Was Any of It Real?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ม.ค. 2025
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You were loved, praised, flattered, complimented and placed on that pedestal. Then it all went downhill and the drop from hero to zero was hard and fast. Yet, was any of what you experienced at the beginning actually meant by the narcissist, sincerely and genuinely? Time to find out.
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If you have been involved with a narcissist, whether familial, friendships, or romantic relationships, it was all real. The pain you feel during and long after they've left, or you've escaped, is all too real and lingering. Oftentimes, life long pain. As a victem, you are forever changed, and they are incapable of caring because we deserve such harsh treatment. Through hard work, and strength with knowledge, you can gain freedom from them and the pain. Whislt it is still there, is lessened, but never entirely gone. The pain they inflict is the only genuine thing they give to you hidden behind the lies.
Beautifully said 🎉
It is difficult to accept that the actions and words that feel so intense and genuine on the surface actually do not come from a sincere place. The feeling of being deceived seems both shameful, painful, and lasting, even though one is completely without fault. Many thanks for the insight HG ❤
This is a tough one. Thank you.
I was “married” to my narcissist ex for 18 years (dated for 4 long distance). I put “married” in quotes because technically we were married, but after I left and divorced him I realized that it really was not a marriage.
I come here for the cold glass of water in the face.
This surely is the bitter truth, HG. Expertly explained. 🌹 🤍 ✨️ 🖤
No, nothing was real; it was a reflection, an echo, a simulation...
Bravo HG ❤
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 The truth is freeing 🕊️
Yes! So freeing!
Thank you for giving the hard truth, HG! 💜
It’s so good to finally know the truth of what happened ❤
Heartbreaking
The best so far , easy to follow and I wish I had heard this before I met the Narc , he was a textbook Narc . Thanks HG for your work .
Many thanks HG❤
Thankyou for that in depth explanation, it certainly helps towards understanding. Thankyou again HG.❤️🌻
This is a great piece for self reflection concerning my last relationship which I some how survived. I did "bust out" in the end. Thank you for this sharing.
NONE! Answering that question before i even listen all the way through
The narcissist does not have access to positive emotions, he rejects them.
If he was a real narcissist yes it was all fiction. And I say if..
I know it wasn’t genuine 🙄
I asked another self aware: Do you make the selection like us then the narcissism kicks in, or does the narcissism help with the selection. The SAN stated it is always ON, so yes it is used in the selection process.
Im really confused. Are you saying that _you_ are a weaponised or self-aware empath or that you are a Greater? In which case if you are a Greater you wouldn't need to ask, you would know the answer.
@ I apologize. When I say us, I mean neurotypical people, aka people with empathy. Basically, when a narcissist picks a person to be an IPPS, the narcissism is a part of that process. The video made me think of that question.
@@1976smb Ahh cool - I get you now! :-😀Yeah, it's always on. Always.
Another interesting question which has been covered but it bears repeating is the age with the narcissism is fully 'baked'. I believe HG says it varies but was 'set' by nine which surprised me because of the old Jesuit saying of 'give me a child at seven and I will give you the man'. Seven's crop up in other cultures too and of course seven years is the length of time for every cell to have changed in the body.
If you believe in these things, seven also marks the age where a child is still 'energetically linked' to it's mother.
@@theastral1909 I've heard it is around ten but of course that is just an average. BTW, I was dealing with daughter and mother who are both NPD's. Yeah, that was fun getting tagged team for fuel (I had to make sure I said that word).
Why do they pick certain people? 😢
Yes HG has been spoken for. I would say for at least the last 5 years or so. You can take a number and get in line where you belong with the rest. The Ultra is still going on me. Regardless. Try a different perspective to understand?
If you long after a narc after discovering their true nature, you have just as many issues as they do, low self-esteem comes to mind. Relationships with non-narcissists are much more rewarding. Relationships with narcs are just a scripted play, a piece of fiction. As hard as it maybe to accept, it's not genuine. It's easy to find solace in a fantasy world, the rules don't operate on reality. The question is are you strong and brave enough to embrace what is genuine?