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Who Is A Godly Husband? // Before I Do - Stephanie Ike Okafor
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ส.ค. 2024
- In part 4 of the series we dive deep into understanding the true essence of a husband according to God's template. We explore the 5 essential roles of a Godly husband:
1. Leader: Leading with love and service, not manipulation.
2. Learner: Understanding and growing with your wife.
3. Loyal Partner: Maintaining boundaries.
4. Provider: Ensuring the family's needs are met.
5. Protector: Loving and safeguarding your wife.
🔔 In part 5 we'll discuss "Who is a Godly Wife?" Subscribe and stay connected! / stephanieike
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"Boundaries are not because you don't trust yourself. Boundaries are to protect you from crossing a line as a default response when the lesser you shows up"
This was the one!! 💯💯💯
I truly desire to be a Godly husband to understand and learn my future Wife. To pray for her, to protect and provide for her and sing to her and cook for her and walk with her and sing in the rain of God!!! My hands will be used to hold her passionately and to HEAL HER by the anointing of the Holy Spirit..... my first marriage failed due to lies, and infidelity and not on my end but hers. Whom the son sets free he is free indeed.... I serve a God of a Second chance. Forgiveness is a must but reconciliation is not always made available when the relationship first is not based off a GOD ORFAINED COVENANT...
“Learn ur wife don’t compare her”….. words of wisdom ❤
Just WOW.
I'm 19 and this just set the tone for my whole life.
Her laughter gives me so much joy 🤣
To those who are (subconciously) scared of marriage but are intentionally equipping themselves with knowledge of a Godly marriage. This right here is loaded. Thank you Stephanie Ike Okafor. I look forward to the next.
if you don't have boundaries, your default response is to cross the line- that's so true.
I am a female 69 years now and never been married but I am learning a whole lot..
Thank you for these teaching 🙏 ❤ God bless you always 🙏
You can still be fulfilled and actually live a wholesome life. Cindy Trimm just got married at 60 yrs 1st marriage . She knew exactly what she wanted in a man and what she wouldn’t compromise for. Find her on TH-cam you will blessed.
Wow! But that's isn't a problem at all, not everyone is gifted to be married. God knows the plan he has for you just relate with Him closely
For us who aren't married yet, now we know what to pray for... In detail❤
I agree. In detail.
Yes🥹
Hahaha, I feel so blessed to come across this before even dating
The urgency with which I rushed to watch this video might have seemed comical, but it's a reflection of my desire to always be prepared and not miss out on opportunities. I believe in staying ready so that I'm never caught unprepared.
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You and I both sis 😅
Amen and you will have the wisdom for that good man when he comes riding on the clouds 🎉❤
Me too❤
Hearing the impact of a husband explains to my spirit why I have been so quick to walk away from relationships and slow to get in them. I want what God knows I deserve and while I’m working to get ready, my heart is still healing in faith and hope bc I’m so vulnerable when it comes to Gods way. So many men do not qualify as a husband to me.
Yeeeeessss!! The wait is over 🙏🏿 It is 2:30 am my time, and I was awaken by an attack in the spirit.. Started praying in tongues, then decided to come on to play some worship songs, and to my surprise, this is the first video I see. Pastor, you are such a blessing, and I thank you for your obedience to our Heavenly Father 😢 More grace to you, and I pray your strength in Jesus's name. You are helping us
Amen❤🙏🏼
I heard Apostle Aromi say that if you observe the hours you get attacks at night, they are most likely the hours you should keep prayer watches
Amen
@_ofCHRIST Yes! Amen! We ought to be Vigilant.
@@_ofCHRISTi agree, i noticed tht when I started waking up at 12. The attacks were moved to 1-2 when I go back to sleep
My favorite pastor, l am from Uganda and l can tell you that your messages have been helping me and my friends grow in the LORD, may God bless you and give you strength to reach more and more people
Hi Brenda, it's blessing me too and I'm excited to learn about what godly marriage entails. Take care and have a great day.
