This is a good psychological training for kids to develop self confidence. When these kids grow up, they will be tough mentally and physically. They will be bully-proof and disciplined. Good job sir.
I am a grown man in my thirties, this video just about had me in tears. What you are doing for these boys is invaluable. The men of tomorrow. Thank you.
I read your comment before I saw it and thought "really?!" but when he started making him yell "I'm nervous", boi, someone pulled out some onions.. 🤣 🙏🏾
This. This is what it means to raise a boy into a man. He teaches him it’s okay to be in pain and have emotions and express them… but to fight through them as well. He teaches him that he’ll have to struggle and fight but if he keeps pushing he’ll win. Nothing but respect.
@@mixedhelp2784 maybe but it's very rare, kinda weird to bring girls into this conversation considering tge way most boys are raised and treated and it's alot different then the way girls are raised but all the same I agree
@@mixedhelp2784 more like many girls playing victim and getting ezz donations from stupid people on youtube and social media. and dotn get me started on these drama youtubers
@@reycesarcarino4653 He was referring to how men in western cultures are socialized to hide their feelings and fear, because they’ll be perceived as weak if they admit that they’re afraid. Unfortunately this leads to all sorts of disordered thinking, shame and aggression in young men. The boy in the video is already starting to show it, luckily he is young and has a good mentor to help him
@@RealAmericanSicko yeah, I know if I was in that situation I'd be scared if they laughed I would've been scared of being hit or something, this dude almost gave me flashbacks, but then he gave me inspiration
Yeah, 41 yr old male in tears here. My father just didn't care, or didn't know how to care, when I was a kid. It got in the way until my 30's. I'm trying hard to teach my son differently. Thank you!
Things may have been hard for him as well, i pray you find more understanding as you develop as a person and a father urself and believe that, he may not have shown it in the ways you may see fit, but he is your father, and I'll bet that he does love you and always did.
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077 I appreciate your words, and I read that you've never met your father which must be really hard. But I think you're projecting. Some people are just assholes (most likely because how they experienced childhood) and those assholes become fathers/mothers and (probably) don't realize they damage their children. It can take a long time for that child to realize why they developed a certain (often unhealthy) coping mechanism which becomes engraved in its blueprint and much later learns to give it a place and move on to become a better parent/person, and some don't and pass it onto their children. But, thank you for your prayers.
I love how the kid admitted that he was nervous in the first place. It takes courage to say that after lying in the teacher's face. So with that courage, with admitting his emotion, he earned a priceless lesson from the teacher.
The way his shoulders fell before he said it showed he didn't want to disappoint the teacher also. I love what he is doing for these boys and the world.
A lot of people would have stopped at the “we need to express our emotions as men” bit and left it at that. But this man took that statement and showed this boy that not only can he express his emotions, but he can _master_ them, making them powerful servants for himself and not the other way around. That is priceless teaching.
I somewhat agree. I think in order to get to B, you also need to get through A, which is acknowledging and expressing your emotions. The problem with some people is that they think that all men can just work through their negative emotions without ever acknowledging or expressing them. I'm assuming the people you're talking about aren't just leaving it at the first bit, but trying to say that the first step is most important step too.
I’m a martial artist for 36 years. This is inspired “old style” teaching. “ I’m nervous” changed from weakness into a chant of power in just one minute. Well done Sir!
@@Vizorfam yes. I know fighters who rely on brute strength but only on street. F.e. my pal. He has simply insane pain tolerance and he's savage af in fights. But he's very weak in sport fights and quite easy to stop if you are stronger while being better technical and calmer. Plus Fowler missed whole point. Being nervous is not a weakness.
@@Vizorfam If you get too emotional, if you think too hard, you can get tunnel visioned. You need to be in a state of mind that allows you to control your actions and think openly in the fight, and even in life. You can be as physically fit as you want, but you will never get anywhere without the wit to see things through. Petaurista says that 'being nervous is not a weakness.' I agree, because many fighters, though nervous, have learned how to control that anxiety -- and even use it as energy to propel themselves forward. In short, mental balance = a less cluttered mind = better decision making and control over emotions = profit!
You really shouldn't avoid nervousness and its better to admit if you are. No risk felt = no adrenaline rush. This only works on physical sports if you are on a more intellectual pursuits, nervousness is always an enemy.
The Moral principle of martial arts isn't about conquering others, it's about conquering your own fears and never giving up or into self-doubt. Beautiful message and priceless lesson.
@@nuraortoma1820 it's ok to have self doubt it, it can keep you humble and give you area's of yourself to work on, just don't let self doubt turn to improper anger channel it wisely if it does.
These days, people are obsessed with the idea that kids should be treated in a very gentle way! I totally disagree with this. Kids should be raised up in a way that will make them able to withstand the darkness looming in adulthood. They must know that fear, nervousness, and hesitance are things you should overcome in life. Bless this teacher in the video.
@@Ready4Whatever Exactly. Teach your kids how to be strong and dont shelter them, but also let them be comforted and happy. They will become strong through your guidance, not your actions
I'm 36 years old and watching your videos make me want to become a better man. What you are doing is very inspirational. I find myself saying that we need more men like you but lately have began thinking of ways to become one of these men that serve our youth. I'm not sure where god will guide me but I feel the spirit. You are changing lives and that is powerful.
