Allahouma barik you explained everything so well please keep doing what you’re doing. May Allah grant all your wishes and also make your channel bigger cuz you deserve it thank you so much💕
Thank you Dr.Mona, for making a lot of things clear to me. When people in my community say that the divorce rate is increasing nowadays, I never knew why. I never knew that it had to do with the level of nafs in people such as narcissists, co-dependents and empaths and the work of qareen together with a person's level of nafs..now I can see clearly why the divorce rates are increasing. And I have few questions 1. Allah has mentioned in the Quran about the 3 levels of nafs, a person could have. And the modern psychologists have grouped the people into narcissists, co-dependents and empaths. So my question is : Do all the people in the world fall under these 3 categories only or are there any other categories/sub-groups like high, mid and low range narcissists, co-dependents and empaths? 2. If Allah mentions three levels of nafs in the Quran, then these narcissists, co-dependents and empaths would have been there since the beginning of time. But why is the divorce rate increasing now only especially in this time and age? 3. The mission of Shaitan and Qareen is to destroy good Muslim people and it is understood by me through your podcasts Alhamdulillah. I suppose even the non-muslims have a Qareen assigned to them as well. In that sense, what is the mission of their Qareen when non-muslims already don't believe in Allah. 4. If non-muslims have 3 levels of nafs in them, is it possible that only the empaths category convert to Islam or do co-dependents and narcissists categories in non-muslims also truly convert to Islam in order to really worship Allah?
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, Sister Mona. I am relishing your podcasts one after another. The knowledge is so empowering! Just ordered your book. May Allah ta'ala reward you without hisaab for all your endeavours to bring more light into people's lives. Ameen. I'd like to know if a man-child can be actively involved in his business but is lazy in aspects of self growth, deen, children's lives etc. Jazaki Allahu khairan Your sister in faith.
Wsalaam thank you for your kind comment and dua I’m glad you’re enjoying them alhamdulilah and thank you for purchasing the book, may it be a source of light for you ♥️ In regards to your question, yes they do have a tendency to do better in their work than personal life, because they don’t have emotional ties to people there. You’ll learn more about this in podcast 82 inshallah.
هلا رحاب تقدري تترجمي الفديو لللغة العربية. Click on the video settings in the top right corner of the podcast and click on captions and then auto translate and then Arabic. Hope that helps :)
Thankfully I listened to this one before it got too late…is it possible for some low level empaths/co-dependents to be highly controlled by their qareen when they have just come out of a long term abusive marriage in the sense of falling for potential narc ‘rebounds’ for example?
@@themuslimnarcissistbookafter my past narcissistic abusive marriages, I took some time to heal and never rushed right away, some took 2 and some 4 yrs to start a new relationship but I never started one due to feeling of loneliness, more like because my parents said i needee to remarry but many victims will jump right now onto a new relationship and this is not healthy for us.... healing takes courage and also self-love. ❤❤❤I appreciate your channel as it has been such a tremendous healing channel for me. May Allah grant you Jannah dear Sister ❤❤❤
Yes that can happen, as the empath who is with a narc is addressing her childhood wounds by unconsciously being a mother to him and sometimes she will act like a child as well when he triggers any wounds that remind her of not being important or seen.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook Thank you but aside from childhood wounds that could be triggered inside the relationship with the narc, could the man-child narc parent the empath? As in play mother while also parentifying the victim? I ask because in my experience, when I left, it felt like mother abandoning child but also child abandoned by mother. (He turned his back to me so I turned my back to him). Though in reality, I never felt abandoned by my own mother. Thank you Dr. Mona.
@@sireensmyth He turned his back to you because he doesn’t want to be held accountable for anything. When they turn their back they want you to chase and tell them everything will be OK. When you don’t chase, you won’t hear from them again. These people need enablers and will just run to another parent who will give them unconditional love. These people cannot parent the empath. Parenting means you take on responsibilities and they hate that.
Surah Munafiqoon verses 4. give a perfect discription of Narcissists.I read Mifti Taqi Usmani English translation of a Quran.He is top Muslim scholar in the world.Every Muslim scolar around the world visit him agree with him. Verses 4.And when you see them, their forms please you, and if they speak, you listen to their speech. [They are] as if they were pieces of wood propped up - they think that every shout is against them. They are the enemy, so beware of them. May Allah destroy them; how are they deluded?
