How to Get Over Fear of Failure (and stop procrastinating)
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In this video, I talk about how to get over fear of failure and stop procrastinating on the important things in life.
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Thank u for this great work, machine learning and quantum computing is the most important learning that I have in mind
ms tina, can you make a video on how to step by step create an application. i know the first one is planning but what is next? there are tons on google but i prefer someone explaining it on video. plssssss
I'm sorry but that dude describing you the way he did was a bit of an a-hole move.
"We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons." - Jim Rohn
This is gold, ty!!
Indeed gold
i have emotional trauma from childhood and bullying in school. it transfers to my employment and ive found that healthy relationships for me, are difficult. i just graduated with my masters and am getting anxiety over feeling forced to return to that 9-5. i see people, like you, doing what they love and being creators (in any sphere) and it makes me want to pursue a niche that i dont see anywhere. reviewing books of a specific nonfiction genre, and cataloguing everything i find to try and dissect the narrative. would take years to build into something, but, i am happiest when reading.
That sounds like an interesting niche!
You should do it! Don’t let your fears stop you. The only way we gain confidence is by self-compassion and overcoming our fears (even if it means failing many, many times).
I have an interview tomorrow for a position I really think I am not a good fit experience based, but, it's a good pay, good position, good company and they approached me.
I'm terrified. No idea what they expect for me.
I will do it anyway.
Stay strong fellas.
They apporached you so it means that you're worth their time and tomorrow you'll prove that to them
@Dave Z how did it go ?
The last week, I’ve been struggling with anxiety and anger; it was by and large my obsession with TH-cam rabbit holes into AIDS, Ukraine etc. I took a note to curate my content consumption. Watching you, this vid almost instantly lifted that negative energy. Thanks Tina.
Courage the dog is actually really brave
riiiight? I didn't realize how smart of a word thing it actually is until I grew up "courage the cowardly dog"
It is!
That was the whole point of the show, he overcome every fear because he couldn't afford lose his family.
"I'm scared of everything but I still do it." -Tina
And it sounds like Courage the Dog
@@TinaHuang1 same!
thanks for making this Tina! This is really helpful, I just graduated from my master's course (that was intended to be my stepping stone for PhD but I ended up not wanting to go to academia) and now I'm trying to look for a real job without actual work experience. I really should be applying for jobs and learning new skills every day but I'm also avoiding this. I don't know if other people have similar experience but it's really nice to see you posting videos about overcoming turbulent times
I am having the same crisis as you. Having spent so long in academia I was sure I will walk the PhD path after I completed my masters last year - I'm in STEM so everyone around me is oh but you will get paid well after you finish , throwing away opportunities yada yada but the thing is I don't want to 100%. I am into the idea of it around 30-40% but not a 100% in. Post pandemic things changed a lot - I don't want to be investing another 4-5 years on a "maybe" but at the same time seeing your peers get into programs one after the other hurts like what the f am I doing with my life. I am applying for jobs and upskilling myself in the meantime but unless you get your foot through there is no way of knowing how this all will turn out. So terrified yes, god knows how I am holding on. Sorry a rant just your comment resonated with me sm and wanted to let you know I am here for you. Hope you figure everything out. Best wishes.
@@sinbycosi2813 best wishes to you,
Your comment is relatable for me too
Hey Tina. I have always been a fearful person and have ran away everytime i was afraid. But i regret doing it and today i am planning on doing things differently and have started facing my fears. And currently i am building towards becoming a data analyst and public speaking.
When we say something, sometimes the words that come out come from such a depth, such a resonance of experience, success, failures, thoughts, dreams, a paragraph that we read somewhere, a song that pops into mind, a movie, a conversation, an image, an idea, that only who are close to your experience and your perception can really absorb it and understanding it and relate it in their lives.
You could choose to talk about 1 topic or a list of ideas, but most people would really connect to what you are saying when you yourself understand your influences and motivations and why you are doing what you are doing, its about the journey and why you took it.
I really appreciate this video because I was so scared of failing in my dream career. I ended up writing a list of pros and cons of pursuing my dreams and not pursuing them. What I found out is literally that the only cons was my parent's disapproval which wasn't enough to throw my dreams away.