I'm a 30 years old man who never learned how to deal with emotions like frustration, anger and fear and now I always run from my problems. I wish I had these kind of training. But now I know it is never too late to start. I'll join a jiu jitsu class next week.
same here bro, we do not always find the right ppl explain us the right things.. sometimes you just missed smth in childhood and it was realized while an adult. But we keep learning and growing on our mistakes.
I had a similar training session with my son today. He was always being bullied, but afraid to defend himself. I'd move in with the kick shield and he'd be pulling his punches and kicks. But with more pushing, and letting him feel his emotions honestly, he started to hit harder. He visualized the bullies and stopped being afraid. Boys need this. The world is a scary place. Losing to fear can't be a stumbling block for them. My son got emotional afterward and I told him how proud of him I was.
My father is a good man but I’m 41 and he never did much with me. Definitely never told he was proud of me or anything. When I was young I didn’t think much of it because that was normal to me. It’s not normal though. Keep up the good work with your son. He’ll never forget it. Peace.
We live in a world of pent-up emotions, which is perceived as weakness by most. We are not to shout, to cry, to laughter, we must be obedient and cozy.
I wonder what life would be like if we'd all had a teacher like this growing up. I can't even think of one person in my whole life that even resembled him in even the smallest way. Good man. Keep it up.
That bond and trust between you and the kid gave him the courage to tell you the truth in the first place. Jacked up world we live in sir. In many households we don't teach that despite all the love there might be, a parent is a human being, we can repeat bad habits unconsciously. These kids are so lucky to have you and their parents have been wise to put them into your path.
He instead of attack him and say stuff like "you can't, you have to be strong" or something to make him go down he made the kid use that weakness as a weapon, wow he is the best teacher i've seen
@@FM-to3gy He made the kid use his emotions in a way that he didn't fall to the ground and that is very clever, and they tell us that anger is bad but here he showed that knowing how to use emotions it can help a lot not only at life but in a fight
Just saw this video in Reddit and had to find your channel. I'm openly sobbing because this is the type of thing I want my boys to learn. This is the world I want to build for them
I love that sensei's technique there, had the student focus saying I'm nervous loud, his balance and focus improved each second during that he dropped his fear and went in with a clear mind. Excellent work. I myself am a 2nd degree.
I’m not being facetious when I say that a moment like this at age seven would have spared me thirty years of trying to teach myself how to cope with rage and fear. These boys are going to remember this, and just as important, they’re going to pass it on.
I was fighting back tears, this made me so emotional somehow. Im emotional and tend to cry often so it hurts me to see that boys cant even express emotions like these often because its seen as being "weak".....Salute to this guy!!
We need more guys like this, teaching him to listen to himself but push past the difficulties. These kids will remember and use these lessons for the rest of their life. Mad respect
That teacher is one of the best i ever seen. It is exactly it. This is not about fighting, it is about the situation and accept what is going on in you. That help you getting better and getting in track on what you need to do next time on in that moment to respond properly on what is yet to come.
I just found this and as a father of two boys, I think this man's lessons are important. Not just in fights but real life wisdom. Great man. Thank you sir.
This guy is an *amazing* teacher, teaching resilience in martial arts in a more direct way, rather than just telling it to a kid simply, but really connecting with them personally and cultivating strength each student personally, I feel is rare in teachers. How this guy is teaching these kids how to work through pain and fear properly so early in life and really connecting with them is amazing. This is a true sensei, full respect to this man
My whole heart imploded with emotion. I felt the boy getting stronger each time he owned his feelings. Powerful lesson from a loving teacher. One love. ❤️
I have a big project that I'm presenting today, and have invited a lot of friends to come see. The past few days I've felt super nervous, and I find myself coming back to this video. Where I know that I can feel nervous, I can acknowledge my anxiety and push through. Thank you for being an inspiration to these boys, your community, and to me.
I was studying robotics engineering in the best university in my country. I haven't managed to finish. The challenge was beyond the capabilities I thought I had. Maybe if I've met this man, my life would be different now.
Love this video! Man if only you were everywhere, I'd be so prepared to have my spirit reconstructed by your teaching! Nothing but love here man, keep up the great work!
