Hey guys, I just now realized that I messed up on the editing at one point. I am not sick, it was just that I had to run outside while I was filming and I was out of breath 😂. I meant to edit that out but I guess I forgot sorry about that. And also on the part where I was looking down, I was reading from my notes. Again, sorry for the poor editing.
When I regress I can easily snap out of it(cuz my family is always coming in and out of my room and being nosy) but when I do regress its like I still know my age and am aware that it isn't real and I always still feel my anxiety and stress. Is there a way to fully regress?
Hi ! I'm sorry for the late reply °=° I have had the same experience with regression and I still do sometimes. I found that my regression gear (bottles, pacis, onesies, toys, and stuffies) help me to feel secure and really feel small. If you have the means to get some or all of those things then I definitely recommend it! Watching cartoons where they interact with the viewer also helps me because I get to focus on their questions. Some shows are (Oobi, Dora the Explorer, Little Einsteins, Paw Patrol, Blues Clues, Blippi, Sesame Street, etc). Another thing that helps me is to do and wear things that make me feel physically little. For example I like to sit in the floor and crawl around, I wear oversized clothes if not my onesies, use both hands to drink/eat, and I have a cloth diaper that makes me feel extra small and secure. I dont 'use' it but just wearing it helps alot. My last tip is to just let it happen. This one is easier said than done but sometimes I have to remind myself that it's okay to regress. If you feel the urge to babble, kick your feet, spin around, dance, etc then allow yourself to do it. I know it can be hard to fully regress but these are just some things that help me when I'm struggling. If I think of anything else I will probably make a video about it. Thanks for commenting and feel free to ask me any other questions you may have.
Since I’m a minor I can’t buy whatever I want n I rlly want a pack but like absolutely no one knows about my agere so for Christmas I asked my mom for ring pops n she got me a bunch 😊 But I have learned that a big trigger for me is talking to one of my friends bc she talks to me with a bunch of sweet names n like encourages me to stay focused on things 😂 Update: my friend is gonna buy me a paci 🤸🏾♀️
i accidently slipped and told my mother while little, luckily she was really supportive and bought me stuff and everything. but please make sure you explain what it is so they dont mess it up with age play and that you have somewhere else to go if it backfires.
I really wan to tell my mom - I have autism and severe anxiety and I really want the stuff. I don't know how to tell her though - I hope she doesn't disown me.
@@aphasiasys a recommendation i have is if u have nail chewing problems u could say u want a teether so u wont chew on ur nails!! u could also get a doll and get pacis and say theyre for the doll, or u could say u like baby stuff for the aesthetic and get pacis and stuff “for the aesthetic”
I told my mom and asked for a adult pacifier and it sounded like she didnt accept me she also said that pedos make these types of pacifiers and also wont let me get baby stuff now idk if she supports me or not-
I told my mom as an adult. Come to find out that she identified as one to but didn't have a word for it or the space to act it out. She even acted as my mom when I was smaller when I fully age regressed once in front of her. It was really nice.
Well, I just learned of one of my positive triggers... The rattle. (Possibly even crinkle sounds and other stuff like that will do the same too!) I appreciate that. 😊 It is so hard for me to type this when regressed... 😅
The thing that make's me regress is because i stress like alot- if i do/ say something weird/ embarrassing it will stay in my mind for so long, i would be scared of going to school its just horrible :c
Same for me Bunny Bear. I have weird regression behaviors where I break down and get bratty and whiny. It happened at school once and I literally had to leave and stay home. I didn't know that that was part of my regression at the time, until I found out wat it was. I really have some negitive triggers that look ugly and may be overwhelming to some, so its a good thing Im at home! ^_^ I get to be little in my room and feel comfortable.
So my age range is quite big in my opinion considering I’m still pretty young (my age range is currently 2-9) and I’m still very new to the community. I have a supportive friend that got me a paci and sippy and I want her to be my CG (no I don’t have a crush on her, I am an SFW age regressor). I’m still trying out new things while hiding it from my parents, but it helps me feel safe and happy. I’ve only reached the age of 2 once and I’m really hoping it happens again because it felt really nice. Age regression is also how I discovered that I like cuddles. Rant from a new little is officially done 😂
@@littletoots6366 Oof, well I’m sure it worked out even without age appropriate toys! I can actually give an update to my message here because last night one of my other friends said she was okay with being my babysitter and now I’m really happy! She helped me fall asleep last night 😊
i typically don't comment since anxiety sucks, but i feel more safe and comfortable here. i'm a minor (teenager), who regresses, but i always tend to have trouble sometimes when i do it voluntarily. i guess the reason being is i'm afraid to fully slip, especially with family around, since i don't know how little me reacts with others nor do i know how my family would react. sorry it was a lot, but i don't have anyone who i can really tell this to who would actually kind of understand 😅 anyways, rant aside, thank you for the tips!! 💖 also i love your tiara, it looks good on you ^^ 💞
Thank you for commenting!! I’m sorry I didn’t respond sooner but I tend to regress in my room at night when I’m wanting to escape my family lol. Fully regressing can be scary but I hope you’re able to make a space and time where it’s safe for you to try!
I was actually unaware that I regressed at all until about two years ago. Seriously didn't even know that was a thing and that it had a name. I really just thought I was immature, lol. It also not really conscious for me as it a trauma response and coping mechanism. I'd say my little side is about 4 to 9, which isn't all that young, but I don't have a support system as it's still new... so who knows. I did notice after visiting a friend for a month that I just naturally fell into it around her and my other long time friends. She's a very kind person and never called me on it being abnormal to her. The others just take it with a grain of salt and really it's so freeing to not be judged. I'm, once again, unaware of when I regress until after the fact so..... Also someone below mentioned age dreaming. I need to look into that.
Hi! I know it can be hard but the best tip that I can offer is to just be patient with yourself in and out of little space. It may take some time but paying attention to your needs and wants both in and out of little space will help you get more comfortable. Sorry this sounds so vague but I hope it helps some.