I'm always most scared of creative endeavors. With work, like just for making money, I always feel like "oh I can do whatever or get whatever crappy job" but it's bigger things, like creative passions, where it scares me to start or to try and turn them into money making endeavors. While I enjoy arts and other creative things, I don't think I've ever felt like I could actually make money with them because I don't feel I'll be good enough, so it scares me to even start something like that. RN the things I've been thinking of starting (and haven't started) are youtube, voice over, and writing
Amazing advice! When I feel I need to hear something positive I always find myself on this channel! 🥰
I love your advice and the personal experiences you use as a message to help motivate your audience on YT. Memento Mori has been a mantra for me for a while and to see it in your videos is amazing. Keep posting 🎉
I been trying to pass a licensing exam to get my career off the ground after multiple fails. This was inspiring. Thank you, Tina ❤
I m in the reverse path: I can do a lot in the day to the point I "burn" myself for the days after. I was obsessed by this "memento mori" though. I'm actually trying do do less and be consistant. I try not to be negative with myself to work each day by being positive instead of working quickly by fear of missing. I try to take time to organize it and see the path. Without it I cannot succeed in a task longer than 3 4 days. Without it I do not perceive time passing.
Taking the leap to working online as a copy writer/social media while doing full time travel. I leave for Europe in two weeks..🌝
always love your content
Great video Tina. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences. I like the aesthetics of the vdeo too. Very comforting to watch. 😊
Thanks a lot Tina, i am really scared of failing into Java. Now motivated to defeat this monster :P
The first time I failed academically in my life it led to my whole life falling apart including a divorce.
I'm worried that even though I have the ability to learn and actually get off of disability benefits and succeed that I'm going to make a terrible error somewhere and everything will fall down like a house of cards again.
I agree with the part of positive mindset within systems of habits so much🤝also Brilliant really has some good crypto courses 👀
thanks for the video
I'm afraid of learning all about data analytics then applying for a job and forgetting everything just because I am so nervous.. I get so nervous to the point I can't communicate correctly and kinda forget what to do even though I know what I am doing.. this has happened before and now it's been my biggest fear is failing the interview and suddenly forgetting how to do my job.
Watching this video as I procrastinate
when you could not get any content related to data science....................but need to earn money in the name of motivation story !!
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Our generation really suffers from over-thinking. People will think themselves into anxiety and depression.
I guess the thing I am the most scared of is actually putting myself out there as a software engineer. Building projects, finding a simple job, I am aiming to learn more or get advance degrees instead of facing the fact that I already have what I need to build my career, I need to start working now. This video really helped in putting that into perspective and I think the actionable steps I can take is build those portfolio projects, revisit and learn DSA, and actually apply for all of those jobs.
The biggest thing I’m scared I’m going to fail is doing well in the bootcamp I’m in. I forgot to fill out a form and I’m worried that I made a bad impression or seem like I’m not committed. I’m so scared that every little mistake I make will be held against me. I’m trying to understand that it’s ok to make mistakes as long as I acknowledge them and make actionable steps towards not making the same mistake again.
You are totally fine. I learnt that it’s our ego yes ego, that makes us feel like every little thing we do is being monitored , remembered or held against. In reality, everyone is too busy with their own lives to even really remember what we did- we suffer our imagination more than the reality. Keep on marching forward! Good luck and kudos on joining the boot camp
@@hitishasharma6014 thank you so much for the words of encouragement and advice! I’ll take it to heart 🙏
I have the same experience in the bootcamp while those guys are so supportive and encourage me so much. We are probably our harshest judge. Those bootcamps are not easy, so give yourself a break.
@@tatianajenkins8295 Thanks Tatiana!
your every fuck up might be held against you , but your accomplishments also will be noticed. just make sure you keep working so that the latter balances out the former. A lot of the time, we let perfect be the enemy of good and give up after fucking up once, just keep the big picture in mind and work towards it.
I am writing my final exams in High school and I procrastinate when I feel anxious about a subject. I am scared of having to repeat this year or not having the guts to travel overseas and explore opportunities in Data science or stats and computers. I just struggle to incision what success would look like and it eats me up sometimes. Tina, you are an angel. Please keep inspiring us and keep being you.
