Chim Npaum Twg Los Kawg Zam Txim. 2/1/2023
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- Chim Npaum Twg Los Kawg Zam Txim.
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Wow muaj kj ib leeg xb o tij laug aw👍👍👍👍👍👍
Wow what an amazing story. Trust is essential in a marriage. And sometimes forgiveness is needed as well. I’m glad things worked out for you and your wife. May your love for eachother continue to grow
You’re a good and forgiving man! Listen to yourself only, your parents and family will not endure this pain than you and your kids. I applaud you for having such a big heart. Glad you’re able to save your marriage.
A real man with a good heart! I’m so glad you save your marriage in that way. Thank you for sharing your story.
Lub pau m tiag2 ua ho zam tau txim ma
Tus tub aws koj xaiv yog lawm, peb cov niam tsev hmoob ces yeej xaiv li koj xaiv kom peb cov txiv tsev muaj niam yau ob peb tug mam.
Pab koj tu siab kawg tab si xav txog thaum peb cov txiv neej khiav mus yuav niam yau lawm ce yeej mob cov poj niam lub siab ntsau ntuj nti li koj ntag qhov zoo yog kom txiv neej poj niam txhob ua li tej me nyuam thiaj li tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab ntshaw niam txiv txoj kev hlub
You’re a good man, god bless your soul.
Koj yog ib tug phab ej zoo tshaj li os
Yog kawg txoj kev tu siab yeej tu siab tiag7. Txawj tu me7 xwb los yeej tu lawm.
May you and your wife's love continue to grow. May you find forgiveness in your heart for yourself and for her. May you be able to let the past hurt go and focus on the future with her and your children. It was painful Amberg she left the 1st time. Wishing you both all the best.
Thaum koj laus zog koj yov rov mob siab
dua mog vim tsuas lawm
Thank you for being such a wonderful man and a role model to all men. Sometimes your spouse has mental illness that you just need to be their rock and support them in that journey. God bless his patience and forgiveness.
Ua tsaug rau tus txiv tsev txoj kev zam txim os.
Remember, once they cheated on you they’ll do it again and again and again. If she truly loves you, she would’ve never left you in the first place. Unless there’s another side of the story we didn’t know about. But as always, when you love someone you have to learn to let them go.
One thing lots of Mhong men don’t know. The art of love making. Master it and half of the marital drama will be gone.
The other side of the story was that he was a non communicative person when it came to their disagreements. He used to shut her out as he revealed it in the story that led to her leaving him.
Koj tso hwjchim zoo thiab yog kawg lawm os muab cov menyuam ua neb lub teeb ci nawb mog.
Thov kom neb ob leeg sib2 hlub Mus kom kawg es ua tau ib qho kev rau sawvdaws kawm os thov qhuas neb ob leeg nawb mog
Pau yauv mj lm o tu siab zoo li kj
Tiam 21 no si zam txim lo zoo thiab ma
Tau ib tus pojniam los yog ib tus txiv coj tsis tus ces yeej kawg nyuaj siab. Glad you have happy ending. Thank for sharing.
Forgiveness is to set your free from your own prisoner. Glad you forgive and vuag koj family. No matter what others say. Zoo siab rau neb os.
Koj yog ib tug txiv siab zoo heev li os cov txiv tsev siab zoo2 li no tsis muaj tsuas muaj koj thiaj zam txim tsis tsuav qub lus rau koj tus poj niam xwb sib2 hlub nawb mog
Me nus hlub koj heec
I wish that we all knew if someone doesn’t love us anymore then we have to let go. It’ll hurt but looking back 10 years from now you’ll understand why things happen the way they did. However, good luck to you both.
Never look back to a toxic relationship. If he just doing it for the children, shame on him and what a loser. This guy is a swinger.
