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13:17 Honor Integrity Bravery Loyalty

Being lonely is a small price to pay… wow that so deep

what does fumble mean? so he switches/starts acting in a sabotaging way?

And when you leave they say, “But everything was going so well.” No, I just didn’t care enough to fight with you any longer. Months before I left my ex, his son, my step son, was fussing about his dad and I told him once he (stepson) was gone so was I. He moved out in July, I moved out in August. Stepson was surprised, I asked him why when I told him what I was going to do. Ex followed me to where son was helping me move. While there his dad was being a butt. His own son yelled at me to forget what he (son) said and that I should “divorce the son of a bitch”. Thirty five years later stepson and I are still mother and son, he and his dad are low contact.

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My mother told me that when she first married my father, they nearly broke up in the early years,, issues with his gambling, prioritising his work and friends, her stopping her work and stuck with a new born. But she remembered her wedding vows and 58 yrs later they are still married and have had a wonderful life full of love and amazing memories. I've been married for 21 years. I read these comments and see these posts about couples divorcing for reasons that seem to be almost trival. Couples divorced because he played computer games, or didn't do enough house keeping, because she witheld intimacy etc. If you expect marriage to be a fairy tale then you shouldn't get married.

21:07 I get it… you are not alone. This is abuse.

The other activity? Anal?

6:03 he was your biggest opp Sis… we have all been there - and don’t blame yourself for someone else projecting their inferiority complex on to you… it’s not you Sis… 8:17 and this girl is blaming herself for not seeing this- we are socialized to abandon and gaslight ourselves…

Secons woman has foul language - so annoying

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My ex used to yell at me all.the time too. I would try to talk to him calmly but, not matter what I did he would turn it into a fight

Most of this sounds like the men were narcissistic or had some sort of destructive personality disorder.

I feel like we’re underestimating human sexuality (Men) a little bit better. This is a great conversation.

When you grow up seeing these things happening, and your parent or parents are emotionally immature this kind of treatment is normal to you. You don't know that adults are not supposed to behave that way.

Ive stood on 10 toes saying for decades THEY NEED TO TEACH ALL "TYPES OF ABUSE " IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL. Meaning - neglect is a form of abuse. Ignoring peoples needs, letting them starve, not checking on them, financial abuse- i didnt realize the depth of abuse i had that im sure my parents didnt realize was a bad thing. That first woman had my jaw on the ground. Unbelievable.

You're so ignorant omg

It's funny as hell because the lady with the patches under her eyes has it right. Like she said, ninjas 🥷🏾 will give props to all the other females (i.e., losing weight, etc), but then when I lose weight, I'm too small and don't have any curves. This same ninja would do that laugh shit when I tried asking him serious questions. Mind you, he was 38/39 at the time. He turned 40 this year, and I finally got rid of his ass. And the other lady about a broke ninja 🥷🏾 who acted like they had money. Then they slowly start begging you for money 💰...it happened to me. Just sad how these ninjas 🥷🏾 will perpertrate like they got it, but don't....smdh Just crazy!

I believed in him and gave everything I could offer easily and free and did everything for him like we were family. That was a huge mistake of mine.

Dude with the story....don't people use condoms?

The girl at 9minutes is naive. Pick me.

Because yall women are too much and like to argue ALL THE TIME!!! I don’t blame us brothas from being gay.

1:Whenever we got into an argument. Change we to when I caused an argument. First red flag goes to her. 2: Preoccupation with self, preening herself whilst talking, gossip, nails, needing validation, mask etc. big red flag to her. 3: a mouth like a sailor. I would bye stuffed animals for her to talk to, so that she would not speak to me. He saw a message that he should stay together with Satan? Don't think so. 4: Red flag, filter. What is so wrong with normal voice? She confusing this with OF? What is she suggesting to us talking from her bed? That's me done. Heads done in after 4

I met a man at one of my jobs. He told me that he was married to a woman 26 years younger than him. He said, "I told her she is my insurance policy. She will take care of me when I get older." I always suspected that, but I never heard anyone say it out loud.

Thank you, I love listening to your recap, you're so funny. Hope you enjoyed your Xmas

Healed and happy🙏🏿🥰

This is exactly why some men prefer younger women. They tolerate shit behavior because they don’t know yet.

6:15 men do this - it’s not just you… Mist men aren’t self aware- patriarchy and sexism “protects” you from the pain of self awareness… until then, it will “always” be someone else’s problem. Message!!

Wtf!? I fight too much to put up with the foolishness. 😊

These are horrible stories! Seriously, are men demonic?

Its sad, she wants him to want it, but he doesn't want her.

Yep my ex used to give me silent treatments now I give him those

Sometimes there are so many red flags, one can think it’s red silk sheets 😂

16:13 their rules 🤷🏾‍♀️ they run everything 🎉

11:57 it truly felt life a open hand smack… bihhhhh 😂😂😂 One of us was crazy, and I had to realize that it wasn’t me🎉✌🏾 When your soul is uneasy, it’s time to go. 14:27 🙏🏾

11:57 it truly felt life a open hand smack… bihhhhh 😂😂😂 One of us was crazy, and I had to realize that it wasn’t me🎉✌🏾 When your soul is uneasy, it’s time to go.

@15:54 that was crazy😂😂😂

an itching a*** hole probably needs a good wash.

These poor women were manipulated and ab*sed. Most of us have been through similar situations. I understand when you’re in the moment you can’t see how bad it really is. Men gaslight women and make us feel guilty for calling them out.

The depravity of these men know no bounds.

The internet is a blessing.

I feel like some of the women should blame their parents.

And these males wonder why we'd rather stay single.

If you weren't the prize they wouldn't try to humble you. And any man that downplays anything about you but won't leave you alone block them.... immediately

The people who say “that could never be me!” Have literally been through it 😂 guiltiest be the loudest

The sound distortion voice over is really off putting 😢

Bmekween, I liked her positive take on this trend. So many nasty exes out there otherwise! 😮

Well as they say in Jamaica duppy know who fi frighten!

Ladies, we are a prize AFTER we FIND a HEAD OF HOUSEHOLD, aka HUSBAND who can safely and healthy lead us !!! As soon as we open our legs to a male who is not our husband, we are no longer a prize we are in lust!!! Stop having sex with man who are not your husband excepting be provided for you are not his WIFE he doesn't owe you anything!

Baby i just ended a 1 year relationship after i found out we went to a wedding his mom and dad were there and we were at separate tables, he would sparingly disappear and come back he was a little socially awkward but that’s not the point, I saw he didn’t see it for me and was gone