Hi Tina! Last June 2022 I jumped from my 15 year IT career into a contract job leading a team of software engineers and doing data analytics. It was the scariest jump of my life. I lost sleep, didn’t eat. My husband is really sick and needs insurance and he can’t work and we have two babies aged 3 & 4. I had to buy my own healthcare out of pocket and learn Python on weekends. My job has been great and was exactly what I needed but I was really stressed for the first few months. Thanks for making this. When you all pick a path commit to it 110% you can do it!!
My TRUE fear is regretting someone I COULD'VE become. That's why I do things that scare me, I can't live to be 80/90 and live with regret of not taking a chance, or working toward something that I've always wanted to do. #staymotivated #strength
Always love your video intros 😂
Tina, I know you have a fiancé, but I would like to say I have always found you attractive ever since I first saw you in your video because the way you are persistent with your work and of course you like Naruto as much as I do.
I like you, Tina and would you care to go out with me?
I want to learn Python for Data Engineering b/c it will help me get and maintain the next level of salary as a Data Engineer.
I have subscribed to Pluralsight and 365 DataScience, but I need to actually carve out time everyday to do it. I thought I needed a lot of time, but it was hard to get 2hrs right after work b/c I would feel like a mushy brain. But maybe if I just do 1hr during a time when I don't feel mushy...like 7-8pm MWF. Then at least that is something! rather than nothing!
I want to study, but I also need to workout to lose weight.
I currently swim 1000meters (laps) for 30min everything Tues and Thurs from 7:30-8pm.
Maybe I can still study from 6:45pm-7:15pm?
My biggest fear these days is not being able to keep up with the assignments if I get into a uni that I am preparing for. I am still preparing for the entrance exam but I am scared about being a slow. Your video helped me realize that was why I was secretly telling myself to take more time for me.
Thanks for putting it out. ❤
Dr. Andrew Huberman has a video/information out that supports that fear of failure is more powerful/gets greater results than the traditional concept of positivity/self belief. Courage does not exist without fear. If anything its the definition: Courage is not a lack of fear. It is that fear is present and you take the proper action in the very face of that fear. Congratulations on taking the ongoing steps that took you on this tremendous journey while supporting and inspiring others to start and continue journeys of their own!
I’m going through a massive career shift. I only graduated college back in May and I’ve already come to learn I don’t want to be in my degree field anymore. Back in September I enrolled in the Google Data Analytics program. I’ve been scared the whole time I’ve been making myself learn these new skills, “Am I making another mistake, will I get a job with this, can I even learn this and get into the field compared to those with degrees.” Between all that stress and having just been broken up with I’m scared as hell for the future. However, I’ve come to learn I’m more scared of the what if’s I don’t try. Thus, as Tina said, I’ve made myself not have a choice on learning this. Im going to learn it and do whatever I have to make a career out of something I do enjoy. No matter how scary it is right now.
I hope it works out for you !
I am going through a cybersecurity bootcamp right now. I have never done anything like this before. Right now to straighten up my life and get independent I really need a good job and these classes are a ticket to freedom for me, so I have so much pressure, I procrastinate. I know it has to do with my fear of failure because so much depends on it.
how is it going now? i could really use some good news
Update?
Great video! Taking action despite fear.
I’m enrolled in a software engineering bootcamp. Even thought I’m enjoying it, I’ve been procrastinating. It just feels unbelievable that I may one day leave my current job (been there for years and just burned out!) and move on to a new field where I can more money 😳 …. But I will continue trudging along despite my fear and lack of confidence! 😤
I’m afraid of failing my classes and turning into a sad depressed ball of worthlessness.
I want to learn and I want the degree but bloopity bloppity I get so stressed and afraid to fail to the point I can’t sleep or function.
I want to do well in my classes, I’m interested in the content and assignments but I’m too scared to start them or I get behind and don’t know what I need help with and the fear intensifies and I can’t get myself to do anything at all. It makes no sense.
great video. i'll watch it later when i feel it
I love the decorations in the background
imagine what happens if everyone sits there spitting their common sense "wisdom" and gets paid to do nothing, the internet won't feed the world sorry
I feellike saying regret is scarier is not so good. It's a double edged sword. All it does is make you fearful of more things. Imagine going through life where you are forced to do things, otherwise something bad happens. It's like a gun is being diected at your head for the rest of your life
hey this is unrelated to the video but u used to share your resume on youtube so i follow it and land most of the interview but maybe my interview is kinda lacking here and there yet i know im on the right track securing the interview!
