45 signs they are NOT for you & you need to leave!!!

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  • @dearxdiary
    @dearxdiary 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +304

    One thing I've realised is your body will automatically reject anyone who's not meant for you so if your heart starts racing or you feel drained around them then they are not meant for you.

    • @lucaspranav
      @lucaspranav 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

      i was dating someone a couple months ago, and i remember i would feel so anxious around him. there were nights where i would just cry and i had no reason to be crying because he didnt do anything wrong. turns out he wasn't over his ex and i broke up with him

    • @jesusrules9925
      @jesusrules9925 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes you are both correct.

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I get super chubby when someone emotionally abuses me,
      And basically skin and bones when I’m scared!
      Guess what my parents are like?

    • @dearxdiary
      @dearxdiary 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah if you get abused you gain weight because your body tries to protect you

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dearxdiaryit tried its best!

  • @simonesquared
    @simonesquared 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +227

    if he is watching this can u click off

  • @ldrgod
    @ldrgod 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +63

    THE TIMING OMG

  • @duanriamei2794
    @duanriamei2794 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    Exactly what I needed😔… I recently broke up with my boyfriend who never prioritised me and never felt soo sad ever before but deep down , I realised that I am saved.

  • @anchan_dulal
    @anchan_dulal 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    now make a video titled 'signs they are for you and you need to stay together for life'. ❤

  • @shamiram1111
    @shamiram1111 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    another way your body will show someone isn’t for you is when you lose your glow or you even become uglier 😬. i’ve been through this, you can even tell in photos but i love your videos, straight to the point. ❤️

  • @sandydotsea
    @sandydotsea 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    a lot of these signs can be applicable to relationships that aren't romantic too. this video was so validating damn

    • @cloud6318
      @cloud6318 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      so real

  • @irishlivs
    @irishlivs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    The way you are always at the right timing. Posting this on Saturn Retrograde is SO REAL of you! You are our angel 🤭

  • @itshazzybee
    @itshazzybee 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    When the break up feels more right than the relationship....yeah bbg its done for GOOD!!!!

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Here’s my personal checklist that I won’t ignore from today 6pm ❤.
    -they say misogynistic things, even in jest, or apologize violence against women in ANY way, shape or form.
    -comment ur body, ONLY ur body, girl ur a person
    -one mistake? Ur worthless
    And if ur friends and family hate them,
    At least ask them why.
    I love u

  • @Asistha2
    @Asistha2 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    i cannot even concentrate simone is gorgeous

  • @pro.crammer
    @pro.crammer 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    omgg queen is back! ♡♡♡

  • @_taenosaur
    @_taenosaur 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I think i realised he was not for me 1 year into the relationship because everytime something minor or major went wrong in my life i would immediately think oh its because of this relationship and then i would question why did i think that and blame it on me, eventually a year later i broke up with him cuz my gut kept giving me too strong signs

  • @Jessica-kn5re
    @Jessica-kn5re 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Simone,your timing istg. Sending all the love in this world.❤️

  • @shimiiisan
    @shimiiisan 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The timing is crazy omg thankyouuuuuuu 😭

  • @Audrey-ot2pc
    @Audrey-ot2pc 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    i love your relationship/friendship videos PLEASE do more💖💖💖

  • @vladilenanouzen
    @vladilenanouzen 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazingly, Queen Simone, you have posted again been waiting! I adore your voice sm. whenever you speak or say something, it seems as though your words and advice immediately come to mind, whether I'm alone or in public ❤🎉 I LOVE YOU! You're my forever queen, sister, and greatest girl friend online here! Stay healthy!

  • @ervinsmoviecorner8748
    @ervinsmoviecorner8748 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Stunning job, Simone!❤

  • @arunimamandal1063
    @arunimamandal1063 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    7:51 omg I could never put this feeling into words. BOY BYE he has always been a red flag ew

  • @samco63
    @samco63 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ahhh literally every single one is my relationship now. I’m 37 and still need to listen to this. He’s so unsafe for me, but I keep trying. I needed this. So thank you!

