dean and lindsay: tolerate it

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  • this song sums up their relationship so well.. hope you like

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  • @michelletran2637
    @michelletran2637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    I hope Lindsey was able to meet someone who truly treats her right and appreciates her after her relationship with Dean. Even if she doesn't that doesn't mean her life has any less value now its more about the vindication. I'm talking like this is real tho but in my head if it was real that is what I would think

  • @chickennoodlesoup2569
    @chickennoodlesoup2569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +889

    Poor Lindsey she was far from perfect but didn’t deserve what happened to her

    • @nsj2022
      @nsj2022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yeah, but at least she was willing to put effort into the marriage to make it work.

    • @chickennoodlesoup2569
      @chickennoodlesoup2569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@nsj2022 mhm, i honestly rly liked her as a character.

  • @rustjones6914
    @rustjones6914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +740

    Let's be real. If dean put even a fraction of the effort he put for Rory into his marriage, dean & lindsey would've been married forever. Lindsey could sense something wasn't right, because dean's heart wasn't 100% in it, and he was still thinking about Rory. And dean was the one who proposed, so that's honestly all on him. But I personally blame Rory, because she really damaged dean and messed with his head. She was borderline abusive in season 3 lol.

    • @youjustgotburned3980
      @youjustgotburned3980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hate men who marry women they don't love.

    • @kurlykpopfan8111
      @kurlykpopfan8111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Yeah Rory was definitely emotionally abusive in the way that she would ignore his feelings and gaslight him, making him feel crazy and rejected. I think everyone in the picture was flawed in their own way but it's an unfortunate situation nonetheless. It still made for decent entertainment though so kudos to the writers lol. It's my favorite show!

    • @TheMarkmcr
      @TheMarkmcr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kurlykpopfan8111 she's like that in general

    • @radhiadeedou8286
      @radhiadeedou8286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No it's not all on him, at least he had a reason for being insane, why did she say yes? Why did their parents agree? They just graduated from high school

    • @rustjones6914
      @rustjones6914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That was always Lindsey's dream and there's nothing wrong with it. She was a great wife and her family was very supportive towards her and dean. It's dean's fault for proposing in the first place. It's the man's job to decide whether or not to propose. It's the woman's job to decide whether to accept or not. Not doubt if he's ready.

  • @reginadanielle3755
    @reginadanielle3755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +630

    She deserves better and Rory deserve what lindseys mom said to her

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Dean missed up his marriage too not just Rory.

  • @SoScarlettItWasMaroon
    @SoScarlettItWasMaroon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Based off the Donna Reed episode, Lindsay was everything Dean wanted. She loved him, she was kind to him, she learned to cook for him, she was a good wife for him. But she still wasn’t enough, and he still went back to Rory.

  • @hayleekurtz9174
    @hayleekurtz9174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    Lindsay is so sweet and kind what is wrong with dean.

    • @antheronebites
      @antheronebites 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Everything

    • @xoPinkMacyxo
      @xoPinkMacyxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rmeizennochoa8024 then he shouldn't have asked her to marry him. He should've waited until after college.

    • @TheMarkmcr
      @TheMarkmcr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@xoPinkMacyxo she was probably the type of person who would seem nice at first then become controlling after the marriage

    • @marga2126
      @marga2126 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rmeizennochoa8024 This is a reminder that dean has free will to do what he wants, him taking that step was his choice not lindsey's. Stop blaming the wife for the shitty things dean did its not as if she took control of him with strings, he agreed to do everything. Plus this cant justify how dean treated lindsey

    • @marga2126
      @marga2126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@TheMarkmcr But she wasnt though. I dont know where yall are getting this, lindsey was protrayed in the show pretty decently. She even got out of her way to learn how to cook that one dish just to find out the reason why dean was acting different was because of infidelity.

  • @Surfer041
    @Surfer041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    You mean two financially dependent 19 year Olds getting married didn't work out? The hell you say.

    • @jennyoneill8879
      @jennyoneill8879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Damn they got married fast...

