7 Leej Ntxhais Txoj Kev Tu Siab. 5/20/2024
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This story is pathetic. 7 daughters received no love and respect for their father yet they pushed their mother right back to the pathetic man she tried to get away from. This shows no courage of these 7 daughters. Why not choose a different route like mus ntseeg Vaj Tswv and not make your mom end up back with the man who divorce her and not care for you the daughters. How sad and disappointing. Once divorced why do women think they lawv yuav mus ua nplas. It's a system created by men to scare women. Why not stand strong and change. Do better for your mom. Pave the road for women.
agreed, women must fight for equal rights if they wanted. they wouldn't know what to do if rights were given to them easily. in a way, the daughters are to blame for not speaking up and stand their grounds.
Tus siab kawg. Your dad made the biggest mistakes of his life for divorcing your mother and you girls. Girls love parents more than boys for sure. Please don’t love your father whatever he tries to reason with you girls. He knows exactly what he did. He’s getting old and realizing girls are the best since his boys are not accepting him in their life. Love your mom to the fullest. If your dad’s boys love him, he will never think of you girls. KARMA on him.
A father who disowns his daughters when they needed him the most does not deserve to be loved. He only wanted you and your sisters back in his life because he didn’t get the love he needed during his old dying years. If his sons loved him, he would never asked you and your sisters back.
You all should stay firm in your decision to show your father and the men out there that this is what happens when they don’t love their own flesh and blood daughters. How sad.
Niam laus aws … your story is a common hmong story. You are not alone. I am a middle daughter of six girls. Kev txom nyem qhia peb ua peb lub neej kom txhob zoo lis peb niam peb txiv. Tab si no peb cov mes nyuam tsis muaj kev txom nyem thiaj tsis muaj kev ntsaws lub neej zoo vim peb ua lub neej tsis txom nyem.
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Tej tus txiv ko nkim lus nrog tham po
As daughters none of you owe ur father nothing..he abandoned all of u for a new punani it's called karma..he deserves all the BS he gets..
There is 7 of you!! Why can’t someone open their mouth and speak up man! Don’t give it all to your brothers?!! There is 7 of you and only of 2 step brothers. Man! What a waste of money to help your brothers. Your brothers must be happy. Lesson learn. Don’t get used!!
Your father’s wife should apologize for not letting your father to love you guys. She forbid him to see you guys, she needs to appreciate.
Txom nyem los tsis quav ntsej txog vim Leej txiv yeej yeem txom nyem ne es nej tu siab tsis txaus los cas nej tseem pheej xav pom ib tug neeg Liam li nej txiv na
Me ntxhais aw nej tsuas nrog nej ruam xwb nej yeej tsis muaj cai tuaj ua rau nej txiv lawm na
I agreed with those ending questions. I always wonder why too. Hmong tradition to have boys doesn't make sense to me for this generation. Girls most likely have higher education, are successful, and are more independent than boys nowadays. The dad ua tau khib neeg kawg and it's common sense for the step brothers to split up or give all to the sisters if they didn't pitch in. They are taking advantage of the sisters and it's an excuse to say the cousin didn't tell us to split. That is BS!
Don’t waste any more money for your half brothers and their mother when their mother die. Only love those who love you. Your sisters are the only ones, after your mother, who will love and care about you.
Koj cov nus niam yau yug tsuas txiav lawv txoj kev xwb. Thaum twg lawv niam tuag ces tso rau lawv nej tsis txhob mus pab lawm vim pab los yeej tsis muaj nqi rau lawv. Nej yim pab ntau lawv yim zoo siab tab sis lawv yeej tsis hlub nej.
Lab twb yuav show tias lawv haib no es lawv show lawv mas! Lawv nyiaj xwb tsis yog yus nyiaj os.😂
I’m sorry but I would not have helped with the funeral…..
lessons learned. should've not wasted a cent for the funeral. shameless sons like the father.
Thov mej cov ntxhais moog mloog zaaj nkauj hu ua
(Hluas nkauj Hmoob lub kua muag). Yuav txaus tu mej sab.
