As a 25 year old truck driver, this broke me. I spend 95% of my time alone and it is lonely. Jordan has a way of giving advice that touches the heart. Never change, you amazing Lobster!
On the other end of the spectrum, unless you're lucky or a millionaire, the girl will drag you through mud. Most cheat and will dump you the moment something they think is better comes into their lives. So what's better being lonely or going through heart break like that? You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.
@@bane3991 - just don’t marry a girl that expects to be taken care of. Find a girl who isn’t asking you to pay her rent or buy her stuff. One that’s willing to work to build up your wealth together. And for God’s sake, don’t knock someone up on accident.
Didn't it "just" break a piece of you.? You are alive, you are here - there is life, there is hope. Luck is (can be) when good preraration lies ahead of a good chance - go prerare your self, to be ready and able, when (if - I'm realistic as fuck) your next chance comes by. And fucking REACT, when (if again) it does. Good luck from a danish coaching expert
You will get better man, there's time. Avoid meeting women online like the plague. You will know when you meet the right person, and it'll probably happen when you least expect it. As long as you are a good man, you're getting out into the world and you find a way to love yourself, you won't be alone forever. God bless.
Ben Shapiro being silent for 8 minutes straight just listening to Jordan Peterson is as powerful as the messages Jordan Peterson tries to share with us.
@@reasonablyserious I guess this is how someone's behaviour looks like when he/she gets a decent education where virtues like good listening, not interrupting each other, acceptance, thinking rational and not emotional, being courteous in general are being enhanced.
Glad I read your comment because I was second-guessing whether or not to watch the video. Absolutely loved that Peterson was given the opportunity to speak his mind on this topic.
@@nikokapanen82 you can tell his interactions with Jordan are different though. When I listen to this it sounds more like a Jordan lecture on the topic instead of a conversation.
Ben is not my favorite person, but notice how is able to sit and listen to Jordan patiently and attentively through his entire statement without interrupting. Hats off for that.
Yes. Wisdom, the truth has a calming influence on people who are seeking it. I would place myself in the noisy vexatious Ben type category but it’s a journey and the more I seem the truth and am prepared to listen the quieter I become.
I got zero respect from my peers for refusing to engage in the hookup culture, my aim was to have one committed and meaningful relationship. I've been married for 30 years now with absolutely no regrets.
Respect! I wonder where all these men who pressured you currently are in their relationships. Failed marriages….Probs still single and with a different girl every week
Same.....I have a promiscuous friend who teases me for wanting one committed relationship and advising him to do the same. I’m 18 and haven’t found that relationship yet......but I intend to, and I’m sure that like you, I’ll have no regrets in the end.
I've heard people who engage in this behavior say they felt disgusting, uncomfortable and sick to their stomach after engaging sexually with a stranger, without even bothering to ask for their name or connect with them in some sort of level. What Mr. Peterson said about "rejecting" human nature in order to be able to carry out this conduct is absolutely true, you're treating another human being like an object and letting yourself be treated as such as well. That must damage the psyche eventually, no matter how in control of the situation you think you are.
@Justin Hernandez I'm neither a conservative or a liberal and I don't particularly like how one's thoughts or feeling about a subject are always labeled under these two boxes as to dismiss an argument. That being said, the people I was talking about that engaged in this behavior ARE "liberal", and they said they felt "primitive" and like they'd lost control of their bodies and felt disgusted with themselves after giving in. And I can undersand why, that is all. I'm no one to judge.
@Justin Hernandez I'm not american, which is why I don't label everything as conservative/liberal. As I said, I'm neither. I personally don't feel comfortable engaging in hook up culture because it would make me feel undervalued as a human being, that is all, for me human connection is important. That being said, I have friends who are active participants in this (some more than others) and I don't judge, belittle or try to push my lifestyle down anyone's throat. I don't particularly think that people with a "liberal mindset" are automatically "smart" because I've seen firsthand what hook up culture has done to them. For some, I believe it is a defense mechanism that comes from a fear of abandonment, fear to commit and fear of being alone. Hooking up doesn't solve those problems, it just emphasizes them.
@Justin Hernandez You sound hurt. And as if you've adapted these ideas. I believe you believe these ideas and won't be convinced otherwise. And attempt to use "knowledge" to tell everyone else they are wrong with their conflicting opinions. Testosterone levels are high pushing men to find a mate/reproduce in their earlier years. Testosterone lowers with children, likely from more stress but also with aging in general. More of your testoserone is aromatized into estrogen as we age, likely to promote a more nurturing, nesting man. Listen to endocrinologists speak on this. Lol evolutionary psychology sounds like your god. Yet no one wants to be a part of your religion. I'm sorry you were hurt buddy. Don't bother replying, I won't see it
My friend laughs at me for putting value on the act of sex. She tells me that sex is not a big deal, basically means nothing. I just can't agree with that. Sex to me is not just an empty act. To me it is intimacy, closeness, a way to connect. Ultimately to me it is sharing, giving up a part of myself to the person i love.
Not just "to you." Sex and intimacy cannot be separated, as much as society wants to believe it can be. Every sexual partner carries a piece of us, and we wonder why society and people are so broken, and the divorce rate is basically higher than marriages who make it. Sex is meant for a husband and wife, not BECAUSE certain religions say so. The opposite, certain religions say so BECAUSE it's the truth.
You should show her how mistaken she is. Sex is a big deal! Not just for the people copulating but also because it’s the means by which humans procreate!
Yes, especially when I was at college (a year ago lol) I just got so tired of the hook up culture. My roommate got raped twice from her “hook ups” my family was very promiscuous and it led to nothing but mental illness and now those illnesses are genetic. I despise this
Well your not alone! I think it’s very sad to use others as disposable and how this is normalised in society especially within the whole university culture x Sometimes you feel like a weirdo for feeling like this, but you are not.
i was really hit hard by those words too, i told my boyfriend about this and he had to look it up & watch it. he was nodding his head in agreement the whole time.
What sucks is half of the people in our country will say you're full of sht because they are allowed to say whatever they want and get celebrated for saying the most hateful vile things possible.
I love how two men are talking about the importance of marriage. You don’t hear this much anymore. Most men just want to be with as many girls as possible.
Listen to the pain in his voice at the end. This is a man who knows that we’re going down a dark path we’ve never gone down before. And this man truly cares about it in a way that most of us probably can’t comprehend. God Save us..
I'm a 36 year old man, raised by single mother... and i just want to say, that Jordan Peterson is literally the father i never had growing up. And for that I will forever be grateful!
It is up to you to start the next generation with a balanced and well structured family. Fantastic you got this far in life. And have the next 35 years to build a family and do something great.
This I can't take anything this man says seriously when he was too weak to deal with death in his family, got addicted to drugs, then fled to Russia to be put into a coma to get off of them. One of the most pathetic, weak things I have ever seen someone do who criticizes drug users. The man is and was a drug addict, can't deal with the consequences, and isn't intelligent enough to deal with it himself. If you have respect for this idiot, I feel bad for you.
As someone from the UK, we have a lot of things figured out .. but our media is NOT one of them. So far we are lucky to not be as cancelled as most of the US but I fear one day soon they’ll leak through because of our shitty media
"If you are an attractive male and you have an endless array of willing females - that's a gateway to psychopathy, as far as i'm concerned." Damn, our doc here knows how to cut deep
I agree. Candace said something not too different awhile ago regarding women though. CO mentioned that showing sexy photo s of yourself on IG will get you male attention and you will have men want to have sex with you, but in the end that's all they see in you. I'm glad Jordan didn't put all the blame on women because men are a part of the problem too and he nailed it.
He does that with people he agrees with. In fact, everybody does that when they want to hear something that they agree with. How is that something unique exactly?
I'm staggered that my folks, smart ppl, 73yrs old n wise too.....didnt know who Dr. P was. Legacy media+big tech's smokescreen, plus limited access to JP unless u know what 2 look 4. Sad IMO.
Said by the man who never married, never had kids but had a very fulfilling life. Then in the NT Paul himself says it is better to not marry at all. None of that is mentioned of course by Dr. Peterson.
@@sueblack5794 listen sue. I don’t know if anyone’s told you this. But Jesus WAS God in human form. He was not bound by his human brain, or human flesh. He knew things before they happened. He knows how things will end. Yet you think He, the creator, doesn’t know a simple thing like this. Come on Sue. Think.
@@AceDeclan He was in human flesh right, the Bible says he was tempted like all men in the flesh. He was human as well and had the choice to be human and make human choices. Take your lips off the azz of the church and your minister. Read the Bible as is without the influence of your minister and religion. Really read it, I have, and it plainly says it better to not marry if you are in the faith.
THIS : "You can't divorce something as miraculous as sexuality from your life. Well, you can trivialize it and say, "Well, it's nothing." Ok, it's nothing. So, you have nothing. Good luck with that. You're going to take one of the deepest sources of meaning available and make it into nothing."
@ImmaGirarfe 'You can either have something that is nothing or nothing'-not an argument worth repeating.. A future with a significant other who may or may not take you for all you have and all you worked for and leave with the kids?? BTW the matriarchy which robs fathers and is enshrined in feeble western law is so ridiculous it is robbing men of any agency and contributing greatly to men's disenfranchisement.. Don't take my word for it, ask any divorced man, there's plenty out there.. As a man, why get married and have kids when the risks are so great?? This is why men are soooo very reluctant to get married and it will continue until family law is radically overhauled..
@@willpushback4874 I wouldn't disagree with your concerns, but rather than swear off relationships this just means that you have to be honest about what you want, maybe even brutally so. If you're honest about what your looking for and don't give them what they want without something in return (whatever that is) then you'll scare off the women that weren't worth your time anyway. Only the good ones will stick around when you put up standards. It worked for me and I have an awesome wife. As Jordan and Ben say, not perfect, but your relationship's quality is going to oscillate with how you uphold your standards and values that you hold yourself and your partner to. But I do agree that courts are heavily in women's favor. However, there are plenty of women that are looking for quality men. So be quality: don't give people something for nothing, promote virtuous loving, and above all be honest about what you want.
This only applies to men! Women can have sex anytime anywhere they want. There are no incel females for they can have sex by simply chosing to do so or not. Incel men want it but cant have it because they are incapable of attracting a female.
"You will never have the opportunity in your life to have as high quality relationship with anyone, as you could potentially have with your child". Red Skull
Yeah, this is a ruse. The vast majority of people are not well developed enough to not repeat generational trauma. He is talking in a biased way. Most people don’t self reflect or heal. And to get two who do that and make good parents? EXTREMELY rare.
This should be a thing, we post JP quotes like this and put - Red Skull at the end. The juxtaposition shows just how fucking ridiculous the red skull comparison is.
I am someone who is single and does not plan to have children. I'm happy with my life the way it is, and I think that the constant pressure on people to produce children that they may not want is doing a lot more harm than good.
What he said about high male promiscuity inevitably leading to some form of psychopathy blew my mind!! It’s so true!! I just paused it and thought about for a minute. Brilliant stuff!!
I never would've thought about it myself. Maybe that's also what pornography does. Could benefit from some investigation, we'd just have to get people routine brain scans.
@@Illlium Pornography, even though it's legal, can be very damaging I believe. Even best case scenario, it steals a lot of your time. I stopped looking at those kinds of magazines and websites about 10 years ago, and I don't regret it one bit. I WOULD regret it if I returned to it.
@@theboombody You could say that for every entertainment-adjacent activity. Partying steals your time and it can be very damaging even regardless of what you'd ingest. Same goes for sports. Life is complicated and full of bad and worse choices. Congrats on the goal reaching, ten years is a long time.
Why is that so? I thought about it and I agree with it, cause I see the effects all around. But what's the reason for this "turning into psychopathy"? 🤔
The sheer lack of meaningful relationships in the current day is quite scary, and it’s the reason why is haven’t entered a relationship as of yet. If I’m going to be with someone, I want it to mean something, have substance. An empty relationship is not a relationship at all, it’s an illusion.
"You will never have the opportunity in your life to have as high quality relationship with anyone, as you could potentially have with your child". Jordan Peterson
@GlobalMan Lite maybe you should question your own parenting and the environment you raised him with. Influence is everywhere and as a parent thats your part to guide them. Not blame them. Its a common logic. Blaming your child is like the dog ate my homework
@GlobalMan Lite I have a son ,26, a fine human being, college grad ,business owner, Christian. I am single now ,he is my most valuable thing . Its not always bad. So sorry ,Sir.
