6 Styling Mistakes That Cause Anxiety
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.ค. 2022
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I poured my heart into this video I hope you will not only love it but also it will make you feel good. Can't wait to read your comments love xx
Thank you for this video.
Merci beaucoup, my lovely! ❤
❤ you’re video’s
You did a beautiful sensitive job of this❤️ merci xxx
This is why I love following women who lean towards that French aesthetic. It’s more realistic and aligns more w my goals and who I want to be
I was in a downward spiral even though I don't use social media. So I cut myself off internet for a few days, put on a dress that I haven't worn for years, and some heels, and went to town and smiled at people. It completely turned my mood around :)
It's not just seeing other people who seem to look better than you, but there is a lot of negativity online, just in the news and in videos criticizing people, so it's best just to stay away. Criticism is just not a good look.
I’ve done exactly the same, I’ve deleted all my accounts and feel so much better
Completely agree. Influencers and social media are a nightmare. Best avoided!
What a great idea!
Great for you x
People in my family struggle to lose weight. I gained over 100 pounds when I quit smoking in my 20's and was never able to get it all off. I would look at those people that were thin and wish I was thinner, but then I focus on all the things I can do that they probably can't. We are our own worse critics . It is hard to focus on self love with so much hate on Facebook. I am glad I deleted mine.
I went almost a year of washing my face and brushing my teeth without looking in the mirror. After my divorce I gained 40+lbs and was ashamed of how I looked. I also started wearing the same clothes over and over. After I started losing and coming back into my self-confidence I promised to ❤️ myself more regardless of what a man made me feel. I now dress for me and even though my boyfriend is very supportive, I focus on what makes me happy and smile first. Your tips were spot on like always. 👍
So sorry you had to go through all that. It seems you have overcome and are living your best life!! Congratulations!
Great changes!
@@avnht 😊 divorce sucks
Thank you Deb 🥰 More power to you! 🥰
Sooo right about clutter, over-stuffed closets and drawers, messy homes, and a choice to continue living in disorganization. We have no excuse as so many folks are addressing it now through all forms of media. Who in the western world doesn't know who Marie Kondo is!? I'd really love to peek into the homes of these media-hawks though, lol! Thanks for the very simple and practical suggestions you shared today, Frederique.
Absolutely!! Social Media can be devastating for mental health! ❤️
Agree
I deleted my Facebook because of negativity and actually started losing weight after struggling for years. It turns out that those support group and workout groups are not helpful , especially when you can't lose weight while everyone else is losing. I found Marie Anne Lecoeur's TH-cam and she has inspired me to keep fighting to lose weight. Then I found your channel which is also very inspiring. I am thankful for these videos.
I have been working on a declutter and home improvement project for the past year, and it has been the greatest mood lifter. It took a month to declutter, and several more to paint and refinish surfaces, but the difference it has made is immeasurable. I tackled my wardrobe more recently. I had office clothing from 10-15 years ago (classic style and still wearable) that I didn't need and finally donated. I switched to wood hangers when I downsized my closet, sort of like a trade-off, I guess.
Honey. One year is so good! It has been taking me 2 years and am still not finished. All went for donation or trash. My house is finally peaceful and beautiful. Also I only watch youtube and an asocial not having FB etc
You are so right about comparing oneself with these younger and more technically aware girls! I stopped using Instagram for this reason. It took me many many months of learning to accept myself and love myself!!!
Thanks love 🥰
Frédérique - you are just wonderful. With each point you made, I thought “brilliant point”…. Thoughts that a wise mom would tell her daughter over time. You put it ALL IN ONE VIDEO! 😸 I can only imagine how much thought, time and energy you put into this for us, your audience. Thank you! 💕
Thanks Reiko 🥰
I can relate to your love of the LED lights. I put puck and strip lights in every cabinet, closet , and recessed area of my house. I think improving functionality in spaces can be just as uplifting as cleaning and decoration.
Thanks love 🥰
Light is very important. In case you don't have enough light, I would really recommend light therapy lamp (SAD lamp). I bought one for myself and it has been really helpful as I'm living in a country where we have only limited amount of daylight during winter.