Tus ntxhais aws txhob tu siab os ♥ nej poob nyiaj rau nej txiv lawm yeej tau koob hmoov ntau lawm xwb, cov nus ces tsuas tau qhov me 2ntawm xwb os.
Nej cov ntxhais twb tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws nej tsi thas muab nej lub neej tuaj piav2 rau ntiajteb hnov. Nej yeej txaus2 siab tawm nyiaj tha nej txiv kom nej tau ntsejmuag, kom cov kwvtij qhuas nej ces txhob txawj tu siab tias nej tsis laib cov nyiaj tshav ntuj. No sympathy here.
Exactly! Don’t know why she’s complaining
Ruam ua luaj. Tseem poob nyiaj rau ib tug txiv zoo lis no thiab.
lawv muaj nyiaj siv tsis tas pub rau neeg pab siv xwb
Your brothers acquired your dad’s entitlement mentality and it burned him in the end. Sorry to hear the heartbreak that you and your mom and sisters had to endure.
My father loved us girls more than the boys so I wouldn’t understand your yearning for your father’s love. If I were you, I would forgive him but I wouldn’t treat him like a father and do his funeral. Well, if you can forgive him then power to you! He only asked for forgiveness because his sons are losers. You and your sisters were his last hope and resort. Nej ruam zog lawm!
They mistreated you girls, but when you don't speak up, it's your fault. Like them OGs saying, Noj tsis taug, yuav tuag. Hais tsis taug, yuav swb. Should've never helped that txiv dev father of yours.
Pheej hais cov Neej neeg Hmong Niam hlob niam yau, ntxub Hmong lub niag neej no heev lawn, yuan Tsi mloog lawn os.
Ua cas nej thiaj yuav mus poob $10,000 nas pab $5,000 li nej txiv nuab rau nej xwb pob tim nej siab zoo dhaula2m os..
Kuv ces g muaj hmoo li os
Kuv los ua nyab rau lawv tsev hmoob ces niam pog nkauj muam lawv yeej G nyiam kuv li os uadab g los txhaum tej muam tas ua dab g los niam pog G nyiam li hais dab tsi mas niam pog hiav nti dub nciab rau yus xwb yeej G hais ib lo lus zoo rau yus li tam sim no kuv los yug tau 2 ntxhais lawm tsis tau tau tib li es twb hnov lawv cem2 yus rau luag tej tias yog yus yug tus thib 3 no tseem G yog tub thiab ces kom yus txhob yug lawm no ...yus ces nim tu2 siab os tsam rov yug tau ntxhais ntshe lawv yuav kiag ib tus niam yau rau yus tus txiv li os
Sister cas nej tseem yuav lees tha koj txiv thiab nas peb cov ntxhais ces yeej meem txav kom deb deb ntawm lub ntees tsis yog peb li hauj lwm mas lo
Lawv xav show tias lawv haib na has 😂
Do not even need to ask that question. A lesson to most Hmong daughter who soft heart do like this sisters does. Tus Pham tsis muaj txiv lawm los tsheej pham phoob Nyiaj mus tham lawm thiab. The unfortunate Hmong daughters.
Niam tshuag teej peb hmo ntub es nes ntuab hnub los
Me ntxhai aws uaca kuv yuav nrog nej tu siab ua luaj nej txiv mas yeej muaj lub siab phem tiag tiag lis txiv neej hmoob yog siab phem npaum kos tsi txhob yug los nyob hauv VAJTSWV daim av hauv ntiajteb no tsi tsim nyog los ua neej nyob hauv ntiajteb no nyav av xwb os me ntxhai. Tsi txhob tu siab mog nej yog. Ib cov me ntxhai ntxim hlub heev mog.uaca nej yuav ruam ualuaj tsi coj nej niam mus ntseeg VAJTSWV nej niam twb txom txom nyem es tsi cia nej niam mus qhov chaws tau zoo es tseem cia nej niam mus rau tom DAb teb qhov chaws txom nyem thiab
Txawm zoo li cas los Yeej Yog nej txiv. It’s ok to love him a little bit so u don’t get karma. Our dad is the same and we still do stuff for him because he once in a life time was a good father to us before he married his 2nd wife. Phem thiab zoo los yog nej txiv. Muaj nej txiv thiaj li muaj nej.
