WITH WHIT: I Had A Miscarriage | Whitney Port
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- Hey Guys - It's been a rough month. Timmy and I found out we were pregnant and then sadly, I had a miscarriage. I've been struggling with feelings of sadness, relief, and fear of admitting that relief. I would love to hear your thoughts below.
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Whitney Port = The Most relatable person in the history of MTV shows! 💯💯💯💯💯
yes!!!!!! makes you not feel gross after watching listening to
hahaha! ill take that!
BadNewz Brown totally
Your TH-cam serious “I love my baby but...” helped me during my 2nd pregnancy after I had a miscarriage. Thank you for sharing all the ups and downs of life.
Thank you for supporting! Let me know if there are any topics you want us to cover in the future!
Timmy is such a great interviewer. It didn’t feel like he was talking to you as his wife, but as a real woman going through something that so many women struggle with. You guys are really changing the game.
I had a miscarriage in my first pregnancy and I never knew miscarriage was so common because no one spoke about it.. I now have a 1.5 year old beautiful baby girl and I want to say I have so much love for you guys, thank you for being open, thank you.
You are welcome and sorry that you had to go through that. It's a tricky topic and no one's choice is wrong, but for me, talking about it helped.
I love the way you guys speak to each other and listen 👂🏻 You guys are great for each other. 💞
❤❤❤
Thank you!! He's a keeper
What a refreshing site to hear someone speak so candidly snd sincerely about such a difficult topic without feeling the need to be completely “politically correct”. And you seem to each be such a great support system for each other!
It was a bit scary before we put this out there, not knowing how people would react, but thank you for the support. means a lot
Thank you for putting this story out there, you shouldn’t be afraid or ashamed, you should feel proud and brave, no matter what others say. We’re all different and have different coping mechanisms when we’re vulnerable and your reaction is normal.
You are so right and that is so important for me to hear
The fact you got emotional about what happened proves you are not a monster. Not everyone is meant to have the same things as everyone else. Your life will take you where you need to go and bring you the people that are meant to stay. You being happy with your life proves you are where you're meant to be. Sending love ♡
right! I need to keep telling myself that
So does it make me a monster that I didn’t become emotional over mine?
You guys are absolute relationship goals. So sorry to both of you for your loss. Have really enjoyed getting to know you and your family through your youtube channel
Lucy James Aren’t they awesome together? The respect and love they hav for each other is inspiring.
Thank you!!
Thank you for talking about this. I had an ectopic pregnancy this summer and was not ready to be pregnant. I was relieved that it wasn't viable and could proceed with my life and career as normal. Pregnancy is complicated, we should be talking about it that way.
wow this is so raw and vulnerable. I commend you both for diving into this and sharing with the world. I do not relate, but I personally learned a lot about a different perspective. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you! and i totally understand that this is not everyone feelings to this situation, but thank you for understanding.
Thank you for sharing... I am going through a miscarriage as we speak and am meeting my doctor this afternoon to go over those 3 options. I have no idea which is right for me, but hearing you and Timmy talk it out made me feel a little less alone today. Always do what is right for you and your family and try not to feel guilty for how you're feeling ❤️
Sending you prayers and strength during such a difficult time!
I’m so very sorry you’ve had to walk through this. Miscarriage is so mentally, emotionally, and physically difficult to go through. I went through one on my first Mother’s Day when my oldest was 7 months old. At the time we weren’t ready to have another baby, we were actively trying not to get pregnant, but when we did we got excited, and thought, “Well, this is our journey, let’s make the best of it.” When we lost that baby though, I was devastated. It’s been 4 years, and I’ve had two more children, but I still think about that baby. However you are feeling, it’s valid, and it’s okay.
man, it can all get so complicated. I'm sorry you went through that
I find it so romantic that your husband refers to you as a specimen! As a woman who went through a miscarriage before my second was born, I found this incredibly helpful. It’s hard to heal from something so taboo. Good for you both for being so vulnerable. We need more conversations like this.
