I had that happen many times in my 20s. 😂 The Last time it happened the guy told me to book a trip with my money.... and he would pay for all the food and activities once we got to the vacation. I laughed in his face and ghosted him. 😂 Bums😂
These days I don't even block them, I leave them on read and let them know their message wasn't even worthy of an answer. Let them see you ignored them.
I went for a trip 50/50, he ran out of money and I had to borrow from a friend to make sure we had money, the guy had the audacity to say I should have surprised him and brought more money! Imagine my stupidity
The 1st one was 😂💀. The second guy, absolutely not. If he has to test your loyalty like that he’s not the one. There are soooo many other ways to see if someone is loyal, asking a woman for money isn’t one of them.
when a boy ask for money its a warning sign to Pack your bags Block contact asap . Hes showing his shitty side that has lots of bad hidden things My money is MINE . Not OURS or YOURS cry about it i earned it not the man
Girls, don't give men any money! You can't IMAGINE the regret I have to process now after helping a guy, thinking when he has the opportunity he'll take care of me.
Don't give them anything if they haven't brought substantial & material improvement to yours 1st. If he's asking, w/o putting in the work 1st - he's a pair o' site
Independent women should bring the money and give it to the man at home that ain’t making money? What a load of NONSENSE! You cannot manage money that you do not make!!!
Ha! 😅 Borrowing money is just indirect gifting. He’s not gonna pay it back unless she broke up with him and he’s trying to get her back. He’ll pay it back in small payments, and if it doesn’t work, he’ll stop paying. 😂
Look, any man that I am dating dares to do the rubbish this man in 2:25 is talking about, I’ll just walk out on u. Like firstly as a grown adult u gotta be ashamed of urself to ask a fellow adult like u to give u money when I know u have. Like full blown adult male with “pubic hairs”!😂 Like are u okay?😂😂 Like it’s ok if the man is not around and u just do one or two things at home with ur money. But for me to do the cooking, take care of the kids, make sure that u are ok as my husband. And then I’ll still turn around and still give u my hard earned money?!!! Oga it’s either u are joking or u must be very mad!!!😂😂😂
One thing we're not doing is helping pay anyone child support ... come on now!!! GIRL LETS NOT BE SILLY 💯 STOP HELPING THESE MEN! Straight up. They'll figure out. 💯
My man sometimes asks for money like a 20 here and there but at the end of the day he send me half his pay check so I can’t complain 😂😂😂😂 edit. Plus he pays the bills
My daughter got in a relationship with a guy that is a bum (a bum with a decent job at that). He had just gotten out of a relationship with another woman who he claimed "didnt pay for anything", or do housework, but told my daughter that when she moved in with him that she was expected to pay part of the bills. I told her to run far away because the only reason he wanted to move her in was to get his bills paid. And I was correct. My daughter was an idjit and let that man child knock her up and that ended up exactly how I told her it would....he waited until she was about to give birth, then told her he wasnt getting another job so she can stay home. He could have afforded it regardless if he had been willing to give up the extra unnecessary crap. Then informed her that she doesnt need to be like me, thinking moms beling at home 😂. I told her, "I told you so."
she is teaching her kids to put lotion on ? No mam teach them mathematics, how to balance spending versus saving, Politics. The stock market, how to avoid manipulative people and know your value. Not how to grift with soft hands.
So I should swell up ankles and get backache,,n shoulder ache from working just to bring money to u so u decided what to do with it? The audacity ,the auda-country,,the auda'world ,,boy bye
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Real men don't ask a woman for money he has his own money already.💯
When they ask, BLOCK!
I had that happen many times in my 20s. 😂
The Last time it happened the guy told me to book a trip with my money.... and he would pay for all the food and activities once we got to the vacation. I laughed in his face and ghosted him. 😂
Bums😂
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These days I don't even block them, I leave them on read and let them know their message wasn't even worthy of an answer. Let them see you ignored them.
I went for a trip 50/50, he ran out of money and I had to borrow from a friend to make sure we had money, the guy had the audacity to say I should have surprised him and brought more money! Imagine my stupidity
The 1st one was 😂💀. The second guy, absolutely not. If he has to test your loyalty like that he’s not the one. There are soooo many other ways to see if someone is loyal, asking a woman for money isn’t one of them.
I know rriiight!! That guy is so irritating
I wish I had better advice when I became a self made independent woman. I attracted hobos and didn't even know it
My x man asked and borrowed money from me and never paid me back. I won't let that happen again.
Same
when a boy ask for money its a warning sign to Pack your bags Block contact asap . Hes showing his shitty side that has lots of bad hidden things
My money is MINE . Not OURS or YOURS cry about it i earned it not the man
Don't be putting me to a test....because I am going to fail on purpose!!! And at the point you ask me for money, you failed MY test!! Boy Bye!!!