Poj niam yeej muaj nuj nqis tshaj li os tsuas yog txiv neej tsis nyoo poob ntsej muag xwb mas. Neeg ntiaj teb tsuas hais lo lus tias niam dej, niam av, niam tsev. Poj ntxoog los twb tseem yog poj lawm thiab ne 😂😂😂 peb cov ntxhais txhob tu siab kiag nawb 😊
tsis txhob tu siab os mog cov me ntxhais koob hmoov poob rau nej lawm os cov tub lawv ces tsuas tau cov nyiaj tshav ntuj ntawv lawm xwb os
Kuv tsis paub tias ib tsoom Txiv neej xav li cas ntawm kuv tus kheej kuv xav tias peb Txiv neej peb tawm ntawm tus poj niam los peb yuav tsum hlub peb tus poj niam
Nrog nej tu siab kawg yog kuv ces kuv yeej tsis lam poob ib lub npib liab rau nws kiag li. Cia nws cov tub mam ua xwb.
Ruam tshaj plaws lub qab ntuj ces sau nthwv rau nej rov mus khiav tsev neeg dev liam ko dab tsi naw tsis tim leej li tim nej roj kev ruam xwb os lawv. U niam tuag tag ces tso plhuav tes dhia xwb mas tsis ua 10 nyuag txhiab xwb ua ntia rau ho nej txiv dev ntawv txhob xav tias yog nus nej yeej tsis muaj nws kav tsij khiav kom deb2 tsam lwm hnub tseem yuav tuaj qev tuaj txais nej naw muab lawb mis nawb
Done with this hmoob story.
So sad… Im from a family of all daughters as well. I can related.
Wow koj txiv cov tub tau koj txiv kevHlub tas si tsis tau poob nyiaj faus koj txiv li
Tu siab rau koj txiv, thiab tus coj ntawm nej tsev neej tsa rau lub sij hawm koj txiv tuag nawb.
1. Vim koj txiv tsis hlub nej.
2. Vim tus coj ruam coj tsis ncaj thiaj tsis faib cov nyiaj ko rau nej.
3. Vim niam yau cob qhia kom cov tub tsis txhob faib rau nej.
Lwm hnub niam yau tuag ces nej yeej meem txav kom deb. Cov nej peb tug dab laug mam li pam niam yau.
Yog 3 tug dab laug kom nej pab ces kom muab koj txiv cov nyiaj tshav ntuj rov los faib tag es mam li tham saib haum rau sab twg feem twg.
Yog xav kom tau zoo thiab tau kev hlub ces yuav tsum hlub² tej NXTHAIS. Cov hmoob ua tsis hlub lawv tej ntxhais ces zoo li no. HMOOB RUAM SIAB PHEM!
Zoo li kuv tus niam laus yug g muaj tub es kuv tus txiv laus twb mus yuav niam yau lo yug tau ob tug tub ua tsev zoo rau niam lawv ho kuv tu niam laus thov kom pab ib yam ces yuav tau mus ua txiv laus zog ib hnub mas thiaj kam pab lawv cov niam tub tiam sis nws kuj g muaj hmoo tau tub zog noj thiab ho g pom nws li tub loj es nws ho tuag ua ntej lawm thiab tiag
Txawm yog li ko es kuv thiaj li hais tias xav kom hau lub ntiaj teb no txhob muaj ib tug hais tias yog poj niam li no os rau qhov peb peb cov poj niam twb tsis muaj nqis rau lawv cov txiv neej ib qho luaj txoj plaub hau li nawb mog
I always tell my husband to be blessed with our girls because they’re the ones who’s probably going to love him and take care of his during his golden years
Niag Txiv’s dev aw txhob ntshaw koj cov Ntxhais es koj ntxub os
Lawv leej twg hais rau nej Tias muaj txiv es muaj Kev sab laj naj. Sim neej no kuv yog ib tug neeg muaj txiv txiv os tabsis kuv twb tsi muaj Kev sab laj thiab os. Lub neej tu siab lub neej lwj siab uas tsi muaj Kev kaj siab tsi muaj chaw cia siab tiam no tu tu siab os.