I was with a man like you, that doesn’t communicate when he’s upset like you for weeks at a time. It’s heartbreaking to see and deal with over years, it takes a toll on you emotionally. It is like you are living with a ghost that you know that’s there and won’t speak but there’s nothing you can do. I’m sure She loves you very much and her kids to come back to you after realizing that this was more important to her than what she chose temporarily. She made mistakes due to your emotional baggage on her and I’m glad you are the bigger person to learn from this and move forward with her. I despise hearing how Hmong guys cheat but won’t take the wife back if they do. I wish you both the best and please when the worse thoughts comes, you need to be the bigger person and try to put it past you both for a better quality of life with each other. Remember you and your kids suffering when she was gone, everyone deserves second chances. I’m sure she’s a great wife still if she’s willing to make it work with you. Good luck
May after telling this story you can double it again, your man can forget it again and again!!..👍👍👍👏👏👏
Good for you. You had to do what you needed to do. However, you can only speak for yourself. Your situation worked out because your wife wanted to change too. For many hmoob men and women in these stories, there are repeat offenders. You can not be serious enough to ask them to forgive. That's bull st!
Pain is pain, ofenders both men and women. The offender needs to know that they, too, have to answer for their actions.
Tu txiv neej siab zoo heev li os thov qhua Tu txiv tsev no
Nyob me ka ko zoo kawg li poj niam muaj nqi kawg thiab os
Kj yg ib tus txiv tsev siab loj tshaj li o ua tsaug qhov kj tseem zam txim rau kj tus poj niam o
Great story. Kawg sib zam txim.
Zoo kawg nkaus, Koj Yog tus Txiav txim siab tau zoo kawg nkaus, Tabsis Koj tus me Niam tsev los Nws Rov los hlub Koj. Haus Ntshav Ua lub Cim Coglug Yog qhov tseeb2, Hmoob tus Vaj Rov los rau hauv Hmoob lawm vim Yog kev Coglug thiab
Right to do @ the right moment. What a huge selfless sacrifice I can never imagine that l could the same. Hats off to you bro.
Too soon to tell.
Good for you brother. You truly loved your wife. She is so blessed to have you. But she has the guilt so she fears about your marriage together but you are truly big heart to of stick her side all these years.
No doubt
When a woman takes a cheater back, people (here) calls her weak and says she doesn't need a man to live. But when a man takes a cheater back, people calls him a good and real man and that this is a good love story. Lol.
Tell me about it. lol double standard.
Also, when a man cheated on the woman, they want the woman to be patient and take him back. When a woman cheated on the man, they wanted him to kick her to the curb. Such hypocrite.
@@likely89appleJuice of course. Such hypocrites. Cheaters are cheaters and cheating shouldn't be tolerated no matter the gender. I never support cheaters, whether men or women. And i never support the victim to take or tolerate the cheater, men or women. But thanks for pointing that out.
There's is no equity in a Hmong marriage. If you want equality then start by getting rid of dowry and vauv & pij laj having to bow on their knees then yea I can see it working out.
Yeej yog kev mob siab kawg os.. tabsis yog zam tau txim ces kawg uv tsuav menyuam zoo siab os. Peb ua niam ua txiv ces txhua yam yeej poob los rau yus txoj kev uv thiab mob siab..
Interesting 🤔
Zam Txim tau mas tabsi si seb koj puas paub mob xwb thiab yog Tsis paub mob ces zam Txim tau kawg good luck.
Good story. I would do the same thing you do brother. When you really love someone you willing to forgive. That's true love.
Hell no I would never forgive a cheating wife.. once a cheater will always be a cheater especially if the marriage have no downfall!! Let the sllutt go lol
It’s your life, your choice. No one gets to tell you what to do. Please know that you have a very loving and forgiving heart. I wish you the best.
Good stories. Yog txhua tus yeej zam tau txim li koj ces yuav tsis muaj kev sib nrauj li tiag
Interesting story. You have a big heart in order to forgive your spouse. In my own assumption, I'm thinking maybe you weren't there for your wife emotionally. That's probably why she cheated. But that's not an excuse to cheat though. What you both can learn from this is that communication, compromising, and sacrifice is key to a well-rounded relationship and marriage.
