Emotions: Don't Let Them Rule You!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 เม.ย. 2024
- At critical moments, it’s crucial that we don’t let emotions take over, despite them being a core part of our being. Egypt, on his third day in our academy, faced the overwhelming pressure to perform, that too often derails boys and men from their intended paths. Instead of condemning Egypt, Sharath Jason Wilson coached him through his emotions. Please join us in the comments-encouraging Egypt for boldly expressing the vulnerable emotions that many males repress, and pushing through to finish the task at hand!
‘Every man who doesn’t cry, cries in other ways!’
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😮☝🏿 wow true...many men show tough & r now emotionally constricted & carry inner anger....which serves no one ☝🏿☝🏿☝🏿💥
This statement is like a work of art in a gallery. You stare… there’s so much to get from it.
Yeaj & its a Diservice to our culture 😪😪😪😪
Yeah...like from the penis😂😂😂
How lucky that boy is to have this man in his life!
Yep he doesn't know today but he'll understand when he's 25+ my father never gave me such advice lucky kid
*a man. A single real one is all it takes
@@TrueRattlehead So true! How powerful is that fact!
It's evil. Jesus said :" let the children come to me "
Jesus Christ is the way the truth and the life.
I was going to say the same thing. Thets true privilege, beeing cared for and loved well as a child.
He is talking. Not yelling. This is healing. 🥹🥺🥹❤️❤️
Strength and masculinity doesn’t mean yelling and intimidating. It’s an inner power that shows up as resilience and confidence. Bravo to this man! We need more men like him in this world 👏👏👏
There's plenty around the world. Stop having tunnel vision on the ones who "yell"
This Guy is a man of Real strength
Yes
This is why men are so important and shouldn't be demonized they way they are today. All the countless fathers and figures out there , you are so loved.🎉
I appreciate that. It’s crazy how I can see a TH-cam comment at 6am & feel more appreciated now than I have in my 6 year relationship. Blessings 🙏🏾
@Allah_Loves_Forgives_and_Saves Both are equally important. To say such an utterly ignorant statement is a reflection of your character.
@@Bmcallister41 🥲 I didn't have the best relationship with my father, but as a child there were things i didnt understand that were factors that my mother also contributed to. He did his best, and just because of my own experience, it would be very wrong to hate men or my father, ive witness and have great men in my life, and if not for them, i wouldnt be where i am today. Im glad I was able to help you. Even in this small moment. You are indeed worthy and perfect. Flaws and all. The people and things in your life, relationships included, if they are bringing you down, i look forward to the day you free yourself from such things. You can do it..😇🖤
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We need more men and examples like this. Dearly.
Real Men Take Care of Children With A Soft Calm Voice. So Much Respect.
There is a time to a shout and a time to be calm. Assess the situation accordingly.
It's amazing what a strong masculine man can do for a child.
A mentally strong, caring, empathetic, articulate, emotionally aware, observant being. Your statement is true, but it's his mind/mental attitude and experiences, that make this powerful, and that power is not gender specific, its human but not restricted to humans, it's the nature of nurture.
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This youth is going to overcome obstacles in the right manner with a coach of such empathy.
This is bs
not much diversity though, huh ? not a problem on this side.
@@larrylucid5502 young black men need it the most bc of what the media is pushing out towards them, cant talk about diversity when u say all of ur ppl are magically saints.
@larrylucid5502 Ah come on don’t start this bs. All kids need this and these kids have been blessed let’s leave it at that.
This is emotional intelligence! This is self preservation! This is healthy healing! ❤️🩹 🙏🏽🥰
EXACTLY
It was great to see Egypt have that release by processing his emotions and not having shame about his human experience
That is so true and I can imagine freeing too, I'm learning this for myself and learning how to parent too.
Respect@@zinhlemkhize2332
The gentleness in how he delivered the message even speaks volumes to his character
This is how you should talk to children, bravo Sr.
I appreciate how the young man was taught that we need to regulate our emotions, and part of that means vocalizing what we need in real time.
This is LOVE. Giving your child anything they want isn't love. Giving you child anything they NEED, now that is love. This needs to go super viral. Ain't nothing toxic about masculinity.
I’ve never seen a better example of INSTANT reinforcement for the good of a human being. That applause at the end was everything. That lesson has been absorbed in the fibre of that boys being now.