Qhov nej mag nej ces tim nej siab zoo dhau lawm xwb nej twb paub puag thaum lub hauv paus lawm tuas nej txiv tsis hlub no es nej kuj xav tau nws li kev hlub thiab ces kawg nej yeej yuav poob peev xwb mas nej txiv twb tsis hlub nej es nej txiv thiaj li txhia kom nej poob nyiaj es kom nej txiv cov tub thiaj li dim las
Laos culture loves their daughters more than sons. Hmong culture loves their sons than girls. The Lao daughters will take care of their mother and father till they die.
Nej cov kwv tij tsis coj ncaj xwb os. Peb li thaum kuv txiv lawv yeej muab coj los piav tias tau npaum cas thiab yeej muab faib peb 6 leej ib leeg 5k. Tseg qhov ntau rau kuv niam. Kuv tsev neej tsa ua ncaj rau peb cov ntxhais kawg li nawb.
Who’s greedy sons are these 😂😂😂😂😂 what clan
Doesn’t matter the abandoned daughters volunteered and acted rich to buried their evil dad.
Poj niam yeej muaj .nqi tsaj li ma
Im so sad listening to this story. When you said daughters arent important. I am so sad. It is true in the hmong culture.
Words cut deep and now he’s getting a taste of his own cuts. He’s only guilt tripping using his father title cause it has always been all about his selfish self and he’s scared no one will bury him. If his sons loved him, he wouldn’t bat an eye on the girls and will still act the same.
Yg leej txiv g hlub cov ntxhai kj ntxawm poob nyiaj fau lo leej txiv yeej g tseg koob hmoov rau vim leej txiv yeej ib txwm hlub leej twg ce leej txiv tsua tseg rau tu ntawv xb😢
Txhob tusiab nej cov vivncaus twb tau lub neej zoo lawm nej 2 niag nus siab phem ntawv noj tag cov nyiaj tshav ntuj los nkawv yuav tau kua muag iab kua muag daw ev mus 1 txhis xwb nkawv lub neej tsis txog twg tshuav niam yau hnub twg nws tuag nej txhob pab 1 cent li nawb
Txog txij cov tub tsis hlub ces ntshe niam yau thiab txiv yeej phem rau cov tub nyab es lawv twb tu2 siab thiab, tamsi nej cia li ua lawm xwb. Nkawv twb ua tom no puas tag lawm es mam los tom ko xwb.
Cov niag txiv siab phem...siab dub ...thaum nws tsis hlub Luag Niam ..ces cia li tsis hlub tej me nyuam .. thaum yuav Tuag ho ntshaw tej me nyuam kom hlub nws . LIG dhau lawm o lawv ..lub siab twb tu Los lawm btxov
Not every Hmong family is like this. For my family all 12 children shared equally in the cost for our parent’s funeral and shared equally the sunshine money. Our mother taught us to love each other.
They screwed you guys over and over
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Hmong MEN (AKA) Husband why do you resent your daughter's. Don't take life for granted. Love all your children they are a blessing no matter BOY or Girl.
Nej tsuas nros nej ruam ces pab tsis tau...nej pab $10 thousand ua dab tsi nawj...nej 7 leej ntxhais 7 tu nyuj xwb es twb yog nej hlub dhau lawm os....thaum koj txiv nrauj koj niam tas yog nej 7 leej ntxhais tuag tag lo koj txiv yeej tsis khuv xim lo os....
Txij li no mus peb cov ntxhais txhob pab txhob hlub cov niam cov txiv no mus ntxiv lawm vim thaum peb yuav txiv lawv twb sau nqia tas lawm thaum lawv tuag peb tseem pab nyiaj npm li cov tub thb twb tsi tau nyiaj koob hmoov rov qab li thov peb tsi tseg qhov no nawb.nyiaj tshav ntuj cov tub tau kev hlub los cov tub tau thaum tej laus nyob los pab cov nim tub nyab yuav tsev xwb thaum lawv tuag peb cov ntxhais txhob pab li lawm nawb.