Same here from uganda 🇺🇬 a definite voice in this generation for sure. God chosen.
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Am also from Uganda 🇺🇬 😅
Same here...🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬.she is indeed a sound teacher for our generation.
Marriage is “pruning not punishment” I love this! Amen
"Submit to YOUR OWN HUSBAND." Puts a responsibility on the lady to make sure she chooses a husband she can submit to, a husband that will be a reflection of the Father. Choose carefully, fearfully in prayer.
Yeah, you are right 👍
If you hate yourself heal before you get into a marriage,i needed to hear that 🙏
You're the definition of fine girls serving Jesus Christ in our generation may God continue blessing you 😍
For the man to be a good leader he must be a good follower ❤
Everything she mentioned happened in my last relationship except for the physical abuse. Literally down to the “T”. I had to pause the video a few times and say “wow, thank you God for this revelation and bringing me out of a destructive relationship.”
Wow, thañk God 😊
I’ve been married for 17 years and there has been many lessons, but much more blessings I can feel the love of God through my husband
This series is blessed. Single, 27, woman of Christ here
love this!❤ I came here after a failed dating experience and these vidoes (both this and the one about "Who is a Godly Wife") helped me to realize that you can try your best to exemplify these traits but if a person is damaged and hasn't healed properly from their trauma then they probably won't be able to recognize your worth because their wounds will cause them to desire something else that might not be what is best for them. Their souls will crave things that they have developed an appetite for based on their trauma. (eg. vanity, flashiness, and sometimes even hostility)
first I am sorry for my english I from a french country. I want to say thank you pastor Stephanie thank you for allowing God to use you for the body of Christ. I hope that one day you will come here in Sénégal to blessed the younth here. My God blessed you🙏
(POV: you are from Rwanda and you are afraid to comment but you somehow find courage to do so and represent your fellow sisters who love pastor Stephanie )
May God bless you, pastor Stephanie. Love from Rwanda❤
Why are you afraid to comment?
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Internet is worldwidee
Why Afraid to comment?
😢 I'm sorry for this fear courtesy of coming from a country you have a right to live in... I'm from Kenya, love you, and believe in a day where we can all have complete and responsible freedom of expression/speech /opinion
When the lesser you shows up , triggered by situations where your desires are not being met , boundaries protect you from crossing the line
Thank you, Stephanie, for speaking directly about the issue of physical abuse. It's important to hear these truths clearly stated. Your message is greatly appreciated. May God continue to bless your ministry. -Melissa R. DeLand, Florida
“You can dream and earn” just made me LOL 😭😭
Thank you so much, I am currently single and praying for a Godly man, yes l pray that God remove the veil so that am able to see the right Husband.
This is why Marriage is for the mature! #GREATSeries #YAYItsBack 😄
''To be a leader, you must be a good follower'' wise words! Thank you
If you hate yourself, it’s going to show in your marriage. Heal!
God please remove the veil of deception from my eyes 🙏🏾
My favorite teacher,
Your teaching has help me grow spiritually…May God continue to strengthen you.
I AM loving this! I have been praying for my husband since 2015. This year I caught the bouquet on May 25, 2024. I have been studying how to be a wife that GOD desires for me. Thank you so much for this series, Stephanie. I love you and appreciate you, Queen.
I love the emphasis on the weight of a Godly husband's role 💯
The height thing is so real 😅
"Marriage is pruning not punishment us" Amen🙌🏾
It's the Lord putting me in my place with regards to the height requirement😂😭😂loved the message Pastor Stephanie thank you so much!❤Much love from South Africa🇿🇦❤
Married for 20yrs to a short man. It’s actually not bad to desire someone taller. Am married to someone shorter than me and sometimes it is awkward. We don’t talk much about it but it’s obvious. Our daughters are teenagers and already saying they don’t like short boys.He wants me to wear heals, he buys them, I used to enjoy wearing all types of shoes before I married him. Height wasn’t a requirement on my list, I actually didn’t have a list to be honest. It makes me uncomfortable sometimes times.
