My BEST EVER Style Tips for Women over 40 on How NOT to look FRUMPY!
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- This is a BEST of compilation style video featuring all of my BEST style tips on how NOT to look Frumpy! Thank you so much for watching. Your support means the world to me! Don't forget to watch all of the other videos in our popular Frumpy series: • Don't Look FRUMPY - St...
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Your Styling Tips Are The BOMB!!!
The long dress with blouse and sneekers!
@5:02 & 6:36 suggestion for both of these tops: Put on a short mid thigh, not tight skirt & wear it like a dress. That's what I did with mine & it works great. Lengthens my short stubby legs.🤣💖
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Lovely 🥰 thanks 😊
I'd like to challenge you to walk into a Walmart or Target or Marshalls or TJ Maxx and show us how to put together 2-3 cute, non-frumpy outfits that are affordable and age appropriate because, let's face it, a large portion of Americans shop for clothing at those stores. If anyone can do this it's YOU!
Great idea! xo
Or thrifted outfits (maybe from Thread Up)- much better for the environment :)
Amen to this! Also looking cute for running errands, attending our kid's sport activities in hot sun/wind/humidity etc. I think so many of us wear boxy unisex tees and with capris or basic shorts. An "at the kid's baseball tournament in July" list of examples would be great! A gym-to-street option would be good too. Many of us work out in tight yoga pants/tanks then head to Walmart or run errands and don't want all the creepy men staring at our butt.
Also, many shop at these stores because they work with their budgets. Some are single moms with one or two jobs and children to take care of. Nordstrom is not an option. Thanks for thinking about doing this and perhaps actually doing it.
Yes, please....please do.
It would be awesome if you could show some longer (bermuda length) shorts & how you would style them. Not all of us can wear shorter shorts. I'm almost 65 and don't feel like the shorter lengths are appropriate, and I also have spider veins I want to hide. That being said, I still want to look current. I'm sure I'm not alone. Thanks! 👍😃
Great idea! xo
Yes please
@40bdg I agree. I don't like my knees and legs that much. So I feel naked in shorter shorts. I also got rid of my spider veins abt 2 years ago and it was the best money I ever spent on myself.They looked like two huge bruises on my thighs. Painfull too whenever my legs got tired. It was cheap and easy to remove them, painless too. I wish I did that 20 years earlier, but who knew then. I recommend it so much. Check deals on groupon around you if you live in the USA. Best of luck.
Yes, please!
@@babycakes8434 could you please share where did you go to remove spider veins? Thank you
Crotch framing tunic!! Omg hilarious!
So I’m a mental health therapist who works w teens and they comment positively on my white tennis shoes. TY.
The fact that your are so tiny and petite makes you look 20 years younger than most of us👍🏽
Great tips ❣️
Yes. I agree.:)
Thank you! Glad you liked these tips! xo
True...I am 73 and look younger bec of my size....I always wanted to be tall but now am happy I AM 5FT 4IN I can wear petite or regular size much of the time...I was able to buy crop pants when they were popular and on sale and they fit me like ankle pants.
True, She is an inspiration
She could wear a burlap bag. My fave tip is to make a shrug from a long sleeve so u can cover upper arms due to chill and for style.
I almost spit my coffee out.....crotch framing tunic...bam! LOVED IT!
Right?! Only way to describe that style of top. Thanks for watching! xo
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That was great..I knew I didn't like them, now I know why!
and that was such an accurate description! 🤣
Omg! You are cracking me up. Lol. “ you look like you took a dump in your jeans. “ 😂😂. Have a great week!
Thank you! You too!! xo
The difference between the diagonal striped top and the horizontal one is amazing
Right?! It is so clear when you see them side by side! xo
Agreed, but, I actually really do like that first horizontal top!
@@megwhite8624 So do I. It looks really great. Also, when I see things like the moto jacket, I think, where do these people live? No one where I live would wear a sweater or jacket in spring or summer bc it is HOT.