Hi! I just want to thank you for this video. I've had a hard time learning about my little side, and thanks to this video I was able to find that a regress around the age of 1-3,and the reason for which I regress is my past trauma with neglect and other traumas.
i had a really rough day at work and i've been having a really stressful time lately, i haven't unpacked possibly being a regressor in a couple of months. i realized, though, that i was starting to regress at work when things were getting really stressful. kinda fell out of it as the day went on but i still feel kind of in it. i wanna sit with this and honor it instead of continuing to push it down
Thank you so much, ive been regressing a lot dude to some traumatic memories coming back to me. Its actually very helpful, no idea what age it is but its fun. I usually watch my little pony, play with my plushies, play video games, draw (witch i always do but i have a lot less restraint on what i draw lol) i tend to dress more like a girl dispute being a boy but its fine by me
This video helped me so much, thank you. I've been regressing for a few years now and didn't even know it. Didn't know about little space or regression or what it meant, So I've been trying to inform myself as much as possible; but it's a bit confusing because most of the information out there is about ddlg and that's just scary. My regression has nothing to do with 'intimacy' (I don't know how else to word it) and it feels great to see that there are others like me. Especially because I have to hide the fact that I regress to those around me. So once again thank you.
Thank you so much for this video! I deeply appreciate it as for many years I've been a caregiver of sorts but I always did feel little inside and for many years I've been regressing without knowing. You put lots of info that does help give me a better idea about regressing and it helps me figure myself out more. Keep it up with the amazing videos and I always look forward to your videos since I watched your first one. Keep it up and may you have blessed days :)
That's valid! I have had older regression where I felt 7-8 years old . It was just for a little while but I enjoyed it. I'm usually to young to go outside, play video games, ride my bike etc but it was nice to finally be able to do those things in regression. Kid regression is great!
I stated 4 to 9 as my ages but I rarely go bellow 8 unless I'm alone. In all actuality even at 32 I never socially matured past 12 (my life was really traumatic then and I'm autistic) or so.... soooo take that as you will.
every time i feel regression even before i regress i cry so bad bc i can't be a baby again and i've tried real hard to get past it but i can't so i am just a crybaby and that's ok
yes! Songs can definitely be triggers. I personally have both songs that are positive and negative triggers. One of my positive ones is Girl Almighty by One Direction >v
I just found out I might wanna try out age regression and I had no idea where to start so thank you for this video. I'm still not sure how I know if I'm in the right headspace but I'll keep trying it out. Thank you!
i regress both voluntarily and involuntarily, and i usually get very upset and cry a lot when i regress involuntarily because i always feel guilty about it, and i don't have very much regression gear (pretty much only plushies), so i don't have many items that give me comfort
Involuntary regression can be pretty emotionally taxing sometimes. just try to practice not being so hard on yourself about regressing. I know it’s easier said then done but I believe in you!
I feel like the main thing that stops me from regressing is thinking I have to do it a certain way, be a certain age, etc. Thank you for saying there’s no proper way to act a certain age and stuff, to just observe what I like and do whats best for me
Thank you. I have a question, I feel like I might regress, or at least I want to, it feels comforting to act like a child with everything. But I feel like I might be fake or something I don't think like a small child, I just act more so, and I don't like being talked to in a baby voice either. I want to color and make noise and people to pay attention to me. I'm sad because I have no idea if I really regress or if I just act like a kid because I want too. Help me?
@@shadow_shine3578 Hi, it definitely sounds like you may be age dreaming! I don't have much experience with it but here's an article that I found. Hope this helps. allaboutarden.wordpress.com/what-is-age-dreaming/
I regress due to stress, it usually stops/prevents my panic attacks. But recently i haven't been able to regress due to way to much happening, and when i do it gets stopped quickly due to something like family problems and etc.
Agere has also been a big help in stopping panic and anxiety attacks for me! I think it sometimes makes all those complex emotions and feelings easier to process. For example when I’m big I might be feeling depression but as I regress it breaks down into simpler emotions like sadness, fear, and anger. it’s the same feeling, just a little easier to understand.
My age regression age is 2 years old. And when i regress i make my voice like a toddlers. My positive triggers for age regression is being around books, posters, etc of dinosaurs manily t rex because i feel more little when i'm in the presents of dinosaurs because dinosaurs are way bigger than i am. And my other positive trigger is that i wear diapers 24/7 even when i'm not incontinent.
Stress can make it harder for me to regress too sometimes and other times it makes it harder not to regress... I hope you're able to regress soon tho if that's what you want!
For me if I get super excited or happy about something I end up regressing which is fun but also annoying sometimes because I might regress in the wrong situations😔
Thank you so much! Really needed this video. I've ben dealing with similar issues but embracing it in a positive manner like this never occurred to me. Will check out your other stuff!
Can you make a video on the tracking and recording your regression part? Like give specific examples on what you could do and how the best way to do it would be?
Little story that was so embarrassing for me but like when I was at the spych ward there was this one girl who was 17 I think but she was so motherly and also they treated my like the baby of the ward sense my first/second day I cried so much but we where outside and sombody accidentally threw some of the rubber that was on the ground into my hair (witch is long and thick) and she said “oh no! Baby come here” OMG I went into little space so hard I tried my best to hide it 😭
I both regress for coping (mostly because I feel stressed with being an adult) and entertainment. My positive triggers are mostly pacifiers (use to suck it when I go to bed and can't sleep❤), stuffed animals (I have a rabbit called Josephine and lamb called Lambie - they are so cute and soft and cuddly😍), diapers and being naked - which I loved as a child. I'm mostly three years old when I'm regressing, but I can also be five years or eight months old.
I definitely needed these prompts as I'm new to the sub space. My Dom and I have fighting due to the confusion, but you've helped me narrow down my needs. Thank you
Hi, thx for commenting! I just wanted to mention for others that age regressor and caregiver relationships are not always the same as dom/sub dynamics. The dom/sub dynamic is very much tied to kink and fetishized communities regardless of whether or not it’s sexual, it often involves power switching and control which isn’t always best for age regression! For young and minor regressors pls be safe and try not to focus too much on power switching!
