I make duaa that your podcast and book reaches our youth so we can change our bloodline. Insha Allah. You are certainly a warner straight from Allah. Allah be pleased with you. Insha Allah. Allah huma barik.
Jazaki Allahu Khair Sister Mona. This podcast is beyond valuable and I found it so helpful and transformative. Only Allah can truly reward you for this spiritual transformative service you're contributing to the Ummah ❤
This last podcast is soo helpful right now as we are getting all these news from Palestine 😥.May Allah help our Muslim brothers and sisters in Palestine 🤲
(50:53) omg if only people understood this on a deeper level how different our cultures would be. It reminds me of a quote that goes “Equal is everyone having the same thing. Fair is everyone getting what they NEED in order to be successful. Allah will always be fair but it won’t always feel equal.”
I know it's hard to look for positives in these dark situations but....The best thing about being involved with narcissists, is realizing that the only one who is consistent and doesn't change the goalposts arbitrarily and doesn't let down and doesn't lie and doesn't shame unjustly and doesn't manipulate etc. - is Allah SWT. I found Islam after I just couldn't deal my narcissistic mother anymore and was feeling so crazy. Bu as you grab to this "firmest handle" that is Islam, after some time with practice these people seem so small. And people who have dealt with narcissists have a good real picture of the dunya. They got a real taste of how treacherous this dunya is and it makes it easier to "divorce" from it and it's false promises and focus on our beautiful end goal.
(1:46:25) How do I know what my mission in life is, apart from our purpose in life of worshipping Allah? Is there a way to know it? I was engaged to a guy when I was 20 and he passed away in accidental drowning. Then I got married to my narcissistic husband who knew about my past. I'm in the midst of the divorce process with my narc husband, as his abuse only escalated after the birth of my son 2 years ago. I was married to him for about 6 years. Is there a way that I can know my mission and steer my life accordingly? Thank you. (It was only after reading your book and listening to your podcasts I was aware that I was a codependent all my life while I have been thinking that I was an empath)
i would love to see how to heal fight or flight mode and in islamic way of making feel yourself feel safe and duas and suras and physocoligical just all of that tools in box sorry for my english its bad i see😆
MashaAllah, good video. I agree with almost all the points you are making, however, when you say at around 1:08:50 that Allah SWT didn’t intend to keep Yunus a.s. in the belly of the whale, this is in opposition to what Allah SWT said in the Quran that had Yunus a.s. not prayed the prayer of distress at that time, He (Allah SWT) would’ve kept Yunus a.s. in the belly of the whale until the Day of Judgement. I just wanted to point out this error. However, outstanding work all around, sister. MashaAllah, May Allah SWT bless you and keep you on the straight path, Ameen.
Salaam sis yes I know, I meant that because he was a prophet of high moral excellence; Allah knew that his anger was just a result of his own weakness and frustrations with his people. Allah did not allow the whale to harm or destroy Yunus. He waited for Yunus to calm down and realise the error of his ways and released Him when he asked for forgiveness, which Allah knew he would, as no prophet held that level of satanic arrogance that would drag until the end of time. If Allah wanted the whale to destroy Yunus He could have made that happen, but He knew Yunus would repent before The Last Day and it was just a way for him to learn a lesson. So he would have just been stuck in the whale all that time to learn, as opposed to being killed by the whale as a consequence of arrogance. It’s only the arrogant oppressors whom Allah allows to be destroyed, such as Pharoah when Allah allowed the ocean to drown him after giving him so many chances to repent. That was the point I was trying to make. So, Allah keeps people in a certain difficult situation for a long time, not as a punishment, but until they learn an important lesson and repent 🙏
@@themuslimnarcissistbook Jazakillahu khairan for taking the time to reply. Alhamdulillah, Allāh SWT has allowed me to continue to gain knowledge about our beautiful deen, and i learned from other sources as well that you said is correct - that Allāh SWT kept Yunus a.s. in the belly of the whale not as a punishment, but as a way for him to cool down and realize where he was making a mistake. It was a beautiful thing for me when I learned that because this goes in accordance to what my soul believes to be true of Allāh, which is that, even in giving us consequences, Allāh SWT is loving to His servants. This made my heart all warm and fuzzy. Alhamdulillah. Jazakillahu khairan for the clarification. May Allāh SWT bless you. Ameen.