I like how the teacher allowed the young man to state how he feels, instructes the young man how to deal with his frustration and still follow through with the plan!
"when a man doesn't cry, he cries in other ways. Can't keep a job, always wants to fight."
Wow he said that so perfectly. Hope this man keeps uplifting the black youth. They need it more than ever. 🙏
It’s the guy hitting his head on the wall for me 🤣
It’s me at 25 crying because I needed to hear this 🤣 love this gents.
36 here 😂😂😂
We need more adults like this. Kids aren't dumb. We need to understand them first, to speak their language, and then they can understand us.
Very Powerful, no man left behind. Pattern of the Brotherhood.
I can’t wait until the standard returns where we as grown men stand on actual business like raising younger men and boys. Men actualize emotions in other ways like my guy said …. It’s on us to teach them how to do it the right way or life/someone/something else will. Salute my brother.
From a King 👑 to a future King 👑. He gonna remember that for the rest of his life and pass it to his children, kings 👑 and queens 👑.
He’s not yelling screaming 🥹just soft strong coaching !!💗
I ain't even a man... and I'm cryin' tears.
I love this so much for our your men!!!
Thank you.
Very good teaching young men how to become real men!
It's amazing showing him how to regulate his emotions.
Beautify! ❤ My motherly instinct wanted to instantly hug little Egypt and shower him with love and affection to console him.
But I am very amazed, satisfied and pleased with the way this black man handled young Egypt with his emotions. I am so proud of this honorable, intelligent, compassionate, mature black King who has so much respect, wisdom and dignity showing our young black Kings how to deal with their emotions in a healthy manner. We need you Sir and more black men like you to help with our youth. Thank you!
He needs that, too. This is why the Mother and Father are so important in a child's life.
This is beautiful, AND please get Egypt assessed for a full physical including EDS. I struggled a ton as a kid with running specifically, although I could swim just fine, and I did just what this man said - push through. I'm suffering the consequences now. Egypt has an exaggerated curve to his back that may indicate he is dealing with something that could help him if addressed. Functional Patterns and Nueromuscular therapy are both modalities that can assess and help, regardless of the cause. Wishing all here well in life.
Please comment for visibility - getting assessed early could have prevented permanent damage to my body.
Yeah he does have a curve in his back. Some tweaks to his standing and running form can fix that... Great message from the coach but I agree with you that it could also be ineffective form that is causing his legs to hurt
What is EDS?
I see you missed the point completely. 😂
I hope they see your comment
@@Diamond-Essence EDS = Ehlers Danlos Syndrome.
It might not be that, but it's the thing I'm dealing with and it's often missed. And makes running more challenging.
The talk between these two is what our boys need. I see it daily as a teacher. Our kids are not able to persevere or face adversity without emotional distress. This was a great lesson for our kids.
Now THIS is what we need in EVERY community. Young women and men need to be taught how to be strong and control emotions! Not let emotions control!
I never had my dad, my biological father emotionally available. He earned the keep, kept a roof over our heads, my brother and sister and I, mom too, but I have battled emotions for many years, and grateful YAH Most High finally brought me to know him, through his word, through his son Yahushua Ha'Mashiah. Lived for 24+ years as a slave to sin and drugs, alcohol and tobacco, until he set me free just pay 5 years ago. HalleluYAH! All praise, kavod, and esteem unto Ahaya asher Ahaya YaHuWaH Tsavuot. These are the type of teachings I would've loved as a boy.
Thank you for sharing these.
Powerful Testimony Bro keep trusting in Yahuah 🙏🏾
I love love love love how he did not encourage him to not cry. Crying is healthy. Thank you sir for your message and teachings to this little boy, his peers and the rest of us. You’re going to be great Egypt! 😊
Words can’t explain how beautiful it is to watch Sensei literally save this boy’s confidence and possibly change the trajectory of his life, through empowering him to overcome his emotions.
You are so strong Egypt.
He taught every single being in that room.
Now I’m gonna cry. Egypt and his Nile Rivers. What a beautiful lesson.
The golden way, to be empathic and c8nnect emotional but also give strenght to rise up and push through emotions.
You're a legend.
He’s YAHsome! Brings tears to my eyes! Touched my soul! 💜
Fathers are so dang precious!
Mr. Jason Wilson is a serious guy. God bless what he just did there.
Thanks for what you are doing for our kids. You are not only coaching them in athletics, you are profoundly wise, and you're sharing that with them.