OMG thank you so much!!!!!! I accidentally regressed at my dad's house, and I didn't know why, until I learned that I regressed because of some of the game I was playing and the characters I interacted with, which is weird, because it was danganronpa... So thanks to Tenko for that lol! 💗🌸🥺 (P.S UR SUPER CUTE)
I didnt feel like a girl nor a boy and i was forced by society to be girly and play dress up when i really didnt want to. Pos. triggers: •ball pit balls •bunnies •worms on strings •squishmellows •Hello Kitty characters •childhood snacks neg. triggers: •shouting •any loud noises Agere age range; 3-5 ish Irl age range; 12-16
I think books and cats help me get into age regress. Age regress helps me with anxiety and depression i wish i could have a paci but my mom says i am to old :( (i am 13)
You are to old for baby pacifiers (the ones you see in baby sections in stores), but you’re not to old for adult ones (found in adult shops and on Amazon, Etsy, and Insta). The baby ones have small nipples, so they can mess up your teeth if used for long periods of time or frequently. If your mom won’t let you get an adult one, there are adult nipple replacements on Amazon so you could mod a baby pacifier (cheapest option is the dollar tree) , but be careful not to break it.
The thing about the triggers I helped me figure something out, and now I know for sure what my(or at least one of my) negative triggers are. The experience with impure regression for me is awful, it's only happened once for me(the past few years anyways, I think) and it took so long to be able to stop crying. I had to curl up with my stuffed animals covering my ears to block out the noise(my mom was babysitting a little girl who was having a tantrum because she was overtired, triggered the impure agere) and I felt like the whole world was ending, or like someone wanted to hurt me. Honestly not surprised that I blame my dad for it oof I will talk to my therapist about this newfound information, so thank you /gen /pos
This is awesome! I’m glad you were able to figure it out. Like you said, impure regression feels awful but it sometimes helps to know your possible triggers.
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Sometimes I write about regression in my diary - the only one I can till about it except my stuffies, because my parents thinks it's weird😕So I mostly do it alone in my own apartment, longing for a caregiver or baby friend😢
I just recently got a caregiver and I'm so happy! We are more like friends. I am so happy right now. Now I don't have to be alone when I regress. Loneliness can make me sad as a toddler, so now I have someone to play and chat with! (◕ ω ◕✿)
I am kinda late on this video, because I am just now starting to realize what age regression is even though I've done it for almost a year. I do have a question, is it normal for me to go in and out of little space? Like I will feel small and regress for a minute but then when someone who doesn't know about my regression (my whole family) then I am suddenly back to big. I feel like I age dream a lot too, because sometimes I just feel like a kid and not actually regressing, but other times I actually regress.
As a minor and a little I always try my hardest to respect people who make 18+ content like helping you become kitty except when I have like blocks but k know I should regress then I always go to ones I know are ok and that help me but never other then when necessary
I already commented throughout the video. I hear great things all the way though. I have been wanting to make a little account on Instagram but I am little in secret.
Hi! I'm glad to see you commenting! I am also a secret regressor believe it or not. I'm slowly becoming more open about it but I understand where you are coming from. There are definitely ways to make little space accounts without exposing yourself. Feel free to use my twitter (@ LittleToots1) account and my Instagram (@ softees_express) account as an example!
Some of my good triggers are when im surrounded by kids stuff, and I constantly am BC I have baby siblings so I have more access to sippys, pacis, baby lotion, toys, and blankies, but that doesn't mean I can up and regress bc my parents are always around, but I found out I regress almost instantly when I am being yelled at it makes me feel small and I clam up and cry a lot so thst sucks.
I can't slip to my little space, it's just so hard. Idk why tho... Is it bcuz of surroundings or overstimulation. I don't think my mom is supportive. She says that having a pacifier is just non accaptable (can't spell) for an adult.
I’m not sure if you respond but I think I regress I know when I am little I know stuff like sex and curse words I just pretend like I don’t say them or don’t know dose that still make me a age regression or am I just doing it cuz it’s easiest to calm down/I follow some littles I am very confused
Hi! Its important to know and remember that age regression does not change a persons intelligence. It just changes their perception of (the way that they see and interact with) the world around them and this is different for everyone. What I mean by this is that when you regress, you usually still have the same amount of knowledge as when you aren't regressed, but most of the "grown up" stuff just isn't at the forefront of your mind. If you feel like you are an age regressor, then you are. Your regression is valid no matter what your reasons are. Hope this helped!
@@littletoots6366 it did help if havnt been to a therapist or anything about this I honestly discovered it on tik tok a year or two ago and tired it and it made my anxiety so much better and it made me happy
Hi, thank you for commenting! Lonliness in regression is something that I also experience frequently. Here are a few things I do to help: 🌟 Watch videos/shows where the characters and hosts interact with the viewers (for example yo Gabba Gabba, blues clues, Dora) 🌟 I’m in age regression spaces on social media. This one can be difficult, especially for minors so you should only do so if you feel comfortable and safe! You need to be able to set and enforce boundaries around your online regression spaces and you should respect boundaries of others. It’s nice to be able to see content, rambles, and even just written baby talk from other regressors and you don’t even have to interact with anyone if you don’t want to. Sometimes it just helps to know that there are other littles out there. 🌟 having music and moving lights also helps me sometimes, especially when playing with stuffies 🌟 if you have pets, they won’t judge you for being in little space! Sometimes it can be hard to find people to talk to when regressed but pets make great companions even when you’re little
I'm only 11 and I'm a secwet little so i can't get any little gear.. :c but my sissy hab many owd stuffies she don't need and i awso hab a cowowing book and some swime! c: I don't use my paci bc I know it will huwt my teeth.. Btw can you gib me some tips on how to fuwwy regress? (this is the first time I've been regressed the whole day and my pawents just ignowed me I-)
How do I know if I'm regressing or if just being childish? Like I put my hair in certain way and I see myself in the mirror and somehow feel like a little girl (when my mom used to do my hair) and I just act childish (I smile, laught, act silly...) I'm new to this and I'm still learning. Thank you all in advance.
I don’t think there is always a clear line between the two. You can imagine age regression as a spectrum so I would recommend that you just focus on the moment while it’s happening and then later when you think back on it you can try to classify it however you see fit. Journaling is great for this because then after multiple incidents you can look back at it and point out any patterns and it might be easier to differentiate between age dreaming (the acting childish part) and age regressing. But even if you never know, your headspace is still very valid!
