After living in Asia for years, among other countries, I have learned that it’s best to not really hang out so much with the other foreigners. Expats. I always keep it minimal. Not too much. And it’s much better for me. Less politics. Less headaches. Its true.
Expat living in Asia facing similar problem to Asian migrant settle in the US, canada, Australia, Europe. At first, people need friend to talk and share things, helping each other. After a year, everybody need to find way to look after themself financially and what happen if something happen to them, stress and pressure. so crack begin to appear in the friendship unless you have millitary background, you are more discipline and know the rule.
This has been my experience living in Brazil. Unless I have friends or relatives visiting, I have very little contact with foreigners and expats. I'm with Brazilians 95% of the time
Hey, we don't all get grumpy with time in country and novelty isn't the most important thing. I lived in Bangkok for 30 years before moving to rural Chiang Rai more than 17 years ago. The country has changed, my location has changed and I have changed as I have grown older. Thailand is not the root of my happiness or misery, it is just the canvas upon which I paint my life and it is up to me to choose the colors, texture and subject matter.🙏
@@aloquicious It is something hard to verbalize. I felt more me, more comfortable in my own skin. It was definitely more a feeling than a rational thought.
Another element to fold into your thinking about living in Thailand is your perspective of your home country. In my case (the US) I began to see the flaws of that society. Things I had thought were normal became a little crazy and distasteful. Not something I want to go back to. It’s hard to criticize the Thai way of living life when life in the US is increasingly depressing. I’ve followed Brett’s channel for several years. Good down to earth guy.
I lived in several Asian countries, including Thailand, but mostly in Taiwan, and loved it. I came back to the US for a few years and that was enough for me to decide never to live here again. I'll even retire abroad some day. Preparing to return to Asia this summer and cannot wait.
Great video. Thank you! I was only there for about 18 months to discover how embarrassed I felt being an American visiting Thailand. The key is to seek out and surround yourself with lighthearted, fun-loving people. They do exist. There should be a sign at the boarding gate that reads: Please leave your baggage at home before boarding.
New to Thailand, here. Your video about 'your 1st hour in Thailand' made things so easy and I am forever grateful for that information. I felt like I had a chance to figure it out because of that video. I visited in November and returned for what I hope is for good in early Feb. I love this place for EVERYTHING that is different about it than The States. I love walking instead of driving. I love guessing at what food I might like or not like. I have no problem with locals trying to make a buck from my being here (nothing different than the US). The locals here treat me well everywhere I go. And the ladies are more charming than anybody I ever met in The States - and it's not even close. I love my tiny condo, the pool, the street food, riding baht buses, always being near The Bay of Thailand, the lazy soi dogs. I love not being able to read 80% of the street signs. Less brain clutter. I came here because it is NOT anything like where I came from. While I am in a touristy area, and I know they cater to foreigners at a high level, but it still feels like a 110% foreign experience to me. I hope it feels like that for a long time. And if it doesn't, I'll spend some time in Hua Hin (visited there in November), run up to Bangkok for the occasional week, spend time in Chaing Mai etc. No Phuket for me - too many horror stories about foreigners and how they behave there + the crowds. Next week I will visit The Sanctuary of Truth as my 1st real endeavor into Thai culture. And I'll go from there. I hope to have the rest of my life to see what this wonderful country has to offer. And I agree with your Koh Samui friend. I keep asking myself: "Why do I get to do this and other people I know don't get to?" I have no more money than them etc. But I never felt a strong draw to any one place in The States. I moved around a lot whereas they did not. So I think that made this easier for me.
I could not have said it better myself about the way I felt after my two weeks in Thailand. I'll be back soon hopefully for good as well. People ask me how long are you going to be in thailand? I say until it's not fun anymore.
Did you move there to retire ? That would be my goal and I also appreciate the youtubers uploading content. And may I ask how long your visa is for? TY!!
@@Hello11World Yes, I moved here to retire. Now I hope to use this as a home base for one other regional trips to places like Malaysia, The Philippines & Viet Nam for a couple of weeks at a time, but Thailand already feels like home to me. I forget a little about life in the US every day and it doesn't bother me a bit.
My wife and I are already preparing to retire to Thailand in 4 years from Hawaii. Why? To get away from all the negative Nancy’s in the USA. We love yours and Brett’s channels. People ask us why we are moving away from Paradise and the number one reason is the cost of living. We’ve been living in Hawaii for 30+ years and the excitement hasn’t worn off. We wake up every morning saying “thank you” and we go to bed the same way. Like you say Chris we only have so many times around the sun and might as well be happy doing it. Home is where the heart is, period. Mahalo Chris and hope to see you in a few years.
Hey Chris Gia here. Don’t know if you remember me but I’m friends with your old buddy Andrew Farmer. When I first moved here to Thailand I was quarantined 2020 in Bangkok and you were so kindly brought me lays chips and KitKat . Well it’s almost 4 years now that I live in Koh samui and I could relate hold hardly to this video. My daughter now moved here and it’s been a year now she lived here boy how time past still watch your videos from the start when you had 5,000 subscribers you have always been informative when people ask me question I tell them to look at your videos library love you man
Hi Gia. Been watching Chris too for a while. I've been looking at places on Samui myself. Wondering if you here any grumblings over the new tax thing that just came out? Effect buying a villa there?
I get bored living in the same place after several years but that's not the same as taking that place for granted or not liking it anymore. I only move to places I love and I still love those places when I move on. I just seek new sights and sounds but I carry many fond memories with me.
Brett has been one of my favourite Thailand people for many years. I've learned so much from him, just as I have from you. I'm surprised you aren't buddies. I think you have a lot in common and I would love to meet both of you. It's nice that you gave him a shout out. Now if I could only get back to Thailand.
I’m glad to see you are a Brett Dev follower ! I’ve been tuning into Brett for a long time now. I think it is good advice to spend time in different regions as Thailand is so diverse in landscapes. I love the North for the Mountains and the cooler Winter temperatures, I love Koh Samui and other Islands for the breathtaking beaches and I really love BKK and Jomtien/Pattaya for the craziness. Plus there’s so much in between to discover that I don’t think I would ever get bored unless I was too old to get outdoors
Bitching abut Thailand and saying America does it better is friggin mind blowing. I guess it depends on what you want. I want the people the way they are in Thailand over here. Lol
America does some things better Thailand does some things better If you are a man, thailand is better If a woman, child, or old person america is better
Moving in a week, ignoring all the forums and expats. Thailand must be awesome, I'm sure of it. Good food, good weather, friendly people... what more do you need?
I only been in Thailand for 2 weeks, and I'm back in the States now with the intention of moving back permanently. My bit of advice if you choose to listen to it would be to take in every bit of advice you can find. Thailand is a wonderful place but it can be a bit of a minefield if you are not aware. Who are you could just do you, go their innocent and find out in real time. But just a little tips that will make your life a whole lot easier and not have you scratching your head later thinking I wish I had known that. I don't have any of those regrets for my trip other than I wish it had been longer.
I moved to Bangkok and lived there 6 years. It was my first time living in a city and I loved it. Towards the end of Covid though we built a house in Isaan. I’m not a beach guy but the countryside is a similar journey. Right now I’m on our terrace overlooking the rice fields where currently the cows are grazing. I still love Bangkok and visit once a month for a weekend of excitement.
I came for the first time to Thailand in 1980. After that I have been here many many times, sometimes 10 times in 1 year. But for 99% of the time I stayed in Bangkok. I was here because my job brought me here. In fact, I traveled all over the world and yet was totally surprised by what I saw outside of Bangkok. I went to Hua Hin with a friend. We drove around on our bicycles and the more I saw, the more I liked it. Now I'm living here over 12 years and still like it. Still don't want to move out of the country. After that long time I started learning Thai a few months back and that is so refreshing. To be able to read some signs in the Thai language is eye opening. I know a few farangs, but generally I avoid foreigners. And we avoid our Thai family. I pretty much stay with my wife and some friends and we are happy like that.
Thank you for your video. Constant complaining is a mindset that develops over the time. Usually, a person starts complaining about life in their home country, which is the reason why they look for a better place to call home. Unfortunately, after making the move, the negativity remains. One has to consciously make an effort to change their mindset. Unfortunately, mixing with other likeminded (negative) expats only deepens the negativity. I am speaking from personal experience 😊
I am too young to qualify for a retirement visa, but Thailand is definitely on my list. I have worked there before and would enjoy living there if I could get a long term visa. For me, the magic is in every day things, so I love living in and visiting a variety of countries in Asia. I will be visiting Thailand later this year and can't wait.