I found this video very reaffirming, clarifying, and comforting. In my journey through all your videos I have definitely defined my likes, dislikes, preferences, and pinpointed my particular style - I am extremely comfortable in myself now and truly cherish the things I have kept and how they make me feel. I don’t miss any of the things I jettisoned. I find it so easy to like an item I see, but now I know to just walk away from it because it’s “not me.” You have been such a wonderful guide and an enormous help.
Thanks Cathlyn 🥰
Hi Frederique I'm so happy you haven't left TH-cam. I'm working on the decluttering now. You have such great advice and so fun. Cheers!
Thanks love 🥰
I slowly decluttered and redesigned my wardrobe over 2021-til now…Now I slide my closet door open, and I smile, because everything is visible and waiting for me to wear it…I did it slowly as I am now 61 and went through some losses - needed a wardrobe tune up…Now I am checking out wardrobe Apps to post it all, so I can let the App guide me to do different outfits on top of how I already put things together…I also enlisted 2 of my friends to help, and to join them to declutter their own wardrobes..Finally I have a Pinterest board of clothing and outfits I like…and I edit it once in a while…Fun and more Fun…Thanks for this timeline, Frédérique!!!
That is why I love your videos because you are real not photoshopped!!!
I got my fab astrological Tshirt from Frédérique’s store. Immediately I felt better. 🥰 I do not use any social media. At all. I text, email, watch my beloved TH-cam videos and that’s about it. Thank you for this video. It’s something that you didn’t know you needed. 👍 FYI I’m also obsessed with closet color, length, etc. organization.
Wonderful 🥰
I hate clutter. I keep a perfect closet, and it keeps me happy. Everything goes on hangers, better for you to choose! Laura
Vanity Sizes...that's real. I remember going to a store to get some black slacks. I was a size 8...had been for a long time. The girl helping me said I should try a size 6. I said "Oh no...I'm not a 6." She said "Trust me, these are Vanity Sizes". It was the first time I had ever heard of such a thing! 😳 Another great video! Thank you!
Tell me about it! I've not changed sizes except going from size 9 Junior size to 4 in Misses in my early 20s (40+ yrs ago)...now, I cannot find anything that fits me, unless it's a designer 0. (even 0s need to be taken in, I'm 5'5, 105 lbs) So I've solved everything by sewing my own clothes. It's the best bc I can create my wardrobe EXACTLY as I want!
Thanks Jenn 💗
De - cluttering is an ongoing process, I do this often the one area that challenges me is my wardrobe because I find it hard to throw things away so I do the next best thing I clear out all my winter clothes in the summer and visa versa in the winter so by the time I see them again it is a completely new wardrobe and it helps me focus on what I need to replace or don't so saving money.
For the rest of my house I am always looking at improving it
The advice in this video is spot on… I would like to see a video on different styles, please. After years of being overweight and settling for whatever fit, I lost my sense of style. Now, after I lost a lot of my weight, I am trying to rediscover my style… While I am getting closer, I still need help. Thank you for your sensitivity and understanding.
What a lovely video! So kind, caring and informative without being judgmental. Absolutely loved it. Have just become a subscriber as at the age of 61, very overweight, apple shaped and feeling so confused about my style, I need some help!! I have struggled with weight all my adult life and on the way have given up on looking stylish. It’s been hard enough to find clothes that fit and I have found it truly heartbreaking to have to become a bit of a blob! I am only 5ft 1” tall and wear sizes from 22 to 30 depending on the brand and style of clothes. I will be watching all your videos to see what I can do to bring a bit of style to my wardrobe. I had my colours done just before lockdown and I was analysed as cool, clear and deep! I like bright colours, but I think they can look cheap on me.🤷🏻♀️ I definitely need guidance!! Thank you for lifting me up a bit today xxx
Your not a blob , your a woman who sounds to hard on yourself. We are all different. I am very underweight and it’s not a good look. We just do our best my darling x
I'm the same height and shape and cool and bright. There's a you tube channel called Cathy over 50 who addresses how to dress an apple shape. There is also a website called The Vivienne Files. She recently did a blog about dressing in a column of colour. It was very interesting. I'm am definitely going towards monochromatic dressing, for instance a navy top and pants, and letting a cardigan or purse be a pop of colour. Don't know where you live, however I have discovered retailers that sell petite plus size online, and it has been a game changer for me. We can't do much about our shape, but we can look for clothing that flatters. Best of luck!
