Duck Dynasty's Al and Lisa Robertson : Recovering From An Affair
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 พ.ค. 2015
- On TPi, Simisola Okai interviews 'Duck Dynasty's' Al and Lisa Robertson about their love story of brokenness, infidelity, and redemption.
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For so many couples, this would've been the end of their relationship. But look what they would have missed out on if it had. What a great testimony. It takes a lot to admit this and share it with the public, and I respect them for this.
I respect them for this too ❤️
Ethan Haines the LOVE of money is the root of all evil. Not money itself. Big difference.
J. H. Unfortunately there is so much hypocrisy in religion it makes me sick. Not to mention the formality of it all, which is a separate topic in and of itself. The church has institutionalized Christ and made it seem as though it’s for profit, and sadly, some churches do operate this way. The churches who ask might have different motives such as: needing to meet a budget, trying to expand missions and outreach, paying down debt or perhaps a friendly reminder to give because you want to - cheerfully. I don’t condone any of the above examples or think they are right in doing so except maybe the last one. If Jesus is truly the head of the church, churches wouldn’t need to jump the gun and take on debt, they would trust God as their source and provider and not rely on resources like banks and loans. The Bible says God loves a cheerful giver so no one should give out of obligation. It’s a reverential thing to give to Jesus the first fruits of your labor because as a Christian I personally believe all I have is from Christ. It’s more about giving with thanksgiving, I personally believe, if you’re giving for the right reasons. The Bible also says the members (those who are in Christ) make up the church body. Jesus met people where they were and witnessed that way. He healed and loved and gave. That’s what Christians need to do also. It’s sad there are many who do not believe or operate the same way.
Open Mind Closed Fist it depends on how you define it. Based on your language I presume there to be a slight snide connotation to your reply. If that’s true, then you might think and say money is fiction based on our monetization system. I’d agree. The federal reserve notes we pass around are debt notes at best. Fractional banking debt notes that aren’t worth the paper it’s printed on since the federal reserve was created.
But money is real, of course, because it is in large part what took the place of bartering. And trade is as real as it gets. Tangible goods exchanged for goods, services or labor.
Gold silver and other precious metals have a monetary value that’s real based on the fair market, do they not?
I guess I’m unsure what you’re implying with your question or what discussion you’re trying to attract. Loosen up your grip, my fists are open and friendly. Not every misaligned view, disagreement or trance of opposition needs to be met instantly with condescension, attitude or sarcasm.
What’s your take on our money system as it relates and affects your life? Are there real outcomes in your life that are directly affected by financial stability, or is it all fiction and fairy tales?
Open Mind Closed Fist ok, I can find common ground with your stance. And respect it.
What does hold value in your book?
Does any authority define their parameters justly? Or is it all a farce ?
I believe that Miss Kay forgiving Phil and Al witnessing that taught him how to forgive and move on. God is the ultimate Physician and He heals and restores. Amen!!
Amen
I think it is awesome when people share stories like this! It could really help others struggling with similar trials.
Oh yes, how helpful for a positive example as an outcome. Out of 10,0001 times we hear the bad to one report of hearing the good! More should report the good. One will reap bounties doing so not for self gain but for just doing the right thing.
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Jesus can and will get you back on track when your desire is to serve Him. He will never fail you.
Amen Mr . Charles Tidwell, Amen
I love his voice, he is so calm and smooth.
I agree! I love the podcast he does with Phil and Jase. They speak so calmly and with soothing voices.
A beautiful testimony! My husband and I experienced the same situation although we are Christians. We got divorced but remarried again, We have 4 beautiful children and this was hard on them. Christians can make the wrong decisions the moment they take their eyes off Christ, but If you humble yourself before Him and ask for forgiveness He will forgive you, He teaches us to forgive, which is one of the hardest things to do. God changed our mess into a message of truly repentance and forgiveness. It has brought us closer to each other and to God. I praise Him for mending my marriage and my relationship with Him. All glory and honour to Christ my Saviour! My heart rejoice with you both and may God bless you both for He has done good to you!
