Truth! I am set up now financially, but it was a struggle. I tell people I’m financially stable and leave it at that because there are too many jealous and hateful people that don’t want to see others succeed.
4:16 Tired!! If your man can’t handle you having good money do NOT waste your time! Find someone that can appreciate and respect everything about you. Stop wasting time on dusties!!
If anyone asks, I don’t talk about my work. If they ask again, I walk away. Money is definitely your protection every day. And never put 88Million as your WiFi name: you’ll get a longterm WiFi stalker- I am battling that one right now. 😮
Learned this the hard way…thought we were friends and I would help motivate and encourage him since we had similar career fields but he threw it in my face in an argument and sounded so resentful that I had the ability to ‘sit on severance’
4 people who I'll disclose that information to: 1) My accountant (love her!) 2) A financial advisor 3) Gail Vaz Oxlade 4) If I end up with a good partner in a stable relationship and planning our future, then him, too.
💯 I wish I had learned this sooner, but I'm glad I learned it. I stopped telling even my husband how much I was making years ago. I own a corporation and file taxes separately from our joint return. Judge me if you want, but as a 40something woman who has been divorced once, I value my privacy, and I know how fragile the male ego is.
You have to disclose your income and assets during a prenup. You should be dating long enough so when you marry he will take care of you. A prenup is important so if you split, you dont walk away losing half your income or taking on his debt. But defiantly don’t tell him right away. Like at least a few years
Keep a man out of your business, period. Practice being a private person in all things involving you and your business. Even if you get married, still keep him out of your business. Have separate bank and asset accounts, and he does not know yours. Bcuz if he knows what you have, he'll find a way to muster it from you. If you are saving up for a special goal don't tell him about it, and if he knows you are stashing money in the house, he may steal that money and run off with it. Women naturally want to share everything about themselves with their men as a sign of connection, but men take it as stupidity and take advantage of it. Those Muslim guys crack me up. 🤣
I use to save my money in the house and I use to tell my ex husband everything one day we had an argument and he took my little savings while I was pregnant. Never again.
They can only assume, but you don't have to confirm. My ex never knew how much I earned but he tried to figure it out. It was apparent in my lifestyle and living standard.
Me and my boyfriend combine our full checks weekly, best decision ever!!! We paid off our debt and now moving on to investing, but you can’t do that with everyone. Two checks is better than one, we don’t have to work extra if we don’t want and we are almost debt free with plenty of extra money🤷🏽♀️ what are you in a relationship for if y’all don’t trust each other? Makes no sense to be in a relationship and have so many secrets😂 good luck to y’all
Ive never revealed it due to being taught to never reveal any finances esp as a woman Never Reveal to a man
Ladies! Make your own money Ohh!!👂🏽 and do not give it to a man. Spend it on yourself and your heart desire. Move in silence!! 🤫
This as a nurse I tell folks I am a CNA and these dusty men be like why you don’t be a nurse I heard they make money… these men a joke
Good strategy!
I just tell them that I work in Education.
This is important but a real man is still going to provide regardless of how much income his woman is bringing in. 💯
Facts.
Exactly 💯
Truth! I am set up now financially, but it was a struggle. I tell people I’m financially stable and leave it at that because there are too many jealous and hateful people that don’t want to see others succeed.
Dont even say youre stable
Where were you brilliant ladies when I fell for a con artist narcissist?
We learn when we cannot take it anymore.
Y’all are GOLD!!!!
4:16 Tired!! If your man can’t handle you having good money do NOT waste your time! Find someone that can appreciate and respect everything about you. Stop wasting time on dusties!!
If anyone asks, I don’t talk about my work. If they ask again, I walk away. Money is definitely your protection every day. And never put 88Million as your WiFi name: you’ll get a longterm WiFi stalker- I am battling that one right now. 😮
Learned this the hard way…thought we were friends and I would help motivate and encourage him since we had similar career fields but he threw it in my face in an argument and sounded so resentful that I had the ability to ‘sit on severance’
4 people who I'll disclose that information to:
1) My accountant (love her!)
2) A financial advisor
3) Gail Vaz Oxlade
4) If I end up with a good partner in a stable relationship and planning our future, then him, too.
💯 I wish I had learned this sooner, but I'm glad I learned it. I stopped telling even my husband how much I was making years ago. I own a corporation and file taxes separately from our joint return. Judge me if you want, but as a 40something woman who has been divorced once, I value my privacy, and I know how fragile the male ego is.
Great episode, very informative and helpful.
Glad it was helpful!
You have to disclose your income and assets during a prenup. You should be dating long enough so when you marry he will take care of you. A prenup is important so if you split, you dont walk away losing half your income or taking on his debt. But defiantly don’t tell him right away. Like at least a few years
Just move the assets to a trust in your mom’s name and drastically cut your income the year you are working on the prenup
Keep yourself to yourself but don’t waste your time with men who will be offended that you can pay your own car note 😂
Good talk!
Please which app do you use to edit videos and do you have free recommendations, 👍.
I use capcut and youcut simultaneously I'm still learning Adobe
Keep a man out of your business, period. Practice being a private person in all things involving you and your business. Even if you get married, still keep him out of your business. Have separate bank and asset accounts, and he does not know yours. Bcuz if he knows what you have, he'll find a way to muster it from you. If you are saving up for a special goal don't tell him about it, and if he knows you are stashing money in the house, he may steal that money and run off with it. Women naturally want to share everything about themselves with their men as a sign of connection, but men take it as stupidity and take advantage of it.
Those Muslim guys crack me up. 🤣
Then that’s not the type of clown male who u want to be with. Forget it, just stay single, childfree and thrive.
@@sabrinagonzales4456 But it's just a matter of a new practice. Bcuz, even a good man, may defect on a woman being overly open to him.
I use to save my money in the house and I use to tell my ex husband everything one day we had an argument and he took my little savings while I was pregnant. Never again.
@@mebe8877 I'm so sorry to hear that, and it's very common. But you did learn, albeit the hard way.
What to tell the recruiter if you are a fresher 🧐
People can flaunt whatever they want 🙄 leave them be but don't be giving it to a man, help the poor but have compassion to do it in private.
I get it...But theyll know anyway...based on how you move unless they stupid and i dont hang around stupid people....
They can only assume, but you don't have to confirm. My ex never knew how much I earned but he tried to figure it out. It was apparent in my lifestyle and living standard.
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Welcome 🤗
Me and my boyfriend combine our full checks weekly, best decision ever!!! We paid off our debt and now moving on to investing, but you can’t do that with everyone. Two checks is better than one, we don’t have to work extra if we don’t want and we are almost debt free with plenty of extra money🤷🏽♀️ what are you in a relationship for if y’all don’t trust each other? Makes no sense to be in a relationship and have so many secrets😂 good luck to y’all
Would’ve sounded better if u said husband 🫣🥴
@@DreamyTee123 right! To do that with a boyfriend is wild. I pray it all works out for her.