    • @indigo_diary
      @indigo_diary 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I hope you find the courage and strength to leave him soon ❤

  • @urfavgiselle
    @urfavgiselle 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    this is exactly what we all need to hear periodt 😙🤚🏻 thank you papi you’re amazing 😝‼️🫶🏻

  • @whitethienpoison
    @whitethienpoison 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you for slapping some sense into me, you are saving my life girl

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Enjoying this! ❤❤

  • @ud29
    @ud29 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    omg so EARLY!! love you simone

  • @tejalsonawane1997
    @tejalsonawane1997 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am seeing this video as a "validation" for leaving toxic people behind!

  • @Wthrev
    @Wthrev 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    JUST IN TIMEEEEEE❤❤❤ ILY

  • @Nk-ob4id
    @Nk-ob4id 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    They knawr they knawr they knawr

  • @shunpofx
    @shunpofx 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thanks i needed to see this

  • @BrookeFranklin-bz4my
    @BrookeFranklin-bz4my 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was a great video!

  • @MangoDiorr
    @MangoDiorr 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love you and I just started subscribing🥺

  • @Boobooboba2506
    @Boobooboba2506 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dude seriously I was thinking if he is not for me and this shows up love you babe❤

  • @dearjiya4496
    @dearjiya4496 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    At this point I’m the red flag 🚩

    • @Chila-ty9sy
      @Chila-ty9sy 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Me too, damn I feel sorry

    • @ohmygod4410
      @ohmygod4410 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same

    • @Finixia.
      @Finixia. 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I meet individual points myself, but it's a sign that we are aware of it and we need to do something about it

  • @martine8455
    @martine8455 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    OMG TYSM, I was so confused when I felt like I couldnt trust my ex bf. Like I thought everything he told me was a lie and I didn't feel comfortable around him. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED, a confirmation that my choice of leaving was right(even though he was a nice guy and my friends didn't understand but still supported me lol).

  • @sarahlidia4449
    @sarahlidia4449 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I needed this fr :((

  • @nivedita7589
    @nivedita7589 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    12:38 really needed to know that thanks!!

  • @amahleinathilande
    @amahleinathilande 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    how to leave is the question 💔

  • @asterialumin_2030
    @asterialumin_2030 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi ya Simone! Every time you upload, the timing is crazyyy!

  • @lofisky4355
    @lofisky4355 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for saving us girl💪😭

  • @kyokohorii
    @kyokohorii 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    MOTHER❤

  • @israabenkhelouf8497
    @israabenkhelouf8497 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good topic

  • @rowan.marie.forsythe
    @rowan.marie.forsythe 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The timing is insane! how did she know

  • @NotebookMapofLemon
    @NotebookMapofLemon 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you i needed this. 😭😭😭😭😭I was going back and forth abt this guy. Now i know. I M LEAVING HIM 🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡

  • @_Tropical_
    @_Tropical_ 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dear Simmone and other readers!

  • @savageornah7696
    @savageornah7696 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Everytime I met someone like a date and I get sick a day after really sick o know that god and my body is telling me he is not for you it’s super crazy because I had a feeling or signs but I ignored it I don’t want to seek someone so no dating apps only dustys are on there ! working on me !

  • @keii3561
    @keii3561 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Timing was never more perfect.

  • @aahanaghoshh
    @aahanaghoshh 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    this video is sign enough that i should leave

  • @glowupgirliee
    @glowupgirliee 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    MOTHERS BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

  • @ludovicaangotti8452
    @ludovicaangotti8452 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    literally everything

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He was so attentive.
    Like literally,
    I felt ugly, I told him so and he said „ur always beautiful“, now suddenly (like a hot minute after confessing to me that he likes me), he ignores me and never has time to phone anymore.
    Today I told him (after he didn’t even mention the call that we wanted to have yesterday or that we didn’t text for a whole day for no reason, AGAIN), that I don’t want to phone anymore and he was actually surprised.
    Know what he said: „y?“
    Not even anything else, or a „why“.
    And now he posts s*xist pics, ok.