My sisters have daughters and sons who they faith Shame These kids are in elementary school and they tell the kids that God won’t love them if they don’t listen to their mom. I tell my sisters to stop talking like this cause it’ll make them hate religion, growing up and living in the west that’s very dangerous.
But my sister is, however, don’t let me intervene with raising the kids because they’re divorced both of them and they started to resentment so even though I’m their brother, they still see me as a man and thus don’t want me to help raise the kids
@@amarg7657 unfortunately narcissistic people don’t raise their kids well, even if they are damaging them mentally and spiritually they’re careless about it, but if they are doing it out of ignorance then podcast 39 will help a lot inshallah to open their eyes to the damage they could be causing them without knowing.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook i’ve sent them so many things, and both sisters dont like what I them I even try to be a male role model for their children since the dads aren’t around a lot but they refuse to let me take the kids out etc even my parents aren’t on my side I’m 28 in nursing school and I’m trying to be قوام but my family doesn’t allow me my father says don’t get involved with your sisters kids and my mom says the same even if I try to guide my nieces and nephews my sisters, tell me not to get involved but they allow my other sister to be an aunt, I understand they were through bad marriages, but just because I’m a man doesn’t mean they should hate me since they have a bad view on men
@@themuslimnarcissistbook i’m the youngest out of me and my three sisters and my family never takes me seriously even tho I’m trying to better myself in school I volunteer for the Muslim community in nyc I try to better myself religion wise but they even claim I have “wahbi” sheiks trust because those sheiks are empathetic and not narcissistic
I need to revisit this podcast every few months subhanAllah
I make duaa that your podcast and book reaches our youth so we can change our bloodline. Insha Allah. You are certainly a warner straight from Allah. Allah be pleased with you. Insha Allah. Allah huma barik.
Ameen thank you for your dua I appreciate it so much, may Allah bless you too xx
What you have and don't have is exactly what you need. Allah gives and takes what is best for you. . Alhamdülillah
I believe Allah answered my dua and i found your podcasts..May Allah keep us on the right path.
Ameen ♥️
@@themuslimnarcissistbookth-cam.com/video/EANsQMcEoDk/w-d-xo.htmlsi=bOXAmzfueUi6jr6F
Jazaki Allahu Khair Sister Mona. This podcast is beyond valuable and I found it so helpful and transformative. Only Allah can truly reward you for this spiritual transformative service you're contributing to the Ummah ❤
Alhamdulilah, thank you so much may Allah bless you x
This last podcast is soo helpful right now as we are getting all these news from Palestine 😥.May Allah help our Muslim brothers and sisters in Palestine 🤲
Ameen ♥️
Ameen
Ameen
True. Ameen. I'm so distressed by some people's apathy.
(50:53) omg if only people understood this on a deeper level how different our cultures would be. It reminds me of a quote that goes “Equal is everyone having the same thing. Fair is everyone getting what they NEED in order to be successful. Allah will always be fair but it won’t always feel equal.”
Such a hopeful podcast. Thank you. These podcasts are truly life changing. May Allah reward you Mona. You are a legend 👏🏼 ❤
May Allah bless you
So grateful for these videos. Looking forward to more ❤️
I know it's hard to look for positives in these dark situations but....The best thing about being involved with narcissists, is realizing that the only one who is consistent and doesn't change the goalposts arbitrarily and doesn't let down and doesn't lie and doesn't shame unjustly and doesn't manipulate etc. - is Allah SWT. I found Islam after I just couldn't deal my narcissistic mother anymore and was feeling so crazy. Bu as you grab to this "firmest handle" that is Islam, after some time with practice these people seem so small. And people who have dealt with narcissists have a good real picture of the dunya. They got a real taste of how treacherous this dunya is and it makes it easier to "divorce" from it and it's false promises and focus on our beautiful end goal.
Thank you for this video sister ❤.
I am so grateful 🙏 to you.
You’re most welcome ♥️
💯 get the book everyone
Amazing vedio🥰👑👑👑❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
Always helpful Jazakullah
(1:46:25) How do I know what my mission in life is, apart from our purpose in life of worshipping Allah? Is there a way to know it? I was engaged to a guy when I was 20 and he passed away in accidental drowning. Then I got married to my narcissistic husband who knew about my past. I'm in the midst of the divorce process with my narc husband, as his abuse only escalated after the birth of my son 2 years ago. I was married to him for about 6 years. Is there a way that I can know my mission and steer my life accordingly? Thank you.
