Why Western Men Are Manipulated By Thai Women
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ต.ค. 2021
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I always tell my Thai gf that anything under $100 is no problem, but anything higher I have to ask my wife.
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So funny, I almost spilled my coffee. Do I have your permission to use that line?
@@stevekostakis2983 go for it.
You mean your first ex-wife or the second one or maybe the third ex-wife
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If you're ignored back home, and you're suddenly a star in Thailand, be prepared to pay a lot one way or another.
“Don’t Buy the Buffalo!” … That should be a t-shirt! 😀😀😀🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭😀😀😀
I am a Thai woman who has viewed comments talking about Thai women. I want to tell everyone that everywhere there are good and bad women, it just depends on where you choose to go. If you move to a new destination, you may find the person you are looking for.
จริงเห็นด้วยค่ะ 👍🏻 ผู้ชายต่างชาติก็ต้องพิจารณามองตัวเองด้วยว่าทำไมถึงดึงดูดผู้หญิงที่หลอกเงินเขา
Some losers only meet these poor women at bars and when it turned out that they wanted money, they claimed every Thai women are bad😂 They can’t pull normal educated women. They can’t even pull women from their own country.
Yes bla bla but you know the TRUE!
@@carolinaramirez3686 😂😂
Most expats I think go to Pattaya, Phuket and Sukumvit. And I bet those places have got more rotten apples than the average Thai city. 😂
Well said brother! I agree with you on it all completely. Just be easy on Tim.
Been married for almost 8 years to a wonderful Thai lady who lives with me in Canada. She took much more risk than I did to come here. She gave up a career being a head surgical nurse in a couple different hospitals in BK. Also learning our culture language and taking on a lesser job than she had in Thailand.
I am retired and living a good life here after selling my company. She does not need to work but she wants to send money monthly to family living back in her homeland. Normally we get back to see her family 1 or two times a year. Hopefully getting back this upcoming year . She is not a manipulative person at all like my first wife was who was from here, quite the opposite. I did however date another from Thailand before her who was manipulating me for a while until I did some digging and found out she was dating other men.
My advice is to not go to Thailand and think every woman is perfect. Just like any woman you meet, don’t go trying to buy their love or I guarantee you will attract the worst women. Trying to be mr moneybags is not the way to go. Start with a humble beginning and you will attract women who are also humble.
I am a bit biased towards meeting a good Thai woman than to a western woman after I hit the jackpot.
Good luck to whoever reads about my experience. Cheers
You were blessed
Haha, they are clever in hiding things
love your comment. Woman alll over the world are same. some good some bad. depend on person not natioality.
@@prabhakaranrajendran2810 so are men. Its just about being a good person.
@@rannmanz5715 no one is loyal here. Everyone here is a cheater. But until you don't know the truth you can't claim anyone is good. Thai girls think mother is everything, that mother never allow her inside if she don't provide money..
Is it a love? There's a saying, the trees which bend will grow longer. That's marriage. According to me, men are the good amongst all 🤣🤣🤣🤣 because how hard we get hit - we still walk 🚶i advise you to try a year to take a non-0 and stay in Thailand for a year.
Then you will understand - what am saying.
But am happy, if you are blessed. I wish you a long and good life.
Forrest it was great to see you chat with a fellow Aussie.i do hope we get to see more of Tim.
Forrest- great videos. Very informative. Thank you.
Forrest, how about you give some examples of how some Thai women have tried to manipulate you and how you analyzed the situation and defended yourself? That could be an entertaining series.
theres a lot of stories, they ask for money so that they stop going to bar to work. They ask for money to build "their" house. Even lawyers in thailand can be crooked.
Getting to know someone on a personal level is not a business situation. Take your time: Offer your kindness, insight, and love. Be honest and generous with your emotional involvement, but do not start buying buffaloes. She is equally responsible for building a respectful relation with you. At the end of the day, a relationship is all about helping each other. If she thinks that sounds like a stupid idea, maybe you should consider other options...
Well said
I first dated a Thai woman in 1987 at the age of 19, and I can tell you that you have completely missed the main reason why men (not only Western men) get manipulated by women (not only Thai women.) It’s because they truly love them. You may not fully appreciate this fact until you are older and you’ve experienced it for yourself
Invariably those who have been manipulated start out just like men who are in their 30s and 40s now are starting out. Nobody thinks that they will end up being manipulated out of their money and then discarded. But eventually in many cases true love hits and the man thinks “this is the One.” There have been warnings ever since Farang men first met Thai women, so don’t think men in 2023 are more sophisticated or more clued up. They’re not. They are merely earlier in their life cycle than men who were in their 20’s, 30’s and 40’s back in the eighties for example.