Your right, I was displaying myself immodesty due to how far I was from the deen. And I recognize it was shaytaan hallmark tricks and traps. Like forbidden tree. To follow your desires till it humiliates you and among other major sins, lying and seducing. Indeed Allah forgiving of sins. To cover yourself is dignified, but to uncover is to humiliate yourself which shaytaan has made it the lustfully imagery, the image you attract. Beauty of adornment shown publicly, and shame being removed completely. I was intoxicated with my sins that I didn’t realize the wrong till my shame was removed I realized, like drunk person. People also attack and accuse people they may not be guilty of, and leave to Allah. Especially when they attack you and label you every immoral thing underneath the sun. I agree with the guilty sins and judgment but to lie and attack with every bad name in the world is cruel and extreme and with such cruelty one would act in defense. They lie about someone so much, they make up things. How can a Muslim person follow immorality acts such as homosexuality. Satan tried to teach this and front row seat for destructive and immoral as respect and dignity for them. Wallahi he tried to preach this and he is the leading it. He shows up when he needs to preach his immortality to his people and society. He shows up and delivers and questioned and even goes further to make sure this accepted and ally of such destructive practices in order to strip people dignity and morality from them. It’s Satan flithy project he pitches from LSS homeless shelter. He is the their leader and teacher and he commands them immorality and wrongdoing. I realized Satan tactics is to isolate his victims, isolation and I didn’t realize I would use Adam as detection of Satan presence. The masjid has been my second home. Narcissistic employ isolation to harm their victim. Attacking his victims to isolate them from society but pushing me towards masjid a home of Allah. He just backfired his every move, isolate me world matters job lfor example, pressuring me towards to stay at masjid. Employing flying monkeys and agents to ensure his massive threat and danger he present himself. In reality, he very cowardly.
What is the solution some tyms people look good, cnt tlk good still lure in...? U told If u dun likr look luks but go fr their charming words evn. Thn leave....so my question is both way its samw hoq to find right man empath?
Salam alaikum sister. May Allah reward you for your efforts. When you say shaitan tricked Adem AS. with promising him power, I think this might be possible for the average human but he as a prophet wouldnt be after power. From what I know he tricked him by saying it would grant him eternal jannah. We may mix up things and interpret it in another way when viewing it from a certain perspective/special topic like narcissism. Inshaallah let us be precise about tafseer. May Allah bless you and protect you
Wsalaam, thank you for your comment. Adam (as) wasn't a prophet at that time nor assigned with a mission there. He didn't know that planet earth existed then. He only knew of Paradise and nowhere else, and everyone in Paradise lives eternally, so that's not what Adam (as) was inspired by. He was inspired to reach a higher rank of power and authority (like the angels) form the whisperings of Iblis. Please note that when I teach, I don't teach from my own opinions and I am careful with my Islamic knowledge. Barak Allah feek.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook jazakallah khair for your response and not getting me wrong sister. Just explaining where I came from: even though he was not a prophet then I thought he still would have the characteristics of a prophet. I understand in that way that he knows only paradise but shaitan whispered him that fear of not being there eternally. But this is beyond my knowledge Allahu alem. I appreciate all the work you do sister love you for the sake of Allah
May Allah bless you. How our qarin ruins us. Ya Allah prorext us from this qareen jinn. I seek refuge in you.
always end up shocked, u always describe my situations one way or another . Alhamdulilah for everything!!
I am obsessed with this channel 😂 and I bought your book just to support you! May Allah swt bless you Dr. Mona!!!
@@discoveringclouds6198 ♥️♥️♥️ thank you x
Allahouma barik you explained everything so well please keep doing what you’re doing. May Allah grant all your wishes and also make your channel bigger cuz you deserve it thank you so much💕
You’re most welcome :)
Please upload more videos I learned so much from your videos.
