My first pregnancy was a miscarriage. I blamed myself and never thought I’d be pregnant again. Less than 2 years later I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby. You’ll get your rainbow baby I know it
When he said "you know its not youre fault right?" and she goes yeah and he says "can you say that?" and Hannah didn't say anything and started to choke up.. It literally broke me..
You always feel like it's your fault even when it's not. I feel like I failed at protecting them and it kills you. My doctor just kept saying it's not your fault like 10 times to me and I still was like there could have been more I could've done to save him.
"You know you did nothing wrong right?" "Yeah" "Can you say it?" "No..." My heart still shatters hearing this Hannah, even though you are having your little boy soon, it still hits hard 💔💔
My cousin had actually given birth earlier this week to a premature baby. The baby died the next day. She lived for only a few hours. Today is Sunday, Mother's day. Today is the day we cremate her baby. Kinda sad how things turned out like this. For her, and for you. I could only imagine what you both are going through.
Cloudy My mom has had 3! And people don’t realize how much it effect the mom. Knowing they were expecting a beautiful baby and moms sometimes think it’s their fault
“You know you didn’t do anything wrong right?” “Yeah” “Can you say that?” “Not yet” If my heart didn’t break before, it did there. I saw her pain. What an incredibly strong woman.
"i really don't want to make this video" then don't, seriously, you're the most important person in this context so please don't feel forced into doing something you don't want to do because you think you're supposed to
everyone who keeps saying “it’s part of life” so is someone dying, and so is getting cancer, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be upset or grieve. I can’t believe some of the comments I’m reading. People should really think before they write. It’s disgusting.
I had 2 miscarriages before i conceived my rainbow baby. I miscarried a month before i got pregnant with my daughter and shes now 2 and a half months. Sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is.
When Matt said... "you know you didn't do anything wrong, right?" and she just broke down in tears... The pain felt so deep in her heart... I'm so so sorry for what happened to you. And I'm happy that you have such an amazing family already! Love from UK 💜
Some of these comments are disgusting, yes miscarriages happen often but that doesn’t mean they aren’t painful to go through and everyone who is going through a miscarriage deserves a bunch of love and support
Those who say that she shouldn’t have made this video don’t understand that it’s important to speak up about these issues. Women should be able to talk about their grief and experiences without feeling shamed. We as women should empower each other and be there for each other.
I like her videos. It is just that, this stuff is personal. U don't want everyone to know about ur personal life. I know it's a hard time for her. Something are needed to stay just in family.
@@shefinmathew1849 I was adding a plus, because I didn't have anything specific to say, but I also wanted this comment to be further up the page, so it's more visible to others. It's a gesture that is more meaningful than a like. Watch Hank's video about gaming the comment algorithm and you'll get it.
If you see a hateful comment, report it. You don't have to engage the bullies. Just report them. As a woman who has struggled with infertility (PCOS raises your chance of a miscarriage), I have been extremely fortunate to never have had a miscarriage. But I know this can help SO many people. The hate is unnecessary but some people truly do not understand how painful this type of thing can be or how freeing it feels to know that you aren't alone.
"I don't know why I'm crying so much." "I don't know what I did wrong." Oh my god Hannah you don't need to apologise for crying over a loss of a baby you so badly wanted and wanted to do everything right for. And you would've loved the baby so much. You did nothing wrong, miscarriages are so common, no one knows if they'll miscarry, it all just comes down to odds. Wishing you all the best Hannah x
"I don't know why I keep crying" Love, you just lost your own child. A person that was someone very special to you. When loosing someone you love, regardless of ever seeing them in or outside the womb, it's absolutely okay to cry. Cry all you need, we're here for you!
For those of you making jokes/spreading hate on this video: your lack of empathy is absolutely shocking. Hannah lost a baby that she loved and wanted, and has gone through tremendous pain both mentally and physically. Miscarriage is not uncommon, but that does not make it any less traumatic. Just know that you are poking fun at something that very well could’ve happened to your own mother, your sister, or your friends. Hannah deserves love and support. If this video makes you uncomfortable, don’t watch it. If you hate buzzfeed, stop wasting time commenting on their videos. The purpose of this video is to raise awareness towards women’s health and support others who have also gone through the same thing. Maybe consider what you are doing when you make immature and ignorant comments on such a serious issue.
1. there is nothing you could have done or couldn't have done 2. Keep trying just because you had a miscarriage doesn't mean you should stop trying.. It's been 6 years now since my miscarriage and I'm still trying. Hoping and praying for your rainbow baby 🌈
I am 15. I don’t have kids, I have never been pregnant. My mother has never had a miscarriage. I literally cannot relate in the slightest, but I sobbed watching this video. Hannah I am so sorry.
I miscarriaged with my first pregnancy. Same symptoms as hers, spotting that progressed to bleeding. It was the worst feeling ever because you kinda know that you're losing the baby. What made it worst was one of my coworkers told me "lesson learned" after she heard of my miscarriage like it was my fault and i had to learn from my mistake. People can be so mean to others.
@@ahmadadeebmasalmah7648 I'm sorry but that's just rude. I know EXACTLY what you're talking about and let me tell you, most of us are grown up. 🙃 Edit: also the fact that we both joined TH-cam earlier than you and you just joined like 4 years ago really sends lol
To everyone joking about this in the comments, this is one of the hardest of not the hardest experience a women will ever go through. It is no laughing matter.