He thinks he got someone out of his league, but i think the same thing too. I'm sorry for your loss. I know how you feel and we need to keep talking about these things and be there for one another.
I want a Timmy. What a great man.
Me too girl!
Thank you once again for your open and honest discussion. Going through a miscarriage was never something I would have thought happened to me, but it did and I wish we talked about it more freely. There’s a lot of shame surrounding the topic and we need to let that go. I hate the term “I lost the baby”, miscarriage is something that happened to me by no fault of my own.
Such a vulnerable conversation to have in this forum.
Your feelings are so valid (most especially because it's just your truth).
Thank you again for sharing.
xoxoxox
Sending lots of love.
I’ve been dealing with infertility for 2.5 years now. Thank you for opening up about this subject. It really needs to be spoken about more! Talking to my friends and family about all my struggles have really helped me. If I kept everything inside, I would be a miserable person.
I'm so sorry for your struggles. I think there is still so much more to discuss about fertility.
There's no need to feel ashamed about your thoughts. This is your life- and there's no need to follow a timeline. Do what feels right for you - or don't. But don't lose yourself on this journey. I really love how authentic and honest you are.. Thanks for sharing your story 🦋 your words inspired me a lot. Feel hugged, greetings from Germany 😊
I really really do feel it. Thank you. Part of it is not wanting to upset how good things are now, which also makes me feel selfish, but it's not just for me...it's for Sonny and Timmy too.
I respect your honesty. Thank you for sharing!
I am in tears 😭💔 same happened to me few months ago, I completely relate to your mix feelings... it's a hard situation to go thru. And truly thank both of you for putting this topic on the table. Although is still difficult for me to discuss it, the support your husband gave you, made me feel relieved ... no one shares things like this and I felt alone for so long until now
This was so real and raw! Thank you for sharing. As someone who has gone through years of fertility treatments, IVF and a miscarriage, I do not judge you at all for your feelings, I actually applaud your honesty! I thankfully was blessed with a son a week younger than Sonny and I feel like we've been on this same journey together as being a mom didn't come naturally or easily for me either. Continue to share your hearts with us! PS I love your shirt!
You are exactly the woman I was thinking about when recording this. I was so afraid of upsetting those with fertility struggles, but know that I truly sympathize. I'm so happy you have your boy. This motherhood stuff is not easy, but we got you!
I’m so sorry for your loss! Thank you guys so much for sharing. What a good role model of a relationship ! Lot of love
Thank you! We fight too, just like everyone else. haha
Love this Whitney! I had a miscarriage in 2017 and it changed me. I decided to openly share my pain and was able to find connection with SO many amazing women. Thank you for sharing you, beautiful soul, are not alone.
Thank you beautiful girl for your honesty! I had a my 1st child at the tender age of 19 years old. When she was 14 years old I fell pregnant. My other half and I went through so many emotions of shock that we felt so selfish that our feelings were wrong because we were almost done raising our 1st born. We started planning a life without small children to take care. A life where we could turn our focus on the years we missed when we were young. I absolutely hated being pregnant and going through that experienced scared me to my core. 7 weeks after we found out I was pregnant we got an ultrasound and found out our baby had no heartbeat. And just like you I felt a sense of relief because I knew I didn't want to go through being pregnant again. My doctor also suggested me to have a DNC and I followed his instruction and had it done.
Then almost exactly a year later of going through that we found out I was pregnant with our son Ari. With this news I didn't have the same fear that I had finding out about my second pregnancy. Maybe because we were in a place in our lives that we just took the news better or maybe deep down we just knew it was meant to be.
Now I'm 37 with an 18 year old daughter and a 22 month old son. Everyone that finds out how far my children are apart in age think I'm crazy but I honestly am old enough to not worry about people's opinions. I know for me and my spouse having our children so far apart in age was what was meant for us not anyone else.
You and Timmy have your own story to write and maybe it wont be like mine or anyone else's but it's a story I know your going to be proud of.
Don't ever change! ❤
You and your husband are such a source of strength for one another. That is such a blessing. I appreciate your vulnerability while sharing your personal experience.
