Subhan Allah the day I listened to this podcast for the first time my narcissistic husband got the police called on him for yelling at me in a public place.. I pray that Allah facilitates my exit please pray for me and my son .. thanks Dr. Mona
Subhaan Allah you are so right …. I begged Allah to open a way for me . My ex was sentenced to 12 years prison . My dua was Allah take him to a place so far away that I can’t see him and he can’t see me . Dua answered ! Allah is truly merciful. جزاك الله خيرا Dr Mona 😊
If you're reading this in Ramadan please make dua for me for Allah to send in His rescue team asap and get me out of this oppressive situation before it does me any more harm. Ya Rab, I seek refuge in You from bad fate, bad people, bad destiny and Your wrath. And I ask from You a life that reflects Your forgiveness, mercy, miracles, healing, sovereignty, bounty, love, goodness truth, and beauty.🤲🤲🤲🕊️🕊️🕊️✨✨✨
My narc husband was recently amputed- diabetes, and lost his job. This hasn't humbled him at all. On the contrary, he's become more arrogant, more demanding of respect, honour, service, love, and my time. His desire for total control of our lives is now topnotch. His abuse is getting worse and living with him is becoming more difficult for the kids and I. We're in a constant state of fear, anxiety and unrest. But because of his current health condition, I'm finding it difficult to go through with my decisio 9:00 n to finally leave him. I'm desperately in need of Allah's help.
I heard previously in your podcasts telling us to be carefull of ruqya practitioners,i went to a homeopathic medicine practitioner for treating gallbladder stones and with the medicine he insisted to do ruqya,your voice came in my head BE CAREFUL OF RUQYA PRACTITIONERS!! and while he was doing ruqya i started doing tasbeeh in my heart inside my veil,he asked me out of nowhere that what is the dhikr that you reicte so much as if it blocked his evil intentions..Allah ho Akbar we never went back to him again n threw that medicine as well..Allah made you a waseela for saving us in so many places...جزاك الله خيرا 🌹🌹🌹💗
Yes, I always tell people to say their athkars before going for ruqyah, because if they use the jinn, they won’t be able to access you to harm you and if they don’t, the athkars won’t block them and they can help you :)
This podcast is worth listening repeatedly...may Allah keep you in Aafiyah ❤❤❤❤ وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته ماشاء الله تبارك الله 🌷⚘🌹🌺🌻🌸💐💗💗💗 جزاك الله خيرا كثيرا والحسن الجزاء في دنيا والآخرة
Subhanallah , Dr Mona. You and your channel are a God sent ! I’m new to your channel and saw your video on why God allowed you to marry a narcissist.. it came up in my Algorithm as though it was a consolation for me from Allah that the step I took to save myself from a 20 years abusive marriage was the right decision ! As I listened to your content , I was absolutely shocked at how accurate and precise everything you said was and reflected what I’d been through ! I thank Allah for my latest discovery of your channel and I pray you are blessed with good health and may you continue to succeed with voicing out the facts of the world of narcissists so that many may be rescued from abusive relationships!Barakallahu feeki , Allah bless you always aameen ! ❤
Thank you ♥️ alhamdulilah! Yes that’s why I believe there are LOTS of narcs on this channel who are listening and won’t ever hit that like button 😄 The numbers really show that. So much more content to come inshallah!
I never believed that my mom could be a liar until she started forgetting every lie she said to manipulate me....then she hated me more and said i have an extremely sharp memory wheras to according to her i was a certified under achiever in academics all my life..
Dear Dr Mona, you helped to bring back my iman.. for many years I’ve been struggling in marriage and my iman became very low due to the religious manipulations to justify different kinds of mistreatment. I was so disappointed in Islam and Muslims that I thought that I’m maybe on wrong path and why have I even revert if it’s that bad and misogynistic. Alhamdulillah you encouraged me to have a hope and strength to keep going through the difficult situation I’m in ❤
I'm so confused between whether the man I was with was an empath or narcissist or am I narcissist, empath ,or co dependent.. clearly he wasn't a co dependent
Oh my God .i went to the mosque and prayed to Allah to fix my life with tears falling from my eyes the moment i went back home to my husband he closed the door until midnight as a form of punishment because he wanted me to quit my job and that day is when i called my parents to come and pick me up . I packed up and never went back now till now.Allah saved mi from my narcissistic husband.till now bashir where ever you are ,i will never forgive you
forgiveness is not for the other party, it is always for yourself... forgive so u can move on. Stop carrying so much weight with you. The past doesnt exist and the future too. Only the present is the real.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook I understand and than add other mental illness known as co morbid disorder. My ex has psychosis and severe OCD he was having treatment but nothing helped him
my narc cheated behind my back with her ex, committed zina, and once I ended things there she started a relationship with him again. I feel bad for her choices. Because she was a way difrerent person with me, perhaps just to use me. at the end she's like a little sister to me and I know all the stuff she gone through. I talked to her ex and found out he is just using her for sex. Sad reality.