Being grumpy can affect anyone who lives too much in the past or in the future. I think a lot of people who came to Thailand enjoyed the moment and when they couldn't do that anymore the grumpiness came back. The older I get the more often I remember this phrase You've already achieved goals you said would make you happy. I think one thing is very important in life: it's better to walk in the wrong direction once and change your path than to always stay in the same place. In nature, standing still is the same as death. In this sense, my friends, keep moving and may you always have a tailwind
Hey Chris - this was a great vlog, thanks for the valuable insights. I'm Thai-American and have been living in the USA for my entire life, but I look forward to retiring in Thailand one day hopefully in the next 15 years or so. As for the miserable expats that like to complain about Thailand, well, all I can say is the door is wide open and they are free to leave anytime. Someone else will gladly take their spot.
Very good video thank you. You both reminded me of the old adage “wherever you go, there you are”. Having lived on 3 different continents, travelled around the world and now learning Thai as my third language, I can vouch for the fact that it’s absolutely true. I’m currently in bkk talking to immigration agents, sorting out my next Thai language course and experiencing “suburban” life (aka not Asoke lol) so it’s all pretty exciting but I know for sure that in time this will all shift into something else; we’re definitely bkk kind of people. We’ve been living in Oz, in the sticks, for 12 years and miss the advantages of living in a city like bkk. Again, that may change in time… Thanks again for great content
Hi Chris. Great video and content from Brett. Couldn’t agree more with both of you. I bought property on the side of a hill overlooking the ocean and islands on Samui 20 years ago for retirement. When that time came I found out the rampant unrestricted growth that had happened in that 20 years was just not for me. I sold and moved to a little farm community in the mountains above Chiang Mai and couldn’t be happier. One hour drive and I’m in Chiang Mai for whatever reason I need to be, and I’m passing elephants on the road in. How cool is that ! I’m not a member of any clubs full of whiners, but have met some nice expats. Haven’t stumbled on Brett yet, but will probably some day. Had the pleasure of meeting you and your family once at a restaurant outside of Chiang Mai. Love your new format and story telling style. Cheers. .
Hey Raymond, I just became the 4th subscriber to your channel! Just so I could contact you. I live in Lombok on a hill overlooking the ocean, but it's not rampant development (yet) it's, well, Indonesian people (in my neighborhood it's Muslim mafia). So I'm looking at Chiang Mai, cool green mountains. Would love to chat.
Thanks Chris, great video...been visiting the Kingdom since 2002....traveled the world, checked out Thailand, North to South, East to West...retired, live in New Mexico 6 months a year and the Kingdom the other 6....settled on a villa on Koh Samui...been here for 6 months now, love it even more...the Thai people and culture make this place...getting ready to head back to the US for 6 months........ looking forward to your next video.....cheers
Me and my girlfriend are living most of the year on Tenerife (Canary Islands) and Algarve (Portugal), but are thinking about moving to Koh Phangan maybe in 1 or 2 years.This year we go there for a month. I already have been to Phangan and IT'S GREAT. I was there in a very miserable mental state once and it kind of build me up, even then. The nature, thai kindness, massages, the food, the spiritual scene there... Amazing :) Maybe we will be neighbors on the two islands.
I hope most people realize with any drug, your first high will always be the best. After which you will always be chasing that first high experience. Even daily, the first high of the day will be the best, but a person will chase that first high all day and night to no avail. Secondly, knowing your long-term goals is a big factor. I know I can die at home with dignity in Thailand, hiring a Thai nurse to take care of me for significantly less money than in my home country while having a better quality of life. Third, there has to be more than drinking in a bar in life. I am going to the Waterpark once a week, getting messages every week and pampering myself as much as possible. There are any number of ways to volunteer to give back and make yourself happy. I am looking forward to traveling for food tours. All that and then there are the girls and the food. Ya'll get the point.
Thailand is a wonderful, enchanting place, esp. for newbies when you are on a 2-week vacation. It's completely different when you live there. It's like a marriage. There's the honeymoon stage, then the reality. It doesn't mean Thailand is not a great place, it is. It just means Thailand is not Disneyland. And, when you learn Thai and learn the Thai culture, there are more levels of nuance to your experience and understanding. Some are good, some not so good. That's the reality. You need a positive attitude, but you also need a realistic one as well. People that think Thailand is non-stop wonderful are just as wrong as those that carp about everything. One thing that is absolutely necessary is having some kind of support group. You can't do it alone. I think that's the problem with many expats that sour on Thailand.
I worked in Thailand, in Rayong. I was making $1k a month and lived comfortably only spending about half of that. It was...interesting. The school I worked at was well known, a lot of corruption behind the scenes, office politics, but the work was easy. I didn't love it, also didn't hate it. I still mostly enjoyed working in Thailand and can't wait to go back to travel.
I have a mate who lives in Thailand and he is a grumpy bloke, but I have been mates for 30yrs, I just try and ignore the rants when he has them. He was like that in Australia too, so it’s not a surprise. Me I choose to be grateful for everything I have and the nature I live in still in Oz, I have found that saying things I’m grateful for really makes my day better, and that’s the key for me, even after losing my Scottish soulmate 2.5yrs Ago and the grief that comes with that, I still have things I’m grateful for.
Love your content, man. Lived in Taiwan years back and tromped SE Asia and found Thailand to be the perfect vibe. It’s stayed with me since I left to come back state side. Fast forward some years and now I’m one of those people you speak to just waiting for the money to line up to pull the pin. Can’t say thank you enough for the info you provide.
I have never commented before on any videi. Loved your video and attitude. I'm older than dirt, never been to Thailand and yes, I know it's hot but moving there next month. For me, although not rich, it provides opportunity to help people, perhaps just a few, but helping makes me happy, so I do not fear the newness wearing off and becoming a grumpy old man lol. Thanks again
Thailand is my favourite drug. I just spent the entire day visiting beaches and meeting people in Trang province. An amazing and magical day. Saw one other foreigner.
Im thinking of moving to trang in a year or two, have a house in hatyai at the moment. Ive only hd a drive through trang and absolutely adored the place. I love the real thai way of life, where theres barely any foreigners and everyone gets on with their life.
There's no other place in the world where I feel so free, appreciated and safe as in Thailand. Such lovely people, excellent food, exceptional health care, decent infrastructure, affordable cost of living and beautiful nature. What do you want more? I live in Belgium where Islamism, cost of living, crime and wokeness are just getting out of hand, it's madness. So I'm finally taking the plunge and I'll be moving to Thailand by the end of the summer! Love your content and positive vibes Chris!
Around minute 6:50 of your video you just described the majority of the expats commenting on Bangkok Facebook groups. They somehow confuse people asking for advice from others, that they perceive to be more experienced about certain topics, as an invitation to question their life choices or otherwise make inappropriate comments that only reflect their miserable state of mind! It got to a point where people felt the need to creat “non-troll” groups! Look forward to grabbing a beer with you and likeminded people at some point!
Great video and wonderful start to my day in Bangkok as my 5 month journey is ending. The drug analogy is perfect. Some drugs are uppers, and some are downers. I would suggest Thailand takes whatever your personality is and brings it out in the even more . If you're a positive, happy person, you will be happier and more positive. And the reverse is true as well. If a person is miserable in their home country, some will find ways to be miserable here . There is no shortage of things to feed an angry expat. If a person is positive, the negative blows by, and they will be more positive than ever before. We see the latter in all your videos, Chris, so thanks for the work you do . Especially the philosophical part of life in Thailand , perhaps your Canadian life perspective helps with that.
Hi Chris, I lived in Japan and HK for 12 years. Your video is about something I noticed when I was an expat. People move to a new country, yet they start complaining about why this and that are being done a certain way, and that in their home country, they do things differently. Well, guess what 😅 On another subject, you’ve done plenty of videos about the cost of living in Thailand. The upper, mid and lower range… however, my wife wants to know how YOU are spending ? You seemed to be active, are city people and enjoy hole in the walls for food and drinks… seems like our lifestyle. So, I know you’re Canadian like us and money is a delicate subject, but would you be able to share? We’re about to retire… Thailand is in our top 5 (with Japan and 3 Euro countries). So knowing how someone like you needs or spend per year would help 😊
New sub. Great video. Been coming here since 1984. Lived here permanently 2 years now. Intoxication never left me. Love the simple life, not the lights and party. Perfect for me.
Great commentary here. There’s something to be said about the saying, where ever you go, there you are. If you move to paradise and all you find are things to complain about, I think it’s time to do some self reflection.
Great video explaining the different phases of becoming an expat and the different mindsets that happen along the way. Not a lot of people have been able to explain it as well as you and Bret have.