I’m seeing so many people comment, “Why is this a video” and it is disgusting . Miscarriage is so common in pregnancies and it isn’t talked about enough. You are so brave to discuss this with the world. I hope that you are your family can get through this sad time ♥️
I’m so sorry. I know I’m late, but I’m still so sorry. It is tough. My best friend? Eleanor, married at 20, had triplet girls at 21 and got pregnant with her last child about a year and a half after the triplets were born. Late one night, she called me, in tears. Her husband was working late and she was alone with the girls. I went down to her house 10 minutes later and found her in the bathroom vomiting. “Rose, I think I’m in labor.” I told her she couldn’t be, she was only 26 weeks. I brought the girls to my other friends house who has 2 kids of her own and took Eleanor to the hospital. They confirmed she was indeed in labor. Her husband got there and by the next night, their son was born, but he wasn’t alive. Eleanor hadn’t cried until she held him. She and her husband both were crying so hard, I had to tell the doctor what they wanted to name him. I have so much respect for all mothers.
The fact that people are saying she is looking for attention is disgusting. She made this because it’s important to know this happens and it really affects people. Women aren’t alone when they go through this and they need to know it. They think they have to just move on.
shes posting it on buzzfeed which is a fuel for all the negative comments as buzzfeed has been deemed social justice warrior/feminist central with a pinch of ignorant sexism towards males for no validated reason but yes saying shes looking for attention is sad if she put this on her own channel instead it wouldnt be that way
miscarriages are literally something nobody talks about . I had one back in April & literally felt so alone because no one understood . I cried for a month straight , maybe more , just thinking about it . here I am , pregnant again & I just continue to pray everything goes well . I pray you receive your rainbow baby & have a healthy pregnancy
I don’t know why people are posting mean comments saying that it wasn’t a big deal that she had a miscarriage. It is a HUGE deal! She’s really upset and you can see that, some people are nice and are offering support from behind the screen. Instead of being rude and awful, offer support for her. Would you like someone to laugh and be mean to you when you lost someone you love?
My mom had 3 miscarriages before having me and even giving birth was difficult. It is still sad for her, many years later. Big hug to you, be brave. Love from Honduras. 🖤🖤🖤
I’m so sorry the ER was busy the night you needed help. I work in an ER and busy nights come unexpectedly. I’m sorry for your loss and I hope you know you did nothing wrong. By making this video, you have spread awareness to such a large group of people and your experience will educate so many. Miscarriage is unfortunately common and can happen at all ages. Please don’t get down in yourself for crying, because it truly is a heartbreaking loss of life ❤️
my parents had a miscarriage before they had me and they always have said 'its so common, you never hear about other people having miscarriages until you have one then almost everyone you talk to about it has had one, and it's so normal and people should talk about it more'
There are reasons for miscarriages, it doesn't mean you shouldn't have another baby and it's absolutely not your fault. I feel for you and am grateful for people like you who open up about difficult topics. Much love
When she shook her head and can’t accept that it isn’t her fault. That broke my heart, love you Hannah. And I know it’s not processing rn BUT IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT, and you’re loved
I went into labor and gave natural birth to my beautiful daughter Madison Rey Vasquez at 20 weeks on May 23rd, 2019. Just four days ago. They placed her in my arms, she took one breathe and moved her arm towards me and passed away. It was the hardest and the most painful day of my life, physically, emotionally, and mentally. I still wake up each morning thinking she is still in my tummy, only to realize she is not. It's been the hardest days of my and my fiance's lives. But your video have given me some hope and made me feel less alone and empty inside. I just wanted to take the time to say I'm so very sorry for you loss and thank you for sharing your story and helping provide a ray of light for me in these darkest of times. You have helped me more than you will ever know. ♥️
Jasmine Pinto thank you for sharing your story, I’ve had earlier miscarriages, I can’t imaging having to hold the little one. May God bless your family 💜💜
“You know you didn’t do anything wrong, right?” “Yeah...” “Can you say it?” “....No......not yet.” This struck something deep within my soul. I miscarried my first baby April of 2018 at 8 weeks. We had made the mistake of telling everyone when we first found out because we were SO excited. When I miscarried, I blamed and questioned myself and my choices for those two months for so long; my husband would tell me that I did nothing wrong. My OB told me that there was nothing I did or could do. However, you can’t help thinking, “It was my body, how is it not my fault?” My body healed so much quicker than my heart, but we are now expecting again, and I am almost five months along. Thank you so much for being vulnerable, and for being willing to share such a painful, deeply personal experience. ❤️
Join the Shrek Religion today Thank you so much; that is what we are hoping for! We just have to get through the next five months. That’s what I keep telling myself. :)
Omg this is like my story, I had a miscarriage on may 2018, at 8 weeks, and at that time everybody knew about my pregnancy. Now I'm 5 months pregnant 🌈 Wish you the best 👶🏻
itseslyloraine I am so, so sorry for your loss; congratulations on your rainbow baby, though!! Just a few more months to go, and we get to hold them in our arms! ❤️🌈
It’s really shocking to me that the er didn’t put you at priority when you were BLEEDING HEAVILY!! I’ve been to the er with my bf five times in the last two weeks cuz he had horrible consistent headaches and stomach pains and finally the last time we went, he had to wait to long he had a panic attack from the pain and completely blacked out and fainted. I understand er’s are crowded with people and it’s hard to fit everyone in but if you see someone heavily bleeding or freaking tf out you should help them ASAP!
My grandma had about 10 miscarriages. She lived in a old village in Greece, near the Bulgarian border. My grandma finally got pregnant and she went to a hospital where only Bulgarian nurses worked. My grandma gave birth and they took the child away from her and an hour later gave her a faked death certificate. She was not allowed to ask any questions. 5 months later the hospital was closed down because the government found out that they have been stealing the new born babies from the hospital and sold them to Bulgaria. I am so upset thinking about it. It was a boy and my mom and her sister tried to find him but there was no success. Her other child was a stillbirth and the nurses didnt care about her and let the baby lay there. My grandpa had to take the baby outside and bury it on his own. Rip grandma :( This is always what I think about when I hear about miscarriages
What broke me most is her not being able to say it wasn't her fault. Hannah, I hope you get to that point. I hope you forgive yourself, even though there's nothing to forgive. I hope you stay hopeful and remember the short moments of joy over pain of loss. ♥️
I lost my daughter at 34 weeks. I spent years blaming myself. Thank you for your vulnerability. You are an amazing woman. Thank you for sharing that loss happens.