I would have just about killed to have someone in my life like him. There is another side to this coin. As a woman, I was essentially taught the opposite of this fine young man, to give myself over to emotions and whim in the name of femininity. To find someone like this boy could have become. Outwardly strong, unemotional, and ultimately repressed. It never sat right with me, and now I'm in my 20s learning how to use emotion. Fortunately they never did drive me, but I shoved them down so far that when they exploded, it was ugly, and as I had not a single adult to turn to, I almost spiraled alone into depression and then death. But to know that emotions are not the enemy, but a reaction to your surroundings, that any intense emotion can be turned to drive, that is beyond freeing. To feel and acknowledge, then power through with anger or fear or joy, temper it with patience and experience. It is not male or female. It is human. Seeing this man almost moves me to tears, and I shall endeavor to not long for him, but be like him to any I need to teach. Thank you sir, God bless you and all your students, physical and virtual
This man knows what it takes to make a life for yourself. He knows it's a path of struggle and pain. A good life isn't just one where you get a degree, decent job and call it a day. It's on where you constantly challenge and apply yourself. That's where true happiness and fulfillment is. That's what the experience of life is! Otherwise once you die, what was the point? Life, is by nature suffering. The catch is though that you get to choose your suffering. You get to choose whether to experience now or later. You get to choose whether your suffering reaps rewards, or it's a punishment for being lazy, complacent and avoidant. This man is teaching those kids a valuable lesson. He is teaching them the true nature of the world, the way it throws you around and makes you nervous. But it's important that you are still in control. You are in control of your emotions, and you are in control of the actions and decisions you take. You have to be responsible, and guide your life towards the direction you want it to go. It won't be perfect. You'll make mistakes. You'll work at it for years feeling like you barely made any progress. But if you choose to walk this life, I will promise you with all my confidence that you will build something. And you will look back and realise how far you've come. You will realise that it took work, and it took time. It took a damn ton of both. But, that's how you make something out of life. You choose your suffering. Remember to love and respect yourself. Life is damn tough. Cut yourself some slack, and do your best.
This is the most personally inspiring thing I've ever seen on the internet. I'm 37 years old and this moved me to tears. I'm so full of joy to know these boys have someone like you in their lives teaching these priceless lessons. I had to learn on my own and I'm still learning but I am breaking a cycle of "emotional unhealthiness" with my son and daughter. I will be watching these videos and showing my kids to help teach and open up these conversations. Thank you so much!
You are genuinely the best teacher I’ve ever seen. The lessons and interactions these kids have will last their entire life and you have built better men because of it. I’m just a random person, drop in the sea, but you have commanded my respect
Imagine how many full grown men who want to drop all the weight on their shoulders for a moment and say "i'm hurting" while they are attending his class. And imagine how those same men are put back together, better than before.
the Martial arts video brought tears to my eyes heavy tears. ive been trying to find my father cause now as an adult i realized how important my would would play in my live. my mother was abusive verbally and physically it was extremely traumatic for me. i remember crying as school as a kid because i missed my father even though I had never met him . this video was a form of healing in a way thanks you for that stay safe out here guys i wish you nothing but blessing. and keep teaching our young men into kings i have the up most respect for your and what you do. also i found this video from this channel @tribe report
This hit me hard I’m 28 years old … I wish I had someone like this when I was that age … I was so Afraid to say how I feel bro I couldn’t take being a child … if I had someone like this I would’ve gotten a lot off my chest because now I’m just chaotic and tryna redeem myself from past traumas of me not sticking up for myself
Some of these kids are gonna be going through insanely hard stuff once they are older, then they’ll be looking back at these videos of the moments they learned these lessons and cry tears of strength. I really can’t think of a better gift to give a child.
I have came across your videos and I am in tears. Your inspiration is practical but extremely potent. I have been struggling with agoraphobia and social anxiety disorder for years now and it seems like like my emotions get the best of me everyday. I wish I could learn from you myself being a Detroit native because there is so much wisdom you can impart to me. Most importantly you can guide me on being a man that isn’t afraid of being himself
You are a true man my friend. The work your doing is life changing to those young boys and the people they will go on to influence. God bless you, seeing this has brought me so much joy today. I am currently procrastinating my studies for my deferred engineering exam because I have little faith in myself. I have learned a lesson from this video. Love from Scotland.
@@thisismakneto2296 I mostly got A’s much to my surprise. Yet I’m in the same boat again 1 year later, I cannot shift the overwhelming doubt in myself. Your message came at a good time to rewatch this video! Thank you for asking.
@@Poogs you're welcome, and also thats real nice to hear, you probably worked really hard for it last time, if you work as hard if not harder for this one you will see the same results if not better, im sure u will do good in it, just make sure to not let anything slip/not get too careless with it
I don't know why but this brings tears to my eyes. Maybe because I see a beginning of someone strong. This is good mentoring at its best. This will bring the best out of this kid. Life's not gonna be ready with how this young man will be
This kids are receving one of the greatest gifts in life: the wisdom of a true sensei Keep doing this, you are helping to develop better human beings. Arigato Gosaimas🙏🏼
I swear in my life my future kid will have the obligation to make a sport (he loves) instead of being 24/7 at the computer like me when i was a kid. Every sport teachs you something
I love this man. What he's doing for these young boys is shaping them into what I think real men should be. I'd like to send you money just to support what you do, sir.
I... Cannot express my thought on this man, and what hes doing. If ...i had had a father, or just a FIGURE like this..maybe i wouldnt have spent 15 yrs of my life locked up and MOST of the rest with a fuckin needle in my arm. "Its so jacked up fer men we cant even say how we feel". Sir, i salute you in every way a man can salute another man. Teach.
This guy is like me. I have twin 5yo boys, and I train one of em. He's wild and untamed, however he's getting better. Martial arts is a brilliant way to discipline over-active boys.