Allah blinds people to some things they say and their actions to answer the dua of someone who needs to escape their oppression. It’s the reason why so many people say things that go against their own benefit, because He can make them deaf, dumb and blind in a situation. When an abusive husband holds a woman hostage in a marriage, he will find himself issuing a talaq out of nowhere without thinking. That comes from Allah’s mercy for the woman. I have seen it happen many times. I have seen men wonder how on earth they did that. Nothing can stop a man from doing this when Allah wills it and this is why the arrogance of a narcissist makes them look really stupid when Allah comes to the rescue of empaths.
I wish I had known 6 years ago when he was porn addiction and gave me talaaq whilst I was pregnant. The all hearing heard my cry for years. He has no removed him Alhumdullilah
I’ve tried to listen to these podcasts multiple times, but I cannot get past the imbalance, the super religious notions… For instance, to say that someone not picking up on red flags could be due to lack of faith- especially when talking about empaths- is sorely incorrect. Muslims are just humans, not super humans who do not think or behave like everyone else. Allah created emotional empaths, and unless a person actually has those traits it may be difficult to understand the line of thinking. If anything, it could be elevated iman for many because they start looking beyond the flags to the person; humanity kicks in and they believe they can help heal the narcissistic person.
I never said that empaths ignoring red flags is a sign of low iman, it’s a sign of codependency and choosing to only focus on the good, which is a religious trait. I said that supernova empaths don’t get themselves involved with people who don’t help them with their own iman. The high level empaths don’t look for projects to work on, they look for partners. Every empath who wants to help a narcissist does so out of good heart and iman, of course, but when it’s at the detriment of their own well-being they don’t leave and they do not prioritize the protection of their own iman, so they are in a codependent state trying to prove their worth that they can make the narc’s life better. This causes them to live a miserable life and at the end of it all, the narc leaves. This channel is for Muslims and I’m explaining that being around narcs who aren’t helping themselves will drain your own iman and that’s something high level empaths don’t risk, whether they’re aware of narcissism or not. They don’t like being around people who drag them down and grown adults who constantly need babysitting.
JA Khair dear sister this hits home, and I appreciate you breaking this down for all to understand MashaAllah.❤❤ I am in the thick of it right now and I pray to have the courage and knowledge to move forward without toxicity affecting me the way it has. InshaAllah I hope to meet with you and discuss this topic at great length. Alhamdulilah for my awakening... I cannot wait to heal up completely so I can assist in helping others on their healing journeys. I feel a deep desire to educate others and build a strong network of thriving Muslims who have been through this type of abuse and who can be a source of support, love, compassion and understanding for those trying to navigate through the chaos. Allah never gives us more than we can handle and I know I am already so much better off for having gone through this experience and live to tell my story.❤❤❤ My love and prayers to all humans!