Who disliked this? I don't care if you hate buzz feed, hannah is going through so much and this is important for other women to feel that they aren't alone.
I’m 16, my brother is 3. Everyone always mentions something about our age gap but what they don’t know is that I have 6 other siblings watching over me. Losing a baby at any point in the pregnancy is heartbreaking and it’s terrible that people dont talk about it. You did nothing wrong and if you need to talk my family and I are always available 💕
Miscarriage happens so much more often than people think.. unfortunately 😢 All of you ladies who had to go through it, you are beautiful, you are powerful, you are not alone!🌺 It’s not our fault, we will be ok 🙂
When you couldn’t say it wasn’t your fault I broke down in tears. More than 2 years past my miscarriage and I still can’t bring myself to say it. You are not alone ❤️
Hi everyone I just want to start off saying there is someone posting on here going by the name of AGESI. They’ve been posting some horrible things on others comments. Please don’t fight with them your never going to win, just report and ignore them. If we don’t give them what they want,a reaction,they will eventually stop or get kicked off TH-cam . Don’t waist your time and effort on someone who is truly doesn’t care and just wants to hurt people ,I’m assuming their either hurting or have a mental issue going on. Just repot and ignore ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I also want to say thank you to anyone who has shared their story, I know it’s hard to voice these heartbreaking experiences but know that there are so many people who love and support you.
@@ageis3250it sounds like YOU are unhappy in this world. Perhaps you’re going through something, or something has happened to you that has turned you into a spiteful cynic, who sees the world as an awful place and nothing more. But not all of us see the world the way you do. Some of us are happy with our lives. Yes, sure there are awful things in the world and a lot of issues that need to be resolved. But I truly hope you come to recognise that life truly is beautiful, and miraculous and special. It is a gift to exist in this world. Life can be messy and awful as well, but that’s what it means to be human. Humanity means to evolve and learn through the good and the bad. I truly hope you come to see goodness in the world, and recognise that life is worth living. People are not selfish for bringing children into the world. Your joy at someone’s miscarriage is disturbing. Maybe I can’t convince you not to be happy about it, but I hope you can understand why Hannah and other people are sad about it, and maybe conduct yourself more respectfully in these comment sections. And if you can’t do that, maybe refrain from commenting at all. You describe the world as being a terrible place, and yet you’re actively making it a worse place by harassing and bullying other people. Get off the internet and reflect on your actions.
I had two miscarriages and was totally blindsided. No one talks about it and it can make you feel so alone and scared. Thank you for sharing your story. You’ve started the conversation and now women and families have a place to feel understood and belonged.
Ok, you can hate buzzfeed all you want, but this is a woman who lost a child. You could at least be respectful to a woman who is undergoing one of the worst moments in her life.
@@GelatinSpacecraft A spectacle? So many women have had miscarriages and don't ever speak about it, mostly out of fear. People like you are part of the problem. Shame on you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I also had a miscarriage I had 2 of them ! It was the worse feeling ever. But now I’m almost 9 months pregnant with my rainbow baby.
My sister was pregnant with twins, had one at 21 weeks. He didn't make it. Could keep baby #2 in another month miraculously..she is turning 3 in December. She's my sweet angel miracle niece. I still mourn my nephew. Still sad that one day my niece will know she had a twin brother that she never got to meet
“I wish someone had talked to me about this”. Thank you for talking about your miscarriage even when you didn’t want too. Your story is helping people you don’t even know and making them feel like they aren’t alone. ❤️
My mom had 3 miscarriages and was terrified when I was born. She thought she would lose me too. I'm married now and still trying to have kids after 8 years. Its brave of you to share your experience with us, Hannah. I want to hug you so bad... To be honest, I'm scared to be a mother but I want to be.
We just buried my unborn baby brother (Noah Benjamin) a couple of weeks ago. He died of sepsis at 24 weeks of being in the womb. Your story has brought inspiration and hope that there are other people out there who know what it's like to lose a baby. Things like this are not brought up enough times in this world. Thank you for sharing.
I'm so sorry for your loss..may God give your family the strength and bless your little brother's soul..Forgive me if I said something that might hurt you in some way..
Had 2 miscarriages. What was the hardest thing was the whole " don't worry, you'll have another one". That was so hard for me. No one cared my baby was gone. It is hard I definitely agree. Glad you are speaking about it.
When I was growing up I thought miscarriage was this really rare, tragic thing. No one talked about it with me. People whispered about it and if you knew someone who’d had one, you were to keep it a secret and never mention it. It turned out people extremely close to me had lost a baby and had never spoken about it. A woman I knew with a young baby spoke about her previous miscarriage and I couldn’t believe it when two other women in the room said they had experienced one too. I never realized how often it happens. I was probably 17 at the time. I couldn’t believe it. People really need to discuss it more and not treat it like a dirty secret a woman should be ashamed of.
Normita Cruz I know. People saying “this happens to everybody, what makes you special.” Shame on them for even calling them self human. You don’t have to watch the video or comment if you aren’t going to be supportive. Just leave
No opinions matter, voices matter if you shut the comments down you shut the entirety of this video down. Don't hide the pain. We all need to learn a little from this 💯
I am begging you to ignore the hate on this video. You are brave and strong, even if you don’t feel it, and it can help others that you posted this video.
