I allowed myself more vulnerability with my addict because I kept moving the bar that represented my comfort limit. Whether he noticed or didn't he carried on down his train wreck. Hes deliberately vague, lies, and in the end I found myself wondering who he even is. Now my boundary is not going budge for him.
Helpful video.thanks Michelle.i always keep thinking as to where did you get so much courage to continue living with an addictive partner.it seems really difficult.i found it practically impossible at times but when I think about your struggle it gives me the courage to continue fighting this battle.if it's possible you plz make a video on how to ignore your partner's wrongdoings for example his phone calls ,his going out with friends and all the things that gets us mad and sick.how can we divert our mind because it seems that apart from focussing on him our mind does not focus on anything else.
I want you to know that I decided to leave my alcoholic abusive bf. We were in the car he was a little intoxicated humiliated me at the restaurant and got so violent in the car. I looked at him and said no more ! As he cursed me out I just drove silently . He told me to grab my things back at his house and leave. And I did. I didn’t scream , make a show , tell him he will regret it. Just stayed silent. He was angry ! And I walked away. 5 days blocked and I list enter to you ! Didn’t fight back. I can’t no more
Your safety and well-being are so, so important. That is a huge and brave thing you've done. We're sending you so many supportive hugs. You've got this!! xoxo
A very good, really sincere video. You have a great voice that really resonated at a deep level with me Michelle.. It's about claiming back that love for yourself and for your own recovery. We are decent, respectable people and our love makes us that way. We have all spent far too much time on our addicted love ones. Let this be the first wonderful step in really loving ourselves again and truly enjoying life. Best Wishes Everybody. Xxx
I allowed myself more vulnerability with my addict because I kept moving the bar that represented my comfort limit. Whether he noticed or didn't he carried on down his train wreck. Hes deliberately vague, lies, and in the end I found myself wondering who he even is. Now my boundary is not going budge for him.
I wish I had known 30 years ago about vaugueness and omissions. I have applied this method and it does work as long as they aren't high at the momeny
Helpful video.thanks Michelle.i always keep thinking as to where did you get so much courage to continue living with an addictive partner.it seems really difficult.i found it practically impossible at times but when I think about your struggle it gives me the courage to continue fighting this battle.if it's possible you plz make a video on how to ignore your partner's wrongdoings for example his phone calls ,his going out with friends and all the things that gets us mad and sick.how can we divert our mind because it seems that apart from focussing on him our mind does not focus on anything else.
I want you to know that I decided to leave my alcoholic abusive bf. We were in the car he was a little intoxicated humiliated me at the restaurant and got so violent in the car. I looked at him and said no more ! As he cursed me out I just drove silently . He told me to grab my things back at his house and leave. And I did. I didn’t scream , make a show , tell him he will regret it. Just stayed silent. He was angry ! And I walked away. 5 days blocked and I list enter to you ! Didn’t fight back. I can’t no more
Your safety and well-being are so, so important. That is a huge and brave thing you've done. We're sending you so many supportive hugs. You've got this!! xoxo
Amen to all this! Thank you for posting!
Thank you for listening to it! xoxo
A very good, really sincere video. You have a great voice that really resonated at a deep level with me Michelle.. It's about claiming back that love for yourself and for your own recovery. We are decent, respectable people and our love makes us that way.
We have all spent far too much time on our addicted love ones.
Let this be the first wonderful step in really loving ourselves again and truly enjoying life.
Best Wishes Everybody.
Xxx
Thank you Michelle ❤
Great advice I am going to use this info. Thanks
Yay! We're so glad you found it helpful!
I'm with a liar as well.
Sounds like a good way to make him madder.