We had 3 losses, a stillborn and 2 earlier losses with an ectopic loss (also losing tube) and a miscarriage. We also had 5 healthy children, including a surprise set of twins (no fertility treatments). When we lost our 2nd son, 2nd pregnancy, who died during an early labor, my husband, while very supportive to me, didn't seem that upset and I almost felt like he didn't care as much as I did. His friends knew wasn't true. He didn't show me his devastation until over a year later after we had a healthy daughter. He held our deceased son when I was rushed into surgery hemorrhaging, unsure I would make it. First time I saw him cry when when I finally opened up about that loss. He was so worried after that I wouldn't be ok emotionally after recovering physically, he held it in from me, feeling he had to be a rock and just hold me up & help me survive. So many men do that and seem to be ok, but they're hurting bad. Our last 2 pregnancies were losses. The last one was just a month before my husband's sudden death, and today is the anniversary. He died on Valentine's Day, leaving me widowed at 41, now raising whom 5 living children we so wanted who didn't get their Dad enough years like they should have. I hope he at least gets to raise our 3 lost babies, including his namesake, who I never could rock to sleep. 💔
?????? If this is truly true my heart goes out to you but making up this story I feel ashamed for you.. Because losing a child is the worst pain you can ever go through RIP Meagan Elizabeth 10/4/21 See you in heaven
@@alexandabbyskon1923 You are not a good human being, and what adult says that to someone, not knowing better? Parenting is not naming a baby or saying "Yay I love you" on the internet, but role modeling the correct behavior being an adult example. One can't behave as you just have and be a good parent so if you decide to have more children, work on your behavior and maturity in order to set a competent example. I've raised many children and even taught parenting classes. Parent who act as you just did have children who are not good people and children deserve better role models. Time to grow up.
@@betsybabf748 All I'm saying people make up false stories to have people to feel sorry for them. Secondly I have 3 beautiful children 2 boy's and 1 girl. And lost 1 last year. And for you to say that I'm not a good parent? What character that make you?? And as I say before I don't know if your story is truth or just for sympathy.. So before you say anything else about me.. Tell people the truth.. For I seen many people making shit up.. And for you judging me make you not a human being either.. As for me I'm great at parenting my children so who are you to say I'm not.. So before you say anything else about me who you don't know nothing about keep your nasty shit to yourself
It is a "group" that none of us want to be a part of, but it happens. Unfortunately it happens more than once for many. I personally feel like there's also a 'group' for those of us that have NEVER been able to become a mother, & Ivf & other options aren't an option for many of us Unfortunately.
Both of you women should own that you are helping people and both of you humble people who it came easy too treat yourselves to the fact that it did come easy to women who don't feel like we deserve it. It isn't about pitty but amazing women like you should get to have what some women get the luxury of dealing with. You make us appreciate it more and I hope that gives you some peace.
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We had 3 losses, a stillborn and 2 earlier losses with an ectopic loss (also losing tube) and a miscarriage. We also had 5 healthy children, including a surprise set of twins (no fertility treatments). When we lost our 2nd son, 2nd pregnancy, who died during an early labor, my husband, while very supportive to me, didn't seem that upset and I almost felt like he didn't care as much as I did. His friends knew wasn't true. He didn't show me his devastation until over a year later after we had a healthy daughter. He held our deceased son when I was rushed into surgery hemorrhaging, unsure I would make it. First time I saw him cry when when I finally opened up about that loss. He was so worried after that I wouldn't be ok emotionally after recovering physically, he held it in from me, feeling he had to be a rock and just hold me up & help me survive. So many men do that and seem to be ok, but they're hurting bad. Our last 2 pregnancies were losses. The last one was just a month before my husband's sudden death, and today is the anniversary. He died on Valentine's Day, leaving me widowed at 41, now raising whom 5 living children we so wanted who didn't get their Dad enough years like they should have. I hope he at least gets to raise our 3 lost babies, including his namesake, who I never could rock to sleep. 💔
@Betsy/Ba Bf . I’m so sorry dear friend 🙏🏼. We are sending much ♥️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I’m so sorry
?????? If this is truly true my heart goes out to you but making up this story I feel ashamed for you.. Because losing a child is the worst pain you can ever go through RIP Meagan Elizabeth 10/4/21 See you in heaven
@@alexandabbyskon1923 You are not a good human being, and what adult says that to someone, not knowing better? Parenting is not naming a baby or saying "Yay I love you" on the internet, but role modeling the correct behavior being an adult example. One can't behave as you just have and be a good parent so if you decide to have more children, work on your behavior and maturity in order to set a competent example. I've raised many children and even taught parenting classes. Parent who act as you just did have children who are not good people and children deserve better role models. Time to grow up.
@@betsybabf748 All I'm saying people make up false stories to have people to feel sorry for them. Secondly I have 3 beautiful children 2 boy's and 1 girl. And lost 1 last year. And for you to say that I'm not a good parent? What character that make you?? And as I say before I don't know if your story is truth or just for sympathy.. So before you say anything else about me.. Tell people the truth.. For I seen many people making shit up.. And for you judging me make you not a human being either.. As for me I'm great at parenting my children so who are you to say I'm not.. So before you say anything else about me who you don't know nothing about keep your nasty shit to yourself
Thank you for sharing Whitney! Your journey has been a part of my healing.
It is a "group" that none of us want to be a part of, but it happens. Unfortunately it happens more than once for many. I personally feel like there's also a 'group' for those of us that have NEVER been able to become a mother, & Ivf & other options aren't an option for many of us Unfortunately.
Always classy Whitney! Great interview!!!
Thanks for sharing Whitney! Your hair looks amazing. I love watching you and Timmy on your videos
Both of you women should own that you are helping people and both of you humble people who it came easy too treat yourselves to the fact that it did come easy to women who don't feel like we deserve it. It isn't about pitty but amazing women like you should get to have what some women get the luxury of dealing with. You make us appreciate it more and I hope that gives you some peace.
looking stunning whitney
Go Whitney go!
❤️ Whitney (and Timmy :)