I think the horizontal stripes look better on you. I think it would look great on me. The diagonal ones would draw attention where I don't want it.
I’ve had bunions since my 20s and have been self conscious my entire life! Finding shoes that are comfortable, cute and that hide those ugly protrusions are a nightmare!
I don't hate my bunions. Even though I had them all my life. But finding a comfortable and good looking shoes is always a task. Naturalizer is one of the comfortable brands. Best of luck. @ Kwit
@Kwit, I hear you! Especially difficult in the summertime. I’m glad there are plenty of cute sneakers available. My summer shoe now because sandals are out, as much as I love them.
Ditto. I hear ya. In the summer, I wear espadrilles (closed toe with ankle ties and a little heel) and those work well for me. Otherwise I stick with chunky heeled boots (my fav tall leather boots are by La Canadienne - pricey but worth it, I've had mine for 8 years and still going strong), Ecco walking sneakers, metallic sneakers from M&S (UK), Sam Edelman Loraine Loafers, flat mules. Still trying to find a comfy pair of ballet flats that don't cut right into the bunions!!
I have the same problem! I've always been self conscious. No strappy sandals. And, my feet are slightly wide...not wide enough for a W, but enough to be a problem...especially sandals. UGH!!!
Rieker shoes are soft leather that works if you have bunions.
Hi Erin, I agreed with your choices but ‘frumpy Erin’ looked so happy. She was dancing and posing, I hope she didn’t cry when you took away her stripey coat? Lol. Loved it!
You put in a lot of work, but it appeared effortless, good work as always!
Thank you SO much! xo
Wow amazing how even a pair of upgraded shoes makes a difference👍💗
I am learning so much from you Erin, learning and evolving in 40's ... Wish I knew all this earlier, so simply and beautifully explained... You are a genius ❤️❤️
You are SO sweet! I love hearing that I am helping...in even a small way! xo
I just LOVE your little dances when you're wearing the "before/don't" outfits!! 😁
Thank you, Amber! xo
Same lol
Oh I so agree with everything you've said. Love "crotch framing tunic," lmao! At least I know I'm doing something right. Thank you! ❤️
Tell us about that gorgeous emerald green blouse you're wearing!
Thank you! It is actually a dress from the brand Alexis that I have had for a few years. Unfortunately, it is no longer available. xo
It is gorgeous!
Always great advice. Thank you!
Super helpful tips!!! Thank you!
In my day we referred to poopie butt as Diaper butt. I love your videos. I started a 2nd career at age 65 working as a photographer in the NM Film industry and I enjoy my life 100%. After 8 surveys and including fractures from L1 to L5, covid and being home so long I was looking homeless, and at 71 that is not a pretty picture, I am still going strong You reminded me of who I am and what I can do when I feel good about myself. Thanks! NOTE to ladies If I can do this at 71 YOU can do this at whatever age you are and all it takes is finding yourself and follow your passion.
You got this, Carol! Sometimes we just need a small push! xo
Awesome video! Your skin looks amazing....glowing!!!! Thanks Erin!!
Thank you SO much, Robin! xo
I love it when you do these videos!! They are the best because you reinforce style, shape and beauty.
Glad you like them, Linda! xo
With my foot problems, the shoes ruin my outfits daily but my health is more important.😔
I have foot problems as well and if I’m going to be walking a lot I absolutely wear the most comfortable shoes but not then I will wear something a lot cuter with an orthotic.
I agree! I would love to wear those cute shoes with heels but I have terrible feet and bad knees and I just can't. I try to wear the nicest shoes possible but it is not always easy. Plus I am tall and do not need the heels.
Aquatalia is a comfort brand I found is chic , and wonderfully comfortable
Sadly I have that problem too. 😱
Have you tried Clarks? I wear orthotics most of the time but when I want to dress chic for work I can go all day in my Clark heels or wedges. They’re expensive but they last for years.
As always great tips on style and new timeless ideas! Thank you Erin!
