WOW! This was soooo powerful. In full blown tears, I walked away from a church I went to where abuse was so normalized. I submitted thinking I simply had to endure for the greater good but after 9 years I left. Once I left I was shamed, that I had not finished my commission there and prophets would send messages to me I would come back in a horrible state humbled. I have struggled for months with extreme guilt and shame (To be clear I did not walk away from God; just changed churches). I was in a place where I experienced abuse in more ways I can express as a former worship leader. The guilt has not allowed me to move forward, I have felt like I've disappointed God to the extreme by leaving that church. My mental health was deuterating so profoundly I was scared what would become of me if I remained in a place of constant humiliation and manipulation. Hearing that prayer at the end was soo refreshing and life giving, like I actually have a chance to heal from all I experienced. I want to be free from all the PTSD and lack of trust I have in spiritual leaders and the prophetic. Please pray for me!!
Thank you thank you for dealing with this..leaders sweep certain things under the carpet yet its soo common among us as believers..so thank you..thank you..I was a victim..left that church but still standing for Jesus..of course I joined another church
Thank you. 🤎 Therapy is necessary for many. Those of us submitted to Christ are here to serve. Former pastor's wife/first lady and trained, certified I/O psychologist-positive applied psychologist specifically called and trained to help with church leaders. Reach out: cheryl-carr.clientsecure.me/
Fruit speaks of character. Fruitfulness speaks of good works. If a pastor a preacher or a singer does not have a loving joyful peaceful good kind character or demeanor, you are not obligated to listen to them. Fellowship is supposed to be with people you like not with mean not nice unlikable people. The 9 fruit test is the first thing you should do, especially with leadership. Corrupt clergy members are the ones that hurt congregations. Wolves posing as shephards and sheep. People go to random churches out of assumptions and obligation and if they dont know scriptural definitions they might feel forced to sit and listen to a lack of character person, for no good reason. Look at the fruit of the tree first. Before you eat it. #fruitbeforefeast to avoid famine.
Replacing scriptures with speakers is the problem. Going into the scriptures with expectation and hope is healthy. Going to watch a speaker with expectation and hope is just setting yourself up for a major whipping. Your only supposed to open yourself up and be vulnerable with Christ in your personal time. Sunday services are supposed to be confirmation. Thats it. Hyper consumerism in western society sets people up to expect to be catered to. But when a corrupt, no good, lack of character person uses the good name of a political party, an activist movement or a religious denomination to cater to themselves it is a huge offense. They throw these people out in other religions or they boycott or tell on them. Thats why brian carn has had to build his way back up because somebody has had the good sense to use the tool of rebuke the right way.
I am a therapist and I’m watching this to help my clients! Thank you!!
I'm watching from the Sunshine coast Australia 🌞😎🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺
Thank You God for My Healing in my mind and heart ❤ because of Past church hurt.
WOW! This was soooo powerful. In full blown tears, I walked away from a church I went to where abuse was so normalized. I submitted thinking I simply had to endure for the greater good but after 9 years I left. Once I left I was shamed, that I had not finished my commission there and prophets would send messages to me I would come back in a horrible state humbled. I have struggled for months with extreme guilt and shame (To be clear I did not walk away from God; just changed churches). I was in a place where I experienced abuse in more ways I can express as a former worship leader. The guilt has not allowed me to move forward, I have felt like I've disappointed God to the extreme by leaving that church. My mental health was deuterating so profoundly I was scared what would become of me if I remained in a place of constant humiliation and manipulation. Hearing that prayer at the end was soo refreshing and life giving, like I actually have a chance to heal from all I experienced. I want to be free from all the PTSD and lack of trust I have in spiritual leaders and the prophetic. Please pray for me!!
So glad we are finally normalizing therapy and counseling
Thank you for your ministry! 🙌
Hello from Pure Freedom Ministries Alaska Training Centre in Anchorage, AK! This is so needful and good!
Thank you thank you for dealing with this..leaders sweep certain things under the carpet yet its soo common among us as believers..so thank you..thank you..I was a victim..left that church but still standing for Jesus..of course I joined another church
Therapy can fix a lot. God also gave us therapists for the perfection of the Saints.
Thank you. 🤎 Therapy is necessary for many. Those of us submitted to Christ are here to serve. Former pastor's wife/first lady and trained, certified I/O psychologist-positive applied psychologist specifically called and trained to help with church leaders. Reach out: cheryl-carr.clientsecure.me/
It is helpful.
Amen Thank You.. ❣❣❣
Awesome teaching. It's very rich and enlightening.🔥🔥‼‼
Amen I say all the time to focus on Jesus only, that is what I do and I don't have stress, I'm happy and grateful 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Awesome I love Isaiah 💕
Thank you Lord for helping us to understand and for letting us know we can recover. In Jesus name I am no longer "stuck" or immobile
Awesome Teaching!
I'm so glad I read the ebook on Healing Church Hurt. I highly recommend it. 🌞😊
Great messages deep information
That is a very great Word Ryan 🙏🙏
Hello from Pittsburgh...this is so needed! Thank you...
Thank you Jesus! Very very timely!!!
Thank you for making these teachings available. God bless you.
Church cliquiness creates big problems in Churches 🙏🙏🙏
So good! I needed this, God bless you all.
Hey Apostle Ryan
Apostle, thank you so much. God Bless you. And the Men and women of God. We Need this Teaching, God Bless you All 💝
Wonderful teaching. Thank you for caring for the body of Christ! Blessings to you both men of God
Thank you for giving so much time and attention to this topic. It was so good.
Thank you Lord!!!
Thank you!
I am so grateful for what we are about to learn. May God bless you for addressing this
I now see how I have played a part in hurting others.
Powerful!
Speak on it!!!🔥🔥🔥
What is your view on EMDR in counseling as a method for working through Trauma? Ex. Domestic violence... PTSD
Teach Pastor
Be honest with yourself 🙏🙏
Good Morning
Barbados
Mature in my thinking 🤔
Post traumatic spiritual disorder, wow!
WOW amen
Fruit speaks of character. Fruitfulness speaks of good works. If a pastor a preacher or a singer does not have a loving joyful peaceful good kind character or demeanor, you are not obligated to listen to them. Fellowship is supposed to be with people you like not with mean not nice unlikable people. The 9 fruit test is the first thing you should do, especially with leadership. Corrupt clergy members are the ones that hurt congregations. Wolves posing as shephards and sheep.
People go to random churches out of assumptions and obligation and if they dont know scriptural definitions they might feel forced to sit and listen to a lack of character person, for no good reason.
Look at the fruit of the tree first. Before you eat it. #fruitbeforefeast to avoid famine.
Awesome
Sometime it’s a soul tie that needs to be severed.
Replacing scriptures with speakers is the problem. Going into the scriptures with expectation and hope is healthy. Going to watch a speaker with expectation and hope is just setting yourself up for a major whipping. Your only supposed to open yourself up and be vulnerable with Christ in your personal time. Sunday services are supposed to be confirmation. Thats it. Hyper consumerism in western society sets people up to expect to be catered to. But when a corrupt, no good, lack of character person uses the good name of a political party, an activist movement or a religious denomination to cater to themselves it is a huge offense. They throw these people out in other religions or they boycott or tell on them. Thats why brian carn has had to build his way back up because somebody has had the good sense to use the tool of rebuke the right way.