Wow, he's teaching his son how to be honest with his feelings. Now that's just beautiful. His son will be blossomed into a beautiful man. Mark those words. Thanks for this upload. It means a lot.
I think this is a great experience for both boys and girls. I totally relate to this energy as a woman too, both sexes experience the same things but we're just taught differently. I repressed my emotions quite a lot during my childhood due to the intensity and what I perceived the 'silliness' of them, and when I reached adulthood, things just overflowed, making my life messy. I'm doing better but I still have difficult times regulating them now and again because I was hardly taught how to do it. However, I've been doing martial arts since last year and it's THE BEST thing I've done for my mental health, to integrate the fear, the sadness and the rage into the practice and not let it completely rule my behaviour.
Señor, vi sus vídeos y no puedo entender que habla, solo uno que le dio una lección a un niño y su padre, me encanto, quiero saber mas porque son palabras que quiero escuchar y también para ayudar a mi familia. Gracias
"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men" -Frederick Douglass. Keep up the good work Sir.
Broken bones become more strong
@@satoshinakamoto7688 Not the same thing
@@satoshinakamoto7688 Broken minds and psyches don't.
Broken children on the other hand.... It's a crap shoot how we'll turn out.
@@satoshinakamoto7688 only when healed properly
This is a good psychological training for kids to develop self confidence. When these kids grow up, they will be tough mentally and physically. They will be bully-proof and disciplined. Good job sir.
it’s not always for the physical strength but sometimes it’s for the confidence
Facts i did karate as a kid it helped me mentally and physically as a kid still helps a little bit until now im a little older
Not really
@@royalecrafts6252 well it really depends on the teacher or yourself
@@Banker01111 and the situation, you wont be confident or bring the lion out when a monster is attacking you
I am a grown man in my thirties, this video just about had me in tears. What you are doing for these boys is invaluable. The men of tomorrow. Thank you.
Same here.
I couldn't agree more:)
My thoughts exactly !
43. Same feelings
I read your comment before I saw it and thought "really?!" but when he started making him yell "I'm nervous", boi, someone pulled out some onions.. 🤣 🙏🏾
This. This is what it means to raise a boy into a man. He teaches him it’s okay to be in pain and have emotions and express them… but to fight through them as well. He teaches him that he’ll have to struggle and fight but if he keeps pushing he’ll win. Nothing but respect.
They should teach girls that too
These days many girls to fear to express emotions 😊
@@mixedhelp2784 maybe but it's very rare, kinda weird to bring girls into this conversation considering tge way most boys are raised and treated and it's alot different then the way girls are raised but all the same I agree
@@mixedhelp2784 more like many girls playing victim and getting ezz donations from stupid people on youtube and social media. and dotn get me started on these drama youtubers
Child abuse and YT trying very hard to censor the critics
“You couldn’t just be nervous, you had to say you were hurt”
That hit me hard
I love his response. He laughed a little because he knew exactly what the kid felt
Lets recognise our emotions and admit them and we are going to grow up happily. Great work, sir.
What he meant by it
@@reycesarcarino4653
He was referring to how men in western cultures are socialized to hide their feelings and fear, because they’ll be perceived as weak if they admit that they’re afraid. Unfortunately this leads to all sorts of disordered thinking, shame and aggression in young men. The boy in the video is already starting to show it, luckily he is young and has a good mentor to help him
@@RealAmericanSicko yeah, I know if I was in that situation I'd be scared if they laughed I would've been scared of being hit or something, this dude almost gave me flashbacks, but then he gave me inspiration
Yeah, 41 yr old male in tears here. My father just didn't care, or didn't know how to care, when I was a kid. It got in the way until my 30's. I'm trying hard to teach my son differently.
Thank you!
Things may have been hard for him as well, i pray you find more understanding as you develop as a person and a father urself and believe that, he may not have shown it in the ways you may see fit, but he is your father, and I'll bet that he does love you and always did.
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077 I appreciate your words, and I read that you've never met your father which must be really hard. But I think you're projecting. Some people are just assholes (most likely because how they experienced childhood) and those assholes become fathers/mothers and (probably) don't realize they damage their children. It can take a long time for that child to realize why they developed a certain (often unhealthy) coping mechanism which becomes engraved in its blueprint and much later learns to give it a place and move on to become a better parent/person, and some don't and pass it onto their children.
But, thank you for your prayers.
You got this!!God bless!!
ThvtSyDneYlyf3th0 he doesn't have to find any understanding. Stop excusing
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077 Dont pray for idiots, save urself, bless you
I love how the kid admitted that he was nervous in the first place. It takes courage to say that after lying in the teacher's face. So with that courage, with admitting his emotion, he earned a priceless lesson from the teacher.
I completely agree. With his courageous honesty, he created the opportunity to conquer his fear instead of masking it.
He's learning from the mentor
The way his shoulders fell before he said it showed he didn't want to disappoint the teacher also. I love what he is doing for these boys and the world.
Let's not forget that the teacher here knows that he's being filmed.
@@datatsushi2016 would you help me understand what you mean?