Thank you Karen 🥰
What a fantastic video Frédérique. Top class! You are always so genuine, sincere and super helpful with your tips. I love your non BS attitude and no tolerance for phoniness. Thanks for another excellent video. Wising you have a lovely weekend.
You helped me so much with this video, I am 61 and felt so old and worthless, Thank you Frédérique xxx
with all your video's 🙏
Thank you so much lovely 🥰
I was glad you mentioned doing inventory what you have, I have realized repeatedly that basics like shoes, belt, quality white cotton or silk blouse are more important than the trend. Looking clean and polished is what makes me feel good, and my happy colors.
Glad it was helpful!
I love this video!❤️ I'm a long time subscriber & this hit the nail on the head! Maybe because I'm much older I DON'T have the feeling of being "not as good" as the people I see on social media. I know who I am and am good with it lol (* took me a long time!) But seriously people are constantly seeing online people who look better or have nicer homes & clothes and you did a favor pointing it out for those who don't stop and think how fake most of it is!! Thank you! So many great tips, Frederique.. this was such a wonderful video. Yes please do the videos on finding what style we are. I know mine, but I'd definitely watch them and I'm sure many women will love that too. The pandemic years have touched the world and I think we've adjusted to a new normal and maybe through that now have a need for new inspiration regarding clothes and our new lifestyle. Love you bunches..take good care. We appreciate your hard work..xxx ❤️
Thanks Carolyn 🥰
It shows that this was a heartfelt video. But all of your videos are heartfelt. 😊
It may just be me - but it seems like there is time to watch, buy, keep, declutter and throw away - and start again but never any time to wear and enjoy what we have.
Take time to care of all the small details as well. They make a big difference.
I think the most important time in history for us was the 30’s-50’s all over the world. People everywhere dressed with pride and care. It was and still is a huge part of self care. Don’t ever let it slip away.
So helpful. Thank you. It’s taken me years to realise what looks good and why. Social media makes me feel muddled about how I look. Listening to you is like sitting with my best friend being honest about how I feel. You definitely help people. 🌺🌺🌺🌺
Thanks love 🥰
How great this video made me feel. I have always loved beauty, fashion etc but I am going to be 70years old soon and am a bit scared of making mistakes. This video and your other videos help me a lot. Thank you and keep going!!! Xx
Thank you for this video. Excellent information to lift our mood. When I was working, I would always wear a bright color on Monday to cheer myself up. I am now retired and cleaned out my closet once but find going through things every season is a good gauge. BTW, I probably have five black tees in my closet right now. I did find that I owned 35 pairs of jeans on my first declutter…now maybe down to 12 - which is progress.
Love you Frederique ! This video is so needed and so kind of you to help people with unrealistic standards they are measuring themselves up against. People so much need to see how these social media photos are just so far from real usually and can make you unhappy comparing yourself to an illusion
Thanks love 💗
Yes please. Love your style advice.
You are absolutely right!
Everything in this video was SPOT ON! This is why I and I'm sure Many others LOVE you sooo much! REally hope you are feeling fine. Never change you beautiful woman you! Always wishing you Health, Happiness, and MUCH SUCCESS! xoxo
Thanks Karen🥰
Thank you Frédérique!
This is so well thought-out, compassionate and helpful xxx
I also do not declutter or purge my closet after doing laundry. I do it when I have a ton to do. I know what is dirty is what I actually wear!
I love your videos Frédérique! Thank you for all the content you make. Such a good message.
Thank you. Great points. I agree with taking a break from certain on line influences.
Thank you! Love you ❤️
Yes please make a video about the different styles! Love it!
Great video. All of it. Great tips, so genuine, and honest.
Thank you so much for these tips! Especially the lighting and mirror tips!