The fact you got emotional about what happened proves you are not a monster. Not everyone is meant to have the same things as everyone else. Your life will take you where you need to go and bring you the people that are meant to stay. You being happy with your life proves you are where you're meant to be. Sending love ♡
Your honesty about the realities of motherhood and the vulnerability we feel as women is so refreshing and appreciated 💜💜💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you so much for being so open and transparent. I had a miscarriage one year ago (and that year flew by.) and I still struggle. A lot of the things you said really brought me peace. ❤️
Ryan Thompson I had one five years ago and I still think of what could have been. Sorry for your loss ❤️
Nikki Dontchaknow thank you, so sorry for your loss too ❤️
im tearing up. to think that this could bring you some peace for such a difficult topic makes me feel like all of this is worth it. I'm sorry you are struggling, but you are NOT alone
I have one child, he’s almost five. I love just having one. I love that I don’t feel like I’m spread too thin and I can give my son whatever attention he needs. Honestly, I would be spread too thin and too stressed with another child. I really value the low stress parenting my husband and I have now. We have a lot more financial freedom, as well. I do get questions “when are you going to have another baby” and I’ll get an awkward “oh..” when I respond with “we’re not having another.” I’m perfectly okay with being a “one and done” mom. I used to feel guilty because of societal pressures to have more and my boy won’t have any siblings, but he has plenty of friends and cousins. My husband on the other hand, wanted one more, so it took him a little longer to be okay with it. After some long talks we’re on the same page
Lindsey Stein Thank u for telling your story. I myself don’t have any children yet but I know that when I do, I only want ONE child. I have always felt HORRIBLE about that thought but you sharing your story makes me realize that it is TOTALLY OKAY to feel that way. So thank u again for sharing your story🙏🏻❤️
I’m so glad that helped you!
Thank you for this. I’m thinking, as much as I love children, I personally think I can only have the capacity to mother 1.
I have 2 children one boy one girl & I'm very blessed to have one of each gender. but no matter if I would have had 2 boys or 2 girls I always just wanted 2..... we're far from rich but my husband works so hard to provide us a nice home, car, food, clothes, vaca ext... I just always felt that I wanna give the 2 I have the very best we can rather than have more & I get hate all the time for not having more... no everyone wants 4 or 5+ kids & I wish more people would respect that! So thank you for sharing that you just want one. It's so nice to see other women that feel the same! 😊
I hate that question. I got it all the time and when I finally said, “I’ve had seven miscarriages” they would give a shocked look and change the subject. It’s such a rude question. Parenting is a choice between those choosing to be parents. Not outside people. And having one child is amazing. Having 2 would be amazing. But I’m 38 and mine is in college and I have my whole life ahead of me. Nothing wrong with that!
I’ve been through 2 miscarriages and it’s the most heartbreaking time. 1 was an unplanned pregnancy and the other was a planned pregnancy. I love how open and raw you are. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Whit, you're a good person. I'm going through a similar situation and I feel almost exactly the same as you do. Thank you for sharing! It's important to hear! Timmy, you're an amazingly supportive husband. The love and respect you two have for each other is beautiful.
I was 23 and ended up pregnant by someone that i thought i was in love with me. Long story short i ended up choosing to end the pregnancy. The guilt i went through making that choice still ways on me decades later. At 31 I married my now husband, and all of the when are you going to have a baby conversations started. At that point i kinda felt like i had lost the right to make that choice. If it was going to happen it would happen. At 37 my health started to go down hill. I was told that i was going to have to have a hysterectomy. After never really feeling like i should have kids, i cant tell you the guilt i felt because my body was broken and could not make one. You are brave to share your story! The more people talk about things like this the better woman/mankind will be.
I'm so sorry you went through that. Living with regret is hard, but you seem sensitive and wonderful and deserving of all the love in the world.
I am continually reminded how truly genuine and human you are. I feel so connected to you not only as a person but as a mom. Thank you.
