5 Signs He Is Wasting Your Time

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  • @Theenrichmentlab
    @Theenrichmentlab 2 ปีที่แล้ว +490

    1. Inconsistency
    2. He says; let's go with the flow.
    3. He asks for relationship benefits without commitment.
    4. He is not willing to invest his time and money.
    5. You will not know where you stand with him.
    Run honey, RUN!!🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @marthakerubo5541
    @marthakerubo5541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Im wasting my time ...let me block Him now..Thank you bro I hear it well

  • @charmainekapishe4177
    @charmainekapishe4177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Thank you. Now I can leave this stupid relationship peacefully without any regrets and doubt

  • @amisiad1746
    @amisiad1746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was hard to watch but very honest and needed. Truth hurts. Thank you and God Bless.

  • @Mindful.Movement.01
    @Mindful.Movement.01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Ladies learn how to serial date to offset disappointments and get rid of expectations not being met by these dusties so when they do play these games you already 10 steps ahead and the only time he wasting is his own #jokeisonhim

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is a topic in itself.
      Should people date one at a time or multiple people at the same time?

    • @Mindful.Movement.01
      @Mindful.Movement.01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Josh_LoveTalk I would love to hear you speak about this. Eventhough I am not dating at the moment serial dating in a sense help me protect my peace and sanity lol 😂 and have fun doing it without any “benefits” at all and when I was doing this imma tell you .. well imma just say this lol 😂 it ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️.

  • @ChikaInsights
    @ChikaInsights 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    You can say that again and again bro. This message is an 👁️ opener to many women out there who wasting their time thinking they can change a man to be what they want. God bless you

    • @mapulas145
      @mapulas145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thank bro I was lost

  • @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606
    @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I give these men the exact same energy they give me PERIOD. If they get ghost, I'm ghost and block their ass. If they stop texting and calling, guess what? I stop texting and calling. Game recognize game all day long!

  • @teespy88
    @teespy88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Ladies, don’t do it don’t give in to this foolishness of men. If a guy is not giving you time and what you deserve, when it doesn’t work there is no love lost, pack your mental bag and save yourself for the real man coming your way.

  • @user-rr9ei1dw1p
    @user-rr9ei1dw1p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been on that kind of relationship hoping that it will work . And guess what? He dumbed me like nothing has never happened. And you message gave closure that he wasn't there to stay.

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When someone shows you who they are the first 🧭believe him..

  • @1042firegirl
    @1042firegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is as relevant after many years in a relationship as it is at the beginning. Well done sir, perfect perspective!

  • @rahmatusaidu9465
    @rahmatusaidu9465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    u are very right, if someone loves you he/she will just try to make things right. no forcing

  • @SquishyGreenieTurtle
    @SquishyGreenieTurtle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Thank you, I think I needed to hear this "He is just not into you".

  • @sharonbartley808
    @sharonbartley808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Best advice ever out of all those other stupid dating videos that recommends playing games. When a man wants you, you don't need to play games.

  • @blessedamooti1371
    @blessedamooti1371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Eye opener
    Best and true
    Make right choices
    Love is nt easy
    Better choice, best life

  • @daisyrachel5227
    @daisyrachel5227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I wish I could give you the whole world brother, this message save(d) many women out there suffering emotionally
    A big thumbs up👍

  • @sherikawhyte2096
    @sherikawhyte2096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I absolutely love your video... So informative and straight to the point... I hate some of these long videos that they just ramble and talk about the same thing in 10 different ways.... Love how short and precise this is... New subscriber here

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @abigailmadzorera6818
      @abigailmadzorera6818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too, 30 mins or so l just skip.l love this straight to the point

  • @trendy_tv4299
    @trendy_tv4299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Was in a relationship I gave it all wanted to get the energy back as mine 🥺damn I'm no longer in need of love again I'm chasing the bag love will one day find me 🥺this video just hit it right 👊

    • @ruuuruusamsr1891
      @ruuuruusamsr1891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your comment hit it right … I want the bag , love dey find me later

    • @trendy_tv4299
      @trendy_tv4299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ruuuruusamsr1891 all the best

  • @mosslegae2807
    @mosslegae2807 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it my brother I salute you

  • @immaculatefon3323
    @immaculatefon3323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfect. I give u what u give me and that's it if not I block u period and move on. No need to be with time wasters because at the end u feel like u are the bad person. Ladies be wise and don't let ur emotions control u and make u look like a fool

  • @chevellebrown9980
    @chevellebrown9980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that last part...I want to just download this video rn and put that last part on my fb story...