Where are my incapable girls at 😔🤚? I wish he'd talk about the woman's side of dating and how to avoid being scared of relationships, even if it ends. That's the only thing i envy about the hookup culture - the boldness.
Disagree. “Incapable”? What does that even mean? We are all capable to some degree. It may take some people longer, but if they work out, work on their personality, and save up, they can get someone.
@@mistercontroversial - meaning, you’re not worthy for a meaningful relationship because you don’t work on yourself in a way that makes you attractive to others. Everything you noted are things that would make someone capable of having a relationship.
@@anastasiat1481 The man is open to a lot of things, you can probably email him about it and he'd make an hour long video on the matter. Hell, he'd probably invite someone who knows more about the woman's side of things than he does (which makes me think is one of the reasons he isn't going there, being a man and all).
This is so powerful! I just turned 17, (teenage girl) and I really feel strongly about waiting until marriage. I want to keep my religious values sacred. Thank you for this video, it really moved me. I didn't realize how many people replied. To clarify I'm not blindly following religion there are a ton of practical reasons to wait, other than doing what feels good and living impulse to impulse. Risk of STDS is zero if your partner also waits, as a young women heart break is common and not letting your brain go crazy with bonding hormones from sex is a great way to have an objective view of who you are with. And I personally am not ready and would perfer to wait until I am completely comfortable with a person, and by the time I want to spend the rest of my life with them I'm definitely ready. Thank you to everyone who supports the idea and sent links about the practical benefits, much love. To people who think I'm a crazy prunish nun think about other perspectives. 😊
Once you enter college it's going to be insanely hard. Remember why you do it. Remember why it's worth it. Your not alone. It will seem like you are. But your not alone. They want you to be like them, but they can never be like you.
Numerous times during 2020 I thought to myself alone in my house “I wish I could hear what Jordan Peterson has to say about this”. I’m glad he’s back. We need him and people like him.
Same here, if you really do take 15 minutes, and think about these things, they really can get to you, and upset you. The students and children used to be taught that they will become the future leaders of this nation. Now it seems that they are being told that they are nothing, and will most likely become nothing
He actually seem choked up by his own words. His compassion for the people he is talking about and his passion for his own message is so powerful. There is honestly no one like him.
I’m not even very religious but have felt this way as far back as I can remember. Sad to see that many in our culture are so obsessed with such fleeting short term pleasure.
I think thats why nowadays ppl cant manage to know. We take somw values which needed to be preserved as religious or conservative but never see its value in our lives
@@theboombody for sure, and the pain within oneself when one gives away their precious sexual energy for little to nothing. The pain that’s usually suffered unknowingly.
@@MusicaDelCaribe being traumatized doesn't take empathy away from you, as for him being narcissistic, i don't know him personally to claim it so. You can see his body language showcase emotions and you can see pain and even tears crawling from his eyes when he mentions horrifying stuff like that woman having to sell her mother to survive a shit commie regime.
Unfortunately most people don't sit and think 15 mins about anything! Let alone about hard ethical or moral questions! People get upset just from being away from their phone from 15 minutes!
@@szepenszoloszolo5177 don't blame them but despise those who look away, we all should very aware of how bad things are to appreciate how good they are, and become better. 5 mins actually thinking about some human made horrors can drive you insane, not everyone can return safe from chapel perilous.
I am moved by Dr. Peterson's passion at the end telling the story of the North Korean woman's negative experience at Columbia. About 25 years ago I read an article in Teacher's magazine on a study where high school children who practiced casual sex suffer most not just from STD's or pregnancy, but from the emotional harm of feeling "used" and bereft of deep emotional intimacy that was lost through recreational sex. This is why I hate TV shows like "Friends". Adults acting like immature juveniles going to bed with each other and suffering no consequences of emotional damage from ongoing casual sex , STD's, or pregnancy. Joking about enjoying pornography as if it doesn't color their attitude towards women, or cripples their will to remain loyal to one partner through thick and thin.
Yeah, I mean Friends is a well written show, but there is no such thing as casual sex. There just isn't. It wasn't meant to be. Sex binds people whether they want it to or not. And it binds at a very deep level. You can try to suppress that, but it will eventually fail. It's almost like a drug where the only way your emotions tell you to handle it is just have more sex, to keep trying to fill the bucket that has 10 leaks in it. And that's leaving out all the consequences like spritual health, stds, preganancy, abortions etc.
I hate how pornography was spread like a virus to children at high school by the other older children. And i think the problem begins from pornography and the softer stuff spammed in the media and tabloids. Now we have deviants on youtube music disrupting the youth further. They r doing the D E V I L s work
I guess I've got a little more to go, but why change a good habit? The critical mass of cynic should be right around the corner, I can smell it, woof woof!
@@Ignasimp hmm. I cant remember going to russia. To be put into a come to become less drugaddicted? Then again, u lot are as usuall making shit up. I recon ur still stupid enough to belive in the big steal, antifa did the 6 jan attack, someone named god and any other tales u have been told.
Never "hooked up" with anyone Everyone who I have talked to who has hooked up says they wished they never did it because they have no self esteem anymore
@@shinjuku96jackson4 its true. I fell into that culture the past few years and it made me miserable. Completely sold myself out in search of a few minutes of sex with a stranger. I downgraded myself and gave up self respect in order to get into the pants of people I had zero romantic interest in and always felt shame immediately after orgasm. Imagine if I spent that time bettering myself or truly searching for deeper connection? Instead here I am, alone and questioning what I want out of life, but hey at least I have a large number of bodies to brag about. Hookup culture is toxic and depressing. Thankfully Ive recently realized this and changed my ways
I'm 27 years old and a Christian, I've remained in abstinence in my entire life. I've had many opportunities to "lose my virginity" to quite a few women (I don't say that as pride, that means nothing to me, it's just flattering at times). However, I haven't given into that. Because I know if I was to go down that road it would lead to a pit of despair for myself. I know I would always seek it and want it when I'm alone or in my thoughts. It's not just some easy road you stop going down once you've done it. It can consume you and heart tremendously especially if someone doesn't love you and just uses you. I can honestly say I'm thankful in the fact that I've never given myself away because the day I give myself to my wife, I will know no one but her and who is she emotionally, physically and spiritually. I don't think there is nothing more beautiful than that. Because I'll never think of another woman, my heart will belong to her and there is a joy in knowing you heart belongs to someone who you only know and no one else. There's a certain peace to it. That being said, God can deliver anyone from anything and I'm not opposed to marrying someone who isn't a virgin. But for me, I'm just thankful I'll be able to give myself to her and my heart will not be despaired to the level it could be. There is also an excitement in learning how to love someone in that. It'll be a constant journey and one that I believe will be very satisfying in my marriage some day. Our society has taken away any seriousness of sex and I've been often made fun of by men and women for staying this way. But I'd rather be this way than seeing my friends beg or chase their heart out for sex and satisfaction only to lead into despair. This post is way more in-depth and serious but this is all I got for now. And I'm not judging anyone who isn't a virgin or anything in that regard, etc. But the "hook up culture" that we are taught is garbage and destroying people.
Hey man, 21 years old Catholic here. You summed it all up in a moving way. As abstinence seems like too negative a label to my ears, I would label it chastity, but just to confirm what you say: it's worth living chastely. The hookup culture is painted as way better than it actually is. The pleasure it brings is so artificial as it is flickering and deceptive, and can lead to multiple evils - abandoned children, sexual diseases, abortions.
@@matheusf.alpoin3489 The problem with the Catholic church's view on chastity is that they make it mandatory for their priests. There is no Biblical or Godly reason to demand that and it has led to terrible consequences in the RCC. Your view of chastity and the hook up culture are spot on, though.
I love how Ben just listens and doesn’t micromanage his interviews. I get he’s known for debate and commentary, but he definitely deserves credit for his interview skills.
@@pennyappellatia When you invest in a person and they give you information and you go out and you see that that information correlates with watch on the news and websites and then you find out that they lied to you all for the sake of profit it’s hard to understand you’re getting manipulated if you were never taught before therefore you are getting robbed
That's what he means when he says stuff like "you have to be a gentle monster" or something like that. Basically, you have to be capable of it, but you should choose not to do it. In other words, the reason you don't get casual sex shouldn't be that you CAN'T get it, it should be that you don't want it because you're pursuing something more meaningful (marriage).
@@abbiealverez2960 have we really evolved past basic human needs? Just because we have technology doesn't mean we still don't fight in wars with each other, that we aren't more lonely despite being more connected over the internet, that we don't need a romantic partner to be able to bear the weights of our lives. And sex, well, maybe it's not necessary to have tens of children like long time ago, when few of them weren't predicted to survive, but it still connects you deeper with a romantic partner. You might argue that sex actually makes you more remote from the person, but that's not true if both of you are essentially friends and romantic with each other as well. Sex just by itself is obviously empty, but it's the integration of it in your successful relationship that makes it even more meaningful. And there are plenty of studies on the positive mental aspects of sex as well
@@karolakkolo123 Sex isn't a basic human need, it's a basic human urge, i.e. to reproduce. Sex by itself or in a relationship, is almost always empty because it is degrading when used outside of its intended purpose: the creation of new bodies.
@@s0nofg0d2 because psychopaths see other people as objects, not as people. If you're having sex with strangers, you are treating yourself and another person as something to be used.
You can see the intense passion and emotion within his eyes and his tone. This guy really cares and this guy is really smart. He’s rarely ever wrong and is one of the best men that has walked this earth in quite some time. This man is pure gold.
@@gug8774 i'm guessing you couldn't follow his advice even if you tried. Not everybody can handle the truth, especially those that think truth doesn't matter. i'm guessing this is a coping mechanism for those that know how lost they are and don't want to go through the hardships that correcting their ways inevitably brings.
"If you are really cynical, then you move past cynicism. You doubt your doubt and you start to notice, and you engage in your life." (4:25) A quote if there ever was one!
In theory. My ex-wife refused to look at me when I joined her body. If my face was George Washingon's painted green, then I would see her eyes open with love.
We are living in awful times in regards to relationships, i find hookup culture genuinely gross. The problem is it is such a widespread common thing these days. I even got called an incel by some people who support it for wanting to have a meaningful, more traditional relationship. It is really depressing.
Some of those people who just accuse people of being incels are insecure and have been hurt in the past. So they try to improperly cope by attacking others. The people who defend hookup culture don’t realize how much damage it’s doing to both the people constantly hooking up and the people trying to pursue relationships.
There are still people who believe in meaningful relationships and marriage. I got married at 18, and we'll celebrate our 10th anniversary this summer. Marriage is not easy but so worth it if you put the time into it. I think people in the hook up culture feel bad and lonely, and just like when a crab tries to escape and the others pull him back in, they are trying to keep you in their miserable environment. It's much nicer knowing who you're going to wake up to each day, because you've both made the commitment to be together for better and worse no matter what happens for life.
It’s not an either or thing. You can enjoy having casual hookups and still find someone to have a romantic relationship. The true tragedy is pigeon holing and not experiencing everything life has to offer.
I'm 23 and have only ever had 1 partner, and that's my partner today who I have 2 kids with and getting married in September. But this Generation makes me feel so ashamed of the fact I've only ever been with 1 person and that I'm wrong for doing it. I've never had a desire to be apart of the hook up culture and I'm proud of that, it's just sad that today It's shunned upon if you're not in it.
Same here. Been with only 1 partner myself and he's my fiance. We've been together for 7 years now actually. But I remember the first 4 years alot of women kept trying to influence me to dump him to see if the grass was greener and telling me "how do you know he's the one if he's all you ever known" or "if there's a 1st there's usually a 2nd and 3rd". And to have my "hoe phase" and "play the game" while I'm still young Lol I thought finding a partner was about finding a soulmate, not monkey branching frome dude to dude until you're all dried and used up to where you turn desperate. I'm already in love and the chemistry we have is real and much more valuable than meaningless attention from differen't dudes. If a woman wants to find *love* then she needs to start looking deeper than just what a man can financially do for them. Love him for HIM, and not what he can give you. Be his best friend, his safe place.
Please, know this. There is NOTHING to be ashamed of. The hook up culture has a dark side many don't want to talk about. Loneliness and pain quickly follow the so-called high.
The difference between North Korea and the west is that the move to Marxism in the west is one of a top down approach rather than a bottom up rebellion. What is happening right now in the west is all centred around propaganda that is trying to convince people that human nature does not exist.