Wow what a raw and honest conversation on such a sensitive topic . Sending love to you and your family
we are receiving it. Thank you!
I’m so extremely sad to hear this Whit but at the same time I’m incredibly proud of you and your husband for speaking public about it🙏🏻
You guys are gonna help so many people out there❤️
Sending you nothing but love😊
Tim asked excellent questions. Thank you for your honesty, Whitney.
Love how your husband always listen and loves you for who you are!
I also really relate to the second child question. When I first admitted to my fiancé I wasn’t sure about another I was so scared, I told him I was scared he would eventually leave me for not wanting a bigger family. But like your husband said he wanted a life with me no matter what my decision would be even if he wanted more kids, he didin’t wanted them if I didin’t. It was a relief!
Love your honest posts, we need more women like you!
I had a miscarriage at 17 weeks and was devastated. It was further complicated with hemorrhaging and an emergency DNC and blood transfusion. My situation was different than yours but so is everyones! As all situations are different, so are people's feelings and reactions.
You have nothing to be ashamed or feel bad about! You are being honest which is more than many can do so openly and honestly.
I love my kids but HATED every aspect of pregnancy.
On a side note, you both seem to have the most genuine and caring relationship.
I’ve had 3 miscarriages and it’s hard every time. Sending you love, sending every person who’s suffered a miscarriage love. 💕
Also, I completely understand the “I don’t know, let’s see what happens”. I’ve felt the exact same way. I also understand telling family and friends early on in a pregnancy because no one should suffer a miscarriage alone (unless they want to of course). There would be less shame surrounding miscarriage if it weren’t so taboo.
I just wanna thank you for being open and honest enough to put this video out there. I had a miscarriage and i still struggle with it to this day. I know I'm not the only one who's had one and it's nice to hear others open up about it because it is seriously one of the hardest and most traumatic things to ever go through. I remember wondering why my body hates me so much that it literally killed my baby. I've done alot of healing since it happened but theres still times i get upset. My heart goes out to any woman who has experienced it. I am so happy for you and Timmy that you were blessed to have Sonny.
You have an absolutely beautiful relationship. You’re feelings are normal and you shouldn’t feel shame for feeling them. I love how honest you two are with each other, it’s very refreshing. I’m so sorry for your loss & wish you nothing but the best. Love & light. Ps- been a longtime fan, always been my fav ♥️
There are so many intense opinions about women's bodies and what we do with them. I think people who share their stories/experiences are heroes. There are women out there who don't have a good community or support, so these stories are NEEDED and SO helpful for processing these traumas. You're amazing and Timmy is an absolute gem. Thank you for sharing this experience with the public.
Y’all have always found an eloquent way of having difficult conversations. I am so sorry you experienced this.
Oh my goodness I did NOT expect to cry...your honesty and vulnerability is so brave. ♥
Whitney you are the sweetest. I admire your relationship with Timmy so much.
Awh Whitney you are INCREDIBLE!!!
More people need to discuss this. Thank you for shedding YOUR light on the topic. You are not alone in the situation or your feelings.
Love Timmy being on the podcast too, he is so supportive and such a caring guy. Please have him on again!!
Sending you all the love.
Wow! I’m crying along with you. Feel for what you had to go through. Feelings are feelings and you have every right to feel whatever you need too. Kudos for being vulnerable and putting it out there for us all to hear.💕 My husband and I were always asked when are you having another? He will be lonely without a sibling? And the list goes on...In the beginning I felt guilty saying anything, but eventually got up the nerve to say we weren’t having another. Our son is amazing and I just wanted to devote my everything to him and him only. He’s not a spoiled child, he has friends, is very well mannered, smart, and the list goes on. It was the right choice for our family...and we don’t regret not having another, even though many people voiced there opinions that we would.
Whit and Tim, please, you do you, whatever that is, and whatever fits for your family. What’s meant to be will be! Love you both💕 Thanks for having the conversation.
A blessing in disguise, but still makes the heart heavy. The fact that you're shedding tears just shows you are a person with feelings and that you are not a horrible person.