Hi, I'm Michael ^^ I'm commenting like after so much time But I wanted to tell something I think I'm might be Agere, but when I think I might be I just go into anxiety because I'm scared I'm just confusing things, like, this happen to me with everything I think I might be/have, is not only with Agere In some times, when something, like, triggers me, I feel the need to act like a child, how I used to act when I was like 6-8 or more old/little, I actually think that most of the time this just happens without I choose it, I can't go to a psychologist, but I'm pretty sure I have personality and anxiety disorders, and I think these are making me doubt about everything, especially with age regression, it make me scared, because I'm scared to be wrong, also because I'm kinda very sexual addicted, and it somehow make me doubt about it, I want to add that if I'm really an age regressor, I will never do sexual things while I'm regressing Just for add, I like horror movies and things related to horrors etc..I don't really watch movies tho, and I love sad music, and it make me really really in doubt and confuses me even more I'm so so sorry for the long comment, have a good day
Age regression and mental health can be really really confusing and sometimes frustrating. I started unknowingly regressing at a very young age because of trauma and when i became a teenager/preteen I also thought i might have personality disorders. I was fortunate enough to have a psychologist who could test me and everything but one of the most important ways to tell if it was agere or a personality thing was whether or not I was still me. LIke i said, it can be really confusing and frustrating but its important to have patience with yourself. It also helps to do some research on your symptoms if it will help you feel better. I hope you get some answers! thanks for commenting!
So I’m a minor and age regression often and I have slipped at school and in public spaces like at the toy section. Any tips to like subtly regress or do it safely around others. Once in world history I slipped while doing a project I stole a protractor from my friends and was being bratty and stubborn and my friends were like. Tf? Sorry for ranting :DDD
How can you regress too much? I'm not disagreeing with you but I regress like 3 times a day for like an hour and a half, and I'm scared it's t o o m u c h
Hi! I totally understand your concern! In my opinion, age regression can become problematic if it's happening too much and/or causing you additional stress. Of course if it's too out of hand you should see a professional but I can give you some tips: 1. Try to schedule your regression. This will give you more control and cut back on too much involuntary regression 2. Set your regression gear, snacks, activities and social media apart from your big stuff. This will also make it easier to control your regression. 3. Dont punish yourself for regressing. Instead try to treat regression like a reward. For example instead of pushing the urge to regress away until it becomes too much, try giving yourself a goal like "if I do this many things today I can regress for this many minutes". I hope some of these help!
@@littletoots6366 Oh this actually helped a lot. Maybe using regression as a reward might help me :) My regression really isn't a problem tho. I just have a lot of free time and I can't think of anything else to do lol. Thanks so much.
Hi! So ummm... I get triggered mostly when I get shouted at and called mean words. I can't just snap out of it but I'm aware when the person who caused my trigger in a bad way is with me. I usually just stay quiet. I used to have a therapist but I currently don't have one. When I'm little, I cry easily. I only told one person about it and it's my boyfriend. He helps me a lot and also bought me a coloring book ⊂((・▽・))⊃ Thank you for the vid!! (◍•ᴗ•◍)
Hey guys, I just now realized that I messed up on the editing at one point. I am not sick, it was just that I had to run outside while I was filming and I was out of breath 😂. I meant to edit that out but I guess I forgot sorry about that. And also on the part where I was looking down, I was reading from my notes. Again, sorry for the poor editing.
Ik I'm late but it's okay I hope you feel better
Hey can we talk like I doubt you will see this but I need your advice plzzz
@@jasminecongrove817 of course! do you have instagram or twitter?
its ok it happens keep doing amazing things
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I regress because of a lost childhood and depression. I love crinkle noises and pusheen plushies!!!
Aww i luv pusheen 2
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I've been involuntarily regressing for years and I'm just now finding the community and everyone is so nice and understanding.
I’m here to say the tiara is fitting!! You’re cute! The tiara is cute! Cuteness overload!!
Aw thank you 🥺
I know!! When I first saw the tiara on I was like: ahh!! It's so cute 😸
I was just about to comment abwout thats! 🥺 It's soo cute, I is jealous.
When I regress I can easily snap out of it(cuz my family is always coming in and out of my room and being nosy) but when I do regress its like I still know my age and am aware that it isn't real and I always still feel my anxiety and stress. Is there a way to fully regress?
Following this post 💕 need similar advice on how to fully regress as I always subconsciously know my big me age
me too, and it suck cause i sometimes need to fully go and I still cant and anything cant snap me out of it
Hi ! I'm sorry for the late reply °=° I have had the same experience with regression and I still do sometimes. I found that my regression gear (bottles, pacis, onesies, toys, and stuffies) help me to feel secure and really feel small. If you have the means to get some or all of those things then I definitely recommend it! Watching cartoons where they interact with the viewer also helps me because I get to focus on their questions. Some shows are (Oobi, Dora the Explorer, Little Einsteins, Paw Patrol, Blues Clues, Blippi, Sesame Street, etc). Another thing that helps me is to do and wear things that make me feel physically little. For example I like to sit in the floor and crawl around, I wear oversized clothes if not my onesies, use both hands to drink/eat, and I have a cloth diaper that makes me feel extra small and secure. I dont 'use' it but just wearing it helps alot. My last tip is to just let it happen. This one is easier said than done but sometimes I have to remind myself that it's okay to regress. If you feel the urge to babble, kick your feet, spin around, dance, etc then allow yourself to do it. I know it can be hard to fully regress but these are just some things that help me when I'm struggling. If I think of anything else I will probably make a video about it. Thanks for commenting and feel free to ask me any other questions you may have.
Bro same like my parents are always like just busting in my room and I am like can I have privacy
@niata faking what?
I notice that usually when I have gender affirming experiences with my mom I regress. Finally getting to be the little boy I know I was supposed to be
Since I’m a minor I can’t buy whatever I want n I rlly want a pack but like absolutely no one knows about my agere so for Christmas I asked my mom for ring pops n she got me a bunch 😊
But I have learned that a big trigger for me is talking to one of my friends bc she talks to me with a bunch of sweet names n like encourages me to stay focused on things 😂
Update: my friend is gonna buy me a paci 🤸🏾♀️
the ring pop was a good idea ! when I first started regressing with items, I would buy the light up pacis from the skating rink. Whatever works best!
Same bro
No one knows about my little space
Aww, that's sweet 🥺
YAAAAY
i accidently slipped and told my mother while little, luckily she was really supportive and bought me stuff and everything. but please make sure you explain what it is so they dont mess it up with age play and that you have somewhere else to go if it backfires.