Brother, you are a good man. You deserve a good woman. Please have respect for yourself and let this woman go. Her heart is not with you. You are only hurting yourself and wasting your time. One day, she's going to do it again.
Exactly! She don’t deserved your love.
One day when kids are accomplished and out, he will be the one to leave. That’s the nature of men (hmoob men for sure). She will realize then that she chose wrong to come back and that haus ntshav tes ain’t helping.
He did and is doing all the could to keep how now, but he will do all he can to punish her when she’s is no longer needed.
@@xayxiong1061 As a Human been have feeling of sibaim to keep the marriage together thats 100% true....We all have our own HEART to SAVE OUR LIFE....
I agree. This guy is good but pathetic. I don't think you're at the point of forgiveness yet. I didn't hear what's the problem was or the root cause. You need to figure that out before any forgiveness is given otherwise thus issue will continue to escalate. Moving to a different city is not the issue. The problem remain within both of you. Good luck. Until death do you part.
I am glad you are honest with your opinion. I agreed.
It's good to forgive but it's impossible to forget, unless you lose your mind. But some things are unforgivable.
Qhov uas nej cov txij nkawm hmoob meska pheej sib tua lo vim yog poj niam siab dev siab nyoos ntxeev siab li koj zaj no ntag os
Every marriage is different because every couple is different in their personalities, love level, and views on life. Some mistakes can be forgiven if there's still love between the couple and if the offender is truly repentant and wants to fix things for the better. If both partners agree to move forward after an affair and want success in their reconciliation, both partners must do their part: the offender must not offend again and the forgiver must not hold the offense against the offender by bringing it up every time there's a fight. Making a marriage happy and successful is hard work...anyone who thinks otherwise is a fool or doesn't care enough about the marriage or their partner's happiness. As for the blood drinking thing...that's taking it way too far, and based on many stories out there---a bad decision ultimately!
Cov txiv neej uas zam tau txim li ko ces 100% no tsuas muaj 5% thiaj li zam tau xwb .
There's no such thing kho siab. Every man and woman only kho qi.
Tus txiv tsev aw!! Thov qhuas koj
Koj hlub koj tus poj niam kawg tsim nyog hwm koj thiab qhuas koj
Peb ua neeg nyob yog yus zam txim lawm yuav tsum coj li koj hais no mas thiab tsim nyog hwm thiab nyoo
Muaj ib co txiv neej mas thaum tus poj niam tsim txiaj los yeej saib tsis rau nqi
Thaum tus poj niam yuam kev lawm hais tias zam txim no los niaj hnub muab tsim xwb qhov no puas yog kev zam txim .
Tu siab dhau lawm os mog, Nws raug tus Nyab Laj Ua khawv Koob rau nws lawm os mog tus me phooj Ywg
Niam dab laug koj txawj hais kawg wb ob niam Txiv xav mloog koj hais xwb os
haus ntshav tes lawm los saum neej no neb tseem ntxeev siab tau. Hnub twg tuag kiag thiaj ntxeev siab tsis tau lawm xwb
Tus kwv tij aw!!!! Ua tsaug rau koj zaj no nawb , zoo ib lub tswv yim heev hnov xwb mob kuv siab kawg tab si koj muaj zoo tswv yim kawg li ua taug rau koj nawb!!!!!
G tau mloog tiamsi...1-2 zaug zam txim tau. Tiamsi zaum 3 yog txhob txwm ces zam tsis tau lawm.
I’m glad you were able to keep the family together, and I’m definitely glad for the children. Yes, we should forgive each other, but all you did was fixed the symptom, not the illness. You have to have communication and talk about everything. Just ignoring it will only bring you resentment. See how she wanted to leave again recently and you just tried to cover it up yet again.