I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. My baby stopped growing at 4 weeks. I’m only 24 years old and it took me 3 years to get pregnant. I’m still trying to get pregnant. I know I will when the time is right. I’m sorry this happened to you. Thanks for sharing this with us ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t image the pain, sadness and anger. Thank you for sharing your story and being so open about how you both have felt.
Hi Whitney and Timmy
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you find the emotional and physical healing from this. I also think it is great that you and your husband had this conversation together. It is so refreshing to hear a married couple talk to one another in a caring and respectful way what an example for everyone to see.
Timmy likes to talk ;)
I'm so sorry for your loss. I think your very brave to be so honest & share your story. I think you are helping alot of people. Sonny is a lucky boy to have a Mom & Dad like you both.
You are both amazing and so sweet! Your marriage is so beautiful and inspiring. No one should ever feel ashamed of how they feel. Those are their feelings and not everyone is going to understand them.. all we can do is help support them. Because we can’t take those feelings away all we can do is support them and help them get through it the best we can. I have 4 kids and constantly think about what it would be like to just have one or even just two kids. Being a mom is exhausting and so tiring. But in the end like Timmy said once you get to it and your in it you realize it’s actually pretty amazing.
This was beautiful. I experienced a miscarriage as well and it was one of the most lonely times I ever experienced. The process was scary and as a whole I wish the doctors response was different rather than just being another patient for the day. Thank you for sharing your story.
No one should have to go through this alone and I hear you on doctors. It was not my experience, but if they are cold or clinical the whole thing feels even more sad and bizarre.
I’m 4 years late but, wow Whitney. You’re so strong and you’re reaction is completely your own and you shouldn’t have to justify it to anyone. And Timmy, you’re the true definition of what a husband should be. Kind, empathetic, empowering, thoughtful and so funny. I love this channel, and love you guys and your openness.
I can relate to your story in almost every single way. I went through the same thing and had the same feelings about it. Thank you for making me feel not so alone! ❤️
Wow you and Timmy are such a dream team! ❤️ Thank you as always for being so raw and honest.
i really admire the love and communication between you two.
i myself struggled for over 10 years... having several miscarriages. our only daughter was born last april, and now everyone asks when we're having another. i love my daughter... more than anything... but i hated being pregnant...and i don't think i want to do it again. people look at me like i am a monster.
this podcast was everything i needed to hear. we hear you whit, we love you and validate your feelings!! thank you!!!
Whitney, don’t worry about what anyone else thinks.
Amen, I feel like most people should think “what would Whitney think of this” if anything.
I don’t have children & right now I’m feeling 100% like Whitney. Great conversation!
I think you put too much pressure on yourself Whitney.... give yourself more credit, you’re a good mom, and a great person, and you’re human... you’re allowed to live without planning... this is a difficult situation & you’re incredibly brave for sharing this intimate experience with the world. 💜 & Timmy is an amazing partner.
Thank you for sharing this! There is such a stigma around miscarriage and it’s so sad for parents going through it. Don’t feel ashamed about feeling any bit of relief, you are a great Mom!!
I love your honest and raw story. You are NOT a monster! You are being completely honest and so many ppl feel the way you do and it doesn’t make them bad. Thank you for sharing
I'm so grateful to you for speaking up about this. Normalize women having things other than super lovely emotions around pregnancy, childbearing and motherhood 💕💕💕
As someone who had a miscarriage, I respect your honesty. Having a miscarriage is very difficult and it takes a tole on your body and mental health. I went through phases myself of why? And what if? Followed by depression. It’s okay to be vulnerable. Allow yourself to be vulnerable because many of us go through it. I related so much with your story and appreciated it.
The way you and Timmy can communicate and support each other is so admirable. I love your honesty and openness thank you for sharing 💕 You’re so strong and such a great mom and a wonderful person don’t ever doubt yourself!!