Exactly 💯
My lord, see my African sisters finally waking up.
That part word for word💯
Sho nuff‼️how can I like this 1000 times⁉️
In the wise words of 50 cent.. ‘you can’t get a doller outta me’ 🎶
A test I will gladly fail.
A race that I will run the opposite way of the finish line!
My mom always said only lend out money you're willing to lose.
This is 2024. Hire a maid ...if we have an education....we are good. Men will always chase us. Absolutely no reason to give a man $. Jeesh
Girls, don't give men any money! You can't IMAGINE the regret I have to process now after helping a guy, thinking when he has the opportunity he'll take care of me.
Men never extend the same grace to women
A man never asked me for money. lol I just say I’m unemployed and they pay me 😂😂😂
"A man loves you if he asks you for money", that makes zero sense.
I'm telling you these men be delulu
Don't give them anything if they haven't brought substantial & material improvement to yours 1st.
If he's asking, w/o putting in the work 1st - he's a pair o' site
If he can. I can. If he can't. I won't. Simple. My rule. I dont break it.
I hear you very well as a black french woman thanks for your great work
Thank you so much for confirming this🙏🏽❤️
They hate men who borrow money because they never give it back 😂❤
Independent women should bring the money and give it to the man at home that ain’t making money? What a load of NONSENSE! You cannot manage money that you do not make!!!
Yes they can, they manage to spend it on the woman they want to take care of😢
Which doesn’t make sense. But we are the gold diggers??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"you cannot manage money that you're not making" great point
2:05 lol this guy is a joke
I'm rolling on the floor😂😂😂😂
I felt like slapping him through the screen with his big big mouth😂😂
Ha! 😅 Borrowing money is just indirect gifting. He’s not gonna pay it back unless she broke up with him and he’s trying to get her back. He’ll pay it back in small payments, and if it doesn’t work, he’ll stop paying. 😂
Look, any man that I am dating dares to do the rubbish this man in 2:25 is talking about, I’ll just walk out on u.
Like firstly as a grown adult u gotta be ashamed of urself to ask a fellow adult like u to give u money when I know u have.
Like full blown adult male with “pubic hairs”!😂
Like are u okay?😂😂
Like it’s ok if the man is not around and u just do one or two things at home with ur money.
But for me to do the cooking, take care of the kids, make sure that u are ok as my husband.
And then I’ll still turn around and still give u my hard earned money?!!!
Oga it’s either u are joking or u must be very mad!!!😂😂😂
One thing we're not doing is helping pay anyone child support ... come on now!!! GIRL LETS NOT BE SILLY 💯 STOP HELPING THESE MEN! Straight up. They'll figure out. 💯
I love your accent! I can understand you with no issues❤️
Thankyou 🙏🏽❤️
My man sometimes asks for money like a 20 here and there but at the end of the day he send me half his pay check so I can’t complain 😂😂😂😂 edit. Plus he pays the bills
😂😂😂 💯 Well that's different. He's basically taking a short-term loan on his contribution.
That's fine....but some of them are just parasites and leeches
@@mskabue👏🏽 datpart sistah
That's not the same thing.
They are talking about the one who's a moocher and a leeche
Why would he send you half his paycheck...LMAO
My daughter got in a relationship with a guy that is a bum (a bum with a decent job at that). He had just gotten out of a relationship with another woman who he claimed "didnt pay for anything", or do housework, but told my daughter that when she moved in with him that she was expected to pay part of the bills. I told her to run far away because the only reason he wanted to move her in was to get his bills paid. And I was correct. My daughter was an idjit and let that man child knock her up and that ended up exactly how I told her it would....he waited until she was about to give birth, then told her he wasnt getting another job so she can stay home. He could have afforded it regardless if he had been willing to give up the extra unnecessary crap. Then informed her that she doesnt need to be like me, thinking moms beling at home 😂. I told her, "I told you so."
Thiss is nothing but Factss ❤😮😂👏🏽
Haha nope it's the same for my brother and male cousins at a certain age
Yeah at their big age avoid them...I forgot to clarify that
she is teaching her kids to put lotion on ? No mam teach them mathematics, how to balance spending versus saving, Politics. The stock market, how to avoid manipulative people and know your value. Not how to grift with soft hands.
28:48 Kevin Samuels for women, lol. Seriously though, I wish Kevin Samuels was on both sides, he'd have way more support.
Girl you sound just fine ❤
Thank you so much for confirming this ❤️🙏🏽
So I should swell up ankles and get backache,,n shoulder ache from working just to bring money to u so u decided what to do with it? The audacity ,the auda-country,,the auda'world ,,boy bye