Everybody needs this kind of training. 🙏
There's a thin line between training and killing, it's okay to admit you're tired, it's okay to rest, it's okay to cry, it's okay to sit down and breathe...
Thank you for working with these young boys and teaching them to be young men! God bless your work.
❤ bless, this touched my heart. Bless this man, what a great teacher and what an inspiration. Go on Egypt, be great ❤
This made me cry 30 yrs old single mother of a 4 yr old but I needed it for myself thank u 💚
Egypt is my hero. I love this every young man needs a mentor like this.
He is lucky to have a coach like that.
This video found me. Always a nice reminder for all ages. This is Gods work.
I have not cried in years and have no anger issues great family and career. I think that was a blanket statement. I still have emotions like everyone else
God bless. man, i wish i was taught this type of stuff when i was younger. at 53 it takes a lot of energy to reverse false indoctrination. especially, self regulating emotions. i was taught if your "wronged" fight back. I now know, I was giving power to others by wrong thinking. No one can wrong me unless i allow it.
Amen 🙏🏾 … May God Bless his little soul. Great Fatherly advice. Kudos 👏🏾.
The video should be re titled to the best coaching ever seen or something of the sort. He turned that boy right back he said look at me. To refocus the young man. Egypt said I better stop crying so I can look my coach in the eye. He listened because he was spoken with at an incredible level. Go coach. Go Egypt. 👏 👏 hope you have a beautiful life child! Lucky for this guidance!
This is so amazing. I wish there were more men who taught our young boys how to handle their emotions the correct way and would teach them that emotions don’t make them weak. Amazing job sir! God bless you .. this had me in tears. Wish they had something like this in ATL
Amazing! I like the teaching. We were raised to never show emotion, to never cry, etc. this shows young men how to control their emotions
Responsible men like this guy in video need more praises 👏🏼.
With a powerful name such as Egypt he can do some great things. Kudos to his teachers.
Amazing. We need more REAL Fathers like this. Amen
Love this brought tears 😭 to my eyes. Eye contact and the ability to empress your feelings. It’s a reason for the tears. 😭 Men if don’t cry tears you’ll cry in other ways. TALK ABOUT YOUR EMOTIONS!
Positive male guidance, lessons of emotional awareness, emotional intelligence, self control, brotherhood, manhood, responsibility, community, and so, so much more. 🙏🏾❤️
I run a youth and teenager boxing gym in Fairmont, West Virginia, Wv leads America three years in a row in overdoses and addiction .... I learn so much from the way this man runs his gym. It doesn't get back to my gym and inspire my kids, but inspires me personally.... keep doing what you're doing. It's amazing ❤️🔥🙌
Having courage doesn't mean you're not scared. Doing it anyway, that's courage. Great job, Egypt and coach, and to the others in this video. Thanks for sharing. God bless you.
This is what true leadership looks like. Fantastic teacher
this is amazing! Mr. Wilson, you are doing wonderful work for our community!
Mr. Wilson, I commend you & staff for making an impactful difference in the lives of these young Princes.. You are equipping them with profound wisdom that they would continue to utilize, stretch & grow. Thank you for what you are doing. If you haven't already &/or considered stretching out your branches.. We need a NY chapter.. May God continue to bless you, children & their families with his never-ending favour & blessings in Christ..🙏🏾
That’s beautiful.
Every child could use words of encouragement like this. Love it.
Never expect this video to have a deep message for young men. I'm glad to have watched. God bless.
Even as a young lady, I learned a lot from your videos. Thank you 🤍
This is what life is about, patience with one another, encouragement and guidance..
Oh how I wish I had a father like this man! Oh how I wish to have him as any title in my life so much amazing wisdom
My prayer is for all children to receive this kind of instruction in such a supportive environment. Thank you for doing good.
Coaches like these are worth their weight in gold. 🌟 cultivating emotional intelligence in these young boys is exactly what's needed.
What the strength of a Godly Man does is healing, lovely and beneficial for everyone. I pray more men step in confidence in their roles so our society heals as a whole. What a true blessing this was, a great lesson and inspiring
Lord knows I wish you were here in NY. GOD KNOW... My young son could benefit from your teaching
❤Great stuff- giving our youngsters the tools they will need to navigate through this world 🌍 we call life. Strength of mind and strength of character.