Eh, that quote struck me as a severe exaggeration. What is the worst thing that is going to happen to an Asian woman at Columbia simply for expressing a view that isn't considered PC? Probably nothing, certainly not being sent to a "re-education" camp or prison.
@@DanTarrant1 I disagree, she said “stymied” environment. It is the PC atmosphere not the degree of punishment that dictates the emotional environment. In N Korea, One doesn’t think about what to say, you just repeat the training, for fear of death... no thinking involved. At Columbia, you think about what you believe then respond with what the culture allows. I find the later to be more stymied.
@@sofiabravo1994 Which proves absolutely nothing. Just because I post my own opinions on something doesn't mean anything anyone is saying hurts me. I've got a thicker skin than that.
I'm single in my late 20s and never had a one night stand. I tell people I'm waiting for the right person to marry and they look at me like I'm weird. This culture is depraved for sure.
the ones who think it's weird have no respect for their souls or their bodies. Essentially they have no standards and would make horrible marriage partners. Better to be alone until you find someone who shares your values
Every time I take the necessary moments to sit and listen to Jordan I find I am rewarded with the realisation that as an arrogant youth I should have paid more attention to what my father tried to teach me about the world.
Hook up is just another word for escaping loneliness... People fill their void using people which can never be filled by others but only by self.... Stay single... Love yourself and the right ones will come by... To find the right one... You must be the right one...
The solution to loneliness is meaningful connection with other humans. Yes, hookups are not meaningful connection, but neither should you be isolating yourself from people, either. The advice of “just love yourself” is both ineffective and highly narcissistic. The self is not sufficient, and JP would agree.
@@KrisVic91 If you don't like JP's personality for whatever reason, I suggest you instead go directly to the source and educate yourself about the social science surrounding the issue. JP is mostly just a delivery vehicle for social science, and the fact that so many people ignore everything he says because some of his opinions are shit shows that these people prioritize their ideology over science, which says a lot.
every time JP is on the verge of tears you can feel his empathy through the screen. It's more or less a tragedy in and of itself to be aware of all the tragedies in life.
He is still in constant pain. I can understand why he is constantly passionate and empathetic about the well being of humanity, especially due to his past with clients and being in a tough place where he has all the answers but is dealing with very unfortunate health issues.
You can see how heartfelt this man is by what he's talking about I'm as tough as they come but his sincerity and the Tone of his voice is actually upsetting me to the to the point of me choking up as I'm texting on my phone right now
Why are you choking up over this? Don't get me wrong, I agree with what he said for the most part (except marriage, which I think really makes you financially vulnerable if you choose the wrong partner).
@@yadanie6194 Don't get me wrong Dr Peterson speaking made me feel uneducated. He spoke with emotion a strong belief in what he was saying and a sadness in (I Believe the outcome of what's happening) And as one who has felt the financial burden of picking the wrong one, I apologize for ranting reason I was choking up because, he seemed saddened by what he was speaking about, I have a young daughter and what he was speaking about seemed to have a bleakness for her future, regarding meeting someone getting married and living happily ever after. Corny as that sounds RANTING Again lol
@@yadanie6194 Because its so refreshing to hear from such a genuine man who truly has humanity's best interest at heart. He gives people hope in a world where all hope seems to be fading.
He’s so articulate and well spoken. There’s a profound nature to the words. One of the greatest academics of our time. I look forward to more discussions with him.
Aye, his ideas are not new at all, but most people can't put their ideas into words, its why he blew up so fast, because us good people finally found a mouthpiece.
@@jeremiahhuffman2964 of course his general ideas are not new, they’re morally sound and have existed for generations, as with many other great philanthropists. However i wouldn’t trivialize his contributions, he uses clinical psychosocial experience to arm his philosophy, which is something very few people are capable of. His specific ideas are quite novel and just because he is adept at articulating does not mean he’s simply a profound speaker, that is not true- it comes from his academic prowess and unrivaled understanding. Much more than an acclaimed “mouthpiece” to society...
@@M31- Dont need clinical psychosocial expertise when people have had common sense and intuitiveness for hundreds of thousands of years before science. Young people always wanna believe they can discover something "new" and "fresh" SORRY KID, its done been KNOWN.
"She said that she felt just about as stymied in her freedom of speech at Columbia University, studying humanities, as she did in bloody North Korea." Deep & quite unfortunate indeed. America's suppose to be the bastion of freedom & liberty but the widespread indoctrination in schools toxifies the next generation to become the drone NPCs subservient to the hive, the radical identitarian totalitarian wokecists.
@@arighteousname5882 it’s possible. I’ve also realized I’ve had a lot I can sort out with myself and am taking more time to this past week and from here on out.
You’re not lame. If you want to find someone interested in getting married you really need to connect on a religious and political level and also have important goals with each other. Like buying a house or having kids.
@@LordSantiagor what is honest about sleeping with a person one day and leaving them the day after? It going back on the intimacy that was expressed mutually through your bodies.
Dr. Peterson not only see’s where the world is heading but feels it deeply. Being in that position and knowing that there’s really not much he can do to correct it, has to be a heavy weight.
@@dead_or_alive2649 Look at the marriage numbers. Men are going their own way in MASSIVE numbers. They will come back around, but only when women surrender their feminism.
One of the many things I will always love about this man is his ability to speak from the heart in such an unfiltered manner. His incredible ability to say things that are so hard to say, where most people would just avoid the thought if it was too intense or controversial to deliver, or try and deliver it in a sugar coated version. He's not afraid to be vulnerable to criticism and say it like it is.
I currently go to one of the Ivy League schools and live in its dorms. The other day my computer's headset broke, and the dorms here have "thin" walls and you hear a lot of the stuff going on in your dormmate's rooms. Because of this and the fact my headset broke, every time I watch one of the videos from creators I enjoy like Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, Steven Crowder, and others, I put the volume on very low so only I can hear it and none of my dormmates can for fear of them ostracizing me for the content I chose to engage with. It's the same thing while in public, I have one conservative friend, and whenever we discuss politics we are constantly mindful of who is around. It can definitely feel like a mild version of a censoring authoritarian regime. A few years ago I would laugh at someone acting like this and see it as they overreacting, but the climate is changing so fast at my school that this and worse may be the norm surprisingly soon.
What you just described is referred to as the ‘chilling effect.’ 95% of all higher education these days is a corrupt form of brainwashing. Keep your mind open and please don’t forget to read books for the pleasure of learning about topics which you want to read about - not only the ones prescribed in the classroom. I recommend joining Goodreads to find other passionate readers and to find new book recommendations. Reading has changed my life!
I was raised watching my mom jump from 1 marriage to the next with little to no respect for anything but materialistic items. I'm grateful I knew exactly what to not look for in my partner. Couldnt be happier.
Too many people are forming relationships on the basis of looks and cheap thrills. What is far more important is a person's character. Women are not actually attracted to men on the basis of looks.
@@bighands69 c'mon man, character may be more important than looks for long term relationships but to say that women aren't attracted to men based on looks is nonsense. Women want a man with good genes.
@@bighands69 Yes we are. We are extremely interested in looks. I move in multiple female circles, have all my life. I am a woman. All women talk about is his physical attractiveness. Then can he make me laugh/is he good fun. Then is he supportive, generous and thoughtful? Status is in there, too.
That was POWERFUL. We need to hear this man more! No wonder he is being depicted as “Red Skull”; he speaks truth that cuts to the bone! God bless you, sir!
He probably is the best mind we have in today's celebrity landscape. I honestly feel so inspired when he talks. It's like a throwback to the time when we felt that there were adults that took care of the youth's best interest and we could count on an adult to help us when we needed it
"One does not live by bread alone." So very true. Everyone who thinks family is not important because only your career matters is blind to the truth. Had to learn that lesson, too.
That's actually a quote by Jesus. Peterson has been seeming to take a keen interest in him lately. 1Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted a by the devil. 2After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. 3The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread.” 4Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’ b ” 5Then the devil took him to the holy city and had him stand on the highest point of the temple. 6“If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down. For it is written: “ ‘He will command his angels concerning you, and they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’ c ” 7Jesus answered him, “It is also written: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’ d ” 8Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. 9“All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.” 10Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’ e ” 11Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.
At my son's own request, he started to go to the gym with me this summer. I'd much rather have that than an extra 50 grand a year that I don't need if I'm already making enough to live on.
That means forgive your parents for their mistakes so your traumas arent brought into the marriage, particularly from mama. Words of wisdom: Mother's "love" will destroy the union. Move FAR away from the parents & create a new life w a family. It's God's order.
That is an apt analogy. After being in a relationship for ten years, I was single for 2 years because I’m either working, engaged in competitive sport or I have my son. And when I have my son he has my undivided attention. The opportunity to meet some one organically is practically zero. So after being constantly told I should try tinder I did. Got plenty of attention but after only two dates it just confirmed exactly what you just wrote. Safe to say I will just do me and wait till the right person crosses my path.
The only time I started hooking up was when a girl broke my heart. After some time I realized hooking up was the worst mistake of my life. I took some time to heal and thanks to God I am repulsed by the thought of sleeping around. I learned to be a loyal and loving man and have never looked back. I am proud of that🙏🏽
I’m a teen in Southern California. I’m surrounded by hook-up culture and am often called weird because I don’t find girls who treat themselves as sex objects attractive at all. This gives me hope and I hope things change soon
@@Jack-xl5eq Nope. Shallow culture that is based on quick thrills is not a virtue nor is it attractive to everybody. I cannot stand that culture and never could even as a teenager.
Damn, Jordan getting choked up at the end really lets you know how disappointed he is with the education system today. On JRE he literally told Joe to send his kids to trade school, that coming from a man who is himself a professor.
May you provide to me the link of that interview or at least a clip of it? I feel sorry for myself I did not get to watch as much JBP vids as I could..
I had similar feelings along with other factors which led to dropping out of college; I went to a trade school after but at the end got into entrepreneurship. I regretted dropping out for the first 10 years since doing so, then after seeing similar-thinking people who did attend, it provided clarity about my choices. It turned out just fine, this divine intelligence is always taking care of us!
Learned to stay single the hard way, a few times. There is no sympathy and it's like a damn game to them. Bad friends who back lies and promote the activity. Just staying to myself has the been the best relationship so far, not getting into it if they aren't in it for the long haul and serious.
You avoid trauma.. you don't want to bring those "ghosts" with you into your marriage.(it's bad for men but I think it's worse if a female has had many partners. Call me sexist but they're just built differently, emotionally.. its destabilizing. )
I find myself doing much the same. People just seem like way more trouble than they're worth more than half the time, and with a romantic relationship, this seems to be the case tenfold. Either it needs to be someone truly special, or I am mentally better off and happier just accepting being single potentially until the day I die. Not gonna mess around trying things out blindly with hormone-driven directives just to 'see' if it turns into something. Suppose it doesn't help I'm an introvert, though. I'm likely a fair bit of the problem I complain about, possibly even the bulk of it.
mate no offense, but did you even watch the video? Over half the video was about getting into a relationship and how if you think you can survive alone you're going to be miserable
This Man could put his feet up for the rest of his life he could enjoy his fortune lounging on a beach relaxing or doing only what suited him when it suited him, but instead he fights back from near death and once again continues his work saving people who are in turmoil and giving hope, courage and wisdom to those who struggle everyday just to exist, I have not got the vocabulary to express my admiration for this man, he is a gift to us all.
@@Hamza-vw4rz I think JP's work is very much in keeping with the core values of the Abrahamic faiths but his work is inspiring for those with or without faith, it's a message of responsibility, hope, and virtue and ultimately strength, I really do not understand how anybody could watch/read his work and come to the conclusion it is based in hate or evil political ideology!
I’ve noticed that the people that most sexually active (outside of marriage) are the ones most miserable. Due to strong reaction. I’m recommending Theology of the Body.
Dr Peterson is right... It is psychopathy... I call them the "black holes" bc they're never satisfied and you can never please them. ... you can never fulfill them and if you get too close they suck you and obliterate your life.
It's very difficult to differentiate if the sexuality outside marriage makes a person unhappy or that marriage itself makes a person happy, and sexual activity has very little effect on the happiness. If you believe in the hedonic cycle, sex with your crush or ideal partner can obviously make you happy, it's irrefutable. Just like million dollars given to a beggar can obviously make them happy. But can it make them rich? No, cause studies show lottery winners loses all their money in 2 years of winning the money.