Thanks 🙏🏻 so many great tips! This is what I needed to hear 🥰❤️
I learn something great from you in every one of your videos!!!
Thank you!
Donna
I'm impressed with the new video style. Great job!!
Love, love, love this video.... thank you.... I watch Stephanie as well...
♥️ thank you for your hard work and classic style tips. No one else compares to you!
Excellent, realistic, and supportive information,
Frederique! Merci!
Спасибо, Фредерик! Video is great (as usual). You inspired me to make some changes for the European trip and in general, as well as sorting mom's closet.
Amen sister❤️I love your classic style
This is by far your best video and it’s on a completely different level. Well done and thank you !
This is my fav post!!! I love you! ❤️
Thank you so much for this video ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you😉🌷
Fabulous inspiring video!🤗
Very important content. One of your best. Merci
One room at a time. What a wonderful tip. I get so overwhelmed by organizing every room I never get around doing it ! Thank you!
I really love this message. And yes please continue to bring us content on wardrobe suggestions for all of us. Thanks very much for this conversation 🙏🏻💛
I have no depression but it's always good to get positive outfit ideas, thanks.👍🏽
Thank you Frederique. This video was very informative.
I have been cleaning and sorting my wardrobe this month, and I have found some items I was going to buy. That was a pleasant discovery!! And donating pieces which I don’t wear is so liberating. Thank you for good advices 🙏🏻❤️
THANK YOU 🥰
I love the way you laugh about the mistakes you made in the past. You are so refreshing to listen to!
Excellent video, Frederique!
Thank you Frederique I loved this video... Many true observations 😍
I seek your guidance on finding which style suits me best! I so appreciate how you share your real self.
Your comments were very insightful and helpful, thanks!
Dear Frédérique, this is one of the best videos I've seen through the last several months. You are absolutely right: staying in a real life and decluttering the wardrobe and home is bringing freedom and joy!🌞🥰❤ Love you and hoping that you are doing well!😘🤗💐
Frederique, Hi 😊 thank you for your video, I love all the ones I’ve watched from you. You made me laugh several times with your “click click click” so sweet in your accent. I started a clear out some two months ago and only took the things to the charity shop this week. I was going to sell items as some of them still had tags on them. Instead I took them all to charity and felt better. You have just prompted me to now de clutter as I hung onto so much stuff for sentimental reasons. I think you are a lovely person and you have a kind soul and you have a good influence on me. Thank you, much love ❤️
Thanks Brenda 🥰
You bring such joy and practical advice. You are a lovely lady and I respect all you have to say. This presentation was especially nice. I'm in the process of "de-cluttering" which is emotionally tough for me. But, when I see I have made progress and think others can use what I can no longer use, I feel wonderful. You are beautiful as ever and my "go-to" for fashion advice. Much love from Northern California : )
Luv luv luv your hair that length x always cheer me up x
Yes! Decluttering is the new black! I, like so many others lately, have been decluttering inside the house… so much stuff gone! Whew! Now I’ve been binging your videos and have discarded 95% of my wardrobe and have been building my dream capsule of beautiful neutrals, quality pieces and am on the search for the perfect trench. Thank you so much for your generosity in sharing your wisdom and knowledge😘😘
Thank you for this video. Yes I
Would love to know what my style is!
I just discovered your channel last week and I can’t begin to tell you how much I enjoy it. I love that you make me laugh so thank you so much!
I needed this video today. I especially appreciate the content quality of your channel. Thank you Frederique!🙏
Thanks love 🥰
thank you. love your videos
Thank you for your warm hearted and uplifting words...⚘⚘⚘
You are so welcome
Hi Frederique !! Great advice
Great tips! Glad I found your channel ❤️
Than you!!
Amazing and practical video again Frédérique. Thank you and I hope I can finally get inspired to declutter 💕
Thanks love 🥰
Blessings to you, I appreciate your authentic delivery of practical styling tips!🥰
Thanks Patricia 🥰
How clever of a topic! I have never seen anyone really address this topic! Thanks Frederique, you are a gem!