Yog kawg lawm thiab os tu me txiv tsev aw
Forgiveness is key as long as you can tolerate the dirty things she did. You deserve better bro, just letting you know.
Cheating is not a mistake it is a choice!! I think only a few men and women can truly forgive a spouse for cheating the majority will only at the moment say they forgive. I am glad you were able to come back and make it work, but haus ntshav tes won't save your marriage, only true forgiveness and love will.
I always support people's decisions to either forgive and move on together or splitting and going their own ways. Know that when you forgive a cheater, you will always worry knowing that this person once cheated and may cheat again at anytime. Only strong people can forgive and move on together! I am not that strong.
I hold too much resentment, I can’t forgive a cheater. I can’t wake up next to him anymore because I would want to punch him.
I'm speechless! You are one in a million! I hope your marriage lasts n that she doesn't cheat on you again.
Oh, she will. Just a matter of time when another man comes along.
They're older now since the kids are in their 20's. I'd say she's staying after having drank blood.
Poj niam aws tiam neej no ces ntshe koj yuav nrhiav tsi tau ib tug txiv neej lub siab zoo2 li koj tus txiv lawm os mog poj niam aws txhob vwm2 rau hluas nraug os mog kev plees yeej mus tsi txog twg li os
Brother ntshe tsuas muaj Koj ib tus lawm xwb thiaj li ua tau li ko. You’re a good man
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Wow you the best bro❤❤❤
Wow, you are a kind person. Forgiveness is good on your behalf but she also have to learn from her mistakes as well.
Wow u got a big heart to forgive your wife, if it was me nope. I couldnt.
But yet most women forgive men who cheat all the time…
Does that mean women have the biggest hearts than men?? Lol
Tseem muaj tej tus txiv neej siab zoo zoo lis no thiab ntuj aw
If you ever are homeless and don't have an address, there's a federal law called McKinney Vento Act that enable you to enroll your kids immediately without proof of address, immunization records, or any paper needed to enroll. Each district is mandated to have a McKinney Vento Liaison, so ask for that person if you ever run into this problem.
Mloog Yawg Bwb No Ua Rau Kuv Ntshav Siab
You have a good big heart
You do truly love her
Forgiveness can only be earned....not given... forgive but never will forget... once a cheater..will always be a cheater... cheaters...will never rest in Peace...I Pitty the idiots, who cheats on their spouses...THEY WILL NEVER REST IN PEACE....
Ua tib neeg tsi muaj hlwb ce yog lawm
Forgive and forget they say. Of course it's easy to forgive, but you'll never forget. It's proven in this story, that's why he's sharing, cause he can't forget but just forgive. And taking someone by running away and thinking everything well get better, it doesn't. It's clearly shown that even after you took her and the family and lived elsewhere, her heart is still somewhere else and she's still not happy with you. Stop being in denial that forgiveness is what holds you two together and drinking blood.. that's just dumb. Desperate is what it is. Love yourself and your family, learn to let the other person go and let them be happy. If it comes back and your still available and still feel the same for that person, then it's ment to keep, then you can forgive them. But don't threat or take them away.. cause sooner or later, they're just going to resent you more and repeat. She kept on using the "what if you can't forgive me" as an excuse to look for a way out. She clearly feel sorry for you but is still not happy with you. Good luck.
Tus poj niam no yog ib tug poj niam muaj hmoo tshaj plaws li nawb yog ib tug poj niam es vwm rau txoj kev plees xwb ces yeej mus tsi txog qhov twg li os
In every way she wins but it’s good because your kids are happy and not miserable.
😢😢😢 sad hurt .. but thankful for the end that there is some forgiveness and save your marriage
A cheater will always be a cheater. She will cheat on you again…kids will grow up, but your heart will hurt forever…when you show that you’re a weak man, a woman will step all over you. You are one in a thousand. good luck…!!!