The vocal quality of Jordan's voice makes my eyes get watery. He has like this sad almost wanting to cry voice. I hope Jordan is in good health. He's a compassionate man.
@MOBsta Imaging well as I learn getting closer with God he gives the lesson after the test. I am at this point itd been 2 years but im blessed to look deeper and turn around once more
People date like it's social media. Just scroll past. I try to tell people not to allow these things to retrain how we interact with others. We as a society have become discontent and unwilling to actually commit. Just scrolling through. It's very consumer-driven and selfish. And people complains. But they filter up on camera so the produce looks good. Like those little produce showers. I told my husband first date: Listen, I'm not doing the short term thing. I need to know if you are looking for a wife. I may not be her, but I need you to treat me and this relationship like I belong to somebody. I promise to do the same. We've been married for 16 yes.
When Huxley wrote about this kind of culture in Brave New World, people were shocked by the brazen emptiness of the characters' lives. And, in our present, far too many of our people now feel so hopeless that the only answer they can find is the same one chosen by Huxley's savage: suicide.
Huxley was far more right than Orwell was about the dystopian future. How people would be complicit with it, the soma, the emptiness in sex, the consumption for consumption’s sake, the shunning of relationships and the family unit. It’s all there. The one thing Orwell got right though was the mass surveillance.
@@umiluv aswell as double speak, re writing history, group think etc. I agree with you though, brave new world does seem like the route we're heading down
The intellectuals today need to be given the microphone more often. Our world is being consumed by emotionalism and false narratives. Only our modern day intellectuals can breathe common sense back into the main stream.
I'm a traditional Chinese family girl myself but unwittingly experimented with "casual dating" (did not realize Chinese does not guarantee traditional values). Following this chaotic experience, I've doubled down on my values and will never think to compromise again. Intimacy should be serious.
@@user-jd4ow9dr1h Chinese is a very conservative culture with high emphasis on gender roles and family. "Traditional girl" doesn't give enough of the picture in my opinion:)
@@user-jd4ow9dr1h there's no need to be offended. It's more efficient to say "traditional Chinese values" than the whole spiel: pious/filial yet ambitious for social standing, prioritizing legacy, understanding work and peace over play and passion for building family, fatalistic and superstitious, high connection to fantastical mythology (our zodiac system), high value to wealth and stability, high value of education as greatest investment. Note this is not CCP Chinese, just traditional Chinese. Now, isn't it just easier to say "traditional Chinese" to represent all the former? ;) And, we all use words to represent grander meanings. Traditional tends to be more sustainable because you think long term survival over short term fun. The Words exist, we may as well use them.
What does that even mean? By working, we're also making ourselves wealthier. So what's the ideal alternative then, being unemployed? While having kids? And a wife that potentially cheats on you as well? My biggest fear is that the person I trust the most isn't trying as hard as I am. Who can I trust? But even if I find a person that I can trust, what can I offer? I don't think I have anything to offer. Almost all men out there are better than me.
@@goldstein10493 then start developing a skill ,so that you can value to your life, firstly you have to make your self image better , otherwise your insecurities will give you mental health problems
37, never married, no kids, super chill career, low income, small apartment, don't drink or smoke, no drugs, healthy diet and exercise, and am feeling blessed. I have 13 years of meditation and a deep spiritual practice to back me up though
@@peaceplayinsumgames ahahha! Well thanks for replying. Maybe one day you will meet the one lol...I get it tho. Good for you! You are clearly following your own path :)
As a 25 year old truck driver, this broke me. I spend 95% of my time alone and it is lonely. Jordan has a way of giving advice that touches the heart. Never change, you amazing Lobster!
On the other end of the spectrum, unless you're lucky or a millionaire, the girl will drag you through mud. Most cheat and will dump you the moment something they think is better comes into their lives. So what's better being lonely or going through heart break like that? You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.
@@bane3991 heartbreak is nothing compared to losing your house and becoming a slave to alimony while she uses your money to fuck around
@@bane3991 - just don’t marry a girl that expects to be taken care of. Find a girl who isn’t asking you to pay her rent or buy her stuff. One that’s willing to work to build up your wealth together. And for God’s sake, don’t knock someone up on accident.
Didn't it "just" break a piece of you.? You are alive, you are here - there is life, there is hope. Luck is (can be) when good preraration lies ahead of a good chance - go prerare your self, to be ready and able, when (if - I'm realistic as fuck) your next chance comes by. And fucking REACT, when (if again) it does. Good luck from a danish coaching expert
You will get better man, there's time. Avoid meeting women online like the plague. You will know when you meet the right person, and it'll probably happen when you least expect it. As long as you are a good man, you're getting out into the world and you find a way to love yourself, you won't be alone forever. God bless.
Ben Shapiro being silent for 8 minutes straight just listening to Jordan Peterson is as powerful as the messages Jordan Peterson tries to share with us.
He usually seems to be interested in what his interviewees have to say.
@@reasonablyserious I guess this is how someone's behaviour looks like when he/she gets a decent education where virtues like good listening, not interrupting each other, acceptance, thinking rational and not emotional, being courteous in general are being enhanced.
I’m half way in the video and wow I’m surprised too
U said it.
Glad I read your comment because I was second-guessing whether or not to watch the video. Absolutely loved that Peterson was given the opportunity to speak his mind on this topic.
The way Ben just shuts up and lets Jordan speak.... demonstrates his respect for JP and his humility.
Actually he does that with every guest, he lets them speak.
@@nikokapanen82 you can tell his interactions with Jordan are different though. When I listen to this it sounds more like a Jordan lecture on the topic instead of a conversation.
He’s a really good interviewer/host generally speaking.
Ben knows Jordan is never at a loss for words. Better to not ruin Jordan's flow.
If you'd watched the whole thing you'd know he did stop like 8 times for ads. It was pretty annoying
Ben is not my favorite person, but notice how is able to sit and listen to Jordan patiently and attentively through his entire statement without interrupting. Hats off for that.
Yea, it is very rare for a conservative bigot
Yes. Wisdom, the truth has a calming influence on people who are seeking it. I would place myself in the noisy vexatious Ben type category but it’s a journey and the more I seem the truth and am prepared to listen the quieter I become.
my thoughts as well. but lets not forget its in his self-interest to keep his audience happy
@@FutureAbe You're a sad little person and will never be successful in life.
@@EdwardSnortin gonna cry?
I got zero respect from my peers for refusing to engage in the hookup culture, my aim was to have one committed and meaningful relationship. I've been married for 30 years now with absolutely no regrets.
Awesome. I applaud you sir 👏
Respect! I wonder where all these men who pressured you currently are in their relationships. Failed marriages….Probs still single and with a different girl every week
Great job!
How did you meet her? What advice can you give for a lasting relationship?
Same.....I have a promiscuous friend who teases me for wanting one committed relationship and advising him to do the same. I’m 18 and haven’t found that relationship yet......but I intend to, and I’m sure that like you, I’ll have no regrets in the end.
I've heard people who engage in this behavior say they felt disgusting, uncomfortable and sick to their stomach after engaging sexually with a stranger, without even bothering to ask for their name or connect with them in some sort of level. What Mr. Peterson said about "rejecting" human nature in order to be able to carry out this conduct is absolutely true, you're treating another human being like an object and letting yourself be treated as such as well. That must damage the psyche eventually, no matter how in control of the situation you think you are.
Accurate
Exactly, this new generation is doomed
@Justin Hernandez I'm neither a conservative or a liberal and I don't particularly like how one's thoughts or feeling about a subject are always labeled under these two boxes as to dismiss an argument. That being said, the people I was talking about that engaged in this behavior ARE "liberal", and they said they felt "primitive" and like they'd lost control of their bodies and felt disgusted with themselves after giving in. And I can undersand why, that is all. I'm no one to judge.
@Justin Hernandez I'm not american, which is why I don't label everything as conservative/liberal. As I said, I'm neither. I personally don't feel comfortable engaging in hook up culture because it would make me feel undervalued as a human being, that is all, for me human connection is important. That being said, I have friends who are active participants in this (some more than others) and I don't judge, belittle or try to push my lifestyle down anyone's throat. I don't particularly think that people with a "liberal mindset" are automatically "smart" because I've seen firsthand what hook up culture has done to them. For some, I believe it is a defense mechanism that comes from a fear of abandonment, fear to commit and fear of being alone. Hooking up doesn't solve those problems, it just emphasizes them.
@Justin Hernandez You sound hurt. And as if you've adapted these ideas. I believe you believe these ideas and won't be convinced otherwise. And attempt to use "knowledge" to tell everyone else they are wrong with their conflicting opinions. Testosterone levels are high pushing men to find a mate/reproduce in their earlier years. Testosterone lowers with children, likely from more stress but also with aging in general. More of your testoserone is aromatized into estrogen as we age, likely to promote a more nurturing, nesting man. Listen to endocrinologists speak on this. Lol evolutionary psychology sounds like your god. Yet no one wants to be a part of your religion. I'm sorry you were hurt buddy. Don't bother replying, I won't see it
There are over 8000 languages and Jordan Peterson decides to speak facts
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buy his books you won’t regret it
That could be Facts, with a capital F.
@@KrisVic91 Ah, a worshiper of Sam Harris I see.
Lol nice
My friend laughs at me for putting value on the act of sex. She tells me that sex is not a big deal, basically means nothing. I just can't agree with that. Sex to me is not just an empty act. To me it is intimacy, closeness, a way to connect. Ultimately to me it is sharing, giving up a part of myself to the person i love.
Not just "to you." Sex and intimacy cannot be separated, as much as society wants to believe it can be. Every sexual partner carries a piece of us, and we wonder why society and people are so broken, and the divorce rate is basically higher than marriages who make it. Sex is meant for a husband and wife, not BECAUSE certain religions say so. The opposite, certain religions say so BECAUSE it's the truth.
You should show her how mistaken she is. Sex is a big deal! Not just for the people copulating but also because it’s the means by which humans procreate!
Maybe your friend is trying to convince herself more than you
Yes, especially when I was at college (a year ago lol) I just got so tired of the hook up culture. My roommate got raped twice from her “hook ups” my family was very promiscuous and it led to nothing but mental illness and now those illnesses are genetic. I despise this
Well your not alone! I think it’s very sad to use others as disposable and how this is normalised in society especially within the whole university culture x
Sometimes you feel like a weirdo for feeling like this, but you are not.
Thank God Dr. Peterson’s alive and well!
He just spreads his cultural marxist conspiracy theory that is anti-semetic.
@@Just_a_turtle_chad send me any video/book passages to back that up
@@Just_a_turtle_chad how? lmfao back that up then
@Patrick John Eby
God Bless him!
@@Just_a_turtle_chad You know when you make such a statement evidence is required.
“She felt as stymied in her freedom of speech as much as she did in North Korea”
Holy cow! We’ve got to wake up.
Sorry man can you say that again
i was really hit hard by those words too, i told my boyfriend about this and he had to look it up & watch it. he was nodding his head in agreement the whole time.
That was a mind blowing revelation.
Man o man, woke left's ideology is resembling more and more to north Korean facists.
What sucks is half of the people in our country will say you're full of sht because they are allowed to say whatever they want and get celebrated for saying the most hateful vile things possible.
Thank you Dr. Jordan Peterson for your care for humanity!
He cares when humanity itself doesn't
@Michael Cueva 1a1
I hope you manage to escape the PC culture in America
Yeonmi! 🧡🧡🧡
You’re amazing, Yeonmi❤️🙏🏽
I love how two men are talking about the importance of marriage. You don’t hear this much anymore. Most men just want to be with as many girls as possible.
Welcome to hook-up culture, and the world of Tinder...
Number chasers have entered the chat. Wall Street got boring.
Nothing wrong with that ...
@@miscerswetdream you think there’s nothing wrong with sleeping with as many women as possible?
@@cananary yes
Listen to the pain in his voice at the end. This is a man who knows that we’re going down a dark path we’ve never gone down before. And this man truly cares about it in a way that most of us probably can’t comprehend. God Save us..
To many have forgotten GOD, it might be to late for some people to change, and come unto God! I pray it will end well!
Well said.
His caring is so highly absent in so many. He explains why the current statistics are nation rocking as we descend into paganism.
God save us from what? If you don't like the direction you think our country is going you should try to change it instead of relying on your god
You are very foolish to think that we can dig ourselves out of this wretched hole without the help of God.
