My husband and I watch your videos and it helps us talk through difficult topics that would normally end in one of us shutting down. These videos have given us tools and resources to tools that help us communicate our feelings and what we are trying to actually say. We’ve grown so much. Thank you. We’ve paid a licensed marriage counselor but didn’t make nearly as much progress.
I keep trying to tell my husband to listen to them, because I am Liss and he is Kevin, and I feel like my explanations fly right over his head, but... yeah... I guess I'll just have to sit down with him and listen to it with him.
lilone11586 yes it took my husband a while, then after he finally watched he apologized for taking so long to watch. The book and podcast suggestions that Lis recommends is so good. That screaming in silence video really hit home. Hopefully he will watch with you.
Single parent listener. I listen to give me insight on what a healthy relationship looks like. Thank you for what y’all do... even though y’all are just living parts of your life on display.
I feel Kev @19:03, when I try to be mad at my wife and say i'm not gone touch her or let her touch me, it never last/never works. Even if she deserves me being upset with her. And it's crazy cause they can be mad FOR DAYS with no problem!
I can’t wait to see y’all on the tour. I’m single but listening to y’all has been such a blessing to me. Especially bc I grew up in the church with the stigmas and all. Love y’all ❤️
I think what you are doing is good because you don't just cover marriage, you show how you work on yourself. Even though this is about your marriage we learn how men and women view things and how that affect the other person. Thank you 👌👍🏽
i really needed to hear what Kevin said about washing dishes; i just had this conversation with my husband about my love language being acts of service and how him volunteering to iron the kid's clothes or taking out the trash without me asking means everything to me; never made the correlation from that to me initiating sex but it makes total sense; i definitely need to start looking at thing from his perspective
BJ I’m dying!!!!!! I caught on right away and poor Melissa was like huh Ahahahhah ahahhah then the Segway yo blew chew and she didn’t catch on I’m holllering!!!!!!!!
You two are incredibly brave for sharing your marriage journey! THANK YOU! This is type of content value that isn't often attained. I appreciate you so very much!
This podcast is very much needed especially for the African American community. I know you say you don't have the perfect marriage and no one does but being open to share and being volunerable with each other and your viewers is everything ❤️ Thank you Mr. And Mrs Kevonstage
You learn yourself day by day. I have changed sooooo much since I've been married - sex and otherwise!!!! I do not feel that I was stifled because I was a virgin when I got married, because I was willing to learn at the needed pace (lol). However, I'm constantly changing... and I appreciate that my husband and I can evolve together and take the time to understand the changes.
Kev: "This is why I think that some of the stuff that we do for the love hour is so important even if you are not married. The more you know about yourself the more prepared you are for a partner" Me: Exactly!!!!! I have been thinking that since I started watching. This podcast, for me, is a real and Godly example of a marriage but also great marriage prep!! I love that the commentary and tools come from research and experience, not just opinions. May God continue to bless your family, you have surely blessed me and my circle.
We equally share the "jump starting"!!! We cannot be mad long!!!! I am so grateful that we can't let tension linger!! I'm like Kev... it's super hard to remain mad. I explained it like this to my husband last night - we have such a dynamic flow that when one thing is off, not only can we not flow as a unit, but we cannot even flow/function individually. So, since we are so interconnected (by choice and intentionality), we absolutely cannot remain at odds without the potential impact of throwing everything else in our lives off. Sooooo, we opt to aim our hardest to achieve and maintain our flow!!! Sooo amazing!! #MomentumCycle
I can’t wait for part 2 of this discussion ! Love this podcast and all the topics that y’all discuss. I’ve been married for about 3 years but most of my friends aren’t married so I don’t get to have much dialogue about these topics.
I listen to a lot of your podcast and this by far gave me the most knowledge! I'm going to have my husband listen to this as well. Thanks you guys for all the information! Can't wait to listen to part 2.
this is my most favorite video of you guys. This explains a lot of what was going on in our marriage. I carried a lot of Guily for a lot of the things that happen. I learned that we were in a vicious cycle of broken. Thank you for sharing!!!
This was so informative! Accelerators and Brakes... Kev always cracks me up when he goes too far on the jokes 😂 I'm also a higher desire woman, but so so single so this vid really insightful. I must go listen to that book!