You are 100% right ,this dude is dumb 🙄 she will cheat again
Hais vaj kub neb Zaj thiab Mas Xa paub kawg
thaum pojniam kho 2 siab nyuaj 2 siab ces yog pojniam ntxeev siab ua siab dub es nws thiaj li tsis xav nrog yus sib hlub lawm mas.
Zoo heev li os koj thiaj yog tus txiv siab zoo os
You are a good man and forgive your wife, but sometimes you have to learn to let them go when they dont love you no more... can't force someone to love you when they don't.
ntshai tsam muaj ib hnub twg nws khiav koj xwb los mas me koj txiv aw.
Qub neeg qub siab. Tej zaum koj tus wife niaj hnub xav txog mus hriav tus yob ob ceg loj tshaj koj. Koj yog ib tus siab ntev kawg li os.
Koj ua yog kawg lawm tiab sis kuv xav muab koj lub siab hlais pov tseg vim poj niam phem heev
I love this story..
Don't love this story and do like her because your husband might not be like this guy.
Neb yeej neb TUS yeeb ncuab lawm mog thaum twg nws los ua rau neb tsis xav sib yuav ces thov Vajtswv pab neb neb thiaj yuav yeej neb tus dab phem ntawv nawb
If they both are fine with it. Everything will be O.K. What they do in their relationship is nobody business. In this country every person is for themselves.
Txiv dev tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws li koj ces mob tsis tau txaus os. Good luck
Nyablaj siv tshuaj 6 koj pojniam ces nws tso tsi taus lawv tseg lawm.
she found the bling bling and she doesn't want back. good luck brother
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Koj tsis muaj siab ntsws.
Cov txiv zoo li no nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no ntshai tsuas muaj koj xwb pob.
I mean it's a mix feeling for this story. I guess alot of people don't have common sense. Common sense is so rare that very few people have it.
I understand that marriage isn't perfect, but cheating is the lowest form of a COWARD who can't challenge life. All the degrees, but still no wisedome is a horrible trait to have 🤔🤔🤔🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
You have done almost everything right except maybe in the bedroom. Until you two have reached the state of nirvana marriage is still hanging in the balance. Glad you have a happy ending.
Hmong men have affairs all the time and the women always forgive them time after time. I’m glad you were able to forgive your wife and save your marriage.
Lol! So that makes it right for women to do it? Wrong is wrong regardless of gender.
@@misstaytay9694 My point is about forgiveness not that it's okay to cheat.
actually just say it goes both ways 😆 🤣 😂
@@misstaytay9694 ะ
Tus poj niam ntxeev siab koj tseem txau siab nrog nws hau nrhav tes cas yuav txhawb ua luaj hauv ntiaj teb no tsi muaj poj niam lawm los cas.
I can tell you’re a good husband, but from your wife’s side I can tell she does not love you truly if she did she wouldn’t treat you this way. Good luck to you both.
Respect to you for always being there for your kids but for me I don’t think I could ever take back a woman who betrayed me. She left you and the kids and thought about her own happiness and eventually got nowhere. I could never take someone back that selfish, EVER!
Agreed, let the maum dev go and see how far she goes in life. Men like this dude is too soft heart, put the 🐈 high on the pedestal.
Same. It’s hard to live with someone that betrayed you. I can’t do it.
I think it's a great thing you can forgive her so many times.
But honestly, she will never fully love you. Maybe the 1st time was a mistake but the 2nd time wanting to leave you is not.
she drank blood with you just to lock YOU in. she didn't drink blood because she loves you so much.
I'm happy for you guys right now. But I think something else will happen because she's not that into you. She's waiting for the perfect opportunity to come up. The Vietnamese guy wasn't good enough. But maybe the next one she meets will be enough to truly leave you.
When someone don't want to be with you anymore, you shouldn't force them. I feel you forced her in a way.
But I wish you both the best