@Roy Hopkins Jr. no. Marriage is for the kids. If you arent adult enough to realize that and see that even adults make mistakes, then DONT GET MARRIED. The vows are said to be forever. If they arent, what is the point in saying them?
I have been in this situation, and made a decision to make it work. Like you, when I took our vows I made a promise to God, to her and to myself that I would stick with her through sickness and in health, for better or worse. Without forgiveness, which God gave us all, where would we be? My wife is my best friend. Neither of us are perfect, never will be. The best part of a relationship is overcoming obstacles and making things work!
May our Heavenly Father continue to bless you and keep you both! Thank you for sharing!
The ultimate betrayal is cheating
Myra Claire the ultimate act of love is forgiveness. Been there.
A marriage cant be over broken by men unless the marriage is unlawful such as serious abuse.
@@triciachancey1955 Amen, Tricia. I've been there as well.
Myra, are you sure that cheating is the 'ultimate' of betrayals? What about Peters denial of Jesus 3 times? Peter was forgiven.
@@brockwillenborg7517 What???? Adultery/infidelity is a reason that you can divorce. Matthew 19:9
Good interview. Very professional lady doing the interview
This is a beautiful story of commitment and restoration. These two are a precious couple who are helping many with this story!
U are truly a forgiving man, god bless the both of u
F that
Proud of you two for making your marriage work. We take a vow before God and our family for good times and bad. Miss Kay didn't give up on Phil and look how strong they are. What a blessing.
Can't help but wonder if Miss Kay and Al didnt have a heart to heart talk over food about this. Lord knows she most likely would have some pearls of wisdom about this.
I never realized how much willie and al look so much alike.
Wow something must be going on In there
Alan, you gave her a gift you didn't have to give. It's a beautiful thing to stay with someone you know is truly sorry, when you don't have too. God bless.
Thanks so much for sharing this! So encouraging for those of us who failed and have a hard time forgiving even ourselves. 😢 Thank you.
What an honest testimony that brings so much insight and wisdom for listeners. Thank you for sharing!
Al is much stronger of a man than I could be, even through faith, to me it would be so hard to regain trust 😞
And understanding of why your partner did it. She figured out what exactly that void in her life was. And he said he came to understand why she had done it too.
lacey saije that’s just something that would be hard to forgive I had a girlfriend that cheated on me. I stayed with her because I loved her like crazy, I still do. But it honestly tore me apart.
Tony Davis I’m so sorry to hear about your past relationship 😔
Be harder to regain his money thiugh
Tony Davis Lisa said it began in childhood, a therapist can help you see why ppl do that. It’s not all the devil most of the time it’s to fill a deep need in a way that they hope works for them but never does. It wasn’t about you and your value as a person, it’s not about her finding someone better, I can safely say if she can realize it that it would be all about a deep unfulfilled love she desperately needed and didn’t find in your relationship and guaranteed won’t find in any other. It can’t be satisfied in a person and with Christ’s help she/we can all find it by seeing our god given value in ourselves. Any addiction or destructive behavior is due to a lack of worth.
I think it is awesome that they are shedding light on having a man pleasing spirit. A lot of people are influenced by this spirit and do not know they they will just keep repeating the same mistakes until they face it and take an axe to the root. Bless you for your honesty and transparency so others may learn from you. We are all in this walk together
Al is a stronger man than I am. I wouldn’t have been able to handle it, my heart would have been too broken to repair. God bless both of them.
well, once a hoe always a hoe. he needs to forgive but needs to keep her in check more often moving forward. Otherwise will she fall again.
They could of easily kept it secret i respect they speak on it
Anything to make a buck I guess.
@@whoamifoo9075 they prolly did it so if it leaked they wouldnt look crazy and ungodly
@@rosendojrgaitan7977 your probably right.