    • @heathervelasco5159
      @heathervelasco5159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The ONLY one who had the financial is Dean she did nothing

    • @andreaasmc
      @andreaasmc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @@heathervelasco5159 she "did nothing" and gained no money because her duty was to be a housewife, she wouldn't have had time to work and do the housework simultaneously. she did everything for dean, you could see how much she cared about him

    • @hindenburg2006
      @hindenburg2006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      Lindsey didn’t deserve what Dean did to her but DAMN that was hilarious!!!!

    • @Ronkyort0dox
      @Ronkyort0dox 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lazy. Get a job

  • @SnapeArgento
    @SnapeArgento 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I need lindsey to know that she deserves all the good and also need to give her a hug but I can't bc Lindsey doesn't exist, what the hell

  • @sanjnasen1918
    @sanjnasen1918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I am convinced taylor swift has written every song for gilmore girls. FIGHT ME

  • @alyssa111_
    @alyssa111_ ปีที่แล้ว +17

    she’s an icon and she deserved sm better

  • @leynajane
    @leynajane 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lindsay was so innocent and pure. She absolutely did not deserve dean to cheat on her, let alone go on ‘coffee and chats’ with Rory. We all know those were not just ‘friend’ activities. Even before the wedding when dean was drunk, he was talking about Rory. But, Rory really messed with his head in season three, or whenever she was dating him for the second time, when she liked Jess.

  • @Tessiefaye
    @Tessiefaye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    She was blinded by her love for Dean but that was destined for failure. Dean only married her because he was heart broken about Rory and Jess and he was trying to move on.

  • @nataliewood3175
    @nataliewood3175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I hated Dean he was weirdly obsessed with Rory and he treated his wife HORRIBLY. She did nothing to him and he even yelled at her after he cheated on her by practically forcing Rory to sleep with him

    • @sarahboktor2203
      @sarahboktor2203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      how did he force rory to sleep with him what

    • @relatible.9982
      @relatible.9982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She kept saying "your married!" Yet she loved him so she went for it.

    • @nikemaraje5
      @nikemaraje5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He didn't FORCE her
      Stop lying

  • @tvisha8414
    @tvisha8414 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ironic so ironic that dean talked about how he'd prefer a stay at home and cook the food wife while dating rory and when he married one he cheated on her with rory 💀💀

  • @zinc8002
    @zinc8002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Dean chose not to give Rory all the right information. It was unethical for him to tell Rory it’s definitely over when it wasn’t that way to Lindsay in order to sleep with her. He physically overpowered her too. She felt like shit afterwards.

  • @christinabauermeister9122
    @christinabauermeister9122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I felt bad for Lindsey even though she is my favorite actress and she didn't deserve what happened she cooked for him and rory and dean got what's coming

    • @potocatepetl
      @potocatepetl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dean seems to have a good life for his standards. Rory on the other hand...

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      the girl that plays Lindsey is plays on 9-1-1 as a fire fighter.

  • @photaetwo8580
    @photaetwo8580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh God Lindsay truly deserves better! Hope she finds someone who truly loves her and treats her well🥺

  • @jadeheart5862
    @jadeheart5862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Love this ❤️

  • @mandyjane3328
    @mandyjane3328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Breaks my heart

  • @gia8937
    @gia8937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i feel so bad for Lindsay

  • @rawanmalik5095
    @rawanmalik5095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This made me cry

  • @rebeca825
    @rebeca825 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Só acho que Lindsay era a garota que Dean idealizava, a dona de casa perfeita, que poderia lhe dar toda atenção. Mas ele não amava ela. Amava Rory que era o oposto do que ele queria. 💔 Isso foi cruel.

  • @kentGrey
    @kentGrey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Now that I think about it, the fact that Rory slept with married Dean (after she discarded him) foreshadowed that last series scene where she ended up pregnant unsure of who the father was.

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No pretty sure it was obvious the baby was that one rich guys kid.