The common refrain is “my girl/wife is different.” The issue is all relationships are built on trust. The danger is that trust can be betrayed.
So don’t be too judgemental of those washed-up, bitter Western and elderly males in places like Pattaya who got ripped off and kicked out of the house they bought. Despite what you think, that could one day be you when you truly fall in love and make the “mistake” of unconditionally loving and trusting your spouse.
Dude it doesn't change the fact you were manipulated. The woman never loved you. You ignored all the signs and parted with your cash. There is no excuse for stupidity. Stupidity is loving a woman who doesn't love you. You will be ripped off. When a woman doesn't love you, she goes into gold-digger mode. She loves your money, not you. Wake up from your slumber Lol
confusing
This is an elegant summary. Older men are always portrayed as villians or letches. The fact that they love, and want to be loved, is somehow rendered pathological.
Rough, but true.
True story... and that happens everyday to men in relationship with western women! There are good and bad people everywhere. If you go for a pro, don't get too delusional though.
I love Tim's channel "the thaiger." That channel is so informative.
I enjoy Tim and all the crew from The Thaiger.
Love Tim!
Experience rules
Resent for youngsters go to the end of the line
Forrest.. love your videos. You are coming off "really strong" here after visiting other countries and your Thai PBS interview. Did something just happened with someone? It just seemed that way.
Always good to get someone's perspective that has been living here, regardless if you agree or not. Thanks for sharing as i am learning living here as a single man, one rule i am trying to remember is to take things slow. Also, Forrest, did you do a video on SIN SOD? if so i have a question for your personal opinion, thanks again for all you do here
Thank you so much for your very clear perspective and wise counsel.
It’s easy to imagine myself succumbing to exactly the kind of dynamic you’re describing, so I appreciate the warning. 😏 Good job.
Healthy tips Forest! You're 100% right about being in control of your path.
Your evaluation is basically spot on.
Good solid advice Forrest, thanx man !
Dude, you are hilarious but on point. I enjoy watching your videos.
Great content. Thanks for sharing.
Excellent Forrest. Spot on. 👍👌
I kinda have a rule that whenever I go to Thailand, and if I decide to date someone, I always make sure they are university-educated and have a decent job. It's not foolproof, but generally they are less interested in my money when they make more money than me. ;)
agree, another rule is: If you pick up a prostitute, don't be surprised if she behaves like one...
I can't attract anything bit cashiers and other minimum wagers.
And you not any degree holder?
That's probably why you are celibate.
Hahaha 😂😂😂
good work man!
New subscriber, I love the content bro, it's about time that someone is actually talking about an issue that needs to be discussed, keep coming with the great youtube content brotha 💯🔥🔥🔥
7:52 Did Pam expect you to buy a Buffalo for her family or did she scam you out of $100?
I too would like to know. I always wanted the leftovers if anything happened, but now, I'm unsure. (Just joking - or maybe not)
Thank you Lee,thank you for speaking that for and hope you will stay in my country forever.Good luck for what's ever you wishes.Thank you again.
Thanks Forrest. this helped a lot........Sal : )
Thanks for the warnings. Are the currency exchanges and cell phone stands still open at BKK? I'm prolly coming at end of December for 2-3 weeks.
EVERY guy thinks "he" is different.
"I" will NOT be manipulated..
I've been going to Thailand since I was 17 in 1987 and I've herd these story's before but for every bad story you can tell I could probably give you 5 or 6 good stories. Yes dating has changed Internet social media but I don't believe it's all a good thing. There's a lot of us from the 80s and 90s could teach you a thing or two.
Bullshit....it is 5 bad stories for every 1 good....not the other way around
Yeah once you've got viagra inside you 🤣🤣😂
Today women abuse the internet to “find the bigger and better deal”. This is even true for Thai women. However, western men have a much larger dating pool to choose from 😉
@@MrDobberdude Bullshit....it is 10 Good stories for every 1Bad...........its the True Facts of life. Thailand's Safer and calmer.
@@MrDobberdude i think i agree with you
I just subscribed. Thanks for the information. I plan on visiting one day soon and will probably stay several months if I like it. Thanks
Don't Do It Richard -- Just Don't & Save Yourself The Trouble.