Hi Whitney & Timmy- thank you for your courage to share. My husband and I have been through 4 miscarriages and we are currently battling to hold onto our 5th pregnancy. I found myself looking for stories I could listen to and ran into yours. I'm not sure how to feel right now either, as you said when you were in that "grey" area of not knowing what will happen. I try so hard to believe in myself and keep the hope that this will turn around. I see the two of you talking about it together so beautifully and open and it warms my heart to see a couple that is overcoming it together, not afraid to share, in hopes it can make a difference in some way. You made a difference for me in that I should not be afraid to be more open about my experiences. In fact, when I think abut them all it really could be a movie with how they all went down- sad, dramatic, and maybe even a little comical. Even in my current state, I feel encouraged to share now. I am so sorry for your loss and pray for only the best of things to come your way.
Whitney, I love your honesty. I know what it's like to feel such immense pressure to have to want a second child. I just want to tell you - it's okay if you don't. I think your family is already perfect just as it is.
I love the communication in your relationship. There is so much love and respect and listening without judgement. 💙 Thank you for being vulnerable
I adore you both. Thank you so much for sharing your personal story.
I’m not even five minutes in and I just have to say a few things. You and Timmy make such a great team. I always love how he questions you, but not in an offensive way. He draws out the way you feel in the absolute best and genuine and sweetest of ways. I love you guys and I love what you do. Thank you ❤️
Thank you!
Whitney you are not a monster. You are human and very honest!!! Thank you!!!!
Your honesty is really refreshing. Sorry that you went through all this but it was really good of you to share your experience. Your relationship with your husband is really wonderful to see.
Thank you. He is a gem
You are a REAL one, Whitney! I appreciate and admire your openness and vulnerability in sharing these intimate and sensitive moments in you and Timmy's lives. Thank you so much! Peace in the streets
I feel the EXACT same way about having a second child. While I want my daughter to have a sibling so badly, I also so want to have my (somewhat) independence back and feel like my old self again while getting to be a mom, too. Having a baby was a far bigger undertaking than I assumed it was prior to becoming a mom and I’m not sure I want to go through the entire process again. TBD. Thank you for sharing!! You’re an inspiration!
Listening to this felt like being a fly on the wall in your home while you guys were having a real, raw conversation between yourselves. Thank you so much for being so open and honest and for just unapologetically being yourselves. I just love you both. I wish you and Sonny nothing but love, peace and happiness 💚
This is so beautifully honest. Please, keep sharing as I’m sure your comments reflect with so many people out there.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I am now 36 and absolutely love my life, but my journey to this place was tough to put it lightly. I was very out of control as a teenager and had a very severe drug problem. When I was 15 I was pregnant and had a miscarriage. I didn't even realize what had happened until years later and had actually blocked it out of my memory for many years. At the time I was strung out on heroin and meth in addition to being extremely young for pregnancy. When I remembered what had occurred it was extremely traumatic but I was also filled with so much guilt. I still have guilt about it. I feel guilty for believing and knowing that the miscarriage was a blessing for me and the unborn child. Your story helped me to see that no matter your situation it's okay to feel relief when these things naturally occur. I have now been clean for 20 years and have an amazing son that means the world to me. Thank you so much for being so real and vulnerable, your story is going to help a lot of women.
Your tears and uneasy voice made me tear up. It's so vulnerable having a miscarriage. I had one last month and now Im 3 weeks pregnant again (I conceived immediately after) and so scared. Thanks for sharing, validating us Whitney 💕
Hope you're doing well now and looking after yourself xx
I’m really sorry you went through that💓 no matter what a miscarriage is hard, I’ve been there and im keeping you all in prayer! I love you Whit 😘
I’m so so sorry you had this experience. Sharing this conversation is incredibly important and you are helping so many people by putting this out there.
Being a mom is losing control over life. Children have free will, they aren't robots. It's like getting on a rollercoaster. Fun, scary, angering at times when you want off but can't get off. For me, being a mom is sometimes doing the opposite of what I personally feel like doing. It's about making sacrifices. Sometimes I don't like making sacrifices but I do it. Love for my son is my fuel. Whitney, I bet you're an amazing, loving mom. It would be ashame if you didn't have another child because you have a lot of love to give and your child would love to have a sibling. I see you having at least 3 one day. ❤
Kara A you said it so well!
