s girlfriend.
Anyone know what name of theme song is. Who sings it?
Kimberly Davis Tobe Nwigwe Choose You
@@CousinChloe THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!
Kev you have to let the guest talk. I be trying to learn from the professional. You repeat the same thing from last week to this week.
I be saying...Bruh! Stop talking the whole time!
Kev it is time to see you to see your OWN therapist.. Its good for you and will eventually be good content for us
Kev and Lissa why are you guys talking bout you. Fine I can't out run myself. Thank you.
Lots of good content, but just gave us little samples maybe have her come back and expand on the information. Too much information crunched into the hour. Thanks for your insight DrDtheMFT.
There are some beautiful Black Queens in this world.
#havemercy
Up waiting lol
$6 per leg 😄😄
Great, insightful episode....I love that you can almost see Melissa's mental erection peaking, (Kev's off the wall analogy, lol), when she can almost feel what is being said!!
Guess is far from mic
Kev... stop with the inappropriate jokes PLEASE!!! Every guest doesn't feel comfortable with that
I'm just going to pray for the confused person who gave the thumbs down. How Sway?. lol
Can I come to your audio? Dr. Dominguez too low
Kev does seem to be deflecting through much of this meeting, esp when he goes off on these sex tangents.