Always enjoy listening to these types of videos you make Chris as well as the other things of course. As for these guys that are unhappy and complain all the time, I think they'd be like that no matter where they lived. Personally, I think it's because most of us live through our egos which means we use external cues as to how well we're doing. It's like the person working at a job and upset that they're not making as much as the other person or the need to have the best car compared to my neighbor. We fail to recognize that happiness comes from within and not something to look for in others or in things we have. When we die, we can't take anything with us anyway. When we can come to that place for ourselves, then our wonderful surroundings are merely a confirmation of what our inner happiness has brought us.
I love your channel, it shows passion and dedication to inform, true desire to want others to enjoy what you have, a happy life. About the grumpy expats in Thailand, I remember my father, he once said, "everything you do, whether you want to get drunk, you want to change your job, you want to get married, you want to travel, do it because you love it, because it makes you truly happy not because you want to escape from something that bothers you, frightens you,... otherwise sooner or later anything exciting you do, not only wears off, but it will wear you down as well..." I believe there some wise truth in what he said that can be applied to the grumpy expats... I like to watch the Russian "mickey stotch" channel primarily because he speaks Thai quite good, with it, he enriches its videos and provides a fuller abroad experience. Beautiful that you are learning the language of the country you love the most; it will probably enhance your ties to thailand and living experience... unfortunately, too many expats just don't understand the importance to communicate in the local language, the enriching experience and the respect they shows to the community they live in... waiting for the next video
Hi, I am going for the first time to Thailand next week... feeling excited.. I start watching your videos recently, thank you so much for sharing, I think it helps 😊
Anyone looking for happiness externally isnt gonna be happy cause everything comes from within. But being in Thailand when u was in my 20's after 5 years i turned grumpy and wanted to go anywhere but Thailand ended up in china 2 years and back to usa but now that im older i miss Thailand every day i want to take my daughter there and experience Thailand with a kid
RW4U, great video and weaving in the perspective of Brett. Back in 1983, my dad was assigned to BKK and I was going into my senior year of high school. I ended up at the International School of Bangkok when it was still on Soi 15 Sukhumvit. After a few months, the culture shock and novelty wore off. I almost left to finish high school back in the states. Glad I did not. I would have regretted that the rest of my life. I embraced what Bangkok and other areas of Thailand had to offer and love it and cannot wait to get back there after nearly 20 years that has passed since my last visit. I plan to bicycle tour the country in the next few years and enjoy every minute despite the heat, humidity, and other things that make Thailand a special place. Cheers and thanks for the positivity check!
Thank you for a great video! It is very important to be realistic about your hopes and dreams, no matter what you do in life. If you are, you will never be disappointed, never!
Thanks for this series Chris. I just got back to Canada after four months in Thailand and although my original Post retirement plan was to be there half the year and here half the year with Canada basically as my home base I am now seriously thinking of flipping that and permanently moving to Thailand and just holiday in Canada. The timing of this series is perfect for me as I think this through.
I love the information you provide. I'm planning on moving to Rawai next September when I retire. I grew up in Bangkok in the 70's and can't wait to see all the changes. You Bangkok videos have given me a glimpse. Thank you. Great advice on staying away from the negative Nancy's. When I first decided to retire in Rawai I joined some expat groups on FB but all the complainers and not a lot of good info. If you're not happy here go to the place that makes you happy. Again thank you for your positive informative videos
I’m Thai, born and raised , and I will be moving to rural West Virginia within 6 months ( now I lived in So Cal) , very excited! I love nature and in WV is like going back to 1930. Love it.
Great lesson on life! It is what you make it….life that is. Complacency can certainly lead to viewing your situation negatively, especially if you have a habit of not looking for positive opportunities. Great video as usual Chris!
I am a US citizen and have lived here in Thailand full time for a total of 28 years. I had to make the decision between the Philippines and Thailand for retirement. The Philippines is without a doubt a beautiful country with the thousands of beautiful beaches. My decision came down to infrastructure, Thailand is a generation ahead. Then thinking about all the natural disasters Thailand is way ahead also, very few natural disasters. I am also an introvert. I dislike cities, crowds and especially heavy traffic. I much prefer scenic mountainous areas so the beaches and their corrosive humid salt air meant nothing for me except an irritation. I am happy living in a scenic mountainous area at a thousand feet above sea level. No floods here and a bit cooler. Roads even in this area are well maintained and good. I am now 79 years old and have been married to a Thai woman for 23 years. Maybe I am luckier than most because I planned my retirement carefully and although I'm not wealthy by any means, I am comfortable and don't have to lie on a budget. I think I have made the right choices.
Hi. I love watching your video as I'm an Australian expat that's been living in Bangkok for 11+ years, and absolutely love ir here. Everything coees down to attitude and you create your own reality here or anywhere else you live. As they say, "think good things and good things happenn". I'm a TH-camr that creates videos about Thailand too, mind you I don't have the skill yet that you do, but I hope to create awesome content like you in the near future. Best of luck Chris and keep up the greet work.
New follower here. I really appreciate your positive attitude. We are researching places we can retire to. Thailand is high on our list. Thanks for your work.
As a person who recently moved here, I think you will be able to find what you want here. There are about 10 different lifestyle you can live here. Beach life, city life, rural life etc. I think success means knowing which of those places is more likely to suit you for the long haul. Because once you're here, you can always go visit the other places. I myself prefer beach life. I will shoot up to Bangkok soon for a week & to Chiang Mai later on for a week as well. Hua His & Jomtien are nice, but very packed w/expats. If you're okay with that, you'll be okay with those places. And you can walk to the beach from just about anywhere.
You hit it right on the head - people need to ask themselves what is their happy place? What makes people happy - before they move to Thailand. I hate Sydney but i just got back from Thailand and a week in pattaya and found it too touristy during Songkran. And it make me wonder if i moved to Thailand permanently would i be happy? And i know i could only live there for about 3 - 4 months every year before i needed a change of scenery. And travelling around, seeing different places is the way to go. Another great video.
Great video! I’m American and lived in Taiwan for 12 years. Really loved my life there but left after 12 years for a number of reasons, one of which is that I didn’t want to become that proverbial grumpy old many living unappreciatively and hypocritically in a foreign country that you describe. After my career in the state of Hawaii has concluded, I’m thinking strongly about moving to Thailand or Malaysia for retirement. Your advice is the same advice I’d give to all people considering life in foreign countries!
Hey Chris, I appreciate your realistic and practical point of view about life in Thailand (and your accent lol). Just subbed to your channel.. thanks for all the great and helpful content, eh!
Great Vlog mate, Ive visited 5 times, I've met those grumpy long term expats. Its the simplicity of the place, I ride a scooter 100kms, love the quiet villages and country people more than the buzz, learning the language I love, its a must, Thai culture, Thai smiles, Thai food,Ha whats better, thanks for the tips, 👍🖐.
Visiting Thailand can and usually will stretch all your sensations to the inner regions and depths stimulated and reached for the first time . The heat didn't bother me and it my sense of smell that protested at the start. Then the other senses take in and processes stuff for the first time, and that effect does have a buzz. The same can be said of Miami, where I live part-time as my homestead is in Central Florida. We have a two year threshold that weeds out those that fail. As in Thailand, euphoria sets in thinking this is a paradise and where you'd like to hang your hat each day. The reality for many of these vacationers that enjoy the beach for a brief period, end up holding two jobs and never set again their feet in the sand. This time next week I'll be in Thailand with my new wife, which will feel odd. 😀 Won't see anything new and just show the classic musts and enjoy it vicariously via her.. This is a delayed honeymoon which takes us to Egypt for 11 nights on route home fromThailand. I highly suspect endorphins will breach uncharted depths of sensation....... In the end, you follow your bliss either at home or abroad. There is no special code to crack or solve no matter what country you decide as each one has unique challenges. ..... I did enjoy this presentation. 👍🏼 Wherever home is, there is no place like it. 😉
I'm 64 been here for 5 months living in Chiang Mai, traveled through central Thailand, Phrae, Nan, Bangkok, Rayong, Koh Kood, Jomtien for month of March to escape the smoke, back now and yes it's bad, heat doesn't bother me because its dry, but the alternative back in Canada living in a basement apartment for three years growing grumpier daily. Its an easy choice, I'll take Thailand.
Great topic, Chris. I recall first, taking the Thailand drug back in 2003. for the next 20 years, I made multiple trips to Thailand and because I had my own business, I was still able to invest well and not throw away my best money, saving, and investment years Today I am happily retired in Bangkok going on my 7th year. But you are right , the drug I took 21 years ago is not the same drug I am on today. I no longer live with rose colored glasses though I do sometimes have to remind myself that now I am living the life that I always dreamed of.