I really wan to tell my mom - I have autism and severe anxiety and I really want the stuff. I don't know how to tell her though - I hope she doesn't disown me.
@@aphasiasys a recommendation i have is if u have nail chewing problems u could say u want a teether so u wont chew on ur nails!! u could also get a doll and get pacis and say theyre for the doll, or u could say u like baby stuff for the aesthetic and get pacis and stuff “for the aesthetic”
I told my mom and asked for a adult pacifier and it sounded like she didnt accept me she also said that pedos make these types of pacifiers and also wont let me get baby stuff now idk if she supports me or not-
I told my mom as an adult. Come to find out that she identified as one to but didn't have a word for it or the space to act it out. She even acted as my mom when I was smaller when I fully age regressed once in front of her. It was really nice.
Well, I just learned of one of my positive triggers... The rattle. (Possibly even crinkle sounds and other stuff like that will do the same too!) I appreciate that. 😊
It is so hard for me to type this when regressed... 😅
My trigger (positive) is a game
A hello kitty game
This s hawed to type when your online five
I like rattles and crinkles sounds too
I like crinkles and stuff and I'm starting to fight the regression and stuff right now cuz I don't really want to .-v.-'
YES SAME 😂😂😂 I GOT CHRISMAS VIBES
The thing that make's me regress is because i stress like alot- if i do/ say something weird/ embarrassing it will stay in my mind for so long, i would be scared of going to school its just horrible :c
i 100% relate
Same for me Bunny Bear. I have weird regression behaviors where I break down and get bratty and whiny. It happened at school once and I literally had to leave and stay home. I didn't know that that was part of my regression at the time, until I found out wat it was. I really have some negitive triggers that look ugly and may be overwhelming to some, so its a good thing Im at home! ^_^ I get to be little in my room and feel comfortable.
So my age range is quite big in my opinion considering I’m still pretty young (my age range is currently 2-9) and I’m still very new to the community. I have a supportive friend that got me a paci and sippy and I want her to be my CG (no I don’t have a crush on her, I am an SFW age regressor). I’m still trying out new things while hiding it from my parents, but it helps me feel safe and happy. I’ve only reached the age of 2 once and I’m really hoping it happens again because it felt really nice. Age regression is also how I discovered that I like cuddles. Rant from a new little is officially done 😂
Hi! I'm glad you have a supportive friend! The oldest I've ever been was 8 and it was awesome except I only had baby toys to play with 🤦🏾♀️ lol
@@littletoots6366 Oof, well I’m sure it worked out even without age appropriate toys! I can actually give an update to my message here because last night one of my other friends said she was okay with being my babysitter and now I’m really happy! She helped me fall asleep last night 😊
@@DecoraLaura that's so sweet! 🥺 I'm glad it worked out for you!
wow! mine is currently 4-7.
I love the background music.makes me feel smol
me too!! :3
Me twoo >v
i typically don't comment since anxiety sucks, but i feel more safe and comfortable here. i'm a minor (teenager), who regresses, but i always tend to have trouble sometimes when i do it voluntarily. i guess the reason being is i'm afraid to fully slip, especially with family around, since i don't know how little me reacts with others nor do i know how my family would react. sorry it was a lot, but i don't have anyone who i can really tell this to who would actually kind of understand 😅 anyways, rant aside, thank you for the tips!! 💖 also i love your tiara, it looks good on you ^^ 💞
Thank you for commenting!! I’m sorry I didn’t respond sooner but I tend to regress in my room at night when I’m wanting to escape my family lol. Fully regressing can be scary but I hope you’re able to make a space and time where it’s safe for you to try!
I feel so safe here🥺
Same🥺
I was actually unaware that I regressed at all until about two years ago. Seriously didn't even know that was a thing and that it had a name. I really just thought I was immature, lol. It also not really conscious for me as it a trauma response and coping mechanism. I'd say my little side is about 4 to 9, which isn't all that young, but I don't have a support system as it's still new... so who knows. I did notice after visiting a friend for a month that I just naturally fell into it around her and my other long time friends. She's a very kind person and never called me on it being abnormal to her. The others just take it with a grain of salt and really it's so freeing to not be judged. I'm, once again, unaware of when I regress until after the fact so.....
Also someone below mentioned age dreaming. I need to look into that.
I have a question:
im a voluntary regressor and mostly regress because of anxiety, but it's hard to get into my little space. Do you have any tips?
Hi! I know it can be hard but the best tip that I can offer is to just be patient with yourself in and out of little space. It may take some time but paying attention to your needs and wants both in and out of little space will help you get more comfortable. Sorry this sounds so vague but I hope it helps some.
@@littletoots6366 it's okay and thank you
Omg same!
Hi! I just want to thank you for this video. I've had a hard time learning about my little side, and thanks to this video I was able to find that a regress around the age of 1-3,and the reason for which I regress is my past trauma with neglect and other traumas.
I love your user-
@@dassuspicousdasweiewd572 Thank you!
i had a really rough day at work and i've been having a really stressful time lately, i haven't unpacked possibly being a regressor in a couple of months. i realized, though, that i was starting to regress at work when things were getting really stressful. kinda fell out of it as the day went on but i still feel kind of in it. i wanna sit with this and honor it instead of continuing to push it down
I'm a nonbinary age regressor and you are super adorable!! Toys, stuffies, certain video games get me into little space ☺️☺️
Thank you! I sometimes play video games too in my older little space.
Thank you so much, ive been regressing a lot dude to some traumatic memories coming back to me. Its actually very helpful, no idea what age it is but its fun. I usually watch my little pony, play with my plushies, play video games, draw (witch i always do but i have a lot less restraint on what i draw lol) i tend to dress more like a girl dispute being a boy but its fine by me
Hi! I started regressing because of trauma too and it helped me a lot!
why am i crying this is so sweet
This video helped me so much, thank you. I've been regressing for a few years now and didn't even know it. Didn't know about little space or regression or what it meant, So I've been trying to inform myself as much as possible; but it's a bit confusing because most of the information out there is about ddlg and that's just scary. My regression has nothing to do with 'intimacy' (I don't know how else to word it) and it feels great to see that there are others like me. Especially because I have to hide the fact that I regress to those around me. So once again thank you.