It's ministry! Giving hope and helping other marriages through their testimony. It's a powerful testimony of God's love and how through Christ God enables His believers (or works through believers) to give undeserved grace and forgiveness to others. Without Christ, the guy would not be able to genuinely forgive. It's not in our selfish nature to give grace and forgiveness to those who have wronged us. But as we come to know God and His love for us, we are able to share His love with others. Be blessed!
It would have eventually gotten out. Remember, Al was NOT on the show for years & obviously being a preacher was not the only reason. These 2 subjects would be rooted out right away & the public would NOT be nice & forgiving.
Forgiveness is powerful. I pray to get myself there. I don't forget things people have done to me but I do pray daily to be able to forgive.
Cheryll Hamilton sane here it’s hard for me. But I pray everyday that God heals my heart
My Grandma taught me when I had a hard time forgiving to Practice. It's not always easy but doing the right thing isn't always easy, if it was everyone would do it. When we don't forgive it's the equivalent of drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.
Amen Allen!! I've been there. I'm the one who had to tell myhubby that forgave him. We both love the Lord and the Lord is definitely in our marriage! God bless you both!!
God Bless you both for having the courage to share your insights from such a personal season of your life together. Please pray with me that I'll forgive myself for my own past mistakes and use it instead to serve in Christ's Kingdom. Thank you both!
Why does al look like al from Home Improvement
You’re right he does
It was bugging me trying to figure it out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't think so Ken
Totally 😂
What a wonderful testimony both you and Lisa have, may God use your story and through his power to heal others experiencing the deceptions facing married couples.
Beloved I don't know you in person but God knows you well God reveal a revelation to me when I was going through your profile to observe things about your spiritual life.
while I was meditating, I saw a divine breakthrough in your life and I saw evil attack of the enemies manipulating on seizing your favour and to come against your hand work for you to be confused and lost hope. As I was praying the Lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed into the life of a baby suffering from leukemia in children of Saviour motherless foundation, located Edo state, Nigeria, before the end of tomorrow and let me know so I can join you in prayers deeply because he want to manifest his promises in your life and that of your family
Nobody should know about the seed is between you and God, you will testify to the Glory of God after you have done it if only you.. believe in him and do what he says Proverb (3:27;21:26;22:9 ,,Deu.28:1-5) contact the MD of the orphanage foundation WhatsApp:( +2349069326186 )or Email:(saviourfoundation39@gmail.com) send your donation to them.God bless you......
Alan, I have great respect for you for hanging in there and doing the work that it took to forgive Lisa and rebuild your marriage. My first wife had an affair, and I was a fairly new Christian at the time. Unfortunately, I did not have the spiritual strength to tough it out, and we divorced. She married her boyfriend 6 weeks after our divorce was final. I got help and healing from DivorceCare, and I grew strong enough to forgive her eventually. When the time was right, God brought someone into my life who has been the spiritual partner that my first wife never was.
paul gamblin that’s rough man, praying for you and your new relationship today!
Al is a real man.
his wife is a true repentant,
.. and God's work thru her is being witnessed and listened to loud and clear.
Gods work thru them both is very transparent.
the forgiveness... the commitment.. the protection.. the loyalty... etc.
very raw.
His wife is not repentant she didn't take responsibility for her actions and she acted like she was the victim
Yeah, no. That implies that if he divorced her because of her now second affair that he is less of, or not a "real man"?
@@mljrotag6343 your not interpreting my perception the way i meant it.
but u will have your opinion anyhow..
i meant by standing with his wife (despite her adultry, etc) and allowing God to work thru him to forgive and holdfast the faith and bond he committed to...
@@northland.. That is fine and while i may not agree I respect your opinion, but i stand by divorcing a multiple time adulterer does not make you any less of a man.
@@mljrotag6343 i don't disagree with your view point.
if i was the husband . i want to jet away from that. but, his staying shows he is committed to serving the Lord in every way by allowing forgiveness multiple times.
not that it is okay to continue to do... but it shows a real man / humble man to Gods will for his marriage outcome.