I think learning the language and culture it`s the most crucial thing one needs to do or you`ll end up living in the farang bubble with people on the same loop
My experience in Taiwan was those kinds of people who just complain spent all their time with other Ex-Pats and hadn't bothered to learn the language. I'm kind of old now and I don't know if my Taiwanese wife and I could move back to Taiwan. I think she complains more when we're visiting family. I'm trying to convince her to travel at least 3 months a year when we retire. Spend a moth or 3 each year in a different country. Just enough before culture shock cycle turns negative. Thailand is first on my list. Wish me luck on convincing her.
I worked in Taiwan for 5 years and absolutely love Taipei. I tried my best to learn Mandarin. I got to the point of reading all menus and even some children's books, and could type conversationally but never got good at speaking or listening. I thankfully didn't have grumpy coworkers until I moved to Thailand and Vietnam. Can't wait to visit all 3 countries again starting later this year.
I've been there for 6 weeks and i felt in love with this country, i am from Canada too, like you Chris...but in Quebec province near Montreal...i am in the move to sell everything and go finish my life in this beautiful country...i am positive about my choice..i am tired of the cold and all the taxes and the prices of everything ! Long life to Thailand!!!🙏🥰🙏
Another great video. I plan on retiring in Thailand and am fortunate to get to spent 2+ months a year there now. Last year it was 3 months and I split time between Chiang Rai, Chiang Mai, and Bangkok to get a feel for long term. This year will be Koh Samui, Chiang Mai again, and Udon Thani. I love Bangkok but just don't want to live there. What an adventure Thailand has been since my friend dragged me there in 2015. I've been back at least 1x per year since (except during the lockdown BS).
I'm from the U.S. and I've been living in the Mexico for almost 3 years now and my original plan was to come to Thailand but because of the pandemic, etc, I decided to come to Mexico first. I love it here and I may move back permanently in the future or I may live in Thailand long term, I don't know yet, but I do know that EVERY place has a "honeymoon" period. I decided that I was simply going to experience Mexico and not have any expectations about life here, because of course there will be differences, good or bad. That would be the same in Thailand, but I couldn't ever imagine constantly complaining about the U.S. when I lived there or even complaining about a new country that I move to. Of course you can make comparisons, but constantly complaining and living with that negative energy? If you're complaining all of the time, when do you have time to really LIVE and simply experience things as they are? I have traveled and lived in many places around the world and I have learned that if you simply go with the flow and not try to change things just because you don't like it, you'll be much happier! I've also lived in these places as if I would be there forever and not just as a visitor and I didn't live like I was on vacation all of the time. It opens up a whole new world if you think about it as your forever home, even if you change your mind later on.
Great conversation and content! I will benefit from this when I arrive in June. I was in Pratumnak for 2 months last year. Want to try all the areas this time for the long stay.
Been here 13 months , the novelty has not worn off yet , I’m sensible & level headed , I do miss the uk 🇬🇧 a bit , the cooler weather & some foods , but nothing else. The heat & humidity is intense .. I guess I hastily came here maybe a year or two earlier than I should from a money point of view , but it’s all good.
Going somewhere for a holiday and living somewhere is a totally different thing.... and it varies greatly depending on age and what you are looking for.. whether it be making a living or somewhere to relax and enjoy the later yrs... What you are saying's 1000% true.. Asia is a very different Animal than the West and for many Thailand is the gateway country to experience what life in this part of the world and the differences in Culture that exist out here, not just in Thailand but in many countries in SE Asia... . it's very much a place where no-matter where you come from, you need to be able to adapt to being there.. because there will NOT change to adapt to you! it has its own culture and pace and it is what it is... some can adapt to it, some cannot! Living there is very different from Holidaying there... I've just moved to Vietnam, after visiting for yrs for months at a time to lay the groundwork... and will be visiting Thailand often in future.. but the Principle of being a western expat moving to Asia is very much the same!!
Great advice. In the last few years I have made a number of month long trips to Thailand and the Philippines. Being married to a Filipina for the last 17 years, I'm familiar with the culture. But nothing prepares you for really being there. And every area of Thailand is diverse. I like visiting Bangkok on vacation, but know I could never live there. Too hectic of a pace. Chiang Mai, a little cooler and a little more calm. But the burning season ruins it. Hua Hin, not too crowded, about four hours from Bangkok, near the ocean-(nah, you wouldn't like this place)...my second favorite place. And of course Pattaya. Great fun to visit for a week or two, but would never live there.
Well said about getting older, you have to reboot yourself and be positive, I get that. Im in and out of thailand for the passed 10 years, I have not made the big move yet but it is coming, great vid.
I’ve visited Thailand 20 to 30 times my wife is Thai we just love it and have visited lots of cities, towns, islands and Provences it’s all so magical it’s where to buy that’s been our situation we love everything. I feel it’s a must to live by the Thai rules, learn the language and go with the flow the Thais will accept you wholeheartedly but don’t moan it’s far worse around the world my wife and I regularly look at each other saying (it’s time to live in a paddy field) away from the rat race time to slow down but not for everyone. 😯😀👍🙏
Thanks Chris! Ím planning for a life in Thailand after my retirement so I really appreciate your videos. Like many others I have experienced the amazing Thailand on short vacations so what Íll do in the coming years is traveling to areas where Íve not been to before, for example northern Thailand and also travel during different times of the year. Try to learn a little Thai as a basis, life becomes a little easier if you know the language. For those who complain about administration in Thailand: I’ve lived in china for a few years and have experienced the frustration with authorities, banking system and many other things, so for everyone who complains about thailand, try China! I´ve also moved back to my home country and it is not easy with authorities and other things, the only advantage is that I understand the languge.
I don’t plan on having any friends when I get there. I’m kind of a loner whenever I go to Thailand, I like to walk around and just observe people I’m not much into talking to other foreigners, except in passing conversation
I do the same. This is a great place for that. Eventually you will find a small number of people to have casual conversations with along the way, but your time is your own here - as much as you want it to be.
I can’t wait to relocate when I’m retired. Love Kho Samui at this time. I love how you describe Thailand like being a drug. It’s crazy fun and beautiful
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After living in Asia for years, among other countries, I have learned that it’s best to not really hang out so much with the other foreigners. Expats. I always keep it minimal. Not too much. And it’s much better for me. Less politics. Less headaches. Its true.
Expat living in Asia facing similar problem to Asian migrant settle in the US, canada, Australia, Europe. At first, people need friend to talk and share things, helping each other. After a year, everybody need to find way to look after themself financially and what happen if something happen to them, stress and pressure. so crack begin to appear in the friendship unless you have millitary background, you are more discipline and know the rule.
This has been my experience living in Brazil. Unless I have friends or relatives visiting, I have very little contact with foreigners and expats. I'm with Brazilians 95% of the time
Hey, we don't all get grumpy with time in country and novelty isn't the most important thing. I lived in Bangkok for 30 years before moving to rural Chiang Rai more than 17 years ago. The country has changed, my location has changed and I have changed as I have grown older. Thailand is not the root of my happiness or misery, it is just the canvas upon which I paint my life and it is up to me to choose the colors, texture and subject matter.🙏
Good analogy...
@@jimmy-iq8lh Just 70
Yes, but what made you choose Thailand as your canvas?
@@aloquicious It is something hard to verbalize. I felt more me, more comfortable in my own skin. It was definitely more a feeling than a rational thought.
@@villagefarang I totally understand. It's the same for me. Thank you.
Brett Dev’s Thailand TH-cam channel is definitely one of the very best. He’s a smart guy with plenty of knowledge and good advice.
I met Brett. He’s a sharp young man who “gets it.” 🙏🏼
@@212Roger It should be called "Regarded and working for you."
@@212Roger i hate that guy. stolen
Another element to fold into your thinking about living in Thailand is your perspective of your home country. In my case (the US) I began to see the flaws of that society. Things I had thought were normal became a little crazy and distasteful. Not something I want to go back to. It’s hard to criticize the Thai way of living life when life in the US is increasingly depressing.
I’ve followed Brett’s channel for several years. Good down to earth guy.
I lived in several Asian countries, including Thailand, but mostly in Taiwan, and loved it. I came back to the US for a few years and that was enough for me to decide never to live here again. I'll even retire abroad some day. Preparing to return to Asia this summer and cannot wait.
Brett is great! thanks for giving him his flowers 🌸
Great video. Thank you! I was only there for about 18 months to discover how embarrassed I felt being an American visiting Thailand. The key is to seek out and surround yourself with lighthearted, fun-loving people. They do exist. There should be a sign at the boarding gate that reads: Please leave your baggage at home before boarding.