Thank you Dr Mona, thank you again, and thank you ya Allah for letting me reach this life changing knowledge ! It’s been one month that I’ve found your channel and I can’t thank you enough for sharing your studies and conclusions with us, God sent me many signs but subhanAllah you were the most complete rescue He sent to me by letting me understand and accept so many things. May God rewards you for this, and may He let you enter the highest rank of Jannah in company with Rasulullah s.a.w On my way to purchase the book insha Allah🩵🩵🩵
Jazaki Allah khair sis for this beautiful comment I am so glad you’re finding the channel helpful. May Allah bless you and give you more than you pray for me ♥️☺️ x
I was that empath who prayed for Allah’s help & He allowed the man child narc to issue me verbal d*vorce twice. After he said it, I was so shocked, but I was like damn, why didn’t he say it once more, I would’ve been done & free then! After that I came to my parents home & issued Khullah. He came back, I gave him a list of conditions to make the marriage work, & since then he’s gone with the wind somewhere, vanished into thin air! 🥴🫡🫥 Allah SWT was always there with me. Or else him & his narc mommy would’ve made me a psychotic patient… Cannot thank Allah swt enough for loving me. When I came back to my parents, I clearly remember I started crying in my room alone once, & it was like Allah SWT was telling me, why are you crying? Aren’t you grateful? You shouldn’t be crying for someone like that, I love you and I’ve saved you… I wiped my tears and said Alhumdulilah. I have been in peace since then... Alhumdulilah x ♾🤍
PS. I’ve asked for my jewellery, suitcases full of belongings & DSLR back, but don’t think they’re in the mood to give me my things. May Allah swt help me get my things back too, Ameen! 🤲🏻
Subhan Allah the day I listened to this podcast for the first time my narcissistic husband got the police called on him for yelling at me in a public place.. I pray that Allah facilitates my exit please pray for me and my son .. thanks Dr. Mona
Subhaan Allah you are so right …. I begged Allah to open a way for me .
My ex was sentenced to 12 years prison .
My dua was Allah take him to a place so far away that I can’t see him and he can’t see me .
Dua answered ! Allah is truly merciful.
جزاك الله خيرا Dr Mona 😊
If you're reading this in Ramadan please make dua for me for Allah to send in His rescue team asap and get me out of this oppressive situation before it does me any more harm. Ya Rab, I seek refuge in You from bad fate, bad people, bad destiny and Your wrath. And I ask from You a life that reflects Your forgiveness, mercy, miracles, healing, sovereignty, bounty, love, goodness truth, and beauty.🤲🤲🤲🕊️🕊️🕊️✨✨✨
In Sha Allah, I shall keep you in my dua's, your name please?
Ameen❤
Ameen ❤
Wish I could like this a thousand times Allah bless you and increase you in knowledge Ameen
♥️♥️♥️ Ameen jazaki Allah khair 😊 glad you liked it!
Subhanallah, Jazakallah Khayr Dr Mona
My narc husband was recently amputed- diabetes, and lost his job.
This hasn't humbled him at all. On the contrary, he's become more arrogant, more demanding of respect, honour, service, love, and my time. His desire for total control of our lives is now topnotch.
His abuse is getting worse and living with him is becoming more difficult for the kids and I. We're in a constant state of fear, anxiety and unrest.
But because of his current health condition, I'm finding it difficult to go through with my decisio 9:00 n to finally leave him.
I'm desperately in need of Allah's help.
I heard previously in your podcasts telling us to be carefull of ruqya practitioners,i went to a homeopathic medicine practitioner for treating gallbladder stones and with the medicine he insisted to do ruqya,your voice came in my head BE CAREFUL OF RUQYA PRACTITIONERS!! and while he was doing ruqya i started doing tasbeeh in my heart inside my veil,he asked me out of nowhere that what is the dhikr that you reicte so much as if it blocked his evil intentions..Allah ho Akbar we never went back to him again n threw that medicine as well..Allah made you a waseela for saving us in so many places...جزاك الله خيرا 🌹🌹🌹💗
Yes, I always tell people to say their athkars before going for ruqyah, because if they use the jinn, they won’t be able to access you to harm you and if they don’t, the athkars won’t block them and they can help you :)
i am in peace after listening you.
This podcast is worth listening repeatedly...may Allah keep you in Aafiyah ❤❤❤❤
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
ماشاء الله تبارك الله 🌷⚘🌹🌺🌻🌸💐💗💗💗
جزاك الله خيرا كثيرا والحسن الجزاء في دنيا والآخرة
Glad you enjoyed it ♥️♥️
they might be uneducated, no class. this hit me hard Mona. always spot on
Subhanallah , Dr Mona. You and your channel are a God sent ! I’m new to your channel and saw your video on why God allowed you to marry a narcissist.. it came up in my Algorithm as though it was a consolation for me from Allah that the step I took to save myself from a 20 years abusive marriage was the right decision ! As I listened to your content , I was absolutely shocked at how accurate and precise everything you said was and reflected what I’d been through !