A lot of people would have stopped at the “we need to express our emotions as men” bit and left it at that. But this man took that statement and showed this boy that not only can he express his emotions, but he can _master_ them, making them powerful servants for himself and not the other way around.
That is priceless teaching.
I somewhat agree. I think in order to get to B, you also need to get through A, which is acknowledging and expressing your emotions. The problem with some people is that they think that all men can just work through their negative emotions without ever acknowledging or expressing them. I'm assuming the people you're talking about aren't just leaving it at the first bit, but trying to say that the first step is most important step too.
I’m a martial artist for 36 years. This is inspired “old style” teaching. “ I’m nervous” changed from weakness into a chant of power in just one minute.
Well done Sir!
Hello sir, I have read somewhere that martial arts require mental balance more than anything more than your brute strength what does it means Sir?
@@Vizorfam yes. I know fighters who rely on brute strength but only on street. F.e. my pal. He has simply insane pain tolerance and he's savage af in fights. But he's very weak in sport fights and quite easy to stop if you are stronger while being better technical and calmer. Plus Fowler missed whole point. Being nervous is not a weakness.
@@Vizorfam If you get too emotional, if you think too hard, you can get tunnel visioned. You need to be in a state of mind that allows you to control your actions and think openly in the fight, and even in life. You can be as physically fit as you want, but you will never get anywhere without the wit to see things through.
Petaurista says that 'being nervous is not a weakness.' I agree, because many fighters, though nervous, have learned how to control that anxiety -- and even use it as energy to propel themselves forward.
In short, mental balance = a less cluttered mind = better decision making and control over emotions = profit!
This is why I love this guy.
You really shouldn't avoid nervousness and its better to admit if you are. No risk felt = no adrenaline rush. This only works on physical sports if you are on a more intellectual pursuits, nervousness is always an enemy.
He’s making him feel comfortable in expressing his true emotions. Made me cry.
Grow up
Sameeee TwT
He's helping these kids overcome their inner fears in a productive way. Those kids will never forget him..
In return the kids when grow up will have a good life and peace.
Faaaaaaaaacts I never forgot my sensay
@@jibshafi1277 sensei
Wish I had a sensei
@@xXxC0nSUm3rXxX1337 if you can't/didn't have your own sensei, then become your own sensei 🙌
This man isn’t just training that one kid. he’s training us all.
The Moral principle of martial arts isn't about conquering others, it's about conquering your own fears and never giving up or into self-doubt. Beautiful message and priceless lesson.
Man I got self-doubt..
Never understood this until I started boxing.
@@nuraortoma1820 it's ok to have self doubt it, it can keep you humble and give you area's of yourself to work on, just don't let self doubt turn to improper anger channel it wisely if it does.
Conquering self and conquering obstacles that life and self puts in our ways
Man, your comment is priceless lesson.
These days, people are obsessed with the idea that kids should be treated in a very gentle way! I totally disagree with this. Kids should be raised up in a way that will make them able to withstand the darkness looming in adulthood. They must know that fear, nervousness, and hesitance are things you should overcome in life. Bless this teacher in the video.
It should be a balance of both tbh know when to be gentle know when to be hard
But he IS being gentle
Also you have to give them independence only 60% to teach them how to be independent
And that would drastically decrease suicides
@@Ready4Whatever Exactly. Teach your kids how to be strong and dont shelter them, but also let them be comforted and happy. They will become strong through your guidance, not your actions
This guy teaches Lifejitsu.
You are a wise man when there aren't many, and there are even less willing to teach but you do.
Spiritual Jitsu IMO...but I see what you mean.
*Life-Jutsu
@@airbornetortilla9489 nah, lifejitsu
@@airbornetortilla9489 no
@@anonymoususer638 Yes.
Strength doesn't come from ignoring your feelings, it comes from overcoming them. There could not be more of a difference.
Emotion can also be harnessed.
Wtf do you know
Dip shif
Guru hipster
I'm 36 years old and watching your videos make me want to become a better man. What you are doing is very inspirational. I find myself saying that we need more men like you but lately have began thinking of ways to become one of these men that serve our youth. I'm not sure where god will guide me but I feel the spirit. You are changing lives and that is powerful.
I agree 💯
Nailed it Dude. I'm 36 too and have 2 boys. This is the way.
@@jmanxoom This is the Way
Like your profile
True. God though...not god.
This is the emotional support men need in their lives, this kid will always appreciate you
I'm a 30 years old man who never learned how to deal with emotions like frustration, anger and fear and now I always run from my problems. I wish I had these kind of training. But now I know it is never too late to start. I'll join a jiu jitsu class next week.
same here bro, we do not always find the right ppl explain us the right things.. sometimes you just missed smth in childhood and it was realized while an adult. But we keep learning and growing on our mistakes.
so did u sign up for that jiujitsu in the end?
You can do it brother. I feel your pain. Men like us need to work on our self development and heal. Let's break the cycle together. ✊
@@valeriekey Not yet, I'm saving up money to buy a kimono, but I will by the end of this month.