  • @sally2542
    @sally2542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks a lot for this information.this is the reason why I dumped the idiot who was wasting my time thinking that he loves me only to find out that his intentions was to use my body but he had no future with me.the guy could call me only when he's in need of love .i saw red flags so fast and I decided to walk out

  • @Josephinevibes123
    @Josephinevibes123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for this tips sir. You're just talking me now. This is what I just passed through some months again and I call it quit. He calls whenever he likes, I don't know where I stand in dating him. I pay my bills by myself but he won't even bother to show concern, so I call it quit that I can't force my self im what is taking me nowhere.

  • @luyirikaisham7112
    @luyirikaisham7112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is exactly am going through oooh thanks sir for sharing this from today I have made up my mindas in its over though its painful but I have to move on🏃‍♀️

  • @peacealoysius245
    @peacealoysius245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's a great one my brother, thanks a lot, it really teaches me a lot

  • @veeoby3364
    @veeoby3364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I just discovered your channel and I'm a new subscriber. Your video is precise and straight to the point. I wasted 2 years but now I will not be foolish going forward. Thank you immensely for this video!

    • @deora2inG
      @deora2inG 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @deora2inG
      @deora2inG 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @AndreaDawnBrewer
    @AndreaDawnBrewer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "Anything else is charity work"... 🤣🤣🤣

    • @AndreaDawnBrewer
      @AndreaDawnBrewer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @shafaat salisu Huh?!? What are you talking about?

    • @AndreaDawnBrewer
      @AndreaDawnBrewer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @shafaat salisu You must have me confused with someone else.

    • @AndreaDawnBrewer
      @AndreaDawnBrewer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @shafaat salisu I don't use WhatsApp. Facebook platforms steal your data.

  • @skwilson34
    @skwilson34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ladies, listen to this guy and stop over thinking it.....

  • @shanda01114
    @shanda01114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was a great video. Well said and absolutely true! Thank you!

  • @kihemboann607
    @kihemboann607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    This video has opened my eyes, i have been dating with this guy for a while i reached tym i needed help from him like wanted to go stay at his place for a while gusse wat this guy told me haha it's okay u can stay with me but my cousin come here for weekends so where a u gonna go wen my cousin comes around 😢oh juses was like wat 🤔this is the guy who has been telling me hw much he loves me🙄men😏

    • @salimamalongo8832
      @salimamalongo8832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello.same thing here.Can I have your contact

    • @kihemboann607
      @kihemboann607 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@salimamalongo8832 🤭

    • @favour-ug8og
      @favour-ug8og 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my goodness 😃😹

    • @kihemboann607
      @kihemboann607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@favour-ug8og I swear Favour

    • @tvtv9581
      @tvtv9581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 then what what did u do or what happened after telling you that?

  • @hashelplineisos2796
    @hashelplineisos2796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    On point. No waist of time for someone who doesn't care in a nut shell. Thanks bro

  • @mindqueen2127
    @mindqueen2127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Straight to the point. Thank you

  • @francesjeanlouis9285
    @francesjeanlouis9285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Josh: "Run for the hills!"
    Me: Facts!

  • @Charlotte-zc7nt
    @Charlotte-zc7nt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, just joined your channel today and it is such a vibe. Most of the sub_ topics discussed have happened to me, having learnt my mistake . I'm now working on rebuilding everything which was lost.

  • @norahmatomola8998
    @norahmatomola8998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. I needed to hear this. I'm done

    • @blessingorpal6548
      @blessingorpal6548 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ i got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Wilfred who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg. For a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

  • @rachellel.3680
    @rachellel.3680 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It seems like you were talking to me on the 5th sign After 10 months I still didn't know where we were

  • @atwiinemollen6380
    @atwiinemollen6380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u for opening up my eyes,he is really wasting my time

  • @dineoelizabeth4887
    @dineoelizabeth4887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks 😊 four the video. I've been there years and years now my eyes are open . # I'm done

  • @stellaonyango5385
    @stellaonyango5385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thankyou so much,this is what I needed

  • @ireneondieki9633
    @ireneondieki9633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have talked the truth , thank you for this clip.make more clips please .

  • @lorettawilson9160
    @lorettawilson9160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks soo much for putting this imfo out cause it really confusing that a guy would put you through that and have you wondering what is this what are we doing just be straight about the situation cause me I can give a flying f..k. If you dont want me cause baby I am a star

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In an ideal world, everyone should make their intentions clear from the start. Sadly the world is not ideal, we all have to be responsible for our mental and emotional wellbeing

  • @swabrinnahally8373
    @swabrinnahally8373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks u woke me up from my worst nightmare...I trully appreciate🙏🙏

  • @queenfolashadeadewale2378
    @queenfolashadeadewale2378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hmmmm, thank you so much, this message is for me, God bless you Mr Josh

  • @jullykandush3053
    @jullykandush3053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is.a very encouraging information.
    U have opened my eyes

  • @victoriasando1998
    @victoriasando1998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for putting some sense into my head. He waisted my my time for seven years 😭😭, now I'm finally leaving.