    • @leighs1nterlude
      @leighs1nterlude 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      you dodged a bullet !!

    • @User69362
      @User69362 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Girl leave him. Don’t waste your time with immature men

  • @adelphipanthers
    @adelphipanthers 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This describes what my ex girlfriend did to me . She was so narcissistic and self centered . The sex was terrible too. Thank god I broke up with her .

  • @prettylilnerdy6802
    @prettylilnerdy6802 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But from this list I think that leaves no one for me

  • @TATAKAEEEE_ey
    @TATAKAEEEE_ey 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There was this guy I was talking to he said he likes me and wanted to date me but I was confused I had a feeling he has a gf but he always declined then 2days ago he blocked me on ig and i found out he has a gf guess what I had this dream back in nov 2023 that he and I was in some sort of confusionship and then I found out he has a gf and this exact thing happenedddd!!! GIRLS ALWAYS BELIEVE YOUR DREAMS AND INTUITION ITS A SUPERPOWER AND ITS A SIGN FROM GOD. thankfully I never trusted him fully..I'm kinda sad tho

  • @HamzaHabi-z7h
    @HamzaHabi-z7h 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like them more when I am with them in real ❤

  • @honeymayfair-rt9tc
    @honeymayfair-rt9tc 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍excellent analysis

  • @itschia8518
    @itschia8518 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What if a guy is doing therapy and also speaks greatly about it and how important it is, but at the same time I have the feeling that he is a playboy?

  • @oogaboogass
    @oogaboogass 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    where was this video six months ago 😢😭😭

  • @kyokohorii
    @kyokohorii 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    okay mother I'm taking this as a sign from God:O

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same :s

  • @GargiThakare-y3o
    @GargiThakare-y3o 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    NO WAY U READ MY MIND

  • @glowing4lex
    @glowing4lex 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But the real question is.. How and WHERE to find such a good man???

  • @drinkingmiranda1831
    @drinkingmiranda1831 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dear Simone,
    will you kindly make a detailed video on "friendship" how it's supposed to be...how to find out if they really are our friend/ best friend or no.
    Solemnly,
    Best regards
    Hiba Api

  • @Uhm_huh
    @Uhm_huh 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Simone, who do I contact for help for SSS-society?

  • @banjmy
    @banjmy 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    so…my parents and all my friends are not for me 😔 idk i kinda fake everything when im around them

  • @irishlivs
    @irishlivs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I know he is NOT for me because I could literally list SO MANY things. However, possibly seeing him is stopping me from cutting him off on social media (since most likely, we’d be classmates again for law school). 😩

    • @irishlivs
      @irishlivs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And the way we’re not even together, just had a sort of situationship very much says how I should leave! (I left but still stalk him at times 😩)

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Doesn’t matter,
      Don’t even acknowledge the b*tch

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I waited for a sign today,
    And all he did as reaction to me pulling away was post something about s*x.
    Nothing else.
    And this shows up :/

  • @bh4rti
    @bh4rti 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    NAWHHH I REALLLY NEEDED THIS. I WAS THINKING OF BREAKING UP WITH MY BOYFIE BC OF POOR COMMUNICATION AND DAYUMM UR NEW VID WAS ABT THE SAME FUCKING TOPICCCC

  • @sriyanka4915
    @sriyanka4915 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Actually some things you said in the video i do it.😢😢

  • @nalinimaharjan5939
    @nalinimaharjan5939 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Papa papi❤

  • @Unknown_person335
    @Unknown_person335 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Earlyyy finally 🎉✨💕🌷

  • @ira-9181
    @ira-9181 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    are u like psychic (ur videos are always on time)

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Honestly I had a 6pm timeline for breaking it off,
      I told him a month ago I want to be cherished,
      He said I deserve it (but did nothing),
      Then today I said I no longer want to phone, he only asked why and posted s*xist jokes for some reason.
      And then this shows up

  • @angelikap8303
    @angelikap8303 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Earlyyyyy ❤

  • @zodiacnights712
    @zodiacnights712 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    WHY CANT I FIND ANY OF THESE SIGNS AHHHH

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity-- 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Construction work is the same reason as those guys don´t care your "rules".

