86 | Q&A: A Deeper Dive in Understanding True Love

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  • @nafissadik2754
    @nafissadik2754 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I learnt how much I don't know of this world. I seek refuge in Allah.

  • @salaam429
    @salaam429 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for sharing this information with us. Your podcasts are very valuable!🫶🏼❤️

  • @RedBerrySky7
    @RedBerrySky7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thanks Dr Mona for sharing with us so much knowlegde.I learned from you not only about narcs but also got healed and you gava me deeper knowledge about islam as well may Allah reward you and always protect you!

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re welcome brother 😊 I’m so glad to know this, thank you for your dua. May Allah bless you ✨

  • @user-nhfdstgv
    @user-nhfdstgv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My Dear Sister, I am so happy to listen to you. May Allah reward you for your time and effords. May Allah give you the best company with endless true love. You are in my dua 💕

  • @Ina.Time2
    @Ina.Time2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mash'Allah sis may Allah rewad you Dr.Mona may Allah reward you tremendously 😊

  • @Fatimah12325
    @Fatimah12325 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Bismillah…
    Listening now
    Liked even before starting to listen to it
    14.6.2024
    23:28

  • @zebakhawaja
    @zebakhawaja 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love you Dr. Mona. You speak the truth from your open heart ❤️

  • @Rana-Abbas79
    @Rana-Abbas79 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You are absolutely amazing Dr. Mona I really loved this podcast. Listening to your new podcasts has become the highlight of my week! I get so excited when you drop one 😂
    I used to get upset at my husband when he wouldn’t express love in the same way romantic poets did and I used to think something was majorly wrong with him and that he wasn’t in love with me. I know now that it was because he expressed love in a more healthy way. This made me realise that so much of the poetry I listened to actually caused me issues in my marriage and how I saw him as a husband.
    Thank you a million times for this it’s going to help so many people. I truly love you for the sake of ALLAH 😍💖 I am praying for you so much today you have healed me and changed my life for the better in ways you don’t know. I listen to these with my husband now and it’s helped our marriage a lot Allahumma Barik 😊🌸🌹🌻

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you so much Rana ♥️🌹 I’m so glad they help and that you enjoy them alhamdulilah 😊 unfortunately toxic romantic poetry and books can definitely affect how you see a spouse, especially the inappropriate (erotic) ones that have a lot of sexual meanings behind them. A lot of ancient Arabian poetry was erotic too. Many women don’t feel loved or desired if their spouse doesn’t talk or act in the same way and it can cause an emotional crisis and depression from the disappointment. That’s why it’s not healthy to listen to so much of it (romance movies, books, music, poems) so that you can maintain normal and realistic expectations of people and so you can accept a good man or woman for who they are ♥️

  • @Rana-Abbas79
    @Rana-Abbas79 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I also wanted to say that I totally agree with what you said about a successful narcissist/empath relationship I have seen this too. These men don’t cheat like other narcissists because they are happy with a woman who has very strong boundaries and self value 💪🏼💪🏼

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely. They won’t risk losing the best gift they have because there is respect and they KNOW if they mess up in that way the empath won’t come back. Narcs only risk cheating on people they don’t respect and aren’t afraid to lose unfortunately and this is why I’ve said 1000 times if it happens to anyone, DO NOT answer their hoover when they come back and for the love of God don’t reach out to them telling them you miss them 🤢 let them lay and stay stuck with their own kind, that’s the best revenge 😎

  • @Drfaiza-h1z
    @Drfaiza-h1z 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Vary informative indeed...jazak Allah for your efforts..

  • @faezaalexander389
    @faezaalexander389 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for these podcasts. I've been making sense of my life listening to it. The back burner and ex's was a huge problem. I don't have access to my husband's phone and don't know if this is still happening. Although I live a good life I'm struggling with this issue that nearly ended in breaking up the marraige. How do I deal with.

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're so welcome! ♥️ please email me for 1-1 coaching

  • @Fatimah12325
    @Fatimah12325 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jazakillahu Khayran Ustadha Mona Dearest 🌹♥️ you been helping us a lot Masha Allah Alhamdulillah

  • @Hajarlovesislam
    @Hajarlovesislam 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jazaka Allahu Khayr sister Mona ❤

  • @shaistanaz6368
    @shaistanaz6368 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Brilliant podcast as usual could you please make a video about cptsd after narcissistic abuse and islamic perspective on it and tips how to cope with it thank you ❤

  • @steedofsouthasia
    @steedofsouthasia 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You spark an interest in me to watch beauty and the beast, I might watch it now.
    Eid Mubarak

  • @fredo2517
    @fredo2517 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant. JazakaAllah
    Where do we write down our questions?

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re welcome 😊 You can write them here in the comment section.