I thank Allah for my latest discovery of your channel and I pray you are blessed with good health and may you continue to succeed with voicing out the facts of the world of narcissists so that many may be rescued from abusive relationships!Barakallahu feeki , Allah bless you always aameen ! ❤
Alhamdulilah I’m so glad they help you ♥️😊🌹
Allahuma Barik Doctor Mona love your content and may you continue to be successful in sha Allah Ameen
🙏🏼 thank you a million times Alhamdulillah 💜 many blessings for everyones journey thus far and journey to come ♥️
I love you in Allaah Dr. Mona, may Allaah always protect you.
@@aminataummassya5404 ♥️♥️♥️
May Allah reward you, ameen
Wow msa you are incredible. Thank you 🙏🏽 jazak Allah
I appreciate your channel ukhti, it’s very realistic & helpful. May Allah continue to reward you for this. Ameen.
Thank you so much! Loved this video❤ May Allah guide us and bless you
You’re most welcome ❤️ so glad you liked it and thank you for the dua 🌹
Please pray for me that God helps me leave this extreme narcissist husband of 25 years.@@themuslimnarcissistbook
Amazing podcast Dr you hit the nail on the head every time Allahumma Baarik! Jazakillah kair❤
923 views and only 70+ likes?
Thank you ♥️ alhamdulilah! Yes that’s why I believe there are LOTS of narcs on this channel who are listening and won’t ever hit that like button 😄 The numbers really show that. So much more content to come inshallah!
So clear and on point!
Thank you for your videos! They give me hope
Alhamdulilah ♥️
I never believed that my mom could be a liar until she started forgetting every lie she said to manipulate me....then she hated me more and said i have an extremely sharp memory wheras to according to her i was a certified under achiever in academics all my life..
This is very informative information very much needed. Jazaky Allah khair.
Dear Dr Mona, you helped to bring back my iman.. for many years I’ve been struggling in marriage and my iman became very low due to the religious manipulations to justify different kinds of mistreatment.
I was so disappointed in Islam and Muslims that I thought that I’m maybe on wrong path and why have I even revert if it’s that bad and misogynistic.
Alhamdulillah you encouraged me to have a hope and strength to keep going through the difficult situation I’m in ❤
Alhamdulilah, I’m so happy to know that 😃♥️🌹
❤ this podcast was a sign
I'm so confused between whether the man I was with was an empath or narcissist or am I narcissist, empath ,or co dependent.. clearly he wasn't a co dependent
Salam Alaikum Dr Mona. SubhanAllah my tribulation with my narc religious figure MIL has led me to dawn hijab.
Oh my God .i went to the mosque and prayed to Allah to fix my life with tears falling from my eyes the moment i went back home to my husband he closed the door until midnight as a form of punishment because he wanted me to quit my job and that day is when i called my parents to come and pick me up . I packed up and never went back now till now.Allah saved mi from my narcissistic husband.till now bashir where ever you are ,i will never forgive you
forgiveness is not for the other party, it is always for yourself... forgive so u can move on. Stop carrying so much weight with you.
The past doesnt exist and the future too. Only the present is the real.
Does anyone know if anyone living in Pakistan has been able to buy this book ?? Please share how to buy it..
I was curious to know do people ever get diagnose that they have narcissistic personality or do we assume they have this based on how they treat us ?
You can get a clinical diagnosis but in general you can tell if someone has a personality disorder if you know what to look out for.
@@themuslimnarcissistbook I understand and than add other mental illness known as co morbid disorder. My ex has psychosis and severe OCD he was having treatment but nothing helped him
my narc cheated behind my back with her ex, committed zina, and once I ended things there she started a relationship with him again.
I feel bad for her choices. Because she was a way difrerent person with me, perhaps just to use me.
at the end she's like a little sister to me and I know all the stuff she gone through.
I talked to her ex and found out he is just using her for sex.
Sad reality.
I don’t think Allah makes them give talaq Allah has given every insaan free will that’s why we are judged on what we do and choose.