I just wanna say that at a bout 45:00 Lisa really impressed me I already love her point of view and the clarity she brings to things and at the moment she checked Kevin and acknowledged that they have a "wider audience"(meaning not all couples are heterosexual) I just really felt included in the coverage especially since I'm in a relationship that has all of these emotions intertwined and crossing over where it's not just male vs female it's female vs female with all the extras. idk I dunt usually comment but I really Kent slot having a successful black Christian couple that I look up to include that sentiment. love you guys I will stay loyal to the 95%
How young of kids are we talking? I wasn’t allowed to go to sleepovers & stuff until I was 10. My mom wanted me to be old enough to be able to voice if anything happened. So yeah I would let my 10 year old go. Bey & Jay got more security than a child’s school & summer camp combined. Idk maybe it’s cause I work at a daycare but I view my kids going with them the same as sending them to summer camp with strangers.
HAHAHAH... I think it's sooooo interesting when men (and women) think sex is only for the man!!! Like... what?!?!!? Where do they do thaaaaaaatttt!?!?!?! Let me tell you how grateful I am that I knew it was for MEEEE (and him lol) and that we tried to focus on learning each other!! Still learning... and it's fun lol
Okay, that explains the hugs. I didn't understand that ice breaker because that's not common in my background but I definitely will cherish the hugs more. Especially after COVID.
Oh my gosh, this is gold. I keep having to pause & consider, Oy! So many moments where we could do it differently. Hindsight & things. But I genuinely am feeling better than I did last Saturday reviewing trauma. 😅💜
I had to come back & say I (not having given birth yet) thought, hmm, Beyonce & Jay-Z with our kids for the summer? IDK, is it structured? Like mogul camp or something? Then I thought, Rihanna & Drake with our kids for the whole summer? Big deep breath. NO. And that's why we're maturing. 😅💜 I hope they never read this.
Agreed, Kev... you definitely have to speak for the two of you!! lol... it is beyond true that men and women can be so different!! I can definitely turn mine on and off, even if there is some tension going on lol. But, I do realize that I'm a rare case for most women.
Love both of you guys channel! I'm single but these discussions have enlighten me a lot! Love you guys and thanks for using your platform to speak to us! Blessings!
I'm definitely feelin Kev's word on this because I'm the same way. I just want to know that I am wanted. So I want my wife to initiate because it makes me feel like she wants me.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love when youu guys go on break. Y'all be having me dying laughing !! But thank youu soo much for sharing guyss ! Soo much beneficial information on this episode & I'm pretty sure Every single one ! I just have to catch up !! 🤗🤗🤗🖤💪🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I've been scared to try Third Love, but it's my birthdaaaaaaayyy, and I'm going to take the risk to try it out!!! (And, since I signed up, I got a $10 coupon today lol, but I'll take the 15% instead to support MY PEOPLE!!!)
Melissa is meeeeeeeee.... I'm like - why is he talking about BJ (the Sam's/Costco competitor lolol). I only caught it when he said, "if you have Blue Chew, you can have a BJ..." Lawd, have mercy!!!
Really odd topic. Liss I don’t know if you’ve seen the TH-cam couple getting flack for calling out their newborns dark complexion. You’ve hinted at your struggles with colorism before. I’d love an episode on that.
Thats a nice thought Kev but every spouse is NOT working to be a better partner. However when in Christ through prayer for personal patience and forgiveness that spouse that wasn't working or seeing their part in a problem transforms!!! #livedIt
I could not find "Come as You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life" on Audiable in the UK. Could you leave send me a link to the audio book please.
Yeeeesss, I realize that I am "abnormal" lolol... My husband and I are just about equal sexually - we may alter up and down every now and then (either of us going up or down), but I'm definitely light on the brakes and make his life easier hahahahaha
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My husband and I watch your videos and it helps us talk through difficult topics that would normally end in one of us shutting down. These videos have given us tools and resources to tools that help us communicate our feelings and what we are trying to actually say. We’ve grown so much. Thank you. We’ve paid a licensed marriage counselor but didn’t make nearly as much progress.
I keep trying to tell my husband to listen to them, because I am Liss and he is Kevin, and I feel like my explanations fly right over his head, but... yeah... I guess I'll just have to sit down with him and listen to it with him.
lilone11586 yes it took my husband a while, then after he finally watched he apologized for taking so long to watch. The book and podcast suggestions that Lis recommends is so good. That screaming in silence video really hit home. Hopefully he will watch with you.
I love the pastor and first lady pic in the background.