(It was only after reading your book and listening to your podcasts I was aware that I was a codependent all my life while I have been thinking that I was an empath)
I’ll make a podcast about it inshallah soon x
@@themuslimnarcissistbook thank you. Waiting eagerly to listen to it❤️
i would love to see how to heal fight or flight mode and in islamic way of making feel yourself feel safe and duas and suras and physocoligical just all of that tools in box sorry for my english its bad i see😆
Please make one dedcated podcast who is codependet and how to find right hisband with no support
MashaAllah, good video. I agree with almost all the points you are making, however, when you say at around 1:08:50 that Allah SWT didn’t intend to keep Yunus a.s. in the belly of the whale, this is in opposition to what Allah SWT said in the Quran that had Yunus a.s. not prayed the prayer of distress at that time, He (Allah SWT) would’ve kept Yunus a.s. in the belly of the whale until the Day of Judgement. I just wanted to point out this error. However, outstanding work all around, sister. MashaAllah, May Allah SWT bless you and keep you on the straight path, Ameen.
Salaam sis yes I know, I meant that because he was a prophet of high moral excellence; Allah knew that his anger was just a result of his own weakness and frustrations with his people. Allah did not allow the whale to harm or destroy Yunus. He waited for Yunus to calm down and realise the error of his ways and released Him when he asked for forgiveness, which Allah knew he would, as no prophet held that level of satanic arrogance that would drag until the end of time. If Allah wanted the whale to destroy Yunus He could have made that happen, but He knew Yunus would repent before The Last Day and it was just a way for him to learn a lesson. So he would have just been stuck in the whale all that time to learn, as opposed to being killed by the whale as a consequence of arrogance. It’s only the arrogant oppressors whom Allah allows to be destroyed, such as Pharoah when Allah allowed the ocean to drown him after giving him so many chances to repent. That was the point I was trying to make. So, Allah keeps people in a certain difficult situation for a long time, not as a punishment, but until they learn an important lesson and repent 🙏
@@themuslimnarcissistbook Jazakillahu khairan for taking the time to reply. Alhamdulillah, Allāh SWT has allowed me to continue to gain knowledge about our beautiful deen, and i learned from other sources as well that you said is correct - that Allāh SWT kept Yunus a.s. in the belly of the whale not as a punishment, but as a way for him to cool down and realize where he was making a mistake. It was a beautiful thing for me when I learned that because this goes in accordance to what my soul believes to be true of Allāh, which is that, even in giving us consequences, Allāh SWT is loving to His servants. This made my heart all warm and fuzzy. Alhamdulillah. Jazakillahu khairan for the clarification. May Allāh SWT bless you. Ameen.
@@Ana-rb7ws you’re welcome ♥️ a good opinion of Allah is needed to get us through every hardship in life x
My sisters have daughters and sons who they faith Shame
These kids are in elementary school and they tell the kids that God won’t love them if they don’t listen to their mom. I tell my sisters to stop talking like this cause it’ll make them hate religion, growing up and living in the west that’s very dangerous.
But my sister is, however, don’t let me intervene with raising the kids because they’re divorced both of them and they started to resentment so even though I’m their brother, they still see me as a man and thus don’t want me to help raise the kids
Please send her podcast 39 about a problematic Islamic upbringing, it’s important she listens to it.
@@amarg7657 unfortunately narcissistic people don’t raise their kids well, even if they are damaging them mentally and spiritually they’re careless about it, but if they are doing it out of ignorance then podcast 39 will help a lot inshallah to open their eyes to the damage they could be causing them without knowing.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook i’ve sent them so many things, and both sisters dont like what I them I even try to be a male role model for their children since the dads aren’t around a lot but they refuse to let me take the kids out etc even my parents aren’t on my side I’m 28 in nursing school and I’m trying to be قوام but my family doesn’t allow me my father says don’t get involved with your sisters kids and my mom says the same even if I try to guide my nieces and nephews my sisters, tell me not to get involved but they allow my other sister to be an aunt, I understand they were through bad marriages, but just because I’m a man doesn’t mean they should hate me since they have a bad view on men
@@themuslimnarcissistbook i’m the youngest out of me and my three sisters and my family never takes me seriously even tho I’m trying to better myself in school I volunteer for the Muslim community in nyc I try to better myself religion wise but they even claim I have “wahbi” sheiks trust because those sheiks are empathetic and not narcissistic