I'm a 36 year old man, raised by single mother... and i just want to say, that Jordan Peterson is literally the father i never had growing up. And for that I will forever be grateful!
It is up to you to start the next generation with a balanced and well structured family. Fantastic you got this far in life. And have the next 35 years to build a family and do something great.
I'm 21, raised by a single mother too and Jordan has been my father since I watched him first.
Please check out the book IRON JOHN (Robert Bly, 1990). This helped me tremendously, too, being raised by a single mother.
Yikes.
This I can't take anything this man says seriously when he was too weak to deal with death in his family, got addicted to drugs, then fled to Russia to be put into a coma to get off of them. One of the most pathetic, weak things I have ever seen someone do who criticizes drug users. The man is and was a drug addict, can't deal with the consequences, and isn't intelligent enough to deal with it himself. If you have respect for this idiot, I feel bad for you.
This is NOT a man who is emotionally repressed as that British "journalist" claimed. This is a courage human to his core.
As someone from the UK, we have a lot of things figured out .. but our media is NOT one of them. So far we are lucky to not be as cancelled as most of the US but I fear one day soon they’ll leak through because of our shitty media
Exactly.
@@futtt_buckerson we don't have that much figured out. I fear we are actually going backwards, with our eyes closed.
People love to bash those with morals and values. Because they don’t have any.
@@brethitmanhart275 my thoughts exactly, not to sure what we have figured out either
"If you are an attractive male and you have an endless array of willing females - that's a gateway to psychopathy, as far as i'm concerned." Damn, our doc here knows how to cut deep
haha yes
I agree. Candace said something not too different awhile ago regarding women though. CO mentioned that showing sexy photo s of yourself on IG will get you male attention and you will have men want to have sex with you, but in the end that's all they see in you. I'm glad Jordan didn't put all the blame on women because men are a part of the problem too and he nailed it.
That’s deep if you are an female and you have an endless array of willing males that’s a gateway to palaychopathy
Another Dorian gray for that matter
He killed both the fuckboys and the incels in one speech.
so blessed and grateful for Jordan's return 🙏
Jordan “red skull” Peterson, MSM are scumbags.
i have both of his books. haven’t read the second one yet
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@@GomezMedia1 You got that right!!
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Proud of Ben for recognizing the power of the moment and just letting Jordan talk.
He probably is annoyed at times that he cant just talk.. the nice thing about an interviewer who gets interviewed often.
He does that with people he agrees with. In fact, everybody does that when they want to hear something that they agree with. How is that something unique exactly?
He's doing what all great conversationalists do - just listening and letting the other person speak.
"I'm proud of Ben for shutting his trap for once"
Jordan Peterson is one of the most important minds of our age. His lectures have radically changed my life for the better
I'm staggered that my folks, smart ppl, 73yrs old n wise too.....didnt know who Dr. P was. Legacy media+big tech's smokescreen, plus limited access to JP unless u know what 2 look 4. Sad IMO.
Yap. Same here!
Yeah man.
“Man does not live on bread alone”-Jesus Christ 🙌🏽
Said by the man who never married, never had kids but had a very fulfilling life. Then in the NT Paul himself says it is better to not marry at all. None of that is mentioned of course by Dr. Peterson.
@@sueblack5794 listen sue. I don’t know if anyone’s told you this. But Jesus WAS God in human form. He was not bound by his human brain, or human flesh. He knew things before they happened. He knows how things will end. Yet you think He, the creator, doesn’t know a simple thing like this. Come on Sue. Think.
@@AceDeclan think? a man isn't a god simply because you say he was. shapiro certainly doesn't believe your idol was a god.
@sue black yes dr Peterson disagree with Paul about marriage, that's why he doesn't mention it , but jesus married and had kids before he died
@@AceDeclan He was in human flesh right, the Bible says he was tempted like all men in the flesh. He was human as well and had the choice to be human and make human choices. Take your lips off the azz of the church and your minister. Read the Bible as is without the influence of your minister and religion. Really read it, I have, and it plainly says it better to not marry if you are in the faith.
THIS : "You can't divorce something as miraculous as sexuality from your life. Well, you can trivialize it and say, "Well, it's nothing." Ok, it's nothing. So, you have nothing. Good luck with that. You're going to take one of the deepest sources of meaning available and make it into nothing."
- Red Skull
Is that not just sex, and you can pay for that if you want it or need it?
@ImmaGirarfe 'You can either have something that is nothing or nothing'-not an argument worth repeating.. A future with a significant other who may or may not take you for all you have and all you worked for and leave with the kids?? BTW the matriarchy which robs fathers and is enshrined in feeble western law is so ridiculous it is robbing men of any agency and contributing greatly to men's disenfranchisement.. Don't take my word for it, ask any divorced man, there's plenty out there.. As a man, why get married and have kids when the risks are so great?? This is why men are soooo very reluctant to get married and it will continue until family law is radically overhauled..
@@willpushback4874 I wouldn't disagree with your concerns, but rather than swear off relationships this just means that you have to be honest about what you want, maybe even brutally so. If you're honest about what your looking for and don't give them what they want without something in return (whatever that is) then you'll scare off the women that weren't worth your time anyway. Only the good ones will stick around when you put up standards. It worked for me and I have an awesome wife. As Jordan and Ben say, not perfect, but your relationship's quality is going to oscillate with how you uphold your standards and values that you hold yourself and your partner to.
But I do agree that courts are heavily in women's favor. However, there are plenty of women that are looking for quality men. So be quality: don't give people something for nothing, promote virtuous loving, and above all be honest about what you want.
This only applies to men! Women can have sex anytime anywhere they want. There are no incel females for they can have sex by simply chosing to do so or not. Incel men want it but cant have it because they are incapable of attracting a female.
"You will never have the opportunity in your life to have as high quality relationship with anyone, as you could potentially have with your child". Red Skull
Yeah, this is a ruse. The vast majority of people are not well developed enough to not repeat generational trauma. He is talking in a biased way. Most people don’t self reflect or heal. And to get two who do that and make good parents? EXTREMELY rare.
This should be a thing, we post JP quotes like this and put - Red Skull at the end. The juxtaposition shows just how fucking ridiculous the red skull comparison is.
@@lukenukem1207 What?
@@lukenukem1207 it's already happening all over JP's videos on TH-cam. But kudos to you for independently thinking of that
I am someone who is single and does not plan to have children. I'm happy with my life the way it is, and I think that the constant pressure on people to produce children that they may not want is doing a lot more harm than good.
Watch the dudes eyes and listen to his voice by the end, he straight up cares about humanity..... damn what a being
He actually loves humanity, unlike most "intellectuals", who just want to control it.
Seems like he is more concerned with getting money from his MAGA followers.
@@honkyjesuseternal oh, you fool.
@@honkyjesuseternal Oh shut up. Keep telling yourself that. I suppose you believe no one on this planet classifies as a good person.
@@ebronator86 Damn. MAGA crowd is feisty tonight.
What he said about high male promiscuity inevitably leading to some form of psychopathy blew my mind!! It’s so true!! I just paused it and thought about for a minute. Brilliant stuff!!
I never would've thought about it myself. Maybe that's also what pornography does. Could benefit from some investigation, we'd just have to get people routine brain scans.
Perhaps that s why so many male celeb have miserable life..
@@Illlium Pornography, even though it's legal, can be very damaging I believe. Even best case scenario, it steals a lot of your time. I stopped looking at those kinds of magazines and websites about 10 years ago, and I don't regret it one bit. I WOULD regret it if I returned to it.
@@theboombody You could say that for every entertainment-adjacent activity. Partying steals your time and it can be very damaging even regardless of what you'd ingest. Same goes for sports. Life is complicated and full of bad and worse choices.
Congrats on the goal reaching, ten years is a long time.
Why is that so?
I thought about it and I agree with it, cause I see the effects all around.
But what's the reason for this "turning into psychopathy"? 🤔
The sheer lack of meaningful relationships in the current day is quite scary, and it’s the reason why is haven’t entered a relationship as of yet. If I’m going to be with someone, I want it to mean something, have substance. An empty relationship is not a relationship at all, it’s an illusion.
You might just be fat
That's what every woman on tinder says while navigating between 100 matches she just got.
@@DeathsInverse Another Democrat projecting 🤦♂️
@@Cybo-Man all I see is about HUMAN making excuses for their current situation
well said
"You will never have the opportunity in your life to have as high quality relationship with anyone, as you could potentially have with your child". Jordan Peterson
Damn, I literally wrote that one down.
@GlobalMan Lite you disowned your son at 14 and have the audacity to criticise the man he's become?
@GlobalMan Lite I'm sure he is, just like his father.
@GlobalMan Lite maybe you should question your own parenting and the environment you raised him with. Influence is everywhere and as a parent thats your part to guide them. Not blame them. Its a common logic. Blaming your child is like the dog ate my homework
@GlobalMan Lite I have a son ,26, a fine human being, college grad ,business owner, Christian. I am single now ,he is my most valuable thing . Its not always bad. So sorry ,Sir.
"If you're abstinent because you're incapable that is not a virtue" Jordan Peterson.
Where are my incapable girls at 😔🤚?
I wish he'd talk about the woman's side of dating and how to avoid being scared of relationships, even if it ends. That's the only thing i envy about the hookup culture - the boldness.
@@anastasiat1481 same
Disagree. “Incapable”? What does that even mean? We are all capable to some degree. It may take some people longer, but if they work out, work on their personality, and save up, they can get someone.
@@mistercontroversial - meaning, you’re not worthy for a meaningful relationship because you don’t work on yourself in a way that makes you attractive to others. Everything you noted are things that would make someone capable of having a relationship.
@@anastasiat1481 The man is open to a lot of things, you can probably email him about it and he'd make an hour long video on the matter. Hell, he'd probably invite someone who knows more about the woman's side of things than he does (which makes me think is one of the reasons he isn't going there, being a man and all).
This is so powerful! I just turned 17, (teenage girl) and I really feel strongly about waiting until marriage. I want to keep my religious values sacred. Thank you for this video, it really moved me.
I didn't realize how many people replied. To clarify I'm not blindly following religion there are a ton of practical reasons to wait, other than doing what feels good and living impulse to impulse. Risk of STDS is zero if your partner also waits, as a young women heart break is common and not letting your brain go crazy with bonding hormones from sex is a great way to have an objective view of who you are with. And I personally am not ready and would perfer to wait until I am completely comfortable with a person, and by the time I want to spend the rest of my life with them I'm definitely ready.
Thank you to everyone who supports the idea and sent links about the practical benefits, much love. To people who think I'm a crazy prunish nun think about other perspectives. 😊
You got this ! 🙌🏼
Once you enter college it's going to be insanely hard. Remember why you do it. Remember why it's worth it. Your not alone. It will seem like you are. But your not alone. They want you to be like them, but they can never be like you.
Stay a virgin and Marry young < 24
Lol horrible idea in my opinion But good luck on your journey.
But really think about it, rationalize your decision, or in the future you'll be bitter blaming society and the world for your decisions
When my wife and I were planning our wedding, my mom always told us: “you know how you spell ‘love’? W.O.R.K.”
Only work if you're with the wrong person
That's a good way to put it. Another good piece of advice I got was that marriage isn't 50/50, but 100/100. Both have to be all in.
@@lucasleon7191 That's "Prison" mate.
@@maubraymzoma6616 So many choose prison though, it's very disheartening.
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Numerous times during 2020 I thought to myself alone in my house “I wish I could hear what Jordan Peterson has to say about this”. I’m glad he’s back. We need him and people like him.
I usually don't cry for even for the most sentiment events in life but I almost teared up because I could feel Mr.Peterson's frustration and sadness
Glad I wasn’t the only one!🖤🥺
@@nadinedominique414 how often do you watch Mr.Peterson's videos?
Same here, if you really do take 15 minutes, and think about these things, they really can get to you, and upset you. The students and children used to be taught that they will become the future leaders of this nation. Now it seems that they are being told that they are nothing, and will most likely become nothing
It was powerful.
He actually seem choked up by his own words. His compassion for the people he is talking about and his passion for his own message is so powerful. There is honestly no one like him.
I’m not even very religious but have felt this way as far back as I can remember. Sad to see that many in our culture are so obsessed with such fleeting short term pleasure.
I think thats why nowadays ppl cant manage to know. We take somw values which needed to be preserved as religious or conservative but never see its value in our lives
Same here.