@@vtrmrl yea go get it bro
He isn't teaching them how to fight, he is teaching them lessons for their future life, wish i had him as a teacher
I had a similar training session with my son today. He was always being bullied, but afraid to defend himself. I'd move in with the kick shield and he'd be pulling his punches and kicks. But with more pushing, and letting him feel his emotions honestly, he started to hit harder. He visualized the bullies and stopped being afraid. Boys need this. The world is a scary place. Losing to fear can't be a stumbling block for them. My son got emotional afterward and I told him how proud of him I was.
Good work. Fathers do the heavy lifting for all of us.
My father is a good man but I’m 41 and he never did much with me. Definitely never told he was proud of me or anything. When I was young I didn’t think much of it because that was normal to me. It’s not normal though. Keep up the good work with your son. He’ll never forget it. Peace.
@@tomd1434 My father was exactly the same way, unfortunately. I promised myself I'd never be absent or indifferent the way he was.
@@yakamen Thank you.
@@tomd1434 - I can relate. I need to step my game up with my sons like in this video.
Man love this dude, he prepares people not just physically, but mentally
This is so wonderful to teach these boys to honestly express themselves and to press through! Awesome job!
We live in a world of pent-up emotions, which is perceived as weakness by most. We are not to shout, to cry, to laughter, we must be obedient and cozy.
Bless this man.he cares for the kids and their future as human beings.he teaches them humility and determination
I had to learn that shit on my middle 30's and after a couple of big hits against reality. That kid will never forget that lesson.
Teaching the kid to understand that he can show his emotions, and those emotions make you stronger. You gained my respect
I wonder what life would be like if we'd all had a teacher like this growing up. I can't even think of one person in my whole life that even resembled him in even the smallest way.
Good man. Keep it up.
This should be offered, at every church. This man deserves more blessings than he can handle. Truly a man, building men.
That bond and trust between you and the kid gave him the courage to tell you the truth in the first place.
Jacked up world we live in sir. In many households we don't teach that despite all the love there might be, a parent is a human being, we can repeat bad habits unconsciously.
These kids are so lucky to have you and their parents have been wise to put them into your path.
He instead of attack him and say stuff like "you can't, you have to be strong" or something to make him go down he made the kid use that weakness as a weapon, wow he is the best teacher i've seen
Weakness as a weapon?
Could you please explain
@@FM-to3gy He made the kid use his emotions in a way that he didn't fall to the ground and that is very clever, and they tell us that anger is bad but here he showed that knowing how to use emotions it can help a lot not only at life but in a fight
This Is what a true leader looks like.
Great teacher.
Deep respect.
Absolutely beautiful. One can re-parent themselves in the same way if neglected/abused in childhood. Humanity has hope in many unexpected places.
Just saw this video in Reddit and had to find your channel. I'm openly sobbing because this is the type of thing I want my boys to learn. This is the world I want to build for them
If you do so, you will be a great mom
I love that sensei's technique there, had the student focus saying I'm nervous loud, his balance and focus improved each second during that he dropped his fear and went in with a clear mind. Excellent work. I myself am a 2nd degree.
I’m not being facetious when I say that a moment like this at age seven would have spared me thirty years of trying to teach myself how to cope with rage and fear.
These boys are going to remember this, and just as important, they’re going to pass it on.
I hear that
Absolutely nothing facetious taken from what u said, my friend. Im the same as u in that regard. 👊🏽
So many of us know what you are saying is 100% true.
I was fighting back tears, this made me so emotional somehow. Im emotional and tend to cry often so it hurts me to see that boys cant even express emotions like these often because its seen as being "weak".....Salute to this guy!!
He’s a terrific mentor to these young kids. Embrace your fears & anxiety
Amazing
You're turning these kids into men. Respect to you sir.
We need more guys like this, teaching him to listen to himself but push past the difficulties.
These kids will remember and use these lessons for the rest of their life.
Mad respect
Black senseis always got that real wisdom
That teacher is one of the best i ever seen. It is exactly it. This is not about fighting, it is about the situation and accept what is going on in you. That help you getting better and getting in track on what you need to do next time on in that moment to respond properly on what is yet to come.
This is exactly the type of man we need more of in society.
God bless these kids, wish if I had such teacher. I love how he teach life, not just to fight. Mental strength.
I just found this and as a father of two boys, I think this man's lessons are important. Not just in fights but real life wisdom. Great man. Thank you sir.
This guy is an *amazing* teacher, teaching resilience in martial arts in a more direct way, rather than just telling it to a kid simply, but really connecting with them personally and cultivating strength each student personally, I feel is rare in teachers.
How this guy is teaching these kids how to work through pain and fear properly so early in life and really connecting with them is amazing.
This is a true sensei, full respect to this man
The way he holds the kid to make him not let go later just adds such gentle touch.
My whole heart imploded with emotion. I felt the boy getting stronger each time he owned his feelings. Powerful lesson from a loving teacher. One love. ❤️
Why the hell is this actually motivational?
I hope that kid grows up and becomes the world's greatest robotics engineer.
I have a big project that I'm presenting today, and have invited a lot of friends to come see. The past few days I've felt super nervous, and I find myself coming back to this video. Where I know that I can feel nervous, I can acknowledge my anxiety and push through. Thank you for being an inspiration to these boys, your community, and to me.