Glad you like them, Anya! xo
Love love love your videos! ❤ Lots of great, useful ideas.
Omg good compilation with good examples. I wish there was TH-cam back in the day so I would have known how to shop smarter. Oh well, live and learn
My favorite was the sandals suggestions....great options for sure. thank you!
You are so welcome, Lois! xo
Frumptown is just one outfit away for me . I've got a flattering outfit on today but might slide into frump tomorrow . I kinda like that second outfit with the blue striped coat but it is the colour that is appealing to me . Sharkbite tops look especially bad on me - they emphasize the hips too much on a small frame . Amusing and relevant presentation !
Love your style videos and how you present the tips!
Fabulous tips, Lots I didn’t think of.....thank you! Your hair looks amazing in the green blouse. Love the colour and curl style. Thank you for all you share and do for this channel. Ciao.
You are so welcome! xo
One of your best episodes this year. Every tip was spot on and made me chuckle because many of us “older” women make these kinds of choices on a regular basis. Thank you for giving us appealing options and ideas to change our look from frumpy to fabulous. My favorite tips are the shoe ideas. I will be giving away a few pairs of shoes!!!!!!
SO glad you found this helpful, Maureen! xo
I loved this highlighted underscored compilation of all my favorite videos!
Glad you enjoyed! xo
I loved, loved, loved this video. So many wonderful tips all around. Thank you! You were rocking it!
Glad it was helpful, Lisette! xo
Love these types of videos! thank you
Glad you like them, Teresa! xo
I love your styling tips videos.
Glad you like them, Terri! Thank you! xo
Another great video Erin. I always struggle transitioning between winter and spring clothing so this was a great help! Thank you!
I'm SO glad that this was helpful! xo
LOVE this! Thanks for sharing!!
You are so welcome! Glad you enjoyed! xo
I found your channel a few weeks ago and I absolutely love watching them. You inspired me to purge my wardrobe and I have slowly begun to fill it with your recommended basics. When talking petite I have a issue, Im barely 1.59 cm but weighing a hefty 80 kilos. Im not really round, but quite curvy and have a compact body. Been watching and trying to find if you had tips for my shape specific but no luck. Still grateful for this amazing channel ! love your energy and personal approach
Thank you, Britt and welcome! I'd start by taking your measurements and determining your body shape. I'll link a video here that will help show you how to measure. Once you determine your shape, then you can watch the video that is specifically made for your shape: th-cam.com/video/DNDrVVoHtAw/w-d-xo.html
Always keeping it real....you are fabulous!
Thank you, Cynthia! xo
These are my favorite type of videos to watch. Thanks so much for sharing. 👍🏼❤️
Glad you like them, Noemi! Thank you! xo
LOVE the beige and white on you. Not so much me, but the shoes and everything ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for those great resources!
You are so welcome! xo
Loved all this!! Your a blessing! 🙌
You are SO sweet! Thank you! xo
Good morning Erin, I absolutely enjoyed your video! Thank you so much for your wonderful tips! Have a Beautiful day!!! ❤
Thank you! You too, Angela! xo
You always do amazing videos! Thank you for refreshing our memories as to what to do and what not to do!
Thank you SO much, Kari! xo
Your sense of humor is getting better and better everyday..enjoying your new videos a lot 🥰. Thanks
You are SO sweet, Rakila! Thank you! xo
Oh my goodness! What a difference all of the looks made!
I'm SO glad you think so! xo
Erin ...great video. Very good styling tips.
Thank you🥰
You are so welcome, Mary! xo
One of the most helpful videos you have done so far. Thank you.
You're very welcome, Kathleen! xo
Excellent video. You put so much thought and work into this.
I appreciate that! Thank you, Susan! xo
Super ideas and suggestions! I agree that horizonal stripes flatter no one....but the capri length comparisons were an eye opener for me. I never thought about the most flattering "length" .... Thank you for your wonderful talent and guidance!!!