Fleeting pleasure at a large potential cost. It leads to a lot of pain if an unwanted child is the result.
@@theboombody and higher risk of STDs
@@theboombody for sure, and the pain within oneself when one gives away their precious sexual energy for little to nothing. The pain that’s usually suffered unknowingly.
"think about it for 15 mins and see where that takes you"
Peterson's empathy is in another level.
I truly can't believe people call this man hateful, when all he does is care with all his heart.
Lmao ... empathy? The man is a high traumatized gritter and given his narcissism he probably has either very depleted empathy or none at all
@@MusicaDelCaribe being traumatized doesn't take empathy away from you, as for him being narcissistic, i don't know him personally to claim it so.
You can see his body language showcase emotions and you can see pain and even tears crawling from his eyes when he mentions horrifying stuff like that woman having to sell her mother to survive a shit commie regime.
Unfortunately most people don't sit and think 15 mins about anything! Let alone about hard ethical or moral questions! People get upset just from being away from their phone from 15 minutes!
@@szepenszoloszolo5177 don't blame them but despise those who look away, we all should very aware of how bad things are to appreciate how good they are, and become better.
5 mins actually thinking about some human made horrors can drive you insane, not everyone can return safe from chapel perilous.
Imagine how society would be like if every educator would have the passion and interest JP has.
@John Sebastien lol, they don't
I always thought he was a bumbler who blew a lot of smoke up people's rears.
I am moved by Dr. Peterson's passion at the end telling the story of the North Korean woman's negative experience at Columbia. About 25 years ago I read an article in Teacher's magazine on a study where high school children who practiced casual sex suffer most not just from STD's or pregnancy, but from the emotional harm of feeling "used" and bereft of deep emotional intimacy that was lost through recreational sex. This is why I hate TV shows like "Friends". Adults acting like immature juveniles going to bed with each other and suffering no consequences of emotional damage from ongoing casual sex , STD's, or pregnancy. Joking about enjoying pornography as if it doesn't color their attitude towards women, or cripples their will to remain loyal to one partner through thick and thin.
It's sad when we realize the cultural degeneration in society. Hook-up culture is just another symptom.
Yeah, I mean Friends is a well written show, but there is no such thing as casual sex. There just isn't. It wasn't meant to be. Sex binds people whether they want it to or not. And it binds at a very deep level. You can try to suppress that, but it will eventually fail. It's almost like a drug where the only way your emotions tell you to handle it is just have more sex, to keep trying to fill the bucket that has 10 leaks in it.
And that's leaving out all the consequences like spritual health, stds, preganancy, abortions etc.
I hate how pornography was spread like a virus to children at high school by the other older children. And i think the problem begins from pornography and the softer stuff spammed in the media and tabloids. Now we have deviants on youtube music disrupting the youth further. They r doing the D E V I L s work
“If you’re really cynical, you move past cynicism” PREACH
How about beyond that that you past cynism and you past that and again become cynic😩
I guess I've got a little more to go, but why change a good habit? The critical mass of cynic should be right around the corner, I can smell it, woof woof!
"If you're really vague, you can sound profound"
“If you’re abstinent because you’re incapable, that is not a virtue.“
Everything this man says has such a concentrated dose of profundity.
He overdid his doses tho...
@@killerboba you underdid them.
The whole nofap movement lmao
thats common sense lol,how is that so deep?
@@Ignasimp hmm. I cant remember going to russia. To be put into a come to become less drugaddicted?
Then again, u lot are as usuall making shit up. I recon ur still stupid enough to belive in the big steal, antifa did the 6 jan attack, someone named god and any other tales u have been told.
The man is something special, his feelings/beliefs are genuine and it’s evident by watching him talk for 2 minutes..
Peope look at you crazy when you tell them you don’t like hooking up with people.
Never "hooked up" with anyone Everyone who I have talked to who has hooked up says they wished they never did it because they have no self esteem anymore
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@@shinjuku96jackson4 its true. I fell into that culture the past few years and it made me miserable. Completely sold myself out in search of a few minutes of sex with a stranger. I downgraded myself and gave up self respect in order to get into the pants of people I had zero romantic interest in and always felt shame immediately after orgasm. Imagine if I spent that time bettering myself or truly searching for deeper connection? Instead here I am, alone and questioning what I want out of life, but hey at least I have a large number of bodies to brag about. Hookup culture is toxic and depressing. Thankfully Ive recently realized this and changed my ways
@Bill Brasky same. It's also for the best because people who "hook-up" spread STDs like wild fire.
like you even can :D
I'm 27 years old and a Christian, I've remained in abstinence in my entire life. I've had many opportunities to "lose my virginity" to quite a few women (I don't say that as pride, that means nothing to me, it's just flattering at times). However, I haven't given into that. Because I know if I was to go down that road it would lead to a pit of despair for myself. I know I would always seek it and want it when I'm alone or in my thoughts. It's not just some easy road you stop going down once you've done it. It can consume you and heart tremendously especially if someone doesn't love you and just uses you. I can honestly say I'm thankful in the fact that I've never given myself away because the day I give myself to my wife, I will know no one but her and who is she emotionally, physically and spiritually. I don't think there is nothing more beautiful than that. Because I'll never think of another woman, my heart will belong to her and there is a joy in knowing you heart belongs to someone who you only know and no one else. There's a certain peace to it. That being said, God can deliver anyone from anything and I'm not opposed to marrying someone who isn't a virgin. But for me, I'm just thankful I'll be able to give myself to her and my heart will not be despaired to the level it could be. There is also an excitement in learning how to love someone in that. It'll be a constant journey and one that I believe will be very satisfying in my marriage some day. Our society has taken away any seriousness of sex and I've been often made fun of by men and women for staying this way. But I'd rather be this way than seeing my friends beg or chase their heart out for sex and satisfaction only to lead into despair. This post is way more in-depth and serious but this is all I got for now. And I'm not judging anyone who isn't a virgin or anything in that regard, etc. But the "hook up culture" that we are taught is garbage and destroying people.
That's the real "win", meeting the Lord and following him. You can't depend on anything else.
@@joeking433 Amen.
Hey man, 21 years old Catholic here. You summed it all up in a moving way. As abstinence seems like too negative a label to my ears, I would label it chastity, but just to confirm what you say: it's worth living chastely. The hookup culture is painted as way better than it actually is. The pleasure it brings is so artificial as it is flickering and deceptive, and can lead to multiple evils - abandoned children, sexual diseases, abortions.
@@matheusf.alpoin3489 The problem with the Catholic church's view on chastity is that they make it mandatory for their priests. There is no Biblical or Godly reason to demand that and it has led to terrible consequences in the RCC. Your view of chastity and the hook up culture are spot on, though.
oh jesus
I love how Ben just listens and doesn’t micromanage his interviews. I get he’s known for debate and commentary, but he definitely deserves credit for his interview skills.
Debate Ben is like a completely different person than interview Ben
@Becs McKay agreed
Jordan Peterson spreads his anti-semitic conspiracy theory.
@@Just_a_turtle_chad 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
@@Just_a_turtle_chad Your joke aint that funny
I respect this man so much you can hear the passion and the empathy in his voice on how people are being robbed of their future
Trying to understand who is being robbed of their future. Aren't they all responsible for their own outcomes?
@@pennyappellatia When you invest in a person and they give you information and you go out and you see that that information correlates with watch on the news and websites and then you find out that they lied to you all for the sake of profit it’s hard to understand you’re getting manipulated if you were never taught before therefore you are getting robbed
"Being abstinent because you're incapable does not make you virtuous". That really hit hard
That's what he means when he says stuff like "you have to be a gentle monster" or something like that. Basically, you have to be capable of it, but you should choose not to do it. In other words, the reason you don't get casual sex shouldn't be that you CAN'T get it, it should be that you don't want it because you're pursuing something more meaningful (marriage).
The Stoics treat this subject extensively, too.
@@ClaudiusJovianus prostitutes aren't cheap and some of us are non religious and conservative..where the fuck is a women lol
@@abbiealverez2960 have we really evolved past basic human needs? Just because we have technology doesn't mean we still don't fight in wars with each other, that we aren't more lonely despite being more connected over the internet, that we don't need a romantic partner to be able to bear the weights of our lives. And sex, well, maybe it's not necessary to have tens of children like long time ago, when few of them weren't predicted to survive, but it still connects you deeper with a romantic partner. You might argue that sex actually makes you more remote from the person, but that's not true if both of you are essentially friends and romantic with each other as well. Sex just by itself is obviously empty, but it's the integration of it in your successful relationship that makes it even more meaningful. And there are plenty of studies on the positive mental aspects of sex as well
@@karolakkolo123 Sex isn't a basic human need, it's a basic human urge, i.e. to reproduce. Sex by itself or in a relationship, is almost always empty because it is degrading when used outside of its intended purpose: the creation of new bodies.
“ It’s a *gateway to psychopathy* “ That is SO true. People have really deluded themselves nowadays
Why is that the case? Searching for a good answer.
@@s0nofg0d2 because psychopaths see other people as objects, not as people. If you're having sex with strangers, you are treating yourself and another person as something to be used.
You can see the intense passion and emotion within his eyes and his tone. This guy really cares and this guy is really smart. He’s rarely ever wrong and is one of the best men that has walked this earth in quite some time. This man is pure gold.
brainwashed
@@LeavingCaladan at least there’s a brain to clean
Why would it matter if he is mostly right. Just because he said something doesnt mean everyone should follow.
@@gug8774 i'm guessing you couldn't follow his advice even if you tried. Not everybody can handle the truth, especially those that think truth doesn't matter. i'm guessing this is a coping mechanism for those that know how lost they are and don't want to go through the hardships that correcting their ways inevitably brings.
@@C3rdito k
The story of the girl from North Korea should make people think hard about the path our society has taken
which one?
nevermind just got there in the video lol
Or just stay away from college
The north korean girl's channel is Voice of North Korea by Yeonmi Park if anyone is interested.
Actually disgusted... I want to throw up
"If you are really cynical, then you move past cynicism. You doubt your doubt and you start to notice, and you engage in your life." (4:25) A quote if there ever was one!
Anger, doubt, and hate dont come from true cynical minds but adaptability and a sense of freedom do.
I suffer from severe cynicism. I can't seem to shake it. 😞
English is not my primary lang. Can someone explain what this quote means exactly?
@Daniel Stöbener
@@jebby16 i used to be really cynical but i dug deeper and it took a long while but the suffering lead me to truths that set me free
"Doubt your doubts" is one of the most powerful ideas I've incorporated in my life.
When you sleep with someone, you join physically and spiritually.
In theory. My ex-wife refused to look at me when I joined her body. If my face was George Washingon's painted green, then I would see her eyes open with love.
We are living in awful times in regards to relationships, i find hookup culture genuinely gross. The problem is it is such a widespread common thing these days. I even got called an incel by some people who support it for wanting to have a meaningful, more traditional relationship. It is really depressing.
I don’t think those people understand what a relationship even is. I feel sorry for them.
Some of those people who just accuse people of being incels are insecure and have been hurt in the past. So they try to improperly cope by attacking others. The people who defend hookup culture don’t realize how much damage it’s doing to both the people constantly hooking up and the people trying to pursue relationships.
There are still people who believe in meaningful relationships and marriage. I got married at 18, and we'll celebrate our 10th anniversary this summer. Marriage is not easy but so worth it if you put the time into it. I think people in the hook up culture feel bad and lonely, and just like when a crab tries to escape and the others pull him back in, they are trying to keep you in their miserable environment. It's much nicer knowing who you're going to wake up to each day, because you've both made the commitment to be together for better and worse no matter what happens for life.
Just don't forget that you need to get into relationships if you actually want to find a meaningful one.
It’s not an either or thing. You can enjoy having casual hookups and still find someone to have a romantic relationship. The true tragedy is pigeon holing and not experiencing everything life has to offer.
Just going to say I’m very thankful to be able to listen to these two men. What a relief to have Jordan back healthy.
Love it: "Man does not live by bread alone is not religious claptrap." Amen.
I don’t get it
@@sgbabie As humans we need more than just food and shelter. that can only get us so far. its important we have relationships and love as well
@@kolt9307 and most importantly, a relationship with our originator and Creator: God
I love the passion he puts in explaining everything because it actually hurts him to see what the society has come to.
For a second I thought how my front camera shifted here!