Your videos are definitely for everyone, I’m 23 now and I have been living in Thailand for 8 months now. 🤙🏼 Your videos propelled me to do so!
ED visa?
@@mlgneo2855 Yeahh, I just got my ed visa about 2 months ago roughly. Before then I was just resetting each month leaving the country.
New to Thailand, here. Your video about 'your 1st hour in Thailand' made things so easy and I am forever grateful for that information. I felt like I had a chance to figure it out because of that video.
I visited in November and returned for what I hope is for good in early Feb. I love this place for EVERYTHING that is different about it than The States. I love walking instead of driving. I love guessing at what food I might like or not like. I have no problem with locals trying to make a buck from my being here (nothing different than the US). The locals here treat me well everywhere I go. And the ladies are more charming than anybody I ever met in The States - and it's not even close.
I love my tiny condo, the pool, the street food, riding baht buses, always being near The Bay of Thailand, the lazy soi dogs. I love not being able to read 80% of the street signs. Less brain clutter. I came here because it is NOT anything like where I came from. While I am in a touristy area, and I know they cater to foreigners at a high level, but it still feels like a 110% foreign experience to me. I hope it feels like that for a long time. And if it doesn't, I'll spend some time in Hua Hin (visited there in November), run up to Bangkok for the occasional week, spend time in Chaing Mai etc. No Phuket for me - too many horror stories about foreigners and how they behave there + the crowds.
Next week I will visit The Sanctuary of Truth as my 1st real endeavor into Thai culture. And I'll go from there. I hope to have the rest of my life to see what this wonderful country has to offer.
And I agree with your Koh Samui friend. I keep asking myself: "Why do I get to do this and other people I know don't get to?" I have no more money than them etc. But I never felt a strong draw to any one place in The States. I moved around a lot whereas they did not. So I think that made this easier for me.
I could not have said it better myself about the way I felt after my two weeks in Thailand. I'll be back soon hopefully for good as well. People ask me how long are you going to be in thailand? I say until it's not fun anymore.
Looks like you have a great attitude. Keep enjoying your juicy life, I arrive in December.
Did you move there to retire ? That would be my goal and I also appreciate the youtubers uploading content. And may I ask how long your visa is for? TY!!
@@Hello11World Yes, I moved here to retire. Now I hope to use this as a home base for one other regional trips to places like Malaysia, The Philippines & Viet Nam for a couple of weeks at a time, but Thailand already feels like home to me. I forget a little about life in the US every day and it doesn't bother me a bit.
I was a grumpy young man, now I'm a happy old man. I always appreciate your perspective on Thailand.
My wife and I are already preparing to retire to Thailand in 4 years from Hawaii. Why? To get away from all the negative Nancy’s in the USA. We love yours and Brett’s channels. People ask us why we are moving away from Paradise and the number one reason is the cost of living.
We’ve been living in Hawaii for 30+ years and the excitement hasn’t worn off. We wake up every morning saying “thank you” and we go to bed the same way.
Like you say Chris we only have so many times around the sun and might as well be happy doing it.
Home is where the heart is, period.
Mahalo Chris and hope to see you in a few years.
There are grumpy people everywhere.
You'll really enjoy Thailand. Just avoid the grumpy people and you'll be fine.
I lived on Mauii for 24 years, retired to chiangmai for over 17 years! I wouldn’t change anything, have money left at the end of the month!❤❤❤
@@danielbianchi3479 Mahalo for sharing Daniel!!! 🤙🏻❤️🤙🏻
I visited Hawaii 4x in about 10 years. Coastal Thailand makes me feel as close to Hawaii as I have ever felt. At about 1/4 or 1/5 the cost of Hawaii.
Hey Chris Gia here. Don’t know if you remember me but I’m friends with your old buddy Andrew Farmer. When I first moved here to Thailand I was quarantined 2020 in Bangkok and you were so kindly brought me lays chips and KitKat . Well it’s almost 4 years now that I live in Koh samui and I could relate hold hardly to this video. My daughter now moved here and it’s been a year now she lived here boy how time past still watch your videos from the start when you had 5,000 subscribers you have always been informative when people ask me question I tell them to look at your videos library love you man
whole heartedly
Hi Gia. Been watching Chris too for a while. I've been looking at places on Samui myself. Wondering if you here any grumblings over the new tax thing that just came out? Effect buying a villa there?
I get bored living in the same place after several years but that's not the same as taking that place for granted or not liking it anymore. I only move to places I love and I still love those places when I move on. I just seek new sights and sounds but I carry many fond memories with me.
This was a surprise! 😃 Great video mate. Thanks 🙏🏻
Deev, have you been paying your Thai taxes or are you just living 180 days in the kingdom and going back to Mom's? 555.
Brett has been one of my favourite Thailand people for many years. I've learned so much from him, just as I have from you. I'm surprised you aren't buddies. I think you have a lot in common and I would love to meet both of you. It's nice that you gave him a shout out. Now if I could only get back to Thailand.
I’m glad to see you are a Brett Dev follower ! I’ve been tuning into Brett for a long time now. I think it is good advice to spend time in different regions as Thailand is so diverse in landscapes. I love the North for the Mountains and the cooler Winter temperatures, I love Koh Samui and other Islands for the breathtaking beaches and I really love BKK and Jomtien/Pattaya for the craziness. Plus there’s so much in between to discover that I don’t think I would ever get bored unless I was too old to get outdoors
Bitching abut Thailand and saying America does it better is friggin mind blowing. I guess it depends on what you want. I want the people the way they are in Thailand over here. Lol
America does some things better
Thailand does some things better
If you are a man, thailand is better
If a woman, child, or old person america is better
Moving in a week, ignoring all the forums and expats. Thailand must be awesome, I'm sure of it. Good food, good weather, friendly people... what more do you need?
budhism too, expats just chat shit
I only been in Thailand for 2 weeks, and I'm back in the States now with the intention of moving back permanently. My bit of advice if you choose to listen to it would be to take in every bit of advice you can find. Thailand is a wonderful place but it can be a bit of a minefield if you are not aware. Who are you could just do you, go their innocent and find out in real time. But just a little tips that will make your life a whole lot easier and not have you scratching your head later thinking I wish I had known that.
I don't have any of those regrets for my trip other than I wish it had been longer.
I moved to Chiang Mai a year ago and have no regrets at all…good luck with your move😊👍
I AGREE!
@@RobFomenko I'm from Ukraine, minefields are no problem
I moved to Bangkok and lived there 6 years. It was my first time living in a city and I loved it. Towards the end of Covid though we built a house in Isaan. I’m not a beach guy but the countryside is a similar journey. Right now I’m on our terrace overlooking the rice fields where currently the cows are grazing. I still love Bangkok and visit once a month for a weekend of excitement.
Marrying a bar girl and moving to butt fuck nowhere Isaan and building a house you don't own ain't the dream man.
I came for the first time to Thailand in 1980. After that I have been here many many times, sometimes 10 times in 1 year. But for 99% of the time I stayed in Bangkok. I was here because my job brought me here. In fact, I traveled all over the world and yet was totally surprised by what I saw outside of Bangkok. I went to Hua Hin with a friend. We drove around on our bicycles and the more I saw, the more I liked it. Now I'm living here over 12 years and still like it. Still don't want to move out of the country. After that long time I started learning Thai a few months back and that is so refreshing. To be able to read some signs in the Thai language is eye opening.
I know a few farangs, but generally I avoid foreigners. And we avoid our Thai family. I pretty much stay with my wife and some friends and we are happy like that.
Thank you for your video.
Constant complaining is a mindset that develops over the time. Usually, a person starts complaining about life in their home country, which is the reason why they look for a better place to call home. Unfortunately, after making the move, the negativity remains. One has to consciously make an effort to change their mindset. Unfortunately, mixing with other likeminded (negative) expats only deepens the negativity. I am speaking from personal experience 😊
I've had some of those miserable expats as coworkers so I couldn't even avoid them. 😅
I am too young to qualify for a retirement visa, but Thailand is definitely on my list. I have worked there before and would enjoy living there if I could get a long term visa. For me, the magic is in every day things, so I love living in and visiting a variety of countries in Asia. I will be visiting Thailand later this year and can't wait.
this video reminds me of that old saying "Wherever you go...there you are."
I have never heard this saying but
Never a truer statement
Thank u
Being grumpy can affect anyone who lives too much in the past or in the future. I think a lot of people who came to Thailand enjoyed the moment and when they couldn't do that anymore the grumpiness came back.
The older I get the more often I remember this phrase
You've already achieved goals you said would make you happy.