Cov xubthawj tuaj yog 1976-77 ntawd lawm os cov 80-81 tej no yog nruab nrab lawm.
I think the reason why Hmong people are this way is because theres no one that is willing to stand up for women's rights. Just like in here in America, until the year 2000's when Americans started recognizing and treating women as equal as men. I believe that if there were someone who stand up for women rights at that time, Hmong people would treat women a lot better then they do today.
Oh hell no! I wouldn’t do nothing!
Tsis muaj kwv tij ntse ces zoo li no o me Ntxhais aw. Thov kom nej cov me ntxhais vauv tau txais koob vim txoj kev coj zoo o mog.
Ntuj aw,!! Thaub siab phem ua cas nub no koj paub ces li lawm
Cov TXIV DEV HMOOB ces paub hlub neeg thiab KHUV XIM neej thaum nws txoj sia yuav tu tsis muaj neeg PAM nws xwb TUAG TSUAG TSUAG MUS kom tag thiaj tsis muaj cov neeg phem lim hiam nyob ntiaj teb lawm
Tug Ntxhai tsi tseem ceeb ces yog koj Txiv cov xwb mo! Luaj tes Ntxhai yeej tseem ceeb ib yaj tes tub tiab mas.
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Kuv tus txiv wb kam yug tau9 leeg ntxhais 1 leej tub xwb tus tub yeej tsis hlub wb li tsuas yog wb cov ntxhais thiaj li hlub xwb os yug ntxhais yog 1 qho zoo dua nawb
Yog vim li cas nej ho tsis hais rau nej txiv kom nws hu nws cov tub tuaj tu nws. Cov nyab tsis tuaj los cov tub yuav tum tuaj xyuas kom tsim nyog qhov nej txiv txoj kev ntshaw tub los pob.
Cas nej tseem yuav rho nyiaj mus pab. Ntxhais qhua ces pab tau li cas ces pab li ntawv xwb. Especially if I didn’t get any love from my dad, there is no way I will contribute any penny!
Sad little mad.
Why do OG or anyone need someone to love them..love yourself 😂😂😂
Love come from different form. It don’t mean material things but love with kinda words and support with encouragement
Cas koj pheej tsis hais niam yau cov menyuam na ??
Daughters are nothing, but in the end when sons don’t love you then you need your daughters to bury you. Hmoob ua neej rov qab ces zoo li no ntag! Tsis tau chaw tuag ces mam paub tias muaj ntxhais. Yog cov tub hlub ces yeej tsis paub tias yug tau ntxhais li mas 😤
Ab hmoob nis
Nej ruam dhau lawm os. I dont feel sorry for you guys. Yus zoo yus siab mus hlub leej txiv siab phem ntawv ces nyob zoo zoo xwb txhob hais hais tsam neeg zej zog tsis yog qhuas nej hos lawv yuab thuam nej xwb. Koj niam mas zoo siab rau nej kawg yom. Cas yuav nkim nws lub zog hlub thiab tu nej ua luaj. Ntshe koj niam yeej yuav tsis los ua dab ntub npau suav rau nej ib tug twg vim nej ruam dhaub lawm. Smh
Sorry to hear your story. Nrog nej tusiab kawg 😭😭😭. Twb yog nej muaj lub siab zoo, nej thiaj tseem hlub tau nej txiv tus siab phem siab tsis zoo uas hlub tsis tau nej thiab muab nej nrauj nrog nej Niam. You know full well that he regretted his mistakes. What a shame and disgrace for your dad, his family and his clan.
Grandmas and grandpas, husbands and wives, ladies and gentlemen let this kind of story teach and change our perspective and perception of our mind in regarding how we should value and treat our wives and children (tsis hais tub losis ntxhais) in this generation and the generations to come.