Thank you so much for this video! I deeply appreciate it as for many years I've been a caregiver of sorts but I always did feel little inside and for many years I've been regressing without knowing. You put lots of info that does help give me a better idea about regressing and it helps me figure myself out more. Keep it up with the amazing videos and I always look forward to your videos since I watched your first one. Keep it up and may you have blessed days :)
I see so many young ages, but I usually feel 7-10 when I regress
That's valid! I have had older regression where I felt 7-8 years old . It was just for a little while but I enjoyed it. I'm usually to young to go outside, play video games, ride my bike etc but it was nice to finally be able to do those things in regression. Kid regression is great!
Yup! Same here lol. I’m like 6-8.
I stated 4 to 9 as my ages but I rarely go bellow 8 unless I'm alone. In all actuality even at 32 I never socially matured past 12 (my life was really traumatic then and I'm autistic) or so.... soooo take that as you will.
I’m 3-5
every time i feel regression even before i regress i cry so bad bc i can't be a baby again and i've tried real hard to get past it but i can't so i am just a crybaby and that's ok
can a positive trigger be a song, or would that just be categorized as sounds? because there's this one song that just makes me feel really small :]
yes! Songs can definitely be triggers. I personally have both songs that are positive and negative triggers. One of my positive ones is Girl Almighty by One Direction >v
I just found out I might wanna try out age regression and I had no idea where to start so thank you for this video. I'm still not sure how I know if I'm in the right headspace but I'll keep trying it out. Thank you!
i regress both voluntarily and involuntarily, and i usually get very upset and cry a lot when i regress involuntarily because i always feel guilty about it, and i don't have very much regression gear (pretty much only plushies), so i don't have many items that give me comfort
Involuntary regression can be pretty emotionally taxing sometimes. just try to practice not being so hard on yourself about regressing. I know it’s easier said then done but I believe in you!
I really like wearing wide legged jeans then doing a tight cuff, but most of the time i regress best wearing skirts and tall socks.
I feel like the main thing that stops me from regressing is thinking I have to do it a certain way, be a certain age, etc. Thank you for saying there’s no proper way to act a certain age and stuff, to just observe what I like and do whats best for me
it’s easier said than done but it definitely helps you to stay more in the moment once you get used to it!
Thank you.
I have a question, I feel like I might regress, or at least I want to, it feels comforting to act like a child with everything. But I feel like I might be fake or something
I don't think like a small child, I just act more so, and I don't like being talked to in a baby voice either. I want to color and make noise and people to pay attention to me.
I'm sad because I have no idea if I really regress or if I just act like a kid because I want too. Help me?
there's also age dreaming, that's when you don't regress but still act like a child and feel kind of like a child :)
@@babiewaffles4026 that's a thing? Really? Oh wow thank you I'll look at that oh! Thank you!
@@shadow_shine3578 Hi, it definitely sounds like you may be age dreaming! I don't have much experience with it but here's an article that I found. Hope this helps. allaboutarden.wordpress.com/what-is-age-dreaming/
I regress due to stress, it usually stops/prevents my panic attacks. But recently i haven't been able to regress due to way to much happening, and when i do it gets stopped quickly due to something like family problems and etc.
Agere has also been a big help in stopping panic and anxiety attacks for me! I think it sometimes makes all those complex emotions and feelings easier to process. For example when I’m big I might be feeling depression but as I regress it breaks down into simpler emotions like sadness, fear, and anger. it’s the same feeling, just a little easier to understand.
Your suggestion about thinking of the age you regress to got me thinking about why that age and seriously helped me realize why. Thank you
3:53 the sound is so nice
I appriciate this alot. Thank u so much!
My age regression age is 2 years old. And when i regress i make my voice like a toddlers. My positive triggers for age regression is being around books, posters, etc of dinosaurs manily t rex because i feel more little when i'm in the presents of dinosaurs because dinosaurs are way bigger than i am. And my other positive trigger is that i wear diapers 24/7 even when i'm not incontinent.
Hi! Thanks for the comment
Thank you for this video ! You are really kind !🥰😘😋
... that's probably why I haven't been able to regress lately, I haven't been under a ton of stress
Stress can make it harder for me to regress too sometimes and other times it makes it harder not to regress... I hope you're able to regress soon tho if that's what you want!
Thank you this was really helpful!
For me if I get super excited or happy about something I end up regressing which is fun but also annoying sometimes because I might regress in the wrong situations😔
Thank you so much! Really needed this video. I've ben dealing with similar issues but embracing it in a positive manner like this never occurred to me. Will check out your other stuff!
Thanks so much for this video! I just ordered my first paci’s a couple days ago :)
Awesome! I hope you’re enjoying them!
Can you make a video on the tracking and recording your regression part? Like give specific examples on what you could do and how the best way to do it would be?
Little story that was so embarrassing for me but like when I was at the spych ward there was this one girl who was 17 I think but she was so motherly and also they treated my like the baby of the ward sense my first/second day I cried so much but we where outside and sombody accidentally threw some of the rubber that was on the ground into my hair (witch is long and thick) and she said “oh no! Baby come here” OMG I went into little space so hard I tried my best to hide it 😭
I both regress for coping (mostly because I feel stressed with being an adult) and entertainment. My positive triggers are mostly pacifiers (use to suck it when I go to bed and can't sleep❤), stuffed animals (I have a rabbit called Josephine and lamb called Lambie - they are so cute and soft and cuddly😍), diapers and being naked - which I loved as a child. I'm mostly three years old when I'm regressing, but I can also be five years or eight months old.
my pos triggers r dinosaur stuffies, rattling and crinkling, the toy isle and baby isle at walmart and the bluey intro! (and the show itself too!!!)
Okay, I feel I have commented so much now but you are really saying everything that I needed to hear. I really appreciate that
I definitely needed these prompts as I'm new to the sub space. My Dom and I have fighting due to the confusion, but you've helped me narrow down my needs. Thank you
Hi, thx for commenting! I just wanted to mention for others that age regressor and caregiver relationships are not always the same as dom/sub dynamics. The dom/sub dynamic is very much tied to kink and fetishized communities regardless of whether or not it’s sexual, it often involves power switching and control which isn’t always best for age regression! For young and minor regressors pls be safe and try not to focus too much on power switching!