I am afraid of applying for jobs, cause I think I am not good enough
I really see myself in this video. I'm scared of going out of my comfort zone but I force myself to do it. This causes lot of anxiety and stress but you have to believe in yourself. No one else can achieve your dreams for you.
Three years ago, just before the pandemic, I was motivated to switch my career to Data Science. I went a head and registered for an MSc in Web and Data Science, tried to attend the Courses remotely and stopped due to procrastination and work study balance. Contemplating whether to quite or proceed has been one of the scariest things.
I think my biggest fear currently is that as an begineer I'm not too good with sql but my ultimate goal is to work in the data science field one day & hopefully become a Data Scientist. Also, Tina & Joma Tech are the only tech youtubers that I can actually feel a connection with not sure if it's they're communication pattern or my preference or that I should just explore more I seem to bias towards them which also makes me more motivated, Last but not least great content as usual!
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I am 35 years old and I come to this Channel for getting the advice for tech and success in life. Kudos to you Tina !
I am actually scared that I will mess up my (not so stable 😅) financial stability if I try something that I later on realize that I really don't like... and add to this the fact that I turn 38 already. What do you recommend as a quick course/ exercise to see if I would be prepared on the long term to dive into more complex data analysis and even data science?
I am finally setting out to get into a data analyst role from a software development role. A very similar expereince but so much harder not having started in big tech like you. After one year of work a 4 month break and struggling to find more work for another 6 months I have decided on my goals. This video, despite the traumas of my last job is telling me I am making the right choice.
It's so relatable, I'm about to complete my internship and (hopefully) get a job offer and I'm scared and worried I won't be able to make it in the company, but I'm doing in anyways lol
Hi Tina! I've watched a bunch of your videos and love your content! I relate a to the challenges of staying motivated as well as experiencing fear of failure leading to procrastination. I also relate heavy to a prior video where you said you'd wake up late, work, come home and do nothing hahaha thats me!! Y'know it's funny though, I ended up being diagnosed with adhd very recently and it for real opened my eyes to sooo many things. For someone with adhd, it's inherently harder to develop motivation. It's harder to "get started," as some tasks end up exaggerated, anxiety-inducing, or flat out boring! But, one tip I found is that when you're actually feeling motivated, even for a second, capture the antecedents! This helps us identify potential triggers so that we might be able to manifest motivation again.
For a lot of people, simply watching movies/videos of others achieving your desired goal is enough to motivate.
Thanks for the awesome vids. I just wanted to spill my brain a little lol
What if your fear of failure is from past regrets?
I neeeeeded this video 😭 I’ve just started learning C and my fear of failure is holding back my progress 😭
Thank you very much, Tina! You always say the words that I needed to hear right now.❤
I've been an intellectual my whole life, and I've been writing poetry for seven years now. While working a job with two hours commuting daily, I found that I am very good at singing and rapping, and the fear is immeasurable. It's not that I'm afraid of failure, my courage to fail is what enables me to ask stupid questions and immediately learn from them. I'm afraid of success, because I fixate on artists that have succeeded and were too fragile, and suffered and died regardless. So I'm pooling strength. Trying to be patient for now.
Your videos are excellent, and your work ethic inspires me. I'll try not to let the illusion of stagnation get to me. Thank you.
Play safe it's the easiest thing, I prefer jumping out my comfort zone every time I have the chance. I like controlled risk though it's not like jumping blindfolded, because a high level of uncertainty gives me anxiety instead of growth.
There is so much wisdom, humility, logic, and subtle humor in this script, it's incredible. Keep these coming.
I love your channel and you have truly changed my life ❤.
there are a lot of things I'm afraid of starting right now lol. The thing that is bothering me the most right now is looking for internships to apply for related to my major which is Geographic Information Systems. I'm afraid I'm not qualified and will be denied the experience. To me that step is big but as tip number 2 states "Lessen the failure barrier", if I fail then I fail. there's only one way to find out. Just try it.