Wow this trainer is like a philosopher... I needed such a mentor all my life...
I'm absolutely speechless by the positive impact this little experience will have for this kid in his future life.. amazing
I was studying robotics engineering in the best university in my country. I haven't managed to finish. The challenge was beyond the capabilities I thought I had. Maybe if I've met this man, my life would be different now.
Wow 😯 I want to do engineering , robotics engineering sounds like so much fun.
I think you didn't finish because.....You're nervous! SAY IT AGAIN! You're nervous! Don't let go, hit me bitch!
@@bradenrodriguez5183 XD
Love this video! Man if only you were everywhere, I'd be so prepared to have my spirit reconstructed by your teaching! Nothing but love here man, keep up the great work!
He is. It’s called youtube.
*EVERYONE FEELS FEAR AND PAIN BUT ONLY A FEW STILL FIGHTING*
I would have just about killed to have someone in my life like him. There is another side to this coin. As a woman, I was essentially taught the opposite of this fine young man, to give myself over to emotions and whim in the name of femininity. To find someone like this boy could have become. Outwardly strong, unemotional, and ultimately repressed. It never sat right with me, and now I'm in my 20s learning how to use emotion. Fortunately they never did drive me, but I shoved them down so far that when they exploded, it was ugly, and as I had not a single adult to turn to, I almost spiraled alone into depression and then death.
But to know that emotions are not the enemy, but a reaction to your surroundings, that any intense emotion can be turned to drive, that is beyond freeing. To feel and acknowledge, then power through with anger or fear or joy, temper it with patience and experience. It is not male or female. It is human. Seeing this man almost moves me to tears, and I shall endeavor to not long for him, but be like him to any I need to teach. Thank you sir, God bless you and all your students, physical and virtual
There u go PaPa push throw that emotional wall...an amazing Master💪
This man knows what it takes to make a life for yourself. He knows it's a path of struggle and pain.
A good life isn't just one where you get a degree, decent job and call it a day. It's on where you constantly challenge and apply yourself. That's where true happiness and fulfillment is. That's what the experience of life is! Otherwise once you die, what was the point?
Life, is by nature suffering. The catch is though that you get to choose your suffering. You get to choose whether to experience now or later. You get to choose whether your suffering reaps rewards, or it's a punishment for being lazy, complacent and avoidant.
This man is teaching those kids a valuable lesson. He is teaching them the true nature of the world, the way it throws you around and makes you nervous. But it's important that you are still in control. You are in control of your emotions, and you are in control of the actions and decisions you take. You have to be responsible, and guide your life towards the direction you want it to go.
It won't be perfect. You'll make mistakes. You'll work at it for years feeling like you barely made any progress. But if you choose to walk this life, I will promise you with all my confidence that you will build something. And you will look back and realise how far you've come. You will realise that it took work, and it took time. It took a damn ton of both. But, that's how you make something out of life.
You choose your suffering. Remember to love and respect yourself. Life is damn tough. Cut yourself some slack, and do your best.
Maaaaan I love to see that masculine energy. That REAL masculine energy and the transfer. That moment was so powerful.
This is the most personally inspiring thing I've ever seen on the internet. I'm 37 years old and this moved me to tears. I'm so full of joy to know these boys have someone like you in their lives teaching these priceless lessons. I had to learn on my own and I'm still learning but I am breaking a cycle of "emotional unhealthiness" with my son and daughter. I will be watching these videos and showing my kids to help teach and open up these conversations. Thank you so much!
You are genuinely the best teacher I’ve ever seen. The lessons and interactions these kids have will last their entire life and you have built better men because of it. I’m just a random person, drop in the sea, but you have commanded my respect
Imagine how many full grown men who want to drop all the weight on their shoulders for a moment and say "i'm hurting" while they are attending his class. And imagine how those same men are put back together, better than before.
the Martial arts video brought tears to my eyes heavy tears. ive been trying to find my father cause now as an adult i realized how important my would would play in my live. my mother was abusive verbally and physically it was extremely traumatic for me. i remember crying as school as a kid because i missed my father even though I had never met him . this video was a form of healing in a way thanks you for that stay safe out here guys i wish you nothing but blessing. and keep teaching our young men into kings i have the up most respect for your and what you do. also i found this video from this channel @tribe report
This hit me hard I’m 28 years old … I wish I had someone like this when I was that age … I was so Afraid to say how I feel bro I couldn’t take being a child … if I had someone like this I would’ve gotten a lot off my chest because now I’m just chaotic and tryna redeem myself from past traumas of me not sticking up for myself
You got this
Made me cry too. So precious work on a young human being 🙏❤️
From France.
WOW Wish I had someone like this around me growing up!
U got a heart u lucky bugger, nooneelse got a heart btw
Dude this man is surrounded by good intention that's freaking heartwarming
I'm crying a LOT rn, man that's a lesson everyone should have at a young age, thank you! for real :)
Some of these kids are gonna be going through insanely hard stuff once they are older, then they’ll be looking back at these videos of the moments they learned these lessons and cry tears of strength. I really can’t think of a better gift to give a child.