So necessary and beautiful to see. Wish this was everywhere. I’ve worked in several schools across the USA and so many little black boys and young men could benefit from this type of approach/male influence. 🎉
Awwwwwww he is Awesome wish I had a father like him great job with the boys they will become successful strong young men ❤❤
Hallelujah! This video is a testament to perseverance and the importance of men in our families and communities. I wish more young men had access to this man or this type of teaching. Our young boys so desperately need it, as well as the the men who missed out on these types of lessons when they were younger. I am proud of every one in that room. Salute!
I cannot express how beautiful this kind of mentorship is.
I believe If every boy had a role model like this man in his life this world would be in way better shape. My hat goes off to this man
Talking and not yelling makes a BIG difference 👊🏾🔥🔥
Yesssssssssss! Thank you 4posting this. We need more of them please 🙏🏾 #Peace&Blessings
What a touching video! I shared this with my two precious sons, aged 5 and 4. My husband and I homeschool them, and lately, our 5-year-old has been feeling overwhelmed, sometimes struggling with the emotions. Last week he told me he “failed” when he did so well!
Watching this video brought such warmth and inspiration! Thank you deeply, and may God bless you abundantly.
Idk y this made me cry and proud. The world would be a lot better if everyone would just say what their true need is.
Bravo sir! Excellent work Egypt! 😊❤❤
God bless this man, these young boys need wise godly men in their lives.
Wow that boy will carry that for the rest of his life. Amazing!!
Exactly how i treat kids whether i know them or not. Emotions and communication!!! What men need.
Emotions are very important to live and be alive. The wise knows how self regulate emotions skillfully. Don't tell a child or a person not to cry, don't tell them to hide what they feel and push push push through that they break or become emotionless, apathetic beings who are going to breakdown one day or pass the same pattern to next generation. Tell them to accept, acknowledge and respect their emotions. Teach them to be with the emotions, observe and how to regulate the emotions. Teach them to live a full life. They will learn accept and respect others' emotions and hold space until others learn to regulate their emotions in a healthy and sustainable manner . They will thank you for that. Salute sir!
Awe the Lil boy is so cute. This man is doing God's work ❤❤
👑👑👑👑 This Man here 👀👀 is One Wise Grasshopper 🫂🫶🫶🫶🫶 Notice how Da Master, tosses his ego aside.. to build a safe space between him and his student 💪🥷☯️ If u Pay Close Attention to the energy.. u will see how everything else in the background is blurred/muffled out by the Masters Aura.. It's similar to a Jujitsu Kazen Domain Expansion 👑👑👑 A Natural Super Power all Teachers of Passion Harbor.. Whether they realize it or not ☯️ Ppl should take note and Pay Closer Attention to the intentions behind every movement 🫂 NOW DATZ A GREAT TEACHER RIGHT THERE 👏👏👏 Much Love and Respect 🙏
God bless Egypt give him comfort so that he always feels protected amen 🙏
This video filled me with emotion and moved me to tears. Thank God for men like him who instill confidence in boys, teach about real strength, and letting them know that it is ok to show your emotions and still push through. I think everyone needs a father-figure/role model like him in their lives.❤
Beautiful so happy this still exist😊
Watch Jason for years, from the UK, watching how he deals with young boys, and young men, made me UNDERSTAND why I never resonated with the SHOUTING in your face so called bravado that is so common with physical training among men, getting up in your face, making you feel MORE WORSE than you already did, because you feel like quitting.LOL That never propelled me, just got me angry inside, being spoken to like that. Hearing a much more experienced man, EXPLAIN what true strength is, and that "men do cry" and men don't cry is a lie is SO LIBERATING TO hear validation for me personality type when I was much younger! God bless you brother and may he CONTINUE To STRENGTHEN YOU and your wife and your household to continue doing the amazing work you're doing!
I know his videos are directed towards males but this man is also a mentor for women who did not grow up with their father. His videos bring forth healing and I appreciate his gentle spirit.
Of course, there's always someone coughing. Even when this wise man delivers a powerful message.
Emotional intelligence and proper teaching of manhood and masculinity which has been missing in yall sons for a few generations. This was so refreshing to see. Men! Teach all sons like this so they grow up knowing their ordained role as a man and how to move.
Oh wow! Praise Yah for strong men such as this one to guide the young boys ❤
Love this so much, God Bless Men like this!!🙏🫶😇🥰❤️