If it makes you feel better, I applied for a job I felt I was not qualified for 100% as my degree had nothing to do with it. It’s a consulting company and the interviews were extremely scary and HARD. I was so anxious and pushed myself so hard. I also cried a lot because I kept thinking I had bombed the interviews. Anyway I signed their offer letter on Monday. Its beaten every job I’ve ever been offered. Do it! You’ll be scared but you won’t lose. Worst case scenario you will learn something that’ll make you a better candidate for the next thing.
@@chingsinjani3963 wow thanks! You are right I just need to push myself hard like you did.
Good luck! Rooting for you ❤
Oh, I had this mentality. "Yolo, I don't want to reach the end of my life regreting not doing x". What happened? I regreted doing X. I think we should learn to deal with regret instead of avoiding it. I think regreting is a core component in our lives and just accept "I can't do everything" or "what I love is not what I need", let go of dreams, visions and passions and just live.
I want to improve my programming skills because I have 2 years left in university as a CS student and I want to be able to get a good job after graduation so I can be more useful in and help my sisters financially because they were always there for me. but sometimes I have those feelings that I might not be good enough or I'll fail which terrifies me the most and I can't do anything about it
My biggest fear right is failing my last year of architecture school. I'm trying to create habits that will make me more confident in my abilities. Thanks for the advice😁 Helped alot
im procrastinating on making life altering choices :') i really dont like my job and have been disengaged since i started working... ive tried to push through and have done my best but my higher ups do not praise or acknowledge my work. ive asked for pay rises to no avail. ive applied for other similar jobs and grad programs but they're not really what i want to do either. i want to learn how to code and dip into ux/ui but im too tired (read lazy) after work.
I'm procrastinating on preparing for interviews to get a different job that pays more. Tomorrow will be my 1 year anniversary at my job, and I haven't even updated my resume.
I'm just dreading the whole interview process, and I am hoping to stay for at least 2 years at this company before switching. I know that I received a lot of rejections before landing this job, and I don't want my efforts to be wasted. Nothing is fixed about this process.
I'm SO frustrated right now because I'm skilled at many different things, but I can't complete even one thing that I know could help me gain some success or that would at least build my confidence in my ability to complete projects.
I don't even have a goal to be super famous or rich; if I could attain the lifestyle where I don't have to worry about money and have a job I can take anywhere, I'd be happy. I don't want to flex expensive possessions. I just want to reach/move people through my writing and art and fashion (that makes them feel beautiful/happy). I could say that I want to do too many things, but if I could complete at least ONE thing right now, I'd be much happier. Having chronic depression hasn't helped, but my goodness, I fight it! So, it's frustrating.
I want to start a TH-cam channel but I keep procrastinating giving myself may reasons why I think I can’t do it. I am terrified I’m not smart enough to be a content creator and also criticism… I’m scared and that’s why I searched this video, thank you
This advice does not help persons who can not overcome their fear.My husband is 37 years old and he only went to School till 6th Grade and then worked.
In 3 years I have tried to get him out of this fear with no outcome.He just says he is not capable of any training or education.And that he is just capable of working.
I have tried to motivate him since 3 years for completing his school education,and searched adresses for any type of education but he is not interested.I can not force him - he is stuck in his fear forever ...
I had also asked learning coaches and therapists ....
they can only help if a person has the motivation to take help ......
I just had an Azure Workshop at my university today. They taught us about most of the azure services and more of that stuff. What I did realize today the hardest part for me right now is to socialise with people...I wanted to talk but all I could do was be more anxious.
But anyway, so for anyone going through the same kind of problem I want to ask how do ever u get over speaking to anyone (without feeling judged)? I feel this has really hindered me a lot because recently I really have hit some pain points in my learning journey that couldn't be just googled.
Socialising is an autotelic process, it's primarily for yourself, second to others. If you speak when you have something you actually want to say, rather than to be heard, you won't care about being judged. However, If it helps, studies have shown its easier with increased exposure to social settings, it can be as easy as just sitting in a cafe for an hour each day.