That would look great on the back of a book cover, too!
Seeing Lis blush when Kev gets all ratchet & carried away is soo funny 😆 She’s like chile I can’t 🤣🤣🤣
I be cracking up
It's so cute!
LIS! The way she started transitioning from BJ to Blue Chew cluelessly, lol.
😂
Single parent listener. I listen to give me insight on what a healthy relationship looks like. Thank you for what y’all do... even though y’all are just living parts of your life on display.
I feel Kev @19:03, when I try to be mad at my wife and say i'm not gone touch her or let her touch me, it never last/never works. Even if she deserves me being upset with her. And it's crazy cause they can be mad FOR DAYS with no problem!
I can’t wait to see y’all on the tour. I’m single but listening to y’all has been such a blessing to me. Especially bc I grew up in the church with the stigmas and all. Love y’all ❤️
Yes waiting for the singles conference lol
@@mizzpeach01 haha yes same here!
The fact that Melissa getting movies titles wrong 😂😂 😂
🤣🤣🤣
I think what you are doing is good because you don't just cover marriage, you show how you work on yourself. Even though this is about your marriage we learn how men and women view things and how that affect the other person. Thank you 👌👍🏽
i really needed to hear what Kevin said about washing dishes; i just had this conversation with my husband about my love language being acts of service and how him volunteering to iron the kid's clothes or taking out the trash without me asking means everything to me; never made the correlation from that to me initiating sex but it makes total sense; i definitely need to start looking at thing from his perspective
Update? 👀😂
BJ I’m dying!!!!!! I caught on right away and poor Melissa was like huh Ahahahhah ahahhah then the Segway yo blew chew and she didn’t catch on I’m holllering!!!!!!!!
I was right there along with Liss, had NO idea what he was talking about
Melissa you are an awesome teacher I'm single however I have learned so much from you and Kevin
Kev is teaching a word for the women. 🙌🏽
Thanks for not leaving us hanging. Congrats on Zay.
You two are incredibly brave for sharing your marriage journey! THANK YOU! This is type of content value that isn't often attained. I appreciate you so very much!
This podcast is very much needed especially for the African American community. I know you say you don't have the perfect marriage and no one does but being open to share and being volunerable with each other and your viewers is everything ❤️
Thank you Mr. And Mrs Kevonstage
I hollered when Ken said Lis be remixing movie titles!!!
I don’t think my mama has ever said a movie title correctly in all the years I have known her lol!
@@ktyler4045 lol!
Still I Rise 😂😂
You learn yourself day by day. I have changed sooooo much since I've been married - sex and otherwise!!!! I do not feel that I was stifled because I was a virgin when I got married, because I was willing to learn at the needed pace (lol). However, I'm constantly changing... and I appreciate that my husband and I can evolve together and take the time to understand the changes.
Awwww grandma Lis will be the cutest 😂 😂
Kev: "This is why I think that some of the stuff that we do for the love hour is so important even if you are not married. The more you know about yourself the more prepared you are for a partner"
Me: Exactly!!!!! I have been thinking that since I started watching. This podcast, for me, is a real and Godly example of a marriage but also great marriage prep!! I love that the commentary and tools come from research and experience, not just opinions. May God continue to bless your family, you have surely blessed me and my circle.
Life is given every single week. This is so good!!
We equally share the "jump starting"!!! We cannot be mad long!!!! I am so grateful that we can't let tension linger!! I'm like Kev... it's super hard to remain mad. I explained it like this to my husband last night - we have such a dynamic flow that when one thing is off, not only can we not flow as a unit, but we cannot even flow/function individually. So, since we are so interconnected (by choice and intentionality), we absolutely cannot remain at odds without the potential impact of throwing everything else in our lives off. Sooooo, we opt to aim our hardest to achieve and maintain our flow!!! Sooo amazing!!
#MomentumCycle
I came to more than few realization today. Thanks guys... love the show!
I thoroughly enjoy watching these, and I’m so glad they are on your channel, so I can comment♥️
I can’t wait for part 2 of this discussion ! Love this podcast and all the topics that y’all discuss. I’ve been married for about 3 years but most of my friends aren’t married so I don’t get to have much dialogue about these topics.
I listen to a lot of your podcast and this by far gave me the most knowledge! I'm going to have my husband listen to this as well. Thanks you guys for all the information! Can't wait to listen to part 2.