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Hey Forrest, great Vid man. I've been going to Thailand for over 30 yrs. Everything you say is pretty spot on. There are good and bad everywhere, if you allow (bad) things to happen to you, they will. It's great to hear some opinions from the gals here and I totally agree. You have to take things on a " Case By Case" experience. I have met some wonderful, solid and down to earth ladies in Thailand. I have also met a few crazies...lol.
I have heard about this before, and certainly believe it to be true. It is good that you put out this warning.
You just use common sense...Talking about broke asses..I can go back to the late 60s and 70s a lot of broke asses to..
Very cool Tim!
I am a modern, evolved man. I always split the buffalo 50/50
What if she wants more than 50? 😃😃😃
I'm not a farmer, but I suspect tilling the fields with half a buffalo (split either length or width wise) is not an easy task.
You got the front half of the buffalo right? Very smart move! Keep feeding it 🤣
Up to to judge whether good or bad, there always consequences . Just be high alert. Thanks forest 😄
Thanks for your advice.
You’re 1000% right man
A cartoon series by thailand bound is very good. 😂😂😃😃👍 New subscriber here to your channel Forrest. 🤟🤟👍👍 keep up the good work.
Similar things happen all over the world really. Enjoyed your video. Nice.
Nice video. You have a great attitude
Its incredible with all the guys buying houses and stuff, when you can just rent and keep your money safe.. be smarter guys.
Yeah I agree we have to guard ourselves and set healthy boundaries.
Forrest your absolutely spot on with your assessment on the guys who came to pattaya in the 80s 90s when I came to Thailand especially Pattaya the bar girls were only interested in what I could buy them the longer I was with them they always compared me to their friends boyfriend/ husband Why haven’t you bought me a car, house, what saved me was I had to return to the UK for work by the time I came back that girl would have found another mug
so true, be careful
You Saw the light? Congratz buddy
Don't invest what you don't want to lose in Thailand
I'm one who had been to Thailand from the late 80's and 90's - and Forrest you are right from the standpoint that today's travelers to Thailand are more aware - thanks to the internet of course. I admit that I made some mistakes in the 80's and 90's - giving gifts when I shouldn't have but it only cost $50-100-200 and I gave the gifts out of the goodness of my heart not because I was conned. Am I smarter today - yes, definitely, from my prior experience and with the internet. But I've never been conned into giving a buffalo or big money for someone's house who said the money would be paid back - that was not due to the internet or being aware or being manipulated, it was just common sense on my part.
Forrest woke up today and chose violence haha
i think he's a pretty bright guy and just gets pissed off at how the world is. He hasn't entered the fuck it acceptance phase yet but give him time
You are awesome 👌
I want to be your friend... I've been to Thailand 9 times and recently broke my relationship with my "so called" girlfriend, when I found out from an expat I am friends with that she had ... with him a week before I came to see her and I didn't know him then. I speak Thai a bit but am currently getting tutored whilst I'm waiting to come back. Would LOVE to do a TH-cam experiment with you and teach others as well. Thank you for your videos and information 😊 🙏
Nice vlog. Thanks.
You are 100% right!!!!!!!
Great video
Very good content
Hey Forrest, what's your view on Thai women who has a college degree and holds corporate jobs?
"constantly, constantly, constantly vet the people you're around" that sounds so exhausting! To base your sense of self worth on your money and transactional relationships.
Hi Tim👐👐👐
good for you man stay strong man do not give in to there LUST
You are right and definitely true
Just subscribed to found out more.
REAL TALK. I agree.
Thanks for the video.
Thailand is a great holiday country. Looking forward to my 9th trip in June. But moving there? No, I am far too comfortable in my own country (and culture) for that.
These women live by one rule. " Love don't eat" keep that in mind when dealing with Thai women and to be fine. Still a much better option than anything in America using you for your money when you find a good Thai woman. Case closed
Adhere to the Short Time rule, two hours with them and out. The longer you stay with them, the more opportunity you're giving them to drain your money. Some of these Thai women move quick. I had a friend who said the girl asked him to buy her a car and house on the first date.
Bro whats name of that bar with garden at 8:20 ?
The question is …. Did you screw PAM over?
I enjoy helping them from time to time and don't really expect anything back. I guess I'm just different.
Thai women are the same as American women from my experience!
Lol wat
No, Thai women are more family oriented that Americans. 😃😃😃
Just better looking and fitter
Lol
@@limirl thai women are Definitely Not better looking nor fitter
nice vid: perhaps a follow-up with why the guys went overseas in first place what did they think they could find there they couldnt get at home and why also, other countries women's views of thai/philipino etc women
What you're saying is true. One always has to question situations as they come. If you are financially disciplined enough to afford to travel to Thailand, don't lose it when you get there. On my 1st visit, I went haywire and burnt a lot of cash on vices. By my 2nd visit, I realised that going to Thailand for holidays would always be a part of my life; hence, I applied my usual discipline and it went well.