  • @kimn4721
    @kimn4721 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So worth watching you've got yourself a new Subscriber !!

  • @imeldago9137
    @imeldago9137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    watching this video is really helpful it has opened my eyes in a current situation I am now...
    I gotta run....
    #Inconsistency
    #He says, let's go with the flow
    #He asks for relationshipbenefits without commitments.
    #He is not willing to invest his time and money
    #You will not know where you stand with him

    • @christyjames9356
      @christyjames9356 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks you so much I keep meeting the rough people 😭😭😭😭

    • @sophiakimani3847
      @sophiakimani3847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christyjames9356 me too.but I believe one day,God will gonna bring good person my way....🙏

  • @christinekirangwa8618
    @christinekirangwa8618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks alot brother🙏🙏 I thank God 4months now I moved on after realizing that he was wasting my time I saw some mentioned signs in him for along time but I kept on trying thinking he would change🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️Some men you won't even smell the road to heaven🙄🙄

  • @starrjohnson1327
    @starrjohnson1327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just met a time waster. He barely called or texted. When we went out he was all over me. I think he has a girlfriend. When I asked him if he did, he went off! Bye bye👋

  • @Ooniofifequeentobi
    @Ooniofifequeentobi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If he really wants to be with you, there will be no excuses

  • @davinndungu6208
    @davinndungu6208 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for being my eye opener my time has being wasted ..i can walk out of this relationship with no worry😥😥

  • @claireomari9001
    @claireomari9001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These is me walai,i swear to pause from these moment,thess as opened my mind and eyes,what a hell!!

  • @Justina21
    @Justina21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have really helped me alot thank you so much

  • @thokozanintinga3560
    @thokozanintinga3560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for opening my eyes now I Know what to do🙏❤️

  • @obatere204
    @obatere204 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a great video... Thank you.. It's unfortunate and so sad to meet such guys.. accepting reality is painful at this junction but it's better now than later.. 😢😢😢

  • @annijensen5790
    @annijensen5790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Sadly, what you all said is true. I was doing well with this guy. He called me like every day, invested a lot of time in me and then all of a sudden he disappeared 😢 Now he barely texts me or calls me. How is one supposed to get over someone you’ve come to care for?

    • @petraalbatra9898
      @petraalbatra9898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I feel ya. I'm going through the same thing

    • @annijensen5790
      @annijensen5790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Should I make him aware that he is emotionally unavailable or should I just forget about him and stop contacting him?

    • @hembadoonalexander6497
      @hembadoonalexander6497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@annijensen5790 you can't stop dear.
      The feelings is there.
      I went through what you said.
      I insisting we talked.
      I sent him message and told him my mental health is important to me.
      I need to know where I stand. He apologized and said he was upset and just wanted to punish me for two weeks.
      We back and happy.
      Winners are fighters girl

    • @nanayaatwumasi5579
      @nanayaatwumasi5579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Sis he did that to get into ur pants this why u need to value ur body’ in that case if things don’t work out u won’t feel hurt . Time reveals everything

    • @Thegazelle1000
      @Thegazelle1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@annijensen5790 you need to do like me. Call him and tell him that you need to talk. When you are face to face, ask him what he wants to do with you. Listen very well and watch very carefully his behaviour. If he doesn't want to commit to you or he makes excuses, DUMP HIM! he's just wasting your time.

  • @noxolombekeli248
    @noxolombekeli248 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    See... I ran and never looked back. This is now my tool and I keep coming back for revival.

  • @blacbeauty8871
    @blacbeauty8871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Everything you are saying is soooo true 100%

  • @fr33dom34
    @fr33dom34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for the honesty

  • @tesha._.quotescastillo1910
    @tesha._.quotescastillo1910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've been in a toxic relationship for almost 3 years ..we broke up 4 days ago n now he wants me back🤦‍♀️

    • @eastherbartholomew6643
      @eastherbartholomew6643 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pls don't go back cos if u do he will deal with you mercilessly so pls be strong and move on ,u have a better opportunity and u are the best version of your self

  • @teresiagithua5584
    @teresiagithua5584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Better late than never. Thankyou

  • @perfectlynini
    @perfectlynini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So the dude I was talking too he was consistent , he gave me time and invested his money butttt no title just a situationship like he never asked me to be his girl i was always confused … but gives me relationship vibes but don’t want me talking to anyone else

    • @perfectlynini
      @perfectlynini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But then again I never had to question his loyalty …like idk what we were seriously or what he want it’s been a year and I finally broke it off

  • @nkosithandilezinhledladla4136
    @nkosithandilezinhledladla4136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow thank you,you nailed it that's exactly the relationship I am in and I was just wondering so now I know what to do 💕💕

  • @ngombaflora8035
    @ngombaflora8035 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You just saved me from the wrong person. He posses all the quality you mentioned.