  • @ennuiblue4295
    @ennuiblue4295 ปีที่แล้ว

    tbh, Rory did her a favor, she deserves someone who appreciates and loves her

  • @crabpoopwysocki1293
    @crabpoopwysocki1293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I felt so bad for her

  • @avalouise5223
    @avalouise5223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I felt sorry for Lindsay

  • @heathervelasco5159
    @heathervelasco5159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Ok i didn't think they should have gotten married Lindsey was a bit naive he went from breaking up with Rory to Dating her she should have known she was a rebound and said no when he asked her to get married she also wanted so much but did nothing to help get it she let Dean drop out of college and take 2 jobs what did she do all day learn how to cook. She should have gotten a job

    • @sofialaura5219
      @sofialaura5219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      wow we got a sexist over here

    • @marga2126
      @marga2126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      1. "she shouldve known," please do not blame it on the one who got hurt, both her and dean were naive. in fact, DEAN shoulve been the one who knew better instead of marrying someone when hes been in love w someone else.
      2. quit being blatantly misogynistic
      3. "she let dean drop out of college and take 2 jobs," are u rory? lol dean has free will its not as if she was holding him hostage to do all that, he had all the choice
      4. "what did she do all day learn how to cook," so dean really was into this whole donna reed thing, once he receives it he treats her bad.. lets just settle with the fact that its immature for both of them to get married at 18, ofc it would have never worked out, lindsey being a housewife at 18 was pretty sad and dean doing all that 18. i'd blame it on bad writing..

  • @Ms-gt8by
    @Ms-gt8by 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    lindsey deserved better

  • @cecilialopez8890
    @cecilialopez8890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Debió quedarse con ella y no volver con la cualquiera de Rory.
    Voy enojada luego de verla jugando con Dean y Jess la muy descarada.

  • @vaishnavipatel1405
    @vaishnavipatel1405 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tolerate it is more of Emily Gilmore's song especially s4e15

  • @brittanydayoftheweek
    @brittanydayoftheweek 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am Lindsay ..

  • @user-hl1ct3yh1r
    @user-hl1ct3yh1r ปีที่แล้ว

    How can someone do to her what they did. I swear from this video alone and thinking of Rory.. she’s such a horrible person. It takes two to tango but do you really want to be the one to aid in breaking someone’s heart?

  • @rosemaryharris8693
    @rosemaryharris8693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lindsay was lazy didn't want anything out of life but just be a home wife. No ambition no anyting but when she heard Rory talk about her at the grocery store she didn't do anything. She just wanted Dean to stop talking to Rory but they had a bond that he had to break. And 90% of the world we never keep our first love we will always remember them but it's very rare that people are still with they first love. Every now and then you may think about it. Dean was wrong not listen to Rory when she told him why was he marrying her. He wanted to get over her and move on with somebody who really loved him and wanted to be with him. But if Luke would have told him what he said when he was drunk I don't think Dean would have married Lindsey. Dean was still in love with Rory that's the only part that I feel sad about she didn't love him like he loved her.

    • @maliamalis6389
      @maliamalis6389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Are dean and Rory still together? 😂

  • @jiyabatra3661
    @jiyabatra3661 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gilmore girls?????

  • @soumiabenrekia5796
    @soumiabenrekia5796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dean was awful to Lindsay

  • @lindaleelaw5277
    @lindaleelaw5277 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rory she is unassertive and to immature to date other guyz zzzzzz

  • @rozyberger6068
    @rozyberger6068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    no ew

    • @rozyberger6068
      @rozyberger6068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      rory and dean for ever

    • @MIMI-c5s5r
      @MIMI-c5s5r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@rozyberger6068 yeah cause Rory and Dean both suck

    • @heraaaa3864
      @heraaaa3864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rozyberger6068 rory and dean can both go to hell

    • @kirtu9035
      @kirtu9035 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rozyberger6068 well they are both disgusting human beings so yeah they deserve each other

    • @Liv-dj1rf
      @Liv-dj1rf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Rozy Berger umm there toxic