Allah blinds people to some things they say and their actions to answer the dua of someone who needs to escape their oppression. It’s the reason why so many people say things that go against their own benefit, because He can make them deaf, dumb and blind in a situation. When an abusive husband holds a woman hostage in a marriage, he will find himself issuing a talaq out of nowhere without thinking. That comes from Allah’s mercy for the woman. I have seen it happen many times. I have seen men wonder how on earth they did that. Nothing can stop a man from doing this when Allah wills it and this is why the arrogance of a narcissist makes them look really stupid when Allah comes to the rescue of empaths.
I wish I had known 6 years ago when he was porn addiction and gave me talaaq whilst I was pregnant. The all hearing heard my cry for years. He has no removed him Alhumdullilah
I’ve tried to listen to these podcasts multiple times, but I cannot get past the imbalance, the super religious notions… For instance, to say that someone not picking up on red flags could be due to lack of faith- especially when talking about empaths- is sorely incorrect. Muslims are just humans, not super humans who do not think or behave like everyone else. Allah created emotional empaths, and unless a person actually has those traits it may be difficult to understand the line of thinking. If anything, it could be elevated iman for many because they start looking beyond the flags to the person; humanity kicks in and they believe they can help heal the narcissistic person.
I never said that empaths ignoring red flags is a sign of low iman, it’s a sign of codependency and choosing to only focus on the good, which is a religious trait. I said that supernova empaths don’t get themselves involved with people who don’t help them with their own iman. The high level empaths don’t look for projects to work on, they look for partners. Every empath who wants to help a narcissist does so out of good heart and iman, of course, but when it’s at the detriment of their own well-being they don’t leave and they do not prioritize the protection of their own iman, so they are in a codependent state trying to prove their worth that they can make the narc’s life better. This causes them to live a miserable life and at the end of it all, the narc leaves. This channel is for Muslims and I’m explaining that being around narcs who aren’t helping themselves will drain your own iman and that’s something high level empaths don’t risk, whether they’re aware of narcissism or not. They don’t like being around people who drag them down and grown adults who constantly need babysitting.
JA Khair dear sister this hits home, and I appreciate you breaking this down for all to understand MashaAllah.❤❤
I am in the thick of it right now and I pray to have the courage and knowledge to move forward without toxicity affecting me the way it has.
InshaAllah I hope to meet with you and discuss this topic at great length.
Alhamdulilah for my awakening... I cannot wait to heal up completely so I can assist in helping others on their healing journeys. I feel a deep desire to educate others and build a strong network of thriving Muslims who have been through this type of abuse and who can be a source of support, love, compassion and understanding for those trying to navigate through the chaos.
Allah never gives us more than we can handle and I know I am already so much better off for having gone through this experience and live to tell my story.❤❤❤
My love and prayers to all humans!
This makes so much sense!
Thank you Dr Mona, thank you again, and thank you ya Allah for letting me reach this life changing knowledge ! It’s been one month that I’ve found your channel and I can’t thank you enough for sharing your studies and conclusions with us, God sent me many signs but subhanAllah you were the most complete rescue He sent to me by letting me understand and accept so many things. May God rewards you for this, and may He let you enter the highest rank of Jannah in company with Rasulullah s.a.w
On my way to purchase the book insha Allah🩵🩵🩵
Jazaki Allah khair sis for this beautiful comment I am so glad you’re finding the channel helpful. May Allah bless you and give you more than you pray for me ♥️☺️ x
I was that empath who prayed for Allah’s help & He allowed the man child narc to issue me verbal d*vorce twice.
After he said it, I was so shocked, but I was like damn, why didn’t he say it once more, I would’ve been done & free then!
After that I came to my parents home & issued Khullah. He came back, I gave him a list of conditions to make the marriage work, & since then he’s gone with the wind somewhere, vanished into thin air! 🥴🫡🫥
Allah SWT was always there with me. Or else him & his narc mommy would’ve made me a psychotic patient…
Cannot thank Allah swt enough for loving me. When I came back to my parents, I clearly remember I started crying in my room alone once, & it was like Allah SWT was telling me, why are you crying? Aren’t you grateful? You shouldn’t be crying for someone like that, I love you and I’ve saved you…
I wiped my tears and said Alhumdulilah. I have been in peace since then... Alhumdulilah x ♾🤍
PS. I’ve asked for my jewellery, suitcases full of belongings & DSLR back, but don’t think they’re in the mood to give me my things. May Allah swt help me get my things back too, Ameen! 🤲🏻