Change your profile pic 🤦🏽♂️bro 😅😄
@@doubleo8260 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's so cool seeing people caring about society and not only about themselves! 🤩🔥
I'm not a religious man but I find great value in many of the thoughts and ideas shared by these two gentlemen.
If there's nothing to found your beliefs, there is no faith. It's a good start to hear this, then study more
That's ok, Jordan Peterson isn't a religious man either
@@Trenasist Perhaps it is you who will start here and one day learn to recognize truth. I wish you luck!
@@buttlicker7670 Yes, he is.
@@TheZeedler Have you even listened to JP?
The dude's not a believer. Sure thinks the religious stories are neat tho
I'm 23 and have only ever had 1 partner, and that's my partner today who I have 2 kids with and getting married in September. But this Generation makes me feel so ashamed of the fact I've only ever been with 1 person and that I'm wrong for doing it.
I've never had a desire to be apart of the hook up culture and I'm proud of that, it's just sad that today It's shunned upon if you're not in it.
nothing shunned about it really. perhaps you're trying too hard to stay in contact with kids from school.
Same here. Been with only 1 partner myself and he's my fiance. We've been together for 7 years now actually. But I remember the first 4 years alot of women kept trying to influence me to dump him to see if the grass was greener and telling me "how do you know he's the one if he's all you ever known" or "if there's a 1st there's usually a 2nd and 3rd". And to have my "hoe phase" and "play the game" while I'm still young Lol I thought finding a partner was about finding a soulmate, not monkey branching frome dude to dude until you're all dried and used up to where you turn desperate. I'm already in love and the chemistry we have is real and much more valuable than meaningless attention from differen't dudes. If a woman wants to find *love* then she needs to start looking deeper than just what a man can financially do for them. Love him for HIM, and not what he can give you. Be his best friend, his safe place.
@@Poison_Ivy22 couldn't have said it any better!
It's a shame where our generations views lay
Huge respect mate. You're a lucky fella
Please, know this. There is NOTHING to be ashamed of. The hook up culture has a dark side many don't want to talk about. Loneliness and pain quickly follow the so-called high.
The fact that North Korea survivor compared the attacks on Freedom of Speech in Western universities to those in NK scared the crap out of me...
They are bringing communism by the backdoor and political correctness is the tool.
The difference between North Korea and the west is that the move to Marxism in the west is one of a top down approach rather than a bottom up rebellion.
What is happening right now in the west is all centred around propaganda that is trying to convince people that human nature does not exist.
Eh, that quote struck me as a severe exaggeration. What is the worst thing that is going to happen to an Asian woman at Columbia simply for expressing a view that isn't considered PC? Probably nothing, certainly not being sent to a "re-education" camp or prison.
@@DanTarrant1 If recent events haven't taught you anything, then bless your naivety.
@@DanTarrant1 I disagree, she said “stymied” environment. It is the PC atmosphere not the degree of punishment that dictates the emotional environment. In N Korea, One doesn’t think about what to say, you just repeat the training, for fear of death... no thinking involved. At Columbia, you think about what you believe then respond with what the culture allows. I find the later to be more stymied.
People's feelings get super hurt when you point out hookup culture and the downsides of it.
I don't get hurt because I don't care what people think about something I engage in that has nothing at all to do with anyone but myself.
@@AllsortPassport yet you’re here...🤔
@@sofiabravo1994 Which proves absolutely nothing. Just because I post my own opinions on something doesn't mean anything anyone is saying hurts me. I've got a thicker skin than that.
@@AllsortPassport lol right
@@AllsortPassport by definition of responding, ( you had to care to respond) you ironically made this persons point valid.
I'm single in my late 20s and never had a one night stand. I tell people I'm waiting for the right person to marry and they look at me like I'm weird. This culture is depraved for sure.
the ones who think it's weird have no respect for their souls or their bodies. Essentially they have no standards and would make horrible marriage partners. Better to be alone until you find someone who shares your values
Nothing wrong with that at all. By the time you meet someone, you will be very grateful that you were patient. God bless.
Involuntarily abstinence is not a virtue.
@@divine0enigma It's voluntary not involuntary.
@@pariah825 Chances that he's not gonna meet someone. I didn't.
Every time I take the necessary moments to sit and listen to Jordan I find I am rewarded with the realisation that as an arrogant youth I should have paid more attention to what my father tried to teach me about the world.
Hook up is just another word for escaping loneliness... People fill their void using people which can never be filled by others but only by self.... Stay single... Love yourself and the right ones will come by... To find the right one... You must be the right one...
Amen to that!!!
Well said!
@@KrisVic91 That sounds like denial.
The solution to loneliness is meaningful connection with other humans. Yes, hookups are not meaningful connection, but neither should you be isolating yourself from people, either. The advice of “just love yourself” is both ineffective and highly narcissistic. The self is not sufficient, and JP would agree.
@@KrisVic91 If you don't like JP's personality for whatever reason, I suggest you instead go directly to the source and educate yourself about the social science surrounding the issue. JP is mostly just a delivery vehicle for social science, and the fact that so many people ignore everything he says because some of his opinions are shit shows that these people prioritize their ideology over science, which says a lot.
every time JP is on the verge of tears you can feel his empathy through the screen. It's more or less a tragedy in and of itself to be aware of all the tragedies in life.
He is still in constant pain. I can understand why he is constantly passionate and empathetic about the well being of humanity, especially due to his past with clients and being in a tough place where he has all the answers but is dealing with very unfortunate health issues.
I feel it when I listen to it. Not emotionally, more like spiritually. My world hurts.
You can see how heartfelt this man is by what he's talking about I'm as tough as they come but his sincerity and the Tone of his voice is actually upsetting me to the to the point of me choking up as I'm texting on my phone right now
I noticed that as well.
Why are you choking up over this? Don't get me wrong, I agree with what he said for the most part (except marriage, which I think really makes you financially vulnerable if you choose the wrong partner).
You can hear the raw emotion in his voice & he gets choked up. Love that guy. ❤
@@yadanie6194 Don't get me wrong Dr Peterson speaking made me feel uneducated. He spoke with emotion a strong belief in what he was saying and a sadness in (I Believe the outcome of what's happening) And as one who has felt the financial burden of picking the wrong one, I apologize for ranting reason I was choking up because, he seemed saddened by what he was speaking about, I have a young daughter and what he was speaking about seemed to have a bleakness for her future, regarding meeting someone getting married and living happily ever after. Corny as that sounds RANTING Again lol
@@yadanie6194 Because its so refreshing to hear from such a genuine man who truly has humanity's best interest at heart. He gives people hope in a world where all hope seems to be fading.
Lmaoo he’s getting better everyday, haven’t heard him turn a question into a whole lecture in a while. I’m glad he’s back
He’s so articulate and well spoken. There’s a profound nature to the words. One of the greatest academics of our time. I look forward to more discussions with him.
Aye, his ideas are not new at all, but most people can't put their ideas into words, its why he blew up so fast, because us good people finally found a mouthpiece.
@@jeremiahhuffman2964 of course his general ideas are not new, they’re morally sound and have existed for generations, as with many other great philanthropists. However i wouldn’t trivialize his contributions, he uses clinical psychosocial experience to arm his philosophy, which is something very few people are capable of. His specific ideas are quite novel and just because he is adept at articulating does not mean he’s simply a profound speaker, that is not true- it comes from his academic prowess and unrivaled understanding. Much more than an acclaimed “mouthpiece” to society...
@@M31- Dont need clinical psychosocial expertise when people have had common sense and intuitiveness for hundreds of thousands of years before science. Young people always wanna believe they can discover something "new" and "fresh" SORRY KID, its done been KNOWN.
I love how Ben listens and soaks in what is being said without any interruption whatsoever. This is wisdom.
Ben's willingness to listen and let a brilliant man speak on a topic he's passionate and knowledgeable about is impressive and admirable.
That was deep. And the fact that the Korean woman said is freaking scary.
@@ivatrump6000go away you bots. Nobody cares about your spam links
Read her book. It's eye-opening. N. Korea has her in their sights.
"She said that she felt just about as stymied in her freedom of speech at Columbia University, studying humanities, as she did in bloody North Korea."
Deep & quite unfortunate indeed. America's suppose to be the bastion of freedom & liberty but the widespread indoctrination in schools toxifies the next generation to become the drone NPCs subservient to the hive, the radical identitarian totalitarian wokecists.
@@shelaughs185 what is the name of her book? And her name? Not sure I caught her name
Her book is excellent: In Order to Live by Ieonmi Park, I highly recommend it 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
I’ve dealt with a lot of this myself in my dating life. I haven’t met anyone who really wants something deeper than a superficial relationship.
You're probably just lame.🤷🏾♂️
@@arighteousname5882 it’s possible. I’ve also realized I’ve had a lot I can sort out with myself and am taking more time to this past week and from here on out.
You’re not lame. If you want to find someone interested in getting married you really need to connect on a religious and political level and also have important goals with each other. Like buying a house or having kids.
@Dindu I’m a guy. Last girl I met who showed interest in me was simultaneously dating another guy without my knowledge.
@The higher arc My insecurities?
How's that?
We need to bring more of these values back. He is so on point! I appreciate his insight so much!
You can tell from the passion in Dr. Peterson’s voice how much he cares about our country.
Humanity, does not live in one country. he speaks to all who are wise enough to listen.
He cares about people and he cares about the success of the classical liberal western world. He knows a lot about the horrors of human history.
Hookup life is like chasing a high that rarely comes, and even when it does, leaves quickly
So much like all addictive and expedient pleasures
Hook up with better people and do it properly: sober, mindful, honest.
It's like enjoying a prime steak vs binge eating Cheetos.
@@LordSantiagor Good people are very hard to find fam
@@LordSantiagor what is honest about sleeping with a person one day and leaving them the day after? It going back on the intimacy that was expressed mutually through your bodies.
Only girls can hook up often
Dr. Peterson not only see’s where the world is heading but feels it deeply.
Being in that position and knowing that there’s really not much he can do to correct it, has to be a heavy weight.
We're really lucky if anyone cares as much as he does. And people do.
Oh he's changing it, don't worry about that. Something profound is happening with the boys and men of the West.
Brian Mardiney. Every part of my hopes you are right. Without strong men we have no society. Wishing you well
@@dead_or_alive2649 Look at the marriage numbers. Men are going their own way in MASSIVE numbers. They will come back around, but only when women surrender their feminism.
One of the many things I will always love about this man is his ability to speak from the heart in such an unfiltered manner. His incredible ability to say things that are so hard to say, where most people would just avoid the thought if it was too intense or controversial to deliver, or try and deliver it in a sugar coated version. He's not afraid to be vulnerable to criticism and say it like it is.
I currently go to one of the Ivy League schools and live in its dorms. The other day my computer's headset broke, and the dorms here have "thin" walls and you hear a lot of the stuff going on in your dormmate's rooms. Because of this and the fact my headset broke, every time I watch one of the videos from creators I enjoy like Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, Steven Crowder, and others, I put the volume on very low so only I can hear it and none of my dormmates can for fear of them ostracizing me for the content I chose to engage with. It's the same thing while in public, I have one conservative friend, and whenever we discuss politics we are constantly mindful of who is around. It can definitely feel like a mild version of a censoring authoritarian regime. A few years ago I would laugh at someone acting like this and see it as they overreacting, but the climate is changing so fast at my school that this and worse may be the norm surprisingly soon.
Get out before someone accuses you of something you didn't do.
Watch your 6 boss
Fuck them, listen to what you want.
Which Ivy do you go to? I’m going to Rice and but am very familiar with Penn and Columbia.
What you just described is referred to as the ‘chilling effect.’ 95% of all higher education these days is a corrupt form of brainwashing. Keep your mind open and please don’t forget to read books for the pleasure of learning about topics which you want to read about - not only the ones prescribed in the classroom. I recommend joining Goodreads to find other passionate readers and to find new book recommendations. Reading has changed my life!
I was raised watching my mom jump from 1 marriage to the next with little to no respect for anything but materialistic items. I'm grateful I knew exactly what to not look for in my partner. Couldnt be happier.
Too many people are forming relationships on the basis of looks and cheap thrills. What is far more important is a person's character.
Women are not actually attracted to men on the basis of looks.
@@bighands69 c'mon man, character may be more important than looks for long term relationships but to say that women aren't attracted to men based on looks is nonsense. Women want a man with good genes.
@@riglancer5473Looks is the initial attraction. Personality/character is what keeps your partner to stay.