I think one thing is very important in life: it's better to walk in the wrong direction once and change your path than to always stay in the same place. In nature, standing still is the same as death.
In this sense, my friends, keep moving and may you always have a tailwind
Hey Chris - this was a great vlog, thanks for the valuable insights. I'm Thai-American and have been living in the USA for my entire life, but I look forward to retiring in Thailand one day hopefully in the next 15 years or so.
As for the miserable expats that like to complain about Thailand, well, all I can say is the door is wide open and they are free to leave anytime. Someone else will gladly take their spot.
No need to be grumpy over things you cannot control. It won’t change anything.
Very good video thank you. You both reminded me of the old adage “wherever you go, there you are”. Having lived on 3 different continents, travelled around the world and now learning Thai as my third language, I can vouch for the fact that it’s absolutely true. I’m currently in bkk talking to immigration agents, sorting out my next Thai language course and experiencing “suburban” life (aka not Asoke lol) so it’s all pretty exciting but I know for sure that in time this will all shift into something else; we’re definitely bkk kind of people. We’ve been living in Oz, in the sticks, for 12 years and miss the advantages of living in a city like bkk. Again, that may change in time…
Thanks again for great content
Hi Chris. Great video and content from Brett. Couldn’t agree more with both of you. I bought property on the side of a hill overlooking the ocean and islands on Samui 20 years ago for retirement. When that time came I found out the rampant unrestricted growth that had happened in that 20 years was just not for me. I sold and moved to a little farm community in the mountains above Chiang Mai and couldn’t be happier. One hour drive and I’m in Chiang Mai for whatever reason I need to be, and I’m passing elephants on the road in. How cool is that ! I’m not a member of any clubs full of whiners, but have met some nice expats. Haven’t stumbled on Brett yet, but will probably some day. Had the pleasure of meeting you and your family once at a restaurant outside of Chiang Mai. Love your new format and story telling style.
Cheers.
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Hey Raymond, I just became the 4th subscriber to your channel! Just so I could contact you. I live in Lombok on a hill overlooking the ocean, but it's not rampant development (yet) it's, well, Indonesian people (in my neighborhood it's Muslim mafia). So I'm looking at Chiang Mai, cool green mountains. Would love to chat.
Thanks Chris, great video...been visiting the Kingdom since 2002....traveled the world, checked out Thailand, North to South, East to West...retired, live in New Mexico 6 months a year and the Kingdom the other 6....settled on a villa on Koh Samui...been here for 6 months now, love it even more...the Thai people and culture make this place...getting ready to head back to the US for 6 months........ looking forward to your next video.....cheers
Me and my girlfriend are living most of the year on Tenerife (Canary Islands) and Algarve (Portugal), but are thinking about moving to Koh Phangan maybe in 1 or 2 years.This year we go there for a month. I already have been to Phangan and IT'S GREAT. I was there in a very miserable mental state once and it kind of build me up, even then. The nature, thai kindness, massages, the food, the spiritual scene there... Amazing :)
Maybe we will be neighbors on the two islands.
I hope most people realize with any drug, your first high will always be the best. After which you will always be chasing that first high experience. Even daily, the first high of the day will be the best, but a person will chase that first high all day and night to no avail.
Secondly, knowing your long-term goals is a big factor. I know I can die at home with dignity in Thailand, hiring a Thai nurse to take care of me for significantly less money than in my home country while having a better quality of life.
Third, there has to be more than drinking in a bar in life. I am going to the Waterpark once a week, getting messages every week and pampering myself as much as possible. There are any number of ways to volunteer to give back and make yourself happy. I am looking forward to traveling for food tours.
All that and then there are the girls and the food. Ya'll get the point.
Great to see you support Brett Dev…
Thailand is a wonderful, enchanting place, esp. for newbies when you are on a 2-week vacation. It's completely different when you live there. It's like a marriage. There's the honeymoon stage, then the reality. It doesn't mean Thailand is not a great place, it is. It just means Thailand is not Disneyland. And, when you learn Thai and learn the Thai culture, there are more levels of nuance to your experience and understanding. Some are good, some not so good. That's the reality. You need a positive attitude, but you also need a realistic one as well. People that think Thailand is non-stop wonderful are just as wrong as those that carp about everything. One thing that is absolutely necessary is having some kind of support group. You can't do it alone. I think that's the problem with many expats that sour on Thailand.
Brett Dev, my teacher, my inspiration to keep moving forward. He has great content for any age. Thanks Chris for another great video.
There's a big difference living in Thailand as a fairly well-off retiree compared to a younger working person struggling to make a living.
True. Especially somebody like me who doesn't have a degree and married.
1000% spot on!!
I love being a retiree in Thailand but I would never have come here to work.
I worked in Thailand, in Rayong. I was making $1k a month and lived comfortably only spending about half of that. It was...interesting. The school I worked at was well known, a lot of corruption behind the scenes, office politics, but the work was easy. I didn't love it, also didn't hate it. I still mostly enjoyed working in Thailand and can't wait to go back to travel.
Not if you daytrade ☺️
We love hearing your take on all of this and the bits of wisdom you throw in. Thanks Chris!
I have a mate who lives in Thailand and he is a grumpy bloke, but I have been mates for 30yrs, I just try and ignore the rants when he has them. He was like that in Australia too, so it’s not a surprise. Me I choose to be grateful for everything I have and the nature I live in still in Oz, I have found that saying things I’m grateful for really makes my day better, and that’s the key for me, even after losing my Scottish soulmate 2.5yrs Ago and the grief that comes with that, I still have things I’m grateful for.
Love your content, man. Lived in Taiwan years back and tromped SE Asia and found Thailand to be the perfect vibe. It’s stayed with me since I left to come back state side. Fast forward some years and now I’m one of those people you speak to just waiting for the money to line up to pull the pin. Can’t say thank you enough for the info you provide.
I have never commented before on any videi. Loved your video and attitude. I'm older than dirt, never been to Thailand and yes, I know it's hot but moving there next month. For me, although not rich, it provides opportunity to help people, perhaps just a few, but helping makes me happy, so I do not fear the newness wearing off and becoming a grumpy old man lol. Thanks again
Thailand is my favourite drug. I just spent the entire day visiting beaches and meeting people in Trang province. An amazing and magical day. Saw one other foreigner.
Expat living in Trang. Few expats, don't miss them. People great. Good weather, eats, plenty to do. Plenty of travel.
Looking for cheep rent and cheep smoke..with a beach .
Im thinking of moving to trang in a year or two, have a house in hatyai at the moment. Ive only hd a drive through trang and absolutely adored the place. I love the real thai way of life, where theres barely any foreigners and everyone gets on with their life.
@lermyaya6407 well, I only spent that one day, but it was wonderful and I can’t wait to get back! Good luck in your journey!!!
There's no other place in the world where I feel so free, appreciated and safe as in Thailand. Such lovely people, excellent food, exceptional health care, decent infrastructure, affordable cost of living and beautiful nature. What do you want more?
I live in Belgium where Islamism, cost of living, crime and wokeness are just getting out of hand, it's madness. So I'm finally taking the plunge and I'll be moving to Thailand by the end of the summer!
Love your content and positive vibes Chris!
Wish you success and enjoy the life there✌️
Those people will complain no matter where they are. They thought the grass would be greener not realizing it’s them. Not the country or people.
Around minute 6:50 of your video you just described the majority of the expats commenting on Bangkok Facebook groups. They somehow confuse people asking for advice from others, that they perceive to be more experienced about certain topics, as an invitation to question their life choices or otherwise make inappropriate comments that only reflect their miserable state of mind! It got to a point where people felt the need to creat “non-troll” groups!
Look forward to grabbing a beer with you and likeminded people at some point!
Great video and wonderful start to my day in Bangkok as my 5 month journey is ending.
The drug analogy is perfect. Some drugs are uppers, and some are downers.
I would suggest Thailand takes whatever your personality is and brings it out in the even more . If you're a positive, happy person, you will be happier and more positive. And the reverse is true as well.
If a person is miserable in their home country, some will find ways to be miserable here . There is no shortage of things to feed an angry expat. If a person is positive, the negative blows by, and they will be more positive than ever before.
We see the latter in all your videos, Chris, so thanks for the work you do . Especially the philosophical part of life in Thailand , perhaps your Canadian life perspective helps with that.
Hi Chris,
I lived in Japan and HK for 12 years. Your video is about something I noticed when I was an expat.
People move to a new country, yet they start complaining about why this and that are being done a certain way, and that in their home country, they do things differently. Well, guess what 😅
On another subject, you’ve done plenty of videos about the cost of living in Thailand. The upper, mid and lower range… however, my wife wants to know how YOU are spending ? You seemed to be active, are city people and enjoy hole in the walls for food and drinks… seems like our lifestyle. So, I know you’re Canadian like us and money is a delicate subject, but would you be able to share?