Rewatching because I’m missing the Love Hour. Kev’s baby face and stunning Mrs Lis❤
It amazes me how Melissa's mind never goes in the gutter but Kevin's always goes there!! Ohhhh BJ! 😂😂😂
Holiness is STILL right!!! 😂😂😂
Excellent episode, Melissa. Very helpful.
this is my most favorite video of you guys. This explains a lot of what was going on in our marriage. I carried a lot of Guily for a lot of the things that happen. I learned that we were in a vicious cycle of broken. Thank you for sharing!!!
This was so informative! Accelerators and Brakes... Kev always cracks me up when he goes too far on the jokes 😂 I'm also a higher desire woman, but so so single so this vid really insightful. I must go listen to that book!
Kev winking 🤣🤣 dead! I dont feel sexy winking either.
I just wanna say that at a bout 45:00 Lisa really impressed me I already love her point of view and the clarity she brings to things and at the moment she checked Kevin and acknowledged that they have a "wider audience"(meaning not all couples are heterosexual) I just really felt included in the coverage especially since I'm in a relationship that has all of these emotions intertwined and crossing over where it's not just male vs female it's female vs female with all the extras. idk I dunt usually comment but I really Kent slot having a successful black Christian couple that I look up to include that sentiment. love you guys I will stay loyal to the 95%
This episode is low key GOAT.
Wow this episode is amazing. Wish me luck I'm going too share this with my hubby
How young of kids are we talking? I wasn’t allowed to go to sleepovers & stuff until I was 10. My mom wanted me to be old enough to be able to voice if anything happened. So yeah I would let my 10 year old go. Bey & Jay got more security than a child’s school & summer camp combined. Idk maybe it’s cause I work at a daycare but I view my kids going with them the same as sending them to summer camp with strangers.
Can I say I love love y’all theme song. Find myself humming it during the day. Lol
#beatfire #spidermon #homegoing y'all I may have had a cocktail when I was listening and that whole movie mix up took me out 😂😂😂😂
HAHAHAH... I think it's sooooo interesting when men (and women) think sex is only for the man!!! Like... what?!?!!? Where do they do thaaaaaaatttt!?!?!?! Let me tell you how grateful I am that I knew it was for MEEEE (and him lol) and that we tried to focus on learning each other!!
Still learning... and it's fun lol
I miss this Melissa ❤, she was so gentle
Kev's face at 12:52 and your genuine look of confusion 🤣🤣🤣 I love you two for real
Okay, that explains the hugs. I didn't understand that ice breaker because that's not common in my background but I definitely will cherish the hugs more. Especially after COVID.
I still often need to get to a place where whatever happened isn't just raw. Like I need a moment or several.
Oh my gosh, this is gold. I keep having to pause & consider, Oy! So many moments where we could do it differently. Hindsight & things. But I genuinely am feeling better than I did last Saturday reviewing trauma. 😅💜
I had to come back & say I (not having given birth yet) thought, hmm, Beyonce & Jay-Z with our kids for the summer? IDK, is it structured? Like mogul camp or something? Then I thought, Rihanna & Drake with our kids for the whole summer? Big deep breath. NO. And that's why we're maturing. 😅💜 I hope they never read this.
Kev, You killed the segway to the bra plug from "nekidness" lol. Hysterical
Agreed, Kev... you definitely have to speak for the two of you!! lol... it is beyond true that men and women can be so different!! I can definitely turn mine on and off, even if there is some tension going on lol. But, I do realize that I'm a rare case for most women.
Melissa i love your look today. Your hairstyle works so well with your pretty eyes. Thank you guys for sharing
Thanks for doing this! I missed the first half of the Love Hour last year.
Another great one for the books👏🏾 I'm not married and I'm barely dating(not by choice) lol BUUT this podcast is always a good word🙌🏾❤
I love how Kev stares into the camera after saying something naughty, lol 😂... Yess you two are a blessing thanks to you both!!!
Ok, so when is the Love Hour workbook/study guide coming out?
gilroygal36 good idea!
I’m all caught up!! Yay🤗🤗🥰🥰
Kevin about to be in the mirror practicing that wink. Kevin should've asked "Does the winking emoji works?" Lol
You guys are amazing and completely relatable. Please keep the sessions coming!
I love watching you guys and that intro song is EVERYTHING!!!
Kev had me CRACKING UP multiple times throughout this episode, great job and great advice!