When her husband asked if she can say if she knows that she did nothing wrong and she said no, my heart completely dropped and I bawled even more then I was. I’m young and have never had kids so I do not understand the pain, but I can see that it’s something that does take a toll on someone. I’m so sorry that that’s happened to you. I’ve never talked to my mother about whether she’s had a miscarriage or not or if it’s a high thing in my family line. I’m scared that it may be and I have to go through what you’ve gone through. You are strong and loved Hannah💗💗
This is why I think asking “when are you gonna get pregnant?!” is honestly a rude question. You don’t know what people are going through. Thank you for sharing this video, such an important topic. 💞
My husband and I had a miscarriage in November. After being married for 3 years we were ready for a baby and loosing our first was absolutely devastating. My heart goes out to you Hannah. To anyone that's lost a baby, no matter the age. It can be heart breaking and loss is loss no matter the circumstances. I think it's great that we women are getting to a point where we are all talking about this and helping each other through are hard times together.
Hannah is the the world's okayest mom. Hannah is one of the world's strongest mom's Hannah is one of the world's most awesome mom's. tomorrow's mother's day Hannah is the mother of 3 children not 2 even though the child is gone she is still it's mother. and she deserves to feel love rn she is the world's Hannahest mom.
Ok I’m sorry but people need to stop joking around in the comments. Things like this are hard for people. She could be reading these comments crying because of how most of you are completely disrespecting her. I’m so sorry for you.
My heart absolutely shattered to pieces when she couldn't say she didn't do anything wrong. Don't blame yourself for something out of your control. Don't let it stop you from continuing to be an amazing and stunning mom to your kids, and possible kids to come. You're absolutely amazing and we all love you.
I'm only 17 and haven't even come close to being pregnant but this video touched me for some reason. Seeing you cry made me cry. I hope you're alright, you're so strong
It breaks my heart that women feel like they can't call in sick for something like this. Being sick isn't only your body, but also your mind. She needed time to recover mentally. I feel like every women should have that (if she needs it) and shouldn't feel pressured or obligated to get back to work... Thank you for sharing
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When he said “ Can you say it ? “
And she said “no” . I broke down with her .
My first pregnancy was a miscarriage. I blamed myself and never thought I’d be pregnant again. Less than 2 years later I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby. You’ll get your rainbow baby I know it
What's a rainbow baby?
@Flower Friend :D OHHH
Congratulations heathermakeup18!
heathermakeup18 a gay baby?
PugParty a rainbow baby is a baby born after a miscarriage or a loss of a child...
heathermakeup18
Oooo yay!!
When he said "you know its not youre fault right?" and she goes yeah and he says "can you say that?" and Hannah didn't say anything and started to choke up.. It literally broke me..
You always feel like it's your fault even when it's not. I feel like I failed at protecting them and it kills you. My doctor just kept saying it's not your fault like 10 times to me and I still was like there could have been more I could've done to save him.
When her husband said “you know you didn’t do anything wrong right?” And then asked her to say it.... my heart
jayden f 🥺😭
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My mother had six miscarriages in ten years trying to have me. So I just want to say Happy Mothers Day to all of the women who have gone through this.
When he said “you know you didn’t do anything wrong, right?” I literally started crying. This is so sad, it’s not fair
when she was talking to her husband behind the camera, and he told her to say she did nothing wrong, and she said “not yet” it broke my heart
"You know you did nothing wrong right?"
"Yeah"
"Can you say it?"
"No..."
My heart still shatters hearing this Hannah, even though you are having your little boy soon, it still hits hard 💔💔
This exchange made me cry and brought back memories
My cousin had actually given birth earlier this week to a premature baby. The baby died the next day. She lived for only a few hours. Today is Sunday, Mother's day. Today is the day we cremate her baby.
Kinda sad how things turned out like this. For her, and for you. I could only imagine what you both are going through.
the “i just wanna know what i did wrong” made me start crying
About 25% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. This is something people need to know. People should talk about this.
Ahahaha good the more miscarriages the more food I get yum!😋😋
@@stinkytoes3784 FBI OPEN UP
Is anyone watching this after she announced her newest pregnancy? So happy for her!
Caitlin Gower I’m super happy for her as well!!
tears literally streamed down my face when you couldn’t say “I didn’t do anything wrong”.
McKenize Martin I had literally just saw your comment right before that happened and I absolutely bawled...
Y'all. Buzzfeed didn't force her to make this video. She did it because she felt it was important to speak publicly about it.
This 💯
This is a COMMON subject for men and women, its something we cannot control 😪
my mum had 11 miscarriages to get me. this made me cry. because i understood and felt her pain. all my love goes out to her
Mabel Erin wow that’s a lot
I feel like people don’t realise that miscarriage emotionally hurts a lot
Cloudy
My mom has had 3! And people don’t realize how much it effect the mom. Knowing they were expecting a beautiful baby and moms sometimes think it’s their fault
I wonder how it’s like for moms to let go of their child
chloe yeah, everyone just ignores this i feel. like it doesn’t mean anything like Oh you’ll have better luck next time
Saw Hannah cried and when Matt asked her whether she can say it out loud that it is not her fault... but she said no... broke my heart completely...
“You know you didn’t do anything wrong right?”
“Yeah”
“Can you say that?”
“Not yet”
If my heart didn’t break before, it did there. I saw her pain. What an incredibly strong woman.
I can't believe they left her in the hallways like that and no explanation! I hope she gets a chance to have a happy beautiful baby.
10:38 completely broke me. u can hear how much matt wants her to be okay again in his voice
that's actually her producer Kevin McShane!!
"i really don't want to make this video" then don't, seriously, you're the most important person in this context so please don't feel forced into doing something you don't want to do because you think you're supposed to
bea i think she means that she wishes this video didn’t have any reason to happen :(
yeah kinda a dick move on part of Buzzfeed
everyone who keeps saying “it’s part of life” so is someone dying, and so is getting cancer, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be upset or grieve. I can’t believe some of the comments I’m reading. People should really think before they write. It’s disgusting.