    • @simonesimmons
      @simonesimmons  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      whatever that means dawg

    • @--Singularity--
      @--Singularity-- 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@simonesimmons It´s no accident.
      It means.

  • @prettylilnerdy6802
    @prettylilnerdy6802 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    why didnt you make this video before

  • @adrilous
    @adrilous 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lovee uu💞💞🤍🤍

  • @prisha4430
    @prisha4430 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Is he bad at communicating or am I just isolated and on my phone 24/7 while he just has a life?

    • @prisha4430
      @prisha4430 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He interns at this big a$$ company and also is studying at a big a$$ university with the biggest textbooks I’ve ever seen

    • @DaffadilSunshines
      @DaffadilSunshines 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      hey i've thought the same at one point. you feel like the you in you is slowly going away? because maybe you feel more focussed on loving him than yourself? imat the same edge r n different situation

    • @alainasarchive
      @alainasarchive 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      okay i’m going through this right now too 😭 i’m constantly conflicted

  • @Chila-ty9sy
    @Chila-ty9sy 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg, I´am the red flag

  • @finny_and_autum
    @finny_and_autum 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    it feels wrong to be this early

  • @Sarpy777
    @Sarpy777 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    45 is crazyyyy 😭

  • @paolasimone6805
    @paolasimone6805 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can this be use also in friendship?

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Of course

  • @amar.vivian
    @amar.vivian 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯 ❤

  • @Dreamcatcher_7372
    @Dreamcatcher_7372 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Angellll

  • @Sky-ci9gn
    @Sky-ci9gn 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    can this be applicable to friendships?

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes of course

  • @kyokohorii
    @kyokohorii 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤😭

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Feel free to ignore, rant.
    -he was so kind and attentive. Six months and counting.
    Then one day I told him my girlfriend asked me to live w her,
    And he exploded on me,
    Told me everything he hates about me,
    And that I deserve the xyz experience I had (many women know what I mean),
    And that I provoked my ex to do it.
    And when he made me cry he acted as if he didn’t notice.
    He was still surprised I stopped talking to him today though.

    • @melisa465
      @melisa465 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Was he always like this when you guys argue

    • @dIvYaa487
      @dIvYaa487 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wht xyz experience

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dIvYaa487don’t want to speak about it kind of obvious

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@melisa465no
      Usually he said „it’s fine we have two different opinions“.
      I think he felt rejected,
      But he’s been hardly speaking to me since mid May,
      Still saying he appreciates me/ just busy but um
      You’re not a mine worker bestie

  • @ohohpelia2166
    @ohohpelia2166 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Simone i woke up with that pit in my stomach ahhhh

  • @drinkingmiranda1831
    @drinkingmiranda1831 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @carolinavaldez8450
    @carolinavaldez8450 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    45? Wow 😂 interesting, that’s wayyy too much dear😂

  • @prableenn-
    @prableenn- 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Me being single but watches anyway

  • @Lolcoca
    @Lolcoca 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I do not take The Defense of anyone but if you see that a person is not made for you !
    Focus on your life and your Goals ! Complaining will not help ! Let their blah blah blah 😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity-- 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don´t believe in therapy, cosh i know more math than you do.
    That construction work was a therapy.
    Got it ?

  • @robert661
    @robert661 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    first?!

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity-- 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jesus said it: Only the sick needs Therapy.

    • @simonesimmons
      @simonesimmons  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      everyone is sick dawg...

    • @--Singularity--
      @--Singularity-- 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@simonesimmons Well. Thats true. Manipulated in this simulation.

    • @--Singularity--
      @--Singularity-- 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@simonesimmons So. Who you gonna call ?

  • @mariaaaa180
    @mariaaaa180 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was just thinking of you and dmnn you posted 🤌🌝

  • @ud29
    @ud29 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i love how the videos don’t seem repetitive and same 🫶🏻