Thank you for being transparent and testifying about this. I have so much respect for people like you. Thank you Al for “imaging” the love of God for us. What people don’t know is that we are also fighting generational curses and if we dont talk about it, the devil wins and oppressed the next generations. I live you all and your family for being real. Thank you.
Beloved I don't know you in person but God knows you well God reveal a revelation to me when I was going through your profile to observe things about your spiritual life.
while I was meditating, I saw a divine breakthrough in your life and I saw evil attack of the enemies manipulating on seizing your favour and to come against your hand work for you to be confused and lost hope. As I was praying the Lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed into the life of a baby suffering from leukemia in children of Saviour motherless foundation, located Edo state, Nigeria, before the end of tomorrow and let me know so I can join you in prayers deeply because he want to manifest his promises in your life and that of your family
Nobody should know about the seed is between you and God, you will testify to the Glory of God after you have done it if only you.. believe in him and do what he says Proverb (3:27;21:26;22:9 ,,Deu.28:1-5) contact the MD of the orphanage foundation WhatsApp:( +2349069326186 )or Email:(saviourfoundation39@gmail.com) send your donation to them.God bless you......
Beloved I don't know you in person but God knows you well God reveal a revelation to me when I was going through your profile to observe things about your spiritual life.
while I was meditating, I saw a divine breakthrough in your life and I saw evil attack of the enemies manipulating on seizing your favour and to come against your hand work for you to be confused and lost hope. As I was praying the Lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed into the life of a baby suffering from leukemia in children of Saviour motherless foundation, located Edo state, Nigeria, before the end of tomorrow and let me know so I can join you in prayers deeply because he want to manifest his promises in your life and that of your family
Nobody should know about the seed is between you and God, you will testify to the Glory of God after you have done it if only you.. believe in him and do what he says Proverb (3:27;21:26;22:9 ,,Deu.28:1-5) contact the MD of the orphanage foundation WhatsApp:( +2349069326186 )or Email:(saviourfoundation39@gmail.com) send your donation to them.God bless you......
Nope nope nope. I would have sent her packing. Been through this myself. I forgave her but I wasn’t having her.
I understand 100% but that isn’t true forgiveness. Forgiveness is so difficult while holding onto pride. God bless
@@codybiglzzz That is not true. You certainly can forgive someone for betrayal or other offensive but chose not to stay in the same relationship.
@@codybiglzzz this is absolutely wrong. You can and should forgive people who are bad for you, and you definitely should not keep them in your life if they are abusive like that.
@@brahtrumpwonbigly7309 a girlfriend yes, not wife. If you want liquidity in your relationship then you should never ever get married to begin with. Something that is intended to be permanent.
@@mljrotag6343 .
Awesome and inspiring truth thanks for sharing
"Any season is better when God is in control." Amen brother.
I commend you for your honesty. I can’t wait to read your book. I believe you will help many with understanding and forgiveness as God’s will be done
OMG! He is and was so handsome! You both are such an inspiration.
Amen. Any season is greater when God is in control. Amen.
You can forgive, but you can do so from another place.
@@OLoideain2323 your right!
@@OLoideain2323 So you don't believe God can totally change someone? You don't read his word then.
@@armyman7732 why is that almost all these cheating wives find God only after stepping out of their marriage? God didn't asked you to cheat so stop this all BS. once a cheater always a cheater. Cheater should be facing punishment, not receiving prize.
Awesome testament to god’s love for us thanks for sharing
i really was watching their body language and they truly are comfortable talking about it thats amazing
Oh because your a professional at reading body language
Well for me their mouths did a better job of convening that point.
NBA and you just know that he isn’t. Fuck off loser
Truth = Reality, their relationship is REAL because they walk in TRUTH. Jesus Christ said, "I AM... The TRUTH". ANYTHING less than TRUTH is a LIE! I learned that the hard way. Neither my wife nor I were walking in TRUTH, IN Christ. Without an affair, we wound up divorced! God bless you two for the Open Honesty! I pray that MANY will listen, take it to heart and be healed in their lives and their relationships.
God bless you two and your children!