OMG thank you so much!!!!!! I accidentally regressed at my dad's house, and I didn't know why, until I learned that I regressed because of some of the game I was playing and the characters I interacted with, which is weird, because it was danganronpa... So thanks to Tenko for that lol! 💗🌸🥺 (P.S UR SUPER CUTE)
I just found ur channel and I love your vibe so much 🥺
I regress because my parents are split up and I have a lot of anxiety sometimes
I didnt feel like a girl nor a boy and i was forced by society to be girly and play dress up when i really didnt want to.
Pos. triggers:
•ball pit balls
•bunnies
•worms on strings
•squishmellows
•Hello Kitty characters
•childhood snacks
neg. triggers:
•shouting
•any loud noises
Agere age range;
3-5 ish
Irl age range;
12-16
I have only watched this halfway through but thank you thank you thank you. You are awesome !!
I think books and cats help me get into age regress. Age regress helps me with anxiety and depression i wish i could have a paci but my mom says i am to old :( (i am 13)
You are to old for baby pacifiers (the ones you see in baby sections in stores), but you’re not to old for adult ones (found in adult shops and on Amazon, Etsy, and Insta). The baby ones have small nipples, so they can mess up your teeth if used for long periods of time or frequently. If your mom won’t let you get an adult one, there are adult nipple replacements on Amazon so you could mod a baby pacifier (cheapest option is the dollar tree) , but be careful not to break it.
Thank you so much for this information! ❤️ I'm so nervous to tell my therapist lol.
The thing about the triggers I helped me figure something out, and now I know for sure what my(or at least one of my) negative triggers are.
The experience with impure regression for me is awful, it's only happened once for me(the past few years anyways, I think) and it took so long to be able to stop crying.
I had to curl up with my stuffed animals covering my ears to block out the noise(my mom was babysitting a little girl who was having a tantrum because she was overtired, triggered the impure agere) and I felt like the whole world was ending, or like someone wanted to hurt me.
Honestly not surprised that I blame my dad for it oof
I will talk to my therapist about this newfound information, so thank you /gen /pos
This is awesome! I’m glad you were able to figure it out. Like you said, impure regression feels awful but it sometimes helps to know your possible triggers.
(This is in baby writing basically. Sound words out and compare them to baby pronunciations)
I becoming a new widdle. I do vowuntawi agre for mi cwomfort and eshcape. I'm finking mi wange iz 4-6. I wove doing widdle 4-6 y/o me fings.
Fings incwuding:
Being in high pwaces
Stuffies
Cartoon
Bwuey!
Mi skaye pwush (paw patrol)
Colwor, colwor!
Hewwo kitti
Bweing cwozi
Mi bwabi bwanki
Bweing actwive
Walkwing awound
Draw pwitty pictwures
Bwo on da go!
I wuv wegwessing sho much! Me fwind dat I nweed to get agre gear 2 reawwy get into it:3
aww,, thanks for your comment! We like a lot of the same stuff when regressed!
Thank you I have it and my friend dose so this helped a lot! :)
I good tip is to make or get stuff to help communicate
Yes! That’s a great point!
Thank you for your help and support ☺️ This video is incredible!!!!!!! ✨🌼💖🌼✨🌈☺️🌞☺️🌈🍉🎉🧸🎉🍉
Thank you for making content
Sometimes I write about regression in my diary - the only one I can till about it except my stuffies, because my parents thinks it's weird😕So I mostly do it alone in my own apartment, longing for a caregiver or baby friend😢
I just recently got a caregiver and I'm so happy! We are more like friends. I am so happy right now. Now I don't have to be alone when I regress. Loneliness can make me sad as a toddler, so now I have someone to play and chat with! (◕ ω ◕✿)
This video is really helpful and thanks for posting
I am kinda late on this video, because I am just now starting to realize what age regression is even though I've done it for almost a year. I do have a question, is it normal for me to go in and out of little space? Like I will feel small and regress for a minute but then when someone who doesn't know about my regression (my whole family) then I am suddenly back to big. I feel like I age dream a lot too, because sometimes I just feel like a kid and not actually regressing, but other times I actually regress.
Going in and out of regression is totally normal and in my opinion kind of healthy. I also find it hard to regress/stay regressed around other people.
The music makes me sleepy hehe
I luv luv luv luv luv luv luv you pretty tiara I haves one to and wore it when I wach you video
As a minor and a little I always try my hardest to respect people who make 18+ content like helping you become kitty except when I have like blocks but k know I should regress then I always go to ones I know are ok and that help me but never other then when necessary
1:56 Hi, agere here, I'm still figuring out what my triggers are, all I know is 1 negative one.
I already commented throughout the video. I hear great things all the way though. I have been wanting to make a little account on Instagram but I am little in secret.
Hi! I'm glad to see you commenting! I am also a secret regressor believe it or not. I'm slowly becoming more open about it but I understand where you are coming from. There are definitely ways to make little space accounts without exposing yourself. Feel free to use my twitter (@ LittleToots1) account and my Instagram (@ softees_express) account as an example!
One of my trigger is one of my friends lol. Im not sure why, but I regress almost every time I see her .
Some of my good triggers are when im surrounded by kids stuff, and I constantly am BC I have baby siblings so I have more access to sippys, pacis, baby lotion, toys, and blankies, but that doesn't mean I can up and regress bc my parents are always around, but I found out I regress almost instantly when I am being yelled at it makes me feel small and I clam up and cry a lot so thst sucks.
I think I'm 1-9 but I always say I'm 2-7 because I feel more like those ages but idk im still new regression
Thank you so much for the video
My nickname has been toot since I were 3! 🥺💜
My mom always calls me toots!
I noticed with myself is lotion, when I shower just putting lotion on my skin. That and now having a mommy helps alot >.
I can't slip to my little space, it's just so hard. Idk why tho... Is it bcuz of surroundings or overstimulation. I don't think my mom is supportive. She says that having a pacifier is just non accaptable (can't spell) for an adult.
Thank you!🙏 your video is very helpful.❤💯
Glad it was helpful!
I’m not sure if you respond but I think I regress I know when I am little I know stuff like sex and curse words I just pretend like I don’t say them or don’t know dose that still make me a age regression or am I just doing it cuz it’s easiest to calm down/I follow some littles I am very confused
Hi! Its important to know and remember that age regression does not change a persons intelligence. It just changes their perception of (the way that they see and interact with) the world around them and this is different for everyone. What I mean by this is that when you regress, you usually still have the same amount of knowledge as when you aren't regressed, but most of the "grown up" stuff just isn't at the forefront of your mind. If you feel like you are an age regressor, then you are. Your regression is valid no matter what your reasons are. Hope this helped!