It's part of life
I never realised how real and devastating miscarriages were until this video...
annebutnotreally that’s exactly why it’s important that women talk to each other about this. Cuz this video is the sad reality ❤️
when he said “can you say that” after she said yes to knowing she did nothing wrong, i started crying with her. my heart goes out to you 🤍
I had 2 miscarriages before i conceived my rainbow baby. I miscarried a month before i got pregnant with my daughter and shes now 2 and a half months. Sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is.
When Matt said... "you know you didn't do anything wrong, right?" and she just broke down in tears... The pain felt so deep in her heart... I'm so so sorry for what happened to you. And I'm happy that you have such an amazing family already! Love from UK 💜
fetus deletus that’s cruel and disgusting
@@kermitssofachair1658 Awww thanks it makes me happy to hear that and encourages me to say more stuff like that 😄
@@stinkytoes3784 bruh momento
People need to stop asking “when are you having a child or another child?”
DB Right?!?
I’m here after just seeing you post about your birth... I’m so happy you’re happy now. You are beautiful and I hope you’re doing well.
Same.
It's her rainbow 🌈 baby
How did she gave birth when her baby is miscarried?
@@romanmichaelcordero5718 she actually got pregnant not too long after she had a miscarriage
Some of these comments are disgusting, yes miscarriages happen often but that doesn’t mean they aren’t painful to go through and everyone who is going through a miscarriage deserves a bunch of love and support
Those who say that she shouldn’t have made this video don’t understand that it’s important to speak up about these issues. Women should be able to talk about their grief and experiences without feeling shamed. We as women should empower each other and be there for each other.
It's so brave And strong that she made this video it's not talked about enough
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I like her videos. It is just that, this stuff is personal. U don't want everyone to know about ur personal life. I know it's a hard time for her. Something are needed to stay just in family.
A reply would be appreciated
@@shefinmathew1849 I was adding a plus, because I didn't have anything specific to say, but I also wanted this comment to be further up the page, so it's more visible to others.
It's a gesture that is more meaningful than a like. Watch Hank's video about gaming the comment algorithm and you'll get it.
If you see a hateful comment, report it. You don't have to engage the bullies. Just report them. As a woman who has struggled with infertility (PCOS raises your chance of a miscarriage), I have been extremely fortunate to never have had a miscarriage. But I know this can help SO many people. The hate is unnecessary but some people truly do not understand how painful this type of thing can be or how freeing it feels to know that you aren't alone.
Most heartbreaking part is she blamed herself for miscarriage.
"I don't know why I'm crying so much."
"I don't know what I did wrong."
Oh my god Hannah you don't need to apologise for crying over a loss of a baby you so badly wanted and wanted to do everything right for. And you would've loved the baby so much. You did nothing wrong, miscarriages are so common, no one knows if they'll miscarry, it all just comes down to odds. Wishing you all the best Hannah x
“Can you say that?”
“No. Not yet.”
That was the most heartbreaking thing. 😞
Ugh seeing her start sobbing and not be able to say she didn’t do anything wrong made me start crying. I’m so sorry for your loss 😔
"I don't know why I keep crying"
Love, you just lost your own child. A person that was someone very special to you. When loosing someone you love, regardless of ever seeing them in or outside the womb, it's absolutely okay to cry. Cry all you need, we're here for you!
For those of you making jokes/spreading hate on this video: your lack of empathy is absolutely shocking. Hannah lost a baby that she loved and wanted, and has gone through tremendous pain both mentally and physically. Miscarriage is not uncommon, but that does not make it any less traumatic. Just know that you are poking fun at something that very well could’ve happened to your own mother, your sister, or your friends. Hannah deserves love and support. If this video makes you uncomfortable, don’t watch it. If you hate buzzfeed, stop wasting time commenting on their videos. The purpose of this video is to raise awareness towards women’s health and support others who have also gone through the same thing. Maybe consider what you are doing when you make immature and ignorant comments on such a serious issue.
1. there is nothing you could have done or couldn't have done
2. Keep trying just because you had a miscarriage doesn't mean you should stop trying..
It's been 6 years now since my miscarriage and I'm still trying.
Hoping and praying for your rainbow baby 🌈
Defo keep trying! My parents told me they tried for 5years before having me so just keep going,best of luck!!💜
Gloria Camarena good luck💞💞💞
Thanks yall
The amount of trolls in this comment sections makes me lost hope in humanity. Go somewhere else if you want attention.
There's no need to lose hope in humanity..it's already gone at this point.
We already lost hope because of these feminists
@@brandysmith3656 lol
Fearless Dreamer Your spelling made me lose hope
percinbody what because he put a “s” after section?
Whoever disliked this has absolutely NO soul.
Star- Light yeah they probably disliked only because it’s buzzfeed or whatever
It breaks my heart to see so many bad comments on such a sensitive video. I wanted nothing more than to reach through the screen and hug her 😢
You can see the pain in her eyes heartbreaking
I am 15. I don’t have kids, I have never been pregnant. My mother has never had a miscarriage. I literally cannot relate in the slightest, but I sobbed watching this video. Hannah I am so sorry.
I miscarriaged with my first pregnancy. Same symptoms as hers, spotting that progressed to bleeding. It was the worst feeling ever because you kinda know that you're losing the baby. What made it worst was one of my coworkers told me "lesson learned" after she heard of my miscarriage like it was my fault and i had to learn from my mistake. People can be so mean to others.
I am so so sorry that happened to you. ):
so a 12 year old had intercourse?????????
@@ahmadadeebmasalmah7648 what do u mean?
@@AetherialZ im okay now, thank you :)
@@ahmadadeebmasalmah7648 I'm sorry but that's just rude. I know EXACTLY what you're talking about and let me tell you, most of us are grown up. 🙃
Edit: also the fact that we both joined TH-cam earlier than you and you just joined like 4 years ago really sends lol
To everyone joking about this in the comments, this is one of the hardest of not the hardest experience a women will ever go through. It is no laughing matter.