We’re about to retire… Thailand is in our top 5 (with Japan and 3 Euro countries). So knowing how someone like you needs or spend per year would help 😊
New sub. Great video. Been coming here since 1984. Lived here permanently 2 years now. Intoxication never left me. Love the simple life, not the lights and party. Perfect for me.
That is awesome!
I'm in the next Thai language challenge...can't wait to start!
Great commentary here. There’s something to be said about the saying, where ever you go, there you are. If you move to paradise and all you find are things to complain about, I think it’s time to do some self reflection.
Great video explaining the different phases of becoming an expat and the different mindsets that happen along the way. Not a lot of people have been able to explain it as well as you and Bret have.
Chris this is very informative for all ppl who want to move to Thailand and any Asian countries from Europe or USA or developed countries.
Always enjoy listening to these types of videos you make Chris as well as the other things of course. As for these guys that are unhappy and complain all the time, I think they'd be like that no matter where they lived. Personally, I think it's because most of us live through our egos which means we use external cues as to how well we're doing. It's like the person working at a job and upset that they're not making as much as the other person or the need to have the best car compared to my neighbor. We fail to recognize that happiness comes from within and not something to look for in others or in things we have. When we die, we can't take anything with us anyway. When we can come to that place for ourselves, then our wonderful surroundings are merely a confirmation of what our inner happiness has brought us.
I love your channel, it shows passion and dedication to inform, true desire to want others to enjoy what you have, a happy life. About the grumpy expats in Thailand, I remember my father, he once said, "everything you do, whether you want to get drunk, you want to change your job, you want to get married, you want to travel, do it because you love it, because it makes you truly happy not because you want to escape from something that bothers you, frightens you,... otherwise sooner or later anything exciting you do, not only wears off, but it will wear you down as well..." I believe there some wise truth in what he said that can be applied to the grumpy expats... I like to watch the Russian "mickey stotch" channel primarily because he speaks Thai quite good, with it, he enriches its videos and provides a fuller abroad experience. Beautiful that you are learning the language of the country you love the most; it will probably enhance your ties to thailand and living experience... unfortunately, too many expats just don't understand the importance to communicate in the local language, the enriching experience and the respect they shows to the community they live in...
waiting for the next video
Favorite video that Ive seen from your channel so far. Mindset is 80% of it. Grumpy old man mindset or happy grandpa mindset is a “Choice”. 💗🙏
Hi, I am going for the first time to Thailand next week... feeling excited.. I start watching your videos recently, thank you so much for sharing, I think it helps 😊
Thank you Chris! I like the way you explain it, your attitude, your positiv thinking. Well done!
Anyone looking for happiness externally isnt gonna be happy cause everything comes from within.
But being in Thailand when u was in my 20's after 5 years i turned grumpy and wanted to go anywhere but Thailand ended up in china 2 years and back to usa but now that im older i miss Thailand every day i want to take my daughter there and experience Thailand with a kid
Brett was one of first people before you that i started following when considering thailand. Both of you have great info.
Two of my favorite Thai channels in one. :)
RW4U, great video and weaving in the perspective of Brett. Back in 1983, my dad was assigned to BKK and I was going into my senior year of high school. I ended up at the International School of Bangkok when it was still on Soi 15 Sukhumvit. After a few months, the culture shock and novelty wore off. I almost left to finish high school back in the states. Glad I did not. I would have regretted that the rest of my life. I embraced what Bangkok and other areas of Thailand had to offer and love it and cannot wait to get back there after nearly 20 years that has passed since my last visit. I plan to bicycle tour the country in the next few years and enjoy every minute despite the heat, humidity, and other things that make Thailand a special place. Cheers and thanks for the positivity check!
Thank you for a great video! It is very important to be realistic about your hopes and dreams, no matter what you do in life. If you are, you will never be disappointed, never!
Thanks for this series Chris. I just got back to Canada after four months in Thailand and although my original Post retirement plan was to be there half the year and here half the year with Canada basically as my home base I am now seriously thinking of flipping that and permanently moving to Thailand and just holiday in Canada. The timing of this series is perfect for me as I think this through.
This is just good life advice man. You just woke me up in a way to the fundamentals. Thanks :)
I love the information you provide. I'm planning on moving to Rawai next September when I retire. I grew up in Bangkok in the 70's and can't wait to see all the changes. You Bangkok videos have given me a glimpse. Thank you. Great advice on staying away from the negative Nancy's. When I first decided to retire in Rawai I joined some expat groups on FB but all the complainers and not a lot of good info. If you're not happy here go to the place that makes you happy. Again thank you for your positive informative videos
I’m Thai, born and raised , and I will be moving to rural West Virginia within 6 months ( now I lived in So Cal) , very excited! I love nature and in WV is like going back to 1930. Love it.
Great lesson on life! It is what you make it….life that is. Complacency can certainly lead to viewing your situation negatively, especially if you have a habit of not looking for positive opportunities. Great video as usual Chris!
I am a US citizen and have lived here in Thailand full time for a total of 28 years. I had to make the decision between the Philippines and Thailand for retirement. The Philippines is without a doubt a beautiful country with the thousands of beautiful beaches. My decision came down to infrastructure, Thailand is a generation ahead. Then thinking about all the natural disasters Thailand is way ahead also, very few natural disasters. I am also an introvert. I dislike cities, crowds and especially heavy traffic. I much prefer scenic mountainous areas so the beaches and their corrosive humid salt air meant nothing for me except an irritation. I am happy living in a scenic mountainous area at a thousand feet above sea level. No floods here and a bit cooler. Roads even in this area are well maintained and good. I am now 79 years old and have been married to a Thai woman for 23 years. Maybe I am luckier than most because I planned my retirement carefully and although I'm not wealthy by any means, I am comfortable and don't have to lie on a budget. I think I have made the right choices.
Hi. I love watching your video as I'm an Australian expat that's been living in Bangkok for 11+ years, and absolutely love ir here. Everything coees down to attitude and you create your own reality here or anywhere else you live. As they say, "think good things and good things happenn". I'm a TH-camr that creates videos about Thailand too, mind you I don't have the skill yet that you do, but I hope to create awesome content like you in the near future. Best of luck Chris and keep up the greet work.
Really enjoyed the video. Good luck on your language journey 😊
New follower here. I really appreciate your positive attitude. We are researching places we can retire to. Thailand is high on our list. Thanks for your work.
As a person who recently moved here, I think you will be able to find what you want here. There are about 10 different lifestyle you can live here. Beach life, city life, rural life etc. I think success means knowing which of those places is more likely to suit you for the long haul. Because once you're here, you can always go visit the other places. I myself prefer beach life. I will shoot up to Bangkok soon for a week & to Chiang Mai later on for a week as well. Hua His & Jomtien are nice, but very packed w/expats. If you're okay with that, you'll be okay with those places. And you can walk to the beach from just about anywhere.
You hit it right on the head - people need to ask themselves what is their happy place? What makes people happy - before they move to Thailand. I hate Sydney but i just got back from Thailand and a week in pattaya and found it too touristy during Songkran. And it make me wonder if i moved to Thailand permanently would i be happy? And i know i could only live there for about 3 - 4 months every year before i needed a change of scenery. And travelling around, seeing different places is the way to go. Another great video.
Great video! I’m American and lived in Taiwan for 12 years. Really loved my life there but left after 12 years for a number of reasons, one of which is that I didn’t want to become that proverbial grumpy old many living unappreciatively and hypocritically in a foreign country that you describe. After my career in the state of Hawaii has concluded, I’m thinking strongly about moving to
Thailand or Malaysia for retirement. Your advice is the same advice I’d give to all people considering life in foreign countries!
Hey Chris, I appreciate your realistic and practical point of view about life in Thailand (and your accent lol). Just subbed to your channel.. thanks for all the great and helpful content, eh!
Great Vlog mate, Ive visited 5 times, I've met those grumpy long term expats. Its the simplicity of the place, I ride a scooter 100kms, love the quiet villages and country people more than the buzz, learning the language I love, its a must, Thai culture, Thai smiles, Thai food,Ha whats better, thanks for the tips, 👍🖐.
I am very glad you have created this video.