  • @maryongola541
    @maryongola541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gosh!! you came at the right time thanks slot.

  • @sylviaijeoma6564
    @sylviaijeoma6564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much..... This is my current situation.

  • @vuyelobaddy8088
    @vuyelobaddy8088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yohhhhhhh😥 I've been ignoring my gut, but after this message I've made peace with the fact that I'm being played here😕😥

  • @reneecrotty6910
    @reneecrotty6910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice super genuine!

  • @ChikaInsights
    @ChikaInsights 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great content. You just won yourself a subscriber

  • @Ashamylove629
    @Ashamylove629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks dia for the sermons 🙏🙏

  • @amylio5671
    @amylio5671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you very much for making things clearer. Blessings

  • @charityphilips381
    @charityphilips381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks Sir, this is kinda teaching i learnt earlier from, CCTV CHRISTIAN. Topic: Why You Should Break Up With Him. Now that i made beneficial decision in my life. Thanks 👍

  • @gracemuia8167
    @gracemuia8167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank so much bro am really impressed

  • @julianagullivers2042
    @julianagullivers2042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hear u loud and clear man!!! Thank you so much for ths

  • @hidaayahoo1purehearts954
    @hidaayahoo1purehearts954 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I ran after realising such.thank you

  • @ayisarah2957
    @ayisarah2957 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this beautiful message bro

  • @eileenluna3515
    @eileenluna3515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes my ex fiancé treated me like if I didn't exist !!! My ex fiancé was a waste of my time !!! My ex fiancé didn't pay attention to me !!!! I hate it when he wanted to go with flow !! He didn't want to spend money on me !!! He never committed to me !!!! He gotten the benefits and he stopped talking to me !! I have a new fiancé now !!! My new fiancé is sending me an engagement ring in the mail !!!

  • @sofiarani7050
    @sofiarani7050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much.. i guess i know this my whole life but i needed to hear this from someone else. Thank you 😊😊

  • @hilenikullakapepo9338
    @hilenikullakapepo9338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks brother. You're spot on!!

  • @SlindaAbraham90
    @SlindaAbraham90 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is really true, thanks so much for this

  • @oinchoo9535
    @oinchoo9535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Run brother 😂😂
    Man like you never lie to you
    Man who like you will make you feel like a queen.

  • @malk8152
    @malk8152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    True speaking. Good work.

  • @simplykai95
    @simplykai95 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That the guy I met last year, I regret it but now I'm healing ,I accepted I'm Wiser now

  • @modestinemungo4661
    @modestinemungo4661 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 😊 💓 ☺ 💗 for my confirmation, I kicked him to the curb over a month ago

  • @sekgowefirst953
    @sekgowefirst953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Straight to the point and clear😊

  • @keletsomathe2958
    @keletsomathe2958 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you , I’m in a relationship whereby he said let’s go with the flow. I’m leaving it🥺

  • @brightonsaudah6082
    @brightonsaudah6082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes true am new here but thanks for that good message 👍 😊

  • @mujajullyjames1879
    @mujajullyjames1879 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for letting me know as well the inspiration.

  • @catherinehoward4222
    @catherinehoward4222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are facts you speak

  • @beny843
    @beny843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so true! Excellent 👌

  • @prexzycent903
    @prexzycent903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks bro
    I just feel like u are talking to me, I think the guy I have been dating for the past 3years is just wasting my time🙆🙆🙆

  • @annsinga5049
    @annsinga5049 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is me 💯% ,,have wasted 6 crazy yrs waiting for change....,,I am on the move

  • @arecosarah6637
    @arecosarah6637 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am impressed
    Well researched speech congs

  • @lindiwemnisi922
    @lindiwemnisi922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful msg 🙌

  • @lilianlubanga4010
    @lilianlubanga4010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well spoken . More advice please!!!

  • @lilshelsuzie5235
    @lilshelsuzie5235 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so great, very true.
    Thank you

  • @fintielisha2310
    @fintielisha2310 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you josh..God bless you I heard you Lound and clear 🙏 ❤

  • @harshabhatia47
    @harshabhatia47 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent explanation n all points are absolutely correct👍🏻🙂😎

  • @feliciainkoom4695
    @feliciainkoom4695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    U don't know how much ur words has touched mi today may God bless u 😭😭😭💔

  • @wilsonsdotadota9504
    @wilsonsdotadota9504 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    On point bro 😘