Thank you Dr.Mona, for making a lot of things clear to me. When people in my community say that the divorce rate is increasing nowadays, I never knew why. I never knew that it had to do with the level of nafs in people such as narcissists, co-dependents and empaths and the work of qareen together with a person's level of nafs..now I can see clearly why the divorce rates are increasing. And I have few questions
1. Allah has mentioned in the Quran about the 3 levels of nafs, a person could have. And the modern psychologists have grouped the people into narcissists, co-dependents and empaths. So my question is : Do all the people in the world fall under these 3 categories only or are there any other categories/sub-groups like high, mid and low range narcissists, co-dependents and empaths?
2. If Allah mentions three levels of nafs in the Quran, then these narcissists, co-dependents and empaths would have been there since the beginning of time. But why is the divorce rate increasing now only especially in this time and age?
3. The mission of Shaitan and Qareen is to destroy good Muslim people and it is understood by me through your podcasts Alhamdulillah. I suppose even the non-muslims have a Qareen assigned to them as well. In that sense, what is the mission of their Qareen when non-muslims already don't believe in Allah.
4. If non-muslims have 3 levels of nafs in them, is it possible that only the empaths category convert to Islam or do co-dependents and narcissists categories in non-muslims also truly convert to Islam in order to really worship Allah?
I would be interested in that as well
Highly recommended 💯
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, Sister Mona. I am relishing your podcasts one after another. The knowledge is so empowering! Just ordered your book. May Allah ta'ala reward you without hisaab for all your endeavours to bring more light into people's lives. Ameen.
I'd like to know if a man-child can be actively involved in his business but is lazy in aspects of self growth, deen, children's lives etc.
Jazaki Allahu khairan
Your sister in faith.
Wsalaam thank you for your kind comment and dua I’m glad you’re enjoying them alhamdulilah and thank you for purchasing the book, may it be a source of light for you ♥️
In regards to your question, yes they do have a tendency to do better in their work than personal life, because they don’t have emotional ties to people there. You’ll learn more about this in podcast 82 inshallah.
جزاكي الله كل خير ❤
Amazing
MashaAllah Allahouma Barik
thank you so much!
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته ❤❤❤
ماشاء الله تبارك الله 🌹🌹🌹
جزاكم الله خيرا 💗💋
May Allah bless you with more wisdom and keep you in Aafiyah 👑🎀🌟
We are being prepared for the greatest narcissist the dajjal to emerge
ياريت تترجمي بالعابي كمان
جزاكي الله كل خير
هلا رحاب تقدري تترجمي الفديو لللغة العربية.
Click on the video settings in the top right corner of the podcast and click on captions and then auto translate and then Arabic. Hope that helps :)
41:06 😢😢😢
The rose tinted glasses - the movie They Live 😂
Thankfully I listened to this one before it got too late…is it possible for some low level empaths/co-dependents to be highly controlled by their qareen when they have just come out of a long term abusive marriage in the sense of falling for potential narc ‘rebounds’ for example?
Absolutely. The Qareen wants you to quickly jump into a relationship with a narc who is a lot worse out of loneliness.
@@themuslimnarcissistbookafter my past narcissistic abusive marriages, I took some time to heal and never rushed right away, some took 2 and some 4 yrs to start a new relationship but I never started one due to feeling of loneliness, more like because my parents said i needee to remarry but many victims will jump right now onto a new relationship and this is not healthy for us.... healing takes courage and also self-love. ❤❤❤I appreciate your channel as it has been such a tremendous healing channel for me. May Allah grant you Jannah dear Sister ❤❤❤
@@nialeilakande ♥️♥️♥️
Very interesting dynamic.. Is dual mothership possible between narc and empath? Like can an empath also regress to childhood while being mother ?
Yes that can happen, as the empath who is with a narc is addressing her childhood wounds by unconsciously being a mother to him and sometimes she will act like a child as well when he triggers any wounds that remind her of not being important or seen.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook Thank you but aside from childhood wounds that could be triggered inside the relationship with the narc, could the man-child narc parent the empath? As in play mother while also parentifying the victim? I ask because in my experience, when I left, it felt like mother abandoning child but also child abandoned by mother. (He turned his back to me so I turned my back to him). Though in reality, I never felt abandoned by my own mother. Thank you Dr. Mona.