I’ve realized I must forgive.....look what Jesus has done for me, the cross! But he forgives me for my sins, I can’t hold back and not forgive others, and myself, otherwise the crucifix has no power, the blood has no power..... and we all know that is where it ALL starts🙏🏻🙏🏿✝️🔯🙏🏻🙏🏿
Meria Johnfroe so very sorry for your very tragic loss of your beautiful son, I don’t think you need to ask the man who murdered your son to forgive you, I’m not sure my comment was clear, also this video is on forgiveness in a very broken relationship in their marriage. Murder is something that needs to be grieved in a deep soul searching way. As I walk this path( which is very narrow) I realize the Savior King Jesus has forgiven me for much, so my teaching through his word is I must forgive, and each individual needs to come to this truly on their own relationship with HIM by the washing of HIS WORD! Do not take revenge my friends but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “ It is mine to avenge; I will repay” says the Lord. On the contrary: “ if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. I’m doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Romans12: 19-21 just meditate on this and slowly and truly the word will seep into your mind, soul, heart, and body. God bless you and please the Lord never ever wants us to be a doormat! Be courageous! Be wise! Be a doer of good for HIS glory! When I’m hurt I go to the cross, the words Jesus spoke were “Father forgive them for they know not what they do” yes that is very hard..... But Jesus said that while being crucified!!! He did that for his enemies which we were once! Romans 5:6-11 the word is active and alive Hebrews4:12-13 study like the Bereans who were of noble characterActs 17:11 May the Lord bless you! Numbers6:24-26 also these acts of forgiveness will cleanse your soul! Will set you FREE! God wants YOU to be truly healed from this pain, and to think you will be in eternity with your beautiful son FOREVER!!! Many diseases comes out of I unforgiveness! God wants us healthy in all things and your son would want that too! I’m so very very sorry!🙏🏼🙏🏾✝️✡️🙏🏾🙏🏼
I had an affair. At the time, I was mentally ill and I didn't know it. I was just looking for peace. I thank God my husband found me and got me the help I needed. I still, to this day, wonder how he got the strength to forgive me.
I lost my fiance to a porn addiction and although I can never restore my relationship with her I can restore my relationship with my self and my god I'm currently getting help for my addiction
Keep getting better bud I went down that road once
Me to
my bf is fighting the same battle daily and it’s been incredible to see him grow in his faith and strength. i promised him i’d stay with him as long as he is always *Trying* to improve and grow. it hurts to have to forgive him over and over for hurting me and our relationship/future marriage, but God keeps showing up and proving that He will work this out for His glory.
u thanks you for your encouraging words
Thanks for your encouraging words
You don’t. I wouldn’t want to if my husband slept with another woman. You could rekindle a little convo that went no farther than just a text/message. But if there’s physical stuff that happens, absolutely not. Bless them, they’re stronger than most
Amazing how Al was able to forgive her! True forgiveness can only happen when Jesus rules in our hearts.. I have to admit even as a Christian I don't know what I would do in his situation. Definitely couldn't handle it without the grace of God. However I don't like when someone blames everything on their childhood as the reason for their sins. A humble and contrite heart God will not despise.If we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. That's what the good book says. Afraid to many people are going to so called Christian counselors and they become victims rather than victor's in Christ Jesus.
Very well put. We must take responsibility for our actions! No one "makes" us. We choose sin
@@shawnjones2454but also be sympathetic to the mental issues that impact our lives born of such things as her abuse. You can’t say something like that won’t mess you up or won’t impact decisions. You are responsible for your actions, but you also have a right to be heard
GOD BLESS
I'm in the same boat and am struggling deeply to put it behind us. It's still taking it's toll almost 10 yrs later. Honestly don't know how you did it. You are a much better man than i.
crapshoot5264 you never get over it 100%.
And Yes, God is good for us all.... Many of us have been down that road with the devil.... And it only hurts everyone, especially the innocent!!! 💔🙏🏼💔
Reconciliation is beautiful. Your kids deserve it if you can do it. God will see through what's best for your family if it's in His will. Don't rush it and seek counseling. It will open up a line of communication you never knew you'd enjoy. God Bless Yall.