Visiting Thailand can and usually will stretch all your sensations to the inner regions and depths stimulated and reached for the first time . The heat didn't bother me and it my sense of smell that protested at the start. Then the other senses take in and processes stuff for the first time, and that effect does have a buzz. The same can be said of Miami, where I live part-time as my homestead is in Central Florida. We have a two year threshold that weeds out those that fail. As in Thailand, euphoria sets in thinking this is a paradise and where you'd like to hang your hat each day. The reality for many of these vacationers that enjoy the beach for a brief period, end up holding two jobs and never set again their feet in the sand. This time next week I'll be in Thailand with my new wife, which will feel odd. 😀 Won't see anything new and just show the classic musts and enjoy it vicariously via her.. This is a delayed honeymoon which takes us to Egypt for 11 nights on route home fromThailand. I highly suspect endorphins will breach uncharted depths of sensation....... In the end, you follow your bliss either at home or abroad. There is no special code to crack or solve no matter what country you decide as each one has unique challenges. ..... I did enjoy this presentation. 👍🏼 Wherever home is, there is no place like it. 😉
I'm 64 been here for 5 months living in Chiang Mai, traveled through central Thailand, Phrae, Nan, Bangkok, Rayong, Koh Kood, Jomtien for month of March to escape the smoke, back now and yes it's bad, heat doesn't bother me because its dry, but the alternative back in Canada living in a basement apartment for three years growing grumpier daily. Its an easy choice, I'll take Thailand.
Thank you for this video, Chris ✌🏼
Yes, find your piece of paradise in Thailand. It does exist 🎉
Great video. I think some people are happy being unhappy. I agree its best to surround yourself with positive people.
Thank you Chris for your video contents. Learning a lot.
I love you, Chris. You have the right attitude about life.
It's paradise for me, American..50 years young...love it here!
Great topic, Chris. I recall first, taking the Thailand drug back in 2003. for the next 20 years, I made multiple trips to Thailand and because I had my own business, I was still able to invest well and not throw away my best money, saving, and investment years Today I am happily retired in Bangkok going on my 7th year. But you are right , the drug I took 21 years ago is not the same drug I am on today. I no longer live with rose colored glasses though I do sometimes have to remind myself that now I am living the life that I always dreamed of.
I think learning the language and culture it`s the most crucial thing one needs to do or you`ll end up living in the farang bubble with people on the same loop
Your videos always inspire me.
My experience in Taiwan was those kinds of people who just complain spent all their time with other Ex-Pats and hadn't bothered to learn the language.
I'm kind of old now and I don't know if my Taiwanese wife and I could move back to Taiwan. I think she complains more when we're visiting family. I'm trying to convince her to travel at least 3 months a year when we retire. Spend a moth or 3 each year in a different country. Just enough before culture shock cycle turns negative. Thailand is first on my list. Wish me luck on convincing her.
I worked in Taiwan for 5 years and absolutely love Taipei. I tried my best to learn Mandarin. I got to the point of reading all menus and even some children's books, and could type conversationally but never got good at speaking or listening. I thankfully didn't have grumpy coworkers until I moved to Thailand and Vietnam. Can't wait to visit all 3 countries again starting later this year.
I've been there for 6 weeks and i felt in love with this country, i am from Canada too, like you Chris...but in Quebec province near Montreal...i am in the move to sell everything and go finish my life in this beautiful country...i am positive about my choice..i am tired of the cold and all the taxes and the prices of everything !
Long life to Thailand!!!🙏🥰🙏
Love the honest insight Chris.
Quick question ….
Any updates on the tax situation you did a video on before?
Another great video. I plan on retiring in Thailand and am fortunate to get to spent 2+ months a year there now. Last year it was 3 months and I split time between Chiang Rai, Chiang Mai, and Bangkok to get a feel for long term. This year will be Koh Samui, Chiang Mai again, and Udon Thani. I love Bangkok but just don't want to live there. What an adventure Thailand has been since my friend dragged me there in 2015. I've been back at least 1x per year since (except during the lockdown BS).
I'm from the U.S. and I've been living in the Mexico for almost 3 years now and my original plan was to come to Thailand but because of the pandemic, etc, I decided to come to Mexico first. I love it here and I may move back permanently in the future or I may live in Thailand long term, I don't know yet, but I do know that EVERY place has a "honeymoon" period. I decided that I was simply going to experience Mexico and not have any expectations about life here, because of course there will be differences, good or bad. That would be the same in Thailand, but I couldn't ever imagine constantly complaining about the U.S. when I lived there or even complaining about a new country that I move to. Of course you can make comparisons, but constantly complaining and living with that negative energy? If you're complaining all of the time, when do you have time to really LIVE and simply experience things as they are? I have traveled and lived in many places around the world and I have learned that if you simply go with the flow and not try to change things just because you don't like it, you'll be much happier! I've also lived in these places as if I would be there forever and not just as a visitor and I didn't live like I was on vacation all of the time. It opens up a whole new world if you think about it as your forever home, even if you change your mind later on.
Can I ask where in Mexico you live and why you decided that location?
US citizen and have been living in Mexico for 7 years. Headed to Thailand in October full-time. Wish you the best.
Great conversation and content! I will benefit from this when I arrive in June. I was in Pratumnak for 2 months last year. Want to try all the areas this time for the long stay.
Great to hear this, Im coming to chaing mai later this week,
Been here 13 months , the novelty has not worn off yet , I’m sensible & level headed , I do miss the uk 🇬🇧 a bit , the cooler weather & some foods , but nothing else. The heat & humidity is intense .. I guess I hastily came here maybe a year or two earlier than I should from a money point of view , but it’s all good.
Going somewhere for a holiday and living somewhere is a totally different thing.... and it varies greatly depending on age and what you are looking for.. whether it be making a living or somewhere to relax and enjoy the later yrs... What you are saying's 1000% true.. Asia is a very different Animal than the West and for many Thailand is the gateway country to experience what life in this part of the world and the differences in Culture that exist out here, not just in Thailand but in many countries in SE Asia... . it's very much a place where no-matter where you come from, you need to be able to adapt to being there.. because there will NOT change to adapt to you! it has its own culture and pace and it is what it is... some can adapt to it, some cannot! Living there is very different from Holidaying there... I've just moved to Vietnam, after visiting for yrs for months at a time to lay the groundwork... and will be visiting Thailand often in future.. but the Principle of being a western expat moving to Asia is very much the same!!
Great advice. In the last few years I have made a number of month long trips to Thailand and the Philippines. Being married to a Filipina for the last 17 years, I'm familiar with the culture. But nothing prepares you for really being there. And every area of Thailand is diverse. I like visiting Bangkok on vacation, but know I could never live there. Too hectic of a pace. Chiang Mai, a little cooler and a little more calm. But the burning season ruins it. Hua Hin, not too crowded, about four hours from Bangkok, near the ocean-(nah, you wouldn't like this place)...my second favorite place. And of course Pattaya. Great fun to visit for a week or two, but would never live there.
Thanks for the video Brett
I think this is life and not specfic to Thailand but evreywhere
Certinly making me think about my own mind set
Thank you
Well said about getting older, you have to reboot yourself and be positive, I get that. Im in and out of thailand for the passed 10 years, I have not made the big move yet but it is coming, great vid.
I’ve visited Thailand 20 to 30 times my wife is Thai we just love it and have visited lots of cities, towns, islands and Provences it’s all so magical it’s where to buy that’s been our situation we love everything. I feel it’s a must to live by the Thai rules, learn the language and go with the flow the Thais will accept you wholeheartedly but don’t moan it’s far worse around the world my wife and I regularly look at each other saying (it’s time to live in a paddy field) away from the rat race time to slow down but not for everyone. 😯😀👍🙏
Some very relevant perspective here.. thanks!
Thanks Chris! Ím planning for a life in Thailand after my retirement so I really appreciate your videos. Like many others I have experienced the amazing Thailand on short vacations so what Íll do in the coming years is traveling to areas where Íve not been to before, for example northern Thailand and also travel during different times of the year. Try to learn a little Thai as a basis, life becomes a little easier if you know the language.
For those who complain about administration in Thailand:
I’ve lived in china for a few years and have experienced the frustration with authorities, banking system and many other things, so for everyone who complains about thailand, try China!
I´ve also moved back to my home country and it is not easy with authorities and other things, the only advantage is that I understand the languge.
When you live your life with gratitude you can live just about anywhere and be a generally happy content person. Its as simple as that in my opinion.
I don’t plan on having any friends when I get there. I’m kind of a loner whenever I go to Thailand, I like to walk around and just observe people I’m not much into talking to other foreigners, except in passing conversation
I do the same. This is a great place for that. Eventually you will find a small number of people to have casual conversations with along the way, but your time is your own here - as much as you want it to be.
I can’t wait to relocate when I’m retired.
Love Kho Samui at this time.
I love how you describe Thailand like being a drug.
It’s crazy fun and beautiful