This was so good. Thank you for being so open and honest with your journey. Miscarriage isn’t discussed but happens more often than people know.
Tiff J so very true.
You are an incredible human. We are all so perfectly imperfect. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing these thoughts and feelings. We love you and support you always. You are never alone.
Wow! This is the open conversation so many couples need to hear. So sad to hear this news but grateful that you are sharing this so that others can process and handle this situation as well. 🙏
First I’d like to say that it breaks my heart that you had to even feel scared to be honest about your own situation. But we definitely all feel that way too, it’s how society is sadly. Also, I love how supportive Tim is and how honest you both are!! - I’m sorry for your loss and thank you so much for your honesty, it’s so refreshing to hear honesty for a change.
I see all these amazing supportive comments!! I have nothing new to add but just want to repeat the thank you so much for sharing! You and your husband have a beautiful partnership.
Thank you for being so vulnerable for the rest of us. You’re feelings are right because they’re YOURS. I’m thankful for all that you’ve shared - it has truly helped me and my husband with our feelings through your first child and all the emotions that are “unspeakable”. Love and support from Vancouver Canada
Thanks for your honesty, Whitney. We should never be judged for the choices we make in these intimate circumstances. I don't have (or want) kids, but this was so refreshing to hear.
You guys did great. Enjoyed listening to your honest conversation. I have had two miscarriages one when I was younger which I felt a little relieved but also I felt guilty. My second one was with my husband which was devastating because I felt ready, but year later I had my only son, for which I am totally grateful for.
You are NOT a monster 💗 You are human- and have mixed feelings. It is completely understandable. It takes time to process. Your feelings are very similar to how I felt when I went through it years ago. Thank you for putting this out into the world. 💗
Im sorry for your loss. Im currently recovering from a second miscarriage in 6 months. The first was a spontaneous natural loss which was extremely traumatizing. The second was a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks, and to spare the trauma, we knew to do the d&c. We told people both times that i was pregnant and each time we had loads of support when we lost the babies. I don't regret any of my decisions. Miscarriage is a heavy topic and taboo to society, but its real, and it happens. Talking about about it and hearing from other women, (however they feel about it) makes you feel not so alone in the world.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. We have an amazing 2 year old son, and I am going through my second miscarriage right now. I couldn’t agree more, people should talk more about their miscarriages ❤️❤️
So brave of Whitney to express all of these feelings which all of us ladies have felt at some point. I've been a fan of hers for over 13 years, since I was 23, and she is still one of the most authentic people I've ever seen on reality TV. Her honesty, ethics, and integrity in all of her work environments are admirable. I hope MTV features her and Timmy more for the next season of the Hills.
I also have to say that Timmy reminds me so much of my husband. You two are so great at showing support for each other.
I feel so weird liking this video but this such an incredible use of your platform. I admire you for sharing this, especially when it was so fresh. I appreciate how raw and vulnerable you were about all of this.
I had a very similar experience when I miscarried early on in regards to feeling somewhat relieved but feeling so guilty and like a monster for even having that thought.
Sending you both so much love even after so much time has passed! I’m so thankful that I found your channel.
You are not a monster in any way, and I appreciate you and Timmy sharing such intimate and relatable pieces of your life. Sending love. Xo
I’m so sorry you and your husband had to go through this :(
Thank you for being vulnerable and so open by putting this story out there!
I appreciate your openness to this topic. I too just went through a miscarriage and it was very traumatic and I also had the same feelings about having a second child. I feel like I'm a bad mom for not wanting a second and being so scared. It was not a planned pregnancy and I had just wrapped my head around it and then at my first OB appointment in front of my husband and 2 year old we were told no heartbeat 💔. Now I don't know where to go from here....
I appreciate your raw and honest feelings. You shouldn’t feel ashamed about how you feel, this was YOUR experience and no one else’s opinion matters.