I am so sick of Lisa blaming her affair on her stinking childhood that is crap!!!
@Dark Heart 😂👍😂👍
Blame it on the devil 🤣
Please 🤣
@Joseph harold yeah I only wish it was a simple spanking it was oftentimes a belt or a switch. I guess I was supposed to blame all my mistakes on my mom I guess huh. Lisa and others just have to use a crutch just own up to it you f***** up plain and simple
God's way is the only way..
I made so many mistakes
Doing things my way😥
If only i knew then what i know now!! God's blessings!!and hugs🤗💞
Wow! This comment section is sad. Guys, why are you so hateful towards Lisa? Many women have forgiven their unfaithful husbands. What gives?
Only if they got money
No excuses here Melissa, if you want another partner and your already married. Do it right, get divorced 1st, move out 2nd, move on 3rd.
Women tend to cheat on 1st, get caught 2nd, divorce rape 3rd.
If you have kids, i hope you have sons, so you can see what thiz looks like in t he future.
My 2 cents, I’m not saying that she was right and I’m not making excuses for her. I’m saying forgiveness was extended and it goes the other way too. That’s it.
Once a cheater always a cheater. And they call men pigs 🙄
@Chris J it has been a known fact that those who hate others because of a certain thing that they do wrong are known to end up doing the same thing... I had a friend who had a cousin who seemed to have a serious cheating problem.. To make a long story short he told me he would never forgive his wife if she did that to him. Turns out he became the one cheating on his wife!! Obviously she didn't treat him nice and was quite abusive but he messed up..... He should have shown better leadership than that. Obviously us men need to step up and be the leader that women desire.. we would be amazed how much better we could have it if we practiced marriage the biblical way.
Beautiful story❤️
Forgive as God in Christ has forgiven you.
Yes. Does not mean stay in every situation
@@OLoideain2323 Did Jesus do that to us? NO.
People can recover from everything we are recipient that way!!!! And honestly it comes down to what’s important!!!!!
I want to hear Phil's thoughts on this subject
Yes!
That he loves his kids including daughters in law.
Phil was a naughty boy TOO back in the day but miss Kay forgave him ..
Why? I think that what's important is how these,2 have resolved this very dark time in their life.
@Free Thinker actually he is just letting ppl know what the bible says about the subject ,he loves you to.you know
If it was the other way around there would be no interview
She seems like when she looks at him she’s trying to find another way to cheat or that you are a fool this isn’t the first or the last time.
This is really good
I just learned alot about myself just in a couple of minutes. When I read the title, my automatic assumption was "What, Al cheated. Probably some gold digger trying to get fame." Whoa hold up, SHE cheated, not him.
You will NEVER look at her the same, as before. Sure, you can forgive her, because you want to be forgiven one day, but you will never forget. There is not one day that will pass, that you won't think about what she did..
I disagree and I believe you really under estimate the power of God. God heals above what we believe is possible. What the devil meant to destroy you, God can use it to bring you HIGHER ♥️
I agree
@@catincanada6289 Well then he hasn't been healed if he's still dealing with daily insecurities. I mean he was free to divorce his wife instead of staying with her
Yep
@Sherry Anderson Brilliant philosophy, Sherry!! So in other words, the person being cheated on should suck it up and deal with it? Just stay in the relationship just because YOU love them, but they obviously DO NOT love you? Let me explain something to you, infidelity IS NOT a mistake! Burning bread in the oven is a mistake. Infidelity is well planned-out, or well thought out. Locking your keys in the car, is a mistake. Banging whoever you want, when you are married, is not a mistake!!
I could.never forgive, jst could not do it Alan is a better man than me
fishhawk2356 I said the same, but I was wrong
You can't do it on your own...only thru Christ
bless them both they are Godly people!!!
Stronger man than me I wouldn't be able to forgive an affair
Amazingly strong marriage!