Love both of you guys channel! I'm single but these discussions have enlighten me a lot! Love you guys and thanks for using your platform to speak to us! Blessings!
Hahhhahhaha he said I saw your eyes gloss over🤣🤣 I just found you guys..and loving ya'll already
Welcome to the podcast 😊
Man Kev spot on I WANT TO FEEL WANTED !
I'm definitely feelin Kev's word on this because I'm the same way. I just want to know that I am wanted. So I want my wife to initiate because it makes me feel like she wants me.
KEVIN CRACKS ME UP WITH THOSE SUPER SMALL SIPS OF HIS WHATEVER HE IS DRINKING EVERY EPISODE HAHHAHA
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love when youu guys go on break. Y'all be having me dying laughing !! But thank youu soo much for sharing guyss ! Soo much beneficial information on this episode & I'm pretty sure Every single one ! I just have to catch up !! 🤗🤗🤗🖤💪🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Very nice episode...you spoke eloquently about relationship dynamics and male/female needs. 😍
I so enjoy your show i watch faithfully i learn so much thank you for teaching and encouraging others to excel in love with your partner. THANK YOU
Love the back ground
💖💖💖💖💖 always love the podcast
I've been scared to try Third Love, but it's my birthdaaaaaaayyy, and I'm going to take the risk to try it out!!! (And, since I signed up, I got a $10 coupon today lol, but I'll take the 15% instead to support MY PEOPLE!!!)
This is so needed! Thanks for always sharing.
Congratulations on another great Love Hour ❤️
Lis you look stunning. Hair laid and face beat.
Lol kev and his singing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Awesome as usual
We in here Kev. Married father of 3
Sounds like a great book!
Luv y’all and the growth 😎
Them prizes on thirdlove is a killer for a owrson from my country
Kev is going to be practicing his wink from here on out 😂😂😍😍
I LOVE LOVE LOVE the podcast, keep it up guys. Where can I get Lis's book club podcast? I need it in my life ASAP.
@MrskevOnStage I love your sweater!! Where can I get one?
Low key”Pirates of the Galaxy” sounds like a dope movie.
MrsKevonStage can you get on Kev and Doboy about getting the RR pack the codes for the tours, please!
It IS DEFINITELY a good thing UNTIL it is no longer a 'good thing'! LovYall Ase' Amen and Ase' Again 👑💛👑
Ase🌟
That or This with Kev and Liss
I mean we know what it is lol #thisorthat
Just ordered my Third Love bra... sooooo EXCITED!!! Let me see if I agree with Melissa!!! lol
love the show
Yayyy my favorite series on TH-cam aka The Love Hour is up! \o/
How do I join book club?
Melissa is meeeeeeeee.... I'm like - why is he talking about BJ (the Sam's/Costco competitor lolol). I only caught it when he said, "if you have Blue Chew, you can have a BJ..." Lawd, have mercy!!!
Lis can we get a tutorial on this look.
Yall help me I dont remember the name of the Netflix special! Can't find it skimming through! No time to rewatch!
Deona Flowers The Call to Courage by Brene Brown.
@@MrsKevOnStage you're amazing! Thanks! See u at the conference!
FACCCCCCCCTTTTTTTTTSSSSSSSSSSTA!!!! (45:42- Til end)
Really odd topic. Liss I don’t know if you’ve seen the TH-cam couple getting flack for calling out their newborns dark complexion. You’ve hinted at your struggles with colorism before. I’d love an episode on that.
Men want to be desired just like women, I can't wait for part dos #mexico
What is the title to that book that you are referring to?
Thats a nice thought Kev but every spouse is NOT working to be a better partner. However when in Christ through prayer for personal patience and forgiveness that spouse that wasn't working or seeing their part in a problem transforms!!! #livedIt
I could not find "Come as You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life" on Audiable in the UK. Could you leave send me a link to the audio book please.
Yeeeesss, I realize that I am "abnormal" lolol... My husband and I are just about equal sexually - we may alter up and down every now and then (either of us going up or down), but I'm definitely light on the brakes and make his life easier hahahahaha
What is that that Kev is drinking??! I want some of whatever it is 😂
LMoe 478 I’m always wondering the same thing lol
Starbucks Cold Brew Coffee. You can get it from the drink section in almost any grocery store.
What’s the name of the book?
Hey ya'll!!!! 😊❤
You guys r so dope👏🏽👏🏽 I hope I get to meet u one day @kevonstage