It is also one of the hardest things a partner can go through too.
No one is joking you guys just see it in a diff way
I’m seeing so many people comment, “Why is this a video” and it is disgusting . Miscarriage is so common in pregnancies and it isn’t talked about enough. You are so brave to discuss this with the world. I hope that you are your family can get through this sad time ♥️
Google my miscarriage you will find that it is talked about alot. they just dont have a big following.
Using a horrible experience to raise awareness about something that is almost never talked about 👏👏👏U have made the world a better place
I’m so sorry. I know I’m late, but I’m still so sorry. It is tough. My best friend? Eleanor, married at 20, had triplet girls at 21 and got pregnant with her last child about a year and a half after the triplets were born. Late one night, she called me, in tears. Her husband was working late and she was alone with the girls. I went down to her house 10 minutes later and found her in the bathroom vomiting. “Rose, I think I’m in labor.” I told her she couldn’t be, she was only 26 weeks. I brought the girls to my other friends house who has 2 kids of her own and took Eleanor to the hospital. They confirmed she was indeed in labor. Her husband got there and by the next night, their son was born, but he wasn’t alive. Eleanor hadn’t cried until she held him. She and her husband both were crying so hard, I had to tell the doctor what they wanted to name him. I have so much respect for all mothers.
OMG I’m so sorry for Eleanor.
10:36
“You know you didn’t do anything wrong, right?”
“Yeah”
“Can you say that”
“No”
That broke my heart. I’m praying for you Hannah 💜
When she asked what she did wrong I started crying. I’m so sorry for your loss.
The fact that people are saying she is looking for attention is disgusting. She made this because it’s important to know this happens and it really affects people. Women aren’t alone when they go through this and they need to know it. They think they have to just move on.
shes posting it on buzzfeed which is a fuel for all the negative comments as buzzfeed has been deemed social justice warrior/feminist central with a pinch of ignorant sexism towards males for no validated reason but yes saying shes looking for attention is sad if she put this on her own channel instead it wouldnt be that way
miscarriages are literally something nobody talks about . I had one back in April & literally felt so alone because no one understood . I cried for a month straight , maybe more , just thinking about it . here I am , pregnant again & I just continue to pray everything goes well . I pray you receive your rainbow baby & have a healthy pregnancy
I will pray that everything will be ok for you guys best of luck 🙏
Andrea Walker i recently went thru one I have hope I trust gods plan for me praying for you sending you love ,hope n happiness 💙
I don’t know why people are posting mean comments saying that it wasn’t a big deal that she had a miscarriage. It is a HUGE deal! She’s really upset and you can see that, some people are nice and are offering support from behind the screen. Instead of being rude and awful, offer support for her. Would you like someone to laugh and be mean to you when you lost someone you love?
My mom had 3 miscarriages before having me and even giving birth was difficult. It is still sad for her, many years later. Big hug to you, be brave. Love from Honduras. 🖤🖤🖤
I’m so sorry the ER was busy the night you needed help. I work in an ER and busy nights come unexpectedly. I’m sorry for your loss and I hope you know you did nothing wrong. By making this video, you have spread awareness to such a large group of people and your experience will educate so many. Miscarriage is unfortunately common and can happen at all ages. Please don’t get down in yourself for crying, because it truly is a heartbreaking loss of life ❤️
my parents had a miscarriage before they had me and they always have said 'its so common, you never hear about other people having miscarriages until you have one then almost everyone you talk to about it has had one, and it's so normal and people should talk about it more'
There are reasons for miscarriages, it doesn't mean you shouldn't have another baby and it's absolutely not your fault. I feel for you and am grateful for people like you who open up about difficult topics. Much love
When she shook her head and can’t accept that it isn’t her fault. That broke my heart, love you Hannah. And I know it’s not processing rn BUT IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT, and you’re loved
I went into labor and gave natural birth to my beautiful daughter Madison Rey Vasquez at 20 weeks on May 23rd, 2019. Just four days ago. They placed her in my arms, she took one breathe and moved her arm towards me and passed away. It was the hardest and the most painful day of my life, physically, emotionally, and mentally. I still wake up each morning thinking she is still in my tummy, only to realize she is not. It's been the hardest days of my and my fiance's lives. But your video have given me some hope and made me feel less alone and empty inside. I just wanted to take the time to say I'm so very sorry for you loss and thank you for sharing your story and helping provide a ray of light for me in these darkest of times. You have helped me more than you will ever know. ♥️
Jasmine Pinto thank you for sharing your story, I’ve had earlier miscarriages, I can’t imaging having to hold the little one. May God bless your family 💜💜
I’m praying for you 🙏 your baby is in heaven 👼🏻
Jasmine Pinto
I hope your ok
“You know you didn’t do anything wrong, right?”
“Yeah...”
“Can you say it?”
“....No......not yet.”
This struck something deep within my soul. I miscarried my first baby April of 2018 at 8 weeks. We had made the mistake of telling everyone when we first found out because we were SO excited. When I miscarried, I blamed and questioned myself and my choices for those two months for so long; my husband would tell me that I did nothing wrong. My OB told me that there was nothing I did or could do. However, you can’t help thinking, “It was my body, how is it not my fault?” My body healed so much quicker than my heart, but we are now expecting again, and I am almost five months along. Thank you so much for being vulnerable, and for being willing to share such a painful, deeply personal experience. ❤️
Aww thats so sad...I hope your next baby comes out healthy! Stay strong!
Join the Shrek Religion today Thank you so much; that is what we are hoping for! We just have to get through the next five months. That’s what I keep telling myself. :)
Omg this is like my story, I had a miscarriage on may 2018, at 8 weeks, and at that time everybody knew about my pregnancy. Now I'm 5 months pregnant 🌈
Wish you the best 👶🏻
itseslyloraine I am so, so sorry for your loss; congratulations on your rainbow baby, though!! Just a few more months to go, and we get to hold them in our arms! ❤️🌈
@@laceyreitz4289 I hope you and baby are happy and healthy!