Once the trust is destroyed, it never comes back. I know from experience.
That is not true, I know from experience. When you fully forgive forgive you can go on. You destroy your relationship because you haven’t truly forgiven and don’t truly know trust. So, you are the reason. If you never trust the person again and they are truly repentant you drive them away from the lack of trust.
@@lisamcgee8651 Rubbish. You set yourself up for another betrayal. Whatever coping mechanism works for you, more power to you. But the first time he's late coming home from work after all that forgiveness, you'll see clearly where the cracks are in the trust. It's your gut talking to you. I listen to that over Dr. Phil psychobabble any day. But, blessings, friend. The best of everything to you🍀
@@irishmermaid4 I don’t worry when he’s late, he lets me know through COMMUNICATION, which was the biggest reason for the betrayal in the first place. We now communicate with each other so there is no need for further mistrust. I’m sorry you have been so hurt, I will pray for you.
@@lisamcgee8651 I'm grateful yours worked out. I wish you the best. All relationships are unique. Thanks for the prayers. I shall do likewise for you. But in my personal experience, once a cheater, always a cheater & the wife is always the last to know. Take care of yourself. Love & Luck 💓🍀
@BBDcummins Never.
More couples need to forgive transgressions rather than divorce.
sammyvh11 but sometimes you can’t just forgive them
sammyvh11 ...absolutely, 100%!
More people need to take their vows as seriously as they are. You don’t pledge yourself to someone then break your sacred promise. If someone literally stabs you in the back you can forgive them but I highly doubt you’d turn your back on them ever again. Sometimes when you break something you can never repair it.
@@chrisscaletta372 whosoever sins ye remit they are remitted and whosoever sins ye retain they are retained. If you don't forgive someone that sin they comitted is now on your conscience.
True I'm still trying to get back with my wife.
If that was my wife she would be on her way out
"Affair" sounds refined and sophisticated. Can we stop calling it that? It's neither. It's adultery. It's cheating. It's selfish. It's weak. It's living up to your vows that requires refinement and sophistication. Repentance and forgiveness require humility, grace, and faith.
Wonderful people, life is hard
She was an adult when she cheated. She needs to stop blaming her childhood! You made that decision as a damn adult! If I were Alan I would’ve left her.
See this is the difference between a real Christian and a non Christian. Al surrendered to God and choose forgiveness. If we would all take a good look at how much we have hurt Christ with our sinful ways we would all extend way more forgiveness. So often we think like how you just commented. But the real Christian way is giving people that mess up or hurt us another chance... what would we do if Jesus one day decided that ok you have messed up to much now!!! We would all be doomed......
@J. H. The homosexual must also make a change first. Simple explanation.
@@isee4126 well a lot of REAL Christian's would have left too. Not saying it's wrong to stay and make it work. But it's not wrong to end a marriage because of the other persons unfaithfulness either.
@J. H. they dont forgive homosexuals? Since when? Forgiveness doesnt mean accepting someone's behavior.
And his wife confessed her sin and repented. Homosexuals say they arent in sin and have no need to repent.
If she was unrepentant. And was going to continue with the unfaithfulness then I doubt he would have stayed.
I agree, and I think she looks like she would do it again. Don't believe her for a second. He is way too good for her.
Love the Robertsons
15 yrs ago when I was 23 I was spun out of control and eat adderall and xanax like crazy and I slept with someone about a week later I sobered up some what and could actually think about what I had done told my husband everything I had done . It took a month or so for him to say he forgave me and we could try and make it work as long as I never made a fool of him again and pill problem had to be dealt with. I kept my word never done him wrong again and spent every day trying to make it up to him till his last day on earth December 20th 2019. He passed away 4 days after his 60th birthday.
I’m glad they figured it out, god and children teach you to be good
You can live fully transparent without the lord and you don’t need reasons for what you do. It’s just what happens or it could just be you are in site of that new feeling rather than someone taking you for granted after 15 years. Doesn’t have to be the devil or any reason other than you just want to feel special again. Whether that be someone new or the person you are with know they need to treat you new again to keep you around. Either way no path is wrong. Just need to choose the path that is better for you
Hope everything is gonna be okay Love you all
Amen!