  • @rnsher123
    @rnsher123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much, Dr Mona. You are such a blessing from Allah. I am still figuring how to raise my children to not become like their man child-narc father. Is it still possible to raise my children to be mature empathic adults? My narc man child husband left. Tbh I feel it is better off without because it has been really hard dealing with a man child who doesnt work, doesnt want anything to do with anything but expect too much to be served.again, thank you❤

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re most welcome, jazaki Allah khair ♥️♥️♥️

  • @Rara-l3k
    @Rara-l3k 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Assalamu'alaykum, please make episodes about sons of a manchild who abandoned them at a very young ages. What happens to them inside and how to help them have clearer senses..Thank you❤

  • @Meemo44
    @Meemo44 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My ex husband’s vile back burner told her mother that she wished he had married her instead of me…Subhan’Allah
    Well, if she really did love him then she would have gone against her parents all those years ago and married him.
    Unfortunately, my family never liked him, but I still went ahead and married him, only to be reversed discarded after over 20 years.
    Please tell me that the back burners get what’s coming to them???
    Especially for doing the work of Iblees and destroying families (even though the Narcs help them in this devastation 😔)

    • @SayyadaR
      @SayyadaR 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Podcast 50 on her channel will maybe help you a lot in your healing process insha Allah🤲❤️ may Allah ease this process for you. Ameen

    • @Saroomran
      @Saroomran 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His sister, I got reverse discarded in 15 years. I get you. I just want justice for him abusing me & kids. I hope he realizes he's made a huge mistake and regrets losing me. I hope God increases his misery and jealousy.

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The back burner will always get what is on its way to her don’t you worry about that. Don’t hate the back burner, she did you a huge favour by taking out your garbage 🗑️ always remember the narc enables the back burner to do her work, it’s not entirely her fault. He gives her access to him to do her worst. If there is no access given, she is powerless.

  • @katerynayurchenko6217
    @katerynayurchenko6217 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    May Allah bless you for sharing your knowledge 🤍

  • @MadinaA-di3kh
    @MadinaA-di3kh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    JZK dr Mona please I have questions for you I do not longer have any feeling for the person that hurt me but at the same time I do not feel hate toward him either but I don’t want him in my life too. That’s normal? Never experience life like this before.

  • @SabelaMujevic
    @SabelaMujevic 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What is the experience that makes a man child change? Because they don't love women, they don't love mothers, they don't love children, they are not ambitious and they are not chasing their career, they don't care about anything in this world...what is it that can change them?

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is the subject of the next podcast to complete this one :) and then I’ll go onto speaking about narc friends.

    • @SabelaMujevic
      @SabelaMujevic 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you. 😊 I'm really looking forward to the next podcast😊

    • @pandanina
      @pandanina 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wish you the best luck brother, keep it up, you can do it. I‘m also on my way to heal and become a better person in shaa Allah. You just need to believe in Allah, that He wants the best for you, even if you were a Munafiq, it doesn‘t matter, Allah wants for us all the best, we just need to trust Him and embark on this journey, okay? You can do it

    • @SabelaMujevic
      @SabelaMujevic 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pandanina Thank you for your support, but I am female and I was married to a man child😊

    • @Firdouse3737
      @Firdouse3737 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My ex-husband is a man-child narc but he idolises his mother

  • @zebakhawaja
    @zebakhawaja 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Musa'lims are mostly narcissist. It's best to be happily single to have the wealth of freedom and love. 😊
    Alhumdulillah, I'm a loving but I'm tired of getting hurt and disrespectful men.

  • @Ramodest
    @Ramodest 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can sihr cause a man to be narcissist

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes but only if it happens overnight and he has a drastic and abnormal change of character. If a man has been narcissistic for years then it’s not black magic, it’s learned behaviour.

    • @Ramodest
      @Ramodest 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you

  • @sarahkhawaja9617
    @sarahkhawaja9617 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes I'm just so upset that o couldn't be Belle and save the beast. If I didn't have my own struggles of Codependency and lack of self respect, I'm sure I would've changed him right? Ex was a narc manchild.

    • @SabelaMujevic
      @SabelaMujevic 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sister, I understand you. Don't blame yourself. You don't need to be upset. You did your best, but he still didn't appreciate you. It is not your job to change anyone. Especially if that person doesn't want to change himself. The only One who can change their heart is Allah and the only thing you can do is make Dua for him and that's all.🙂
      And also The beast is the alpha male narcissist...and it does not apply to him as it does to a man child. Man child is hard to change...and he will never change because of a woman...

    • @themuslimnarcissistbook
      @themuslimnarcissistbook  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can’t change a man child even if you’re a high value woman. The man child self sabotages everything good in his life because he is extremely immature and has no long term vision.

  • @sarahkhawaja9617
    @sarahkhawaja9617 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd love to meet uncle ahmad 😂😂 for him to tolerate a cartoon 😅 find that so masculine now lol

  • @Ramodest
    @Ramodest 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "My narc" 🙃 🤮🤣🤭

  • @Ramodest
    @Ramodest 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes i feel that Allah is punishing some women for a sin they did by letting her marry a narcissist man.

  • @shafanatoufiq
    @shafanatoufiq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beauty and the beast is almost my entire childhood,i own that movie its mine !! 👑 😊 and i give you full marks for this beautiful example and interpretation 💎 proud of you MashAllah 👏 ❤❤❤