It’s really shocking to me that the er didn’t put you at priority when you were BLEEDING HEAVILY!! I’ve been to the er with my bf five times in the last two weeks cuz he had horrible consistent headaches and stomach pains and finally the last time we went, he had to wait to long he had a panic attack from the pain and completely blacked out and fainted. I understand er’s are crowded with people and it’s hard to fit everyone in but if you see someone heavily bleeding or freaking tf out you should help them ASAP!
My grandma had about 10 miscarriages. She lived in a old village in Greece, near the Bulgarian border. My grandma finally got pregnant and she went to a hospital where only Bulgarian nurses worked. My grandma gave birth and they took the child away from her and an hour later gave her a faked death certificate. She was not allowed to ask any questions. 5 months later the hospital was closed down because the government found out that they have been stealing the new born babies from the hospital and sold them to Bulgaria. I am so upset thinking about it. It was a boy and my mom and her sister tried to find him but there was no success.
Her other child was a stillbirth and the nurses didnt care about her and let the baby lay there. My grandpa had to take the baby outside and bury it on his own. Rip grandma :( This is always what I think about when I hear about miscarriages
I am so sorry that happened to her and I hope she had some peace and happiness towards the later part of her life.
Awww I'm from Greece and that's messed up I'm so sorry :(
What broke me most is her not being able to say it wasn't her fault. Hannah, I hope you get to that point. I hope you forgive yourself, even though there's nothing to forgive. I hope you stay hopeful and remember the short moments of joy over pain of loss. ♥️
I lost my daughter at 34 weeks. I spent years blaming myself. Thank you for your vulnerability. You are an amazing woman. Thank you for sharing that loss happens.
You're also amazing!
Who disliked this? I don't care if you hate buzz feed, hannah is going through so much and this is important for other women to feel that they aren't alone.
Lost my daughter at 30 weeks. I know how you feel. I'm so very sorry.
Seema Phakira god 30 weeks...I’m so sorry ❤️
I’m 16, my brother is 3. Everyone always mentions something about our age gap but what they don’t know is that I have 6 other siblings watching over me. Losing a baby at any point in the pregnancy is heartbreaking and it’s terrible that people dont talk about it.
You did nothing wrong and if you need to talk my family and I are always available 💕
Oh wow! That must of been horrible to go through. I hope everything is okay! And you and your Brother are having great lives! 💕
oh my gosh, that's so heartbreaking.
Savvy_ Gacha thank you so much💕
Faithe-Marie H your welcome!
It's crazy to think that she was pregnant during this video.
She said it happened late last year. She wasnt pregnant. Also buzzfeed records earlier than they post.
Miscarriage happens so much more often than people think.. unfortunately 😢
All of you ladies who had to go through it, you are beautiful, you are powerful, you are not alone!🌺
It’s not our fault, we will be ok 🙂
When you couldn’t say it wasn’t your fault I broke down in tears.
More than 2 years past my miscarriage and I still can’t bring myself to say it.
You are not alone ❤️
i read the title and my heart broke.
Hi everyone I just want to start off saying there is someone posting on here going by the name of AGESI. They’ve been posting some horrible things on others comments. Please don’t fight with them your never going to win, just report and ignore them. If we don’t give them what they want,a reaction,they will eventually stop or get kicked off TH-cam . Don’t waist your time and effort on someone who is truly doesn’t care and just wants to hurt people ,I’m assuming their either hurting or have a mental issue going on. Just repot and ignore
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I also want to say thank you to anyone who has shared their story, I know it’s hard to voice these heartbreaking experiences but know that there are so many people who love and support you.
@@ageis3250 oh my god,You need counselling
@@ageis3250it sounds like YOU are unhappy in this world. Perhaps you’re going through something, or something has happened to you that has turned you into a spiteful cynic, who sees the world as an awful place and nothing more. But not all of us see the world the way you do. Some of us are happy with our lives. Yes, sure there are awful things in the world and a lot of issues that need to be resolved. But I truly hope you come to recognise that life truly is beautiful, and miraculous and special. It is a gift to exist in this world. Life can be messy and awful as well, but that’s what it means to be human. Humanity means to evolve and learn through the good and the bad.
I truly hope you come to see goodness in the world, and recognise that life is worth living. People are not selfish for bringing children into the world. Your joy at someone’s miscarriage is disturbing. Maybe I can’t convince you not to be happy about it, but I hope you can understand why Hannah and other people are sad about it, and maybe conduct yourself more respectfully in these comment sections. And if you can’t do that, maybe refrain from commenting at all.
You describe the world as being a terrible place, and yet you’re actively making it a worse place by harassing and bullying other people. Get off the internet and reflect on your actions.
I had two miscarriages and was totally blindsided. No one talks about it and it can make you feel so alone and scared. Thank you for sharing your story. You’ve started the conversation and now women and families have a place to feel understood and belonged.
Ok, you can hate buzzfeed all you want, but this is a woman who lost a child. You could at least be respectful to a woman who is undergoing one of the worst moments in her life.
Birb L I agree
making a spectacle of things such as this for views and likes is messed up....
Birb L 100% agree!
@@GelatinSpacecraft You're an idiot
@@GelatinSpacecraft A spectacle? So many women have had miscarriages and don't ever speak about it, mostly out of fear.
People like you are part of the problem.
Shame on you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I also had a miscarriage I had 2 of them ! It was the worse feeling ever. But now I’m almost 9 months pregnant with my rainbow baby.