@@littletoots6366 it did help if havnt been to a therapist or anything about this I honestly discovered it on tik tok a year or two ago and tired it and it made my anxiety so much better and it made me happy
I feel lonley when I’m regressed what should I do?
Edit: this is so helpful Ty!😊
Hi, thank you for commenting! Lonliness in regression is something that I also experience frequently. Here are a few things I do to help:
🌟 Watch videos/shows where the characters and hosts interact with the viewers (for example yo Gabba Gabba, blues clues, Dora)
🌟 I’m in age regression spaces on social media. This one can be difficult, especially for minors so you should only do so if you feel comfortable and safe! You need to be able to set and enforce boundaries around your online regression spaces and you should respect boundaries of others. It’s nice to be able to see content, rambles, and even just written baby talk from other regressors and you don’t even have to interact with anyone if you don’t want to. Sometimes it just helps to know that there are other littles out there.
🌟 having music and moving lights also helps me sometimes, especially when playing with stuffies
🌟 if you have pets, they won’t judge you for being in little space! Sometimes it can be hard to find people to talk to when regressed but pets make great companions even when you’re little
Very informative!
One of my positive triggers are cute non-sexual pet names
Me too!
Can you make the video about making a twitter? Thanks so much. I love your content ❤
I'm only 11 and I'm a secwet little so i can't get any little gear.. :c but my sissy hab many owd stuffies she don't need and i awso hab a cowowing book and some swime! c: I don't use my paci bc I know it will huwt my teeth.. Btw can you gib me some tips on how to fuwwy regress? (this is the first time I've been regressed the whole day and my pawents just ignowed me I-)
this video made me feel really small
How do I know if I'm regressing or if just being childish? Like I put my hair in certain way and I see myself in the mirror and somehow feel like a little girl (when my mom used to do my hair) and I just act childish (I smile, laught, act silly...)
I'm new to this and I'm still learning. Thank you all in advance.
I don’t think there is always a clear line between the two. You can imagine age regression as a spectrum so I would recommend that you just focus on the moment while it’s happening and then later when you think back on it you can try to classify it however you see fit. Journaling is great for this because then after multiple incidents you can look back at it and point out any patterns and it might be easier to differentiate between age dreaming (the acting childish part) and age regressing. But even if you never know, your headspace is still very valid!
This is honestly helpful. Thanks.
can u put portuguese subtitles?
i am brazilian and i didin't understand english very well :((
I will try to add Portuguese subtitles next time! Sorry about that.
This very helpful 😊
This video was helpful!!
I’m glad you thought so!
Hi, I'm Michael ^^
I'm commenting like after so much time
But I wanted to tell something
I think I'm might be Agere, but when I think I might be I just go into anxiety because I'm scared I'm just confusing things, like, this happen to me with everything I think I might be/have, is not only with Agere
In some times, when something, like, triggers me, I feel the need to act like a child, how I used to act when I was like 6-8 or more old/little, I actually think that most of the time this just happens without I choose it, I can't go to a psychologist, but I'm pretty sure I have personality and anxiety disorders, and I think these are making me doubt about everything, especially with age regression, it make me scared, because I'm scared to be wrong, also because I'm kinda very sexual addicted, and it somehow make me doubt about it, I want to add that if I'm really an age regressor, I will never do sexual things while I'm regressing
Just for add, I like horror movies and things related to horrors etc..I don't really watch movies tho, and I love sad music, and it make me really really in doubt and confuses me even more
I'm so so sorry for the long comment, have a good day
Age regression and mental health can be really really confusing and sometimes frustrating. I started unknowingly regressing at a very young age because of trauma and when i became a teenager/preteen I also thought i might have personality disorders. I was fortunate enough to have a psychologist who could test me and everything but one of the most important ways to tell if it was agere or a personality thing was whether or not I was still me. LIke i said, it can be really confusing and frustrating but its important to have patience with yourself. It also helps to do some research on your symptoms if it will help you feel better. I hope you get some answers! thanks for commenting!
Has anyone tips how to regress voluntary? I read and heard much about it
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🧸🦖🍼🤍🩷💜🍼🦖🧸Hello Thank You For This Video and God bless you in the mighty name of Jesus.
So I’m a minor and age regression often and I have slipped at school and in public spaces like at the toy section. Any tips to like subtly regress or do it safely around others. Once in world history I slipped while doing a project I stole a protractor from my friends and was being bratty and stubborn and my friends were like. Tf? Sorry for ranting :DDD
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I can easily snap out of little space, not regressing fully. I can never, I don't have any gear except for stuffies. Any tips ?
Thanks for the info😅
Thank you soooooo much ❤c:
ily
How can you regress too much? I'm not disagreeing with you but I regress like 3 times a day for like an hour and a half, and I'm scared it's
t o o m u c h
Hi! I totally understand your concern! In my opinion, age regression can become problematic if it's happening too much and/or causing you additional stress. Of course if it's too out of hand you should see a professional but I can give you some tips: 1. Try to schedule your regression. This will give you more control and cut back on too much involuntary regression 2. Set your regression gear, snacks, activities and social media apart from your big stuff. This will also make it easier to control your regression. 3. Dont punish yourself for regressing. Instead try to treat regression like a reward. For example instead of pushing the urge to regress away until it becomes too much, try giving yourself a goal like "if I do this many things today I can regress for this many minutes". I hope some of these help!
@@littletoots6366 Oh this actually helped a lot. Maybe using regression as a reward might help me :) My regression really isn't a problem tho. I just have a lot of free time and I can't think of anything else to do lol. Thanks so much.
How to slip in little space ☹️
Hi! So ummm... I get triggered mostly when I get shouted at and called mean words. I can't just snap out of it but I'm aware when the person who caused my trigger in a bad way is with me. I usually just stay quiet. I used to have a therapist but I currently don't have one. When I'm little, I cry easily. I only told one person about it and it's my boyfriend. He helps me a lot and also bought me a coloring book ⊂((・▽・))⊃ Thank you for the vid!! (◍•ᴗ•◍)