Thanks!
Love is a funny drug...btw -How old is Tim?
Your bank account will always have a bigger balance when single.
Tim but that coffee was not Coffee Culture!!😁😁
Hey Tim.....I'm from Hawaii and I appreciate your taste in Hawaii Shirts. Shocka.....Dude.
Because of Tim’s comment on Hawaiian shirts I’ve decided to Burn all of mine .. now I’m looking for my Elephant pants😉😂. Thanks for the chuckle Forrest 🙏🙏
I miss seeing the elephant pants in Thailand. I haven't seen those lately.
@@MyLifeThai371 you wouldn’t want to see me in my elephant pants 😂
Just one question...where is Phem/Pam ?
Your talking Bar girls and there is some guys do get completely ripped off!! But there is so many good stories as well out there as wellutmy wife is a school teacher and I couldn't be happier
Yes learn to say NO. Very good video about the relationships in Thailand.
They don't love you, they love your money - Thanks for the advice.
Effin A Forrest! Im so glad there are intelligent men like you out there representing the West in a way if you think about it. Keep it in reality brother and always eat your consequences. No one else can help you but YOURSELF in the end.
Consider changing the name of your channel to “anecdotal generalization man with little to no data supporting my conclusions.”
I was shocked to See Tim on your Channal. I watch the Thaiger a lot and ussally enjoy the news. I see your point about dating a Thai. Prenup always helps
A lot of thai woman are pretty established. The ones I know have there own business and Degrees from a western University.
The internet & channels like this one brought some light to the scams.
Your over analysing. Some chase the rainbow others enjoy the moment. Happy days !! 😃
im loving it...
pam manipulated you？
It would be helpful for you to include a byline, for every video, stating the City that you are in for the video. Sometimes it is not at all clear where you are and you don't actually say in the videos.
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He look good in the shirt! Handsome man!
I have just subscribed to your channel. I like watching your videos very good. If I come to Thailand maybe we could meet up over a meal. I I need to know about the safety and we're to go we're not to go in Thailand. And yes I am looking for friendship with lovely older lady in Thailand or the Philippines. Cheers. Dobspato England Newcastle Upon Tyne.
Go To MALAYSIA Instead ❤️🇲🇾
I loved my husband when I met him 15 years ago so I married him. To be honest with you, his attitude is similar to yours, saying " No" for everything. I am at the point that " I'm bored and I don't care anymore. Love rate has reduced a lot. I am asking myself constantly instead that " What is the love? How can I be happier? What I really want in my life? "
Greetings forest from Southern California
Thai women know how to play on the Farang men's emotions and take advantage of their desire for companionship. These scams can be very costly and often result in the loss of thousands of dollars. It is important to be aware of these scams before traveling to Thailand in search of love, so that you don't become a victim yourself.
"by all* women" is more accurate
I’ve never been to Thailand, but I completely agree with you. I’m going to vacation in Thailand someday.
I worked with a Man. He retired about a year before me. We are both Teamsters and retired when we had about 30 years in. He decided to retire to Thailand about two years before he actually did it.
He sold his house in 2007 at its peak that put about $400,000 in the bank account. He had at least 600,000 in his 401(k) got a pension of close to $4500 a month.
I’m sure he’s collecting Social Security now because he was only 52 when he retired he is now 64. So he is no Vagabon small pension cheap Charlie.
Not only did we work together we lived not too far from each other. He came back to the US to visit his parents get his taxes done visit some friends. I ran into him in the parking lot at the grocery store.
I asked him how Thailand was,he absolutely loved it. So what’s going on with girlfriends. And he gave me this advice. Never ever let a Thai girlfriend move in.
He made that mistake. He asked her to leave but she wouldn’t so he had to wait until he had 30 days left on his lease before he moved out.
He found a new place to live. Paid his last month told management what was going on and said she could live there for the last 30 days but if she breaks anything it’s on her. Management said don’t worry about it, we will talk to her.
After 14 years of living in Thailand, he is part owner of a bar along with numerous other retirees. And he finally let another woman move in. But I’m sure she knows the score. Ask for money, be clingy, cynical and sarcastic you’re gone.
Where hustles the name of the game and nice guys get washed away like snow the rain 🎶 😂
HAHAHAHA, Forrest. When I come, will also need someone to watch out for my old butt in Thailand.
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