@@daebak7370 I agree, which means looks are important for attraction.
@@bighands69 Yes we are. We are extremely interested in looks. I move in multiple female circles, have all my life. I am a woman. All women talk about is his physical attractiveness. Then can he make me laugh/is he good fun. Then is he supportive, generous and thoughtful? Status is in there, too.
That was POWERFUL. We need to hear this man more! No wonder he is being depicted as “Red Skull”; he speaks truth that cuts to the bone! God bless you, sir!
He probably is the best mind we have in today's celebrity landscape. I honestly feel so inspired when he talks. It's like a throwback to the time when we felt that there were adults that took care of the youth's best interest and we could count on an adult to help us when we needed it
"One does not live by bread alone." So very true. Everyone who thinks family is not important because only your career matters is blind to the truth. Had to learn that lesson, too.
There's more than one kind of family
That's actually a quote by Jesus. Peterson has been seeming to take a keen interest in him lately.
1Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted a by the devil. 2After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. 3The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread.”
4Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’ b ”
5Then the devil took him to the holy city and had him stand on the highest point of the temple. 6“If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down. For it is written:
“ ‘He will command his angels concerning you,
and they will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’ c ”
7Jesus answered him, “It is also written: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’ d ”
8Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. 9“All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”
10Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’ e ”
11Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.
@@punchbowlhaircut I know!! How cool is it that he quotes scripture! You can tell that the word of God is working in him.
@@tabithaesau9077 Amen!!
At my son's own request, he started to go to the gym with me this summer. I'd much rather have that than an extra 50 grand a year that I don't need if I'm already making enough to live on.
For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
Yes❤ that's why people shouldn't have sex before marriage.
And then they get divorced and lose half of what they worked for
@@Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife Absolutely not
@@Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife Exactly.
That means forgive your parents for their mistakes so your traumas arent brought into the marriage, particularly from mama. Words of wisdom: Mother's "love" will destroy the union. Move FAR away from the parents & create a new life w a family. It's God's order.
The online dating world is like a movie set. It looks so amazing and entertaining, but it’s all a facade. You end up walking around an empty set.
That is an apt analogy. After being in a relationship for ten years, I was single for 2 years because I’m either working, engaged in competitive sport or I have my son. And when I have my son he has my undivided attention. The opportunity to meet some one organically is practically zero. So after being constantly told I should try tinder I did. Got plenty of attention but after only two dates it just confirmed exactly what you just wrote. Safe to say I will just do me and wait till the right person crosses my path.
Well that depends doesn't it?
Pewdiepie met his wife online.
So online dating is fine as long as it leads to an in-person relationship eventually
Very well put.
Haha if you're ugly.
@@CJFranciss it will happen soon enough brother
I see Jordan Peterson slowly making a comeback, and this is the first video I have seen of him where he looks like his “old self”
The old and the new makes the knowledge brew
That’s exactly what I was thinking. His thoughts are flowing one from another as before.
The only time I started hooking up was when a girl broke my heart. After some time I realized hooking up was the worst mistake of my life. I took some time to heal and thanks to God I am repulsed by the thought of sleeping around. I learned to be a loyal and loving man and have never looked back. I am proud of that🙏🏽
I’m a teen in Southern California. I’m surrounded by hook-up culture and am often called weird because I don’t find girls who treat themselves as sex objects attractive at all. This gives me hope and I hope things change soon
@@Jack-xl5eq
Nope. Shallow culture that is based on quick thrills is not a virtue nor is it attractive to everybody. I cannot stand that culture and never could even as a teenager.
okay virgin
@@Jack-xl5eq What’s wrong with being a virgin? Honestly tell me one thing that’s wrong with it besides a pre made social construct.
You’re not alone.
@@Beavereaver 💪
I have no words to explain the gratitude I feel for this man. You can tell how genuine he is by the emotion in his voice.
Damn, Jordan getting choked up at the end really lets you know how disappointed he is with the education system today. On JRE he literally told Joe to send his kids to trade school, that coming from a man who is himself a professor.
May you provide to me the link of that interview or at least a clip of it? I feel sorry for myself I did not get to watch as much JBP vids as I could..
I had similar feelings along with other factors which led to dropping out of college; I went to a trade school after but at the end got into entrepreneurship. I regretted dropping out for the first 10 years since doing so, then after seeing similar-thinking people who did attend, it provided clarity about my choices. It turned out just fine, this divine intelligence is always taking care of us!
This guy is supposed to be an "alpha"? He's constantly crying, he's clearly still not over his depression. He should be dealing with that first
@@morenitomoreno1282 emotion does not equal depression.
@@morenitomoreno1282 Well I mean both him and his wife came inches from death so yeah I'd probs be emotional too lol
Jordan mentioning Yeonmi Park is so wholesome. I've read her book recently. It's brutal, I highly recommend it.
Learned to stay single the hard way, a few times. There is no sympathy and it's like a damn game to them. Bad friends who back lies and promote the activity. Just staying to myself has the been the best relationship so far, not getting into it if they aren't in it for the long haul and serious.
You avoid trauma.. you don't want to bring those "ghosts" with you into your marriage.(it's bad for men but I think it's worse if a female has had many partners. Call me sexist but they're just built differently, emotionally.. its destabilizing. )
Truth.
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I find myself doing much the same. People just seem like way more trouble than they're worth more than half the time, and with a romantic relationship, this seems to be the case tenfold. Either it needs to be someone truly special, or I am mentally better off and happier just accepting being single potentially until the day I die. Not gonna mess around trying things out blindly with hormone-driven directives just to 'see' if it turns into something.
Suppose it doesn't help I'm an introvert, though. I'm likely a fair bit of the problem I complain about, possibly even the bulk of it.
mate no offense, but did you even watch the video? Over half the video was about getting into a relationship and how if you think you can survive alone you're going to be miserable
This Man could put his feet up for the rest of his life he could enjoy his fortune lounging on a beach relaxing or doing only what suited him when it suited him, but instead he fights back from near death and once again continues his work saving people who are in turmoil and giving hope, courage and wisdom to those who struggle everyday just to exist, I have not got the vocabulary to express my admiration for this man, he is a gift to us all.
He's doing the work of G O D
He is indeed.
God bless all who look to Christ alone as their Saviour.
@@samlancaster1277 Im muslim and I love JP's message because it always aligns with what I have been brought up with.
@@Hamza-vw4rz I think JP's work is very much in keeping with the core values of the Abrahamic faiths but his work is inspiring for those with or without faith, it's a message of responsibility, hope, and virtue and ultimately strength, I really do not understand how anybody could watch/read his work and come to the conclusion it is based in hate or evil political ideology!
I’ve noticed that the people that most sexually active (outside of marriage) are the ones most miserable. Due to strong reaction. I’m recommending Theology of the Body.
Dr Peterson is right... It is psychopathy... I call them the "black holes" bc they're never satisfied and you can never please them. ... you can never fulfill them and if you get too close they suck you and obliterate your life.
It's very difficult to differentiate if the sexuality outside marriage makes a person unhappy or that marriage itself makes a person happy, and sexual activity has very little effect on the happiness.
If you believe in the hedonic cycle, sex with your crush or ideal partner can obviously make you happy, it's irrefutable. Just like million dollars given to a beggar can obviously make them happy. But can it make them rich? No, cause studies show lottery winners loses all their money in 2 years of winning the money.
Idk, I think about 50% of marriages are pretty unhappy.
Idk being in a bad marriage is pretty bad. I mean you can stop promiscuity at any time. Marriage is more complicated
@@kaberigomes2117 they don't lose all their money, they return to the same level of happiness.
Man! Ben can seriously let someone talk on interviews. I so appreciate that. He doesn’t interrupt once!
I also didn't interrupt you. I am impressive too.
The vocal quality of Jordan's voice makes my eyes get watery. He has like this sad almost wanting to cry voice. I hope Jordan is in good health. He's a compassionate man.
Hes a very troubled individual
"If you're really cynical you move past cynicism. You doubt your doubt." I like that.
@MOBsta Imaging well as I learn getting closer with God he gives the lesson after the test. I am at this point itd been 2 years but im blessed to look deeper and turn around once more
People date like it's social media. Just scroll past. I try to tell people not to allow these things to retrain how we interact with others. We as a society have become discontent and unwilling to actually commit. Just scrolling through. It's very consumer-driven and selfish. And people complains. But they filter up on camera so the produce looks good. Like those little produce showers. I told my husband first date: Listen, I'm not doing the short term thing. I need to know if you are looking for a wife. I may not be her, but I need you to treat me and this relationship like I belong to somebody. I promise to do the same.
We've been married for 16 yes.
@Shadow Justice that's kind of sad no?
Dating is like scrolling pass comments.. instead you're scrolling pass people
Shadow Justice
You do you but I’d rather have a meaningful relationship
Every time Jordan speaks so passionately he easily brings me close to tears. He gives me hope.
Truth at it’s finest. Makes me proud to be married faithfully for almost eighteen years. ❤️
Just don't let the haters try to ruin it.
When Huxley wrote about this kind of culture in Brave New World, people were shocked by the brazen emptiness of the characters' lives. And, in our present, far too many of our people now feel so hopeless that the only answer they can find is the same one chosen by Huxley's savage: suicide.
Huxley was far more right than Orwell was about the dystopian future. How people would be complicit with it, the soma, the emptiness in sex, the consumption for consumption’s sake, the shunning of relationships and the family unit. It’s all there. The one thing Orwell got right though was the mass surveillance.
@@umiluv Huxley told Orwell the same
You forgot the bit about then being brainwashed to accept their emptiness. That's also happening
Brave New World comes to mind alot lately. Final guy at lighthouse? being made fun of....
@@umiluv aswell as double speak, re writing history, group think etc. I agree with you though, brave new world does seem like the route we're heading down
The intellectuals today need to be given the microphone more often. Our world is being consumed by emotionalism and false narratives. Only our modern day intellectuals can breathe common sense back into the main stream.
Intellectualism doesn't work any better than emotionalism. Seek the Lord.
Thanks!
I'm a traditional Chinese family girl myself but unwittingly experimented with "casual dating" (did not realize Chinese does not guarantee traditional values). Following this chaotic experience, I've doubled down on my values and will never think to compromise again. Intimacy should be serious.
awwww chinese girl! So cute
Best of luck to you, Kate! Yeah, some traditions are traditions for very good reason.
Ok you’ve been heartbroken and now you want to go back to a monogamous relationship. 😂
@@user-jd4ow9dr1h Chinese is a very conservative culture with high emphasis on gender roles and family. "Traditional girl" doesn't give enough of the picture in my opinion:)
@@user-jd4ow9dr1h there's no need to be offended. It's more efficient to say "traditional Chinese values" than the whole spiel: pious/filial yet ambitious for social standing, prioritizing legacy, understanding work and peace over play and passion for building family, fatalistic and superstitious, high connection to fantastical mythology (our zodiac system), high value to wealth and stability, high value of education as greatest investment. Note this is not CCP Chinese, just traditional Chinese. Now, isn't it just easier to say "traditional Chinese" to represent all the former? ;) And, we all use words to represent grander meanings. Traditional tends to be more sustainable because you think long term survival over short term fun. The Words exist, we may as well use them.
Most people give up having kids so they can make their boss's kids rich
Wow that’s a powerful statement
Very true
So true!
What does that even mean? By working, we're also making ourselves wealthier. So what's the ideal alternative then, being unemployed? While having kids? And a wife that potentially cheats on you as well?
My biggest fear is that the person I trust the most isn't trying as hard as I am. Who can I trust? But even if I find a person that I can trust, what can I offer? I don't think I have anything to offer. Almost all men out there are better than me.
@@goldstein10493 then start developing a skill ,so that you can value to your life, firstly you have to make your self image better , otherwise your insecurities will give you mental health problems
"Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from thr mouth of God" - Jesus Christ
AMEN!
37, never married, no kids, super chill career, low income, small apartment, don't drink or smoke, no drugs, healthy diet and exercise, and am feeling blessed. I have 13 years of meditation and a deep spiritual practice to back me up though
Just wondering, do you believe in marriage or are you planning to have kids? Again, just wondering? Lol
@@isaorozco778 Hey Isa, I have no problem with marriage or having kids, they're just not for me. Currently working on the Best Uncle award though :)
@@peaceplayinsumgames ahahha! Well thanks for replying. Maybe one day you will meet the one lol...I get it tho. Good for you! You are clearly following your own path :)