Glad this was helpful, Maureen! Thank you! xo
Super helpful. And relatable ! Life saver in a sea of confusion. I feel like I’m coming back from the dead and have no idea where to start! The shoes are so helpful. I’m a comfort seeker with a flat foot and weak ankle. So cute shoes are hard to find. Thanks so much
I'm SO glad this was helpful, Kathy! xo
Kudos to you, Erin, and thank you! This is one of the most helpful videos regarding style I've ever seen. I loved every "after" look except the dress that stopped mid-calf and the sneakers (sorry). It appears to shorten the leg and I'm old enough to remember women wearing dresses and sneakers on the subways, buses or El trains (before changing into heels at the office) and it conjures up bad memories...Lol. I won't be sad if this trend goes away. I loved your clothing picks..you looked amazing! Thanks again for the tips! XO❤
You're SO welcome, Pat! xo
Erin, you crack me up! What a wonderful helpful video! Now I know why the resale shop I frequent doesn’t take any of my Chico’s items, even basic white shirts. Thanks for your energy and your dedication to helping us feel and look good!
You are so welcome, Melissa! xo
Love your videos! Video suggestions: dresses, rompers and jumpsuits for summer (easy and quick). Thanks Erin!
You got it! Thank you, Carol! xo
I can identify all the women that shop at Chico's. They all look the same...Boxy not Foxy! 😄
JOKE DISCLAIMER 😳
LOL! Boxy is the new FOXY!!
I live in Ft Myers where Chico’s home office is, and boy does the over 60 love the styles. I love their jewelry in small quantities… but yes, she is showing their line in this video. They also over do the palm and animal prints which are bleeding into WHBM. Old!
I love capris. They look great on me because I have long legs and short torso and they balance my frame really nice!
I love them all. Thanks
I'm SO glad! xo
I absolutely loved that outfit with the trousers and hat! Totally up my alley! Loved the video :)
Thanks so much! xo
Loved all of your tips!
Thanks SO much, Teresa! Glad it was helpful! xo
Loved all of the tips.
Glad it was helpful, Audeliz! xo
Such great tips!! Loved the segment about the jeans...made me laugh out loud!! Thanks, Erin, for helping us stay fresh and frump-less! 😘
You are so welcome, Bonni! xo
Great tips ⭐️. Thank you
You are so welcome, Wendy! xo
Love you tent-top replacement blouse! Before I put this video on I put 3 body skimming tops like your replacement in my cart. You motivated me to place the order! Thanks for the encouragement!
Yay! Glad this was helpful, Danielle! xo
This is super helpful!! thank you :) exactly what I was looking for inspiration.
Glad it was helpful! xo
Watch twice and take notes! A wonderful video.
I'm so glad , Cynthia! xo
Erin, this is one of your best videos..👍
Wow, thank you, Liz! xo
I love this Erin, it can be challenging to style your look. The tips on capris and tops. Like you I am 5’1 but also large busted the combination makes it a challenge.
I'm SO glad you loved this one, Darcy! xo
Loved this compilation! Always on point Erin.
Glad you enjoyed, Christy! xo
Now I know what I'll be throwing away. Thank you!
Great video Erin, so much great advice for us ladies. Also you look beautiful today that green color looks great on you. 🙌🏻💛
Thank you so much, Pam! xo
BEFORE & AFTERS are awesomely illustrative! Great video, Erin!!!
I'm SO glad this was helpful, Suzanne! xo
Excellent video!! So much useful information!! Thank you for sharing. You have a lovely personality. A pleasure to watch.
Thank you so much, Annie! xo
Thx. Love this advice.
I'm SO glad you found this one helpful, Carol! xo
Love the shoes choices. Thanks !!!!!
You are so welcome! xo
Love all the tips! I especially loved the jewelry tips. I recently purged a lot of chunky dated pieces. I think it can definitely give you the frumpy look, if jewelry is dated. I learned about Julie Vos, after watching your channel, and I am in love. Purchased a piece, and have a wish list for more! Thanks Erin! 😍
Love that, Donna! Julie Vos has been one of my favorite brands for a few years now. I just love her pieces. xo
You look SO lovely in this video! Love the green!!