So don’t take it lightly.
19:00 Boundaries are not because you don’t trust yourself, Boundaries are to protect you from crossing a line when the lesser you shows up. Mental & Physical Barriers‼️🙌🏾 PASTOR STEPHANIE, you’re teaching good, you’re teaching God!!! You’re anointed for this! And this is convicting me in other contexts that aren’t even about marriage 🥹🙌🏾
Yayyy I am the first person. God bless you pastor Steph for this series. Keep them coming ❤❤❤
I believe that God is redeeming time for many of us singles through this amazing series. I'm so so grateful for this invaluable knowledge. Glory to the Most High God❤
21:10 Boundaries is very important. Especially at the point of weakness when your partner is being unbearable, thats when temptation creeps in. Boundaries before even that happens holds the relationship together.
Thanks pastor
Much love from Uganda 🇺🇬 Pr. Steph❤🎉
I am definitely the marriage gang that is really learning alot from this serious
God bless you woman of God. Your sermons has really changed my life and causing me to grow in the LORD. I love you so much. You don't know how much you've been a blessing to me ❤❤❤❤
This series has been a blessing to me as a single person who is seeking to be married. I have identified a lot of things that I have done wrong in previous relationships. Looking forward to the next episode. May God continue to bless and use you.
This is my first time here. Do I deserve a like?
I completely appreciate you, Pastor Stephanie for speaking on loyalty in a relationship/marriage spouse, keeping boundaries with their ex.
Stephanie this was so good. Thank you for holding both genders accountable to the WORD of GOD and not culture. May the LORD continue to use you in every way He sees fit! God bless everyone!
I clicked on this video with SPEED. I’m loving this series ❤ God bless you Pastor Stephanie!
Thanks Pastor, I’m learning that oneness is absolutely CRUCIAL in a marriage.
I want to truly truly thank😘😘 for this series my Sister!!!! I've been married 30 years this past April heal (by God's grace) of breast cancer and STILL working/investing on keeping my marriage at its blessed best! Yes, its work out here for us married folks😜! Blessing and longevity on your marriage Mrs. Ike Okafor🙏🏾🙏🏾 and over your baby girl. I sent this to my oldest son who has been married 2 years and my sister who is dating for marriage and my younges son and his girlfriend i will continue to foward and bless others as I have been blessed thus far!
We missed you here😢❤❤❤❤
"You place boundaries not for when you're strong! You have boundaries for when you're weak!"
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PRRRRRREEEEEEAAAAACCCHHHHHHHH!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It's 5am and I'm wide awake & ready !!
When pastor soke to the single men at the end - WOW!!! 😭💔
It healed a part of me because I've just had to leave a relationship with a guy who happens to think that way.
Hearing pastor highlight this here spoke to aches in my heart regarding this man that I fell in love with but who has this very mentality that pastor describes. Lord, it is well with my soul!
Father I pray that You remove the veil of deception from his eyes, in Jesus name Amen!
Since I started following you pastor Stephenie my life has changed a whole lot, thank you ma
Finallyyyy🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
The wait is overrrr💃💃🥳🥳🥳❤thankyou pastor Steph 🙌may God Almighty continuously bless you ❤
Such a great teacher. Message is very insightful and filled with wisdom. I was blessed by it
Yay I’ve been waiting. I was checking the page everyday. The wait is over. 🎉
These teachings have greatly transformed my mind. Thank you so much Pastor Stephanie. Much love from Uganda. ❤
Actual Audience - MEN - Loved every word, Amen
This series is just too good. Thank you Pastor Steph for this much needed relatable content.❤
Thank you Pastor Stephanie for this series... It's really been a blessing. I am a young single lady, still in school but learning a lot on what to look out for in a potential mate, and not be so focused on the mundane! More grace to you!!