@@sireensmyth He turned his back to you because he doesn’t want to be held accountable for anything. When they turn their back they want you to chase and tell them everything will be OK. When you don’t chase, you won’t hear from them again. These people need enablers and will just run to another parent who will give them unconditional love. These people cannot parent the empath. Parenting means you take on responsibilities and they hate that.
When you say qareen do you mean actual jinn or its just the qareen thats with every other person.
The qareen that is assigned to every person is an evil jinn you cannot see. You can only hear him/her in your negative thoughts.
Surah Munafiqoon verses 4. give a perfect discription of Narcissists.I read Mifti Taqi Usmani English translation of a Quran.He is top Muslim scholar in the world.Every Muslim scolar around the world visit him agree with him.
Verses 4.And when you see them, their forms please you, and if they speak, you listen to their speech. [They are] as if they were pieces of wood propped up - they think that every shout is against them. They are the enemy, so beware of them. May Allah destroy them; how are they deluded?
Verses 4..They think that every shout is against them(yes research says.Narcissist are paranoid they think the world plotting against them..
Your right, I was displaying myself immodesty due to how far I was from the deen. And I recognize it was shaytaan hallmark tricks and traps. Like forbidden tree. To follow your desires till it humiliates you and among other major sins, lying and seducing. Indeed Allah forgiving of sins. To cover yourself is dignified, but to uncover is to humiliate yourself which shaytaan has made it the lustfully imagery, the image you attract. Beauty of adornment shown publicly, and shame being removed completely. I was intoxicated with my sins that I didn’t realize the wrong till my shame was removed I realized, like drunk person. People also attack and accuse people they may not be guilty of, and leave to Allah. Especially when they attack you and label you every immoral thing underneath the sun. I agree with the guilty sins and judgment but to lie and attack with every bad name in the world is cruel and extreme and with such cruelty one would act in defense. They lie about someone so much, they make up things. How can a Muslim person follow immorality acts such as homosexuality. Satan tried to teach this and front row seat for destructive and immoral as respect and dignity for them. Wallahi he tried to preach this and he is the leading it. He shows up when he needs to preach his immortality to his people and society. He shows up and delivers and questioned and even goes further to make sure this accepted and ally of such destructive practices in order to strip people dignity and morality from them. It’s Satan flithy project he pitches from LSS homeless shelter. He is the their leader and teacher and he commands them immorality and wrongdoing. I realized Satan tactics is to isolate his victims, isolation and I didn’t realize I would use Adam as detection of Satan presence. The masjid has been my second home. Narcissistic employ isolation to harm their victim. Attacking his victims to isolate them from society but pushing me towards masjid a home of Allah. He just backfired his every move, isolate me world matters job lfor example, pressuring me towards to stay at masjid. Employing flying monkeys and agents to ensure his massive threat and danger he present himself. In reality, he very cowardly.
What is the solution some tyms people look good, cnt tlk good still lure in...? U told
If u dun likr look luks but go fr their charming words evn. Thn leave....so my question is both way its samw hoq to find right man empath?
هل فيه عربي
Salam alaikum sister. May Allah reward you for your efforts. When you say shaitan tricked Adem AS. with promising him power, I think this might be possible for the average human but he as a prophet wouldnt be after power. From what I know he tricked him by saying it would grant him eternal jannah. We may mix up things and interpret it in another way when viewing it from a certain perspective/special topic like narcissism. Inshaallah let us be precise about tafseer. May Allah bless you and protect you
Wsalaam, thank you for your comment. Adam (as) wasn't a prophet at that time nor assigned with a mission there. He didn't know that planet earth existed then. He only knew of Paradise and nowhere else, and everyone in Paradise lives eternally, so that's not what Adam (as) was inspired by. He was inspired to reach a higher rank of power and authority (like the angels) form the whisperings of Iblis. Please note that when I teach, I don't teach from my own opinions and I am careful with my Islamic knowledge. Barak Allah feek.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook jazakallah khair for your response and not getting me wrong sister. Just explaining where I came from: even though he was not a prophet then I thought he still would have the characteristics of a prophet. I understand in that way that he knows only paradise but shaitan whispered him that fear of not being there eternally. But this is beyond my knowledge Allahu alem. I appreciate all the work you do sister love you for the sake of Allah
@@someone-bt5lu you’re welcome :)
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