Great
Pffft,, once a cheater, allways a cheater,, 💯👍😁,,
Nope. Anybody can be changed by God.
Always
Glad they had reconcilation! That's tough. Having an affair is the ultimate selfishness, and you not being content. Putting yourself before God, and your family. Forgiveness=real love
Alan is so tall in these pictures
The “memory of indiscretion” will always be there. Good luck to them,.....I’d be interested in hearing their “story”, after the kids are “grown”. Despite Al’s “forgiveness”, he’ll always carry “the weight” of that “betrayal”. It’s a tough situation to absorb. We shall see.......
Al such a man
Forgiveness. True forgiveness, is never bringing the past up as a weapon against your mate. You can move on from adultery, but never bring it up again to make yourself look like the innocent one. God does not make victims, He makes OVER'COMER'S!!!
If someone cheats on you ask the reason why first
I'm not much on comments it's good to here something real because I know he is real amen !
I thing Im going to throw up. They even capitalize on the things that one should be ashamed of.
❤️
Your a strong man to forgive adultery.
Yeah, So she gets to do whatever she wants. Says it's the Devil again Oh I know honey ? Um no Jezebel. YOU DID IT TWICE. Goodbye
Like father like son.,!,,,,,
She cheated genius
AMEN 🙏
Whose watching after learning that phil has a daughter from having a affair
Still watching. He and his wife are good with it!
That affair was LONG AGO and Phil and Kay worked through all of that long ago. Why do people always have to stir it up? This family is strong in life and their faith. Enough said. I'm sure his daughter will be accepted and treated like one of their own.
I'm personally shocked. It's one thing to cheat and be abusive and leave your wife then say u are born again and come home but that has to hurt she thought all these years I've put up with all this crap but I'm the only one who has has babies but wrong he was out there raw dogging anything he could.
Try harder not to judge others. That affair was before he found God...over 45 years ago. He's very open about it on his podcast.
@@catincanada6289 I know she is such a sweet beautiful woman to have been put through all he has done to her. When this was announced all I could think of was her. I'm a Christian and the way they are acting so nonchalant it floors me.
I know ima lil late on this but reading the comments got me likeeee are some of yall good😭 dont yall remeber the story of Hosea practically representing God and the children of Isreal. I give Al a big clap for the way he was able to forgive his wife, when u make a promise you keep that no matter what. Just like in the book of hosea and his prostitute wife and he continusly took her back after all she did to him not because he was dumb or weak but he made a covenant with his wife and God. This is wayyy different than a worldly relationship because marriage comes with alot and for him to forgive is truly Christ like.
1 divorce and probably got another one on the way . I will never trust a woman again . God bless these 2 got more balls than I do.
I’d forgive and then ‘Bye, Felicia. I wish you a good life ahead but it’s not gonna be with me’
She cheated on this man twice?? Couldn’t be me
Exactly she now knows she can do it again and again without consequences. Str8 idiots
People continue to struggle with concupiscence even after baptism, that is why it is a cooperation on our part with Christ to choose to serve Him always.
Look at her shirt print. Thats tells u what a tiger never loses
Its a pain that lasts a lifetime. Wife cheated, been 9 years, I resent her every day and every time I feel love come forth it gets shut down instantly by the memory of her affair. Because of her affair I absolutely do not trust females and I refuse to even think about a relationship again. We do still live together (divorced) and get along fine. Thank god no kids and shes absolutely the last girl I will probably be with.
Me too and I believe once u do it u can do it again.. I do forgive but don't forget. I was acting bad at the time but that's still no excuse. She could've broken up with me or talked first.. But we're ok NOW. But it won't b perfect..
@@asphaltcowboy7567 o.
Dude you still live together! What are you talking about, you ARE with her!
1:24 you won’t regret