Thank you so much Pastor Stephanie.Loving on this series from Kenya.🇰🇪🇰🇪
On time word!! Prayers up for all men, may they come into this understanding of their identity and priesthood. Amen 🙏🏼
Its like everytime i ask a question to God, you always provide an answer.. love you my pastor❤
These series has been blessing my soul in no small way. God bless you Pastor Stephanie💕💕💕
Whew I just took so many notes to turn into prayer points. That you Pastor for this message and for the prayer!
I love listening to this great woman of God.
I thank God for Pastor Stephanie Ike.
Oh Jesus I was impatiently waiting for this teaching thank you Jesus for Pastor Stephania Ike Okafor ❤
Thank you so much pastor Stephanie, you have been a blessing to my life and may the good lord continue to give you the knowledge and revelation to do his work
Thank you Pastor Stephanie Ike ...I'm 19 and you just shifted the way I date and see
You are a blessing to this generation 😭 it was boundaries for me
Thank you for these teachings pastor Steph, they are helping me aloooot!! Your teachings are always timely, thank you!! And I declare that I shall enjoy a godly marriage in Jesus name!🙏🏼
This is an amazing word . What a blessing ❤
Wow what a word I’m courting and this series is such a eye opener for my partner and I 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 what a time to be alive
This was an amazing series.pastor Stephanie touched on issues I have been having as a woman.
😂 I’m tall too Pastor Stephanie! I desire a tall husband but more importantly I desire a Godly husband. Lord remove the veil of deception from my eyes. 🙏🏾
Amen! Thank you for clearing the misconceptions held by our generation. 🙌🏾 Thank you God for this message ❤
FINALLY!!!BEEN WAITING EARGERLY FOR AN UPDATE SINCE THE LAST VIDEO..IM SO EXCITED FOR THIS SERIES☺🥰🥳
Glory to God! 🙏🏼Thanks for your obedience to start this series Pastor Stephanie. Beautiful and strong wisdom. Keep ‘‘em coming. 🎉❤️🔥
I refuse to submit to my malignant narcissistic husband and his abuse to me and our three children. I pray God deliver him before it's too late.
I'm enjoying this series! As a single woman who desires marriage, I'm taking all the notes and bringing them to God! Stephanie, I love your personality and sense of humor! ❤
Thank you so much Pastor Steph for this wisdom. May the Lord refresh you and fill you up with more divine insights ❤❤❤❤
Lord Jesus, that You would remove any veil of deception I may have. Thank You, Lord Jesus. Amen.❤️🕊
Thank you for this series on Marriage I'm enjoying it I am single and I want to have a healthy marriage and Godly husband love it Pastor Stephanie
This series is very powerful and educational
I am so happy that we are finally moving in the series. I have been waiting for this video! Today marks Day 49 of being separated from the world. Kinda like how Jesus was led into thw wilderness.
On Day 21, I had a dream that I was in heaven and the conversation I had with the radiant being was about marriage so I'm excited to hear what the Lord wants me to know.
I kept on refreshing to see if she had uploaded ❤.. thank you Pastor Steph.. watching from China.
I constantly refreshed my page each day! Finally 🙌🏾❤️
This was really good thank you, I’m marrying my best friend in 6 days!
This piece is a tone to push my relationship positively flow.. Amen ❤️ 🙏
Stephanie I love you
And I love the way you submit yourself to God just to use you.
We need to know how A Godly Woman should be?
Thank you sister Steph❤
This was very helpful. Thank you.
Taught with simplicity and clarity backed by scripture. Married for 20 years still found it useful.
Finally...the wait wasn't easy... thank God...more grace Ma'
I am blessed by this word🙏
My first time of listening to your message. I am really blessed, and I can only say God will keep increasing you.
You are an exceptional teacher, more grace and unction.
Even if he has dreams and he may never earn 6 figures. In as much as he can provide; you have basic needs of life, you’re able to afford some comforts like holidays, able to help people around you who have needs and support the Kingdom of God - to me, that is wealth. 6 figures is overrated.
Marriage is a God ordained institution. Say it LOUD 🔊📢🔊