Thanks love 🥰
Love your videos. I really appreciate them.❤️
Love your videos and you! Have a good day❤️💖
Bonjour, Frederique!! This was a great video! I am working on closet purging and finding my true style and capsule. 4 seasons, 2 closets, 1 closet shoes and boots. AIIIEEE!!! as you said, slow and steady. 1 closet at a time. I can do this! Gros bis!
I do look to social media for outfit ideas but as far as the 'the people wearing them'... No. On social media, they're really not much different than a store mannequin that I look past that to see the clothes & how to pair different pieces from clothes to shoes, to accessories. Real women have curves! I've earned my 52 years & honestly, I wouldn't trade places with anyone.
When it comes to clutter... I don't know if it's being a Virgo or growing up with a brother & Dad who are slobs, or maybe I actually am a little OCD, but I HATE clutter & crap laying around where it doesn't belong, it drives me totally batty!!! I probably do have 'too much' around me but it's things I like &/or use & if it's not, off to Goodwill it goes. There's almost a euphoria that I get whenever I drive home from dropping off a load of stuff at Goodwill... It's incredible ;)
For lighting, I LOVE natural light as much as possible, we just got new windows & in my closet, I didn't put curtains back up, just two small stained glass panels. It's on the east side of the house so it gets the morning sun & it is SO bright in there, even with the soft, buttery-cream yellow paint (Sherwin Williams 'Banana Cream', it's also in our dining room, stairway & basement). In our master bath, I changed the tan valance with a sheer white roman shade, it gives privacy but still lets in a ton of light!
I know what you mean about clothing sizes, you have to try everything on so I wait to go clothes shopping until I do have time to do that, then I look everything over carefully for 'how easily will I be able to make small alterations' (if I need to open a waistband to string elastic through then close it up again, is it a hollow waistband?), and 'Is it worth my time to make any alterations or should I look for the same or similar in a different size, although when thrifting, this isn't always an option.
Loved this video!
🙏thank you for this🙏
Frederique, I normally like your videos. I'm a Ph.D. and professor of nutrition and based on what I've heard on the video, I feel like rather than alleviating anxiety on this video you are setting expectations that are stress-producing. I was married in Paris and love your country and I've always loved that the French love little quirks here and there. I'm stressed out just hearing how I need to use tape and sewing and other things to look right. I can't imagine what young people feel about this. I tell my students that what matters is what happens inside and whatever happens that may be a gaffe...it's funny. Laugh at yourself. You're still ok.
Love how you are so truthful and authentic. Thank you so much! I sometime wonder how some influencers can have so many unboxing of Hermès stuff, for example. It makes sense that they may even borrow some items and present as their own. Of course, if they are wealthy then they do probably buy.
Thanks love 🥰
I have just found your Chanel and subscribed ! You are honestly one of the most down to earth, genuine and helpful TH-camrs I have seen. I love your content and I love how you make everything honest and relatable. I enjoy your beauty and fashion tips and your sense of humour too. Keep doing what you are doing! ❤️
Thank you Caroline and welcome to my channel 🥰
Great video. Merci
This is an excellent video! TFS🤩
Great video! ❤️ Such good tips and great advice! Thank you!
Thanks darling 💗
Very well done. Great advice and such a kind, caring tone which is truly genuine. I have watched all your videos from the beginning. You are my favorite person on TH-cam, Frederique. Thank you for all you do! 💕🌸💕
Merci lovely 🥰
Very timely, thank you. For all the good things about the internet the most destructive is social media especially for that cross section of deeply insecure young people who believe that all their cosmetically remade, photoshopped icons are REAL. It make me fear for their mental health and what they believe is important in this world
The K crew has had a truly devastating effect and they were only the beginning 😢
Thanks love 🥰
This video is spot on. Wonderful and so very helpful. I love love love to see what you will do next. I especially appreciate your candor and honesty🥰
Thanks Patricia 🥰
OMG, the quality of this video is amazing 😻
Social media has sent me into depression too many times.
I tapped out looong ago.
TH-cam has to be maneuvered carefully.
I follow you and a dietician who deciphers the TH-camr “What I eat in a day” videos. She’s real and eats real food.
You’re both my heroes. 💕😍
Great content, great advice, and fun as always 😊