Thank you so much! xo
I LOVE this content. Great job,Erin!
Glad you enjoy it, Kristen! xo
So good! Thank you for the tips. Since I started following you, I stop and think twice! Doing these suggestions and seeing for myself, it changes everything. I’ve got a bag to give away. Thank you!
I love that, Connie...the whole point is just to stop and think before purchasing some of these items! xo
Erin loving that mint/ blue pastel color. Girl you are glowing beautiful 🥰❤️☀️☀️☀️👏
Thank you so much!! xo
Thanks, Erin, and have a beautiful day! xo
You are SO sweet, Christine! You too! xo
Erin you always make such cleaver references to some clothing choices. I struggle with looking " polished" because I'm 4'9 and have a very short torso. My athletic body causes different problems so try to keep my outfits very simple. Stay safe and have a great day!
You are so welcome! So glad you found this helpful, Allee! xo
I’m 35 & love your channel and tips, but this 1 specifically I had to share with my mom. She’s turning 60 this year & know she’ll benefit for this one 👏
Yay! I'm SO glad! xo
Love it!!!!
This is a good video to revisit from time to time💋
Thank you, Nicole! xo
Excellent tips and video ! 😊👍
Glad you liked it! xo
Learned a lot! Couldn’t take my eyes off that emerald green top which looks gorgeous on you! Thanks for the help with the Capri pants and shorts since summer is coming and we want to rock that.
I'm SO glad you found this one helpful! xo
You are such an inspiration!
Thank you! xo
Awesome video ! Loved it!
Thanks so much, Daisy! xo
Great job Erin!
Thank you, Elaine! xo
Learned so much from your videos. Thank you for such great tips also😊
You’re SO welcome, Deanna! xo
Amazing video! Even when we dress well, this is a wonderful reminder for us. I did the frumpy look yesterday. I’m thin, hubby didn’t like the look! So in the evening I swapped out the leather kicks for some neutral booties. The Vince Camuto tortillas you made me buy 😁 popped on some statement earrings and I was ready for dinner! 🙌🏻
Love that! You got this! xo
The tips are perfect for us who may not have it all together every day...lol...it’s a good reminder, we need that from time to time.
Your like that girl friend that don’t want us to go out without looking our best version of ourselves.....😊 thank you Erin.
Why ,oh why , do the people who make these ‘before ‘ clothes think in what World would that style of clothes make a woman feel good about herself.? Not this one, even with all that’s going on in the world today, we still like to feel good about what we wear, even if we are just in our houses and or going to get groceries. Stay safe people, take care of yourselves....❤️🇨🇦.
You're SO welcome, Bernadine! xo
Hi from UK! I love your videos! When you showed the jeans that "looked like you took a dump in your pants" I nearly fell off my chair!!! I love how you keep your videos fun and lighthearted 🤣
Glad you like them! Thanks for the sweet comment, Janine! xo
Thank you for sharing your tips ... u are so nice
So nice of you! Thank you! xo
I recently discovered your channel from a Facebook video and I think you are terrific. I'm 58 and your style tips are spot-on. Your recommendations, especially in the area of accessories have raised my style game. Many thanks!
That's AMAZING! Thanks for sharing, Amy! We have a ton of videos on TH-cam that I think you will enjoy and find helpful! Welcome! xo
Loving your work, I'm so happy that I came across your page. Keep it up 😊🦋💕
Thank you so much! xo
I love the jewelry tips . I got rid of all my big chunky beaded necklaces a few months ago . For one thing , they were heavy !! Currently Replacing with nice , lighter pieces I can wear every day .
❤ the video...very useful tips!!!❤
Glad you think so, Nedra! xo
Amazing ideas 👌🏻
Glad you like them! xo