I agree with both of Dan's comments. Exposure is a good, albeit uncomfortable way to make it easier, also being enthusiastic about a topic and sharing it can be easier. As someone who's socially anxious (for example my heart still races whenever I have to introduce myself at PD or at a work meeting), one of the mindsets I've found really helpful is to think about how I perceive others who are commenting or doing any public speaking, when I'm an audience member I really want for them to do well and succeed. If you think of it like that then people aren't judging you they're secretly cheering you on to do your best. Sure that's not 100% true for everyone but most people want you to do well in the class presentation or speaking up in class and answering or asking questions. I hope the mind shift helps, and take baby steps. I'd also suggest starting with something as easy as hanging back after class to ask a teach or TA some of the questions, or try and sit close to someone who does speak up a lot and see if you can add or ask around some of there questions or answers. I hope it gets easier for you 💜
@@mindymac_does_stuff that is relatable Mindy, also that positive approach towards any kind of public speaking supportinh does help sometimes but again overthinking sometimes takes the best of us. And yes it definitely does help without any doubt to be with someone who is more adept at public speaking and I do approach my professors after thankfully they are also as helpful and open as you guys. I have issues to work through but this definitely does help take that initial step.
@@kaustavdas6550 It's no doubt a lot of work, I also see a psychologist and she has great insights too even if most of the time the suggestions are too scary. Small steps are key and knowing and accepting that it may never be easy. I wish you every success in working on it 💜
I'm amazed I love every one of your videos. I first found you from the diy pulley video like how GarageGymReviews made. I subbed cause of your amazing approach to design. You also have awesome life advice. I'm very glad you felt the fears and did the things anyway. As someone who has to make some serious pivots in my life right now as well, I'm inspired.
It's interesting how you study Stoicism and yet believe it's healthy to be afraid of failure. The Stoics would teach us not to fear the outcomes of our actions but only focus our attention on doing our best. The core of Stoic philosophy is the dichotomy of control. As long as I try my best, then I literally have done all I can; therefore, there is no point or use in being afraid of failure.
I just started a new job this month. Before discovering Stoic philosophy, I would be quaking with nervousness and imposter syndrome, etc. However, and I can say this honestly, I do not feel a single ounce of fear at the moment. Perhaps that I'm not afraid should be reason for me to be afraid?
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You worked for the Western capitalistic overlords/oligarchs as a Chinese person, good for you, “clap” “clap”.
I've been demo trading for 1 year 11 months , and I'm still really scared of actually being on the charts and putting in trades cuz I don't want to have red days/ be in drawdown.
Take your time but some day or at some point you'll have to move on from everything, afterall we all have limited time on this beautiful earth !
I am scared to change my career. I am an educator with a PhD. We moved to US, now my diploma is worthless here. I will start a software engineering bootcamp in two months and I am so scared to stay behind, not being able to understand topics, etc.
There is only going to take them to jail faster.. People do not know what to do. Rhythm. Feeding is not from very low to high.... Whoever I am not dating is not because I know that I do not.
What a great video!! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. I have so much respect for you!
"Jumping out of window". Wh.. why? That's quite random 😅
Finishing my research study, I feel like I am going nowhere, hopeless, yet stil no action.
Hey Tina, you look fabulous!
When you decided to get back to China, did you consider it as a risk considering mass lockdowns and everything else going on there right now? How do you find your time there so far? Would be interesting to have your insight about being in China in 2022 if it's not risky.
0. Use your fear to jauge how important sth is to you- if it's very scary, it probably is very important to you
1. Make it so that you don't have a choice (eg: got a job for which she needed to learn a new skill)
2. Lessen the 'failure barrier' (have a backup/side option to allow you to fail)
3. Weigh the pros and cons
4. Have a vision for yourself (memento mori)
5. Turn motivation into action right away (set big goals + smaller goals+ habits integrated in your schedule)
But why did you say that "you are privileged" as if it s something bad or offending ?
I am scared of not being able to be successful in college. I am a bad student and that is why I am like this.
Hi haung am Aidan from uganda I got your message send my regards to Alex I now have an idea of who I am
"Unless Elon Musk does something"
The amount not said says so much more
I like ur hair. I will follow ur content. cheers from Australia
My foreign university applications.
wow. This is exactly the message I needed🙌 Also, your white Blue Yeti looks awesome🤓
Great stuff Tina. Thanks for always being so honest and open in public.
tip 1 and tip 2 seem to be contradictory
I have a business ide do u want to collab
unless elon mosk does something hahahahahahaha
You're the best, Tina.
Completing my PhD.