That is a very lucky kid to have him in his life. He's going to grow up to be a great man because of his teachings.
It's beautiful how he made a chant out of his weakness
I have came across your videos and I am in tears. Your inspiration is practical but extremely potent. I have been struggling with agoraphobia and social anxiety disorder for years now and it seems like like my emotions get the best of me everyday. I wish I could learn from you myself being a Detroit native because there is so much wisdom you can impart to me. Most importantly you can guide me on being a man that isn’t afraid of being himself
Tear roll down my eye when he said it's so jacked up for boys and men that we can't even be emotional
RESPECT+ FOR YOU MASTER
Well done sir, we'll done. I see you're helping to mold these boys into physically capable, emotionally strong men. You should be very proud.
Wonderful to see, glad there are still good father figures like this gentleman right here. We need to get back to this.
Right! So let’s quit this toxic masculinity!
You are a true man my friend. The work your doing is life changing to those young boys and the people they will go on to influence. God bless you, seeing this has brought me so much joy today. I am currently procrastinating my studies for my deferred engineering exam because I have little faith in myself. I have learned a lesson from this video. Love from Scotland.
Yo hey how did your studies go?
@@thisismakneto2296 I mostly got A’s much to my surprise. Yet I’m in the same boat again 1 year later, I cannot shift the overwhelming doubt in myself. Your message came at a good time to rewatch this video! Thank you for asking.
@@Poogs you're welcome, and also thats real nice to hear, you probably worked really hard for it last time, if you work as hard if not harder for this one you will see the same results if not better, im sure u will do good in it, just make sure to not let anything slip/not get too careless with it
Hey man, of course strive for the best but also acknowledge that C's earns degree. You're fine but keep up the good work !
I don't know why but this brings tears to my eyes. Maybe because I see a beginning of someone strong. This is good mentoring at its best. This will bring the best out of this kid. Life's not gonna be ready with how this young man will be
This kids are receving one of the greatest gifts in life: the wisdom of a true sensei
Keep doing this, you are helping to develop better human beings.
Arigato Gosaimas🙏🏼
Thank you for this. As a highly sensitive man it’s important that boys are allowed to feel feelings.
I swear in my life my future kid will have the obligation to make a sport (he loves) instead of being 24/7 at the computer like me when i was a kid. Every sport teachs you something
„Obligation“ and „Love“ are two things that just don‘t go well together
It teared me up.
So important, for men and women.
I love this man. What he's doing for these young boys is shaping them into what I think real men should be.
I'd like to send you money just to support what you do, sir.
I...
Cannot express my thought on this man, and what hes doing. If ...i had had a father, or just a FIGURE like this..maybe i wouldnt have spent 15 yrs of my life locked up and MOST of the rest with a fuckin needle in my arm. "Its so jacked up fer men we cant even say how we feel". Sir, i salute you in every way a man can salute another man. Teach.
Absolutely amazing! I cannot express how amazing this is. This is incredible teaching, and a message that everyone should hear. ❤️
Great video!! We need to choose to walk in the faith of the Lord each day!! God is love. God is glorious. God hates sin. 💛🤗🎀🙏🗽🏝
You are a great teacher... Respect 🙏 The world needs people like you... All the best
This man is an excellent mentor.
Outstanding. It's unfortunate more young men aren't learning the life lessons being taught everyday in that dojo.
I don’t even have kids yet and I want this guy to Coach them up
This is constructive for community. These kids will grow up confident, strong, and disciplined. Great thing you're doing here!
this video literally brought tears to my eyes. This man is doing gods work in his community and for young boys. I love it!
I've watched a few of these videos and everything this man has taught these kids is absolutely crucial for these boys to be great men some day.
Seriously, the lessons here are just soo crucial
This guy is like me. I have twin 5yo boys, and I train one of em. He's wild and untamed, however he's getting better. Martial arts is a brilliant way to discipline over-active boys.
You’re a true hero, sir. God bless you, your attitude towards those young men is something different.
Wow, he's teaching his son how to be honest with his feelings. Now that's just beautiful. His son will be blossomed into a beautiful man. Mark those words. Thanks for this upload. It means a lot.
It’s not his son it’s one of his students
Man this video is so good. Brought a tear to my eye seeing those kids being taught so many good lessons that will make them strong men.
I think this is a great experience for both boys and girls. I totally relate to this energy as a woman too, both sexes experience the same things but we're just taught differently. I repressed my emotions quite a lot during my childhood due to the intensity and what I perceived the 'silliness' of them, and when I reached adulthood, things just overflowed, making my life messy. I'm doing better but I still have difficult times regulating them now and again because I was hardly taught how to do it. However, I've been doing martial arts since last year and it's THE BEST thing I've done for my mental health, to integrate the fear, the sadness and the rage into the practice and not let it completely rule my behaviour.
This guy is an amazing teacher
Señor, vi sus vídeos y no puedo entender que habla, solo uno que le dio una lección a un niño y su padre, me encanto, quiero saber mas porque son palabras que quiero escuchar y también para ayudar a mi familia. Gracias
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This generation needs soo much more of this.
Blessed be~for eternity.
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