My sister was pregnant with twins, had one at 21 weeks. He didn't make it. Could keep baby #2 in another month miraculously..she is turning 3 in December. She's my sweet angel miracle niece. I still mourn my nephew. Still sad that one day my niece will know she had a twin brother that she never got to meet
“I wish someone had talked to me about this”. Thank you for talking about your miscarriage even when you didn’t want too. Your story is helping people you don’t even know and making them feel like they aren’t alone. ❤️
I hate that she blames herself for the miscarriage 😔
@@skullcrusher3258 wow... that was insensitive and rude.
My mom had 3 miscarriages and was terrified when I was born. She thought she would lose me too. I'm married now and still trying to have kids after 8 years. Its brave of you to share your experience with us, Hannah. I want to hug you so bad... To be honest, I'm scared to be a mother but I want to be.
We just buried my unborn baby brother (Noah Benjamin) a couple of weeks ago. He died of sepsis at 24 weeks of being in the womb. Your story has brought inspiration and hope that there are other people out there who know what it's like to lose a baby. Things like this are not brought up enough times in this world. Thank you for sharing.
I'm sorry
I'm so sorry for your loss..may God give your family the strength and bless your little brother's soul..Forgive me if I said something that might hurt you in some way..
I'm so sorry for your loss god bless you and your family
Thank you, everyone, so much. It means a lot. 😢💛💙
I'm so sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers ❤
Some of the comments on here are disgusting. Have a word with yourselves.
Some people just weren't raised right by their parents I swear. Empathy people!
Sounds like a personal problem to me
Darth Hatchet this is not funny at all.
Darth Hatchet There’s a time and place for dark jokes, and this isn’t it.
@Darth Hatchet bruh moment
Had 2 miscarriages. What was the hardest thing was the whole " don't worry, you'll have another one". That was so hard for me. No one cared my baby was gone. It is hard I definitely agree. Glad you are speaking about it.
Buzzfeed disable the comment section please, for Hannah’s sake.
Bangtan Summary but everyone is being supportive for the most part
When I was growing up I thought miscarriage was this really rare, tragic thing. No one talked about it with me. People whispered about it and if you knew someone who’d had one, you were to keep it a secret and never mention it. It turned out people extremely close to me had lost a baby and had never spoken about it. A woman I knew with a young baby spoke about her previous miscarriage and I couldn’t believe it when two other women in the room said they had experienced one too. I never realized how often it happens. I was probably 17 at the time. I couldn’t believe it. People really need to discuss it more and not treat it like a dirty secret a woman should be ashamed of.
Some of these comments are so disgusting I can’t even . Please disable these comments I don’t want her to feel worse .
Normita Cruz I know. People saying “this happens to everybody, what makes you special.” Shame on them for even calling them self human. You don’t have to watch the video or comment if you aren’t going to be supportive. Just leave
No opinions matter, voices matter if you shut the comments down you shut the entirety of this video down. Don't hide the pain. We all need to learn a little from this 💯
same these trolls must be living a SAD SAD life
I literally saw someone that said: "I don't care that you had a miscarriage."
Witch ones. Because im going to disowne them
I am begging you to ignore the hate on this video. You are brave and strong, even if you don’t feel it, and it can help others that you posted this video.
Marisaisbaking since when was there hate on the video?
When I first watched the video probably half of the comments were saying this was too much information and that the public didn’t need to know
Please don't turn the comment section into a warzone about abortion and politics and just respect Hannah and the grief she's going through.
When her husband asked if she can say if she knows that she did nothing wrong and she said no, my heart completely dropped and I bawled even more then I was. I’m young and have never had kids so I do not understand the pain, but I can see that it’s something that does take a toll on someone. I’m so sorry that that’s happened to you. I’ve never talked to my mother about whether she’s had a miscarriage or not or if it’s a high thing in my family line. I’m scared that it may be and I have to go through what you’ve gone through. You are strong and loved Hannah💗💗
LW // Really? I honestly thought that was her husband who said that
LW // hmm. Weird
This is why I think asking “when are you gonna get pregnant?!” is honestly a rude question. You don’t know what people are going through. Thank you for sharing this video, such an important topic. 💞
When Matt reassured her she didn't do anything wrong, but she couldn't bring her self to say it out loud just broke my heart.
My husband and I had a miscarriage in November. After being married for 3 years we were ready for a baby and loosing our first was absolutely devastating. My heart goes out to you Hannah. To anyone that's lost a baby, no matter the age. It can be heart breaking and loss is loss no matter the circumstances. I think it's great that we women are getting to a point where we are all talking about this and helping each other through are hard times together.
You name it sister go for you and hope that this motivates others going through the same thing ☺
The 2.2K ppl who disliked the video have ABSOLUTELY no hearts.
I honestly really want her to disable these comments these kids are so incredibly immature
Hannah is the the world's okayest mom.
Hannah is one of the world's strongest mom's
Hannah is one of the world's most awesome mom's.
tomorrow's mother's day
Hannah is the mother of 3 children not 2 even though the child is gone she is still it's mother.
and she deserves to feel love rn she is the world's Hannahest mom.
aww this warmed my heart 😁
Ok I’m sorry but people need to stop joking around in the comments. Things like this are hard for people. She could be reading these comments crying because of how most of you are completely disrespecting her. I’m so sorry for you.
You know she's got the best husband, he sat with her and told her she didn't do anything wrong. Support
actually that's her producer Kevin McShane, he was indeed very sweet
My heart absolutely shattered to pieces when she couldn't say she didn't do anything wrong. Don't blame yourself for something out of your control. Don't let it stop you from continuing to be an amazing and stunning mom to your kids, and possible kids to come. You're absolutely amazing and we all love you.
I'm only 17 and haven't even come close to being pregnant but this video touched me for some reason. Seeing you cry made me cry. I hope you're alright, you're so strong
It breaks my heart that women feel like they can't call in sick for something like this. Being sick isn't only your body, but also your mind. She needed time to recover mentally. I feel like every women should have that (if she needs it) and shouldn't feel pressured or obligated to get back to work... Thank you for sharing