Alot of Hmong men (including some women themselves) still carry on the legacy of disrespect, devalue, and abuse (hate, mus tham hluas nkauj, tsis hlub tsis pab, nrog rau ntau yam, thiab thaus kawg tseem muab nrauj) their wives and their children. Txog thaum kawg kev tws tseem ua ntev thawjthiab los thov. Xiampiaj tshajplaws. Blessings to my sisters.
Your estranged dad and step brothers just used you and your sisters for your finances. They disrespected you all to the end. Dont know why you sisters still want your dad's love so much to bear the financial burden of burying him and not even hold the step brothers accountable. Just say "NO!" It's not your responsibility, as a daughter. Your dad is dead to you the day he divorced your mom.
Girls are not of any value, but we are more successful than their sons. Lawv tsuas vam peb thaum lawv yuag tuag xwb. Pab tsis tau.
Xubtubpim txiv quavdev.
Hehdhe! Tsis muaj nuj nqis ces zoo los mab cas nej pheej xav kom nej muaj tsheej tog nqi xwb nas. Nej txiv ces yog ib niag neeg kob huam liam txwv xwb os. A man of dead brain.
Xav tias pab niag maum kuag twb mag nrauj tag lawm no es pab niag maum kuag no pheej tseem rov mus cuam tshuam thaub laus lub neej ne? Confused!🤔
You 8 chics got dumped, why are all still revolving around the old guy who wanted nothing to do with you? Y’all must mentally restarted
Pab niag maum kuag ruam.
Cov niag Ntxhais ruam aw cas Tseem los tha tus niag Txiv dev no os
Nej tsuas nruam nej ruam
Agreed 💯
Nej tsuas nrog nej ruam es nej tseem ntshaws pob niag nyiaj kuas muag kos thiab os cov me ntxhais nej ua liskos ce cov niag txiv neej hmoob siab phem thiaj saib tsi tau cov ntxhais ntag lawv yeej paub hai tia cov niag ntxhai no ce muab nyiaj muas lawv xwb ce lawv yuavtsum rovlos hlub thiab faus nws xwb no tiag.hai txog koobhmoob ntawm nej txiv ce nej tsua tau kev tu siab xwb. tiamsi ntawm TUS TSWV NTUJ UAS NCAJNCEES TSIM TIBNEEG nej yuav tau thiab yog nej paub nws zoo vim nws yeej paub tus neeg siab phem tus neeg siab zoo nws foom nws txoj koobhmoov rau cov neeg ua zoo xwb.
Why would you pay for your dads funeral? You owe him nothing so please don’t come here telling your story. Very disappointing
The daughters helped for good grace so one day they won’t receive any karma. Karma is a bi***!
Why accept $5000 from your dad exchange for funeral expenses. STUPID!!!!!! I would not do that. Who care!!!!
Peb hmoob ces luag twb tsi hlub yus li los cas xyov pheej xav2 pam neeg li es
Your father does not deserve ur love. He abandoned u all when u needed him most, so u girls owe him nothing. Just let him be & dont communicate with him.
Koj niam pub xwb lawv thiaj li tsis hlub luag hais tias khoom tau dawb ces tsis khuv xim yog khoom popb nyiaj thiaj li muaj nqi thiab khuv xim! Yuav tau sau nyiaj me me mam phij cuam rov qab yeej tsis ua li cas!
Ntuj aw..kuv yog nej mas coj nej niam mus church xwb tsis tha ntshaw lawv lub niag xeem Kom tau chaw tuag na cov sister aw...cas nej tseem yuav mus ua li koj txiv muaj ntsej muag na
Because they are all restarted
Lawv xa tau lub npe tias lawv yog ntxhais tamsi lawv keej tshaj no ma. Xav tau koob npe ne
Twb tsis hlub yus ces tsis xav tuag ua nws niag pojniam os thov kom lwm tiam txhob sib ntshib cas tseem tuag ua nws neeg.
You girls were too nice. He only came back for you because he didn’t get the love. He was expecting from his sons if he were to get the law that he expected from them, he would not look twice your way. Hmong people need to change their thoughts about loving their sons more than their daughters because nowadays, it seems like the daughters do more for their parents.